Face Transplant Recipient interview-Joe Dimeo

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  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Joe Dimeo, a face transplant recipient after an auto accident.
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  • @Joseph_DiMeo
    @Joseph_DiMeo 15 днів тому +1396

    Thank you Mark for the opportunity to share my story

    • @mikesclone5
      @mikesclone5 15 днів тому +36

      So much wisdom! Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️

    • @Isooqueen
      @Isooqueen 15 днів тому +25

      God bless you so sorry for what you went through ❤❤

    • @aquamix27
      @aquamix27 15 днів тому +13

      Blessings upon Blessings. ❤

    • @heatherkoehler3478
      @heatherkoehler3478 15 днів тому +27

      I’m super into you and your story, but I’d love to know more about your dog tbh. Lol. In all seriousness, I’ve almost fallen asleep at the wheel. I worked healthcare for almost 12 years and I’m a tattoo artist now in order to fulfill my true dreams and to protect myself from that type of overwork. You’re a pretty dope dude and I’m glad you had Buster to help you get to where you are ❤

    • @davidford2169
      @davidford2169 15 днів тому +18

      Your a lovely young man 👍 all the very best to you,respect from the UK 🇬🇧

  • @bryantgarza
    @bryantgarza 22 дні тому +1763

    "Sad days are learning days". I will always remember this.

  • @kelliw5571
    @kelliw5571 19 днів тому +926

    This man was very physically handsome before, but hearing him speak, his inner self is even more beautiful. His strength and positive attitude are an inspiration.

    • @vomitmom666
      @vomitmom666 19 днів тому

      i completely agree. his attractiveness transcends his physical appearance

    • @whiteyfisk9769
      @whiteyfisk9769 18 днів тому

      Quit objectifying him you perv!!!

    • @donlimbargo5865
      @donlimbargo5865 18 днів тому +18

      You say that but I bet 99% of you would still not date him or give him a chance.

    • @booblebopple3455
      @booblebopple3455 18 днів тому

      @@donlimbargo5865 you’re an incel

    • @Soyloca666
      @Soyloca666 18 днів тому

      @@donlimbargo5865ikr

  • @michaeloffman8694
    @michaeloffman8694 24 дні тому +3085

    Bless his heart. He could be so bitter, but he's so positive and glad to be alive. ..and he loves his dog. What a sweetheart. (Ann)

    • @ktcooki276
      @ktcooki276 23 дні тому +14

      Are you letting us know Micheal wouldn't have called him "sweetheart", Ann?😊
      I agree. 😊

    • @meepmoopiethe3rd
      @meepmoopiethe3rd 23 дні тому +25

      I'm sure it helps that he has a very supportive girlfriend. I've seen this dude's stuff on Instagram a time or two and I'm fully convinced she's there for the fame, but one of the most common ways people with disfigurement go out is suicide because of the alienation of looking different, so at the very least she's keeping dude going.

    • @carmelaburrone5029
      @carmelaburrone5029 23 дні тому +37

      Yes..I agree. He is truly a beautiful soul. I wish him all the best in his life.

    • @michaeloffman8694
      @michaeloffman8694 23 дні тому

      @@ktcooki276 Actually, I am using Michaels phone😊 Pretty sure he would agree with me, (Ann)

    • @Kelsey-dk4vw
      @Kelsey-dk4vw 22 дні тому +4

      I mean it’s his fault for driving tired 🥱 so he wouldn’t be able to be mad at anyone but himself

  • @dawnvandeventer9989
    @dawnvandeventer9989 24 дні тому +1708

    What a survivor! Can't imagine going through so much suffering. I turn 66 today and complain about wrinkles. No more complaining from me. God bless you.

    • @dakotahays2836
      @dakotahays2836 23 дні тому +25

      Happy Birthday 🎂

    • @dawnvandeventer9989
      @dawnvandeventer9989 23 дні тому +10

      @@dakotahays2836 thank you. At least it's lovely weather in Cape Town today.

    • @mintyblue3819
      @mintyblue3819 23 дні тому +13

      Happy birthday love ❤ Yeah seeing someone push through this amount of pain & disfigurement really is inspiring. Puts things into perspective. God bless 🙏

    • @CATNAPREAL1188
      @CATNAPREAL1188 22 дні тому +6

      Happy Birthday 🎉

    • @CosmicHeartbeatz
      @CosmicHeartbeatz 22 дні тому +5

      Happy Birthday❤hope you have a beautiful magical day 🌻💗🥰

  • @33Donner77
    @33Donner77 18 днів тому +416

    One of the most, if not the most, impressive interviews on this channel. For many people, three friends and a dog are all you need.

  • @discgolfd
    @discgolfd 22 дні тому +599

    He says "it was my lucky day" bc he survived. So many people would just focus on the negative and think of it as their worst day. This young man is an inspiration.

    • @bobbythomas4497
      @bobbythomas4497 21 день тому +10

      Absolutely 💯🙏🏾

    • @mark-ish
      @mark-ish 20 днів тому +7

      Laita dwelled far too much on the negativity of the accident in this interview. Repeatedly asked the same simplistic question that got the same response. It would be devastating to experience although there's a whole lifetime in front of Joe Dimeo and his incredible strong personality.
      Poor effort on Laita's behalf, came across like a start of the week, 8am Monday effort.

    • @yettimannettii2039
      @yettimannettii2039 12 днів тому

      He should take up discgolf as a hobby.

    • @gregsimmons694
      @gregsimmons694 4 дні тому

      No such thing as luck. God bless you. Jesus saves sinners

  • @TheBadTam05
    @TheBadTam05 23 дні тому +1623

    Don’t suffer from depression, go outside. Pet your dog. Thanks Joe, I needed to hear that.

