Answering YOUR Relationship Questions And Sharing My MOST Unpopular Relationship Opinion...YIKES! 😱
Вставка
- Опубліковано 7 гру 2022
- #askmeanything #datingadvice #ClassicallyAbby #ClassicCrew #LetsBeClassic
GET ACCESS TO MY EXCLUSIVE CONTENT HERE: classicallyabby.substack.com
Hello classic crew and welcome to today's video! Today, I'm answering YOUR relationship questions and giving some classic advice about dating, marriage, and SEX. I'd love to hear your thoughts, so leave a comment down below!
Follow me on all social media @classicallyabby.
MY MAKEUP FAVORITES:
PRIMER: shop-links.co/cgEpAlrveqT
CC CREAM:shop-links.co/cgEpAlveWOR
CONCEALER: shop-links.co/cgEpAkV3qNL
EYELASH CURLER: shop-links.co/cgEpAkIZx3s
POWDER: shop-links.co/cgEpAlOqZJP
BRONZER: shop-links.co/cgEpAmkBYiu
BLUSH: shop-links.co/cgEpAmypSmI
LIP BALM: shop-links.co/cgEpAl1j9kF
EYEBROW GEL: shop-links.co/cgEpAlGRWzy
EYESHADOW ALTERNATIVE: shop-links.co/cgEpAmMnsNI
TWITTER: / classicallyabby
INSTAGRAM: / classicallyabby
FACEBOOK: / classicallyabby
PINTEREST: / classicallyabby
___________________________________________________
Hey! I'm Abby, the creator of Classically Abby. I'm a wife, mama, homemaker, opera singer, entrepreneur, UA-camr, and your guide to becoming the classic woman you've always wanted to be! If you want to know more, head over to www.classicallyabby.com/about...!
Business inquiries: please email me at classicallyabby382@gmail.com.
*Disclosure: This post may contain affiliate links, which means I may receive a commission if you click on a link and purchase something. Thank you for your support!
You and I completely differ in terms of politics, religion, lifestyle but I really enjoy watching your content. The way you articulate your points make it easy for someone with my view points to understand someone with your viewpoints. Always open to hearing opposite perspectives
Me too! I'm completely left wing politically (arguably far left) and not religious but choose more "traditional" romantic relationships (ie dating to marry & waiting to have sex), so i love hearing Abby's takes! She makes me feel less alone in my romantic pursuits
Same, politics and religion aside womanhood is something we all navigate, we need to do more to support and listen to each other.❤
@@frances5288 Key thing you said is lifestyle. Why are you watching her content if you don't agree?
I'm so happy to see women who can find things to agree on despite being so different! I'm a Biblical Christian and very right leaning, and this is the first time in years I have seen people that are left leaning not immediately attack people like us.
This comment thread has given me hope for humanity. People enjoying content that doesn't perfectly align with their political beliefs.
Hey girl! Would love to hear why you think men and women shouldn’t be friends. What if both are single but don’t have chemistry?
So much great advice Abby! One thing that surprisingly took me a long time to realize, in my marriage, was that we are on the same team. There is no place for a 'me vs. him' dynamic, and that mind shift has really helped me. Also, I do not go into a potential argument saying "never" and "always", besides likely being untrue, it was puts the other person on the defensive instantly, which is unproductive. You are absolutely right, watching your husband enjoy your children, and enjoying them together is THE MOST special thing! Priceless and irreplaceable!
I guess it runs in the family but you're an exceptionally good speaker 😁
Love this queen😍😍🥰need to find a hubby like yours 🤩you are so inspiring to young women like me❤️❤️love you to peices🙏xoxox
I would be careful about dating for marriage as a young adult or teenager- I ended up married at 17 as a result of that and it was a terrible idea- my ex husband was abusive, alcoholic and was out with other women. At that age it's far too young to know what you want in a man
The best way to handle an argument is with facts and logic
Speaking of cooking for your husband, I get Home Chef boxes of groceries each week, and it make home cooked meals so quick and easy! Last night, supper was done in 20 mins with no waste!
Love that! I wish I could do that but there's no kosher option lol!
This video was awesome. Thank you!
So glad you enjoyed it!
Love you Abby! 😘😘
I think for the wife of the video gamer husband. I had the same issue, because I was not investing enough time in myself. Maybe you need to get a hobby or make new friends. If you’re together less often then it’ll make the time your together more special and he’ll want to put the games away.
It’s also possible that he is addicted to the games and you need to discuss your concerns with him. If he asks, help him strategize ways to limit playing time. You can also encourage him to spend more time with other less addictive hobbies.
Also I will say, now that we have a baby he has no time for the games anymore. It maybe is just something in this season of life.
As a guy I disagree about the games. And this is coming from someone who in highschool and in the military I played for at least 6-8hours a day. I now have three boys and might play a game on my phone about 30min a week. In the beginning of my marriage i wish my wife would have steered me towards more masculine activities, which i do now and I'm a much better husband/father because of it.
I made it clear when we were dating that I’m traditional. He wasn’t raised that way, but he caught on because I led the way. I cooked, cleaned and made it clear it was ok for him to appreciate being my husband.
Wow, this is 'jam-packed' with good advice! Thanks Abby 🙂👍
Wow she really does look like her brother
Hi Abby! I wanted to ask a question for this Q and A but wasn't able to in time. I (20 female) and my husband (23 male) are expecting our first child. I'm preparing the nursery and speaking with my own mother as well as my mother in law and am having such a good time preparing for the first of what I hope will be a long line of children - God willing. A couple of days ago, my husband brought up the topic of names while we were in our garden, and we started a conversation about what we would name our child if they were a girl or a boy. I was raised Christian and wanted all our children to have Biblical names as it meant a lot to me. My husband on the other hand was not raised Christian but converted 2 years before we were married, and he didn't want Biblical names as he didn't think it was that important. I'm not sure how to get through to him as this is incredibly important to me. I hope you can help! God bless you and your husband, and god bless your sweet baby boy!
