Subhanallah, as someone whose father gave very little attention to whilst growing up this actually made me cry. May Allah guide the men of this ummah and make them good fathers and let them raise pious and good daughters into good and pious women
My dad was a natural parent to me when compared to my mom. Love you daddy . Missing you. May Allah grant you maghfirat and grant you Jannah insha'Allah
My Dad was My Best Friend ..... I love So much ...... We have no barrier...... He died on 1.05.2021 Pray for him Allah Give him High Rank In Jannah ... Ameen Suma Ameen
my dad will be the first person to catch me if i fell down when i was small..he always create the atmosphere for us and find a time to do stuff together.. :)
my father is schizophrenic and I don't remember the last time I spoke to him, even though we live in the same home. it's because he's kind of aggressive. the last time I did speak to him he told me to get lost. I know he can't help himself but it gets to me.
+girlperson wat aaahw! may Allah have mercy on your Dad! I wish I could say something to make you feel better! I have never met my dad, so I can only imagine how it feels to grow up with a dad and seeing him change:(. Big Hug!!
LOOOOL very true!! We girls tend to talk alot on the phone more!! Ha ha cite story!! I once caught ny dad like that and he had to pay me!! Ha ha beautiful Mashallah amazing!!
It came at the right moment I was just crying because of my parents.... They are hurting me for a very long time.. Yet they don't know they are.... I could forgive them a hundred times.... But it still hurts when things happened again.... I think i should leave here sooner.... That would be better to both of us...
When I have children, I will play so much with them. I cant wait. I love children, I hope allah bless me with good kids inshallah :) .. ow and to mister Khan you are sooooo right. I rather that my future children trust me instead of some weird person somewhere else. Just gain some friendship when they are little, when they grow up you will be there best friends :) ..
Thank you for letting us know that we talk a lot but I'm glad I don't Iwish was related to u byblood wow urso amazing mashaallah mayAllah increase u inur knowledge AMEEN.
I'm forever trying to find someone who'll just be there. dad=too strict, mum=not close enough. I've come to a conclusion that no human we ever 'always be there' so I rely solely on Allah:-)
Don't feel alone. UA-cam is a great space to speak to people if you feel that way. I have a relative who feels the same way in her family. God is always there!!!
Allah SWT has also said this at one part that if you can not forgive others how do you expect me to forgive you? I personally think about this and I do a billion stupid things even if I don't mean to, or I'll miss my prayer etc and Allah (SWT) is still so kind to me even though honestly compared to all the kindness He has done and is doing for me, I am pretty neglecting. In your specific situation , this saying would mean to forgive and move on and show your father the way things should be.
i know my dad never gave me so much attention but i could easily open up with him more than my mum but my chances are very little since we dont really develop any in depth talking matter like my mum and me do. BUT I know i'm a girl but i've begged my dad to get me a ps4 which he never did cause he either doesnt care or just, well that's it, i'm gonna grow older buy a ps4 and play it all day with my kid cause i can lol
+kazuma16love In Shaa ALLAH, sister, In Shaa ALLAH. Hope and pray that you DO get to play PS4 with your kids AND your husband too. May ALLAH Bless you and other sister with such happiness, Ameen. :)
Hiking! Soooo my baba! OVE the one about the hairclip. How I used to talk when I was a small kid. And how my Sister talks now. Just natiural for all girls!{don't forget the boys!}
Salams, That was my point. The user I replied to suggested that the Ustadh is always criticizing or making negative comments on women. I was pointing out that if you watch his videos, he talks to men and women equally, just as he talks to adults and youth equally. He is not inherently biased.
very very kind and forgiving BUT we also have to earn it. We must try to be the best we can be and always ask for forgiveness. And also what I meant by care, love, and respect is not just words . I mean if my Grandfather had any problem financially or even if he didn't , my father took care of it through Grandma. And doing that for so many years and looking out for his father in so many ways and still being told bad is something. Don't give up on him so fast , don't ever :)
Hahahahahhahaha! Ahhh bless his girls xD Very true, women are much more fluent in this aspect than most men tend to be. Therefore the onus is on men to really make the extra effort and do their level best.