    • @patriciamarshall8828
      @patriciamarshall8828 22 дні тому +18

      Amazing spirit💘

    • @Whole180withAliyah
      @Whole180withAliyah 22 дні тому +14

      I needed it, too.

    • @AmazingRebel23
      @AmazingRebel23 22 дні тому +18

      Hell yeah i just sat in the grass and read half a book listening to gangster rap after pickin up sea creatures at the low tide, using depression as an activity is pointless and I wish someone had told me that before I spent a lot of my life that way.

    • @mateoramirez6473
      @mateoramirez6473 22 дні тому +78

      Depression is a mental illness that's related to a chemical imbalance, not just being sad.

    • @christinasanders5625
      @christinasanders5625 22 дні тому +13

      Animals are the greatest.

  • @topcat1746
    @topcat1746 18 днів тому +105

    What a beautiful, beautiful boy, wise beyond his years and a blessing to everyone who hears him. God bless him.

  • @bluekreed
    @bluekreed 23 дні тому +1131

    This young man brings tears to my eye's! My son Joshua was an organ donor at 21 year's young when he passed. You soon forget that tissue transplant is part of that. I have no doubt this young man will go far in life! Bless you and all you do! My son saved 7 lives.

    • @Timberon
      @Timberon 23 дні тому +81

      I have a donor's tissues and bones in my right arm. It has changed my life and I can use my arm normally again after 40 years. I am grateful to donors.

    • @bluekreed
      @bluekreed 23 дні тому +36

      @@Timberon That is amazing! I'm so happy you were able to gain function of your arm. It's nothing less than a miracle what modern medicine and the selfless donors can do. My son became one a year before he passed. So, when he was on life support he already made the difficult decision to be a tissue and organ donor. I wish you continued blessings ♥ ♥

    • @CATNAPREAL1188
      @CATNAPREAL1188 22 дні тому +30

      I'm Sorry for your Loss but I Thank You for being So Strong. God Bless You !

    • @mzturry
      @mzturry 22 дні тому +11

      Beautiful and wonderful ❤

    • @mariebarnes416
      @mariebarnes416 22 дні тому +27

      Your son was a hero.

  • @mantelmann13
    @mantelmann13 22 дні тому +296

    Never seen a face transplant recipient that can talk that good. His talking alone is making him appear pretty normal. I'm glad that you are still with us, dude.

    • @jennyn5692
      @jennyn5692 9 днів тому +4

      They've really come a long way since the first face transplants. The look and the amount of movement he has for it being so recent is amazing. He'll look better and better. The fact that face transplants are a thing at all still blows my mind.

    • @tammywilhidewilhide2832
      @tammywilhidewilhide2832 9 днів тому +1

      He looks and talks great

  • @gonewiththekale
    @gonewiththekale 19 днів тому +81

    My best friend fell asleep at the wheel and died. Joe is a walking miracle that he survived and also an inspiration to us all.

  • @jamesmoore4935
    @jamesmoore4935 24 дні тому +706

    Dude seriously this guy has brought a tear to my eye.
    He’s so smart and positive and inspirational… what an absolute legend

  • @gailmendez5465
    @gailmendez5465 21 день тому +768

    The love and powerful one liner :
    “She’s not a nurse. She’s just my MOM”❤️

    • @jaonmarymccormack3078
      @jaonmarymccormack3078 21 день тому +17

      She is both nurse and mom.

    • @sharonhare4835
      @sharonhare4835 20 днів тому +22

      That got me. In many ways, we are the best nurses because we possess the most important characteristic necessary, the HEART.

    • @michaelesgro9506
      @michaelesgro9506 19 днів тому +11

      @@sharonhare4835 and I can pretty much guarantee she loved doing what mom's do best, taking care of their babies, whatever age. Other than the suffering he has endured, I doubt she regrets any of this, the opportunity to help Joe and would not hesitate to take care of him for the rest of his life if that were necessary (which it will not be). His parents must be very fine people to raise a man of such incredible character and strength.
      He'll be fine and flourish because he is a very solid human being. Man, he was one very good-looking kid before that wasn't he? Still, he does not look so bad now and apparently, he will regain a lot of his original looks when the swelling subsides.... not that looks matter so much in the end.

    • @depletable
      @depletable 19 днів тому +1

      @@jaonmarymccormack3078 No, he said just a mom. Not a nurse at all.

    • @marcooni03
      @marcooni03 19 днів тому +5

      That comment brought a tear to my eye ❤

  • @JohnDoe-lx5rm
    @JohnDoe-lx5rm 18 днів тому +169

    Safe to say this guy is mentally stronger than everyone in the comment section and he might not know it himself but his internal strength is incredible 👍🏻

    • @None-y2f
      @None-y2f 15 днів тому +3

      Even you?

    • @JohnDoe-lx5rm
      @JohnDoe-lx5rm 14 днів тому +5

      @@None-y2f i think so. I would be crushed and who knows what else. I admire him for his inner strength

    • @cemu1065
      @cemu1065 12 днів тому +3

      He must have an amazing family, and not to forget his Dog. Best of luck to him & them ❤️❤️❤️.
      "the more I get to know people, the more I love my dog".

    • @carolfishwr8703
      @carolfishwr8703 8 днів тому +1

      Well said! I totally agree. The young man is quite unique and mature in his outlook and wisdom.

  • @princesssarah1213
    @princesssarah1213 23 дні тому +654

    I'm a burn survivor and struggled with self acceptance for most of my life even though my injuries weren't as severe as his. Joe has given me such a blueprint for how I want my mental health to look like. He's so amazing.

