@YotoYa-ol4xqmaking amends would probably help you feel better. This has happened to me, and the wife will probably feel alot better too, after hearing the whole story.
@YotoYa-ol4xq well some people just dont understand. It would one thing if you knew about her, but you were a victim too. So that says alot about who she is as a person as well
@@allisterhawes9224 but this is the reality so many wives experience. Oh, we may not tell another man we love them, but the greater truth is, we aren’t in love with you an6more. Love died because it stops being nourished and grown. If you have meals, clean clothes, kids, a dog, a house and some sex, you think we, for some reason se can’t fathom, are blissfully happy. We are just doing our duties. Love is so much more than duties. It’s the special stuff. The stuff that went away 1-3 years in. The yelling ensued, the criticism, ignoring, and feeling invisible. Love withered away. You may be a good provider, hard worker, mow the lawn well, and are funny at get-togethers. You’re good at your duties too. You’re a good friend….roommate maybe. But we aren’t in love with you anymore. And almost always, the way you treat us (and the lack thereof) strongly indicates you aren’t in love with us anymore either. Heck, most of the time, it seems as though you don’t even like us. Plus, it is always, always, always our fault. We are to blame for everything ugly and unsatisfying. But who betrayed whom?
And that trust is gone and buried. Replaced with anger and hatred. There's no going back afterwards. Once you've been betrayed, it's over. You can't have a relationship with that person again. It's best to distance yourself and move on, because I'd you don't, you'll just find yourself getting burned again.
Cheating is terrible on both sides, doesn’t matter whether it’s a dude or a chick doing it, it also doesn’t matter why, you entered into a commitment. Honor the commitment.
You do enter a commitment when you marry, To love, honor, obey, cherish, in sickness, health, for richer, for poorer, til death do you part. How little that vow means to Soo many people. One dishonors when the eyes roll skyward or when family has something contrary to comment on. It's Soo easy to stop cherishing the spouse when they treat you like their parent and they're the child. Slovenly habits, take-out boxes and wrappers, dirty clothes and towels all over the place. Forget about obeying your spouse when your SO doesn't like your friends and says that buddy-boy is a bad influence cause you get truly blitzed and come home at 4am.
@@tantanmustdieIt's not about "better". It's the way you view it subjectively. As a man, if you get cheated on, most people have little reaction. They sometimes view you as not being enough for her and maybe even making fun of you. At best, you get a pat on the back. As a woman, if you get cheated on, you now have a whole platoon of men ready to be the shoulder to cry on or the rebound. You're viewed as the gem that the "bum" couldn't appreciate or handle. Objectively though, its wrong no matter your gender. It hurts equally.
if it's for getting you off sleep and telling you heyy, here is where i am at. Step over and hug me! show me you got guts too! i know you have and i'm missing them as much as i miss you, i am just tired track the path without your smile, keep up and take my hand. Pls. I miss you like fresh water in that summer we first missed each others hand ... (btw she is mother of 2 kids -the father is my running back- it was never to happen- than to call your name for the first time to take me first this time - worked on me back then we remained silent in accepting all these feelings connecting about letting go somemore than ourselve
If you are in a relationship with someone, And you open yourself up emotionally to someone else, Or if you are just giving someone else your time instead of your partners It is cheating, Because the actions involved are directed from the intentions behind them.
Cheating doesn’t have to be physical. Like she said, you’re allowing a space to open up to an outsider when that space should be occupied by your significant other.
Its also highly abusive! 😊 You realize she saying that because she cheats right? Esspecially saying men dont have control and she a woman just wants to what.. "find the one" with a person back home keeping the shelter tight and warm? Thats actual abuse.
As a man I say with 1000% confidence u should never cheat even if u say it’s “instinct” imagine ur partners face imagine the heart break simply don’t do it. If ur hearts not in a relationship leave before u pursue another person
Some people are just born hoes men and women. I'd argue instead of not cheating if you know your the type to never be satisfied with 1 partner long term don't be in a relationship in the first place. Nobody but hardcore Christians will think your a evil person for having purely casual sex.
Woman’s face. It’s crazy how partner used to refer to same-sex couples, now heterosexuals are now using that word rather than saying husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend
If it hurts so much, why do women forgive you multiple times and give you another chance to cheat again? Men just have standards. They get cheated on so they leave. Also high probability the child isn't theirs as well. Its a standard and paternity thing.
This is why i oppose boy besties blatantly , emotional attachment is the worst , even if there is no physical , it just drains the RESPECT and love which are buildiing blocks in a relationship
@@carson1b16 What she is saying is women cheat emotionally before they cheat physically. Their are psychologist out there who have studies this and made the observation that women more often then not will cheat with an ex-flame. She’ll reach out to him via IG or FB and reignite that connection they once had. Thus, cheat emotionally first, this woman is correct. For whatever reason women prefer to be unfaithful with someone they’ve previously been attached to, maybe it helps them cope with the fact that they are behaving like whores idk?
Ok so women already cheating if they have male friends? And dudes not? The dudes excited to nod along because that means they can be shady and territorial for no reason. Cheating in any gender is wrong. Emotional connections with any gender is definitely ok as long as it’s not romantic.
Like don't cheat, ever...Simple as that. Is there a problem? Talk it out and fucking COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER....All problems solved....If it ain't solved or something then officialy break up and find someone else....Why is it SO HARD to talk with your bf/gf about a problem in a relationship and communicate it out? I don't understand
Sometimes you find that you're married to a selfish, immature, narcissist, who has gaslighted literally everyone in close vicinity into believing that you're the 'stupid monster', including the very children that you gave up your youth for. The preparations to rebuild your life can take a decade. And the children are a lost cause until either The narc screws up and self-exposes, or the children have children of their own and start to realize that something about the childhood wasn't right.
When a man cheats,"He is just a ho*ny animal" When women cheats, "(sob*) She had her circumstances, she was not loved" Absolute sexism Edit : Ya and I m more powerful than Saturo.
I used to think that idea was true, but the more I think about it- men & women probably both cheat for the same reasons. (Wanting to feel loved) - and men just don’t think that’s the reason because their brains won’t let them think that deep about the subject most of the time. (That’s my first time ever saying this, needs some work)
@@colonizedgrain4034 nope! Men are probably not getting sexual satisfaction from their lady, hence they cheat. Women are probably cheating due to lack of attention. Either way, cheating is disgusting and immoral. What makes it worse is when women cheats on a guy who is treating her like a queen, is providing for her, etc, just to have sex with some weird dude who is there just to have sex with her and then leave.
It's the same for both there's no double standard The Bible says if you have done it in your heart you have done it!!!! and it's true and most people will be like but you didn't physically do it... but you're doing it in your heart. your heart is being taken away from whoever you're with, because you're daydreaming or wanting to be with someone else. so you really did it. I mean if you think about that over and over again. the bible's not lying. it is very true! you Did it in your heart, so you really did it!!! because if your heart that belongs to someone, can go astray to think about someone else, and make love to them, then you don't really love that someone, cause you're thinking about somebody else. If you loved them your thoughts would be on them.
