By the way, you talked of us relaying information at a fast pace at certain occasions "this is because of the optimal speed our brain is used to processing data and now we just assemble and relay and hope that the person's brain can catch up". This also plays a role when listening to important information from someone, I literally have to do mental mathematics or just balance chemical equations so that I can bare the slow speech hence why I seem attentive but it is killing me. Other sigma men do tiny finger taps or movements , scratch their pockets or some tiny toe movements to balance the speed of person's talking pace. This both prevents reverting to what the sigma was thinking of whilst a person is talking and also helps keep track of various thoughts that need completing. I stopped using paper to keep track of thoughts because my house became flooded with things that I can not complete in this life time.
Samuel kundael, It sounds like you have a pretty good grasp of this. I’ve just watched a few videos so I don’t think I’m totally understanding it. A lot of these things fit me but not all of them. The main thing info t get is like how to actually know if this is you orj
Sorry accidentally sent before finishing. I was asking how do you know if this is really you or not? Like is it something in your brain? Is it something that has always been with you since birth or something that develops over time?
"Overthinking" things may be exhausting but it has helped me become more rational, follow lines of thought to reach logical conclusions, which is why Sigmas see what others can't.
My most loathed phrase is- "you are not doing it right"... when you are doing it faster and better than them haha! Just because you don't use someone else's technique or style, doesn't mean you are ignorant and inefficient.
I have been struggling to understand why I have felt out of place. I was unaware of the fact there was "sigma male". This knowledge has eased my mind a lot. I now know I am not the only one like this. Thanks
That is kind of the whole idea behind this scam. It gives people a comfort because they feel like they discovered an understanding of themselves but unfortunately it will be a temporary comfort because this sigma thing is not real it’s just a.made up label to generate money!
@@eddiehauser6661 I have a large % of Sigma male in me & I can tell you that the information in these video's is highly accurate and very informative for others to understand this complex personality type. If they make money explaining what a Sigma is then good for them! because these video's are awesome!
It doesn't make nothing easier, but it is satisfying to be aware that you are not alone right? And you are not weird, you are not mentally disabled like I bet people treated you like, and that you are just rare and your logic just make sense because you see the patterns they do not. The hardest part is to try to blend in, so don't. If they don't like you the way you are, just treat them like the air is wooshing by. Be a proud man, you can achieve so much.
Being asked to re-explain something doesn't bother me as much as fully explaining it, then having a (good) idea dismissed because they didn't understand, and didn't want to ask...
These videos helped me understand that it's ok to be this way and im not broken as I've been told my whole life. It's helped me elevate my life and mind. Thanks
You are not broken mate, you are you, and don't let anybody take that away from you, I came across this channel quite by random about 2 weeks ago, and as I watched the video it felt like for the very first time in my life, somebody truly understood me... It was almost spooky just how accurate this channel is when describing Sigma. I am 43 at the time of my typing this reply, so it has been a very long time without true understanding :)
I became sigma because of hard times in my life. I wasn’t born sigma, I started being different and didn’t even know that my personality is called sigma
It's like walking down memory lane, each phrase brought back memories from who said it & where I was when I heard it. Definitely one of my favorite videos.
This is true, I am not a sigma but my husband was like this. That is ok, I am chatting person but I wasn’t always like this. I use to just be quiet. But I like for someone to know How I feel. Sigma men, I do believe you can do whatever you set your mind to do. I guess I want give know more compliments. This sigma male video, is describing my dead husband. This is something I need to look at. I use to think he was arrogant, he was just this smart when it came to a lot of things. My son acts this way, he wonders why I understand him. He acts like his dad.
Good to hear you brightened up and understand things better now. And it would be a blessing for your son if you watched all of this channels videos about sigmas, Because as an old Sigma I can tell you these are the most correct and spot on in every sense and aspect. Some others make shorter videos like klickbaits and treats us like weirdos in their description. But we are neither weirdos or mystic, we are just hardwired like this. And there is just a few women that is able to live with us too, because we dont favor looks or social life, we want a trusting and loyal traditional wife that can take care of the home while we have the freedom to be ourself. A woman that can support us and sometimes make us laugh and that we can be a litle bit caveman with and that we give our life for because we just don't find love twice. I divorced and remarried the same woman 3 times because I was too much for her and I knew it, and she knew I was not this way on purpose and our love survived for almost 30 years now, and i KNOW that we will keep going for the rest of our lifes, but we found out that I need some solitude once in a while. I bet that is what you and your man found too, even if you never heard about waht a Sigma is, because its very rare and also just recently being a real thing that society is accepting. We do love and care, maybe more than others, we just do it our way. NEVER doubt your sons love for you, even if he is not able to show it the way many others do. He loves you and propably want a wife that cooks like you even, and is as loyal as you where to your husband, that gives you wonderful grandchildren to take care of and love.
I am both. Sometimes I feel irritated to explain again and feel my time is being wasted especially if after over explaining so that you understand you still don't get it
As a sigma, do not expect that others will like you, do not tell them who you are they will not believe you, just keep it secret, as long as you know what you do it's good, thank God, if you are hurt by them, just withdraw or listen to your favourite music, be fresh again, enjoy, savor the now, it will pass only once...
