I'm almost 50 now and if there's one thing I've learned in life, it's better not to have friends than to have fake friends. I prefer to sit alone in the dark. at least she's honest. i'm also extremely loyal to real friends. I only have less and less opportunity to do so, because most people I meet disqualify themselves after a short time.
This is a sign that you have done a lot of self-work, and that your standards for yourself are very high. They may be so high that you expect so much out of yourself, that you struggle with feelings of self-worth, you beat yourself up for the smallest mistakes, and can be harsh with yourself. You may also be projecting those high expectations onto others, and if those expectations are so high that not even you can reach them, how can anyone else? If you look for flaws in a human being, you won't have to look long. We all have flaws, we all hurt other people, intentionally or not. Give room for mistakes, with yourself, and with others. Let them know your boundaries, what you like and dislike, and show them the same patience you show yourself as you grow. You can't be silent with your needs, with your rules, and then judge others for a breach that they didn't know they committed. This takes work, and patience, and not everyone will mesh with you but if you value another person, you need to be vulnerable enough to express your boundaries, and patient enough to give them room for mistakes. If they value you in turn, they will respect your boundaries. Use this as a metric for how someone truly feels about you. When someone intentionally violates a boundary without good justification, that is where their respect for you ends.
Yes, this is the worst part of being a Sig. Overwhelming majority of people are dishonest (both intentionally and unintentionally.). Life is too short to spend it with shallow, group thinking fair weather friends, which will ALWAYS LET YOU DOWN or betray you when you actually need or rely on them. Without these people, at least you know what kind of people are around you or in anyway connected to. I feel this shallow pretentiousness is growing within our society, to everyone’s detriment…..
Stunspot, yes the loyalty thing is certainly the hardest thing as it’s such a constant let down in life when it comes to having “friendships.” The Overwhelming majority of people are dishonest (both intentionally and unintentionally.). Life is too short to spend it with shallow, group thinking fair weather friends, which will ALWAYS LET YOU DOWN or betray you when you actually need or rely on them. Without these people, at least you know what kind of people are around you or in anyway connected to. I feel this shallow pretentiousness is growing within our society, to everyone’s detriment…..
@@freeandcriticalthinker4431 …. I’m almost 70 and there are different levels of trust. Three in my opinion. The third level is the deepest level and if you have 3 or 4 friends in your entire life that are level threes you have really accomplished something. The goal is to be a level three and then it becomes much easier to identify the level threes.
Yes. You're right. My bro betrayed me. I trusted only on him than anyone my whole life. I was always guard down with him because he was my blood. And that's why betrayal exists.
I’ve often described this phenomenon to my kids in this way….”There are colleagues, acquaintances, co-workers, neighbors, not all qualify as friends. Friends are those mentioned that graduate to the level of friend, reserved for a select few because standards are high”. Not everyone is or should be your friend!!
I second that! Alone is when we refine and fine tune our intuitive nature, analyze our day/conversions/interactions which lead to Introspection(personal dialogue and discipline included) lol #AlphaKilla
As a Sigma male, as I always say....learn how to be alone by not feeling lonely. Easy for Sigma to say, because that's one of their best qualities and also organic to them.
Man the loyalty thing really hit home with me. I basically burnt my social circle to the ground after some high school friends betrayed me. ....what good are people if you can't inherently trust them.
This describes me to a tee! At the insistence of a coworker, I tried the bar scene. What I found was a group of phony, self-centered people that I couldn't wait to get away from. I love being alone and make no apologies for it!
I will say this. once we give our loyalty to a person, we are loyal almost til death because they obviously earned it. I spend most of my time alone & love it
I feel like this is me exactly. It's so strange just now finding this out about myself at almost 40 years old. Wish I would've known this information sooner, but I'm glad I found it now. Still would rather have no friends than fake friends any day.
This is definitely me! I've just learnt the hard way that my old friends weren't friends at all, just acquaintances. Weren't there and betrayed me when I needed them most! A very bitter pill to swallow.
These videos remind me not to go against the grain. I've spent the past two years trying to be more outgoing and outspoken to impress old friends so I don't feel like a loser. But the truth is, can't even stand being around them sober anymore, feel even more disconnected to strangers than ever and find it exhausting pretending I give a fuck about someone's asinine gossip. Soo refreshing to be this honest again.
I have 4 close friends, two female, two male. I absolutely demand loyalty and have let girlfriends and friends go because they didn’t have my back while I had theirs. I have had my current friends for many years, two of them for many decades.
I confused a lot of things in the past. My depressive state, my social anxiety, and my gayness. In the end its being a sigma that truly hit the nail on its head. People, no matter who or what they are or have, are to be questioned and treated with distrust from the first encounter. After years of turmoil, loneliness has been replaced with solitude, depression has been stabilised to feeling content and comfortably numb, and social anxiety has given way to contentment with social exclusion. It took more than half a century to reach this blissful state.
