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There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
It's great to hear this. I've always been of the opinion be yourself. If they didn't like it, they weren't right for you anyway, hear I am take it or leave it.
Not to confuse 'Pretending to be someone you're not' with 'you're perfect the way you are'. The way you worded that was almost like "Chris said I can be a piece of shit, but it's everyone elses problem' - which is deffs not the message he's trying to convey.
I found the right partner after beings friends for about 4 yrs. We would have a chat and friendship, and we found ourselves in agreement in so many things. (She was impressed by my coffee machines)! We have been together for over 20 yrs now.
I remember when Courtney was with Steve Cook and I found her really annoying. So I was skeptical when she and Chris got together, but clearly they were a much better match and got the best out of eachother. Glad for them.
This is more like winning the lottery than 1950's courtship. He's in a position as a hyper alpha at the top of the physical hierarchy. Most men will not be able to satisfy their wife's desire or lust for past exes or future opportunities. Too many women today have wandering eyes and the illusion of grass is greener and infinite choice. I'd take this with a massive grain of salt. Most women will perceive vulnerability as weakness..... well unless you are a 6'1 gigachad on top of the world of physique. In this case, literally. The balancing act is heavily skewed towards a much longer leash towards genetically gifted men vs the average Joe. It doesn't take the modern woman very long to catch the ick or revert into a masculine role if her man isn't on point emotionally, say more than 90% of the time.
You don't even know this lady. You just assumed she was your version of a modern woman and came up with a whole scenario in your head. Do you even talk to women on a regular basis?
@dahliaherrod4301 Firstly, I wasn't talking about his woman. I was referring to the fact that any man who is by definition a gigachad has a much longer leash when it comes to expressing emotions and being vulnerable around a woman. She knows she won, and it's her best option. This is an exceptional case, and his wife probably does love him to this extent. Most women will also do the same for gigachad. Most men are not gigachad; therefore, grass is greener and wandering eyes and ick factor when emotionally vulnerable too often or given a short leash. Look at the divorce stats and who initiates them.
That all depends on needs and how much room you’re willing to give people. What is transformation? Do we even want transformation? In an age where robots are coming out, some dudes just want a robot
Notable is that success/drive (2nd in an Olympian competition) combined with a willingness to emote is what was seen as attractive. Emoting alone is not going to have this effect. Put yourself out their AS you pursue your authentic path to building in the world; only broadcasting your hardships will not attract the kind of partner you would desire to do life with
Hey Everyone 🤠 Find the parts that interest you: 0:20 - Advice for choosing a good partner 2:00 - How Courtney and I connected 4:00 - Feeling safe to be a burden 5:49 - Women helping men express emotions 6:58 - Strength in sharing emotions 8:30 - Balancing vulnerability and masculinity Chat with videos via Bumpups 🌲
My 50 Year old self Pls All look into star signs And then and also be a man and be. Woman understand our deepest dimension Men need to provide and be strong Woman have babies and support and are the rocks that hold a beautiful family ❤
That's wonderful, however don't forget he is CBUM. Not saying his wife is not authentic, but will she do the same if he wasn't CBUM? The bottom line is that you can rationalize how much you want, but he is the Alpha Man most women want! He is successful!
I see this as very easily debunkable. This isn't the way it is for the average man, at all. You don't show your weakness to your woman and she goes 'Oh wow how strong of him?!' It'd rather be 'Oh now I am the masculine side over here'
@@MsSassyBlondie why is it always extremes with females? Who said _constantly_ We get it, we're walking ATMs, but the least yall could do is understand how statistics work.
@@jxxxhyah yes, gonna live my relationships with dishonesty and constantly withholding information from my partner because a youtube comment told me I'd be single if I didn't, thank you
Not saying I disagree with any of this per se, but I have to ask: what special qualifications does a bodybuilder have for dishing out life/relationship advice?
@@SuChendrgn I agree with you - everyone has their own human experience. So coming back to my question: if its just basic human experience (ie: bleeding obvious common sense) why don't we have just anyone on? What special wisdom does a bodybuilder bring to the table? Do nice muscles help with this?
Its never about the qualifications. People follow him because he is a role model. How did you end up finding this? Some random married person of the street could share the same wisdom. Its not about the person that tells it but how well you listen to them.
@@teun_haan I found Chris a while back because he was interviewing someone I was interested in - whoever it was they were an expert in their given field & knew their onions. I certainly don't 'follow' either of the Chris' here or regard them as role models though I concede the advice given in this show could be useful if you'd never figured it out yourself. But still... no one better, more lucid or articulate out there than a bodybuilder? Its not "the person that tells it" or "how well you listen". If they're talking nonsense listening closely won't help you at all. Its what they say that matters most. Chris Bumstead is a smart articulate guy & I like him, but he's on the show because he's a bodybuilder - not a philosopher or life coach. Anyway if you liked this stay tuned for next week's show. Jordan Peterson will be on giving advice about the best workout for legs and arms and a list of his favourite whey proteins.
well help me out then please: know any woman who's smart, moral (yes, including - maybe especially - THAT), attractive, and sane? and is on the same exact page as i am (i will explain what page that is if you find someone with the first four criteria, which you won't) regarding beliefs and values??
