Signs Your Ex Never Got Over You
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- Опубліковано 25 жов 2020
- Clay Andrews shares 5 Signs Your Ex Never Got Over You.
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You might be wondering "Is my ex really over me?" hence why you stumbled upon this video.
After a breakup, most of us overthink the situation and look into the slightest possible chance that maybe your ex is not over you. Did they end up in a rebound relationship? Are they still looking into what you are up to - checking in with your friends or stalking your social media? Do they seem to be in a worse place in their life than when they were with you? Does it seem like they are settling for less in their life?
In this video, Clay Andrews lists down 5 signs your ex isn't over you. Watch him discuss deeper on how you can identify these and what you can do to get your ex back.
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I’ve already watched many of your videos on relationship break ups, but I must admit I found this particularly educational.
Great signs to consider! I have definitely noticed a lot of them! Thank you, Clay!
Glad you like them!
Appreciate the part about them looking like they are settling because of something different then the values you thought they had/discussed.
Glad to hear that this is something that resonated with you. :-)
that's the most nail on head podcast yet nailed it
Thanks for the compliment, Stuart. :-)
Yay got all 5😀 thanks Clay
Thank you sir Clay... im still hoping for my better outcome... thank you for inspiring all those with relationship problems...
We should be calling him lord clay at this point
Thank you Clay!!! Your videos are the best!
Glad you like them!
Looking very dapper today Clay
He help me got my ex back after we break up with each other
Your making good Sense, we was together 13 years and her menopause destroyed us, l always knew she wouldn't get over us, she even had a nervous breakdown 9 months after she left, and then met a man and married him a few months later, way out of her nature, been 5 years and she still can't handle talking to me are even seeing me, finally a month ago she texted me if she could call me,,I said no she's a married woman now. My bond for her has always been strong and I know she felt the same. It's a shame because we really did have a special relationship.
Got u 👍🏼
This video was very informative and my ex wife actually hits all 5 of the signs right on the head. I hope it is something that shows her and I still have a chance and will one day be able to Work our differences out and get back together
We truly appreciate your kind words, Michael. Thanks for watching. :-)
Thanks again for your insight 👍.
My pleasure! :-)
I am not broken hearted, just disappointed. It was way toooooo much work. He was disrespectful at the end.
He help me got my ex back after we break up with each other
Quick rebounds and taking up with people who aren’t good for them.
I enjoy your videos they really are an inspiration and they make me feel better about my situation
Thanks, Orval. Happy to hear that our videos have helped you a lot. :-)
@@ClayAndrews morning and your welcome
Thanks Clay! One other sign is that they are rubbing the rebound in your face.
Good call!
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My ex wanted N.C. and I gave her nothing but space but now she’s reaching out to my grandma and she’s never done this before. Guess she’s testing the water but I’m liking the freedom
My ex also asked for no contact. She said she needed to be in a healing space and have a clean slate because she couldnt handle being in contact with me. She also even said that I broke her heart... so its been 3 months NC and she removed me from all social media. Her family members are still friends of mine on social media which is odd.
I can’t assume any of these points but I’ve been blocked for about 7 months now, and she’s with someone new after 3 months apart. No “happy” posts of them together so I can’t tell the depth of their connection but it does seem like she’s using him as a “popcorn and cotton candy” solution. Just much less attractive and not as much going for him. Ugh there are waves where I’m fine for weeks and then a sporadic day of feeling anxious and wanting her back. I hope this fades completely at some point because I know I have to give myself closure...Your videos are very helpful and I thank you for the times you’ve relieved some of that anxiety
My ex texted me wanting to hang out, I agreed (when I wasn’t busy) and it went well and he said he wants to do it again soon, he dumped me 3 weeks ago (I’ve been trying to do no contact for a few weeks) I’m hoping he regrets the break up and has noticed that my mental health has improved a lot lately but I don’t know what to think and I keep wondering why he messaged me out of nowhere. Any opinions would be appreciated I have been doing well until this happened and it’s making me wonder if we can reconcile
Hey clay, so ever since my ex and i broke up, he has been single and also he lost his job too shortly after we broke up, your advice?
My ex and I broke up 2cyears ago . He has not been in a relationship since then. Neither have I. He says he all alone and he is in a bad situation. I feel sad for him. I honestly do
Amen
How would you even know all of this?
Hey clay, wht does it mean when someone says i never got over you mean?
Ever relationship I have had its taken me same about of years to recover .
i say it usually takes me half the time we were together to get over sum1. Obv it depends tho.
This is the first video where everything here actually applies to me. We broke up 2 years back. That first year was tough, but after you heal and move on, everything else seems to follow. Im sure my ex still cares because I aknowledge that I still do to some degree, but I've grown enough to know that it's better to stay separated
Hey there, it's definitely okay if you have decided to stay separated. Caring for someone is not just about being in a relationship. We can still care for the person in a different level.