I loved the section about "everyone in the friend group would tell you the sigma is their best friend". That's so true about me. I have a handful of very close and mostly lifelong friends, mostly from different walks of life but I can connect with them deeply each in their own particular way. Every one of them tells me that "I am their best friend", and I believe them. I can't find it in myself to reciprocate that notion though, as I feel like they have too many vices or selfish problems and aren't *capable* of being a best friend to me, but I'm also okay with this at the same time. It's sad for me to say but I find it to be true over and over. Thank you for the content!
Im 46. I have never considered anybody a friend. I know a lot of people and even people recognize me from childhood but I dont even remember them. The only person close to a friend Ive had betrayed me after 24 years of knowing each other. This broke my heart and confirmed what I always believed. There are no real friends in life just people you meet for whatever reason.
Friends for a reason a season or a lifetime. I have no friends and Im ok with it, friendship is overrated. I have yet to meet someone who can hang on my frequency.
Indeed. The true Sigma will not admit this in public.. its completely counterintuitive to maintaining anonymity or just laying low. Ive noticed this too... but the majority of guys on here are legit.. clearly we all stumbled into this room for a reason. 🇺🇸🙏🧡✝️
@@kylewilkinson6975 If you have to edit what you type to Sigma, it means you are well aware that you must walk on egg shells when you do. You are already a waste of my time. Have a good life.
I’m alone most of the time.because I don’t like to waste my time.I can be very social but conversation must be stimulating and beneficial but that’s a rarity.
I’ve got a friend who says he hates people. He focuses on his kids and his customers. Doesn’t have a need for buddies. We have lunch few times a year and it’s cool. Talk real stuff. Share ideas. Then it’s see you whenever.
I don't believe in "friends" that most people THINK they have. Most people don't have friends they have acquaintances. Business, casual, or even close ones. You're fortunate or blessed if you get to have one or two friends in your lifetime.
I trust no one except for their actions because ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS💯 I keep my friends at a minimum so if so I dont have too far to point the finger if a friend go wayward 💯 I can easily ✂️ cut those out of my life who don't fit into my world and not have a BIG IMPACT if I had to let them go.
I have a twin brother. He and I are (definitely) sigmas. We analyze people and discover their friendship wouldn't be worth it. We enjoy alone time and value every word we speak. We don't waste words, so we seem unsociable. We're ok with being nonconforming.
I am beginning to think that I am a Sigma male for sure as this video is very relevant to how I have been my entire life. I have actively avoided friends since about age 16 because friends always meant getting involved with the kind of things in life I was keen to avoid and had zero interest in - drinking, stag weekends, weddings, lads trips away, big noisy groups. My family and workmates have always thought me a weird loner though because I've never went out drinking or chased girls or had friends and have just always preferred to be on my own. Videos like this help to explain how I am and comes as a real relief. Thanks for posting.
SIGMAS CANT SAVE YOU FROM YOUR SINS AND HELL, JESUS THE SON OF GOD WHO DIED FOR YOUR SINS CAN! HE CAN SAVE YOU FROM YOUR SINS TROUGH BELIEVE IN JESUS YOU WILL GET SAVED FROM HELL AND GO TO HEAVEN GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE SENT HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOESOEVER BELIEVETH ON HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
I have one friend, the rest of anyone else I know just likes to hear themselves talk about themselves. When they finally ask me a question I begin to reply then get cut off...I just listen. These are people never to trust. The narrorater is very redundant in these videos.
Wow! What an eye opener. Spot on. I can relate to this for the full 100%. All my life (closing in on 50) thinking I'm the only odd one out. Happy to hear there are at least a couple more of you out there . I have one friend, known him since kindergarten. I love him as if he is my twin brother. For those who are interested, he is far from a sigma male. For me personally minimalizing verbal pratice has resulted in a lack of social communication skills. But the pro's of being an analytical person has helped me tremendously in life. And if I set my mind to it I can build anything, with eye for detail. This might also explain why people like my cooking so much Small talk is something I stay far from, I concur what a waste of time 🙃 With all respect for the maker of this video. I think I would prefer to replace the word 'Loyalty' for the word honesty. As one can be loyal without being honest, or is it me overthinking things here😜? Honesty ought to be the natural default state in a friendship, not only from one person towards the other, but to the whole world and beyond. If someone would abuse my loyalty and honesty for his own good, well then respectfully, that is just very unfortunate for that person. I can also relate to be able to spot a fake friend from a mile away, but I can also tell you that some people are very well trained in hiding being fake. It takes time and experience to finetune this particular skill. Partly I have learned this the hard way, which probably amplified my particular condition. Furthermore I am a terrible sleeper, my brain just doesn't stop thinking, for example when it is 3.00AM, my head acting like a record player analyzing song after song at the same time. I absolutely love music, but dear God, can I get a head shot already 😂😂. To all. Live your life to the fullest, make it count, the result doesn't matter, you are doing excellent as long as you make progression and learn from your mistakes. This applies to being a baker, cleaner, a mother, father, brother, sister, friend and what not, make it mean something and be honest. Appriciate you all. I'm out.
every single goddamn time he entitles a feature, I bow my head to his respect with my hand up and pointing at the video multiple times saying : this guy...this guy gets me !