*THIS STORY WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE* *Struggling will make you stronger* 💪🏻 Once upon a time, a man found a butterfly that was starting to hatch from its cocoon. He sat down and watched the butterfly for hours as it struggled to force itself through a tiny hole. Then, it suddenly stopped making progress and looked like it was stuck. Therefore, the man decided to help the butterfly out. He took a pair of scissors and cut off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, although it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man thought nothing of it, and he sat there waiting for the wings to enlarge to support the butterfly. However, that never happened. The butterfly spent the rest of its life unable to fly, crawling around with small wings and a swollen body. Despite the man’s kind heart, he didn’t understand that the restricting cocoon and the struggle needed by the butterfly to get itself through the small hole were God’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings to prepare itself for flying once it was free. I Love You ❤️
I think that this site, is literally, for the few of above average intelligence.....and dumb stories would & should be frown upon. If you had said Nature.....the whole story would definitely made sense & not make it ignorant & weak. Sigmas hate weakling. The Wise_One
@@Ed_Wise Nah buddy, you're dismissing the Alpha Sigma Himself. The ultimate strong silent type, who knows the depths of your heart, how and why everything is, and how it will end.
@@129jasper1 I think you're referring to the Geoffrey Dahmer type.....!!! Wrong channel....."buddy".....(True Sigmas, we don't use "buddy" with strangers).
@@Ed_Wise Perhaps you found my comment opaque, bud, but yours is ridiculous again. I am suggesting that you not dismiss God, as that is something that pretentious people "of above average intelligence" are known for. For you to maintain that such a brilliant specimen as yourself just sprang from "Nature" is absurd. But...if you want to arise from dumb, unthinking processes, you can maintain that illusion well. (but you don't have to.) God bless you, "cuz "Nature" can't.
Ex-G/F (Terrible, terrible series of decisions on my part): "Does this dress make me look fat?" Me (without a second's hesitation): "No, your stomache does"
@TimeWave A certified sigma here. I'm better than I used to be at softening delivery of messages, but I speak freely and honestly. My intention is not to cause insult, just A LOT of delusional people can not handle reality, in my observation.
I'm not angry! This is my normal look, I'm actually happy, but I have no reason to smile about it, I already know I'm happy inside at this rare moment. No I'm not sad, I'm just thinking, leave me alone now.
I was always valued for being a superior explainer. I'd listen to a student tell me what he thought I said and then figure out from that where any errors might have been made in his thinking. I could actually see how he was thinking. Well you know. I pay attention.
I've spent my entire life trying to figure out why I was the "lone wolf," why I do the things I do, and what drives me. Sigma male explains it all. Could have used this info a few decades ago. Maybe we need some type of "Sigma" society? We are rare, do not conform, so deep in thought, and should be admired for what we are. Thank you for the info.
Asking me to explain it again or to speak slower drives me nuts. When people tell me that I am speaking too fast I tell them they are listening too slowly. If they tell me that it's too much information too quickly I tell them I cannot think as slowly as they do. If they want what I know it is up to them to catch up. I refuse to bend over and beg to be allowed to help someone.
@@jasongibson5745 Agreed. I can help with helping with a "Lightbulb Moment", but I can't attach the bulb, then I think to myself, "Teach youself, like I did."
Depends on the situation. If it’s my job, or I’m trying to help someone who asked me to help them to understand something, I’m patient. But if it’s something I know they should already know, I’ll get quite annoyed with them, especially if they aren’t really focusing.
after i left my wife and i started running with the ladies of the night, they would call me edweirdo because i was so different from most of their clients, i have basically done things differently form most and when i hang around some people i called friends, the one thing they always said was if you can do it we will follow because i would think things out so that i would have a back up plan if things went down hill or i would made what ever adjustments i felt needed to either make things work or salvage what i was doing. people either hate me or like me and those that hate me also respect me for who and what i am
Me too. The speed of the video tho is perfect for memory speed. If you are able to remember everything said whilst thinking of something else, then you are smart but if you do not remember anything, you most likely have attention deficit behavior.
@@samuelkundael3503 pretty sure I do have attention deficit most likely. I'm just starting medication . I'm hoping the breathing is something I can use to focus on things I wouldn't have deemed important enough to pay attention to before.
Managers or people in a more senior position to myself in the workplace who try to convince me they know me better than I know myself, or they know what’s best for me! It’s as almost annoying as them thinking I am so naive or unintelligent as to believe them!
I have always had this issue. Once an idea is finalized, additional input from a person distorts everything and I have to explain why their idea is flowed and need to return to completing what I had in mind. It is time consuming and leads to a mental breakdown. I can not even teach a person something because I feel like smashing the knowledge in their brain. There are just too many inputs to form the correct logic to the highest possibility of success and it is annoying to try explain the entire process especially when in consists for years of continuous data collection, processing and verification. My writing is several sentences preceding current thought so there might be some errors.
It’s mind boggling that the very same things that intrigues people (and ultimately attracts them to the Sigma male) are the very same things that those people inevitably try their best to change about the Sigma.
"Can you explain that again?" When I owned a software consulting company that I created, I was constantly inventing new technology. As I invented a new approach to something, I took care to clearly document the full breadth of that technology and how it was to be applied, in easily understood prose. Those documents I distributed to my employees. As a result, I never had to field the question, "Can you explain that again?"
I've just had a difficult phone call with my girlfriend and even though we started the conversation in a happy mood I was getting angrier as the call went on. She kept on pushing me to have the same feelings as all the "normal" people and I hate to always point out that I am just built different and autistic. I tried ending the call on a good note but it still sits with me. Watching this video calms me down because it helps me understand what has just happened.
Regarding number seven, I smile every morning because it activates the center of the brain that releases dopamine. Once I learned this, I started to make it routine. It helps make my days go much smoother.
You won't get it. We solve problems and find joy in the tricky methods required in finding the solutions in completing a task. You are not the person of interest but the objective tends to be accomplishing a personal goal.
@@samuelkundael3503 I identify as sigma. I quoted it because I get it. I struggle with everything mentioned in this video, that being the most prevalent. I hate praise.
