As a 68yo….”friends (and family) is greatly over-rated, if I’m being my Sigma self. As such, my circle was largest in my 20s-30’s…but gradually disappeared by my 40s. No sweat!
I agree with you, but you also seem to be one who values friendship and honesty, theese people exist, they are rare, I can say that I found some friends too. They belive in the same values.
My exit had to be quiet. Nobody cared, or even noticed. Proves I made the right decision. Pain is the best teacher. The drill instructor inside all of us.
That's why a true Sigma is a steely-eyed, no-nonsense Critical Thinker, who puts what claims come his way, under the microscope of scrutiny and dogged cross examination. Basically it's, 'Sigma Radar On And Lookin' For Liars' is another way to think of the Sigma - as opposed to deeply superstitious Magical Thinkers who are stunted in adolescence and chase feelings and emotions over facts.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to be friend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people and taking away from their time resources.
I'm a bit of the opposite. I offer meaningful friendship and that is rarely reciprocated. It becomes very clear very quickly when someone has no intention of being a real friend, and that's when I walk away. I have very few friends except when someone needs or wants something.
same here 100%. I know that I am not going to help (or hang out with) most people, so I dont want anything from them either. I'd feel bad not reciprocating, so I decide to not get too friendly with them in the first place.
You worded that so nicely. I'm having the exact same approach, people call me selfish but I never deny it. I like my time and want to stay in control of it. I couldn't put that into words to explain to people. Your input helps shed the light on our blessing/ curse.
You nailed it, to make sense of who I am. But sometimes it sucks being a Sigma Male, when all I want to do is fit in with people I know. I’ve been called, arrogant, an introvert, unsociable, and egotistical. That isn’t the case with either of those. I just don’t like idle chat about someone else doing whatever. Hi, my name is Paul, and I’m a Sigma male! Thanks Wise Thinker, for bringing things to light, making us guys realize, why we are, the way we are 👍😎 Thanks again 🙏💪😎
Yup when my wife died everyone abandoned me..I’ve been alone for over five years just grinding bettering myself when I go somewhere it’s alone..concerts shows etc..I’m totally different person than I was…wouldn’t mind a lady friend though not gonna lie lol
"In the grand scheme of things" I apparently don't have any problems, and my only usefulness is to listen to others difficulties and let them vent. No thanks I'm good, and don't want to hear it anymore !!
I love that the couple of ex military guys like me I keep in touch with can pick up a conversation where we left off even though we havent spoken in months or years.
Thank you. I’ve recently come across these types of sigma teachings and have found comfort in them. It’s funny when you try to share this with family and others to help them understand, they usually struggle and don’t fully embrace it. Honestly this makes perfect sense because we who know, have dealt with this misunderstanding and separation all our lives. Peace
This is 100% me but I met a woman that knows my thoughts and what I am thinking so that kind of made me feel uncomfortable because that means I felt completely safe with her but I also knew I needed to tight up my security. She’s the only one that I can be 100% me as the rest hate my honesty but I tell them you asked a question and I answered. I tell people don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to it. I don’t sugar coat things just to make someone happy or say what they want to hear. Am me and even if I care about you and your feelings and emotions I’ll still be blunt and honest even if it will make you become emotional and lose it. So I often times will ask people if they really want me to answer the question a few times before I answer it.
Your life becomes peaceful when you don’t have disingenuous people in your energy backward individuals make up most of society few are worth the effort.
That goes against the inherent behavior of Sigma's. They have no need or desire to be a part of a club/group/team etc., because the don't have that Alpha desire to stand out and be seen/ heard, nor do they have the need for constant validation from others.
Well, women for one don't understand men to begin with, so there is that. They cannot comprehend how we can sit on the couch with a wings and beer, watching sports, action movies, etc. etc and be absolutely happy and content. It's beyond their comprehension.
Today I asked a person a question.... He just knoded his head... It was not a YES OR NO... SO HE WAS NOT LISTENING TO THE QUESTION.. JUST LOOKING LKE HE WAS LISTENING.. I DONT NEED THIS...