Here's how I came to be alone: I kept getting sh*t upon and stepped on by others. So I started doing it back to them. But when I did it back to them everyone thought I was in the wrong. So I dropped out socially about 20 years ago and the bad luck, the sleepless nights spent wondering who was gonna knee-cap me next etc, all disappeared.
Hey this is partially me. My wife and I think it's common sense tho...and teach our kids of what it means to have a true friend who's behavior and choices match their word. My daughter recently got screwed over by what she thought as a close friend....she cut her out immediately. We were proud of her. Life is too short to deal with untrustworthy fake ppl.
I choose to have no friends. Nobody will match me in the things I need from a friend. My wife and my kids and grandkids are my friends. I have plenty of acquaintances who I contact rarely. Just more complications in an already complicated life!
Yep I literally have zero what I would call dependable friends or someone I could confide in anymore. I have thought I had a few but after testing them like waiting to see if they would text , call, or come over to check on me or see what's up. I found out they were only out for themselves! So I quit texting or calling a so called friend back in March of this year and still as of Dec not one check in on their part so I shut the door on another one!
I describe my Friends like the 'All Seeing Eye' above the pyramid on the back of the dollar bill. They're in a class of their own on the hierarchy of people I know. That said, there have been an unfortunate few that learned the hard way; it's the pinnacle to the pit when that Friendship is betrayed... as good as dead to me.
Thanks for bringing our self worth back to society. Ever since these videos I go around saying don't mess with me, Do you even know what I am. I'm a Singa goddamit.
It's also about energy management. It's better to focus on a few people at a time, as we can easily get stretched too thin if we have too many chats going at once.
Ok, I have a question..........is it possible to be both autistic AND sigma? I see quite a bit of overlap in the symptoms and wondered if they have a common cause.
I have really just found myself perfectly fitting literally in everything stated in this amazingly well-crafted and exhaustive descriptions defining the sigma male. What an incredibly perfect work of ingenuity! Thank you for being so resourceful encapsulating the core of our soul with disarming honesty.
This was a God Send to for me. I up until now thought I was the only man on Earth this way.What a relief to find I am yet part of a group of people like myself.
I Was just thinking about all the ppl I called a friend growing up just yesterday. none of them made the cut tbh . A family member asked how are your friends doing 6 months ago , said I there not at the same level of friendship ( loyal ) and becides I now have a boat .
This is conditioning us to isolate ourselves. We all feel the same way generally. No one wants to be disrespected and we should choose friends wisely but I sense an evil agenda with a lot of these vids
"I sense an evil agenda with a lot of these vids" I sense an evil agenda on people everyday. So why would I want them around me? Self preservation is a must. And I refuse to be anyone's target.
@@MedranoHijo I think it's very unwise to be a total isolationist. I say this as an introvert. If things get half as bad as I expect, you're going to need to cooperate with other people. There are honest people out there, you just have to do the work to find them. And I wonder about folks on here levelling claims against others....Have these isolationists never hurt anyone or let anyone down?
It’s better to be alone than to be mistreated. Just because someone walks alone in the moment doesn’t mean they’re in isolation You grow, you learn and move on, no evil agenda in that
Friends, family and lovers limit you. Tell you what you cant do as opposed to what you can. True, they also give you that companionship we need as social animals but overall, and depending on what you want out of life, they will make you like them. Mediocre social animals.
When they limit you on what you can and can't do. That's selfishness or envy on their behalf. They will show themselves almost like a cancer that needs to be cut out of your life.
@@luisforeal8676 Yeah. I think the reason its lonely at the top is cos if you did not guard that highspot, it would be hotly contested AFTER you have made it accessible, through yourself. So I often think its less about envy (in my case) but making me serve them in some capacity and for that reason, I dont let people close but for example when dating, only do so transactionally.
I have lived as Sigma for the better part of 10 years, I meet all stated EXCEPT I enjoy a good conversation and tend to talk ( Honestly more than I wish I didn't as much lol).. living the good life.....😎
This feels comfortable here cuz these concepts are the way I am where I've always been and embracing my Oneness with all things allows me to discipline myself gives me freedom now I think I understand
I'm not saying I am, or am not Sigma, because there's no way to be completely sure one way or the other... However, many people are totally convinced they are Sigma's, many of them are on here commenting, totally convinced 100% they are Sigma's...The harsh truth is, if you're completely sure you're Sigma, you're probably not.
You're absolutely right. But when guys see so much of what they are in what describes them then they can better understand who and what they are and can adjust themselves to get along with others better. Or not.