@@thyone3925 it makes everyone guilty who does it. The Bible also says that there is only one judge. That is God. The Bible says to be careful in what measure you judge, because in that same measure you will be judged. Only God knows our true heart. The Bible also says if we repent of our sins God will lovingly forgive us. And will not bring that sin up ever again. It's us as humans who try to take matters in our own hands and judge others, or call people out, or try to repay evil for evil. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord. I was cheated on (physically), and someone gave me the scriptures Roman's 12:9 thru 21. It really helped me. Many blessings to you and your family. Much Love In Christ...D ❤️
People with morals and dignity are being attacked by people who are low class. Calling it a gender thing, race thing or anything else is them trying to get good people to fight for them because they are weak. Don’t fall for it. Stay strong and good even if it means being alone
Definitely -- 😆 And it's easy cause guys are easyAF --- I prefer "demon time" 😈 over emotional. I've cheated, had a MMF 3some 'cause he cheated and it felt GREAT! 😝 Did again and again and again! Best sex is FukYouSex! He never know. 🖕🏾🤘🏾It was def not emotional, it was NEEDEDDDDD!
cheating as girl is different as she said it's also emotionally, they're more aware of when they're cheating then men thus is more evil for a woman to cheat imo, obviously both are wrong, men are more horny by nature, and have trouble avoiding erections daily, cheating as a man can be with any woman, they just want to get their pp wet. virginity worth much mor for woman than men, woman not opening her legs is seen as a beautiful and good since humanity began, bible and the quran states this, men being sexually active is viewed as cool and high status.
Being more "animalistic" doesn't excuse physical cheating. You are called a human for a reason. Have human decency and don't hurt the one you're supposed to love.
I think they are speaking in terms of like the logistics of it. Like what actions they take. Like most guys are caught cheating always cos of their animalistic instincts whereas with woman it's always emotional. Cheating regardless is still horrible for anyone on the receiving end. There isn't worst. Betrayal is already the worst in general.
It is funny women will start rejecting physical contact from their partner if they start having an affair. It becomes like the affair person becomes the main partner who she is loyal to. Crazy for me to think of that from a male POV.
Experienced this firsthand, my partner would push me away whenever I wanted affection or I greeted her at the door from work. She would always push me away, then I went through her phone and found out she was cheating with her ex boyfriend, right after our son was born
If she's not emotionally attached anymore she's gonna cheat let her tell you about her day don't judge her actions against others unless she ask if she stops talking to you about her she will cheat
She cheated emotionally because she’s a reflection of what has been mirrored to her. So now to her , which is where I don’t agree,she feels to be vengeful. Instead,When a woman is better off being at peace and letting God handle justice.
Why do these selfish people simply not leave the relationship and do whatever they want to do? You free your partner of yourself so they can go and actually look for happiness and someone better, and you can do what you want. Simple lol
Cheating back fires on the cheater. They get what they deserve in the end. They get kicked out, cut off, and lose so much. Cheating just isn't worth the trouble.
nobody cares about the emotional connection or the physical connection. the reason cheating is wrong is because of the betrayal and hurt it causes to the other person. and if a guy still loves his girlfriend but cheats then he didn't truly love her but a man or woman in love would never do something that would hurt their partner like this and risk their relationship
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If a person chatting to someone and his sense of right or wrong do not allow him to continue this affair therfore after some days he leave this matter and go back to his spouse without telling her about his affair. What would he consider as a cheater or not? Plz reply.
Look...the realest thing ever said was "shes outta your league" that phrase alone speaks limitless volumes..attractive people should date attractive people..for me , a girl "cheating" is just playing the hand she was dealt as are you..hate to say it so blatantly but when you realize what tier you're in, You'll understand why girls just cant take you serious, and won't ever trust that they're the only one..its really flattering tbh..and you'll start navigating this game of life the way its meant to be played..you truly understand when you're able to empathize with the cheater..BUT the most alpha way of thinking requires alpha traits...life is only about 60 years..way less deep than most of us would like to acknowledge . The whole "how to get over a breakup" thing should be divided into tiers.. Cause that's what life is..TIERS....You can say "bro just find someone else" and it be the BEST advice in the world, but thats specific to a certain "tier" of guy..if chris brown gets cheated on and is hurting, you can't give him the same advice youd give quazzy motto..😂..one guys reality is.."mann go look in the mirror" then go get some girls...you can't tell ole quazzy that...its more like "it'll be okay bro"... UNIVERSALLY, dont be so invested..life is not a fairy tale..
When men cheat, your partner will call you a pig. But when your female partner cheats, she's following her heart. The reality of it is, cheaters have the heart of a pig period.
It's just cultural myth. Men can also cheat emotionally and women can also experience unromantic sexual attraction. Also, women don't often cheat on their male partner with some other man, it's most often her galpal. And men don't take that seriously and sometimes deliberately allow it.
You can tell this girl is Young. I've been married 26 years and I'm not so stupid that I don't think my wife has gotten emotionally close to other men. But I do know everything my wife's ever done cheating I will agree is not just a physical thing but at the physicals not involved you never cheated in my opinion.
If you accept cheating from your wife, you can’t call yourself a respectable man. The majority of men AND women will never respect you for that. End of story.
Men are conditioned by other men from a young age that it’s fine to do that. Men use this excuse of being hardwired to mate but if that were true then women should be the acceptable cheaters because our desires run deeper, stronger, and much longer throughout life. We all know right from wrong. Why are these men acting like they want marriage if they don’t want the basic boundaries that come with it? Oh yeah, a servant I almost forgot
Women are the most fickle beings on Earth, a woman's love isn't worth its weight in toilet paper. It's meaningless. Women will instantly leave you for the wind blowing in the wrong direction. 100% no loyalty. Plus they only want you for money and resources.
No. Texting other people without it being romantic is not cheating. It IS cheating if you’re texting them in hopes of keeping the door open for something more than a friendship, or the conversation is inappropriate.
idk if this is cheating but. I was talking to a single mom 35 with three kids. She worked 2 jobs. it was long distance. im 27. I helped her financially to feed her kids. keep her house cause she was homeless. helped her with gas money. she is a depressed person also . Having mental breakdowns crying in the shower. Cause of her past. And last sunday i found out by the other dudes pic they both were in it hugging. she went back to her best friend and banged him and did all this behind my back. for a YEAR! WE TALKED And how she said she loved me and would never hurt me I believed her!. i thought she was more mature than that. and now I can’t believe i let myself be freaking deceived!.
Hahaha you're a fvcking lozer bruv you actually think wimmin feel actual emotions like love? You believe they are loyal? Hahahaha what a chump you are. Don't let it happen again..
Your first mistake was giving a chance to a single mom. Never EVER EVER date a single mom seriously. You wanna bang her it's fine do it as much as you want with safety, but do not ever think of getting into serious relationship. All that talk of how a real man behaves by single women is a facade to trick you into saving them. They do not have your interests in mind.
