My husband would never say that. He reminds me that I have one of the most important jobs in the world…. Nurturing and teaching the next generation (the children). Home makers have a very valuable job.
My dad beg my mom to be a homemaker😂, she has job and quit when she was pregnant. He understand the kids will have better life with present mom. He doesnt control finance, my mom manage it and spend however she wants for the house, they both discuss when it comes to big purchase.
I found this video while researching how to be the best housewife. I found this in a long list of videos saying to "order online" and "dont think its bad when you HIRE someone to FOLD YOUR CLOTHES FOR YOU" thankyou for ahowing what its like to be a housewife in a family thats not stinking rich! Even though i do work, I am also a housewife and i take full responsibility for our small farm, feeding the chickens, watering the garden ect. My husband works very long hours and his step children are spoiled rotten due to their mother and they are no help to me whatsoever. I am struggling alot as a young woman with no children of my own and looking for some kind of mentorship becoming the woman of the house
It is till date one of the best video I have watched on housewives. I showed it to my mother who is a housewife. She was so touched by it. She sends you her blessings.
Ruchi, you have done an excellent job in bringing the limelight on one of the most neglected segment of our society, The Housewife. Keep up the good work.
@@RuchiSinghTalks highlight it to useless people like you, we need to encourage women to take job's grow higher and be successful. if housewife is a job why girls need education even maid can do all the house hold work and which competition are you fighting to be better at your work.
@@rohi1255 i agree. we must encourage women to go out and work. In her mother's case maybe because of husband's transfers, she could not pursue a job. But honestly, I feel the sheer amount of encouragement women are getting to become housewives, doesn't make sense to me. Under extremely tough circumstances, maybe they can become housewives, otherwise the sky is the limit for both men and women. Also career women are the one's who do not put undue pressure on their men to continue slogging on the corporate job they might dislike. with an additional earning member, men can take a break too.
@@humanbeing735 exactly finally someone who makes sense, house wife is not a job, and women should be discouraged in being a house wife and not to be encouraged and appreciated for being so.
Being a housewives.. its not a shameful thing We r proud of our indian housewives bcz they give thier whole life for their children, husband and husbands family. They play a very important role without them a house cant be happy .
Absolutely Nafees. I am happy that you think this way. This is the reason, I have made this video to shine a spotlight on the immense contribution housewives make to their homes and society.
Currently crying, sitting on the sofa soaked in breastmilk, trying to feed a teething baby while my toddler is pulling my hair while watching this. I would kill to be back at work right now
Hi, (I wish I knew your name) Sending you lots of love. My sister had a baby a year back so I can totally understand how challenging it can be even with the support of the entire family. I hope you don't think I am trying to be patronising, but what I saw with my sis and my close friends is that even though it is very challenging and sometimes lonely to be a new mom, after some time it gets easier. #support #hug
Love this! I always give an explanation about myself when people ask what I do. I am just a housewife. Thank you so much. This made me feel better about myself.
Thanks so much for letting me know. It means a lot to me. I have huge respect for housewives. Their contribution to society is immense. #respect to you
Very good points you shared with all housewives. The first thing we must learn to respect ourselves, love and feel good always . Let’s begin with a simple and lovable thought that Iam a housewife and Iam proud of it.😀😀
Hello ma'am, I am Moushmi. I met you at the indigo flight from Bangkok to Kolkata. I wasn't aware of your profile then but after having known you through the digital platform, I feel so good to have met you. You talk beautifully and your speeches are quite inspiring. Hope to meet you again sometime somewhere.😊
Thanks mam u raised really crucial topic, My sister got married a year earlier and she is managing her home really well and happily but every other day she has to face one comment if u will work then u can get all this work done by a helper in Rs 5000 only .This comment express our society thoughts about a housewife . With house my sister is also managing her studies ,as she love to study but for this also she listens "why r u studying if u r not interested in job "??? Will only our job give us the reason to study and home maker has no rights???
Dear Preeti, I am so glad that this video connected with you. It is very sad that countless homemakers all over the wold face this kind of judgemental behavior. Pls tell your sister to not get bullied or disheartened by such comments. It is not a refelcetion on her, it is a reflection on the people who make such nasty comments. I hope you share this video with your sister amd other housewifes too.
Hey Alisha, I loved saying it in the video :-) I am so happy that you liked it. I hope you check out other videos on my channel too. I will love to hear from you.
I have became a fan of yours after listening to the video 👏 👏 👏. Huge round of applause to you ma'am..... After a long long time there was a video where I did not skip even a second.... I watched entire video and let me tell u each and every word you said made sense 👍...... Everyone is aware of the contribution of the "lady of the house " she is heart and center of everything but the way you portrayed it.. Is simply taking that thing to a next level all together!!! Great job ma'am.... Keep motivating!! Good luck 👍
Hi !Ruchi just shared ur vdo with some of my friends who like me r just a housewife trying to uplift their mood . Everyday it's a battle for us as in todays zen housewife r rare nd this society doesn't give a Damm abt us . But ur talk opened a slight window showing those rays of hope ..
Thank you, Vandana for sharing your experience with me. I am so glad that my video helped you. It is really unfair that a vast majority does not acknowledge the hard work of housewives. However, I have immense respect for my friends and family members who are housewives. Sending you lots of good wishes. I have made a video on domestic violence. If possible pls watch and share with your friends as that is a huge issue that impacts lots of women.
What an amazing and inspiring video. Keep being awesome 🙂 watching this video just sets the whole tone for my day, reminding me that what I do is so important. Even though my boyfriend is so good about expressing his gratitude, when I look at career women and how much money they have I still feel like I don't measure up. But what we do ladies can mean so much more than having more money for nicer things. We're building strong families and loving homes 💞
Nameuneeded Thanks so much for your lovely message 😊 I am so happy that you enjoyed my video n the message. Housewives add a lot of value to our society 😊🙏
I’ve been a stay at home mom for 13 years now and it’s bittersweet…sadly all society thinks of is “money” but we are the CEO’s of running our household and shaping our future generation. Most underrated JOB in the world. It’s so hard most women would rather go back to “work” being a housewife/sahm is not for everyone. Financially it’s hard to stay home if you struggle with money (just my experience)
Thanks for sharing Michelle. I agree with you that Housewives play a very important role in shaping our future generations and their contribution to society is immense.
On a good day I enjoy being a housewife but somedays I'm exhausted and start question my life choices. I prefer the term housewife. I work so hard to keep going and keep the house tidy and meals cooked with very little food . I'm proud that I can pull it off . My gran was a housewife and she made it look so easy caring for all of us. She passed when I was 13yrs old and since then I have enjoyed caring for people etc. Now I'm losing my last grandparent , being a housewife is enjoyable. I also balance it with art and music.
Dear rachael-jayne Reeves , thanks for sharing this. I have deep respect for women and also a few men who stay at home and add so much value to our society. There is so much work and such wide variety of work done by a housewife. A housewife has a full time job, the only difference is that they are not paid for their hard work. #love and #respect . Do share it with other housewives as I have dedicated it to all the housewives all over the world.💕💕
Some days I feel like stopping. Giving myself excuses to why the work i do isn't valued...... this is a great pick me up. Thank you for sharing! God bless you and your work ☺❤
Hi Victory, I am so happy that you enjoyed this video :-) It is dedicated to you and all the other wonderful housewives all over the world. I hope you enjoy my other video's too :-)
I have been a housewife and wife that worked outside the home. I worked harder at home, no PTO, no off clock hours (work 24 hrs a day). No sick days, no vacation days, no bonuses etc, etc, etc. Housewives are and always will be special and produce well rounded children.