Maybe bring up names that are biblical without mentioning that they are biblical. See how that works. Jonah for example
My suggestion would be perhaps you can meet halfway by having a Biblical first name and non Biblical middle name- or vice versa- or even consider hyphenation!
@@missm-ky2od Thank you so much! You are a God send! I'll bring that up with my husband, just the type of adivce I was looking for!
@@beatrice5730 that's ok! All the best for everything ☺
Great Video ☺ thanks Abby!
Is it ok if I’m a lesbian and have a girlfriend or do I need to repent because I’m going to hell?
Repent. Lev 20:13
We are ALL born sinners in need of a savior. God has revealed himself and his intended design through creation itself. He has given us his Holy word written through the hands of sinners even so as God-breathed scripture. The Bible tells us that we can never buy our way to heaven because of our good works-- we are saved by grace through faith in Christ alone. Jesus says “You will know a tree by it's fruit.” in faith, we are called to repentence in honoring God by following his commands and not reveling in the sin which we once did. Though we often fall short, if you are truly sorry and repent of sin and trust in Him, he will give you a new heart. While we are still sinners as Christians, we have become new and no longer desire the things of the flesh. God designed man and women to join as one within the covenant of marriage, 1 man 1 woman. Anything outside of this is sexual immorality and is thus a sin. God so loved the world that He gave his only son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have ever lasting life.
God loves gay people
Trust me it’s the homophobes who are going to hell💀
Being a lesbian won't send you to Hell. Just treat your girl right, and expect the same from her.
a wonderful video, thank you!
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Allllllllll Gore Rhythm 💙😊❣️ Hope you're all well ladies 👋
Your comment section appear to be less negative then usual. This is a positive comments section and this pleases me. Keep doing good work Abby and stick to your guns!
Why youre such a beautiful
Where can I find a woman like you ?
In some remote place under a rock.
Abby where do you draw the line on dating men who don't make a lot of money. My boyfriend does not make enough that it will ever be feasible for me to be a stay at home wife or mom. I want kids very badly, but we will never be able to afford it 😞
What does he do generally? Or I guess is there a way for him to advance in his career? He might not make enough *now*, but with a few more years could his job be in a better place financially? Are you currently working to put you both in a better place financially so there isn't as much debt when you do leave the workforce?
This might stem from a deeper values misalignment. If you want to be a SAHM and he doesn't want that for you - are you really of one mind on your future together? This is something you two should sit down and discuss. You also need to evaluate if your dream of being a homemaker is too big for you to let go of, and if so, how can you work to make that a reality together? That will probably involve living farther out of the city, in a smaller house, and good budgeting capabilities. It's always possible, but there's a lot of nuance and sacrifice
I really like this, a lot of secular content does not align with my values.
I’m commenting because this video seems to be deboosted or something, 3 hours and only 645 views on a channel with 109k subs? No way
So you believe it is ok for a teenager to date for marriage? As a teenager myself, I find it very unsettling that a grown women is influencing people my age to date for marriage when that should be the last thing on a teenagers mind. That’s disgusting.
Why should it be the last thing on a teenagers mind? I’m a teenager btw and I don’t see anything wrong with thinking about your future and trying to find someone to marry.
Dating for marriage is the plan. It's better than being a "free spirit" as a teen, which is a synonym for "hooking up," which you want to stay far away from. Hooking up will absolutely WMD, destroy your life. Trust me. I wouldn't even advise you to date unless you're dating for marriage.
😆3 month old account
Why? Teenagers can want serious relationships. Ever heard of highschool sweethearts? I married mine.
Encouraging pointless dating and hook up culture for teens is FAR MORE disgusting.
So you’re a stay at home mom/wife but you don’t cook dinner everyday? The literal definition of useless
I know right?! There ain't nothin useful about anything but dinner!
🙄
Wow, Conservatives are so opposed to fun. Also "date for marriage in high school" is really bad advise.
What's heigh school?
@@TheSubygirl Sorry english is my second language
Millions of happy married couples would disagree. Dating for marriage is congruent with almost all religions on earth. In America, divorce rates are lowest among couples involving women who married young and had never had sex before marriage. Cheers!
She is saying if you’re going to date at all in high school, you should know that you are dating for marriage.
Fun? Is that a synonym for hooking up? I know exactly why conservatives are opposed to such disgusting acts, and I totally agree with them. Hookup culture is leading to the demise of society. Don't do it!
The words you use in this video and all your videos are very harmful to many people. Think before you talk.
I agree, Abby is unqualified and really has no clue what she is talking about.
Well, you can just not watch. If it offended me, I just wouldn't watch.
@briansolomon2969 that doesn’t change the fact that Abby has influence of people and has the power to make them self conscious and feel unworthy. Which is very worrying. People have every right to be concerned. Also doesn’t change the fact that Abby is clearly unqualified.
@@emilyjefferies4536 Everyone with a UA-cam channel or Instagram or any social media has that ability. Instead of censoring what anyone has to say, why not just not listen?
Poor Abby, she has very limited experience with anything and thinks her views are the only correct ones. So narrow minded. Hopefully she will mature one day.
Men and women and shouldn’t be friends? So all of us in my medieval reenacting group should stop hanging out and doing what we are doing? We’re men and women, a lot of married couples, all of us friends.
I like the part at 20:30