I am sigma and i ha e many "friends" yet the only real friend i can rely on is myself. I never asked anyone for anything but everyone has no shame to ask me for everything. I notice everything but i accept people for what they are the good the bad and the ugly. I lead through example, i judge no-one but i am strictest with myself first. Things will get worse as people having mental breakdown, dont lose yourselves giving yourself to someone who really is lost. Trust only in your intentions.
well said, I agree 100% and same experience. I honestly cant remember the last time I asked anyone for anything, yet everyone asks me for help, feedback, etc because I have a wide variety of skills and knowledge (sigma always learning new skills) so at age 52 I have a strong foundation in a LOT of things. It's easier to achieve that without worthless friends sucking your time and energy every day. The amount of stuff you can accomplish/learn ALONE each day is beyond what non-sigmas can comprehend.
@@chessapk5034 also I care passionately for the people around me, yet my biggest lesson through actual revelations was that no matter how much I want to be the difference in thi world, sometimes I have to accept that I am acting against the forces of nature/karmic energies.
Men as we age, our circle becomes smaller if not outright diminish all together. Why? Generally speaking, our families consume our time, kids, grandkids. We no longer need our buds to help us move or do projects, as you get older, you can afford to pay someone to do those things for you. Brain chemistry changes, personalities, tastes, people move, hobbies are no longer as important. And as those things change, our friends do too, or we no longer have the energy to put into having friends.
That "mask" is actually not figurative, its so real that it is frightening! It was almost plastered on to my face, i got the chills to my bones when it was very close getting plastered on to my face. I just wanted to try it and it was one of the biggest lessons of my life.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to befriend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people taking away from their time resources. I also get annoyed, knowing that most people come to people with problems and wanting to went aren’t really looking for solutions to what’s bothering them. Im a man, I’m logical and reasonable and we waste my time if you’re not going to implement solutions.
My wife always ask me how come you don't want any friends,you need to talk to a friend. I always tell her I have yiu, that all I need. Everything said on this video is so true. I always tell my wife about lol who are being fskr
There are only two types of people in the world. There are those who are blessings, and those who are lessons. I don’t have the time or desire to sort through the pile.
I'm a sigma male i love when people always blame everybody else for there own mistakes and want to tell me about it funny they never tell me again 😂😂😂 wierd they never like to hear the truth 😅😂😅
Yes, I have physical issues, but this Sigma problem seems to define much of my reluctance to go to church. I have been invited to a Bible study also. But I have no tolerance or patience for listening to guys' ignorant opinions. If they are not serious readers and serious thinkers then their opinions are worthless. I often mumble to myself "I don't care what people think." Most people merely recycle what had never been worth saying.
You have to be Honest with yourself, first. The rest falls into place. Sigma. I'm interested in what makes a person tend to be sigma ?? First born ? etc....
Yeah. "Explanations" are nothing more than a barrage of lies with the intent of simply wearing you down to the point where you give in and except the wrong-doing so they can continue using you. I don't have the time and patience for that garbage. If I tell you you effed up then fix yourself or get lost. Simple. Honest.
people always seem inauthentic & a disappointment. its too bad. i miss the 1950’s ive. never been there but im sick of the monsters that arent wecome on maple (canada) street.
1--true, 2 true, 3 true, 4 very true...wish i had one of those, 5 yup, 6 unfortunately yes, 7 not necessarily but that is changing fast. I think sigma males are in short, psychologically damaged goods. They emerge from it syronger, but much more alone.
If you “sigma” fellas want honest feedback, you’re chasing an excuse. There’s no “sigma” males, there are just people. You just want to feel validated, and I understand, but the most important lesson you can learn in life is you aren’t special. You are but a passing blip in time.accept it or don’t, but you are being manipulated by these types of videos.
Stop with your silly latin word games. Trying to trend these terms because your old trend is dying on the vine. "Toxic" has faded into the pit of hell where it came from and you silly simple fools are trying to re-label men another way. Heres the truth. There are men and there are boys.
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First time I've heard this side verbalized.
"Nail on the head" comes to mind.
As they say, action speaks louder than words, less people in your life the better, dogs are best friends period 😊
As a 68yo….”friends (and family) is greatly over-rated, if I’m being my Sigma self. As such, my circle was largest in my 20s-30’s…but gradually disappeared by my 40s. No sweat!
I agree with you, but you also seem to be one who values friendship and honesty, theese people exist, they are rare, I can say that I found some friends too. They belive in the same values.
My exit had to be quiet.
Nobody cared, or even noticed.
Proves I made the right decision.
Pain is the best teacher.
The drill instructor inside all of us.