    • @hannahorme7114
      @hannahorme7114 22 дні тому +27

      He is seriously such an inspiration. I'm about 5 years post-burn. 2nd and 3rd degree grease burns to my face and several stitches, and you can hardly tell now, but I still dwell on it. This man is the goal of positive mental health.

    • @jesseelisabeatty8205
      @jesseelisabeatty8205 21 день тому +25

      I went to hs with kids that had burns, at first I tried not to look, but he said go ahead and look so I did, it kinda made me feel more relaxed , I got to know him as a person, he was funny, smart, a really nice person, pretty soon, I forgot his burns, I didn't see those things, it hurt me to see the way people would look at him , and look away, or avoid him, if they took the time to talk to him , they would have seen a beautiful person. The body is only the wrapper on the gift

    • @bodhisattva_1
      @bodhisattva_1 21 день тому +3

      @@hannahorme7114glad you’re ok !!!

    • @brittnaycox1578
      @brittnaycox1578 20 днів тому +4

      My son is a burn survivor so I understand your pain 😢 it’s hard especially as a mother so I can relate to his mom ❤ im glad your okay god bless you and Joe

    • @GlenviewTops885
      @GlenviewTops885 20 днів тому +5

      Inspirational young man. Your heart is beautiful and you are an attractive young gentleman after all this. My cousin was burned very bad and I don't even see her scars. When someone gets to know you , it's amazing how that happens. It is always good to know who your friends are. I know you do have sad days but you can be so encouraging to someone else who needs it. Many blessings to you.

  • @MazingerZ379
    @MazingerZ379 24 дні тому +1411

    He is a warrior like no other. This guy has more balls than anyone I have ever met or seen.

    • @KariJusOtw
      @KariJusOtw 23 дні тому

      @@DubElementMusicnb cares loser

    • @JBE608
      @JBE608 23 дні тому +8

      🙏💙

    • @jamesfagan172
      @jamesfagan172 23 дні тому +20

      A warrior is the best way to put it, true gladiator

    • @joemacca6478
      @joemacca6478 22 дні тому +4

      Well said.

    • @THEPINAPPLEABLE
      @THEPINAPPLEABLE 22 дні тому +8

      you've already said that about like 20 other people on this channel

  • @Riikkyy
    @Riikkyy 18 днів тому +62

    It’s crazy I broke my back and paralyzed and feel the same was as this guy. My doctor said are you depressed and I said no, I have bad days and get out of them. I think it’s normal to have good and bad days. Been very blessed to have been able to stay positive for as long as I have now. God bless this man.

    • @brennadickinson2920
      @brennadickinson2920 17 днів тому +8

      Every day is a wonderful gift from God. I know, being a cancer patient for the second time.

    • @Riikkyy
      @Riikkyy 17 днів тому +5

      @@brennadickinson2920 you’ve got this I know it’s not easy but if anyone can get through it it’s you. God bless

  • @musergames
    @musergames 24 дні тому +812

    Losing any number of friends because of an accident is a tragedy, but those 3 or 4 friends that stuck around are the real ones and are worth so much more than all the others who left. What a strong young man, may you enjoy many of the cheeseburgers you said you like to eat. Every little thing should be treasured, glad you made it

    • @TCW1977
      @TCW1977 24 дні тому +21

      Yes those 3 or 4 sound amazing 👏

    • @susanmiller5852
      @susanmiller5852 24 дні тому +36

      And also happy he had his dog by his side who gave him unconditional love!!! Dogs are absolutely the best friends!!!♥️🐾♥️

    • @eazypeazy33
      @eazypeazy33 23 дні тому +15

      Man that’s sad. Good friend of mine just passed in a car accident, and I would’ve never not been his friend if he would’ve survived in this manner.. but, that’s 20 years old friendship.

    • @Brothaz2
      @Brothaz2 23 дні тому +11

      Everyone fights a battle we know nothing about. So be kind /respectful- always. You are strong my young dude. Best of luck with your recovery. I am helluva impressed with your positive attitude.

    • @no-one.in.particular
      @no-one.in.particular 23 дні тому +3

      Unfortunately, it's really common for people to back away from friends/family/partners when they get injured or sick

  • @danielv5410
    @danielv5410 22 дні тому +570

    I am currently struggling in life with depression, anxiety, shame, guilt - this made me completely humble myself a bit and realize I am just complaining when in reality I have so much to be grateful for. This man is such an inspiration

    • @cd9400
      @cd9400 21 день тому +28

      Sometimes it is hard to see all we have and how lucky we really are. Life is simple really, if we allow it to be. Love and peace ❤

    • @UnintendedConsequences
      @UnintendedConsequences 20 днів тому

      A lot of us are struggling during this time - and I am no exception. C-PTSD, untreated chronic long-term depression and suddenly, unexpectedly a complete neurological breakdown in my mid-50s (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis + another as yet undiagnosed condition that presents a lot like late-stage Parkinson’s) and the fiduciary fallout of suddenly being unable to function… after what had been a really almost preternaturally blessed life…. And I have to battle it daily.
      I am only here to say - it’s crazy difficult, and sometimes seems impossible, or at least not worth the effort - but it’s a major hurdle overcome for you to be able to honestly assess, and well elucidate the challenges of life.
      I encourage you to be gentle and compassionate towards yourself - this is often one of the more difficult aspects of healing - and, although you don’t know me from Adam - you are welcome to contact me anytime if you need to talk.
      Just follow the links to my profile, you can find contact deets there. No strings, no agenda, just a willing ear with no judgement or strings attached… just a guy who understands the battle. I wish you all the best. Cheers.