Back when I used to entertain men, I would do exactly what he's doing, right there and then. And like the girl said they'd immediately crash out, talking about "it's disrespectful" to him. And I would innocently tell them I didn't know it wasn't allowed since HE was doing it 🤷🏾♀️
Heres my take, i think a lot of ATTRACTIVE women get in relationships with men with status (let me finish), not so much for attraction because attraction/sex is already easy to get for an attractive woman. Heres the flip side. A lot of men with status, dont have the time to commit emotionally, they'll pay your bills, take you on expensive dates to boost your ego. But thats it because they're out creating self value through money. So those women typically will cheat physically or mentally with a man thats more empathic, one that'll make her feel valued and seen emotionally. So i do think, if you are an empathic man, and you think you're in a relationship. Shes probably got another man thats wining and dining her (who's to say if the empathic man is the main, but i do know the one with money will treat her like shit and she'll take it. But with the empathic man, she'll treat him like shit and wont take any shit from the empathic man because she doesn't really care about you, she cares about status). Thats just the modern manipulative woman. I do think deeeep down, us men always know whats up.
No...this is an excuse guys will jump on ...if hes texting and pursuing another its also a form of cheating. Women have sex all the time without being emotionally invested. Thats a crock also . Women love to pretend about this just as men do. 😅
Honestly , I’ve learned to not love anything. As sad as it sounds, loving something just means it can be taken away from you and there’s nothing you can do about it. So it’s easier to just not.
If a woman has an emotional connection she's less than one heartbeat away from having a physical involvement. Her partner should always be her first emotional connection.
I think it is worse when women cheat because for men most of the time it is purely physical but they do not love that woman, woman will love which ever man makes us feel safe and loved so as soon as our husband stops doing that and someone else does, we will fall in love with the one who does. Which is why I believe that for a long term marriage to work a woman has to consistently tend to her husbands physical needs and a man needs to consistently tend to his wife’s emotional needs.
Cheating is bad regardless of gender. Man or Woman. And people who argue otherwise are just projecting the fact that they have probably been cheat on many times or they cheat on people alot. Just stop behaving like a child already, this is a sign of a deep physcological issue.
I think I read in a woman's magazine 30 years ago, that when a woman usually cheats, she ready for the marriage to be over and she's looking for a good replacement. I think that's true, although as more equality occurs, woman are catching up to men in respect to why and percentage.
Wrong, most women cheat because they already found someone better than their boyfriends. My grandmother told me exactly what im telling you. And also, I’m not trying to brag but as an handsome man myself there’s plenty of women at my job in Amazon has boyfriends be giving me constant choosing signals every time I come to work even the single girls, but these women who has boyfriends have it worst with the choosing signals. All these years working at Amazon I came to a realization that ALL women in general have the potential to cheat because they all showing me day in and night out.
Everyone in the comments section saying its wrong regardless of who cheats. They arent making the point that its ok for one sex and not the other. Basically women are more likely to begin with an emotional affair while men are more likely to begin with a physical affair. Given time, usually one eventually becomes the other.
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When men cheat they do so too long before physical touch. They are liking pictures, sexting, DMing, emailing, going on a few dates prior to the actual physical encounter.
Cheating is cheating women always trying to justify their actions, if you don't love someone tell them and move on. It's always men that are the bad people, isn't it equality you women preach so own your shit
@ptahamunra5422Nope, that's cause if you have a gf and you are looking outside it means that you have to put in some work to get the outside meat.... men say the reason why them cheating isn't as bad cause they have to put in the work, what's different about wanting a another woman besides your gf
I personally don't care how different cheating is, it may just be a piss in the lake for man, and a man still love his woman, but that woman will have her heart broken and won't love him, it doesn't matter how different it is, it's still wrong, best to be in a open relationship, i think cheaters are sick, especially when they expect some kind of monogamy.
That's what my guy was trying to convince me for years, that a woman cheating is worse than a man because it's emotional. Then 3 weeks ago after a party that I didn't attend, he kissed a woman in our group and the next day he went to her home, watched a movie, talked all night and they fell asleep kissing and hugging. NO SEX! Now come again and tell me men don't cheat emotionally.
If my husband or long term partner cheated on me, as long as it was just a one night stand and he used protection and it was purely just a mistake purely made of lust not love I would forgive him, as long as he promises to not do it again. However if I am in a relationship and wanting another man it’s because I don’t love my man anymore, because as a girl I can tell you when we truly like a guy we are straight up obsessed and see no other men.
Does that mean u will invest emotionally in another man before ending your relationship,u havent answered that question,many women do this and may even sleep with the other before ending her current one.
@@SuperBeastman10 Well that doesn’t relate to my comment, but like I said when a woman is truly in love with a man she doesn’t see any other men, but I would never cheat emotionally if physically if that is the question, if the relationship isn’t going to workout I would just break up with him.
@teresawatson9032 thats the best way to be,it doesn't always end that way though,theres many people in the world and sein as this is based on women they will get emotionally connected to another man then end it after. The new guy appaars on the seen so soon after the break up as he was already in the background..
@@KevinJohnson-pt8mg but people can make choices that where a mistake. It’s obviously something that it would take me a really long time to get over but if we had built a family together I wouldn’t break it all up because of that.
It is morally wrong to cheat on your spouse/ partner. In many cases, society tends to punish men for cheating on women. While at the same time, society tends to give women a slap on the wrist for cheating on men.
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I think it’s all bull crap. If you cheat it means you never cared for your significant other in the first place. If you did you would never cheat. And I’m sorry but you don’t deserve any respect once you get caught and you don’t deserve another chance.
Women are more Greedy, if a man had a lot of money she would never leave him until he went broke, even if a woman should stay by his side women leave for money not for Love
I don't care about how much money he has, as long as he does not impulsively spend (is wise with it- plans ahead and communicates). If you get married, you share income. I would not want someone impulsively burning away money because that's selfish... But, if a guy went broke because of uncontrollable circumstances (like getting laid off or some other outside unfortunate event) it would be immoral to leave him.
An emotional affair is absolutely a thing and it eventually turns physical if the opportunity presents itself. Its unacceptable to, as this person says, "open themselves up to someone else" emotionally. It destroys the primary relationship and you can choose to not do this.
@@clickmyprofile4751bro you don’t even know it. I’ve experienced plenty of women have boyfriends be giving me choosing signals and I have to tell you there’s a 99% chance she already or currently micro-cheated on you with someone else even if you do everything right in the relationship, your girl probably found a dude that’s better than you in every way.
Cheating for men and wonen is the same, difference is in the steps, For men it's sexual then emotional For women emotional then sexual So cheating is cheating no matter which sex you are
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People cheat because they're not getting something they want from the relationship and for whatever reason can't communicate it with the other person. You don't look for water when the bucket is full.
Bucket won’t always be full in a relationship. Happiness, satisfaction, even attraction come and go. If your fidelity is tied to your happiness you won’t have a lasting relationship.