So Muslims should only talk Islam? Be open minded brother/sister all issues in society must be addressed and this brother has been given a beautiful way of speech by Allah and he inspires so many people because of his approach of giving naseeha. Salaam.
Asslmwalikum waa rehmat tullahi waa barakatu....Nauman sir 😇your speeches are very helpful and sir I love listening to it...rather then I would love to follow... Inshallah.....jazakhalaa khair...Nauman sir
@Boxa Don ... Show him love and kindness. There are reasons a person is the way they are. My father had issues with his father as well and after almost 35 years of care an love and respect his father (my grandfather) sat down with him one day and apologized and cried and both my father and grandfather felt at peace. A few years later Grandfather passed away. And my father misses him. Another point other than the responsibility Allah (SWT) has given us , there's also the point of regret. Do not
Oh Allah how brought us together as Muslims and followers of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him and his family in this mortal world by your wisdom without asking you for it We beg you to enter us all Al-Firdous paradise with our beloved prophet by your supreme mercy which encompasses everything as we beg you for it. Amen
Yes, it's normal. It annoys me when people talk as if every single woman on the planet has the same personality and every single man on the planet has the same personality.
Hopefully I can impliment this years from now when I have kids. InshaAllah. And I know what you mean. Little kids in general constantly talk nonsense and scream for no reason.
Qur'an 2:1 "Alif-Lam-Min. (These letters are a miracle of the Qur'an and only Allah knows what they mean) This is the Book free of doubt, a guidance to those who ward off (evil), WHO BELIEVE IN THE UNKNOWN, fulfill their devotional obligations, and pay (zakat) out of what We have provided." *** NOTHING, ALLAH (nothing) U AKBAR ! “Who is Saying a Prayer to Me that I MAY Answer it?” “Who is Asking Something of Me that I MAY Give it him?” “Who is Asking Forgiveness of Me that I MAY Forgive him?"
make a choice that will cause painful regret . I do hope that you care for your father no matter the way he is or what he's done. I can't assure you that your love can help change him as that is also up to Allah (SWT) but I can assure you that it's worth it. And I pray that your relationship heals. As for if Allah (SWT) will be just with you or punish you... That is simply between you and Him. I can not tell what He will decide :) but I do know that He is the best Judge and that He is also
@ BoxaDon hm although it is true that he may not have been acting as a father should we are still told to care for them because no matter what they are our parents/father/mother and these are the bonds that Allah (SWT) has made for us. We cannot have another father or mother or brother or sister or so on that are blood related like that. These are the relationships we are born with and are given the responsibility to care for. You know even though if that's what your father had done, you should
subhanAllah why are you so offended he has said nothing wrong he is merely giving extremely important advice to both men and women it is his job to do so as well as yours and mine
@ Boxa Don . That's not right. No matter what he is your father , despite whatever happened and when he needs you , you should be there . Always do good deeds remember . Good deeds = medicine + bonus ...... Inner peace.
Truly Speaking he criticize more to Desi Muslims (Like Pakistani etc) and as he from that background so he knowns more us, that is why he more often talk of us.. And for your point may be your listened his very short clips try to listen complete bayan then you will come to known the things..
hes not critizing anyone he is speaking the truth about men and women today and perhaps always it is a fact in islam that women are more loving and caring towards children than men, this is why in divorce the woman has more right to keep the children than the man unless she re marries
Hahaha No! No ! As a girl i don't talk too much,i am mostly silent :-D But yes little kids talk really tooooo much,hihi and they ask so many questions :-O
@lovepoison102 haha :P, some times when my little sister just like today talk too much, I just say yes, but she knows I'm not listening and she gets mad.. furiouss! :P
Subhanallah, as someone whose father gave very little attention to whilst growing up this actually made me cry. May Allah guide the men of this ummah and make them good fathers and let them raise pious and good daughters into good and pious women
Nasreenthirteen Such a beautiful dua sister, Ameen x
@@nazeefa2 hey! U have my name.
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@Axton Payton flixportal xD
@Nikolas Kareem thank you, I signed up and it seems to work =) I appreciate it !