My ex we. Work together and he egnores me and avoid look me in the eyes anf sometimes i feel tha he is angry or something but often talk yo me in face book i am really confuse
I broke up with my ex and we had an apartment together and I couldn’t break my lease... but I knew they were talking to their ex fuck buddies. I moved back home and we have had time apart but I will come up and visit to see their parents and stay with them because we have a dog together... but we started as friends and we have stayed friends for almost a year after our break up. It’s a tricky situation because idk if they’re over me or want me back...
So if they don’t get into a rebound there over you?
How would you know if they never got over you if you’re in no contact and they don’t contact you?
You would know that once you get to feel the dynamics of your communication once you are back in contact.
I have been dating my ex for a couple of months and everything seemed to be going in the right direction. All of a sudden she starts bringing up the past and I'm getting more distant. When I ask her if she still wants to do this she says she does but I don't understand why it's a constant push pull of her . Literally one day sentimental and intimate the next time I talk to her she's completely indifferent
Reassure her that you understand the mistakes and how it made her feel...that you are in this to love her n take care of her...make her feel safe be honest n vulnerable
Look up "Attachment Style". It may help shed light.
She sounds like a Gemini lol
My ex got back in touch with me just to tell me to hav a 1 night stand.🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ The rsn being is bcoz he did 'but' we started talking again & he told me it didn't work out, I asked why & he said coz she just wasnt u... well I was dumbstruck coz I thot he hated me!😄 He seems to go frm love-hate in an instant. We arent talking atm but wot tH am I supposed to think of him saying this. & ps the girl he tried to sleep with looks Very like me 😕 Can any1 help me as to wot he feels/thinks about me coz he is very deep, closed, emotionally blocked... & I cant work him out.😔
There are some times that I often think about him because we broke up last year and I'm basically doing my own thing but sometimes he pops in my head out of nowhere.. does he miss me
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Probably not
My ex told me to move on with my life it hurt me so much
I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Michael. We understand that it must be tough for you. We hope that you are taking even a simple step each day to work on your healing.
My crush had a crush on me 2 in summer. He was a commander so we couldn't continue Dating but we both been sad about it. I was his first crush after his long marriage. He dated one girl before, but felt nothing. N I drove him crazy he said.. But we had no sex bcauze of job.
Do u think he won't forget about me?
HI Calida, it will never be easy for a person for forget us. Especially if you both had spent time or shared some memories.
my ex keeps saying hi in person at church but he doesn't go any further...no texts or anything conversational... why is that?
Hi Panda, have you tried fully interacting with your ex by asking questions or having a full conversation?
Popcorn fluff🤣
My kids Dad never got over me, but if he had stopped his stupid destructive behaviours we woulda bn together forever.😕
Exactly, but they dont stop
We broke up 12 yrs ago. Throughout, he's talked to my exe, my cousins, phoned and popped up on my job. June 2020 we lost our adult son. When we saw eachother it was fireworks, he kissed mr square in the mouth BEFORE I knew it. I was following your advice, talking but not about anything heavy just a lot of laughs and memories HE was bringing up. He told our other son "your mom should be here with me'. He says he's in a committed relationship, 4 yrs. Since the break-up, he's so hot and cold. I told him my sister asked about us and without listening to anything further, he turned on me. Insulting me, being rude it was crazy. When I reminded him of good times hared he told me not to call, text or leave msgs and denied all the other things I said previously. I believe he's narcissistic. But tell me, does it sound like he's pretending cause I feel like he hates me, but he left me. And yes, she looks like a cheaper version of me!
Hi Karen, I understand that this must be confusing for you. Given the current changes that has been happening on your dynamics, do you feel he still fits your personal values and qualities of being in a healthy and lasting relationship?
@@gingin7629 thank you Gin Gin, I always say that as well, true love never dies. However, becuz he acting like he hates me and dont want to hear from me, I dont think I wanna try anymore. He's mean to me for no reason. I rather walk away with what dignity I have left. Thank you for responding
@@ClayAndrews Clay, I'm beginning to feel like I deserve better. Its like when I was ignoring him, he kept coming some sort of way for years. Now that I've given in to his advances he's taken this opportunity to turn cold and treats me like I'm after him. He treats me ok in front of people and changes into a rude, sarcastic a**hole who wants to tear and beat me down, I dont know why. He left me yrs ago and to this day, I dont know why. He cheated and lied on me and he's angry at me? I'm frustrated because I dont understand his behavior. Thank you Clay
@@ClayAndrews No, I dont think he fits.
im on day 50 of no contact after a 5 month breakup. she received a letter from the IRS, so i felt the need to reach out to her, we are going to meet up for the first time and talk about things...hope it goes well
Good luck on your meet up, Arin. :-)
@@ClayAndrews, shes gone silent, we are supposed to meet up next week, but now shes not talking to me...i dont know what to do!