That's a good way to lose friendship is when you loan out money and they don't pay it back so the best thing to do is tell them I don't loan out money I go to the bank for that you should do the same thing
@@kurtbecker9609 This is true.. I couldn't imagine myself asking a friend for money. However, if they offered I would gladly take it and after I would get back on my feet, give it back with some money on top just to show gratitude. I believe it's fair.
I dont know how much of a coinidence this is, but I've learned that every one of my friends is a capricorn, and each of us are self employeed and very much independant sigmas. personally I run my own salad/mushroom farm and manage a second, but have started many businesses, everything from street food to clothing. It's a grind, not exciting life at all, just constantly putting in hours and rarely finding that high octane conversation
I must have been sigma all my life, but life gave me hope, I could find conscius people who are ready to talk things and share views, no matter if we agree in everything, the important is to experience life together and learn from it. If there is something fake someone just expose it. Sigma people are destinated to find what they came to live, truth and sensible life.
This is a great post, and describes me to a tee, especially after the last two years.But the awful hipster footage really sucks. Still subscribed though.
At 70 I consider myself sigma, I have no friends whatsoever, I do have people I go fishing and hunting with but I couldn’t call one a friend. I have had two friends and both were in the services and both are dead, no person could ever come near the loyalty we had and no I am not gay 😂😂
It's all true. If you let someone in they are a friend for life if they stand by you. Other men don't like sigma male because they are intimidated with their women. If you love a woman that woman ❤️ is their queen and best friend. Only one difference is a certain woman who is a beacon of light that could guide a jet plane in the night, she shines so bright 😎💖✨ Always thinking, probably too much. Definitely lone wolf with only a few friends but top friends. I've always done my own thing and I succeed in what I need. Hope is good aswell when needed.
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I'm almost 50 now and if there's one thing I've learned in life, it's better not to have friends than to have fake friends. I prefer to sit alone in the dark. at least she's honest. i'm also extremely loyal to real friends. I only have less and less opportunity to do so, because most people I meet disqualify themselves after a short time.
I also enjoy sitting alone in the dark with my favourite website open and slightly warmed up lube 😳
Unfortunately this is truth.very few people can be called friend.
I couldn't agree with you more
This is a sign that you have done a lot of self-work, and that your standards for yourself are very high. They may be so high that you expect so much out of yourself, that you struggle with feelings of self-worth, you beat yourself up for the smallest mistakes, and can be harsh with yourself. You may also be projecting those high expectations onto others, and if those expectations are so high that not even you can reach them, how can anyone else? If you look for flaws in a human being, you won't have to look long. We all have flaws, we all hurt other people, intentionally or not. Give room for mistakes, with yourself, and with others. Let them know your boundaries, what you like and dislike, and show them the same patience you show yourself as you grow. You can't be silent with your needs, with your rules, and then judge others for a breach that they didn't know they committed. This takes work, and patience, and not everyone will mesh with you but if you value another person, you need to be vulnerable enough to express your boundaries, and patient enough to give them room for mistakes. If they value you in turn, they will respect your boundaries. Use this as a metric for how someone truly feels about you. When someone intentionally violates a boundary without good justification, that is where their respect for you ends.
Absolutely true. I'm 53, I have many acquaintances but outside of my family have accumulated a grand total of ONE friend. I'm perfectly fine with it.
The loyalty thing hit hard. The worst thing about betrayal is that it by definition comes from someone you trust.
Yes, this is the worst part of being a Sig. Overwhelming majority of people are dishonest (both intentionally and unintentionally.). Life is too short to spend it with shallow, group thinking fair weather friends, which will ALWAYS LET YOU DOWN or betray you when you actually need or rely on them. Without these people, at least you know what kind of people are around you or in anyway connected to. I feel this shallow pretentiousness is growing within our society, to everyone’s detriment…..
Stunspot, yes the loyalty thing is certainly the hardest thing as it’s such a constant let down in life when it comes to having “friendships.”
The Overwhelming majority of people are dishonest (both intentionally and unintentionally.). Life is too short to spend it with shallow, group thinking fair weather friends, which will ALWAYS LET YOU DOWN or betray you when you actually need or rely on them. Without these people, at least you know what kind of people are around you or in anyway connected to. I feel this shallow pretentiousness is growing within our society, to everyone’s detriment…..
@@freeandcriticalthinker4431 …. I’m almost 70 and there are different levels of trust. Three in my opinion. The third
level is the deepest level and if you have 3 or 4 friends in your entire life that are level threes you have really accomplished something.
The goal is to be a level three and then it becomes much easier to identify the level threes.
@@theyangview1898 At 75 years of age I totally agree with you! I can count my true friends on one hand minus a few fingers!😊
Yes. You're right. My bro betrayed me. I trusted only on him than anyone my whole life. I was always guard down with him because he was my blood. And that's why betrayal exists.
I’ve often described this phenomenon to my kids in this way….”There are colleagues, acquaintances, co-workers, neighbors, not all qualify as friends. Friends are those mentioned that graduate to the level of friend, reserved for a select few because standards are high”. Not everyone is or should be your friend!!