@@PinM3 Same :D Someone else in the comment section just found out he had attention deficit disorder thinking he was sigma. best day of my life. I understand the concept of praise but I always found it awkward. It's more like just toss me the trophy and everyone get back to what they were busy with because it bares no fruit for them. A thank you suffices because it gives hope that the person I helped might show that kindness to someone else. It's free and to reach where we are at, we too might have been in that situation.
Sigmas realize that thinking is not only about the actual issue they are facing or puzzle they are trying to solve at the moment; but that the act of OVER THINKING, helps to develop the ability to think even better in the future. Most people miss this fact. That's one of the reasons why a Sigma will dismiss anyone who says that, as being really ignorant. Overthinking teaches you to think PAST THE PAIN, PAST THE FIRST CONVENIENT ANSWER, it causes you to ASK MORE QUESTIONS, & MORE POTENT ONES. It teaches you HOW TO THINK ON MANY LEVELS FROM MANY ANGLES, SLOWLY and QUICKLY, while UNDER PRESSURE and AT LEISURE. It familiarizes the Sigma with DIFFERENT THINKING STYLES and MODES and which ONES ARE BEST FOR WHICH OCCASSIONS. They learn what their own handicaps are, what others' are, and how to navigate that. Most people are never taught HOW to think; and therefore, they think it is hard. They avoid it whenever possible. Whereas the Sigma leans into the pain; and comes away with genius ideas and plans. They're not just about book knowledge or street smarts, or learning from watching or learning from hearing people talk, or learning from reflection; but they employ ALL of this in a beautiful synergy. They really love APPLIED LEARNING that takes an idea or a plan to the next level. DM
While a little appreciation is always welcome, overdoing it sets off some alarms. It's good to be valued in a thankless world. But I don't need a bootlicker. Be honest.
It's words. They have absolutely no power whatsoever, unless you assign power to them. Sticks and Stones, breaketh they my bones, yet thy words shall never hurt me.
In my last conversation with my father. He told me something that resonates. He said "you overthink everything. And maybe that's why you're never wrong. Please take care of your mother" those are the last words I heard from my father. I have no idea what a sigma is. I know that my father was an empath and I suspect I might be a super empath. But I can't spend a lot of time thinking about this order thing. People literally live and die based on the decisions I make. I find videos like this very interesting. But maybe I'm misunderstanding something. I'm not sure why a sigma would pay a lot of attention to this sort of video.
Things which you describe are very similar to me but I’m more agressive, direct and ruthless in my life, everyone is just a different human with different personality
@@youngmaster2072 agressive, direct and ruthless is typical from Alphas... that's NOT Sigma's. Sigma are exactly the opposite of these behaviors (Diplomatic and educated, that doesn't mean that they just can leave without a word but it will not be ruthless).
Damn, a label. Makes sense. So now I know why I am the way I am. I hope this helps others (non Sigmas) understand Sigmas. I kind of liked the strange label. It kept people away.
I don't mind reexplaining myself ,but don't tell me you get "it" if you don't get "it", and then fock it up. I call this the "it" factor, some people get "it", some people have"it" some people don't, some people dont have "it", but will if you invest some time. Some people will never get "it". Once I understood this and learned how to identify who could and couldn't I began to like people more.
It looks like u’ve seen my life and when these points!! All are so matching and it is disappointing when people say like that😠 especially to be normal. But finally we will prove our worth by our actions as we are sigma males 😎🤟🏻
#3 if i realise someone is really willing to learn iwill reexplain, but if i noticed that this person said it to manipulate i shut completly down #4 my ex gf said im too boring while i made my businesses, because she dont get fully attention ahaha In my company my boss said that milling gummi is impossible, now im the only one machining gummi 😂 I smile firsr for defending myself and second for express truly love because in that moment i love i found a person who want truly talk with me... I questioned a lot in my rl but stayed loyal to the end because i know my biological and psychological side and how the world of values behave... You should give up makes the opposite! Funny thing is all my family members say im too consequent.. but its also a part to realise what your faults were on your parth to grow Btw im an infj. And when i see an alpha in thr gym i laughed for me they are clowns who try to knock on the surface
It's not that Sigmas are confident and don't need recognition. It's that they don't need praise from others, because only their own feelings of success or failure matter, not praise from others. It's simple. Praise is awkward, partly because we know most people only give praise when they want something.
I didn’t crawl I walked first I was in a 12 month coma learned how to walk n talk again yup yur right ain’t no giving up I don’t knw them words not in my vocab yes I gotta dumb down myself to talk to people
And today I literally found out I’m a sigma male I just did not know all these years because I started to recognize in high school I didn’t fit in with the rest very well only with a very few people but I didn’t know what it was at the time
Many people want to play around and pretend that there's something they're not and it really is agitates me to point to no end if you don't want to mean you know they ask me what is the Lone Wolf they want to sit here and no one play around and play a character and and all that sometimes I actually just really dropped me up the wall so long rules or not created naturally they're created through circumstances so to speak it could be a trauma during a childhood it could be being an outcast from a group of people that usually want to include others they want to push you away then turn around and ask you what's wrong with you and so forth hope you can get where I'm coming from on this most people don't understand why lone wolves are created and remain on rules for that purpose so to speak I know I'm a little bit hard to understand but I hope you get where I'm coming from
Are sigma men born or created...? I have my own hypothesis.....based on my personal experiences....but would like to know what others think. The Wise_One
Some are born, and with some it’s a behavior(like rejection and mockery since childhood and later becomes powerful in their thinking in their adulthood)Z.