I hate fake people. Fake laughter is a clear signal that someone is fake, and it's pretty easy to spot.
Hahaha 😏
All day
we are good at spotting grifters, users, con artists. Truth hurts , they hate honest feedback.
Yes.
That's why a true Sigma is a steely-eyed, no-nonsense Critical Thinker, who puts what claims come his way, under the microscope of scrutiny and dogged cross examination.
Basically it's, 'Sigma Radar On And Lookin' For Liars' is another way to think of the Sigma - as opposed to deeply superstitious Magical Thinkers who are stunted in adolescence and chase feelings and emotions over facts.
The old adage...I rather be alone than wish I were.
Never give up your peace of mind
I'm taking that one 😅
I'd rather be alone than miserable.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to be friend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people and taking away from their time resources.
I'm a bit of the opposite. I offer meaningful friendship and that is rarely reciprocated. It becomes very clear very quickly when someone has no intention of being a real friend, and that's when I walk away. I have very few friends except when someone needs or wants something.
same here 100%. I know that I am not going to help (or hang out with) most people, so I dont want anything from them either. I'd feel bad not reciprocating, so I decide to not get too friendly with them in the first place.
You worded that so nicely. I'm having the exact same approach, people call me selfish but I never deny it. I like my time and want to stay in control of it. I couldn't put that into words to explain to people. Your input helps shed the light on our blessing/ curse.
Friends aren't kept. They happen.
@ a person can choose whether they want to make the effort to make someone a friend.
You nailed it, to make sense of who I am. But sometimes it sucks being a Sigma Male, when all I want to do is fit in with people I know. I’ve been called, arrogant, an introvert, unsociable, and egotistical. That isn’t the case with either of those. I just don’t like idle chat about someone else doing whatever. Hi, my name is Paul, and I’m a Sigma male! Thanks Wise Thinker, for bringing things to light, making us guys realize, why we are, the way we are 👍😎
Thanks again 🙏💪😎
I don't do well with fake friends. I will ditch them, especially if they lie to me or spot a weakness in their storyline.
Yes they get one chance to walk the tight rope.
People might think that this is nonsense. But surprisingly they nail a lot of important lessons about life in this video.
Number 3 is so true. I was there for everyone but when my life got hard no one was there. It just proved to me what I always knew.
Yup when my wife died everyone abandoned me..I’ve been alone for over five years just grinding bettering myself when I go somewhere it’s alone..concerts shows etc..I’m totally different person than I was…wouldn’t mind a lady friend though not gonna lie lol
3 is so true, but on every difficult situation, you can sort out your "friends" and keep friends.
Almost in my 50s and finally learned I've always been a sigma male. Good to know it's society that's screwed up and not me.
Absolutely agree I’m 53 and just had a revelation!
"Aloneness is the presence of one's self" - Unknown
"In the grand scheme of things" I apparently don't have any problems, and my only usefulness is to listen to others difficulties and let them vent. No thanks I'm good, and don't want to hear it anymore !!
I love that the couple of ex military guys like me I keep in touch with can pick up a conversation where we left off even though we havent spoken in months or years.
Thank you. I’ve recently come across these types of sigma teachings and have found comfort in them.
It’s funny when you try to share this with family and others to help them understand, they usually struggle and don’t fully embrace it.
Honestly this makes perfect sense because
we who know, have dealt with this misunderstanding and separation all our lives. Peace
This is 100% me but I met a woman that knows my thoughts and what I am thinking so that kind of made me feel uncomfortable because that means I felt completely safe with her but I also knew I needed to tight up my security. She’s the only one that I can be 100% me as the rest hate my honesty but I tell them you asked a question and I answered. I tell people don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to it. I don’t sugar coat things just to make someone happy or say what they want to hear. Am me and even if I care about you and your feelings and emotions I’ll still be blunt and honest even if it will make you become emotional and lose it. So I often times will ask people if they really want me to answer the question a few times before I answer it.
Your life becomes peaceful when you don’t have disingenuous people in your energy backward individuals make up most of society few are worth the effort.
I wish there was a forum or social group for JUST sigmas. So no time is wasted looking for like minded friends.
if you find one let me know
Well put. I am a sigma so that would be a great thing
Yeah problem is it's gonna be filled with other personality traits that think they are sigmas 😂
@ yeah I hear ya. But that’s fine. They out themselves in just a matter of time.