Being lonely and being alone aren't the same concept. We Sigmas are never lonely. Because we put 100% effort to reach goals we set up. Aim higher....
I second that! Alone is when we refine and fine tune our intuitive nature, analyze our day/conversions/interactions which lead to Introspection(personal dialogue and discipline included) lol
#AlphaKilla
Alone is just us recharging our social batteries. The rest, as mentioned above, is us still at work. Hence, we never really take any breaks.
As a Sigma male, as I always say....learn how to be alone by not feeling lonely. Easy for Sigma to say, because that's one of their best qualities and also organic to them.
Man the loyalty thing really hit home with me. I basically burnt my social circle to the ground after some high school friends betrayed me. ....what good are people if you can't inherently trust them.
Same here bud. 20+ years later and it hasn't changed.
"The more people you know the more problems you have."
This describes me to a tee! At the insistence of a coworker, I tried the bar scene. What I found was a group of phony, self-centered people that I couldn't wait to get away from. I love being alone and make no apologies for it!
I will say this. once we give our loyalty to a person, we are loyal almost til death because they obviously earned it. I spend most of my time alone & love it
Agreed. I have only a few friends and one of them is on the 20 year mark. would do anything for him.
People might call you Over-thinker and criticize.
But remember -
You can't hurt a Over-thinker, because he already seen what's coming.
I feel like this is me exactly. It's so strange just now finding this out about myself at almost 40 years old. Wish I would've known this information sooner, but I'm glad I found it now. Still would rather have no friends than fake friends any day.
I have found nobody who I want as a friend. The older I get the more I see people for who they really are. I have high standards
I have found that there is no such thing as friends. just quantizes , People you know are NOT friends.
@@jerryswope1797 quantizes????👀
Same as though everybody got some kind of game that they like to play
Having standards is NOT a bad thing....
@Bereshith Goldandstough keep taking the medication 👍🏼
Watching your videos feel like i am watching myself.
Only sigmas can relate
According to Jamie, your breath is so nauseating that she looks forward to your farts.
This is definitely me!
I've just learnt the hard way that my old friends weren't friends at all, just acquaintances. Weren't there and betrayed me when I needed them most!
A very bitter pill to swallow.
These videos remind me not to go against the grain. I've spent the past two years trying to be more outgoing and outspoken to impress old friends so I don't feel like a loser. But the truth is, can't even stand being around them sober anymore, feel even more disconnected to strangers than ever and find it exhausting pretending I give a fuck about someone's asinine gossip. Soo refreshing to be this honest again.
All of them envied me which resulted in them betraying me... I'm down to 0 since October
I have 4 close friends, two female, two male. I absolutely demand loyalty and have let girlfriends and friends go because they didn’t have my back while I had theirs. I have had my current friends for many years, two of them for many decades.
Good ratio my man💯🧘🏽♂️
Same here!
I had a close friend once, until I told them no to something and they changed up on me. I don't get close to people since then.
So true! This intentional cutting off of friendships that aren't providing reciprocal value is referred to elsewhere as "the INTJ door-slam".
So far only been able to hang onto one in 45 years... Only realized the last couple years that it's a good thing.
Sigma's are the real Gold of the society...the choosing one. Very thank you for sharing this
I didn't think that I was sigma because everyone think they're sigma, but this video convinced me for sure now.
I confused a lot of things in the past. My depressive state, my social anxiety, and my gayness. In the end its being a sigma that truly hit the nail on its head. People, no matter who or what they are or have, are to be questioned and treated with distrust from the first encounter. After years of turmoil, loneliness has been replaced with solitude, depression has been stabilised to feeling content and comfortably numb, and social anxiety has given way to contentment with social exclusion. It took more than half a century to reach this blissful state.
I loved the section about "everyone in the friend group would tell you the sigma is their best friend". That's so true about me. I have a handful of very close and mostly lifelong friends, mostly from different walks of life but I can connect with them deeply each in their own particular way. Every one of them tells me that "I am their best friend", and I believe them. I can't find it in myself to reciprocate that notion though, as I feel like they have too many vices or selfish problems and aren't *capable* of being a best friend to me, but I'm also okay with this at the same time. It's sad for me to say but I find it to be true over and over. Thank you for the content!
No company is better than the wrong company....every time.
I would rather walk my life alone than walking with wrong ones
Video is very true and that's exactly how I feel about trusting anyone in my life, that was so point on
That's an important video! I have a few friends I see once in a while, but I spent most of my time alone. I am comfortable with that.
Im 46. I have never considered anybody a friend. I know a lot of people and even people recognize me from childhood but I dont even remember them. The only person close to a friend Ive had betrayed me after 24 years of knowing each other. This broke my heart and confirmed what I always believed. There are no real friends in life just people you meet for whatever reason.
Frienemies,.. is what I always called them,..