Hi Anita Prasad, I am glad you liked it. This video is my way of giving tribute and support to all the wonderful women who work tirelessly their whole life #housewives 🙏🙏
Dear Ruchi, your latest video on Housewifes really pleased me. Very few people really appreciate the contribution made by Housewife towards the family and the society. A big Thankyou to you.
Dear Bhawana, thanks for appreciating this video. I really feel very sad that the hard work and contributions of the housewife’s is not valued. I will keep it in mind and whenever I make something related to this topic in future I will definitely let you know. Do share it with other housewives as they deserve all our respect.
Powerful amazing video. I will share it with all my friends who are housewives as it is sad but true that housewives are not given the due respect for the hard work they do. Thank you and God bless you Ruchi Singh
Now I am crying , for my clothes also am also begging .then I received hardly one saree and some clothes to wear no smily given for my emotions right now
Imagine a world without any housewife ? I bet there will be no love affection left. I am home maker myself and yes I feel embarrassed when I say I am home maker as I am educated completed Msc and most importantly I put myself down by thinking that why am I cleaning house when I had worked my ass off to score a distinction in studies.. but I am not able to get back to work when I see my lill kid's face I get this question " how can I leave this small tiny human being alone, uncared" yes I can afford some guardian but will this kid receive that motherly fatherly love and what would happen if this kid will not be aware of these and what someone gets to suffer just cos of this kid not knowing what is "love, affection, care" and yes I feel guilty being a homemaker and very sad but I am not able to overcome the other side of the work those above questions . Why has society put this unwanted pressure over homemaker ? Why can't educated ones be homemaker?
you are most inspiring motivational speaker . I watch all your training videos Thanks for uploading these amazing inspiring videos...Thanks for the great work, I feel motivated..
I will add one thing The whole so called new generation today like me was made by housives of earlier generation / in nutshell we must respect our creators
Wow ,I believe those words which you have spoken definitely must be from your heart. I can feel the emotion in your words. I am also a house wife after worked for 3 years in an MNC. Sometimes I also feel that we are doing nothing in our life after completing PG degree with 3 years of work experience. But sometimes I will get that positive attitude in my mind that we ar doing a great job. We are running a family which is more tough than running a firm👍👍thank you so much foe such a soothing words
Dear Bhuvaneshwari, I am so happy that you enjoyed this video. Yes, I spoke from my heart. I have immense respect for housewives/house husbands as they do so much but rarely get the recognition they deserve.
What a brilliant video. Very few people give credit to the hard work done by the housewives . I will share it with all my friends. Thank you Ruchi Singh.
Your mum "Anju Singh" is so beautiful. That explains a lot about you too. Thanks for the video... Cause I was feeling very insecure, and you've helped improve my thoughts pattern 💚💛
Thank you so much :-) I will convey your compliment to my mom. She is a darling. I am so happy that my video could help you. This makes the effort worthwhile for me. If you get time do check out my other videos.
In our locality most of the wives are home maker or simply housewives. But they are more educated than their husbands. One of them has completed her M.A in History after her marriage but still she wants to be a housewife. I call her Boudi-moni(Sister-in-law). According to her, as she is a mother of a 1 year old boy so if she works outside then her child would become unhealthy & less educated in near future. She will not be able to take care of him which is very much needed for a new born baby. She says,"I have become educated therefore I can teach my child, not to earn money." Wow! This type of women are very rare. Whenever we ask educated women whether they wish to work outside or not they always say yes we want but she is the woman who wants to teach her own child rather than earning because she gives priority to her child not money.
Thanks for sharing this. Thre is no harm in earning money and there is no harm in being a housewife. There should not be any jugdments. It is a personal decision.
@@RuchiSinghTalks yes mam. You are right. We should not criticize. Their value can't be judged by money. Mam though I am not your daily follower but I have become fan of you. Your appearance, gesture, and your way of talking are inexplicable. No doubt we can easily assume that you are highly educated but you look 'down to earth'. You are really descent.
@@abhisekdas1580 Thank you so much for such a kind comment. I hope you watch my other videos too. I truly appreciate your mature response. A lot of people get defensive when given feedback but you are not one of them. This shows high Emotional intelligence.
Being a housewife I'm judged most by working woman than anyone else. Every working woman are the ones who ask me what do you do! Don't you get bored! And I wanna yell and scream at them that you are going to work coz you can't do what I do at home. I don't have a cleaner, cook, and a every other day swiggy deliverer! Trust me I have worked and I know what that mental pressure holds. But being a housewife is a lotta of physical pressure.. Your always moving taking up kid cleaning no rest! To thode who can't value them go get a life.
This is the reason why I have made this video dedicated to all the housewives. It is a small effort on my part to shine a spotlight on all the hard work and contribution made by a housewife.
Being "Just a Housewife" is most difficult choice to make as you have to be an Excellent Cook, Care Taker, Tutor, Cleaner, Gardener, Financial Advisor, Wealth Manager, Motivator, Priest, Washerman, Decorator, Planner, Payer of all Bills, Doctor, Nurse, Music, Dance, Math, SST, Science Teacher, Counsellor, Network Manager, Society and, Inlaws Pleaser, Plumber, Electrician, Administrator, Leader, Referee, Yoga and Zumba Expert and Practitioner, Dietitian, Dress Designer, Makeup Artist etc and etc and do this all for whole life for Zero Salary , Zero Holidays, Zero Promotion and Appreciation. 😉😉😉
Hi Shilpy, This is the reason why I have made this video dedicated to all the housewives. It is a small effort on my part to shine a spotlight on all the hard work and contribution made by a housewife.
Yes, it is a very important job and a tough job. It is also true that it is undervalued. This is why I made this video to shine a spotlight on the hard work done by all the housewives.
Thank you so much :-) Please share it with all the housewives you know. They need to know that they are doing tremendous work and adding value to our society.
Ruchi your video is very inspiring. What do you say about people who feel that appreciating a housewife will make her egoistic and she should not be praised for her efforts.
Hi Devaki, Thank you for apprecaiting my video. It takes all kinds of people to make this world. Some of them are misers when it comes to appreaciating the hard work of others.I defenitely feel that the work done by a housewife is very valuable. And even if no body realises it every housewife should know that they are adding value and rest of us women should be supportive of our sisters.
I feel it’s tough to be housewife working whole day at home looking after kids husband n doing all household chores I salute all the house wives even i was a working lady before giving birth to my baby but now I am a housewife
I am so happy that you enjoyed my video. A housewife is never "Just" a housewife. That is the main message of my video. I have a deep respect for all the hard work and contribution done by housewives.