You are blessed to have daughters May God bless them
Ameen thumma Ameen ❤🤲🏽
I'm a papa's girl. My dad teach me a lots about Islam since I was small. I miss him so much. Love you papa.
My dad was a natural parent to me when compared to my mom. Love you daddy . Missing you. May Allah grant you maghfirat and grant you Jannah insha'Allah
AMEEN
Say AMEEN after a dua not inshAllah
Ameen
My Dad was My Best Friend .....
I love So much ......
We have no barrier......
He died on 1.05.2021
Pray for him
Allah Give him High Rank In Jannah ...
Ameen Suma Ameen
God forgive him and re unite you guys in heaven!!!
So true, fathers really need to work on this. So true
I wish my dad was like him, me and my dad reeeeeaaaaaaalllllly don't get along
Me too, Sister.
in shaa Allah it will be better.
Me three
Alhamdulillah you still have a dad. Do your best to get along with him inshaAllah!
TAEEEEE anyeong army
I'm gonna play video games with my future kid/s, and try to be their best pal In Sha Allah.
I could change my mind but I would rather see them play non-violent games, more like Jak or ratchet.
Same here.I wanna be like my dad,but just a little bit different.
@Esam Al Zuhayr me after 6 years haha
u a dad now?
I wish there was something to clone brot Nouman Ali khan. I want to adopt him as my own brother.
+Zainab Mohammed ya he will keep on talking to you all the time....carefully
Zainab Mohammed I wish my dad was like him
Oh how I wish my parents had listened to you before they started raising me
Don't we all...we have access to much more parenting knowledge now than our parents did. God forgive them all!!! Aameen!
i wish i was blessed with father like you sir :) i dont remember the last time my father spoke to me....
my dad will be the first person to catch me if i fell down when i was small..he always create the atmosphere for us and find a time to do stuff together.. :)
MashaaAllaah!!!
my father is schizophrenic and I don't remember the last time I spoke to him, even though we live in the same home. it's because he's kind of aggressive. the last time I did speak to him he told me to get lost. I know he can't help himself but it gets to me.
+girlperson wat aaahw! may Allah have mercy on your Dad! I wish I could say something to make you feel better! I have never met my dad, so I can only imagine how it feels to grow up with a dad and seeing him change:(.
Big Hug!!
so lucky have father like Mr.Nouman..
LOOOOL very true!! We girls tend to talk alot on the phone more!! Ha ha cite story!! I once caught ny dad like that and he had to pay me!! Ha ha beautiful Mashallah amazing!!
*cute story!! ......
It came at the right moment
I was just crying because of my parents....
They are hurting me for a very long time..
Yet they don't know they are....
I could forgive them a hundred times.... But it still hurts when things happened again....
I think i should leave here sooner....
That would be better to both of us...
MaShaAllah Really good video Brother! May Allah Bless Us Believers And Inshallah Grant Us The Highest Level In Jannah Firdous Ameen!
JkinPublic ameeeeeen!
When I have children, I will play so much with them. I cant wait. I love children, I hope allah bless me with good kids inshallah :) .. ow and to mister Khan you are sooooo right. I rather that my future children trust me instead of some weird person somewhere else. Just gain some friendship when they are little, when they grow up you will be there best friends :) ..
Hope you had blessed 🤗with children❤
girls do talk a lot lol and I should know
+John Smith shut up u filthy animal
+John Smith claiming you're Muslim in your other comment, disgusting
I mean it depends on the girl tho, I speak a looot sometimes😭😂
Thank you for letting us know that we talk a lot but I'm glad I don't Iwish was related to u byblood wow urso amazing mashaallah mayAllah increase u inur knowledge AMEEN.
Nouman Ali sir .I am a big fan of your dawah and i am from Bangladesh ☺
Great video... Powerful.. Yet funny JazakAllahu khairan. May Allah SWT accept all out efforts to please Him.
I'm forever trying to find someone who'll just be there. dad=too strict, mum=not close enough. I've come to a conclusion that no human we ever 'always be there' so I rely solely on Allah:-)
Don't feel alone. UA-cam is a great space to speak to people if you feel that way. I have a relative who feels the same way in her family. God is always there!!!