Friends for a reason a season or a lifetime. I have no friends and Im ok with it, friendship is overrated. I have yet to meet someone who can hang on my frequency.
As a Sigma, I can state that I have 3. Others try to get in, but I don't have room for more than 3.
I have 2 friends. MANY associates. But meh.
Sigma males doesnt call themselves Sigma. You are a Beta male trying hard to be a Sigma or an Alpha.
You can say that now but you never know. Seems packed with three but you are still in the flesh so hey , you never know
I have one.
Three seems to be the sweet spot.
I wonder whether sigmas befriend other sigmas
What I can't stand is how Sigma is becoming a trend and many claiming to be one misinterpret the meaning. Making Sigma look foolish.
Indeed. The true Sigma will not admit this in public.. its completely counterintuitive to maintaining anonymity or just laying low. Ive noticed this too... but the majority of guys on here are legit.. clearly we all stumbled into this room for a reason. 🇺🇸🙏🧡✝️
If it bothers you that there are fake sigma wanna be's then you're probably not a sigma. True sigmas don't give frak.
@@kylewilkinson6975 If you have to edit what you type to Sigma, it means you are well aware that you must walk on egg shells when you do. You are already a waste of my time. Have a good life.
This is 100 % accurate for me. Great staff it will bring up self knowledge to understand better why you are the way you are.
I’m alone most of the time.because I don’t like to waste my time.I can be very social but conversation must be stimulating and beneficial but that’s a rarity.
I’ve got a friend who says he hates people. He focuses on his kids and his customers. Doesn’t have a need for buddies. We have lunch few times a year and it’s cool. Talk real stuff. Share ideas. Then it’s see you whenever.
I don't believe in "friends" that most people THINK they have. Most people don't have friends they have acquaintances. Business, casual, or even close ones. You're fortunate or blessed if you get to have one or two friends in your lifetime.
I trust no one except for their actions because ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS💯
I keep my friends at a minimum so if so I dont have too far to point the finger if a friend go wayward 💯
I can easily ✂️ cut those out of my life who don't fit into my world and not have a BIG IMPACT if I had to let them go.
I have a twin brother. He and I are (definitely) sigmas. We analyze people and discover their friendship wouldn't be worth it. We enjoy alone time and value every word we speak. We don't waste words, so we seem unsociable. We're ok with being nonconforming.
Pro tip: Try borrowing money from your ‘friends’, the results will surprise you.
Better yet. Ask for money without having to pay it back and see what happens.
Facts.
@@georgemichaels2325 A real friend would never do that.
@@russgould707 That's not what I meant. The other person would say you don't owe me anything back.
a real friend would not ask for money from a friend, they know that can destroy the relationship.
I am beginning to think that I am a Sigma male for sure as this video is very relevant to how I have been my entire life.
I have actively avoided friends since about age 16 because friends always meant getting involved with the kind of things in life I was keen to avoid and had zero interest in - drinking, stag weekends, weddings, lads trips away, big noisy groups.
My family and workmates have always thought me a weird loner though because I've never went out drinking or chased girls or had friends and have just always preferred to be on my own.
Videos like this help to explain how I am and comes as a real relief. Thanks for posting.
Youre corny bro
SIGMAS CANT SAVE YOU FROM YOUR SINS AND HELL, JESUS THE SON OF GOD WHO DIED FOR YOUR SINS CAN! HE CAN SAVE YOU FROM YOUR SINS TROUGH BELIEVE IN JESUS YOU WILL GET SAVED FROM HELL AND GO TO HEAVEN
GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE SENT HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOESOEVER BELIEVETH ON HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
@@johanneshartman4618 Go & find converts for your old-time David Koresh's Spanish Inquisition cult somewhere else, I doubt you would find any here!
@@johanneshartman4618 The only truth right there
I have one friend, the rest of anyone else I know just likes to hear themselves talk about themselves. When they finally ask me a question I begin to reply then get cut off...I just listen. These are people never to trust. The narrorater is very redundant in these videos.
Wow! What an eye opener. Spot on. I can relate to this for the full 100%. All my life (closing in on 50) thinking I'm the only odd one out. Happy to hear there are at least a couple more of you out there .
I have one friend, known him since kindergarten. I love him as if he is my twin brother. For those who are interested, he is far from a sigma male.
For me personally minimalizing verbal pratice has resulted in a lack of social communication skills. But the pro's of being an analytical person has helped me tremendously in life. And if I set my mind to it I can build anything, with eye for detail. This might also explain why people like my cooking so much
Small talk is something I stay far from, I concur what a waste of time 🙃
With all respect for the maker of this video. I think I would prefer to replace the word 'Loyalty' for the word honesty. As one can be loyal without being honest, or is it me overthinking things here😜?
Honesty ought to be the natural default state in a friendship, not only from one person towards the other, but to the whole world and beyond.
If someone would abuse my loyalty and honesty for his own good, well then respectfully, that is just very unfortunate for that person.