That goes against the inherent behavior of Sigma's. They have no need or desire to be a part of a club/group/team etc., because the don't have that Alpha desire to stand out and be seen/ heard, nor do they have the need for constant validation from others.
I stay to myself cuz from what I’ve seen most folks are fake & usually want something from you
Everybody has few real friends but they know a lot of people dose not make them friends
I used to have hundreds of friends. Just turned 70 alone and happy and realised I’m a Sigma mal. All good 👍
My wife of 22 years cannot understand why I chose to have very few friends and I'm completely fine with it. ~ 🤣🤣😎😎
Well, women for one don't understand men to begin with, so there is that. They cannot comprehend how we can sit on the couch with a wings and beer, watching sports, action movies, etc. etc and be absolutely happy and content. It's beyond their comprehension.
To me. A friend is someone you can trust in a foxhole during war. Very few.
Today I asked a person a question....
He just knoded his head...
It was not a YES OR NO...
SO HE WAS NOT LISTENING TO THE QUESTION..
JUST LOOKING LKE HE WAS LISTENING..
I DONT NEED THIS...
We do not suffer fools well.....
I have managed to live for six decades without ever once having a friend.
Awesome info. You're sharing gold ❤
I am sigma and i ha e many "friends" yet the only real friend i can rely on is myself. I never asked anyone for anything but everyone has no shame to ask me for everything.
I notice everything but i accept people for what they are the good the bad and the ugly. I lead through example, i judge no-one but i am strictest with myself first.
Things will get worse as people having mental breakdown, dont lose yourselves giving yourself to someone who really is lost.
Trust only in your intentions.
well said, I agree 100% and same experience. I honestly cant remember the last time I asked anyone for anything, yet everyone asks me for help, feedback, etc because I have a wide variety of skills and knowledge (sigma always learning new skills) so at age 52 I have a strong foundation in a LOT of things. It's easier to achieve that without worthless friends sucking your time and energy every day. The amount of stuff you can accomplish/learn ALONE each day is beyond what non-sigmas can comprehend.
@@chessapk5034 also I care passionately for the people around me, yet my biggest lesson through actual revelations was that no matter how much I want to be the difference in thi world, sometimes I have to accept that I am acting against the forces of nature/karmic energies.
Men as we age, our circle becomes smaller if not outright diminish all together. Why? Generally speaking, our families consume our time, kids, grandkids. We no longer need our buds to help us move or do projects, as you get older, you can afford to pay someone to do those things for you. Brain chemistry changes, personalities, tastes, people move, hobbies are no longer as important. And as those things change, our friends do too, or we no longer have the energy to put into having friends.
Absolutely 💯
You are a good and wise man. It would be an honor to be your true friend, sir.
Yes I am not antisocial but there are no suitable people who can hold a conversation with me because they can't go that far😅
Same.
I know the feeling. Meaningful chats are rare
Anyone trying to go to Mars? How we doing this?
This video is , life saver .
You're still heavy hitting brother! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Thanks!
They all love to help as long as it does not cost them anything.
Like sending hearted emojis.😅😅😅😅😅
That "mask" is actually not figurative, its so real that it is frightening! It was almost plastered on to my face, i got the chills to my bones when it was very close getting plastered on to my face. I just wanted to try it and it was one of the biggest lessons of my life.
I keep very few friends because I am very honest self-aware in the fact that I am selfish with my time. I’m also aware of how unfair it would be to befriend people in a meaningful way knowing that I am not going to reciprocate in a manner that they want. I have no trouble dealing with my own problems in figuring things out without burdening other people taking away from their time resources.
I also get annoyed, knowing that most people come to people with problems and wanting to went aren’t really looking for solutions to what’s bothering them. Im a man, I’m logical and reasonable and we waste my time if you’re not going to implement solutions.
😂😂😂Over time, I realized it's best to avoid those situations altogether; for me, discussing a problem without taking action just doesn’t make sense.
My wife always ask me how come you don't want any friends,you need to talk to a friend. I always tell her I have yiu, that all I need. Everything said on this video is so true. I always tell my wife about lol who are being fskr
I was told once, that friends are a dime a dozen... I cannot count to twelve.
Beware of “blood brothers” they’re usually the first to split when something happens
There are only two types of people in the world. There are those who are blessings, and those who are lessons. I don’t have the time or desire to sort through the pile.