    • @user-zv8be4sx7m
      @user-zv8be4sx7m 19 днів тому +11

      So you don't have depression or anxiety because you can't just shut it off. That's not how it works. You will be depressed and anxious again tomorrow and for the rest of your life. 😂

    • @l-train7876
      @l-train7876 19 днів тому

      @@user-zv8be4sx7myou’re a delight.

    • @dickjohnson9582
      @dickjohnson9582 19 днів тому

      Yes only the injuries that are visible are real.

  • @thatswhatshesaid.literally737
    @thatswhatshesaid.literally737 14 днів тому +101

    *Now **_THIS_** is who you should start a GoFundMe for. I'd donate in a heartbeat!! What a positive, courageous young man.*

  • @jonrend
    @jonrend 24 дні тому +1238

    What a nice lad. You can see the difference that having 2 good parents can make to your character.

    • @therealshaft9768
      @therealshaft9768 22 дні тому

      Governments don't want us to have this. They want single parent families.

    • @Gross_Malone
      @Gross_Malone 22 дні тому +19

      It’s so important

    • @Silas-lc9op
      @Silas-lc9op 22 дні тому +10

      🎉Unfortunatly sometimes it doesnt

    • @raeannewatson2807
      @raeannewatson2807 22 дні тому +16

      He is an amazing young man, but there are many amazing people out there that are raised by single parents.

    • @PeterPantheFearless
      @PeterPantheFearless 22 дні тому +19

      @@raeannewatson2807 Exactly! That was what I was about to say. There are also terrible people who had two good parents.

  • @sweets4mimi
    @sweets4mimi 22 дні тому +527

    “She’s just a mom” when he said that l laughed. As a mom, let me tell you she would walk the ends of the earth for her son. Bless him and his mom. 🙏🙏🙏she raised a good man.

    • @mitzimoore3068
      @mitzimoore3068 22 дні тому +22

      One thing that kept crossing my mind was somebody raised this boy right!!

    • @thecaptainsnark
      @thecaptainsnark 20 днів тому +20

      him: the worst part was my mom had to take care of me
      his mom i'm sure: the best part was at least as a mom I was there to take care of him

    • @B.Abe.
      @B.Abe. 19 днів тому +2

      @@thecaptainsnark 💯!
      Nothing will ever compare to the love I experienced and deep connection with my 1st and only child. ❤🥰
      Reference: Mama & Elder in training!

    • @Rizlack
      @Rizlack 19 днів тому +4

      Incredibly strong, insightful, and inspiring young man. Poor kid man...he's dealing with it better than 99.999% of the population would though. Truly moving episode. I'm SO happy to hear he has a girlfriend!! He deserves it and more. I wish him all the best in this life, and I hope his swelling went down as well ✊

    • @agavebob3462
      @agavebob3462 19 днів тому +6

      "Just a mom" is like saying : a superhero helped take care of me.

  • @user-kf1ww9ng1m
    @user-kf1ww9ng1m 18 днів тому +37

    Love his relationship with his dog, Buster! My dog helped me immensely when my husband died. So cool that they have each other.

  • @SharonBrown-r6b
    @SharonBrown-r6b 23 дні тому +335

    Bring this young man back in a year! Love to see the continuation of his recovery process.

  • @jimcooper1053
    @jimcooper1053 20 днів тому +259

    im envious of this guys mental strength, outlook on life and attitude. respect

    • @BigIndianBindi-jy1cz
      @BigIndianBindi-jy1cz 17 днів тому +1

      you're envious because you don't feel loved. Your family does not make you feel loved. You lack a sense of belonging. "Feeling" loved and valued is what gives you mental strength. If you are abused and emotionally neglected, you will not have resilience.

    • @doesnotFempute
      @doesnotFempute 16 днів тому +1

      ​@@BigIndianBindi-jy1cz good job figuring out that people are usually envious of that which they don't have. Gold star for you ⭐

    • @davidpaesch1433
      @davidpaesch1433 10 днів тому +1

      You hit the nail on the head my friend 😊!!!!!

  • @hayze13
    @hayze13 18 днів тому +78

    He didn't mention the double hand transplant. I loved hearing his positive outlook as a result of such a tragedy. He is far stronger than I could ever be!

    • @jennyn5692
      @jennyn5692 9 днів тому +1

      He's truly amazing. I can't even imagine looking in the mirror and seeing someone else's face.

    • @DeViLzzz2006
      @DeViLzzz2006 9 днів тому +1

      Same.

  • @themusiclover-v4m
    @themusiclover-v4m 23 дні тому +116

    “People will judge you whatever you look like” is so true😢

  • @mjdelowe65
    @mjdelowe65 22 дні тому +174

    He is so humble, parents raised a beautiful child ❤

  • @dcyamahatech
    @dcyamahatech 17 днів тому +11

    I lost my left leg in a motorcycle accident in 2004 at the age of 20. Obviously i cant begin to imagine what this young man has gone through. But i do understand the mental trauma that comes along with a life changing injury at such a young age. Even 20 years later the mental scars still bother me way way worse than the physical trauma. This young man is a tough as hell and his attitude is awesome. Keep it up bro.

  • @DontKnowYet223
    @DontKnowYet223 24 дні тому +511

    His willingness to accept things for what they are is so inspiring

  • @AmEn1R
    @AmEn1R 22 дні тому +251

    What a beautiful soul this young man has. He’s a winner at life.