Allah SWT has also said this at one part that if you can not forgive others how do you expect me to forgive you? I personally think about this and I do a billion stupid things even if I don't mean to, or I'll miss my prayer etc and Allah (SWT) is still so kind to me even though honestly compared to all the kindness He has done and is doing for me, I am pretty neglecting. In your specific situation , this saying would mean to forgive and move on and show your father the way things should be.
i know my dad never gave me so much attention but i could easily open up with him more than my mum but my chances are very little since we dont really develop any in depth talking matter like my mum and me do. BUT I know i'm a girl but i've begged my dad to get me a ps4 which he never did cause he either doesnt care or just, well that's it, i'm gonna grow older buy a ps4 and play it all day with my kid cause i can lol
+kazuma16love In Shaa ALLAH, sister, In Shaa ALLAH. Hope and pray that you DO get to play PS4 with your kids AND your husband too. May ALLAH Bless you and other sister with such happiness, Ameen. :)
Nick Randall
haha yess insha Allah.
In Shaa ALLAH.
And what does the ps4 mean ? I dont get it
+ABDULLAH UMAR its a game console, PlayStation 4
Hiking! Soooo my baba! OVE the one about the hairclip. How I used to talk when I was a small kid. And how my Sister talks now. Just natiural for all girls!{don't forget the boys!}
I tried to play this really loudly since my dad do non of this things for me and he just yells out " STOP WITH THAT LOUD SHIT ! "
Great man, Allah bless u
Each family has to be like this with their kids
Aww Hopefully every thing will be fine. Insahallah!
Very important advice for parents.
Salams,
That was my point. The user I replied to suggested that the Ustadh is always criticizing or making negative comments on women.
I was pointing out that if you watch his videos, he talks to men and women equally, just as he talks to adults and youth equally. He is not inherently biased.
very very kind and forgiving BUT we also have to earn it. We must try to be the best we can be and always ask for forgiveness. And also what I meant by care, love, and respect is not just words . I mean if my Grandfather had any problem financially or even if he didn't , my father took care of it through Grandma. And doing that for so many years and looking out for his father in so many ways and still being told bad is something. Don't give up on him so fast , don't ever :)
I want my dad to realise that my talkativeness is normal :P
Good man....muslims all over the world appreciate your positive enthusiasm.peace:)
I love this one. :)
But, indeed, parenting comes naturally for mothers. For fathers, they need to work it out. Nevertheless, Fathers are important.
Hahahahahhahaha! Ahhh bless his girls xD
Very true, women are much more fluent in this aspect than most men tend to be. Therefore the onus is on men to really make the extra effort and do their level best.
So Muslims should only talk Islam? Be open minded brother/sister all issues in society must be addressed and this brother has been given a beautiful way of speech by Allah and he inspires so many people because of his approach of giving naseeha. Salaam.
jazakAllah khair 4 such a amazing advise
Asslmwalikum waa rehmat tullahi waa barakatu....Nauman sir 😇your speeches are very helpful and sir I love listening to it...rather then I would love to follow... Inshallah.....jazakhalaa khair...Nauman sir
You really sound like a Christian pastor this was a great message for all nice job
@Boxa Don ... Show him love and kindness. There are reasons a person is the way they are. My father had issues with his father as well and after almost 35 years of care an love and respect his father (my grandfather) sat down with him one day and apologized and cried and both my father and grandfather felt at peace. A few years later Grandfather passed away. And my father misses him. Another point other than the responsibility Allah (SWT) has given us , there's also the point of regret. Do not
Oh Allah how brought us together as Muslims and followers of Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him and his family in this mortal world by your wisdom without asking you for it We beg you to enter us all Al-Firdous paradise with our beloved prophet by your supreme mercy which encompasses everything as we beg you for it. Amen
i keep replay the part he make the hand talking sign :)
really great.
Jazakallahukhyr
HHHHHHHHHHHHH thank uu so much brother nouman ur the best u make so laugh today :D
assalamu ayilkum he great muslim he a good careing dad may allah bless him
jajakallah kairan to noman ali brother
MashAllah beautyful Lecture!:)
Yes, it's normal. It annoys me when people talk as if every single woman on the planet has the same personality and every single man on the planet has the same personality.