I did Ca course but after marriage could not complete final exams.Now with a baby of 1.5 year i could not study it again.I try to feel good working as a housewife as i am living alone with my baby and hubby but then thoughts keep on disturbing me.I feel that i could complete my course but i am not getting time now.I don't need much money but I feel bad about myself for not having the degree.Ca is also a very tough course in which i have to study at least 12-15 hours.,which i am.not able to manage now.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It is understandable that with a little baby you may not be able to find time to study. If you want to finish your CA, maybe you can study again after your baby is slighlty grown. In the end our life is shaped by the decisions we take. All the best :-)
Hi VH. Don't feel sad about u r studies. if u have dedication and time u can finish u r CA later also. But for u r baby u r the only one to make her happy and to cook her and feed her and to bath her and to dress her and make to sleep her and to wake up her wake up her.and what not..you are everything to u r baby. Keep u r thoughts away. And share all u r love caring and mercy to u r baby. To u r baby u r the only one takes care of her. No can replace u r place in her life. U r baby completley depends on u. Take care of u r baby. Afrer u r baby slightly grown u can develop u r career.
Thanks Pooja :-) I am so happy that you like this video :-) yeh video aapko aur saari housewives ko dedicated hai. English toh bas ek basha hai. No need to say sorry. Mujhe bhi english aur hindi ke siva aur koi bhasha nahi aati hai :-)
I enjoyed watching your Video besides the subject it was pleasure watching one of members from Elite 8teen family.I would love to watch all your videos.Please keep me notified. God bless Ruchi With lots of love Col & Mrs Ashok Yadav
Good Evening uncle. Thank you so much for your kind words and blessings. I am very proud to be an Army officer's daughter and daughter of Elite 8teen. It will mean a lot to me if you take out time to watch my other videos too. I hope you have subscribed to my channel. Then whenever there is a new video UA-cam will send you a notification. I shall also ask Dad to send you links to the same. I have done some interviews with our Generals. I hope you enjoy those. Please Give my regards to Aunty. Warm Regards, Ruchi
I never said to my wife..and I am proud of her..mujhe garv hai ki usne meri mother aur apni mother ki tarh family bana rakhi..jabki maine phir kaha agar kuch aur karna chahti to kar lo but she decided to be house wife..even she is a topper in education..hum sath hai aur taking care of our parents. So itna much socho..logo k bare me.
Hi Ruchi, This is a good initiative, however please understand your target audience. Not all housewives are very good in English. Don't make language as the barrier to them to understand your thoughts. Good luck to you and please keep making the good videos !
Thanks Yogesh for your suggestion. I agree that language can be a barrier. However, I have people from other countries who follow my work and thus English is the common language. I hope one day to make videos in Hindi too. I hope you enjoy someother videos too made my me.
மறக்கக் கூடாத விதிகள். 1) மூளை தான் உண்மையான பாலுறுப்பு. 2) மூளையை மயக்காத வரை பெண்ணின் உடலில் இன்பம் நிகழாது. 3) மனைவிக்கு எது பிடித்திருக்கிறது என்பதைக் கேட்டுத் தெரிந்து கொண்டு செயலாற்றவும். 4) மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்காத எந்த வழி முறையிலும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பத்தை நிகழ்த்த முடியாது. 5) கணவனின் செயல் மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்கவில்லையென்றால், முன் விளையாட்டுக்கள் போதவில்லை என்று பொருள். 6) இங்கே சொல்லியுள்ள படி, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்தால் எப்படிப் பட்ட பெண்ணின் மனமும் இக்கணத்திற்கு வந்து விடும். 7) ஆகவே, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்ய சிக்கனம் கூடாது. 8) மனைவியின் உடல் எவ்வாறு எதிர்வினை ஆற்றுகிறது என்பதை விழிப்புடன் கவனித்த படியே செயலாற்றவும். 9) குறிப்பாக மனைவியின் சுவாசத்தைக் கவனித்த படியே செயல் படவும். 10) செயல்படும் விதத்தை மாற்றிக் கொண்டேயிருக்கக் கூடாது. 11) வேகம் என்பது வியாதி. எனினும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பம் நெருங்கும் வேளையில் வேகத்தைச் சற்றே அதிகரிக்கலாம். 12) வேக மாற்றத்தை மனைவியின் மூளை அறிந்து விடக் கூடாது. 13) மனைவிக்குரிய இன்பம் நிகழும் முன்பாக கணவன் தன்னுடைய இன்பத்தைப் பற்றி எண்ணிக் கூடப் பார்க்கக் கூடாது. 14) பகலிலேயே ஒரு குறிப்புச் செயலின் மூலம் தெரிவித்து, மனைவியின் மூளையில் ஒரு எதிர்பார்ப்பை உருவாக்கி விட வேண்டும். 15) இன்பத்துய்ப்பு ஒரு தவம். ஆகவே, நேர அளவுகளை நிர்ணயித்துச் செயல் படக் கூடாது. 16) எடுத்தவுடன் முக்கிய பகுதிகளைத் தொடக் கூடாது. அதே போல, எடுத்தவுடன் லிங்கத்தைப் பயன்படுத்தக் கூடாது. தனியொரு லிங்கத்தால், மனைவிக்குரிய எந்த இன்பத்தையும் வழங்க முடியாது. மனைவியை வற்புறுத்தி இன்பம் துய்க்கக் கூடாது. 18) நாவையும், விரலையும் பயன்படுத்த ஒரு போதும் தயங்கக் கூடாது. 19) இன்பத் துய்ப்பின் போது, ஆணாதிக்கவாதியாகச் செயல் படக் கூடாது. 20) துய்ப்பு முடிந்தவுடனே கழிவறை நோக்கி ஒட்டம் பிடிக்கக் கூடாது. 21) மாதாமாதம் ஈடுபடும் முறைகளை மாற்றிக் கொண்டே இருக்கவும். 22) படுக்கையறையில் ஐந்து வயதிற்கு மேலான குழந்தை இருக்கக் கூடாது. 23) அரவம் கேட்டால் ஆணுக்கு இன்பம் நிகழ்ந்து விடும். மனைவியின் இன்பம் நழுவிப் போய் விடும். 24) நல்லுறவு இல்லாத போது தான், பாலுறவு முக்கியம். உச்ச கட்டப் பாலின்பம் உருவாக்கும் அன்பையும், அதிசயத்தையும் வேறெந்த மந்திரத்தாலும் இல்லற வாழ்வில் ஏற்படுத்த முடியாது. 26) அன்பை உருவாக்குவதில் இன்பத் துய்ப்பிற்கு இணை எதுவுமே இல்லை. வறண்ட பாலுறவு பகையை உருவாக்கும், உயவுப் பசையோடு நடை பெறும் பாலுறவே அன்பை உருவாக்கும். 28) வாய் துர்நாற்றம் ஆகவே ஆகாது. 29) படுக்கையறை பூஜையறையைப் போலச் சுத்தமாக இருக்க வேண்டும். 30) முன் தூங்கிப் பின்னெழுவதை வழக்கமாக்கிக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது. 31) எண்பது வயதிலும் பெண்ணுக்குரிய மதனபீட இன்பம் நிகழும். 32) கணவனால் எந்த வயதிலும் தன் மனைவியைப் பால் ரீதியாகத் திருப்திப் படுத்த முடியும். 33) தன்னம்பிக்கை உள்ள வரை லிங்கம் சாயாது. லிங்கம் சாயாத வரை ஆண் எடுத்த காரியத்தில் தோற்க மாட்டான். 34) காதற் தசை நார்ப் பயிற்சியை இருவரும் தினம் தவறாமல் செய்யவும். ஆழமான, நீண்ட, ஆசுவாசமான சுவாசம் மிகவும் முக்கியம். துரித ஸ்கலிதம், விந்து முந்துதல் ஆகிய இரண்டின் விரோதி ஆழ்ந்த சுவாசம். 36) மந்திரச் சொல்லைப் பயன்படுத்திய படியே இயங்கப் பழகவும். 37) ஒன்றுக்கு இரண்டு முறை நுணுக்கங்களைப் படித்துக் கொள்ளவும். 38) பெண்ணின் பால் மண்டல படங்களை மனதில் பதித்துக் கொள்ளவும். 39) மது, புகையிலை போன்ற போதைப் பழக்கங்களை விட்டு விட வேண்டும். 40) அதற்குச் செலவளிக்கும் பணத்தை, ஊட்டச்சத்து மிக்க உணவை உட்கொள்ளப் பயன் படுத்த வேண்டும். அதன் மூலம் பாலாற்றலை வளர்த்துக் கொள்வதோடு, கொலைகார நோய்களிருந்தும் தப்பிக்கலாம். ஆயுளையும் அதிகரித்துக் கொள்ளலாம். 41) இன்பத் துய்ப்பு என்பதை ஒரு மணி நேரத்திற்கும் குறைவாக முடித்துக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது. 42) பாலுறவைப் பற்றிக் கீழ்த்தரமாகக் கருதக் கூடாது. 43) பூஜைகளின் போது, வாக்குவாதங்களுக்கு இடமளிக்கக் கூடாது. My WhatsApp number 9944558815 feel free to call me😍
My wife feels being just a housewife is most boring work in life... From her point a woman should be financially indepndent and must earn more or become successfull.... She doesn't hv time for her family bcs she is working to make a better future.... But what about Present? Now a days we value money more than life... Thats the harsh reality
you are right actually. and I observed myself that majority of times independent women shames housewives/ homemakers. majority of my aunties who are office workers often ask my mom questions like "what you do whole day, you must be bored in house". My mom literally works at least double than my aunts. When we were kids, my mom raised us with love and affection, she gave us values of love and respect. But my aunts kids used to stay with their grandparents only
Samir Dash Thanks Samir, for this message and subscribing to my channel. I am so glad that my video gave you peace. I am from India. I hope you enjoy other videos too.