0:36 define normal in the broader sense. It’s very difficult to do. It’s easy to define normal, like what’s normal for a car? Err not smoking from the bonnet that’s not normal but try to define it in the broader sense it’s near impossible to do.
Nobody is 100% exactly that is ridiculous. Clusters of traits matter more and actions say everything about people. The main thing here is Sigmas are predictably unpredictable but very reliable and loyal...until let down. I always give one clear warning before dropping the guillotine blade.🎉
Explain that again! No, because I did not even say all the things going thru my head and spent a ton of energy ti simplify it for you to understand and speak slowly and clear, to give you chance to comment and ask during my explanation! When someone says that, I just go on to next point, they are not going to understand if I fed them with a spoon anyway. I know it is rare, but I am lucky enough to have a cousin that is also a sigma. We have conversations speaking seamingly at the same time about different things for people. We just answer things the other asked about or commenting it after thinking it over for a minute while still continuing the conversation. That is the only thing I can understand people think is weird about us. But we don't conversate this way with someone else anyway, so they do not need to understand. Still they try to! That makes no sense to me. I whish other people was able to think about one thing at the same time hearing and recieving. For me that is a blessing to conversate with my cousin because it feels so effortless, like we are the only one speaking eachothers language.
This sigma has something to tell humanity. It is what I have come to see after 7 years of study. The book 'The Bible Code' reveals a wisdom code within Genesis that apparently can prophecy. The last prophecy discovered and revealed says CODE WILL SAVE. I don't care what anyone says. I think I know how and what code will save. It is the code of Revelations 13 18. You have to understand evil to conquer it. You must have its number. Having someone's number means you know what they are about, and you can see what they are up to, good or bad. Having the number of evil gives you the power to constrain it. Rev 13 18 is a wisdom code. It CONTAINS, in ENGLISH, the knowledge of good and evil. ENGLISH was created to contain this code. This code has been secreted by evil men to enslave Mankind. They worship the code and think they are obeying its evil knowledge... That S.... N will reward sin. The longer they use it without opposition, the stronger they think they become with their big weapons. With tech power, they hope to sustain themselves as masters of the human race for all time. Only the good side, the upside of wisdom can win this struggle. The wisdom code contains the power to control the evil within the code. This is the power of Faith and Love. When humanity learns the power of faith and love, from this code, Love will dominate the actions of Mankind. This code will be taught to Mankind... How with Love and Faith, as Love being Heaven Will, Humanity can keep evil down, for all time. This is how CODE WILL SAVE. This is how there will be Peace on Earth, of Free Will. This will set Mankind free. The Meek( the humble) will inherit the Earth. Thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. This is the fate of God's Mankind... . To become the God's Kind Man. This is Heaven Will.
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By the way, you talked of us relaying information at a fast pace at certain occasions "this is because of the optimal speed our brain is used to processing data and now we just assemble and relay and hope that the person's brain can catch up". This also plays a role when listening to important information from someone, I literally have to do mental mathematics or just balance chemical equations so that I can bare the slow speech hence why I seem attentive but it is killing me.
Other sigma men do tiny finger taps or movements , scratch their pockets or some tiny toe movements to balance the speed of person's talking pace. This both prevents reverting to what the sigma was thinking of whilst a person is talking and also helps keep track of various thoughts that need completing. I stopped using paper to keep track of thoughts because my house became flooded with things that I can not complete in this life time.
thx for this 🙏🏽🐺
Samuel kundael, It sounds like you have a pretty good grasp of this. I’ve just watched a few videos so I don’t think I’m totally understanding it. A lot of these things fit me but not all of them. The main thing info t get is like how to actually know if this is you orj
Sorry accidentally sent before finishing. I was asking how do you know if this is really you or not? Like is it something in your brain? Is it something that has always been with you since birth or something that develops over time?
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"Overthinking" things may be exhausting but it has helped me become more rational, follow lines of thought to reach logical conclusions, which is why Sigmas see what others can't.
So do you think the only people who can think rationally and get to complex answers are sifl males?
Lol yes I overthink and over analyze everything. It's a gift and a curse.
Yep. It is how you get better.......at everything
Damn well said @MR.X
So true my mind never rests
You missed two of the biggest things never to say... That won't work and you cannot do that!!! Nothing pushes me over the edge more.
Oh man!
Brother I've dealt with that all my life.
Most of the time right after I did it right in front of them. Me," yes I can I just did it!."
Dude you shouldve done this video cause i soon as i read those two phrases i got mad lol
You and me both!! 💯
@@coreywardlow2213 right 😂 😂 😂
My most loathed phrase is- "you are not doing it right"... when you are doing it faster and better than them haha! Just because you don't use someone else's technique or style, doesn't mean you are ignorant and inefficient.
I have been struggling to understand why I have felt out of place. I was unaware of the fact there was "sigma male". This knowledge has eased my mind a lot. I now know I am not the only one like this. Thanks
That is kind of the whole idea behind this scam. It gives people a comfort because they feel like they discovered an understanding of themselves but unfortunately it will be a temporary comfort because this sigma thing is not real it’s just a.made up label to generate money!
@@eddiehauser6661 no worries Eddie. Whatever you say....😂
@@eddiehauser6661 I have a large % of Sigma male in me & I can tell you that the information in these video's is highly accurate and very informative for others to understand this complex personality type. If they make money explaining what a Sigma is then good for them! because these video's are awesome!
@@eddiehauser6661 Eddie you dip stick your on here in comments to let people know its a money thing
It doesn't make nothing easier, but it is satisfying to be aware that you are not alone right? And you are not weird, you are not mentally disabled like I bet people treated you like, and that you are just rare and your logic just make sense because you see the patterns they do not. The hardest part is to try to blend in, so don't. If they don't like you the way you are, just treat them like the air is wooshing by. Be a proud man, you can achieve so much.