@@TuxedoTalk I try not to tie my happiness to other people but I would imagine if you were absolutely miserable with someone and they made your life miserable then sure I can understand. But what are people expecting to find in someone? An empty bucket is the inevitable result of spending lots of time with anyone. Eventually they won’t be exciting and fun anymore. You will completely know and understand that person. It will feel like dissatisfaction and boredom
@@TuxedoTalk I understand why a young man would leave a relationship without sex yes. I guess the question becomes is this a person who you want to grow old with. Even having sex becomes difficult as you age as well. It’s not the priority to me now that it was when I was 25.
Cheating needs to be defined in a realtionship becsue everyone has a different definition! 🤦♀️🤦♀️. I text gay friends and married friend that is not cheating! This needs to be defined and talked about so no bs can happen!
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So if the man is conquering to cheat he is putting more effort into the mistake. cheating: the inclination or practice of misleading others. This means that he acts with more commitment and awareness, using more time and thought to make the mistake and with more desire, so if everything is more conscious and effortful, which makes the act more selfish and if he strives "the inclination or practice of misleading others" is already immoral, right? So the man has more of an attitude to deceive and the man is also excited to know that what he is doing is wrong, so it is not just physical attraction. If the moral logic you use is the effort and position to weigh betrayal in the balance, both have their immoral value, since the woman's was giving in, the man's the conscious and selfish will was used for more time and effort to make the mistake. You think female betrayal is worse because of the image that women have as more fragile and emotional and because of the sexual position as well. I know that women generally use more emotion and men use libido, but even though the two have different values and depths, they both have intensity, lack of control and at the same time conscience.
Because realistically, most women ignore positive attention from men. Heart-eye emojis will almost never result in a random twitter model actually talking to a man. Women ignore 99.9% of men.
@@shin-ishikiri-no is not ok just because it’s possible they will get ignored i’ve been ignored by the opposite gender all my life if i managed to get a partner i still wouldn’t do that
It doesn't matter in the end for both men and women cheating is bad. When it comes to accountability, women avoid that. If you have someone that is loyal and faithful to you alone. You under no circumstance, she on them.
Don’t cheat … if you’re going to then communicate that you’re feeling a certain way. Don’t psychologically damage someone else. Plus if you think a man cheating means nothing you’re extremely red pilled… get out of this pill cringe shit
Sadly, men definitely do the emotional cheating too. The difference is women will not cheat unless they are emotionally connected to the 3 person. For guy, they cheat whether they have emotional connection with the 3rd girl or not
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IDGAF if it’s emotional, physical, spiritual, psychological, or fucking tax-related. If you’re cheating, you’re 🗑️
Who hurt you fr tho
Lol jkjk
@@AZITHEMLGPRO My ex wife, I wish I was kidding.
@YotoYa-ol4xqdo u need to talk?
@YotoYa-ol4xqmaking amends would probably help you feel better. This has happened to me, and the wife will probably feel alot better too, after hearing the whole story.
@YotoYa-ol4xq well some people just dont understand. It would one thing if you knew about her, but you were a victim too. So that says alot about who she is as a person as well
Cheating is wrong regardless of gender and sexuality
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One of the few logical comments here
@@Ysfhahahshs it's sad how common sense ain't so common anymore
@@thefemalefuture1 yesss queennnn!
@@Ysfhahahshs well it’s bad regardless of gender. However women cheating is far worse than male cheating
My wife of seven years was telling another man she loved him behind my back while married to me. Never felt so much pain, betrayal and humiliation.
Truly, the cheating is something to do with her, that's her problem, not yours. You being hurt has something to do with your unmet expectations..
They don't love like we do. Women are evil inside.
She was starving for emotional intimacy. Guys stop connecting that way 1-3 years into the relationship. That’s when love begins dying for women.
You wasn’t giving her what she needed.
@@allisterhawes9224 but this is the reality so many wives experience. Oh, we may not tell another man we love them, but the greater truth is, we aren’t in love with you an6more. Love died because it stops being nourished and grown. If you have meals, clean clothes, kids, a dog, a house and some sex, you think we, for some reason se can’t fathom, are blissfully happy. We are just doing our duties. Love is so much more than duties. It’s the special stuff. The stuff that went away 1-3 years in. The yelling ensued, the criticism, ignoring, and feeling invisible. Love withered away. You may be a good provider, hard worker, mow the lawn well, and are funny at get-togethers. You’re good at your duties too. You’re a good friend….roommate maybe. But we aren’t in love with you anymore. And almost always, the way you treat us (and the lack thereof) strongly indicates you aren’t in love with us anymore either. Heck, most of the time, it seems as though you don’t even like us. Plus, it is always, always, always our fault. We are to blame for everything ugly and unsatisfying.
But who betrayed whom?
Betrayal is the worst emotionally form of pain
Facts it a form of emotional torture that one cant explain
Facts it an emotional torture that one cant explain
I'd even argue it's the worst of all pain. I'd take physical pain over emotional pain from betrayal any day.
Yes I agree physical pain at times can be unbearable but to be fair who wants ethier
And that trust is gone and buried. Replaced with anger and hatred. There's no going back afterwards. Once you've been betrayed, it's over. You can't have a relationship with that person again. It's best to distance yourself and move on, because I'd you don't, you'll just find yourself getting burned again.
Cheating is terrible on both sides, doesn’t matter whether it’s a dude or a chick doing it, it also doesn’t matter why, you entered into a commitment. Honor the commitment.
Yeah people always sound so dumb when they trying to say "this kind of cheating is better than this kind"
You do enter a commitment when you marry, To love, honor, obey, cherish, in sickness, health, for richer, for poorer, til death do you part. How little that vow means to Soo many people. One dishonors when the eyes roll skyward or when family has something contrary to comment on. It's Soo easy to stop cherishing the spouse when they treat you like their parent and they're the child. Slovenly habits, take-out boxes and wrappers, dirty clothes and towels all over the place. Forget about obeying your spouse when your SO doesn't like your friends and says that buddy-boy is a bad influence cause you get truly blitzed and come home at 4am.
what to do in a sexless marriage when you can't take divorce at any cost.... specially in India.
@@tantanmustdieIt's not about "better". It's the way you view it subjectively. As a man, if you get cheated on, most people have little reaction. They sometimes view you as not being enough for her and maybe even making fun of you. At best, you get a pat on the back. As a woman, if you get cheated on, you now have a whole platoon of men ready to be the shoulder to cry on or the rebound. You're viewed as the gem that the "bum" couldn't appreciate or handle. Objectively though, its wrong no matter your gender. It hurts equally.
Cheating women is far worse than cheating man
Just break up . Why cheat ??
Have your cake and eat it too. Until the baker comes back to the shop lol. Then you go to the candy store...
Women will break up, eventually, when she's sure she got the next guy under control.
Same with men for sure. @@dzonibravo7867
if it's for getting you off sleep and telling you heyy, here is where i am at. Step over and hug me! show me you got guts too! i know you have and i'm missing them as much as i miss you, i am just tired track the path without your smile, keep up and take my hand. Pls. I miss you like fresh water in that summer we first missed each others hand ... (btw she is mother of 2 kids -the father is my running back- it was never to happen- than to call your name for the first time to take me first this time - worked on me back then we remained silent in accepting all these feelings connecting about letting go somemore than ourselve
you never been in a relationship were the other doesn’t let you break up w them and will go through everything to force you to stay? or am i trippin
At the end of the day, infidelity is morally wrong for both.