@@take5podcast don’t initiate conversation, if she stays silent then i would stay silent too. wait for the meet up to talk, make sure you aren’t being pushy, best of luck to you
@@spaghettio5566, it doesnt look like we are having the meet up, shes completely ghosted me since we discussed it, and i havent tried to talk to her after that, i assumed she changed her mind
What if your ex is putting single but has no pictures of him and the girl he claims hes seeing.
Some people will prefer to keep things in private. They stay away from social media, or they only share a small amount of information about themselves online. So we just have to be okay with that as that is their personal choice. :-)
@@ClayAndrews but what he saw me recently like invited me to his house clearly this is a rebound relationship.
My ex just broke up with her rebound after 5 months not sure what to do now lol
Hi Tom, This must be emotionally tough for your ex as she will be going through another breakup. I understand that you see this as an opportunity but allow your ex to heal from the breakup.
@@ClayAndrews yeah I figure if it’s meant to be she will make the move in the future until then I’m going to carry on and continue to improve myself. Thanks for the reply!
Yes hes watching my UA-cam channel. Lol
Ex still havent returned my belongings after 10 months
HI Ricky, have you tried to make a follow up with your ex regarding your belongings?
@@ClayAndrews .. yeah. Ive tried going to her house and left 2 letters .. nothing. Ive tried to make nice and sent flowers twice , nothing. Tried going to her daughter as a go between ' thats between you and her ' daughter reply. Nothing.
Because he wants to hang on too you
4 1/2 years married. She wanted me out of our apartment so I left 30 days ago. She already got involved and told me her and the guy she's involved with from the online game they play have been a couple for at least a few weeks. Anyhow she blocked me from all contact, so aside from sign 1, it's not possible in my case to know the other signs mentioned here.
Probably been messing with guy longer than a couple of weeks. I went through my wife divorcing me after 13yrs. She got new guy. Women leave the relationship long ago. Their just waiting, searching for your replacement so the official move can be made.
Yall argue more, she goes on more girl trips or hangouts with her girls. Half the time she alone searching not with her friends. But they will cover for her if u try to fact check, their sisters too. Yall dont sleep together except when she dictates it. Not from your advancements like it used to be. Alot of women want the title of wife but dont want the job.
They are taught since young girls of the fun/planning/feelings of marriage. Who gonna be her maids of honor, dress, dj, food, location, honeymoon. They are prepared for the day of marriage not the lifetime of work, commitment ups and downs of marriage. Whether it be finances, children, falling out of love, everyday responsibilities.
They run from routine sometimes to start new fun, excitement, uncertainty, challenge. Sometimes able to control their new man, mold him to what she wants or thinks she wants bruh. Some women wanna be the man. Their place is besides us not behind nor step in front us.
Wanting and or taking her back if new guy dont work out. Its on you, i aint taking mine back. Moving on to new chapter in my life. Searching for new one not waiting for old one to realize what she had was good. She cant build happiness with new guy doing u wrong. May seem like it for now. Dont react when u see them together. Dont try to fight the guy. Dont try to pull her to the side and talk. Hard to do i know bruh. Prepare yourself for someone new whenever its time to meet them. Learn from this.
They watch - which is y u shldnt post 💩 relating to ur relationship, them, the breakup, how ur feeling, anything to do with u & them. For Sooo Many rsns! Unless it is totally 100% over in ur opinion. Trust me.
She randomly lost feelings, i chased and chased. Begged and pleaded for so long. Then i gave up. Gave up and she msged me saying she loves me. But then the next week she finds someone new and turns cold on me, starts hating me. After a month or two she got with him. Its been 8-9 months and shes never looked back ever. Its jusy crazy. Like idk what to do i want her
She literally never msged me ever again never did anything. Just gone. Blocked off everything
I'm sorry to hear about what happened, Gav. It sounds like your ex is emotionally confused and may have been struggling emotionally as well during the breakup. I hope that you are holding on well.
@@ClayAndrews yeah ive seen a few signs, whilst she was with him she made a fake account to check upon me. Ive been working on myself tho going gym being postive etc. I have moved on but its just that maybe I need closure or maybe i do truly love her. But i am getting along with my own life.
@@gavwillams7018 Any update Gav?
Clay.. grow some facial bud...im sure you could rock that
:-) Thanks for the suggestion, Linda.
@@ClayAndrews ugh no. No facial hair