The Sigma male seeks and finds the confirmation of his value in the results of his deeds, not in the other people's eyes.
so true. sigma male spends much time analyzing propaganda fed to masses to decide what is logic and what is fluff
My family sussed out I was a lone wolf from a very young age. It was called being a hermit back then.
Good thing if they accepted it at least
Being asked to re-explain something doesn't bother me as much as fully explaining it, then having a (good) idea dismissed because they didn't understand, and didn't want to ask...
These videos helped me understand that it's ok to be this way and im not broken as I've been told my whole life. It's helped me elevate my life and mind. Thanks
You are not broken mate, you are you, and don't let anybody take that away from you, I came across this channel quite by random about 2 weeks ago, and as I watched the video it felt like for the very first time in my life, somebody truly understood me... It was almost spooky just how accurate this channel is when describing Sigma. I am 43 at the time of my typing this reply, so it has been a very long time without true understanding :)
Amen Friend
I became sigma because of hard times in my life. I wasn’t born sigma, I started being different and didn’t even know that my personality is called sigma
@@marcusmckenzie9528 ya i understand that. i just hit 38 and found out. What could've been done with that info earlier
It is good to know I'm not alone out there
It's like walking down memory lane, each phrase brought back memories from who said it & where I was when I heard it. Definitely one of my favorite videos.
This is true, I am not a sigma but my husband was like this. That is ok, I am chatting person but I wasn’t always like this. I use to just be quiet. But I like for someone to know How I feel. Sigma men, I do believe you can do whatever you set your mind to do. I guess I want give know more compliments. This sigma male video, is describing my dead husband. This is something I need to look at. I use to think he was arrogant, he was just this smart when it came to a lot of things. My son acts this way, he wonders why I understand him. He acts like his dad.
Good to hear you brightened up and understand things better now. And it would be a blessing for your son if you watched all of this channels videos about sigmas, Because as an old Sigma I can tell you these are the most correct and spot on in every sense and aspect. Some others make shorter videos like klickbaits and treats us like weirdos in their description. But we are neither weirdos or mystic, we are just hardwired like this. And there is just a few women that is able to live with us too, because we dont favor looks or social life, we want a trusting and loyal traditional wife that can take care of the home while we have the freedom to be ourself. A woman that can support us and sometimes make us laugh and that we can be a litle bit caveman with and that we give our life for because we just don't find love twice. I divorced and remarried the same woman 3 times because I was too much for her and I knew it, and she knew I was not this way on purpose and our love survived for almost 30 years now, and i KNOW that we will keep going for the rest of our lifes, but we found out that I need some solitude once in a while. I bet that is what you and your man found too, even if you never heard about waht a Sigma is, because its very rare and also just recently being a real thing that society is accepting. We do love and care, maybe more than others, we just do it our way. NEVER doubt your sons love for you, even if he is not able to show it the way many others do. He loves you and propably want a wife that cooks like you even, and is as loyal as you where to your husband, that gives you wonderful grandchildren to take care of and love.
Condolences, health and prosperity to you and yours. ✌️
The only one I disagree with is number 3: "explain that again". I prefer to "over-explain" until I am understood.
I am both. Sometimes I feel irritated to explain again and feel my time is being wasted especially if after over explaining so that you understand you still don't get it
As a sigma, do not expect that others will like you, do not tell them who you are they will not believe you, just keep it secret, as long as you know what you do it's good, thank God, if you are hurt by them, just withdraw or listen to your favourite music, be fresh again, enjoy, savor the now, it will pass only once...
Truth!❤🎉😊
Being a Sigma helps me a lot in my job as a Trouble shooter
*THIS STORY WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE*
*Struggling will make you stronger* 💪🏻
Once upon a time, a man found a butterfly that was starting to hatch from its cocoon. He sat down and watched the butterfly for hours as it struggled to force itself through a tiny hole. Then, it suddenly stopped making progress and looked like it was stuck.
Therefore, the man decided to help the butterfly out. He took a pair of scissors and cut off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, although it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.
The man thought nothing of it, and he sat there waiting for the wings to enlarge to support the butterfly. However, that never happened. The butterfly spent the rest of its life unable to fly, crawling around with small wings and a swollen body.
Despite the man’s kind heart, he didn’t understand that the restricting cocoon and the struggle needed by the butterfly to get itself through the small hole were God’s way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings to prepare itself for flying once it was free.
I Love You ❤️
I think that this site, is literally, for the few of above average intelligence.....and dumb stories would & should be frown upon.
If you had said Nature.....the whole story would definitely made sense & not make it ignorant & weak.
Sigmas hate weakling.
The Wise_One
Sounds like ancient Chinese fairytale. It’s meaningful but I’m pretty sure it’s a xerox 🤣
@@Ed_Wise Nah buddy, you're dismissing the Alpha Sigma Himself. The ultimate strong silent type, who knows the depths of your heart, how and why everything is, and how it will end.
@@129jasper1 I think you're referring to the Geoffrey Dahmer type.....!!!
Wrong channel....."buddy".....(True Sigmas, we don't use "buddy" with strangers).
@@Ed_Wise Perhaps you found my comment opaque, bud, but yours is ridiculous again. I am suggesting that you not dismiss God, as that is something that pretentious people "of above average intelligence" are known for. For you to maintain that such a brilliant specimen as yourself just sprang from "Nature" is absurd.
But...if you want to arise from dumb, unthinking processes, you can maintain that illusion well. (but you don't have to.)