Who cares why it happened. Shouldn't it be about the betrayal?
How Is that betrayal
@@Českobet If your partner had sex with someone else or was talking romantically with someone else without your knowledge, that’s betrayal
@@Českobet cheating is betrayal, hello?
@@Českobet bro did u even go to school
@@gleedgaming6359 no
If you are in a relationship with someone, And you open yourself up emotionally to someone else, Or if you are just giving someone else your time instead of your partners It is cheating, Because the actions involved are directed from the intentions behind them.
Cheating doesn’t have to be physical. Like she said, you’re allowing a space to open up to an outsider when that space should be occupied by your significant other.
She gets it. Cheating is not just physical.
Its also highly abusive! 😊
You realize she saying that because she cheats right? Esspecially saying men dont have control and she a woman just wants to what.. "find the one" with a person back home keeping the shelter tight and warm? Thats actual abuse.
As a man I say with 1000% confidence u should never cheat even if u say it’s “instinct” imagine ur partners face imagine the heart break simply don’t do it. If ur hearts not in a relationship leave before u pursue another person
Based
Some people are just born hoes men and women. I'd argue instead of not cheating if you know your the type to never be satisfied with 1 partner long term don't be in a relationship in the first place. Nobody but hardcore Christians will think your a evil person for having purely casual sex.
Woman’s face. It’s crazy how partner used to refer to same-sex couples, now heterosexuals are now using that word rather than saying husband or wife or girlfriend or boyfriend
As man I say with 100% confidence u should never cheat even say it's instinct imagine ur partner face imagine that herat break
If it hurts so much, why do women forgive you multiple times and give you another chance to cheat again? Men just have standards. They get cheated on so they leave. Also high probability the child isn't theirs as well. Its a standard and paternity thing.
He’s just a friend 🤣🤣🤣
So what?
😅
Bc thats what every woman says when their bf or husband finds out their talking and texting another guy weird stuff@sidramehmood-gl8je
Is the same as men saying "she is just a prostitute"
Nobody fucks more wives and girlfriends than "he's just a friend."
This is why i oppose boy besties blatantly , emotional attachment is the worst , even if there is no physical , it just drains the RESPECT and love which are buildiing blocks in a relationship
She's dropping bombs that some men don't understand and some women don't want to admit lol
I agree
She is repeating what she heard men say on this topic, before the internet you would not hear wman say this. They only say what men already know.
She literally said nothing lmao. Yall are making deep sht up
@@carson1b16 What she is saying is women cheat emotionally before they cheat physically.
Their are psychologist out there who have studies this and made the observation that women more often then not will cheat with an ex-flame.
She’ll reach out to him via IG or FB and reignite that connection they once had. Thus, cheat emotionally first, this woman is correct.
For whatever reason women prefer to be unfaithful with someone they’ve previously been attached to, maybe it helps them cope with the fact that they are behaving like whores idk?
Ok so women already cheating if they have male friends? And dudes not? The dudes excited to nod along because that means they can be shady and territorial for no reason.
Cheating in any gender is wrong. Emotional connections with any gender is definitely ok as long as it’s not romantic.
Like don't cheat, ever...Simple as that. Is there a problem? Talk it out and fucking COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER....All problems solved....If it ain't solved or something then officialy break up and find someone else....Why is it SO HARD to talk with your bf/gf about a problem in a relationship and communicate it out? I don't understand
Facts
Same
Fax
Sometimes you find that you're married to a selfish, immature, narcissist, who has gaslighted literally everyone in close vicinity into believing that you're the 'stupid monster', including the very children that you gave up your youth for. The preparations to rebuild your life can take a decade. And the children are a lost cause until either The narc screws up and self-exposes, or the children have children of their own and start to realize that something about the childhood wasn't right.
What if your spouse beats you and refuses to let you leave under threat of violence?
Women can cheat with no emotional attachment. Evolution. 😂
When a man cheats,"He is just a ho*ny animal"
When women cheats, "(sob*) She had her circumstances, she was not loved"
Absolute sexism
Edit : Ya and I m more powerful than Saturo.
It’s true
@@alek6208 but y cheat if u can just break up? man or woman
It is different. Man shows his loyalty by protecting and providing for his woman
Woman shows her loyalty by having sexual exclusivity for her man
I used to think that idea was true, but the more I think about it- men & women probably both cheat for the same reasons. (Wanting to feel loved) - and men just don’t think that’s the reason because their brains won’t let them think that deep about the subject most of the time. (That’s my first time ever saying this, needs some work)
@@colonizedgrain4034 nope! Men are probably not getting sexual satisfaction from their lady, hence they cheat. Women are probably cheating due to lack of attention. Either way, cheating is disgusting and immoral. What makes it worse is when women cheats on a guy who is treating her like a queen, is providing for her, etc, just to have sex with some weird dude who is there just to have sex with her and then leave.
The best word to describe is betrayal... Cheat = betrayal
they guy going "ooooh 😯" 😂😂
Bruh i swear i laughed so hard man 😂
Because it's so well put. We know it but we don't talk about that concept. How these women are already prepared to cheat before they even do so.
It's the same for both there's no double standard The Bible says if you have done it in your heart you have done it!!!! and it's true and most people will be like but you didn't physically do it... but you're doing it in your heart. your heart is being taken away from whoever you're with, because you're daydreaming or wanting to be with someone else. so you really did it. I mean if you think about that over and over again. the bible's not lying. it is very true! you Did it in your heart, so you really did it!!! because if your heart that belongs to someone, can go astray to think about someone else, and make love to them, then you don't really love that someone, cause you're thinking about somebody else. If you loved them your thoughts would be on them.
So that makes you guilty too
@@thyone3925 it makes everyone guilty who does it. The Bible also says that there is only one judge. That is God. The Bible says to be careful in what measure you judge, because in that same measure you will be judged. Only God knows our true heart. The Bible also says if we repent of our sins God will lovingly forgive us. And will not bring that sin up ever again. It's us as humans who try to take matters in our own hands and judge others, or call people out, or try to repay evil for evil. Vengeance is mine sayeth the Lord. I was cheated on (physically), and someone gave me the scriptures Roman's 12:9 thru 21. It really helped me. Many blessings to you and your family. Much Love In Christ...D ❤️
@@thyone3925 what’s that supposed to mean? Are you in charge of everyone else? No… so stfu
amen
People with morals and dignity are being attacked by people who are low class. Calling it a gender thing, race thing or anything else is them trying to get good people to fight for them because they are weak. Don’t fall for it. Stay strong and good even if it means being alone
I’m a female on women are definitely on demon time too.
