I Got Slapped at Goodwill Thrift With Me for Ebay Resale

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  • @TheNICHELady
    @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +392

    I've gotten a lot of comments saying I should have reported her.... just an update - my daughter called and spoke with the manager and she was reported. Thank you for your concern - I was a bit stunned when it happened.
    Also there is no rule here about removing things from carts - in fact it has always been encouraged by the employees!

    • @victoriaflatgard4826
      @victoriaflatgard4826 4 роки тому +67

      You have a great daughter who is looking out for her Mom ☺️👍 good on her!!!! And good job 👍👏👌 too, Mom!

    • @cathifamjourney469
      @cathifamjourney469 4 роки тому +58

      I'm glad she reported the worker. You are not a 2 year old reaching for the hot stove. That is just not acceptable.

    • @cherylpesutimassie5010
      @cherylpesutimassie5010 4 роки тому +6

      Was a portion of this video edited out? Because the comments are not making sense. What happened?

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +17

      @@cherylpesutimassie5010 nothing edited out. What is not making sense? Did you watch the video?

    • @curlybibliophagist2
      @curlybibliophagist2 4 роки тому +30

      The workers at our store get really itchy. They say you can't take stuff off the rack of things going out. Same with the things they are pulling because they were last weeks color of the week and they are sending it to another store. If I messed it up, that'd be one thing. But if I take it, you have less work to do and it is guaranteed sold.

  • @dzv2cf
    @dzv2cf 4 роки тому +63

    you are SO right on. the behavior of people today (whether due to fear, stress, anger) is out of control

  • @speedpops9880
    @speedpops9880 4 роки тому +486

    The employee did what!!!???!!!! As a manager of 2 Goodwill locations, I would be upset if a customer did not tell me that one of my team members did that. You did NOT deserve to be treated like that, or even assaulted, when you are trying to support our cause. I am so sorry! This world is in a dark place and it is our job to bring some light, love and positive energy to it. On behalf of all Goodwill's across this country, I am so sorry!

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +53

      Thank you so much! That means the world to me.

    • @JD-Defenders
      @JD-Defenders 4 роки тому +43

      I think this message is appreciated by a lot of us resellers...thank you from us too!

    • @mindydalek7078
      @mindydalek7078 4 роки тому +41

      That is the sort of behavior that makes a Karen out of an otherwise normal person, I would have asked for the manager.

    • @kaycee625
      @kaycee625 4 роки тому +44

      Strikes me that the employee may be showing the negative attitude she’s learned from her superiors at that store. Without customers they have no business. A good time for an Undercover Boss situation at that Goodwill.

    • @kathysemrau2301
      @kathysemrau2301 4 роки тому +16

      I can't believe you got hit. One time the cashier stold a silk hankie from me. I called in and got her . Couldn't win. When you go thrifting for whatever reason, you shouldn't have to worry about such things. I am sorry about what happened to you.💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜💜🐞🐞🐞💜💜💜💜💜

  • @musicmimi289
    @musicmimi289 3 роки тому +27

    I feel that you are such a gentle person…it is hurtful to think of an employee of the store being physically aggressive to you. You handled so well…not sure I would have been that nice!

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 2 роки тому +1

      Right on. She was more patient than I would have been. No hitting! Police call moments later. Assault.

  • @kathyverderame3641
    @kathyverderame3641 4 роки тому +43

    I am certain it is against their policy to have an employee touch you - in any way - especially now. She needs to be called out.

  • @kikilola2954
    @kikilola2954 4 роки тому +16

    I’m sorry that happened to you. I think your feeling what a lot of us are feeling. Kindness, patience, compassion and common sense are in short supply these days. It’s why positive kind people like yourself are so needed now more than ever. ❤️

  • @junetalsma5729
    @junetalsma5729 4 роки тому +125

    No one should ever lay a hand on you. You should report it. However with that said I love your content and I hope you keep making these videos, I am learning so much. Please don't let them discourage you.