God bless you, "cuz "Nature" can't.
Ex-G/F (Terrible, terrible series of decisions on my part): "Does this dress make me look fat?" Me (without a second's hesitation): "No, your stomache does"
I suggest it was a perfect way to achieve an upgrade in GF with better figures.
Ahaha i said she is not fat she is simply not proportional and her diaphragrm is the problem why she has a rounded belly...
Facts don't care about feelings... Don't ask questions you don't want answers to.
@@3nt3rtain learned that to, was rude to say something like that
@TimeWave A certified sigma here. I'm better than I used to be at softening delivery of messages, but I speak freely and honestly. My intention is not to cause insult, just A LOT of delusional people can not handle reality, in my observation.
I'm not angry! This is my normal look, I'm actually happy, but I have no reason to smile about it, I already know I'm happy inside at this rare moment. No I'm not sad, I'm just thinking, leave me alone now.
ME2!🎉❤
When i care, i dont leave
When i leave --- i dont care
I was always valued for being a superior explainer. I'd listen to a student tell me what he thought I said and then figure out from that where any errors might have been made in his thinking. I could actually see how he was thinking. Well you know. I pay attention.
I've spent my entire life trying to figure out why I was the "lone wolf," why I do the things I do, and what drives me. Sigma male explains it all. Could have used this info a few decades ago. Maybe we need some type of "Sigma" society? We are rare, do not conform, so deep in thought, and should be admired for what we are. Thank you for the info.
Asking me to explain it again or to speak slower drives me nuts. When people tell me that I am speaking too fast I tell them they are listening too slowly. If they tell me that it's too much information too quickly I tell them I cannot think as slowly as they do. If they want what I know it is up to them to catch up. I refuse to bend over and beg to be allowed to help someone.
(3) Explain it again: I disagree. Few things are more satifying than helping someone get to a "Lightbulb Moment" even if it takes multiple attempts.
it depends on the situation.
I do get satisfaction from those moments....but, my thought silently is, geez....how can simplify this more and, it gets frustrating
@@jasongibson5745 Agreed. I can help with helping with a "Lightbulb Moment", but I can't attach the bulb, then I think to myself, "Teach youself, like I did."
Depends on the situation. If it’s my job, or I’m trying to help someone who asked me to help them to understand something, I’m patient. But if it’s something I know they should already know, I’ll get quite annoyed with them, especially if they aren’t really focusing.
@@talisikid1618 Agreed
I've been watching and listening to all the sigma male videos and I can say for sure, that I'm definitely a sigma.
Glad i found this channel! Good video 👍
Number 3 is debatable. Depends on what kind of mood I'm in.
Moods, sometimes it just deeper thinking
after i left my wife and i started running with the ladies of the night, they would call me edweirdo because i was so different from most of their clients, i have basically done things differently form most and when i hang around some people i called friends, the one thing they always said was if you can do it we will follow because i would think
things out so that i would have a back up plan if things went down hill or i would made what ever adjustments i felt needed to either make things work or salvage what i was doing. people either hate me or like me and those that hate me also respect me for who and what i am
Did any Sigmas have a hard time getting through the video? By three, my mind was already elsewhere.
Me too. The speed of the video tho is perfect for memory speed. If you are able to remember everything said whilst thinking of something else, then you are smart but if you do not remember anything, you most likely have attention deficit behavior.
@@samuelkundael3503 pretty sure I do have attention deficit most likely. I'm just starting medication . I'm hoping the breathing is something I can use to focus on things I wouldn't have deemed important enough to pay attention to before.
Managers or people in a more senior position to myself in the workplace who try to convince me they know me better than I know myself, or they know what’s best for me! It’s as almost annoying as them thinking I am so naive or unintelligent as to believe them!
I just put my cursor at the bottom to read the sub-titles.
I would say the character Mike from Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul is a good example of a sigma male.
you mean finger ?
I have always had this issue. Once an idea is finalized, additional input from a person distorts everything and I have to explain why their idea is flowed and need to return to completing what I had in mind. It is time consuming and leads to a mental breakdown. I can not even teach a person something because I feel like smashing the knowledge in their brain. There are just too many inputs to form the correct logic to the highest possibility of success and it is annoying to try explain the entire process especially when in consists for years of continuous data collection, processing and verification.
My writing is several sentences preceding current thought so there might be some errors.
Thanks for sharing!
I can explain it to you, I can't understand it to you...
@@Wise.Thinker you are welcome. These videos are very informative and well put together. Awesome work.
It’s mind boggling that the very same things that intrigues people (and ultimately attracts them to the Sigma male) are the very same things that those people inevitably try their best to change about the Sigma.
"Can you explain that again?" When I owned a software consulting company that I created, I was constantly inventing new technology. As I invented a new approach to something, I took care to clearly document the full breadth of that technology and how it was to be applied, in easily understood prose. Those documents I distributed to my employees. As a result, I never had to field the question, "Can you explain that again?"
Your videos are always on point…💪🏾
Best ever video on Sigma males
I've just had a difficult phone call with my girlfriend and even though we started the conversation in a happy mood I was getting angrier as the call went on. She kept on pushing me to have the same feelings as all the "normal" people and I hate to always point out that I am just built different and autistic. I tried ending the call on a good note but it still sits with me. Watching this video calms me down because it helps me understand what has just happened.
Y'all are on point "why don't you smile?"
Regarding number seven, I smile every morning because it activates the center of the brain that releases dopamine. Once I learned this, I started to make it routine. It helps make my days go much smoother.
“Don’t try to motivate them with praise”
You won't get it. We solve problems and find joy in the tricky methods required in finding the solutions in completing a task. You are not the person of interest but the objective tends to be accomplishing a personal goal.