Definitely -- 😆 And it's easy cause guys are easyAF --- I prefer "demon time" 😈 over emotional. I've cheated, had a MMF 3some 'cause he cheated and it felt GREAT! 😝 Did again and again and again! Best sex is FukYouSex! He never know. 🖕🏾🤘🏾It was def not emotional, it was NEEDEDDDDD!
Well said 😂 couldn’t agree more
For sure but I would say there is more men on “demon” time hence the generationalization
cheating as girl is different as she said it's also emotionally, they're more aware of when they're cheating then men thus is more evil for a woman to cheat imo, obviously both are wrong, men are more horny by nature, and have trouble avoiding erections daily, cheating as a man can be with any woman, they just want to get their pp wet. virginity worth much mor for woman than men, woman not opening her legs is seen as a beautiful and good since humanity began, bible and the quran states this, men being sexually active is viewed as cool and high status.
Gross
Being more "animalistic" doesn't excuse physical cheating. You are called a human for a reason. Have human decency and don't hurt the one you're supposed to love.
Emotional cheating is far worse than physical cheating
I think they are speaking in terms of like the logistics of it. Like what actions they take. Like most guys are caught cheating always cos of their animalistic instincts whereas with woman it's always emotional.
Cheating regardless is still horrible for anyone on the receiving end.
There isn't worst. Betrayal is already the worst in general.
@@wingknight7132 both are cheating tho
@@gargigoswami143 both are cheating but one is worse
@@wingknight7132 both are tho
It is funny women will start rejecting physical contact from their partner if they start having an affair. It becomes like the affair person becomes the main partner who she is loyal to. Crazy for me to think of that from a male POV.
Exactly this! they see it as the original lover is the side guy and the obsticle to the real lover
Experienced this firsthand, my partner would push me away whenever I wanted affection or I greeted her at the door from work.
She would always push me away, then I went through her phone and found out she was cheating with her ex boyfriend, right after our son was born
Males do the same when they cheat
If she's not emotionally attached anymore she's gonna cheat let her tell you about her day don't judge her actions against others unless she ask if she stops talking to you about her she will cheat
Not accurate. As a man myself the only person I want is my girlfriend.
You my friend will get cheated on
@@Officialqueso doubt it but we’ll see
@@thetoaster1810 see we shall
@@perfectcell5111 hope not
@@thetoaster1810 thats more like it
Woman cheat even before she’s born 😭😭😭😭😂
Hahahaahahahah shittttt I’m buying you a beer
How does anybody cheat before they're born? You're making zero sense right now.
@@symonelewis1690 maybe his mom cheated on his dad before his mother born 😹
Funny that studies show men are more inclined to cheat than women
So your mother to hahaha
She cheated emotionally because she’s a reflection of what has been mirrored to her. So now to her , which is where I don’t agree,she feels to be vengeful. Instead,When a woman is better off being at peace and letting God handle justice.
Why do these selfish people simply not leave the relationship and do whatever they want to do? You free your partner of yourself so they can go and actually look for happiness and someone better, and you can do what you want. Simple lol
Money plus you don't have to deal with the whole break drama
Cheating back fires on the cheater. They get what they deserve in the end. They get kicked out, cut off, and lose so much. Cheating just isn't worth the trouble.
nobody cares about the emotional connection or the physical connection. the reason cheating is wrong is because of the betrayal and hurt it causes to the other person. and if a guy still loves his girlfriend but cheats then he didn't truly love her but a man or woman in love would never do something that would hurt their partner like this and risk their relationship
That is a real woman they were talking to! A rare woman of class!
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If a person chatting to someone and his sense of right or wrong do not allow him to continue this affair therfore after some days he leave this matter and go back to his spouse without telling her about his affair. What would he consider as a cheater or not? Plz reply.
@@sidramehmood-gl8jehe is a cheater. Leave your wife for a better man.
Jail time lol- if we were to do that ALL males would be in jail
Look...the realest thing ever said was "shes outta your league" that phrase alone speaks limitless volumes..attractive people should date attractive people..for me , a girl "cheating" is just playing the hand she was dealt as are you..hate to say it so blatantly but when you realize what tier you're in, You'll understand why girls just cant take you serious, and won't ever trust that they're the only one..its really flattering tbh..and you'll start navigating this game of life the way its meant to be played..you truly understand when you're able to empathize with the cheater..BUT the most alpha way of thinking requires alpha traits...life is only about 60 years..way less deep than most of us would like to acknowledge . The whole "how to get over a breakup" thing should be divided into tiers.. Cause that's what life is..TIERS....You can say "bro just find someone else" and it be the BEST advice in the world, but thats specific to a certain "tier" of guy..if chris brown gets cheated on and is hurting, you can't give him the same advice youd give quazzy motto..😂..one guys reality is.."mann go look in the mirror" then go get some girls...you can't tell ole quazzy that...its more like "it'll be okay bro"... UNIVERSALLY, dont be so invested..life is not a fairy tale..
They’re not excusing either one. Theyre just explaining it.
Woah, someone with a brain
Finally, someone gets it
When men cheat, your partner will call you a pig. But when your female partner cheats, she's following her heart. The reality of it is, cheaters have the heart of a pig period.
It's just cultural myth. Men can also cheat emotionally and women can also experience unromantic sexual attraction. Also, women don't often cheat on their male partner with some other man, it's most often her galpal. And men don't take that seriously and sometimes deliberately allow it.
Broken females do.
Why does everyone in the comments say that cheating is bad regardless.
Well... Yes?
Nobody claimed otherwise.
You can tell this girl is Young. I've been married 26 years and I'm not so stupid that I don't think my wife has gotten emotionally close to other men. But I do know everything my wife's ever done cheating I will agree is not just a physical thing but at the physicals not involved you never cheated in my opinion.
If you accept cheating from your wife, you can’t call yourself a respectable man. The majority of men AND women will never respect you for that. End of story.
Yes but does she keep it a secret?
It's honestly concerning how many people believe emotional cheating "doesn't count"
WOMEN DON'T CHEAT THEY BETRAY!...
Men are conditioned by other men from a young age that it’s fine to do that. Men use this excuse of being hardwired to mate but if that were true then women should be the acceptable cheaters because our desires run deeper, stronger, and much longer throughout life. We all know right from wrong. Why are these men acting like they want marriage if they don’t want the basic boundaries that come with it? Oh yeah, a servant I almost forgot
Women are the most fickle beings on Earth, a woman's love isn't worth its weight in toilet paper. It's meaningless. Women will instantly leave you for the wind blowing in the wrong direction. 100% no loyalty. Plus they only want you for money and resources.
Ma'am, we're not in the past anymore here 💀
@@somerandomchad469those views still linger.
No. Texting other people without it being romantic is not cheating. It IS cheating if you’re texting them in hopes of keeping the door open for something more than a friendship, or the conversation is inappropriate.
