5 Ways To Build A FEMININE Community You LOVE

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  • @chimkinNuggz
    @chimkinNuggz 2 роки тому +16

    Im here because of flashgitz

  • @peacem8574
    @peacem8574 2 роки тому +21

    Just came from Flashgitz. Never heard of this channel before. She definitely is a dairy type.

  • @violetl1097
    @violetl1097 2 роки тому +25

    I have not been raised with religion and currently do not practice any form but have respect for those who do. I’m also what you could call very liberal in most of my values but I agree with many conservative values as well. I do wish for the close community & friendship that religion seems to bring. I really enjoy your content and wish women as a whole could come together to discuss the topics you cover more freely.

  • @cadencehogge8528
    @cadencehogge8528 2 роки тому +17

    Reconnecting with old friends, childhood friends, or parent's kids in the same area is an overlooked way to connect with people you may have already met. Clothes swaps, joint garage sales, walking/workout buddies, book swaps, and devotional studies are super easy things to implement and start with new acquaintances. Even if your closest friends are far away, it's always nice to have a few casual friends in your area!

  • @RelaxAlexX
    @RelaxAlexX 2 роки тому +13

    Did you watch the Flashgitz video? Its all about you :)

  • @bigup6641
    @bigup6641 2 роки тому +10

    When NFT? I will sell all i have to buy it! Plsssss plsssss

  • @LeviathanSpeaks1469
    @LeviathanSpeaks1469 2 роки тому +15

    FLASHGITZ SENT ME 🥛

  • @Iam_Celene
    @Iam_Celene 2 роки тому +24

    I’m a Christian and I’ve always had a love for scripture and the things of God and something thats interesting about me is I believe in a faith alone salvation and I’ve seen with a lot of believers my age, that even though we believe similarly on the basics, it can be hard to find someone who is a believer in my camp who also wants to live a clean life of principles and structure , and grow in their faith. I can only control myself though and I’ve been working with the Holy Spirit on being a wife for someone to find who might be looking for someone like me

    • @FamilyValuesTV
      @FamilyValuesTV 2 роки тому +4

      Praying that your husband finds you soon. 🙏🏽

  • @giggliegurl40
    @giggliegurl40 2 роки тому +11

    Thank you for this video Abby. I've been so lonely for years.. telling myself no one would want to be friends with me... I've moved to a new area and have been trying to find a church that works for me. I'm a little shy but trying to branch out a bit more.

  • @cloudan7125
    @cloudan7125 2 роки тому +18

    Abigail Shapiro one of gods chosen pokemon, Dairy type.

  • @MsK_in_CA
    @MsK_in_CA 2 роки тому +5

    I like to volunteer (usually with my church but others venues help too.) I’m not necessarily shy but I’m not outgoing and I’m bad at small talk. When I’m volunteering, people usually approach me and get the conversation ball rolling. I’m usually knowledgeable about whatever I’m volunteering for and that helps me hold up my end of the conversation. Then I feel comfortable much quicker. I’ve made some great, like-minded friends that way.

  • @madisonsimmons5586
    @madisonsimmons5586 2 роки тому +2

    I needed this! I recently got married and moved to a new city with my husband. Finding friends is hard but we found a church and I’m excited about new friendships!

  • @theyellowleaflassie5757
    @theyellowleaflassie5757 2 роки тому +2

    My family and I plan on moving to another country soon for my first year of college and I have been so worried about making friends. This is very encouraging.

  • @Iam_Celene
    @Iam_Celene 2 роки тому +1

    I was listening to your singing and I have chills when I listen to you. You have a beautiful voice!

    • @GSHAPIROY
      @GSHAPIROY 2 роки тому

      I'd like to hear her sing one of the Queen of the Night arias...

  • @alyssastone7162
    @alyssastone7162 2 роки тому

    Aw they last one made me feel a lot better about moving. Thank you so much Abby, I’m excited to make post covid friends!

  • @NashobaCreations2293
    @NashobaCreations2293 2 роки тому +14

    This is great advice, I love it! As a Pagan, it's a bit of a different experience for me. Usually we don't have a church or a house of prayer, our church is nature. At least for me it is, most witches or practitioners or whatever you call yourself, are solitary and work alone. But covens exist and they work the same in theory as church, alot of people get together usually at someone's house or outdoors to practice or do a group ritual or a group meditation etc. However, I noticed in recent years the Pagan community both in person and online has become a cesspool of toxicity and elitism. I practice alone and my best friend who lives in a different state also practices and we work together long distance. The Pagan community has become judgemental, angry, elitist, extremely liberal, rude, hateful I could just go on and on. I believe in God, but I also believe in the feminine aspect which is the Goddess and to say you believe in God or Jesus is a no no and you will be judged for it and bullied relentlessly. Another hot topic is the use of Sage for cleansing and practice, now I love it and I use it daily in my practice. But others find it to be "cultural appropriation" and you have no choice but to believe that too, I have tried to come up with counter arguments politely and respectfully and they bullied me so bad I had to delete entire social media accounts and hide for a month. I wish for people of other beliefs it was this simple, I'm sure you and your friends are lovely and if I ever met you in person, which I would love to, you wouldn't judge me or hate me for being Pagan. You seem so kind and open to everyone, thank you for this video I will try to do some things suggested here. ❤