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +6

      Thank you! I will keep making them!

    • @joaneaves1000
      @joaneaves1000 4 роки тому

      Good video

    • @Pauline-ir2tr
      @Pauline-ir2tr 4 роки тому

      I agree that this is an interesting video. One question, was she serious or just kidding with you? I ask because it is often hard to see a person's expression with these darn masks on.

    • @Jane5720
      @Jane5720 4 роки тому +1

      Okay oh, I would have told that woman never to touch me ever and I would have made it hell I would have screamed in that aisle. I would have made a big deal!!!!
      Secondly that is a long time to wait but you did have some really nice purchases, I don't know I might have waited. I have two reached into those cards that they have not shelved yet and nothing has ever happened to me oh, they usually don't even have an employee around there. The more people take out of there, the less they have to put away.

    • @mfahrney1
      @mfahrney1 4 роки тому

      @@Jane5720 and that's why ppl call others "karen"..don't scream..just fix the situation..

  • @janiceegan5773
    @janiceegan5773 4 роки тому +35

    Employee was in the WRONG, I'm sorry that happened to you. Anything on the floor is available to take to buy!!

  • @hummerfan9360
    @hummerfan9360 4 роки тому +21

    At our Goodwill, they always let you pick out of the cart. I figured they thought it would be less that they had to put on the shelves.

  • @abigailchipman8732
    @abigailchipman8732 4 роки тому +73

    That worker is gonna pull that on someone who will smack her back.

    • @butterflyforeve
      @butterflyforeve 4 роки тому +2

      Or carries and shots 1st ask questions later

    • @MsLady-sd6pz
      @MsLady-sd6pz 4 роки тому +3

      Absolutely

    • @mymemories237
      @mymemories237 4 роки тому +3

      That's what I was thinking, imagine if she had slapped the wring person what she would have got.

  • @thenavylady4630
    @thenavylady4630 4 роки тому +17

    OMG!!! You were much calmer than I would have been. I would have made a big stink at the store right then and there. And I would have been crying in the car. It leaves you with such an ugly feeling. You are awesome, and I love your comments. You are very gracious.

    • @michiebutterfly7785
      @michiebutterfly7785 4 роки тому +1

      I’m with you Carol, I think I would have freaked! I had an Uber driver screaming at me for no reason (she came unhinged) and that was scary enough!

    • @AZHITW
      @AZHITW 4 роки тому +1

      I've been accused of lying (Walmart), had my hand slapped (Sam's Club) , been screamed at (Safeway), I'm starting to think there's an insanity clause in employment agreements, if you're not crazy they won't hire you. LOL!

    • @m.wheeler2976
      @m.wheeler2976 2 роки тому

      Im the wrong one to slap. Crazy when disrespected is my middle name. That Goodwill would have been torn apart with me beating the snot out of the one that slapped me. Do not touch me ever!!!

  • @ThelmaThrift
    @ThelmaThrift 4 роки тому +116

    I’m so sorry that happened to you. My Goodwill employees like when we empty the carts- saves them having to do it. Love one another is right. Great share and take away. Thank you ❤️

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +6

      Thank you.

    • @peanut924
      @peanut924 4 роки тому +8

      The stores I still visit also love for me to grab from their bins. It only makes sense to let us unload it for them!

    • @blakelyjeanpearman57
      @blakelyjeanpearman57 2 роки тому +1

      Just got started and love watching you shop

  • @pamcowger6941
    @pamcowger6941 4 роки тому +164

    Salvation Army and Goodwill have gotten so high in pricing its crazy!!!! But so sorry that happened to you, people have gone INSANE!

    • @jennifermanian1420
      @jennifermanian1420 4 роки тому +12

      Because they know people resell it online.