No man is ever speaking to a woman that he isn’t deep down wanting to bone.
idk if this is cheating but. I was talking to a single mom 35 with three kids. She worked 2 jobs. it was long distance. im 27. I helped her financially to feed her kids. keep her house cause she was homeless. helped her with gas money. she is a depressed person also . Having mental breakdowns crying in the shower. Cause of her past. And last sunday i found out by the other dudes pic they both were in it hugging. she went back to her best friend and banged him and did all this behind my back. for a YEAR! WE TALKED And how she said she loved me and would never hurt me I believed her!. i thought she was more mature than that. and now I can’t believe i let myself be freaking deceived!.
Hahaha you're a fvcking lozer bruv you actually think wimmin feel actual emotions like love? You believe they are loyal? Hahahaha what a chump you are. Don't let it happen again..
Hahahaha
that’s definitely cheating man sorry you had to deal with that
@@clickmyprofile4751 right? She acted like nothing happened
Your first mistake was giving a chance to a single mom. Never EVER EVER date a single mom seriously. You wanna bang her it's fine do it as much as you want with safety, but do not ever think of getting into serious relationship. All that talk of how a real man behaves by single women is a facade to trick you into saving them. They do not have your interests in mind.
Back when I used to entertain men, I would do exactly what he's doing, right there and then. And like the girl said they'd immediately crash out, talking about "it's disrespectful" to him. And I would innocently tell them I didn't know it wasn't allowed since HE was doing it 🤷🏾♀️
Heres my take, i think a lot of ATTRACTIVE women get in relationships with men with status (let me finish), not so much for attraction because attraction/sex is already easy to get for an attractive woman. Heres the flip side. A lot of men with status, dont have the time to commit emotionally, they'll pay your bills, take you on expensive dates to boost your ego. But thats it because they're out creating self value through money.
So those women typically will cheat physically or mentally with a man thats more empathic, one that'll make her feel valued and seen emotionally.
So i do think, if you are an empathic man, and you think you're in a relationship. Shes probably got another man thats wining and dining her (who's to say if the empathic man is the main, but i do know the one with money will treat her like shit and she'll take it. But with the empathic man, she'll treat him like shit and wont take any shit from the empathic man because she doesn't really care about you, she cares about status). Thats just the modern manipulative woman.
I do think deeeep down, us men always know whats up.
Men, don't get married, don't get attached.You will lose everything....guaranteed.
Hope you feel loved soon
Lmao, hopefully love finds you one day
You sound pathetic. Misery does love company.
92% chance for men who get comfortable easy
@@tantanmustdieYou are speaking emotionally he is speaking facts
Cheating is cheating and is unforgivable either way.
If you'd get upset if you found out your partner was texting or sexting someone else in secret, then it's cheating.
No...this is an excuse guys will jump on ...if hes texting and pursuing another its also a form of cheating. Women have sex all the time without being emotionally invested. Thats a crock also . Women love to pretend about this just as men do. 😅
Honestly , I’ve learned to not love anything. As sad as it sounds, loving something just means it can be taken away from you and there’s nothing you can do about it. So it’s easier to just not.
Based
@@gregoryc6656based or did you mean biased
She is absolutly honest!
If a woman has an emotional connection she's less than one heartbeat away from having a physical involvement. Her partner should always be her first emotional connection.
I think it is worse when women cheat because for men most of the time it is purely physical but they do not love that woman, woman will love which ever man makes us feel safe and loved so as soon as our husband stops doing that and someone else does, we will fall in love with the one who does. Which is why I believe that for a long term marriage to work a woman has to consistently tend to her husbands physical needs and a man needs to consistently tend to his wife’s emotional needs.
Their both bad
@@Kiakitkat I never said they weren’t
Cheating is bad regardless of gender. Man or Woman.
And people who argue otherwise are just projecting the fact that they have probably been cheat on many times or they cheat on people alot. Just stop behaving like a child already, this is a sign of a deep physcological issue.
Most women cheat when there is a lack of desire in her relationship or revenge after their spouse cheat...
I think I read in a woman's magazine 30 years ago, that when a woman usually cheats, she ready for the marriage to be over and she's looking for a good replacement. I think that's true, although as more equality occurs, woman are catching up to men in respect to why and percentage.
Seems like ur making excuses
Is that supposed to be an excuse?
Wrong, most women cheat because they already found someone better than their boyfriends. My grandmother told me exactly what im telling you. And also, I’m not trying to brag but as an handsome man myself there’s plenty of women at my job in Amazon has boyfriends be giving me constant choosing signals every time I come to work even the single girls, but these women who has boyfriends have it worst with the choosing signals.
All these years working at Amazon I came to a realization that ALL women in general have the potential to cheat because they all showing me day in and night out.
@@easylife6348so you're saying women will cheat if they find a handsome men?
Everyone in the comments section saying its wrong regardless of who cheats. They arent making the point that its ok for one sex and not the other. Basically women are more likely to begin with an emotional affair while men are more likely to begin with a physical affair. Given time, usually one eventually becomes the other.
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Cheating is cheating. It doesn't matter who does it or why they do it. It is just straight up WRONG. 😮😮😮
When men cheat they do so too long before physical touch. They are liking pictures, sexting, DMing, emailing, going on a few dates prior to the actual physical encounter.
'Liking pictures' You need a therapist if you think liking an image on some dumbass social media site constitutes infidelity. Jesus christ.
Cheating is cheating women always trying to justify their actions, if you don't love someone tell them and move on. It's always men that are the bad people, isn't it equality you women preach so own your shit
Yeah. Men do the same. I mean how did they even get the side chick? By getting phone numbers and talking to girls. Men gotta do work to get the girl.
@Ptah𓁰Amun𓁩Ra𓁜 pretty much every episode of cheaters the man was on a date... so you dont even know.... lol
@ptahamunra5422Nope, that's cause if you have a gf and you are looking outside it means that you have to put in some work to get the outside meat.... men say the reason why them cheating isn't as bad cause they have to put in the work, what's different about wanting a another woman besides your gf
This why I stay single. You can't trust anyone these days
Or maybe you have trust issues to think anyone is inherently distrustworthy. Because there are bad people or people into things that are bad.
@@sucram1018 No one is trustworthy. Everyone is out here to get you.
@@sucram1018 My family and friends cry because i push them away. But i know that everyone is a liar.
@@yourlocalraven489every single one
😂😂😂 me too bro litarally
I personally don't care how different cheating is, it may just be a piss in the lake for man, and a man still love his woman, but that woman will have her heart broken and won't love him, it doesn't matter how different it is, it's still wrong, best to be in a open relationship, i think cheaters are sick, especially when they expect some kind of monogamy.
Thank You for sharing the truth !!!!!
If you want more what you deserve (both partners), you also deserve to be punished by society.
Anyone who cheats did it mentally way before it was physically this is trash advice
Why? Its the truth
Women cheat out of anger, men cheat out of joy. -Kelso from that 70s show.
That's what my guy was trying to convince me for years, that a woman cheating is worse than a man because it's emotional. Then 3 weeks ago after a party that I didn't attend, he kissed a woman in our group and the next day he went to her home, watched a movie, talked all night and they fell asleep kissing and hugging. NO SEX! Now come again and tell me men don't cheat emotionally.