Ustadh u are great.amazing
Full lecture plsss link 😬
mashaallah subhanallah very funny Nouman Ali Khan
2:28 funniest part😂
Mashallah Got to send this to the "Young Muslims Club"!
Hopefully I can impliment this years from now when I have kids. InshaAllah. And I know what you mean. Little kids in general constantly talk nonsense and scream for no reason.
Bless you brother Noman.
that so nice of a Muslim Dad,
you should talk to her regarding all those things!
It's true what he says, every single word of it.
Like you alot Khan saab
MAASHA ALLAH
Qur'an 2:1
"Alif-Lam-Min. (These letters are a miracle of the Qur'an and only Allah knows what they mean)
This is the Book free of doubt, a guidance to those who ward off (evil), WHO BELIEVE IN THE UNKNOWN, fulfill their devotional obligations, and pay (zakat) out of what We have provided."
*** NOTHING, ALLAH (nothing) U AKBAR !
“Who is Saying a Prayer to Me that I MAY Answer it?”
“Who is Asking Something of Me that I MAY Give it him?”
“Who is Asking Forgiveness of Me that I MAY Forgive him?"
Great spot on
make a choice that will cause painful regret . I do hope that you care for your father no matter the way he is or what he's done. I can't assure you that your love can help change him as that is also up to Allah (SWT) but I can assure you that it's worth it. And I pray that your relationship heals. As for if Allah (SWT) will be just with you or punish you... That is simply between you and Him. I can not tell what He will decide :) but I do know that He is the best Judge and that He is also
... it is was a point of view ... have fun...
@ BoxaDon hm although it is true that he may not have been acting as a father should we are still told to care for them because no matter what they are our parents/father/mother and these are the bonds that Allah (SWT) has made for us. We cannot have another father or mother or brother or sister or so on that are blood related like that. These are the relationships we are born with and are given the responsibility to care for. You know even though if that's what your father had done, you should
Damn what happened to the pink one 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Masha Allah ❤️
subhanAllah why are you so offended he has said nothing wrong he is merely giving extremely important advice to both men and women it is his job to do so as well as yours and mine
pick urself the child...😂
@ Boxa Don . That's not right. No matter what he is your father , despite whatever happened and when he needs you , you should be there . Always do good deeds remember . Good deeds = medicine + bonus ...... Inner peace.
So how would you suggest I answer lyra565's question?
It's written on title Nouman Ali Khan.
Magnificent👍
nice mashAllah
Truly Speaking he criticize more to Desi Muslims (Like Pakistani etc) and as he from that background so he knowns more us, that is why he more often talk of us.. And for your point may be your listened his very short clips try to listen complete bayan then you will come to known the things..
So true
lol my dad needs to hear this ...
Ah! you did not block "Road2jesus"
he ha ha ha......... right it happen to me. :D
hes not critizing anyone he is speaking the truth about men and women today and perhaps always it is a fact in islam that women are more loving and caring towards children than men, this is why in divorce the woman has more right to keep the children than the man unless she re marries
Love this man
So funny!
Hahaha No! No ! As a girl i don't talk too much,i am mostly silent :-D But yes little kids talk really tooooo much,hihi and they ask so many questions :-O
will iam 26 now
i never had one to bo open with
i hope thats change when i have my own children
hey can you add subs because the voice is very low and I can't understand him.
He should join "Allah made me funny" comics.
Me and my dad never get along.
... it is was a point of view As yours...
I miss my dad a lot 😢
Asmaa Bawazir what happened to him ?
ma sha Allah
looooooooool very true i love to talk
this is so funny : )))))
Zs
l love u Nouman Ali for the sake of Allah
Man! its like he is talking about my husband. hahah
good and funny talk.. why he reminds me of Nicolas Cage?
@lovepoison102 haha :P, some times when my little sister just like today talk too much, I just say yes, but she knows I'm not listening and she gets mad.. furiouss! :P
Lol, that's true.
1:04 say that five times
wow but im so silent and my dads usually doing all the talking...is that normal? :O
So true!