I can also relate to be able to spot a fake friend from a mile away, but I can also tell you that some people are very well trained in hiding being fake. It takes time and experience to finetune this particular skill. Partly I have learned this the hard way, which probably amplified my particular condition.
Furthermore I am a terrible sleeper, my brain just doesn't stop thinking, for example when it is 3.00AM, my head acting like a record player analyzing song after song at the same time. I absolutely love music, but dear God, can I get a head shot already 😂😂.
To all. Live your life to the fullest, make it count, the result doesn't matter, you are doing excellent as long as you make progression and learn from your mistakes. This applies to being a baker, cleaner, a mother, father, brother, sister, friend and what not, make it mean something and be honest.
Appriciate you all.
I'm out.
every single goddamn time he entitles a feature, I bow my head to his respect with my hand up and pointing at the video multiple times saying : this guy...this guy gets me !
😂😂
Guess with the Sigma you have to earn it , to be in it.
Here's how I came to be alone:
I kept getting sh*t upon and stepped on by others. So I started doing it back to them. But when I did it back to them everyone thought I was in the wrong. So I dropped out socially about 20 years ago and the bad luck, the sleepless nights spent wondering who was gonna knee-cap me next etc, all disappeared.
Very good, especially #10, there's a lot to be said for setting people free
This is so dead on it’s frightening! Me to the core. Over analyzing and overthinking?!?! FML 🤦🏼
This could also be a description of an INTJ...
And INFJs.
I've been told by second party that people have said they're scared or intimidated by me.🤷
Just being me, can't help it.
The harsh truth is they only like people like them (people with integrity)
There is so much I have to say about this but the more I think about it, the more I think I should keep it to myself.
Wow ! You've blown my mind !!!
check out "The lone wolf" ( a product of living in a narcissistic home) appears related. cheers for the vid
Most people do not deserve us.
According to Sandra, your breath is so nauseating that she looks forward to your farts.
Pretty much ✌ 😎
Hey this is partially me. My wife and I think it's common sense tho...and teach our kids of what it means to have a true friend who's behavior and choices match their word. My daughter recently got screwed over by what she thought as a close friend....she cut her out immediately. We were proud of her. Life is too short to deal with untrustworthy fake ppl.
They don't need anybody because they feel nothing is impossible to them. They can accomplish anything they want. And this is what they do.
The main problem with this description is that it focuses on "friends". A Lone Wolf does not think about friends much at all.
I choose to have no friends. Nobody will match me in the things I need from a friend. My wife and my kids and grandkids are my friends. I have plenty of acquaintances who I contact rarely. Just more complications in an already complicated life!
I appreciate being alone so much shi sometimes starts to feel rude🤣🤦🏾
Yep I literally have zero what I would call dependable friends or someone I could confide in anymore. I have thought I had a few but after testing them like waiting to see if they would text , call, or come over to check on me or see what's up. I found out they were only out for themselves! So I quit texting or calling a so called friend back in March of this year and still as of Dec not one check in on their part so I shut the door on another one!
Is it me? That's some people call me arrogant.But truth is opposite.
"Names are for friends so I don't need one".
Agent 47
Thank you, I needed hear that 👍🙏
Glad it was helpful!
This so me I just over think everything and people negative energy drains me
I describe my Friends like the 'All Seeing Eye' above the pyramid on the back of the dollar bill. They're in a class of their own on the hierarchy of people I know. That said, there have been an unfortunate few that learned the hard way; it's the pinnacle to the pit when that Friendship is betrayed... as good as dead to me.
Great video
If ur not a real sigma male u cannot relate. Cold facts💯
Thanks for bringing our self worth back to society. Ever since these videos I go around saying don't mess with me, Do you even know what I am. I'm a Singa goddamit.
It's also about energy management. It's better to focus on a few people at a time, as we can easily get stretched too thin if we have too many chats going at once.
Ok, I have a question..........is it possible to be both autistic AND sigma? I see quite a bit of overlap in the symptoms and wondered if they have a common cause.
I have really just found myself perfectly fitting literally in everything stated in this amazingly well-crafted and exhaustive descriptions defining the sigma male. What an incredibly perfect work of ingenuity! Thank you for being so resourceful encapsulating the core of our soul with disarming honesty.
Hit me deep, everything is on point.
Explaining me exactly great video
Yep. I am 53 now and have many acquaintances but outside of family have accumulated a grand total of ONE friend and I am fine with that.
This was a God Send to for me. I up until now thought I was the only man on Earth this way.What a relief to find I am yet part of a group of people like myself.
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I Was just thinking about all the ppl I called a friend growing up just yesterday. none of them made the cut tbh . A family member asked how are your friends doing 6 months ago , said I there not at the same level of friendship ( loyal ) and becides I now have a boat .
99.9% of people dont know what loyalty means
Sigma agree with this statement from the movie "WALLSTREET" if you need a friend get a dog.