Now i am whaching your vedio and i said that the whole day i don't time to eating lunch for houe work ,but society said that we are do nothing . I must this time if i work on a company they paid me a good slary but we do that not becuse our husbend house runnig , but our sacfice never see our soceity and our housbed
Housewives work very hard and we should acknowledge that. Yes, I agree that doing work for which one is paid is very important to reduce disparities. Thank you for stopping to share your views.
Hi Shruthi, thanks so much for subscribing 😊🙏 I am so happy that you liked my video. This is dedicated to all the housewives in the world. I have deep respect for them💕💕
Thanq so much beta. 🥰🥰👍🙏🏻you are truly lovely child who care and respect her mother. 🥰🥰god bless you bcha
Thank you so much for your blessings ❤❤❤ I am very blessed to have a wonderful parents 🙏🙏
My husband would never say that. He reminds me that I have one of the most important jobs in the world…. Nurturing and teaching the next generation (the children). Home makers have a very valuable job.
Your Family is Blessed to have you
My dad beg my mom to be a homemaker😂, she has job and quit when she was pregnant. He understand the kids will have better life with present mom. He doesnt control finance, my mom manage it and spend however she wants for the house, they both discuss when it comes to big purchase.
What about taking care of your husband? You take care of each other. When the kids are gone, it will be you and your husband.
I found this video while researching how to be the best housewife. I found this in a long list of videos saying to "order online" and "dont think its bad when you HIRE someone to FOLD YOUR CLOTHES FOR YOU" thankyou for ahowing what its like to be a housewife in a family thats not stinking rich! Even though i do work, I am also a housewife and i take full responsibility for our small farm, feeding the chickens, watering the garden ect. My husband works very long hours and his step children are spoiled rotten due to their mother and they are no help to me whatsoever. I am struggling alot as a young woman with no children of my own and looking for some kind of mentorship becoming the woman of the house
When I became a housewife, my self esteem lowers. Thanks for this video. Gave me confidence as a housewife.
Hi Pia Ismael, I am so glad you liked it. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad about being a housewife. You are valuable 😊🙏
❤️ thank you
It is till date one of the best video I have watched on housewives. I showed it to my mother who is a housewife. She was so touched by it. She sends you her blessings.
Hi, Thank you for letting me know. Please give my pranaam and regards to your mom. The blessings of an elder are the best gift.❤
When I searched for ' motivation for depressed housewives' I only got this video
Thank you Ruchi
I am so happy that my video helped you :-)
@@RuchiSinghTalks thanks for your motivational words 🙏
@@Divyasahithi, It's a pleasure :-)
Same here
One word...three times...awesome awesome awesome...
Hey Sinchan, thnak you so much 💕
Ruchi, you have done an excellent job in bringing the limelight on one of the most neglected segment of our society, The Housewife. Keep up the good work.
Thanks so much for such a lovely feedback. We need to highlight their contributions because they deserve it.
@@RuchiSinghTalks highlight it to useless people like you, we need to encourage women to take job's grow higher and be successful. if housewife is a job why girls need education even maid can do all the house hold work and which competition are you fighting to be better at your work.
@@rohi1255 i agree. we must encourage women to go out and work. In her mother's case maybe because of husband's transfers, she could not pursue a job. But honestly, I feel the sheer amount of encouragement women are getting to become housewives, doesn't make sense to me. Under extremely tough circumstances, maybe they can become housewives, otherwise the sky is the limit for both men and women. Also career women are the one's who do not put undue pressure on their men to continue slogging on the corporate job they might dislike. with an additional earning member, men can take a break too.
@@humanbeing735 exactly finally someone who makes sense, house wife is not a job, and women should be discouraged in being a house wife and not to be encouraged and appreciated for being so.
this guy is better than this video- ua-cam.com/video/9x7506pAvA8/v-deo.html
a housewife has the most gdp contribution in our country they support their husband and nurture next gen .
I am a housewife. I take care of my children all over the day. Making food for them.
Yes, mothers are the best. The love they have for their children is selfless.
Being a housewives.. its not a shameful thing
We r proud of our indian housewives bcz they give thier whole life for their children, husband and husbands family.
They play a very important role without them a house cant be happy .
Absolutely Nafees. I am happy that you think this way. This is the reason, I have made this video to shine a spotlight on the immense contribution housewives make to their homes and society.
Housewife. The most important part of that word is wife.
Currently crying, sitting on the sofa soaked in breastmilk, trying to feed a teething baby while my toddler is pulling my hair while watching this. I would kill to be back at work right now
Hi, (I wish I knew your name) Sending you lots of love. My sister had a baby a year back so I can totally understand how challenging it can be even with the support of the entire family. I hope you don't think I am trying to be patronising, but what I saw with my sis and my close friends is that even though it is very challenging and sometimes lonely to be a new mom, after some time it gets easier. #support #hug
Love this! I always give an explanation about myself when people ask what I do. I am just a housewife. Thank you so much. This made me feel better about myself.
Thanks so much for letting me know. It means a lot to me. I have huge respect for housewives. Their contribution to society is immense. #respect to you
Omg. I know it's 2019 but i needed this! Thank you💖😍
I am so happy that it helped :-) Thanks so much for letting me know.