  • @garyenwards1608
    @garyenwards1608 2 роки тому +6

    Look at those jubilees why has no one made an nft out of these yet

  • @halfwaytohomestead6066
    @halfwaytohomestead6066 2 роки тому +6

    I wish I was able to make friends without always being the one needing to initiate hanging out or talking. Maybe the friendship isn't mutual but I can't seem to find someone :(

    • @AM-bm2xw
      @AM-bm2xw 2 роки тому

      I completely relate to this!

  • @Breastsinmymouthplease
    @Breastsinmymouthplease 2 роки тому +6

    Flashgitz sent me

  • @TheFran1347
    @TheFran1347 2 роки тому +4

    I love the idea of co-hosting a party and having your friends bring someone you don't know. Such a simple and great idea!

  • @jamesbw2
    @jamesbw2 2 роки тому +17

    YES! this exactly what us women need to be hearing, thank you abby!

  • @LifeWithFlowers
    @LifeWithFlowers 2 роки тому +1

    Great job Abby! 👍🏽🌸

  • @adoptada12
    @adoptada12 2 роки тому

    Thankyou Abby 💛

  • @TerryAnnOnline
    @TerryAnnOnline 2 роки тому

    Great tips!

  • @TaylorYerian
    @TaylorYerian 2 роки тому +4

    I love this! I'm very introverted and prefer to be by myself, however the best friends I have in my life don't share the same values as me and that has started to effect our relationship. I decided to put myself into activities at my church and to also start up conversations with ladies my age, it's so amazing to see myself open up more and more these days. I'm so happy and thank God for my church family and the amazing ladies that I get to spend time with. I also love coming to this channel and knowing each time that I'm going to hear amazing advice that aligns with my life and beliefs, thank you for all you do Abby! ❤️

  • @R______P__CH____
    @R______P__CH____ 2 роки тому +2

    Can you post the link to that dress? I remember it from your Instagram post and I couldn’t find it on Amazon 😩

  • @robertmcginty4146
    @robertmcginty4146 2 роки тому +1

    That "BYYYEEE" R. I. P. Headphone users 🎧🤯

  • @remuspierre
    @remuspierre 2 роки тому

    Amazing advice

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому

    That is a gorgeous top!

  • @hereyougo7816
    @hereyougo7816 2 роки тому

    My small group in youth group is the most wonderful group of girls!!💖

  • @slotheatworld
    @slotheatworld 2 роки тому +6

    I would love women friends to talk about life and faith with. I don't know many Christian women around my age.

    • @estherk7174
      @estherk7174 Рік тому

      Good friends don’t have to be your age :)
      Find people who are selfless and kind.

  • @thebigone6071
    @thebigone6071 2 роки тому +11

    She seems like the kind of lady who organizes her kitchen utensils and appliances in alphabetical order “because she’s conservative”

  • @GratiaPrima_
    @GratiaPrima_ 2 роки тому

    Great tips! I’ve found now that I live in a bigger city, it’s hard to get close to people. Too easy to just blend into the crowd and be anonymous. I can be guilty of this. Gots to be intentional.
    I do love my church community, though! Sometimes the feeling of right, uplifting, contributing and reciprocating community is palpable. And it’s beautiful

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому +1

    Can I get some advice from the classic crew? I am very poor. I love dresses and skirts, and pretty clothes, but I cannot afford them. I want to look classic, but comfortable. I am unable to work, I have mental, neurological, and physical disabilities. So I get awarded government money. I volunteer, so I pay my debts to society. How can I look pretty and classic on an extremely tight budget?

    • @JessieAlmighty
      @JessieAlmighty 2 роки тому +3

      I buy most of my clothes from Goodwill! I've found some really pretty dresses and skirts there. Layering pieces, like cardigans, are also a staple in my wardrobe. God bless!

    • @shirleygiordano7627
      @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому +1

      @@JessieAlmighty , thankyou! I will find a goodwill!

  • @slayerdeth0705
    @slayerdeth0705 2 роки тому +3

    They are nice though.

  • @remuspierre
    @remuspierre 2 роки тому

    You have a beautiful voice

  • @jacksonmcgrath8929
    @jacksonmcgrath8929 2 роки тому +4

    Say hi to Ben for me Abbey

    • @RoyGBiv-lc8tv
      @RoyGBiv-lc8tv 2 роки тому +3

      Benny Boy debates young kids to indoctrinate them. Almost like the teachers in academia whom he endlessly criticizes.