    • @zoezzzarko1117
      @zoezzzarko1117 20 днів тому +3

      This.... YESSSSSSSS😇😇😇🙏🏼🔥♥️🔥♥️🔥♥️💖💜🔥♥️🔥♥️🔥♥️♥️💜🔥🔥💖💖🔥♥️🙏🏼😇😇😇

  • @touchofclass3836
    @touchofclass3836 16 днів тому +15

    Hey Joe, I'm Roe! I'm also living in NJ. I just want to say that you inspire me greatly! Thank you for sharing your story with Mark! I love you, Mark! This story happens to be a breath of fresh air in comparison to others that don't have as good of an outcome! ❤

  • @michaell5026
    @michaell5026 22 дні тому +220

    If he's ready, this guy can definitely be an inspirational speaker.

    • @unclegus-vx7jc
      @unclegus-vx7jc 19 днів тому +4

      ya, sure.

    • @whiteyfisk9769
      @whiteyfisk9769 18 днів тому +3

      He can barely even hold a conversation with Mark, how tf he gonna monologue?? Lol

    • @normajeanactressofficial
      @normajeanactressofficial 15 днів тому

      He really should … wonderful soul ❤

    • @michaelhealey2378
      @michaelhealey2378 9 днів тому +1

      @Joseph_DiMeo Really, give this some consideration. You have inspired me in one single short video. God Bless you Joe, keep healing.

    • @unclegus-vx7jc
      @unclegus-vx7jc 9 днів тому

      @@michaell5026 or maybe a carnival sideshow

  • @timknickel7756
    @timknickel7756 24 дні тому +272

    This kid has by far the best attitude I've ever seen. He will have a very blessed life

  • @nostairwayy4059
    @nostairwayy4059 15 днів тому +11

    This guy is an absolute inspiration, his attitude towards life is beautiful

  • @shaRkMP
    @shaRkMP 24 дні тому +229

    I wish I could have his positivity.
    Miraculous!
    Burn pain is so intense. Very strong young man.

    • @monicabagbeee
      @monicabagbeee 23 дні тому +3

      Agreed on wishing I could have…actually even HALF of his positivity! When I hear of or see burn victims I think about how painful it is when I burn my hand on the stove or with a curling iron. Can’t even imagine 🙏🏻

  • @nessal4078
    @nessal4078 24 дні тому +449

    Mental stability! People may look and think “poor guy” but to have their mental health so on track would be an incredible goal for anyone x

  • @rudolph1899
    @rudolph1899 19 днів тому +33

    Tbh the surgery does not look bad. He looks good dude. And his spirit and brain are still there in perfect tact. Good for him. I want a book and public speeches immediately.

    • @mommyof3_908
      @mommyof3_908 11 днів тому

      Yes!! He is here for a reason!! 🙏

  • @BJ.neversettle
    @BJ.neversettle 24 дні тому +298

    Thank you for finding Joe Dimeo and interviewing him. I would love to see an update interview eventually. To hear Joe say "people are going to judge you no matter what you look like" is an important lesson. Those words changed me. What an inspiration to the world. I hope his healing journey goes well and life treats him well.

    • @grantdenvit238
      @grantdenvit238 22 дні тому +8

      Please do an update on him!

    • @toppertruthio
      @toppertruthio 21 день тому +1

      Wow such a nice strong lad,I hope his life gets better as he heals.

  • @Gram72534
    @Gram72534 24 дні тому +312

    What a warrior!!!!!!! I can't imagine the pain and the long road of rehab he has come through!!!

  • @stevenblake6939
    @stevenblake6939 18 днів тому +10

    I can totally feeel the dog situation..no matter what..your dog will always love you and care for you!

  • @stephlovesanimals
    @stephlovesanimals 21 день тому +136

    What an amazing guy, I have a bad attitude all the time about little stupid things. This guy has such an amazing attitude, made myself feel a bit ashamed. Joe, if you see this comment, I think you are amazing and you have an amazing message. Keep going!

    • @spiritually_drunk
      @spiritually_drunk 18 днів тому

      Absolutely love not only your honesty - cuz I can definitely relate - but your self-awareness that it’s something which needs changing. Thank YOU for sharing also

  • @alaysianicole.
    @alaysianicole. 22 дні тому +120

    the fact that i just fell asleep at the wheel , totaled my car and wasn’t injured or unconscious. and had the nerve to be mad and had to tell myself how much worse it could of been . so the perspective on this is mind blowing rn . he’s so strong.

    • @alaysianicole.
      @alaysianicole. 22 дні тому +3

      i veered off and hit a pole

    • @poquitodefe
      @poquitodefe 19 днів тому +2

      Wow this was my story over 2 years ago. And my car was totaled and I ended up rear ending another person.

  • @spicedright
    @spicedright 15 днів тому +8

    Most positive and bright attitude I've ever heard. Bright future, great parents. Much love Joe!

  • @SamanthaP48
    @SamanthaP48 24 дні тому +179

    Something similar happened only a couple of yrs ago to my step sister. She just graduated college. She was on her way home from work late at night was in dead stop traffic. A tractor trailer driver going fast slammed into the back of her car. It exploded on impact. She burned to death & was left unidentifiable without outside means. No one helped. They just watched. She was 26 & one of the most gentle, kindest people I ever met.
    Sunflowers were her favorite.
    🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻

  • @karenoates1645
    @karenoates1645 22 дні тому +111

    80% burns unimaginable pain what an inspiration he is to all ❤

    • @jpa145
      @jpa145 19 днів тому +3

      Statistically, he defies all odds. What an incredibly resilient young man.

  • @carnerageno
    @carnerageno 9 днів тому +15

    Dogs can really impact a persons life, especially a rescue. Buster is a Hero.

    • @AmandaRodriguez-wr9uc
      @AmandaRodriguez-wr9uc 4 дні тому +2

      Yes. Exactly. My rescue saved me. I had her from 25 years old to 40 years old. I will always love her.