We take everything so serious that we take a lot of people not serious just to see who is capable of being taken seriously 🤣🤦🏾
This is very accurate.
This is conditioning us to isolate ourselves. We all feel the same way generally. No one wants to be disrespected and we should choose friends wisely but I sense an evil agenda with a lot of these vids
Good point.
No
"I sense an evil agenda with a lot of these vids"
I sense an evil agenda on people everyday. So why would I want them around me?
Self preservation is a must.
And I refuse to be anyone's target.
@@MedranoHijo I think it's very unwise to be a total isolationist. I say this as an introvert. If things get half as bad as I expect, you're going to need to cooperate with other people. There are honest people out there, you just have to do the work to find them.
And I wonder about folks on here levelling claims against others....Have these isolationists never hurt anyone or let anyone down?
It’s better to be alone than to be mistreated. Just because someone walks alone in the moment doesn’t mean they’re in isolation
You grow, you learn and move on, no evil agenda in that
I never heard of a sigma male before, but you are after describing everything about me , now I’m proud of the way I am
Friends, family and lovers limit you. Tell you what you cant do as opposed to what you can. True, they also give you that companionship we need as social animals but overall, and depending on what you want out of life, they will make you like them. Mediocre social animals.
When they limit you on what you can and can't do. That's selfishness or envy on their behalf. They will show themselves almost like a cancer that needs to be cut out of your life.
@@luisforeal8676 Yeah. I think the reason its lonely at the top is cos if you did not guard that highspot, it would be hotly contested AFTER you have made it accessible, through yourself. So I often think its less about envy (in my case) but making me serve them in some capacity and for that reason, I dont let people close but for example when dating, only do so transactionally.
I've never heard the term sigma male until now. Describes me perfectly.
I'm a sigma after being loyal, helpful, being a true confidant and literally being betrayed time and again. I just left it and be my own bestfriend.😀
You just described every Scandinavian man :)
I have lived as Sigma for the better part of 10 years, I meet all stated EXCEPT I enjoy a good conversation and tend to talk ( Honestly more than I wish I didn't as much lol).. living the good life.....😎
Same here, I know a lot of people but I don’t let anyone get close
Just learned who I am. Thank you🙏
This feels comfortable here cuz these concepts are the way I am where I've always been and embracing my Oneness with all things allows me to discipline myself gives me freedom now I think I understand
I'm not saying I am, or am not Sigma, because there's no way to be completely sure one way or the other... However, many people are totally convinced they are Sigma's, many of them are on here commenting, totally convinced 100% they are Sigma's...The harsh truth is, if you're completely sure you're Sigma, you're probably not.
I identify with a lot of this, but I'm nowhere near as extreme, certain areas
You're absolutely right. But when guys see so much of what they are in what describes them then they can better understand who and what they are and can adjust themselves to get along with others better. Or not.
@@kylewilkinson6975 Yup, I can't disagree with that.
Two surefire ways to find out if someone is truly a friend...ask them to help you move, or loan you money.
a real friend would never ask 'a friend' for money to start with...
That's a good way to lose friendship is when you loan out money and they don't pay it back so the best thing to do is tell them I don't loan out money I go to the bank for that you should do the same thing
@@kurtbecker9609 This is true.. I couldn't imagine myself asking a friend for money. However, if they offered I would gladly take it and after I would get back on my feet, give it back with some money on top just to show gratitude. I believe it's fair.
I dont know how much of a coinidence this is, but I've learned that every one of my friends is a capricorn, and each of us are self employeed and very much independant sigmas. personally I run my own salad/mushroom farm and manage a second, but have started many businesses, everything from street food to clothing. It's a grind, not exciting life at all, just constantly putting in hours and rarely finding that high octane conversation
I must have been sigma all my life, but life gave me hope, I could find conscius people who are ready to talk things and share views, no matter if we agree in everything, the important is to experience life together and learn from it. If there is something fake someone just expose it. Sigma people are destinated to find what they came to live, truth and sensible life.
Thanks ☺️
A “sigma male” sent me this. Not sure what to do with this information because I’m not interested in being his friend in any way. 😂
This is a great post, and describes me to a tee, especially after the last two years.But the awful hipster footage really sucks. Still subscribed though.
At 70 I consider myself sigma, I have no friends whatsoever, I do have people I go fishing and hunting with but I couldn’t call one a friend. I have had two friends and both were in the services and both are dead, no person could ever come near the loyalty we had and no I am not gay 😂😂
It's all true. If you let someone in they are a friend for life if they stand by you. Other men don't like sigma male because they are intimidated with their women. If you love a woman that woman ❤️ is their queen and best friend.
Only one difference is a certain woman who is a beacon of light that could guide a jet plane in the night, she shines so bright 😎💖✨
Always thinking, probably too much. Definitely lone wolf with only a few friends but top friends.
I've always done my own thing and I succeed in what I need.
Hope is good aswell when needed.