@@samuelkundael3503 I identify as sigma. I quoted it because I get it. I struggle with everything mentioned in this video, that being the most prevalent. I hate praise.
Number 6
@@PinM3 Same :D Someone else in the comment section just found out he had attention deficit disorder thinking he was sigma. best day of my life. I understand the concept of praise but I always found it awkward. It's more like just toss me the trophy and everyone get back to what they were busy with because it bares no fruit for them. A thank you suffices because it gives hope that the person I helped might show that kindness to someone else. It's free and to reach where we are at, we too might have been in that situation.
@@dirtywazza Got the gist. Have to note the punctuation these days. Cause it gets mixed :D
Who among you are INTJ or INFJ? 🙋🏻♂️🙋♀️
INTJ and proud.
Infj welcome to my fucking world of feeling and thinking and no one understands you
In the past i wonder why I am like this and different from other people and friends, but now i got the answer from this channel.
Sigmas realize that thinking is not only about the actual issue they are facing or puzzle they are trying to solve at the moment; but that the act of OVER THINKING, helps to develop the ability to think even better in the future. Most people miss this fact. That's one of the reasons why a Sigma will dismiss anyone who says that, as being really ignorant.
Overthinking teaches you to think PAST THE PAIN, PAST THE FIRST CONVENIENT ANSWER, it causes you to ASK MORE QUESTIONS, & MORE POTENT ONES. It teaches you HOW TO THINK ON MANY LEVELS FROM MANY ANGLES, SLOWLY and QUICKLY, while UNDER PRESSURE and AT LEISURE. It familiarizes the Sigma with DIFFERENT THINKING STYLES and MODES and which ONES ARE BEST FOR WHICH OCCASSIONS. They learn what their own handicaps are, what others' are, and how to navigate that.
Most people are never taught HOW to think; and therefore, they think it is hard. They avoid it whenever possible.
Whereas the Sigma leans into the pain; and comes away with genius ideas and plans.
They're not just about book knowledge or street smarts, or learning from watching or learning from hearing people talk, or learning from reflection; but they employ ALL of this in a beautiful synergy. They really love APPLIED LEARNING that takes an idea or a plan to the next level.
DM
While a little appreciation is always welcome, overdoing it sets off some alarms. It's good to be valued in a thankless world. But I don't need a bootlicker. Be honest.
I lost my last job because my lead person told me what I was thinking and how I felt.
this channel is amazing, rarely seen someone putting out content about sigmas - hitting the nail just perfectly
Spot on
Just perfect, thats exactly that !
This kind of talk to all sigma males, like me, is a lot like shaming. And shaming hurts!
Why?
It's words. They have absolutely no power whatsoever, unless you assign power to them. Sticks and Stones, breaketh they my bones, yet thy words shall never hurt me.
I'm sure I'm the first of my kind. I believe each archetype has a spectrum and I find myself on every type of archetype spectrum.
In my last conversation with my father. He told me something that resonates. He said "you overthink everything. And maybe that's why you're never wrong. Please take care of your mother" those are the last words I heard from my father. I have no idea what a sigma is. I know that my father was an empath and I suspect I might be a super empath. But I can't spend a lot of time thinking about this order thing. People literally live and die based on the decisions I make. I find videos like this very interesting. But maybe I'm misunderstanding something. I'm not sure why a sigma would pay a lot of attention to this sort of video.
Love you and this message B.Cranson.
Things which you describe are very similar to me but I’m more agressive, direct and ruthless in my life, everyone is just a different human with different personality
You then seems more an Alfa.
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@@jansaggiori7865 no just like alphas have many types so does sigma unless you feel all sigmas are in one box 🙄🙄
@@youngmaster2072 agressive, direct and ruthless is typical from Alphas... that's NOT Sigma's. Sigma are exactly the opposite of these behaviors (Diplomatic and educated, that doesn't mean that they just can leave without a word but it will not be ruthless).
@@jansaggiori7865 so sigmas cant be agressive, direct and ruthless..... Your living in lala land
They don't care what you say or what you know they get the answers from what and how you respond to questions
Damn, a label. Makes sense. So now I know why I am the way I am. I hope this helps others (non Sigmas) understand Sigmas. I kind of liked the strange label. It kept people away.
Let my name be Mudd
Let my deeds be the foundation upon which you build your monument.
I don't mind reexplaining myself ,but don't tell me you get "it" if you don't get "it", and then fock it up. I call this the "it" factor, some people get "it", some people have"it" some people don't, some people dont have "it", but will if you invest some time. Some people will never get "it". Once I understood this and learned how to identify who could and couldn't I began to like people more.
It looks like u’ve seen my life and when these points!! All are so matching and it is disappointing when people say like that😠 especially to be normal. But finally we will prove our worth by our actions as we are sigma males 😎🤟🏻
I feel so identify with all said here.
wow. I'm a sigma. I never knew this. feel blessed 😊
#3 if i realise someone is really willing to learn iwill reexplain, but if i noticed that this person said it to manipulate i shut completly down
#4 my ex gf said im too boring while i made my businesses, because she dont get fully attention ahaha
In my company my boss said that milling gummi is impossible, now im the only one machining gummi 😂
I smile firsr for defending myself and second for express truly love because in that moment i love i found a person who want truly talk with me...
I questioned a lot in my rl but stayed loyal to the end because i know my biological and psychological side and how the world of values behave...
You should give up makes the opposite! Funny thing is all my family members say im too consequent.. but its also a part to realise what your faults were on your parth to grow
Btw im an infj. And when i see an alpha in thr gym i laughed for me they are clowns who try to knock on the surface
Thanks dad. 💪
Absolutely Beautifully...