I'm sorry Chris, I like your videos a lot, but this "I uploaded 1 video and she reached out to me" is pure luck and him being a chad in the first place, I've been uploading videos for 3 months straight and not even 1 woman reached out to me so that's just him being lucky, not a replicable plan.
worry about your own health first and foremost, you're probably not even close to healthy like most people. This is weird, concerning yourself with strangers on a personal level
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There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
I am so grateful that I have this with my wife. She's the best thing that happened to me and she's helped become the best version of myself.
*When you’re with the right person, it’s not just your love life that transforms; it’s your mindset, your focus, and even your outlook on challenges.*
It's great to hear this. I've always been of the opinion be yourself. If they didn't like it, they weren't right for you anyway, hear I am take it or leave it.
Not to confuse 'Pretending to be someone you're not' with 'you're perfect the way you are'.
The way you worded that was almost like "Chris said I can be a piece of shit, but it's everyone elses problem' - which is deffs not the message he's trying to convey.
I found the right partner after beings friends for about 4 yrs. We would have a chat and friendship, and we found ourselves in agreement in so many things. (She was impressed by my coffee machines)!
We have been together for over 20 yrs now.
I remember when Courtney was with Steve Cook and I found her really annoying. So I was skeptical when she and Chris got together, but clearly they were a much better match and got the best out of eachother. Glad for them.
Wow great clip. The fact that this side of intimate relationships is being articulated so well to a wide audience is great to see. Great stuff.
In my book when you’re Mr. Olympia, you can talk about whatever you want 💪🏽
Wow what a vibe, this is it
8:26 Now that is the Main point why she still respects him
Amen
3:45 - 4:50. You describe that extremely well. It is heartbreaking when you can't work together during tough times. 😢
I WILL CHOOSE THE RIGHT PARTNER
cbum is really wise and I love him for his authenticity.
just want a loyal wife that puts up a strong fight❤
no such thing exists, and don't get married, you dont need it and theres no benefit.
Just get some hobbies bro and stack money for the future. You don't need a partner.
I’m still waiting for my love… I have hope. ❤
You seem like a down to earth person
A game plan and a dating coach would be better
This is more like winning the lottery than 1950's courtship. He's in a position as a hyper alpha at the top of the physical hierarchy. Most men will not be able to satisfy their wife's desire or lust for past exes or future opportunities. Too many women today have wandering eyes and the illusion of grass is greener and infinite choice.
I'd take this with a massive grain of salt. Most women will perceive vulnerability as weakness..... well unless you are a 6'1 gigachad on top of the world of physique. In this case, literally. The balancing act is heavily skewed towards a much longer leash towards genetically gifted men vs the average Joe. It doesn't take the modern woman very long to catch the ick or revert into a masculine role if her man isn't on point emotionally, say more than 90% of the time.
Good point
Modern American woman**
You don't even know this lady. You just assumed she was your version of a modern woman and came up with a whole scenario in your head. Do you even talk to women on a regular basis?
good chance she's already cheated on this guy anyway
@dahliaherrod4301 Firstly, I wasn't talking about his woman. I was referring to the fact that any man who is by definition a gigachad has a much longer leash when it comes to expressing emotions and being vulnerable around a woman. She knows she won, and it's her best option. This is an exceptional case, and his wife probably does love him to this extent. Most women will also do the same for gigachad. Most men are not gigachad; therefore, grass is greener and wandering eyes and ick factor when emotionally vulnerable too often or given a short leash. Look at the divorce stats and who initiates them.
Thank you very much
Homeless wife, I say good bye
That all depends on needs and how much room you’re willing to give people. What is transformation? Do we even want transformation? In an age where robots are coming out, some dudes just want a robot
Notable is that success/drive (2nd in an Olympian competition) combined with a willingness to emote is what was seen as attractive.
Emoting alone is not going to have this effect.
Put yourself out their AS you pursue your authentic path to building in the world; only broadcasting your hardships will not attract the kind of partner you would desire to do life with
Damn Bro , 22 second since its uploaded and Im here...
Hey Everyone 🤠
Find the parts that interest you:
0:20 - Advice for choosing a good partner
2:00 - How Courtney and I connected
4:00 - Feeling safe to be a burden
5:49 - Women helping men express emotions
6:58 - Strength in sharing emotions
8:30 - Balancing vulnerability and masculinity
Chat with videos via Bumpups 🌲
It’s probably good to find your fortune first and then meet someone.
