Chelsea made a comment about having a complex on the show. It shows in her interviews. “I’m confident…. I begged for him…. Jimmy and I had an amazing relationship…. He did this and that and this and that….” Girl.
I imagine she's still in the process of healing. Emotionally, she feels drawn to Jimmy, but logically, she knows it's time to let go and move forward. Most of us have experienced this tug-of-war with an ex-partner at some stage in our lives. If you haven't, consider yourself fortunate.
Chelsea girl. She needs to own her actions. She can't keep blaming the bad edit. Jimmy clearly led her on. Shame on him. A huge part of having high self esteem is saying "this isnt working, i'm leaving" - instead, she begged and pleaded. A confident woman will not beg, she will go out and find hers. I don't say this to hurt anyone, but because i have seen her pushing the "i'm confident" narrative on every podcast and i think her path to healing will be to acknowledge things as they are.
I think people can be confident in different areas or sometimes with different people. I know for me I'm way more confident with my current partner than previous people I've dated.
I think it’s easy to say “a confident woman will not beg” but in reality it was a rocky relationship that was made very public and she was very hopeful to make things work. She was days from marrying this guy, after all!
Chelsea reminds me of a couple of people I have known who happen to have borderline personality disorder and I know they wouldn’t have described themselves as insecure either.
@@kayla.nelson The relationship wasn't public while it was recorded + some cast members did cancel their wedding, why not her since she is a "secure woman"? Plus her interviews in the pods did not show a secure / confident woman. I understand that she wanted to give her all but if Jimmy wasn't committed to the experiment that's on him and it certainly doesn't justify the controlling and deflecting behaviours she displayed. I don't see how minimising that is helping her. I wish her the best and if she's somehow secure good for her! if that's not the case I hope she can become more self aware in therapy and work on that. I have a question for you tho. As a podcaster isn't it part of your job to stay neutral and check your confirmation bias? I'm genuinely curious
Chelsea can be an awesome person and still be a mental case on her romantic relationships.. both can be truth. It’s sad that she can’t even recognize her flaws and shortcomings.
I really liked Chelsea and also could identify with some of her insecurities. That's why it is sad to see the lack of acknowledgement of her actions after this long time. Too much blaming others and circumstances. Maybe she is still in a frozen mode but just going to a therapist and shouting about it doesn't equal healing. Hope she takes a bit of more time and self-reflection for herself.
wait omg a charlotte based podcast im so intriguedddd instant subscribe! also! I'm tired of the world acting like she doesn't look like Megan fox when she literally does
I love love love Chelsea, I think she’s an amazing but I have to say, only so much of it is the edit, still her words/actions etc. That said, she’s handled herself so gracefully and it does show that her core being is a beautiful human being
LMAOOOO to be fair she did say people said she resembled Megan BUT that she didn’t see it lol and to be honest I totally see some resemblance plus she’s pretty in her own way too of course
This was enlightening. Thank you for giving Chelsea an opportunity to clear things up. Btw the mic situation was so bad. It sounded like there was a third person in the room, but it was you guys. The mic wasn't picking up the sound. That was so distracting. 🫤
@kayla.nelson I agree that it sounded like there was a third person in the room. However, the audio coming from the mics was good. Not frizzy or distorted, no echo...that part was good.
I literally saw the episode and thought, wait this kitchen looks sooo familiar ! I pushed the thought away with a maybe american apartment all look a liitle similar. So funny to see that you are actually neighbours!😂😂
Great interview! I feel like Chelsea is such a girls girl and people need to lay off the hate. Why care about something that happened over a year ago? like get over it.
Yes separate hotel! she told me the guys stayed at a separate location and she said to this day she still doesn’t know where the guys stayed! I cut it because the audio got muffled
Great interview, I freaking love Chelsea and I’m so bad at all the shit her and jimmy got. I think they were good together, it def seems as they DO have chemistry.
Chelsea made a comment about having a complex on the show. It shows in her interviews. “I’m confident…. I begged for him…. Jimmy and I had an amazing relationship…. He did this and that and this and that….” Girl.
I imagine she's still in the process of healing. Emotionally, she feels drawn to Jimmy, but logically, she knows it's time to let go and move forward. Most of us have experienced this tug-of-war with an ex-partner at some stage in our lives. If you haven't, consider yourself fortunate.
I mean you can have bad parts of a relationship and also be able to appreciate the good parts of it. Not everyone has to hate their EX.
It's screaming borderline personality disorder. Her distortion is even more severe than Zanab
@@jclyntoledo no one said u have to hate ur ex
Chelsea girl. She needs to own her actions. She can't keep blaming the bad edit. Jimmy clearly led her on. Shame on him. A huge part of having high self esteem is saying "this isnt working, i'm leaving" - instead, she begged and pleaded. A confident woman will not beg, she will go out and find hers. I don't say this to hurt anyone, but because i have seen her pushing the "i'm confident" narrative on every podcast and i think her path to healing will be to acknowledge things as they are.
I think people can be confident in different areas or sometimes with different people. I know for me I'm way more confident with my current partner than previous people I've dated.
I think it’s easy to say “a confident woman will not beg” but in reality it was a rocky relationship that was made very public and she was very hopeful to make things work. She was days from marrying this guy, after all!
Chelsea reminds me of a couple of people I have known who happen to have borderline personality disorder and I know they wouldn’t have described themselves as insecure either.
@@kayla.nelson The relationship wasn't public while it was recorded + some cast members did cancel their wedding, why not her since she is a "secure woman"? Plus her interviews in the pods did not show a secure / confident woman.