  • @williamedwards8493
    @williamedwards8493 22 дні тому +108

    Hold your head high brother. Your mission on life is just getting started. Never forget that. You are worth your weight in gold in the lifetime. So honored to hear your story. Prayers for you from the bluegrass state.

  • @jeremiahboydstun8798
    @jeremiahboydstun8798 22 дні тому +106

    Imagine what the world would be like if we all had the same mindset as this young man. He’s truly inspiring.

  • @PatriciaHenry
    @PatriciaHenry 19 днів тому +14

    What a wonderful attitude he has given his circumstances. Bless his heart. ❤

  • @jaredlandry263
    @jaredlandry263 24 дні тому +158

    What an incredible attitude this guy has. Listening to him talk about the comfort his dog brings him in his darker days nearly brought tears to my eyes. Wish him the best

  • @camdencosigner2606
    @camdencosigner2606 23 дні тому +100

    My God, Joe is probably one of the most well balanced, kind and positive humans I've ever encountered.

  • @Rizlack
    @Rizlack 19 днів тому +12

    Incredibly strong, insightful, and inspiring young man. Poor kid man...he's dealing with it better than 99.999% of the population would though. Truly moving episode. I'm SO happy to hear he has a girlfriend!! He deserves it and more. I wish him all the best in this life, and I hope his swelling went down as well ✊

  • @misst.e.a.187
    @misst.e.a.187 20 днів тому +109

    I'm in awe of this young man. He's incredibly positive and lacking in self pity wherein most people would just give up. His family sound absolutely wonderful, which reflects in his lovely disposition
    Bless him abundantly.

  • @kenbell9094
    @kenbell9094 22 дні тому +131

    Joe should be a professional motivational speaker... he's already motivated me.

    • @nadiagonzalez1465
      @nadiagonzalez1465 21 день тому +5

      Absolutely! Possibly a Ted talk on Gratitude 😌💪🏼

  • @50troops
    @50troops 19 днів тому +58

    4:20 what’s even the point of putting pictures up there if you’re gonna blur the entire thing?

    • @racheljones8935
      @racheljones8935 19 днів тому +9

      Exactly what I was about to say!! It's the most irritating thing.

    • @badfriends5206
      @badfriends5206 19 днів тому +4

      Theres another edit for his main website where he shows more.

    • @dianabranham7332
      @dianabranham7332 19 днів тому +2

      What I was wondering. Why post them

    • @blakejeans4438
      @blakejeans4438 19 днів тому +5

      It was originally shown he must of went back and edited it

    • @22Purplemist
      @22Purplemist 17 днів тому +9

      Possibly a UA-cam requirement

  • @user-dm1pt4ru6e
    @user-dm1pt4ru6e 24 дні тому +217

    He’s got such a great attitude. Like this is what it is. It makes me so grateful for my life.

  • @GinaM-bt8lu
    @GinaM-bt8lu 21 день тому +82

    Absolutely 1 of the most impressive human beings on the planet. His grace is exquisite. He is the epitome of inspiration. There are billions of beings on this planet, some disguised in human form. This is an authentic aware and evolved human being. I am so grateful to have seen and heard him.💜

  • @cherylmarquez2645
    @cherylmarquez2645 9 днів тому +2

    I don't understand why anyone would say negative mean things to you. This accident & transplant happened to you not them, your an inspiration.

  • @Jake-pz7oi
    @Jake-pz7oi 20 днів тому +74

    Nothing can replace a dog’s love and the bond between dog and man… everything can be wrong, but if you still got your dog by your side, it really ain’t that bad… beautiful thing. Much love Jeff! Thanks for giving hope and perspective to everyone out there.

  • @gregmalcolm8923
    @gregmalcolm8923 23 дні тому +99

    I hope money can be raised for this poor guy. He deserves it. So positive

    • @Zach-hq8mn
      @Zach-hq8mn 22 дні тому +3

      He may need money. The plastic surgery is not cosmetic bud, it would br covered by insurance.

    • @deborahanne2700
      @deborahanne2700 21 день тому +5

      @@Suggested-f7ghow about medical bills?smh

    • @deborahanne2700
      @deborahanne2700 21 день тому +5

      @@Suggested-f7g
      You win the most ignorant comment in this thread. 🏆

    • @shannafranna3294
      @shannafranna3294 21 день тому +3

      @@Suggested-f7ghe can’t work a normal job and what self respecting adult wants to live off their parents forever?

    • @Jacobs-pillow
      @Jacobs-pillow 21 день тому +1

      @@Suggested-f7g Go away and don't come back

  • @LaurenElfman
    @LaurenElfman 19 днів тому +6

    It seems like the interviewer expects him to be having a lot harder time about his appearance, but it doesn't seem to affect Joe much at all. This is the most inspiring interview I've heard in a while. Joe has a Purpose, and he is living it. That's why he's doing so well, considering. He doesn't pity himself at all. What a strong soul. ❤

  • @ow3wells
    @ow3wells 24 дні тому +161

    What a survivor. so optimistic, wishing you all the best.

    • @B_Bodziak
      @B_Bodziak 23 дні тому +6

      Even if he had some bitterness, he'd be one helluva warrior, but the fact that he is so positive, he's inspirational.

    • @ow3wells
      @ow3wells 23 дні тому +1

      @@B_Bodziak 💯

  • @Plague_Doc22
    @Plague_Doc22 24 дні тому +100

    Need more stories like these, makes you thankful for what you have and haven't had to go through. Joe, keep your head up. You're inspiring to others.