    • @micheledavis3735
      @micheledavis3735 4 роки тому +10

      pam Cowger I agree the pricing is way too high now. I buy things and use them. I can buy a comforter off eBay that’s new and costs less. I don’t buy from thrift stores and sell to others but if I did, it would be fine to do. People earn a living the way they’re able and if somebody buys what they’re selling...I’m not making judgements about it...sorry...this is geared to the remark that tries to shame others who try to earn a bit by selling from their score at thrift stores...

    • @pamcowger6941
      @pamcowger6941 4 роки тому +12

      @@PK-bh1ww I really don't know why you feel it is ok to jump on me for a simple comment! And I don't need a lecture on the good that some thrift stores do! I have been putting money in the SA pots since I was a very little girl and my mother explained what and why they were doing this. And yes they help many people in need but it shouldn't be at the expense of people on a fixed income (like myself) or family's that are struggling to get clothes and perhaps some toys for their little ones!!!! And yes the SA and goodwill prices at least in my state have gone crazy! When you pick up an item and the original sticker is still on the bottom and "they" have marked it more that the original price, well in my book that's just WRONG! As far as this gal buying stuff to resale, last I checked this is still a free country and people can make money the best way they can. She is the one going from store to store hunting for items then hoping they will sell after she has to clean them up, post them, hopefully sell, ship them etc. And NO ONE is forcing people to buy things on line. Some people I know are thrilled to find that one piece they have been looking for to complete a set or add to their collection! And lastly NO ONE has the right to SLAP anyone, period! That was totally uncalled! Have a good day Penny and you might want to check yourself before commenting on an innocent comment.

    • @debkellar715
      @debkellar715 4 роки тому +4

      Lot of people buy and sell on eBay for higher so that's why. And I worked for Goodwill and I'm sure there's more to the story.

    • @missygold9315
      @missygold9315 4 роки тому +8

      @@PK-bh1ww yes times are so hard alot of people I know are buying stuff for cheaper and selling it on sites like eBay but there is no reason what so ever for someone who works there to put there hands on her she could of politely told her ma'am you have to wait until I put it on a shelf which still makes no sense she was actually helping her out by taking stuff out of the buggy less work she would of had to do and I can tell you that woman who slapped her would of got slapped right back I will not aloud anyone to put there hands on me and if you would of been listening to her she doesn't really sell the stuff for what it's worth she just goes up maybe 10 20 dollars but you need to figure this is a job for her she has to get up in the morning get dressed and go out looking through all that nasty stuff and hope she can find a few pcs to sell then go home clean it all up then take pictures of it and post it that is alot of work I know I use to do it so now you fussing because she was going to buy something for 4 dollars and sell it for 20 that is a 16 dollar profit if the buyer pays shipping so now out that 16 dollars you have to take her over head out which is her car note car insurance gas her time it takes to clean the items and look them up and see how much there worth take pictures and post it so you tell me if she is making a ton of money and you not anyone else here can tell me that if they could sell something they bought for much more that you wouldn't cause at times like these everyone is trying to figure out how to make money this panidemic has so many people going crazy because they don't know how they going to pay there bills I just lost a friend who killed himself because he had lost everything while waiting for the government to make a decision and he isn't the only one there are alot more like him they just don't want the public to know about it it's all just so sad to me so before you come on here and put anyone down please I ask you to think really hard what you going to say before you say it cause I can tell you the American people need love now more than ever not hate I wish you well and pray I helped you understand on a much better level than you were

  • @nouveaubohemian406
    @nouveaubohemian406 Рік тому +1

    The world went crazy. I don't feel that we have all recovered from it yet. I don't think things will ever be "normal" again. But that's okay. We can only control our own behavior and reactions. Stay strong Danni❤

  • @bigmesa9460
    @bigmesa9460 4 роки тому +44

    Let someone feeling empowered by all the drama going on in our country right now slap me, and theyll find out real quick you cant judge a book by its cover! Seeing alot of slaps going on watching news stories too. I wish you wouldve gone to the manager immediately and followed up with calling corporate office to guarantee that this employee was fired. But the result of this was that YOU JUST GOT A NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!! Me! because i love your content!