I understand that she wanted to give her all but if Jimmy wasn't committed to the experiment that's on him and it certainly doesn't justify the controlling and deflecting behaviours she displayed. I don't see how minimising that is helping her.
I wish her the best and if she's somehow secure good for her! if that's not the case I hope she can become more self aware in therapy and work on that.
I have a question for you tho. As a podcaster isn't it part of your job to stay neutral and check your confirmation bias? I'm genuinely curious
I doubt she took some kind of oath of ethics c'mon be serious 😭😭😭😭 @@whatever5026
Chelsea can be an awesome person and still be a mental case on her romantic relationships.. both can be truth. It’s sad that she can’t even recognize her flaws and shortcomings.
You two are so sweet together, and the gift you gave her was so thoughtful. This was great!
I really liked Chelsea and also could identify with some of her insecurities. That's why it is sad to see the lack of acknowledgement of her actions after this long time. Too much blaming others and circumstances. Maybe she is still in a frozen mode but just going to a therapist and shouting about it doesn't equal healing. Hope she takes a bit of more time and self-reflection for herself.
Been wishing someone would ask ger about the reunion.. she seemed so mad the whole time... I have a special spot in my heart for her though ❤❤
I enjoyed this video so much😂 Chelsea is such a sweetheart and so funny lmao 🤣 You two are such a vibe ❤
This was so fun!! 🎧🎤 You guys had great chemistry!! I petition to have more girl talk with Chelsea!! Don’t even need Love Is Blind content!!
This was awesome interview and it was so fun! Now you are going to have a friend for life! ❤
No it looks like she shat ok Chelsea a lot lol. Just wants views
wait omg a charlotte based podcast im so intriguedddd instant subscribe! also! I'm tired of the world acting like she doesn't look like Megan fox when she literally does
Why can I so see yall being friends?! Love this!
I'm so happy for you, Kayla! Sending to all of my friends who have watched this season ❤
Very interesting questions! That no body else is actually asking! Good job!
I love love love Chelsea, I think she’s an amazing but I have to say, only so much of it is the edit, still her words/actions etc.
That said, she’s handled herself so gracefully and it does show that her core being is a beautiful human being
Chelsea seems so wonderful funny and chill real and like a normal girl I love her!
I've never watched love is blind... i know I'm the only person on earth... however that girl very much looks like Megan Fox.
LMAOOOO to be fair she did say people said she resembled Megan BUT that she didn’t see it lol and to be honest I totally see some resemblance plus she’s pretty in her own way too of course
GIRL. YOU DID AMAZING!! Awesome questions and great energy. So proud of you and happy to see the pod growing! 🥹
I agree, love the questions asked and that she gave chelsea space to answer!
This was enlightening. Thank you for giving Chelsea an opportunity to clear things up. Btw the mic situation was so bad. It sounded like there was a third person in the room, but it was you guys. The mic wasn't picking up the sound. That was so distracting. 🫤
Sorry! This was my first time with a guest and I have never had to edit with dual camera angles and 2 mics. I did my best! Thanks for the feedback
Oh shit, there wasn’t a third person there? I thought it was a producer chiming in here and there lmao
@kayla.nelson I agree that it sounded like there was a third person in the room. However, the audio coming from the mics was good. Not frizzy or distorted, no echo...that part was good.
This was so iconic ❤❤ loved this episode!!!
I love this so much! You totally inspired me to start a new UA-cam channel! Thank you!
Amazed at her strength and attitude. Team Chelsey all the way!!
I literally saw the episode and thought, wait this kitchen looks sooo familiar ! I pushed the thought away with a maybe american apartment all look a liitle similar. So funny to see that you are actually neighbours!😂😂
This was so informative of how the show actually works
Kayla!!! You did so good on this podcast. 👏 great questions. I was laughing so hard in a good way 😅. ❤ Chelsea is a girl's girl.
Woah exclusive! Go Kayla! And hey Chelsea!!
The ranking system gives me ptsd to sorority recruitment
Chelsea is the best and so gorgeous ❤ I am so proud of her and rooting for her! ✨✨
This was great! Thanks for asking about her makeup ❤
Yes Kayla! What an episode!
Damn you did the thing!
Great interview! I feel like Chelsea is such a girls girl and people need to lay off the hate. Why care about something that happened over a year ago? like get over it.
I am so impressed
You girls are awesome ❤
imagine chewing gum for an interview and drinking coffee
Neither one of us were chewing gum and I bought both of us coffee lol
4:09 I can see why someone thought Chelsea is chewing gum.
I really like Chelsea 💓
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ yay Chelsea🎉
Genuinely adore her
2:52 do the guys go to a separate hotel? Or are you guys not allowed to talk because the guys are there too?
Yes separate hotel! she told me the guys stayed at a separate location and she said to this day she still doesn’t know where the guys stayed! I cut it because the audio got muffled
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Omgsh, I thought it was Megan Fox🙈😂 just kidding, don’t come for me😂
What’s the program Chelsea?! Lol
OMG I thought she had a maga hat on 🙃🙃🙃
HAHAHAH the interview would not have happened lmao
@@kayla.nelson girl I clutched my pearls and then realized it was not that 🤣🤣🤣 I was like NOOO NOT CHELSEA 🤣😭
Great interview, I freaking love Chelsea and I’m so bad at all the shit her and jimmy got. I think they were good together, it def seems as they DO have chemistry.