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Forget about fishing.......
I love this channel ❣️
March 4 beat of their own drum. Hit hard
Sigma male doesn't care what you say
The more I listen to this the more I'm drawn in .....
That part!
'I forbid you' - that usually backfires.
It's not that Sigmas are confident and don't need recognition. It's that they don't need praise from others, because only their own feelings of success or failure matter, not praise from others. It's simple. Praise is awkward, partly because we know most people only give praise when they want something.
This is hilarious to me when i think back on events where these things have happened in my life!
Sigma For Life!!!
I didn’t crawl I walked first I was in a 12 month coma learned how to walk n talk again yup yur right ain’t no giving up I don’t knw them words not in my vocab yes I gotta dumb down myself to talk to people
This is a good content 🙌📹😁🔮
I thought I was unique, but these people on youtube paint a very accurate picture of me :)
True...
And today I literally found out I’m a sigma male I just did not know all these years because
I started to recognize in high school I didn’t fit in with the rest very well only with a very few people but I didn’t know what it was at the time
These terms used in these manners indeed causes turmoil in my thought process
Many people want to play around and pretend that there's something they're not and it really is agitates me to point to no end if you don't want to mean you know they ask me what is the Lone Wolf they want to sit here and no one play around and play a character and and all that sometimes I actually just really dropped me up the wall so long rules or not created naturally they're created through circumstances so to speak it could be a trauma during a childhood it could be being an outcast from a group of people that usually want to include others they want to push you away then turn around and ask you what's wrong with you and so forth hope you can get where I'm coming from on this most people don't understand why lone wolves are created and remain on rules for that purpose so to speak I know I'm a little bit hard to understand but I hope you get where I'm coming from
Are sigma men born or created...?
I have my own hypothesis.....based on my personal experiences....but would like to know what others think.
The Wise_One
Good question. Probably a little of both.
Interesting....and logical....!!!
Your born that way. extremely rare
Some are born, and with some it’s a behavior(like rejection and mockery since childhood and later becomes powerful in their thinking in their adulthood)Z.
Watch “where the crawdads sing” a typical sigma female. It’s a movie
Thats why certain social dynamics tarvet them.
0:36 define normal in the broader sense. It’s very difficult to do. It’s easy to define normal, like what’s normal for a car? Err not smoking from the bonnet that’s not normal but try to define it in the broader sense it’s near impossible to do.
Glad I found this channel 🎯💯
Welcome aboard!
#13. Your fly is open .
You can’t re invent the wheel? But what if make a better wheel?
True word
Exactly
Thanks.
How overthinking relates with procrastination
Failure is not an option.
Oh
My
Gawd
I never knew my type
Had a name‼️
Mostly Sagittarius........
Nobody is 100% exactly that is ridiculous.
Clusters of traits matter more and actions say everything about people. The main thing here is Sigmas are predictably unpredictable but very reliable and loyal...until let down.
I always give one clear warning before dropping the guillotine blade.🎉
I never knew where I fell into, I do now
Exactly what my husband said.
Exactly how I’m
im sigma and extreme pure introvert and ppls never understood me
Explain that again! No, because I did not even say all the things going thru my head and spent a ton of energy ti simplify it for you to understand and speak slowly and clear, to give you chance to comment and ask during my explanation!
When someone says that, I just go on to next point, they are not going to understand if I fed them with a spoon anyway.
I know it is rare, but I am lucky enough to have a cousin that is also a sigma. We have conversations speaking seamingly at the same time about different things for people. We just answer things the other asked about or commenting it after thinking it over for a minute while still continuing the conversation. That is the only thing I can understand people think is weird about us. But we don't conversate this way with someone else anyway, so they do not need to understand. Still they try to! That makes no sense to me. I whish other people was able to think about one thing at the same time hearing and recieving. For me that is a blessing to conversate with my cousin because it feels so effortless, like we are the only one speaking eachothers language.
My wife was listening in the background and tough that this video was about me....
You are Reall
Normal? What's that?
Abraham Lincoln was a high value sigma male.
Is that all what you can?
Normal is a setting on a dryer.
This sigma has something to tell humanity. It is what I have come to see after 7 years of study. The book 'The Bible Code' reveals a wisdom code within Genesis that apparently can prophecy. The last prophecy discovered and revealed says CODE WILL SAVE.
I don't care what anyone says. I think I know how and what code will save. It is the code of Revelations 13 18. You have to understand evil to conquer it. You must have its number. Having someone's number means you know what they are about, and you can see what they are up to, good or bad. Having the number of evil gives you the power to constrain it. Rev 13 18 is a wisdom code. It CONTAINS, in ENGLISH, the knowledge of good and evil. ENGLISH was created to contain this code. This code has been secreted by evil men to enslave Mankind. They worship the code and think they are obeying its evil knowledge... That S.... N will reward sin. The longer they use it without opposition, the stronger they think they become with their big weapons. With tech power, they hope to sustain themselves as masters of the human race for all time. Only the good side, the upside of wisdom can win this struggle. The wisdom code contains the power to control the evil within the code. This is the power of Faith and Love. When humanity learns the power of faith and love, from this code, Love will dominate the actions of Mankind. This code will be taught to Mankind... How with Love and Faith, as Love being Heaven Will, Humanity can keep evil down, for all time. This is how CODE WILL SAVE. This is how there will be Peace on Earth, of Free Will. This will set Mankind free. The Meek( the humble) will inherit the Earth. Thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. This is the fate of God's Mankind... . To become the God's Kind Man. This is Heaven Will.