  • @evelynpfeiffer1039
    @evelynpfeiffer1039 4 роки тому +15

    I'm sorry this happened to you. This was my first time watching you and must say I enjoyed hearing what you had to say about items. Take a deep breathe and continue doing what you enjoy. Bless you!!

  • @tristatepickermom6895
    @tristatepickermom6895 4 роки тому +198

    It would have been funny to see that worker's reaction to getting slapped with an assault charge.

    • @daphne4983
      @daphne4983 4 роки тому +13

      Or a heavy plate.

    • @sandikucia1398
      @sandikucia1398 4 роки тому +9

      She should have slapped her back

    • @Rummagelady86
      @Rummagelady86 4 роки тому +12

      Battery is hitting assult is the threat.
      i.e
      Assault:." im going to hit you"
      Battery: actually hitting

    • @christinemillership1189
      @christinemillership1189 4 роки тому +15

      Karen D. Breeden Interesting.......I’m English, and under English law, assault is the act of touching someone without permission and nothing to do with threatening. So if someone pokes my shoulder, that’s assault.

    • @Rummagelady86
      @Rummagelady86 4 роки тому +5

      @@christinemillership1189 ikr confusing as i lived in England .so when i came over to states i was totally confused. I t had to be explained. I remember it now as. " you can be verbally assaulted but not verbally battered"

  • @ericacole7102
    @ericacole7102 4 роки тому +44

    If they don't want you to touch the merchandise on the cart they should have clear signs posted on the cart.

    • @karaerway4907
      @karaerway4907 4 роки тому +2

      Our Goodwill just started posting signs not to take things from the carts. I’m not sure why as long as people are nice and not shoving the employees liked it because it was less to put away :)

    • @CarlClassenX
      @CarlClassenX 4 роки тому +1

      @@karaerway4907 at ours they actually have signs saying it's perfectly fine to take from the carts!

    • @musiciankitty
      @musiciankitty 3 роки тому

      @@karaerway4907 Curious where it was posted. If on a wall somewhere that'd be stupid. Better be posted on cart. But still stupid

    • @annadembowska1160
      @annadembowska1160 3 роки тому

      Its crazy if the stuff is for sale what is the problem

  • @theresaphillips6741
    @theresaphillips6741 4 роки тому +113

    It would’ve been my natural instinct to make her pick her teeth up off the floor.

  • @jacquelinegrossman1740
    @jacquelinegrossman1740 2 роки тому +1

    U r too helpful and knowledgeable to let anyone stop u from being the beautiful u that u r! Stay strong my friend!!

  • @lindajc123
    @lindajc123 4 роки тому +8

    Keep encouraged - not everyone is out of their mind ... It just seems like people are getting away with any kind of behavior without redress, and it encourages others to follow suit. NOT a good example for those that follow after us. Good for your daughter for sticking up for you.

  • @ethellws
    @ethellws 2 роки тому +48

    Hitting someone, even slapping a hand, would be assault. The employee could have been arrested. Glad she didn’t hit an elderly person that had arthritis in their hand or someone with a disability with their joints. This should have been reported to the store manager. IJS

  • @terricable7539
    @terricable7539 Рік тому +4

    I had not seen this one before! First off, I am so sorry you were treated like that! Yes, the world was a bit crazy then, not an excuse for bad behavior, especially at a time when we needed to feel like everything was going to be ok!

  • @seaside2001
    @seaside2001 4 роки тому +14

    Lots of people look for vintage Mikasa as replacement pieces. They always sell well.

  • @wfm5121954
    @wfm5121954 4 роки тому +53

    I would have reported her to management. She should never have touch you, let alone, slap your hand as if you were a child. I wish you would have had your camera on.