Very good points you shared with all housewives. The first thing we must learn to respect ourselves, love and feel good always . Let’s begin with a simple and lovable thought that Iam a housewife and Iam proud of it.😀😀
I am so happy that you liked my video, Madhulita. Yes, it is very imp to respect ourselves. I love your attitude. 😀😀
Most beautiful video which I have never seen before for housewives...
Geeta Verma Thank you so much for appreciating this video. I am so happy that it connected with you 😊🙏
Hello ma'am, I am Moushmi. I met you at the indigo flight from Bangkok to Kolkata. I wasn't aware of your profile then but after having known you through the digital platform, I feel so good to have met you. You talk beautifully and your speeches are quite inspiring. Hope to meet you again sometime somewhere.😊
Dear Moushmi, It was my pleasure meeting you. I am so glad you enjoyed this video. Thanks for your lovely message. I hope we meet again too :-)
Thanks mam u raised really crucial topic, My sister got married a year earlier and she is managing her home really well and happily but every other day she has to face one comment if u will work then u can get all this work done by a helper in Rs 5000 only .This comment express our society thoughts about a housewife .
With house my sister is also managing her studies ,as she love to study but for this also she listens "why r u studying if u r not interested in job "???
Will only our job give us the reason to study and home maker has no rights???
Dear Preeti, I am so glad that this video connected with you. It is very sad that countless homemakers all over the wold face this kind of judgemental behavior. Pls tell your sister to not get bullied or disheartened by such comments. It is not a refelcetion on her, it is a reflection on the people who make such nasty comments. I hope you share this video with your sister amd other housewifes too.
oooooooooooooo that line is toooooo much heart touching "u cant afford me".💙
Hey Alisha, I loved saying it in the video :-) I am so happy that you liked it. I hope you check out other videos on my channel too. I will love to hear from you.
I have became a fan of yours after listening to the video 👏 👏 👏. Huge round of applause to you ma'am..... After a long long time there was a video where I did not skip even a second.... I watched entire video and let me tell u each and every word you said made sense 👍...... Everyone is aware of the contribution of the "lady of the house " she is heart and center of everything but the way you portrayed it.. Is simply taking that thing to a next level all together!!! Great job ma'am.... Keep motivating!! Good luck 👍
Dear lakhbir kaur arora, Thank you so much for appreciating my work. It made from heart and dedicated to all the wonderful housewives in the world 😊🙏😊
Hi !Ruchi just shared ur vdo with some of my friends who like me r just a housewife trying to uplift their mood . Everyday it's a battle for us as in todays zen housewife r rare nd this society doesn't give a Damm abt us . But ur talk opened a slight window showing those rays of hope ..
Thank you, Vandana for sharing your experience with me. I am so glad that my video helped you. It is really unfair that a vast majority does not acknowledge the hard work of housewives. However, I have immense respect for my friends and family members who are housewives. Sending you lots of good wishes. I have made a video on domestic violence. If possible pls watch and share with your friends as that is a huge issue that impacts lots of women.
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This is amazing... everyone should watch this... thank god for home makers
What an amazing and inspiring video. Keep being awesome 🙂 watching this video just sets the whole tone for my day, reminding me that what I do is so important. Even though my boyfriend is so good about expressing his gratitude, when I look at career women and how much money they have I still feel like I don't measure up. But what we do ladies can mean so much more than having more money for nicer things. We're building strong families and loving homes 💞
Nameuneeded Thanks so much for your lovely message 😊 I am so happy that you enjoyed my video n the message. Housewives add a lot of value to our society 😊🙏
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for empowering us women.👏👏👏
Thankyou Samantha for appreciating my work. You are empowering me by showing appreciation of my work :-)
I’ve been a stay at home mom for 13 years now and it’s bittersweet…sadly all society thinks of is “money” but we are the CEO’s of running our household and shaping our future generation. Most underrated JOB in the world. It’s so hard most women would rather go back to “work” being a housewife/sahm is not for everyone. Financially it’s hard to stay home if you struggle with money (just my experience)
Thanks for sharing Michelle. I agree with you that Housewives play a very important role in shaping our future generations and their contribution to society is immense.
On a good day I enjoy being a housewife but somedays I'm exhausted and start question my life choices. I prefer the term housewife. I work so hard to keep going and keep the house tidy and meals cooked with very little food . I'm proud that I can pull it off . My gran was a housewife and she made it look so easy caring for all of us. She passed when I was 13yrs old and since then I have enjoyed caring for people etc. Now I'm losing my last grandparent , being a housewife is enjoyable. I also balance it with art and music.
Dear rachael-jayne Reeves , thanks for sharing this. I have deep respect for women and also a few men who stay at home and add so much value to our society. There is so much work and such wide variety of work done by a housewife. A housewife has a full time job, the only difference is that they are not paid for their hard work. #love and #respect . Do share it with other housewives as I have dedicated it to all the housewives all over the world.💕💕
Ruchi superb topic to come up with would like to see more such wonderful topics to be opened up
Hey, Thank you so much. Could you let me know some topic suggestions? If possible, I will try and make videos on those topics.
Some days I feel like stopping. Giving myself excuses to why the work i do isn't valued...... this is a great pick me up. Thank you for sharing! God bless you and your work ☺❤
Hi Victory, I am so happy that you enjoyed this video :-) It is dedicated to you and all the other wonderful housewives all over the world. I hope you enjoy my other video's too :-)
I have been a housewife and wife that worked outside the home. I worked harder at home, no PTO, no off clock hours (work 24 hrs a day). No sick days, no vacation days, no bonuses etc, etc, etc. Housewives are and always will be special and produce well rounded children.
I think its the best video on housewife....I loved it.
Thank you so much. I feel that they are very under-represented and we have to value the immense contribution of housewives/househusbands.
Wow! Amazing video. A must watch for every man and especially every woman who takes care of the home and her family.
Hi Anita Prasad, I am glad you liked it. This video is my way of giving tribute and support to all the wonderful women who work tirelessly their whole life #housewives 🙏🙏
Dear Ruchi, your latest video on Housewifes really pleased me. Very few people really appreciate the contribution made by Housewife towards the family and the society. A big Thankyou to you.
A big thank you to you :-) Thanks for such a lovely feedback.
@@RuchiSinghTalks dee 1more vedio on this it's a big request
Dear Bhawana, thanks for appreciating this video. I really feel very sad that the hard work and contributions of the housewife’s is not valued. I will keep it in mind and whenever I make something related to this topic in future I will definitely let you know. Do share it with other housewives as they deserve all our respect.
Powerful amazing video. I will share it with all my friends who are housewives as it is sad but true that housewives are not given the due respect for the hard work they do. Thank you and God bless you Ruchi Singh
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Inspiring message . Thankyou
Now I am crying , for my clothes also am also begging .then I received hardly one saree and some clothes to wear no smily given for my emotions right now
Imagine a world without any housewife ? I bet there will be no love affection left. I am home maker myself and yes I feel embarrassed when I say I am home maker as I am educated completed Msc and most importantly I put myself down by thinking that why am I cleaning house when I had worked my ass off to score a distinction in studies.. but I am not able to get back to work when I see my lill kid's face I get this question " how can I leave this small tiny human being alone, uncared" yes I can afford some guardian but will this kid receive that motherly fatherly love and what would happen if this kid will not be aware of these and what someone gets to suffer just cos of this kid not knowing what is "love, affection, care" and yes I feel guilty being a homemaker and very sad but I am not able to overcome the other side of the work those above questions . Why has society put this unwanted pressure over homemaker ? Why can't educated ones be homemaker?