    • @jacksonmcgrath8929
      @jacksonmcgrath8929 2 роки тому +5

      @@RoyGBiv-lc8tv well Ben says truth shit like Abbey

    • @jacksonmcgrath8929
      @jacksonmcgrath8929 2 роки тому +5

      @@RoyGBiv-lc8tv truthfull

  • @peanutbutterbaby9
    @peanutbutterbaby9 2 роки тому +1

    My church is mostly elderly people but we still have a great community. I wish I could get more young people to come to my church because my best friend and I are the only teenagers there.

    • @ClassicallyAbby
      @ClassicallyAbby  2 роки тому +3

      Yes, that can be difficult! Are there any other churches in the area that have a younger demographic? Might be worth taking a look!

    • @estherk7174
      @estherk7174 Рік тому +1

      Elderly people can be good friends too :)

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому

    Can I get advice from the classic crew again? People know I'm disabled. I do go to church, and volunteer, and get involved, but being disabled, I cannot have children, and men turn the other cheek. I need to have some friends to study the Bible with, and have healthy fun. It's tough, because I have communication issues, and friends are hard to find. People don't understand me. Advice?

    • @heaven9378
      @heaven9378 2 роки тому +2

      Maybe you can speak with the elders of your church so they can help you with maybe having a talk about the difficulties of being disabled and through this talk people can get to be more understanding and hopefully more open to not looking at you as just being disabled.
      I hope you make a lot of friends and start a great Bible study group

    • @shirleygiordano7627
      @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому

      @@heaven9378, thanks. Blessings. I will go to the senior group.

    • @TosyaChan
      @TosyaChan 2 роки тому +1

      Please do not feel like you can't get friends just because you're disabled. Getting new friends is generally hard for most people, I know this from experience. But I'm sure you'll find some since you're so active in your community. Best of luck!

    • @shirleygiordano7627
      @shirleygiordano7627 2 роки тому

      @@TosyaChan , thankyou.

    • @tuawacheteochitnotl3004
      @tuawacheteochitnotl3004 2 роки тому

      Welcome to the club pay for it like me beats a nagging wife

  • @brandonmartinez2201
    @brandonmartinez2201 2 роки тому

    It is really rare find a woman who is conservative and respects herself nowadays women follow influencers who devalues morality

  • @inderdhillon95
    @inderdhillon95 2 роки тому

    I am a sikh from punjab , india
    But I love Judaism and I want to be in your religion
    Can I do that?

  • @pinkboxer1
    @pinkboxer1 2 роки тому +5

    This makes me think that I should stop telling my 11 year old daughter that women suck! I used to have a decent amount of female friends, but it turned out most of them didn't share my values, so over the years I've whittled it down to about 2. I feel like women tend to be so emotional and catty, that it's just always been hard for me to identify with them and really make connections with them. My husband isn't outgoing and so he isn't helpful in that regard. It's been interesting watching my daughter navigate the treacherous waters of female friendship. It definitely isn't easy at any age, and I often find myself telling her that many of these catty girls grow up to be catty women. Perhaps I shouldn't be so negative, but that's been my experience. In general I prefer hanging out and talking to men, who to my mind are so much more honest and straightforward. However, this almost inspires me to give women another chance. Thanks Abby for the encouragement!

    • @sad.3x3
      @sad.3x3 2 роки тому +5

      ......you tell your 11 yo daoughter that women suck?

    • @bethanysanders8406
      @bethanysanders8406 2 роки тому +4

      Hey there! I think some of your problems with women might be due to a thing called “internalized misogyny”. It means that society has conditioned you to believe that all women are vapid/shallow/catty/emotional, and that meaningful female friendships won’t bring you happiness. This is not true! There are so many cool women out there who would be wonderful friends! Don’t let these messages get in between you and some wonderful relationships. Women are amazing!

  • @edoardostefaninmustacchi2232
    @edoardostefaninmustacchi2232 2 роки тому

    Why only a church or synagogue. Why not a mosque or something else xD

  • @fuhgetabatit1051
    @fuhgetabatit1051 2 роки тому

    Great tips! I think I’ll go join the Satanic temple, my husband and I need new friends.

  • @readisgooddewaterkant7890
    @readisgooddewaterkant7890 2 роки тому

    I am a femenine boy. Why am i watching this video 🤣?

  • @emmarosie7176
    @emmarosie7176 2 роки тому

    This is so sad, with ALL the massive huge ads she used to do and now all she can get is 1.9 k views … it just shows when you are unlikable then you are unlikable.

    • @speedingatheist
      @speedingatheist 2 роки тому

      Hey, you and her have something in common. Cool.

  • @treasonouspigeonpeckers957
    @treasonouspigeonpeckers957 2 роки тому +2

    She literally built her entire community on ads and being related to Ben Shapiro. Snap back to reality