  • @marjoriemoser3961
    @marjoriemoser3961 11 днів тому +3

    You have my deepest respect and admiration!
    You are a courage young man.
    With your positive attitude you will go far💜

  • @heatherchurch
    @heatherchurch 24 дні тому +100

    Hi Mark - please do a follow up with Joe as his journey progresses, and let us know when he gets his t-shirt company off the ground. I’d love to buy some of his merch. Thanks!

    • @1028dianemarie
      @1028dianemarie 21 день тому +5

      Yeah, better than focusing on that Rebecca

  • @louisetrueman2429
    @louisetrueman2429 24 дні тому +81

    I’ve been watching Marks amazing channel for years now and I have to say, this is the most amazing person I’ve ever seen. I’ve been a professional nurse for 30 years on the psychiatric side there are so many things all of us can learn from this wonderful person ❤

  • @reneevaz7848
    @reneevaz7848 11 днів тому +3

    Everyone who goes through a traumatic experience such as this has one of two decisions to make. To let the experience control you or you control what happened to you. I’m glad you chose to be the one in control. You are such an inspiration.

  • @deepwhatever
    @deepwhatever 23 дні тому +46

    People like Joe are one in a million. What an amazing human being.

  • @crzywrld1321
    @crzywrld1321 21 день тому +76

    What an amazing young man. A huge reminder, everybody has a story, please be kind to people, you never know what someone has been through.

  • @Kim-jv5xb
    @Kim-jv5xb 16 днів тому +10

    I hope Joe's infections clear up and I'm guessing when the swelling goes down it's going to make a big difference. He sounds like a nice guy. Good luck to Joe and I'd love to see a follow up when the swelling goes down. With his attitude, he's going to be just fine.

  • @chasnfireflies317
    @chasnfireflies317 23 дні тому +179

    So many people would have used this sweet guy's story to smoke pounds of crack. But this guy, nope. He just loves his dog, pizza, and cheeseburgers. He knows better than to drive sleepy now. "Everyone is gonna judge you no matter what you look like."
    I love how Mark was leading him in the questions down a path where we all expected one answer and he totally blew us all away with positivity. ❤

    • @nessal4078
      @nessal4078 23 дні тому +14

      Too right. Was trying for a sob story and we all left feeling happy and motivated to be more like this man .

    • @chasnfireflies317
      @chasnfireflies317 23 дні тому +11

      @@nessal4078 right!? Mark kept opening the door for him and this sweet soul just kept saying Thanks! As he politely closed it.

    • @nessal4078
      @nessal4078 23 дні тому +6

      @@chasnfireflies317 oh yes ❤️- his parents must be so proud . xx

    • @shannafranna3294
      @shannafranna3294 21 день тому +8

      He’s on Instagram too. His girlfriend seems to love the hell out of him. I think having people (and pets) that adore you make all the difference.

    • @unclegus-vx7jc
      @unclegus-vx7jc 19 днів тому

      mark? lmfao, he’s raking on the $$$$.

  • @chrissib
    @chrissib 22 дні тому +42

    I have never commented on a UA-cam video, and I watch all of Mark's. Joe's loving kindness, and positivity, is truly inspiring. Thank you.

    • @1028dianemarie
      @1028dianemarie 21 день тому +1

      No comment on any of the Whitaker’s videos? 😆

  • @ryanwilson2016
    @ryanwilson2016 18 днів тому +4

    I'm amazed how good he really looks, especially the pictures when the swelling is down. Crazy how far we have come that a human can go through an accident like that, survive, then get a new face and hands, multiple areas of skin, and all of it useful. Plus have such a great personality and attitude towards life still. Really an incredible guy, hopefully he's got a long happy life in front of him.

  • @roma5770
    @roma5770 20 днів тому +60

    What an incredible human being.
    Bravo young man. Bravo.

    • @yvetteheller1083
      @yvetteheller1083 18 днів тому

      He really is incredible and strong!!!
      God bless him 🙏 ❤️

  • @ronnimesser
    @ronnimesser 24 дні тому +90

    Inspirational young man! We can all take a lesson from his life and attitude. Thank you for sharing your story and being brave.

  • @Jukato-f5i
    @Jukato-f5i 18 днів тому +2

    Lovely person. Wish I knew more people like him.

    • @Jukato-f5i
      @Jukato-f5i 18 днів тому

      Also-I'm taking his advice.

  • @seaster2493
    @seaster2493 22 дні тому +42

    If half of us had Joe's attitude, what a better place our world would be, so inspirational. A wise soul indeed! All the best Joe, may life continue to thrive for you!

  • @justanothergrunt9053
    @justanothergrunt9053 23 дні тому +55

    Dude is a tank. He has a winning mentality.

  • @user-xk8qo7sn6t
    @user-xk8qo7sn6t 22 дні тому +37

    "Everything happens for a reason, I just have to figure out what this reason's for." I am so inspired and humbled by this sentence. You are amazing.

  • @TheBeautyGuyru
    @TheBeautyGuyru 20 днів тому +21

    I’m 27, I’m born and raised in New Jersey, and I too fell asleep at the wheel around the age of 20. I was blessed enough to walk away with a scar on my hand after a hospital stay, I could’ve very easily been in Joe’s very position. God bless him for fighting and finding the positive and light in this situation and this world. Praying for you Joe!

  • @MelanieWeed77
    @MelanieWeed77 6 днів тому +1

    He is so humble & precious. I feel better having heard his story. His outlook is so positive & I have a feeling he's gonna get completely through this and show the world what he can accomplish ❤

  • @YoMama9021
    @YoMama9021 22 дні тому +39

    He’s a beautiful man, inside and out. ❤

  • @theequalizer3381
    @theequalizer3381 24 дні тому +162

    My God is attitude seems so relaxed.... he doesn't seem angry...... that's great!