Beautiful video! Thanks for uploading it!
Thanks Raiza 🙏 I am so happy that you enjoyed it 😊
you are most inspiring motivational speaker .
I watch all your training videos
Thanks for uploading these amazing inspiring videos...Thanks for the great work, I feel motivated..
Thanks so much, Megha. Your feedback motivates me to keep doing good work.
Excellent and valuable video ma'am!
Thank you so much!🙂
Thank you. I gald you found it valubale :-)
I will add one thing
The whole so called new generation today like me was made by housives of earlier generation / in nutshell we must respect our creators
Hi Sumeet, that is such a positive comment. By this, you are acknowledging the immense contribution of all the housewives.
@@RuchiSinghTalks Yes mam
One can earn any amount of money
But cannot get back that golden phase of life
Wow ,I believe those words which you have spoken definitely must be from your heart. I can feel the emotion in your words. I am also a house wife after worked for 3 years in an MNC. Sometimes I also feel that we are doing nothing in our life after completing PG degree with 3 years of work experience. But sometimes I will get that positive attitude in my mind that we ar doing a great job. We are running a family which is more tough than running a firm👍👍thank you so much foe such a soothing words
Dear Bhuvaneshwari, I am so happy that you enjoyed this video. Yes, I spoke from my heart. I have immense respect for housewives/house husbands as they do so much but rarely get the recognition they deserve.
Do majority of women restart their career after maternity break or do they become full time stay at home moms?
When at the end what matters is money, the society can never give that respect to a housewife. Its very sad and depressing but its the truth.
What an eye opener... thankyou for the video... hope it spreads the thought to change the perception worldwide
Thanks so much. It means a lot. I truly hope it does.
What a brilliant video. Very few people give credit to the hard work done by the housewives . I will share it with all my friends. Thank you Ruchi Singh.
Such me kisi ne socha housewife k liy ,bhut achha lga
Thank you.
So correct, true and inspiring.
Thanks again Sanchari. I value your support. I hope you like my other videos too 🙂
It's a women only who make feel other women guilty even if they choose to be a housewife without any pressure
Your mum "Anju Singh" is so beautiful. That explains a lot about you too.
Thanks for the video... Cause I was feeling very insecure, and you've helped improve my thoughts pattern 💚💛
Thank you so much :-) I will convey your compliment to my mom. She is a darling. I am so happy that my video could help you. This makes the effort worthwhile for me. If you get time do check out my other videos.
I translated the whole video to my mom, and bring out a smile on her face. thank you!
Thanks Koyel Roy for letting me know. I am so happy that your mom appreciated it. Pls, give my regards to her. 🙏🙏😊
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In our locality most of the wives are home maker or simply housewives. But they are more educated than their husbands. One of them has completed her M.A in History after her marriage but still she wants to be a housewife. I call her Boudi-moni(Sister-in-law). According to her, as she is a mother of a 1 year old boy so if she works outside then her child would become unhealthy & less educated in near future. She will not be able to take care of him which is very much needed for a new born baby. She says,"I have become educated therefore I can teach my child, not to earn money." Wow! This type of women are very rare. Whenever we ask educated women whether they wish to work outside or not they always say yes we want but she is the woman who wants to teach her own child rather than earning because she gives priority to her child not money.
Thanks for sharing this. Thre is no harm in earning money and there is no harm in being a housewife. There should not be any jugdments. It is a personal decision.
@@RuchiSinghTalks yes mam. You are right. We should not criticize. Their value can't be judged by money. Mam though I am not your daily follower but I have become fan of you. Your appearance, gesture, and your way of talking are inexplicable. No doubt we can easily assume that you are highly educated but you look 'down to earth'. You are really descent.
@@abhisekdas1580 Thank you so much for such a kind comment. I hope you watch my other videos too. I truly appreciate your mature response. A lot of people get defensive when given feedback but you are not one of them. This shows high Emotional intelligence.
Being a housewife I'm judged most by working woman than anyone else.
Every working woman are the ones who ask me what do you do!
Don't you get bored!
And I wanna yell and scream at them that you are going to work coz you can't do what I do at home.
I don't have a cleaner, cook, and a every other day swiggy deliverer!
Trust me I have worked and I know what that mental pressure holds.
But being a housewife is a lotta of physical pressure.. Your always moving taking up kid cleaning no rest!
To thode who can't value them go get a life.
This is the reason why I have made this video dedicated to all the housewives. It is a small effort on my part to shine a spotlight on all the hard work and contribution made by a housewife.
@@RuchiSinghTalks thank you so much... Every other person should watch this video.
Being "Just a Housewife" is most difficult choice to make as you have to be an Excellent Cook, Care Taker, Tutor, Cleaner, Gardener, Financial Advisor, Wealth Manager, Motivator, Priest, Washerman, Decorator, Planner, Payer of all Bills, Doctor, Nurse, Music, Dance, Math, SST, Science Teacher, Counsellor, Network Manager, Society and, Inlaws Pleaser, Plumber, Electrician, Administrator, Leader, Referee, Yoga and Zumba Expert and Practitioner, Dietitian, Dress Designer, Makeup Artist etc and etc and do this all for whole life for Zero Salary , Zero Holidays, Zero Promotion and Appreciation. 😉😉😉
Hi Shilpy, This is the reason why I have made this video dedicated to all the housewives. It is a small effort on my part to shine a spotlight on all the hard work and contribution made by a housewife.
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@@RuchiSinghTalks True... Thanks for making the vedio ❤️
Thanku so much madam for very good meg 😊
Thank you.
I feel so bad for being a housewife coz it's most underrated job but v important job too.
Yes, it is a very important job and a tough job. It is also true that it is undervalued. This is why I made this video to shine a spotlight on the hard work done by all the housewives.
Such an amazing video! 🙌🏽 Thank you ❤
Thank you so much :-) Please share it with all the housewives you know. They need to know that they are doing tremendous work and adding value to our society.
Please make this in Hindi or Hindi subtitles.
Good words will reach more good housewives.
It is a good suggestion. I will try and make it in Hindi, time permitting.
Proud to be house wife but my hubby has given me a freedom life I love my hubby and my life of being house wife no I do lot of work at home
HI Shabeena, thanks for sharing. I am so happy for you :-) I am glad you liked my video.
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Ruchi your video is very inspiring. What do you say about people who feel that appreciating a housewife will make her egoistic and she should not be praised for her efforts.
Hi Devaki, Thank you for apprecaiting my video. It takes all kinds of people to make this world. Some of them are misers when it comes to appreaciating the hard work of others.I defenitely feel that the work done by a housewife is very valuable. And even if no body realises it every housewife should know that they are adding value and rest of us women should be supportive of our sisters.
I feel it’s tough to be housewife working whole day at home looking after kids husband n doing all household chores I salute all the house wives even i was a working lady before giving birth to my baby but now I am a housewife
Hi Jyotshna, you are right. It is quite tough and the work at home never ends. I salute all the housewives too. This is the reason I made this video.
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Why do women place the kids needs first. The husband comes first. The kids come next.
Missing my Mom ...it's been 1 and half years she left this world 😭
Dear Yasmin, I am so sorry for your loss. No one can replace a mom. Sending you love and light. Pls take care.