Nail it 👍👍
We watch we see we hear we observe and calculate improvise adapt and
Overcome.🤔
Quietly 🤔😉
Well said.
Number 6!!!!! ❤❤😂
Your "beliefs" don't make you a good person. It is your actions that count...
Present 😊
Thanks!
💥💯💥
In general, people are phoney, the more I learn about the people around me, the more time I spend with my dog...
Gospel
I don’t need anyone, I can live live alone if needed.
I am content with few friends... And the older I get, the fewer I have...
Word
I don't do useless conversation.
What is the song in this video?
It doesn’t have a name. Just a combination of numbers and letters
@@Wise.ThinkerI've been wondering the same thing. Your videos have really good music & it adds to the effect of the video.
Appreciate it!
@@Wise.Thinker Let it be known as "Alpha Numerical"!!!! Just people will confuse the Alpha part..... 😂😮
I'm a sigma male i love when people always blame everybody else for there own mistakes and want to tell me about it funny they never tell me again 😂😂😂 wierd they never like to hear the truth 😅😂😅
describing yourself as sigma is soooooo corny
Yes, I have physical issues, but this Sigma problem seems to define much of my reluctance to go to church. I have been invited to a Bible study also. But I have no tolerance or patience for listening to guys' ignorant opinions. If they are not serious readers and serious thinkers then their opinions are worthless. I often mumble to myself "I don't care what people think." Most people merely recycle what had never been worth saying.
Experience.
🎯
Just described me.
I’m gonna send this to my wife. She going to think, “oh yeah, that fits…”
Facts
just don t invest in people , no one is there to help you ,
Number 3️⃣ is me to a tee,free therapy for whoever needs it
You have to be Honest with yourself, first.
The rest falls into place.
Sigma.
I'm interested in what makes a person tend to be sigma ??
First born ? etc....
Reminds me of the old saying,
Most people would rather be happy than right.
I have never heard something that so perfectly describes me to a T.
100%❤❤❤
I never knew that I was a “type”.
I do have friends. I just don't like people very much
We sigmas are just socially inept.
. . . Means that you’re an imposter - to even begin to think that thought …
‘ Socially inept-?..’ That’s the masses, the ‘wad’ - to quote Trevanian .
@donaldcook3112 oh, no! I'm a fake sigma?! Say it ain't so, Joe!
All 7 things happened with me😂
Ever see that shirt, no sheep in my circle?
Sigma males sometimes.... become, the "pin cushion."
Friends just use you when they need something or need a pat on the back
Waste of time
Yeah. "Explanations" are nothing more than a barrage of lies with the intent of simply wearing you down to the point where you give in and except the wrong-doing so they can continue using you. I don't have the time and patience for that garbage. If I tell you you effed up then fix yourself or get lost. Simple. Honest.
no need
people always seem inauthentic & a disappointment.
its too bad.
i miss the 1950’s ive. never been there but im sick of the monsters that arent wecome on maple (canada) street.
Making friends with SHALLOW PEOPLE...???????? For what...??????? For NONSENSENESS😅😂😂....??? No way...
I looked and found none
1--true, 2 true, 3 true, 4 very true...wish i had one of those, 5 yup, 6 unfortunately yes, 7 not necessarily but that is changing fast. I think sigma males are in short, psychologically damaged goods. They emerge from it syronger, but much more alone.
If you “sigma” fellas want honest feedback, you’re chasing an excuse. There’s no “sigma” males, there are just people. You just want to feel validated, and I understand, but the most important lesson you can learn in life is you aren’t special. You are but a passing blip in time.accept it or don’t, but you are being manipulated by these types of videos.
We don't get this far as mentioned in video as we know it's all fake so just don't bother in the first place
It's too bad more females don't watch these videos 😮
Mofos don't watch their mouths nowadays thats why
To much rubbish out there 😡
Open up and be honest with God, most everyone else will use your confidences against you...
Next video will be "How Sigma male goes to the toilet"
Sigma males are Dutch.
Stop with your silly latin word games. Trying to trend these terms because your old trend is dying on the vine. "Toxic" has faded into the pit of hell where it came from and you silly simple fools are trying to re-label men another way.
Heres the truth.
There are men and there are boys.
Hey, that's me!
Yeah I knew there was nothin wrong with me,
It’s all those other freaks 😂
💯🔥🔥🔥🔥💥🫵