    • @tracyrichards6545
      @tracyrichards6545 20 днів тому +3

      Sometimes it's easier to accept if no one else is to blame 🙏💙

  • @letaadcock1239
    @letaadcock1239 21 годину тому

    I had a bad accident and the right side of my face was basically crushed. I've had multiple surgeries now to fix my face. This young man is an inspiration! It's very difficult when it's your face that is disfigured. People judge you. He will gradually heal and look better. Hang in there, and God bless you!❤

  • @georgienicholes3200
    @georgienicholes3200 24 дні тому +77

    I love this man’s personality, demeanor, outlook. He’s so incredibly positive after experiencing something so harrowing and continuing to experience something so life changing. I was afraid to watch this episode because some of these documentaries can really take a tole on my emotions but this man turned my whole morning around. I hope he has something amazing coming his way.

    • @jdvlanka265
      @jdvlanka265 23 дні тому

      He might be single if you really wanna help out

    • @everilliem3292
      @everilliem3292 23 дні тому

      ​@@jdvlanka265I'm not gay but sign me up!

  • @kreeationsbykree
    @kreeationsbykree 24 дні тому +79

    I’m from Jersey, and Route 22 is one of the most dangerous highways in America. God Bless you Joe.

    • @jeff7764
      @jeff7764 22 дні тому

      No it isn’t

    • @elabuterin7150
      @elabuterin7150 21 день тому

      Why is the State not doing anything to identify and mitigate the dangers on that particular stretch of the road? We have studies for everything! Why are we forced to kill ourselves just to survive? Something wrong with our society.
      Hope this young man has a long and happy life!

    • @whizzerbrown1349
      @whizzerbrown1349 19 днів тому +2

      I’m sorry- did he say that he was the THIRD MAJOR ACCIDENT to happen on that one curve THAT MORNING?!? That’s hard to take in! Do multiple people die on it daily, do you know?
      I mean, gotta hand it to Jersey’s clean-up crew for how quickly they get the road open. Now if only the civil engineers were so efficient 😅

  • @AdiLop-qw5rv
    @AdiLop-qw5rv 6 днів тому +1

    I dont know you personally, but i feel blessed because I needed to know God loves us no matter what the circumstances. Thank you for your testimony. God Bless you.

  • @OwnedbyCorgis
    @OwnedbyCorgis 24 дні тому +85

    What a champion! Thanks for talking to us ❤

  • @lishaalynnntv8943
    @lishaalynnntv8943 22 дні тому +49

    It’s so fulfilling to see such beautiful people left in the world.

  • @todgr81
    @todgr81 11 днів тому +1

    Dear Joe,
    Thank you for sharing your story. It is inspiring. God bless you. ❤

  • @ChronicGamer420
    @ChronicGamer420 24 дні тому +88

    At the end of the day id take this over losing anyone.
    Joe is a true hero and is definitly inspirational

  • @TheBurnedTheBrokenTheBeautiful
    @TheBurnedTheBrokenTheBeautiful 23 дні тому +40

    Joe & Mark Thank you so much for sharing your experiences. I am also an 80% burn survivor and I am so blessed to have come across your story. Many blessing to you and your continued healing and recovery. ❤️‍🔥🙏🏻❤️‍🔥

  • @wrmlm37
    @wrmlm37 18 днів тому +11

    These transplant surgeons better be learning massive amounts from these procedures. Best wishes to this young man. No other comment, 2 minutes in. Stunned.

  • @GodISSovereign17
    @GodISSovereign17 21 день тому +101

    He reminds me of this quote, “God gave you this mountain because he knew you could move it”. He’s definitely blessed.

    • @Tat2Dragons
      @Tat2Dragons 18 днів тому +4

      Now that wouldn’t have been very nice of a God.

    • @whiteyfisk9769
      @whiteyfisk9769 18 днів тому +5

      If thats how God treats the people that love him then its no wonder nobody wants to follow him...

    • @monicascott2354
      @monicascott2354 18 днів тому +3

      Bro. That is some CRAP.

    • @0725361
      @0725361 18 днів тому

      @@whiteyfisk9769I love god

    • @Nate1995
      @Nate1995 17 днів тому

      Why would god burn him? What did he do to deserve this? What a joke you sheep are

  • @mattiehinz3349
    @mattiehinz3349 23 дні тому +51

    The state of NJ needs to take responsibility for these tragedies. Two other people died in the same spot on the road the day that this happened? How many others passed in the same area that could have been avoided with a little engineering. NJDOT is willfully creating unsafe conditions for its citizens.

  • @jasonclements4607
    @jasonclements4607 19 днів тому +4

    Just watched this. I would of never guessed you had 80% burn and had a transplant. Dr's did good Joe. Thank you for your story. My daughter had a skin transplant on her forhead. Kosairs in Cincinnati did an awesome job also. Damn that fire. Keep up the good work and good spirits. God bless sir.

  • @HamiltonFord
    @HamiltonFord 22 дні тому +44

    The heaviest burdens are placed on those who can carry them.
    Joe is an outstanding example of how you answer the question “why me?”. We don’t know what we’re capable of until we’re tested, and Joe chose to accept that challenge and then totally aced it. He’s an inspiration.

  • @user-ex3mx7hk4l
    @user-ex3mx7hk4l 19 днів тому +19

    I LOVE THIS GUY!
    I hope my kids turn out as smart as he is. This guy knows what matters in life.
    It’s not cosmetic vanity.
    It’s not the cover of the book that matters.
    What matters is his heart and soul.
    LOVE HIM!!!
    👏👏👏