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Thanx so much dear 😢🙏
Thanks video at right time
Hi Andril, I am happy that my video helped in some way. I hope check out someof my other videos too.
Hi Ruichi, your advice is valuable and gave me boost though I never saw myself as just a 'housewife/homemaker'. Thanks dear!
I am so happy that you enjoyed my video. A housewife is never "Just" a housewife. That is the main message of my video. I have a deep respect for all the hard work and contribution done by housewives.
I agree with ur points, it's absolutely right ❤
Thank you.
Thank you so much mam 🙏You are true inspiration to many women ❤️
Thank you so much Vrinda for appreciating my work. ❤️❤️
Hello from Mauritius i have been a homely housewife since long
I realized it's the best job ever . I have a small family my husband n my daughter.
Hi Preeya, Thanks for sharing this. I have been once to Mauritius. It is beautiful :-)
@@RuchiSinghTalks thank u dr
That's so incredible 🌈👌👐🌼🌸
Thank you so much :-) Have you watched other videos on my channel? I hope you enjoy them too.
Nice video
It's a very useful video to housewife and I wish you get success all the time
Thanks, Vamsy. I truly value your support
RuchiSinghTalks ur most welcome 😊
Being a housewife is one of the toughest jobs on earth. Words would be insufficient to admire them.
Absolutelt true :-)
I did Ca course but after marriage could not complete final exams.Now with a baby of 1.5 year i could not study it again.I try to feel good working as a housewife as i am living alone with my baby and hubby but then thoughts keep on disturbing me.I feel that i could complete my course but i am not getting time now.I don't need much money but I feel bad about myself for not having the degree.Ca is also a very tough course in which i have to study at least 12-15 hours.,which i am.not able to manage now.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. It is understandable that with a little baby you may not be able to find time to study. If you want to finish your CA, maybe you can study again after your baby is slighlty grown. In the end our life is shaped by the decisions we take. All the best :-)
Hi VH. Don't feel sad about u r studies. if u have dedication and time u can finish u r CA later also. But for u r baby u r the only one to make her happy and to cook her and feed her and to bath her and to dress her and make to sleep her and to wake up her wake up her.and what not..you are everything to u r baby. Keep u r thoughts away. And share all u r love caring and mercy to u r baby. To u r baby u r the only one takes care of her. No can replace u r place in her life. U r baby completley depends on u. Take care of u r baby. Afrer u r baby slightly grown u can develop u r career.
Thank you, thank you!
Hi Tara, thanks 😊🙏 I am so happy you enjoyed it.
Thank you ma'am 😊i am also housewife 🥰🥰yes I'm homemaker i proud 💖himself Thank you ma'am...sorry my English not a good 🙃
Thanks Pooja :-) I am so happy that you like this video :-) yeh video aapko aur saari housewives ko dedicated hai. English toh bas ek basha hai. No need to say sorry. Mujhe bhi english aur hindi ke siva aur koi bhasha nahi aati hai :-)
@@RuchiSinghTalks thank you ma'am 😊
I enjoyed watching your Video besides the subject it was pleasure watching one of members from Elite 8teen family.I would love to watch all your videos.Please keep me notified.
God bless Ruchi
With lots of love
Col & Mrs Ashok Yadav
Good Evening uncle. Thank you so much for your kind words and blessings. I am very proud to be an Army officer's daughter and daughter of Elite 8teen. It will mean a lot to me if you take out time to watch my other videos too. I hope you have subscribed to my channel. Then whenever there is a new video UA-cam will send you a notification. I shall also ask Dad to send you links to the same. I have done some interviews with our Generals. I hope you enjoy those.
Please Give my regards to Aunty.
Warm Regards,
Ruchi
So many things learn from u. Very nice video
Thank you Bhakti 😊🙏
Housewife is the best job for a married woman in the world.
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yes if house wife is the greatest job, why u need education
That's bad statement
Being a mother is the best job a human being can ever get
Never gets paid and bear all the pains
So good!!!!!!! Thank you
Thanks Andrea :-) I am so happy that you enjoyed it. I hope you take a look at my other videos too.
2 minutes in and am loving it proud houes wife
Thanks Nabbumba janat 🙏 I hope your friends who are house wives enjoy it too as it is dedicated to all the wonderful housewives 🙏💕
@@RuchiSinghTalks they sure will thank you be blessed
Husband's need love
Care frm wife's Bt while we need one point of tym dey always take opposite side
Dis is fake love we struggle to handle
Hi Asma, thanks for sharing your feelings. I hope you enjoyed the video. I have huge respect for housewives.
I never said to my wife..and I am proud of her..mujhe garv hai ki usne meri mother aur apni mother ki tarh family bana rakhi..jabki maine phir kaha agar kuch aur karna chahti to kar lo but she decided to be house wife..even she is a topper in education..hum sath hai aur taking care of our parents. So itna much socho..logo k bare me.
Thank you ♥️
My Pleasure :-)
Hi Ruchi, This is a good initiative, however please understand your target audience. Not all housewives are very good in English. Don't make language as the barrier to them to understand your thoughts. Good luck to you and please keep making the good videos !
Thanks Yogesh for your suggestion. I agree that language can be a barrier. However, I have people from other countries who follow my work and thus English is the common language. I hope one day to make videos in Hindi too. I hope you enjoy someother videos too made my me.
I came across this just when I required it the most.Thank you and God bless you
Hi Alysha, I am happy that my video helped. Thank you for letting me know 😀🙏
மறக்கக் கூடாத விதிகள்.
1) மூளை தான் உண்மையான பாலுறுப்பு.
2) மூளையை மயக்காத வரை பெண்ணின் உடலில் இன்பம் நிகழாது.
3) மனைவிக்கு எது பிடித்திருக்கிறது என்பதைக் கேட்டுத் தெரிந்து கொண்டு செயலாற்றவும்.
4) மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்காத எந்த வழி முறையிலும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பத்தை நிகழ்த்த முடியாது.
5) கணவனின் செயல் மனைவிக்குப் பிடிக்கவில்லையென்றால், முன் விளையாட்டுக்கள் போதவில்லை என்று பொருள்.
6) இங்கே சொல்லியுள்ள படி, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்தால் எப்படிப் பட்ட பெண்ணின் மனமும் இக்கணத்திற்கு வந்து விடும்.
7) ஆகவே, தந்த்ரா பூஜைகளைச் செய்ய சிக்கனம் கூடாது.
8) மனைவியின் உடல் எவ்வாறு எதிர்வினை ஆற்றுகிறது என்பதை விழிப்புடன் கவனித்த படியே செயலாற்றவும்.
9) குறிப்பாக மனைவியின் சுவாசத்தைக் கவனித்த படியே செயல் படவும்.
10) செயல்படும் விதத்தை மாற்றிக் கொண்டேயிருக்கக் கூடாது.
11) வேகம் என்பது வியாதி. எனினும், உச்ச கட்ட இன்பம் நெருங்கும் வேளையில் வேகத்தைச் சற்றே அதிகரிக்கலாம்.
12) வேக மாற்றத்தை மனைவியின் மூளை அறிந்து விடக் கூடாது.
13) மனைவிக்குரிய இன்பம் நிகழும் முன்பாக கணவன் தன்னுடைய இன்பத்தைப் பற்றி எண்ணிக் கூடப் பார்க்கக் கூடாது.