My 50
Year old self
Pls
All look into star signs
And then and also be a man and be. Woman understand our deepest dimension
Men need to provide and be strong
Woman have babies and support and are the rocks that hold a beautiful family ❤
That is beautiful
Choosing the right partner. That’s a thing only the top 20% can do.
So can choosing the wrong partner.
I WILL ACTUALIZE SHOWING UP AS THE MAXIMUM IN THE RELATIONSHIP
Very Simplistic, considering the you today is different than the you in 20 years, and so on.
What he's talking about only works if you look good.
SO TOO can choosing the WRONG one
That's wonderful, however don't forget he is CBUM.
Not saying his wife is not authentic, but will she do the same if he wasn't CBUM?
The bottom line is that you can rationalize how much you want, but he is the Alpha Man most women want! He is successful!
Bi polar women isn’t a vibe
She was with Steve cook she cheated on him with Chris and now Chris and them are all happily ever after let’s get the facts straight that’s who she is
CBum for coolest dude 2024
100% 🙌🔥❤️
I see this as very easily debunkable. This isn't the way it is for the average man, at all. You don't show your weakness to your woman and she goes 'Oh wow how strong of him?!' It'd rather be 'Oh now I am the masculine side over here'
Not necessarily. I mean, it’s not attractive to constantly be vulnerable and soft, but there should be enough trust to be that when you need to be.
Never show your woman your emotions
@@MsSassyBlondie why is it always extremes with females?
Who said _constantly_
We get it, we're walking ATMs, but the least yall could do is understand how statistics work.
This guy is an Olympian and got a wife by crying on video. Dude is a stud.
@@jxxxhyah yes, gonna live my relationships with dishonesty and constantly withholding information from my partner because a youtube comment told me I'd be single if I didn't, thank you
important part : met her AFTER he won mr O.
that is false.
@@calvinyouttitham5076 1:40
Didn’t she leave him once?
Mr.O interesting...
Women don't typically go after someone that muscular. It's not in the type 5 of physiques for us. It actually comes across more scary than hot.
Not saying I disagree with any of this per se, but I have to ask: what special qualifications does a bodybuilder have for dishing out life/relationship advice?
Why would you need ‘special qualifications’ for that? It’s human experience. Everyone has their own insight that is valuable to someone else.
@@SuChendrgn I agree with you - everyone has their own human experience. So coming back to my question: if its just basic human experience (ie: bleeding obvious common sense) why don't we have just anyone on? What special wisdom does a bodybuilder bring to the table? Do nice muscles help with this?
Its never about the qualifications. People follow him because he is a role model. How did you end up finding this?
Some random married person of the street could share the same wisdom. Its not about the person that tells it but how well you listen to them.
@@teun_haan I found Chris a while back because he was interviewing someone I was interested in - whoever it was they were an expert in their given field & knew their onions.
I certainly don't 'follow' either of the Chris' here or regard them as role models though I concede the advice given in this show could be useful if you'd never figured it out yourself. But still... no one better, more lucid or articulate out there than a bodybuilder?
Its not "the person that tells it" or "how well you listen". If they're talking nonsense listening closely won't help you at all. Its what they say that matters most. Chris Bumstead is a smart articulate guy & I like him, but he's on the show because he's a bodybuilder - not a philosopher or life coach.
Anyway if you liked this stay tuned for next week's show. Jordan Peterson will be on giving advice about the best workout for legs and arms and a list of his favourite whey proteins.
A life experience
I hope I have arms like these dudes someday.
Having huge muscles doesnt hurt either
Tell him to come back after 20 yrs at least, and then give me relationship advice 😂 I’ve been married for 15, this sounds like kindergarten.
Wait. He met his wife by crying on video? Dude is a stud.
well help me out then please: know any woman who's smart, moral (yes, including - maybe especially - THAT), attractive, and sane? and is on the same exact page as i am (i will explain what page that is if you find someone with the first four criteria, which you won't) regarding beliefs and values??
Choosing the wrong one.......can totally screw your life up...I have witnessed this.....I've been lucky
First Comment I guess
CBUM: if you are putting on a show….
💯
He just called us all out!
Lesson learned move forward.
I'm sorry Chris, I like your videos a lot, but this "I uploaded 1 video and she reached out to me" is pure luck and him being a chad in the first place, I've been uploading videos for 3 months straight and not even 1 woman reached out to me so that's just him being lucky, not a replicable plan.
❤🙌
Yes for him the right partner was 💉
Huge fan, come to Pakistan
nah bro aint no one coming to pakistan brother fuck that
People first have so many sexual partners then suddenly they find the best woman or man. WTFFF. 😂
Firsty first mofos 😂♥️☝🏼
Is chris going to stop steroids now that he's done? Worried about his health.
worry about your own health first and foremost, you're probably not even close to healthy like most people. This is weird, concerning yourself with strangers on a personal level
1st.