Women are attracted to cheaters. Probably made you more attracted to him. He is obviously doing something right to attract you and the other woman.
If my husband or long term partner cheated on me, as long as it was just a one night stand and he used protection and it was purely just a mistake purely made of lust not love I would forgive him, as long as he promises to not do it again. However if I am in a relationship and wanting another man it’s because I don’t love my man anymore, because as a girl I can tell you when we truly like a guy we are straight up obsessed and see no other men.
Does that mean u will invest emotionally in another man before ending your relationship,u havent answered that question,many women do this and may even sleep with the other before ending her current one.
@@SuperBeastman10 Well that doesn’t relate to my comment, but like I said when a woman is truly in love with a man she doesn’t see any other men, but I would never cheat emotionally if physically if that is the question, if the relationship isn’t going to workout I would just break up with him.
@teresawatson9032 thats the best way to be,it doesn't always end that way though,theres many people in the world and sein as this is based on women they will get emotionally connected to another man then end it after.
The new guy appaars on the seen so soon after the break up as he was already in the background..
Honey cheating is not a mistake it’s a choice
@@KevinJohnson-pt8mg but people can make choices that where a mistake. It’s obviously something that it would take me a really long time to get over but if we had built a family together I wouldn’t break it all up because of that.
The rare jewel of a woman that understands and talks sense… if she lives it, that might be another story
This women had experience with cheating
It is morally wrong to cheat on your spouse/ partner. In many cases, society tends to punish men for cheating on women. While at the same time, society tends to give women a slap on the wrist for cheating on men.
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No women ain’t gotta be emotional to get off. Men are confused with what you’re told. Like us, they do not need any connection to simply hook up.
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I think it’s all bull crap. If you cheat it means you never cared for your significant other in the first place. If you did you would never cheat. And I’m sorry but you don’t deserve any respect once you get caught and you don’t deserve another chance.
Yes, that's called micro- heating and is still very much disloyalty
*micro-cheating
Emotion is an excuse, they are dramatic. They can’t control their pissy, they can’t control the greed of money/ power.
Both is wrong
Nah. Both do both. The E/P sexuality type theory helps. And cheating is cheating - I’ve heard one should define that with a partner where it begins.
Women are more Greedy, if a man had a lot of money she would never leave him until he went broke, even if a woman should stay by his side women leave for money not for Love
All women aren’t the same. The “women” you’re talking about sound like cheap hoes so speak for yourself
Nice job being sexist
I don't care about how much money he has, as long as he does not impulsively spend (is wise with it- plans ahead and communicates).
If you get married, you share income. I would not want someone impulsively burning away money because that's selfish...
But, if a guy went broke because of uncontrollable circumstances (like getting laid off or some other outside unfortunate event) it would be immoral to leave him.
An emotional affair is absolutely a thing and it eventually turns physical if the opportunity presents itself. Its unacceptable to, as this person says, "open themselves up to someone else" emotionally. It destroys the primary relationship and you can choose to not do this.
Realistically I think we all got cheated lol
Of course
not me at least yet..
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@@clickmyprofile4751bro you don’t even know it. I’ve experienced plenty of women have boyfriends be giving me choosing signals and I have to tell you there’s a 99% chance she already or currently micro-cheated on you with someone else even if you do everything right in the relationship, your girl probably found a dude that’s better than you in every way.
People who cheat are intelligent
Cheating for men and wonen is the same, difference is in the steps,
For men it's sexual then emotional
For women emotional then sexual
So cheating is cheating no matter which sex you are
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People cheat because they're not getting something they want from the relationship and for whatever reason can't communicate it with the other person. You don't look for water when the bucket is full.
Bucket won’t always be full in a relationship. Happiness, satisfaction, even attraction come and go. If your fidelity is tied to your happiness you won’t have a lasting relationship.
@@Soul_of_Radiance Ever had an empty bucket for years?
@@TuxedoTalk I try not to tie my happiness to other people but I would imagine if you were absolutely miserable with someone and they made your life miserable then sure I can understand. But what are people expecting to find in someone? An empty bucket is the inevitable result of spending lots of time with anyone. Eventually they won’t be exciting and fun anymore. You will completely know and understand that person. It will feel like dissatisfaction and boredom
@@Soul_of_Radiance What if your partner doesn't want sex anymore.
@@TuxedoTalk I understand why a young man would leave a relationship without sex yes. I guess the question becomes is this a person who you want to grow old with. Even having sex becomes difficult as you age as well. It’s not the priority to me now that it was when I was 25.
Cheating needs to be defined in a realtionship becsue everyone has a different definition! 🤦♀️🤦♀️. I text gay friends and married friend that is not cheating! This needs to be defined and talked about so no bs can happen!
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So if the man is conquering to cheat he is putting more effort into the mistake.
cheating: the inclination or practice of misleading others.
This means that he acts with more commitment and awareness, using more time and thought to make the mistake and with more desire, so if everything is more conscious and effortful, which makes the act more selfish and if he strives "the inclination or practice of misleading others" is already immoral, right?
So the man has more of an attitude to deceive and the man is also excited to know that what he is doing is wrong, so it is not just physical attraction.
If the moral logic you use is the effort and position to weigh betrayal in the balance, both have their immoral value, since the woman's was giving in, the man's the conscious and selfish will was used for more time and effort to make the mistake.
You think female betrayal is worse because of the image that women have as more fragile and emotional and because of the sexual position as well.
I know that women generally use more emotion and men use libido, but even though the two have different values and depths, they both have intensity, lack of control and at the same time conscience.
I disagree that women use more emotion while men use libido. It's a statement that is constantly used without any scientific basis.
Also, men act like throwing heart eyes emojis at girls pictures is “not” them trying to shoot their shot on some level
Because realistically, most women ignore positive attention from men. Heart-eye emojis will almost never result in a random twitter model actually talking to a man. Women ignore 99.9% of men.
@@shin-ishikiri-no is not ok just because it’s possible they will get ignored i’ve been ignored by the opposite gender all my life if i managed to get a partner i still wouldn’t do that
For humans, biologically, any physical intimacy lends itself to emotional connection. There is no separation between physical/emotional cheating.
True, wen a woman is texting somebody wen shes in a relationship that already cheating.
It doesn't matter in the end for both men and women cheating is bad. When it comes to accountability, women avoid that. If you have someone that is loyal and faithful to you alone. You under no circumstance, she on them.
Don’t cheat … if you’re going to then communicate that you’re feeling a certain way. Don’t psychologically damage someone else. Plus if you think a man cheating means nothing you’re extremely red pilled… get out of this pill cringe shit
Ain't no such thing as cheating if you don't treat your relationship as if it was a game.
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Sadly, men definitely do the emotional cheating too. The difference is women will not cheat unless they are emotionally connected to the 3 person. For guy, they cheat whether they have emotional connection with the 3rd girl or not
When you don't even realize what the truth is on the general level.
@@tantanmustdieno ur wrong
we already knew this. only modern society decided to downplay male female interactions as merely platonic.
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Instead of cheating... breakup...
Atleast after breakup it's not considered cheating