14) பகலிலேயே ஒரு குறிப்புச் செயலின் மூலம் தெரிவித்து, மனைவியின் மூளையில் ஒரு எதிர்பார்ப்பை உருவாக்கி விட வேண்டும்.
15) இன்பத்துய்ப்பு ஒரு தவம். ஆகவே, நேர அளவுகளை நிர்ணயித்துச் செயல் படக் கூடாது.
16) எடுத்தவுடன் முக்கிய பகுதிகளைத் தொடக் கூடாது. அதே போல, எடுத்தவுடன் லிங்கத்தைப் பயன்படுத்தக் கூடாது. தனியொரு லிங்கத்தால், மனைவிக்குரிய எந்த இன்பத்தையும் வழங்க முடியாது.
மனைவியை வற்புறுத்தி இன்பம் துய்க்கக் கூடாது.
18) நாவையும், விரலையும் பயன்படுத்த ஒரு போதும் தயங்கக் கூடாது.
19) இன்பத் துய்ப்பின் போது, ஆணாதிக்கவாதியாகச் செயல் படக் கூடாது.
20) துய்ப்பு முடிந்தவுடனே கழிவறை நோக்கி ஒட்டம் பிடிக்கக் கூடாது.
21) மாதாமாதம் ஈடுபடும் முறைகளை மாற்றிக் கொண்டே இருக்கவும்.
22) படுக்கையறையில் ஐந்து வயதிற்கு மேலான குழந்தை இருக்கக் கூடாது.
23) அரவம் கேட்டால் ஆணுக்கு இன்பம் நிகழ்ந்து விடும். மனைவியின் இன்பம் நழுவிப் போய் விடும்.
24) நல்லுறவு இல்லாத போது தான், பாலுறவு முக்கியம்.
உச்ச கட்டப் பாலின்பம் உருவாக்கும் அன்பையும், அதிசயத்தையும் வேறெந்த மந்திரத்தாலும் இல்லற வாழ்வில் ஏற்படுத்த முடியாது.
26) அன்பை உருவாக்குவதில் இன்பத் துய்ப்பிற்கு இணை எதுவுமே இல்லை.
வறண்ட பாலுறவு பகையை உருவாக்கும், உயவுப் பசையோடு நடை பெறும் பாலுறவே அன்பை உருவாக்கும்.
28) வாய் துர்நாற்றம் ஆகவே ஆகாது.
29) படுக்கையறை பூஜையறையைப் போலச் சுத்தமாக இருக்க வேண்டும்.
30) முன் தூங்கிப் பின்னெழுவதை வழக்கமாக்கிக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது.
31) எண்பது வயதிலும் பெண்ணுக்குரிய மதனபீட இன்பம் நிகழும்.
32) கணவனால் எந்த வயதிலும் தன் மனைவியைப் பால் ரீதியாகத் திருப்திப் படுத்த முடியும்.
33) தன்னம்பிக்கை உள்ள வரை லிங்கம் சாயாது. லிங்கம் சாயாத வரை ஆண் எடுத்த காரியத்தில் தோற்க மாட்டான்.
34) காதற் தசை நார்ப் பயிற்சியை இருவரும் தினம் தவறாமல் செய்யவும்.
ஆழமான, நீண்ட, ஆசுவாசமான சுவாசம் மிகவும் முக்கியம்.
துரித ஸ்கலிதம், விந்து முந்துதல் ஆகிய இரண்டின் விரோதி ஆழ்ந்த சுவாசம்.
36) மந்திரச் சொல்லைப் பயன்படுத்திய படியே இயங்கப் பழகவும்.
37) ஒன்றுக்கு இரண்டு முறை நுணுக்கங்களைப் படித்துக் கொள்ளவும்.
38) பெண்ணின் பால் மண்டல படங்களை மனதில் பதித்துக் கொள்ளவும்.
39) மது, புகையிலை போன்ற போதைப் பழக்கங்களை விட்டு விட வேண்டும்.
40) அதற்குச் செலவளிக்கும் பணத்தை, ஊட்டச்சத்து மிக்க உணவை உட்கொள்ளப் பயன் படுத்த வேண்டும். அதன் மூலம் பாலாற்றலை வளர்த்துக் கொள்வதோடு, கொலைகார நோய்களிருந்தும் தப்பிக்கலாம். ஆயுளையும் அதிகரித்துக் கொள்ளலாம்.
41) இன்பத் துய்ப்பு என்பதை ஒரு மணி நேரத்திற்கும் குறைவாக முடித்துக் கொள்ளக் கூடாது.
42) பாலுறவைப் பற்றிக் கீழ்த்தரமாகக் கருதக் கூடாது.
43) பூஜைகளின் போது, வாக்குவாதங்களுக்கு இடமளிக்கக் கூடாது.
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Thanks so much for this encouragement
Ascension 2000 I am so happy that you liked it 😊🙏
My wife feels being just a housewife is most boring work in life... From her point a woman should be financially indepndent and must earn more or become successfull.... She doesn't hv time for her family bcs she is working to make a better future.... But what about Present? Now a days we value money more than life... Thats the harsh reality
you are right actually. and I observed myself that majority of times independent women shames housewives/ homemakers. majority of my aunties who are office workers often ask my mom questions like "what you do whole day, you must be bored in house". My mom literally works at least double than my aunts. When we were kids, my mom raised us with love and affection, she gave us values of love and respect. But my aunts kids used to stay with their grandparents only
Hi di me New subscriber. Today I got motivated by seeing this video ur video gave me immense peace. Di from which place u belong.
Samir Dash Thanks Samir, for this message and subscribing to my channel. I am so glad that my video gave you peace. I am from India. I hope you enjoy other videos too.
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank You for letting me know. I value it :-)
nice to see you after long time Ruchi ji jgd🙏😊
Jai Guru Dev!!
Amazing video 💯
Thank you so much Sarah 🙂
Now i am whaching your vedio and i said that the whole day i don't time to eating lunch for houe work ,but society said that we are do nothing . I must this time if i work on a company they paid me a good slary but we do that not becuse our husbend house runnig , but our sacfice never see our soceity and our housbed
Well ,living in 21st century I think we should promote women to work in order reduce gender disparities
Housewives work very hard and we should acknowledge that. Yes, I agree that doing work for which one is paid is very important to reduce disparities. Thank you for stopping to share your views.
Very tough time we cant die or we cant live
Very interesting to listen to you.
Thank you :-)
Excellent Ruchi ji
Dear Babita, Thanks so much 😊
Thank you thank you thank you!!!
My Pleasure Melody :-) I am happy that my video connected with you.
Thank you ma'am
My pleasure Sarita :-)
Ur beginning words r so hart tuching😔😔😔😔
Thank you so much. I am so happy that my video touched your heart. :-)
Hello mam m ur new subscriber n ur speech is really really inspiring me
Hi Shruthi, thanks so much for subscribing 😊🙏 I am so happy that you liked my video. This is dedicated to all the housewives in the world. I have deep respect for them💕💕
I am happy for you mam n thnku
Great message ma'm.You five a very strong message
Thanks 🙏 I am so happy that you appreciated this video 😊
Really good video dear 👌🏻👌🏻😍🙏🏻
Thank you so much 😊
But i dont know how to start that in a village
Hi am an house wife 2 tank u so much
Dear Nalini, I am so happy that you liked it. I have huge respect for all the housewives. Do share this with other housewives. :-)