  • @KruellaDeMillz
    @KruellaDeMillz 4 роки тому +25

    My video title would have been " I Own Goodwill!!" 🙌🏾

    • @krissyc6165
      @krissyc6165 3 роки тому +1

      Good one🤣😂

    • @krissyc6165
      @krissyc6165 3 роки тому +1

      I understand what your saying but sometimes people can't react to situations, bc of shock or anger or their personal reasons for but I am glad her daughter did

  • @denisedenisem4649
    @denisedenisem4649 4 роки тому +52

    I can't believe someone had the nerve and the lack of professionalism to slap you or any other customer! If that happened to me I would have been hard pressed not to cry from being startled and demoralized! I hate that you experienced that and hope you will take the time to call their regional office and calmly explain what happened to bring it to their attention so they can put a stop to that kind of behavior.

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +19

      I was so shocked! I was almost in tears - and then again when I was shooting that ending... I'm so sad how scared people are that they would impulsively act that way. My daughter called the store manager and they seemed to be taking it seriously.

    • @Lily_and_River
      @Lily_and_River 4 роки тому +1

      @Howard Black that's actually something predators and bullies think... that the victim somehow deserves it and brings it on themselves. Besides when someone does something like that out of the blue it can be really intimidating and you freeze. All those people saying that they would`ve slapped back... they would've done no such thing if it happened to them. It's easy to say in hindsight.

    • @Lily_and_River
      @Lily_and_River 4 роки тому

      @Howard Black I'm sorry I shouldn't have called you a predator or bully. But you said it yourself that they were CAUSING the abuse when they chose to walk away or when they were emotional about it afterwards. I'm not against standing up for yourself. But that doesn't mean that someone isn't allowed to show emotions or cry. She also didn't say she did that in front of the person. I get really tired of people thinking that anyone who shows a little emotion or chooses to walk away is somehow a weak person who needs to learn how to stand up for themselves. While in fact it will ask more strength sometimes to walk away. Also I've been in a situation where I did not have a choice because the man was drunk and aggressive and could've beaten me to pulp. I'm glad I walked away. And I did cry afterwards... because that's just a way to release all that tension from getting your boundaries violated. That doesn't mean that I'm somehow a person who attracts bullies. On the contrary, I mostly don't. And I do understand that sociopaths and the like will choose their victims. But this was just an angry lady who lashed out. It could've happened to anyone. Well maybe not to a man with enough physical appearance. But she can't help being another woman, can she?
      And please be nice also on the internet. You don't have to repeat my message in bold type or say I have a twisted moral or world view. You can't conclude anything of the sort from my message. I'm just another human being who is allowed to give my opinion.

    • @karenhouser4123
      @karenhouser4123 2 роки тому

      I found wonderful things at the Union Gospel Mission Thrift Store in Spokane Valley, WA and their prices were very reasonable. Goodwill has gone overboard on their prices!! It's a turn off. I really enjoy your videos!

  • @karendondelinger2245
    @karendondelinger2245 4 роки тому +38

    She could have told you the store policy without touching you! That’s uncalled for.

    • @theresaohman7187
      @theresaohman7187 2 роки тому

      It should say it on the outside of the bins. No issues but why they are mean about it is a wonderment. Employee needs to go.

  • @dvcrztb
    @dvcrztb 4 роки тому +5

    Amazed at how neatly displayed all the stuff is in your Goodwill Store is. I have only encountered heaps of crap in NJ stores.

  • @b.a.blessingstitcher
    @b.a.blessingstitcher 3 роки тому +1

    Keep being the light Danni. I know it’s hard when you are treated this way but we need to lead by example so keep on keeping on. Show others that you are bigger than their attitude and maybe, just maybe, it will make an impression on someone. Hugs!

  • @VeryMaggs
    @VeryMaggs 4 роки тому +13

    Don’t get discouraged b/c of that one person! And perhaps it was not about you at all... sometimes the other person is going through something and you’ll never know. Always rise above that behavior and let it go! Peace.

  • @ElizabethCastillo-bb1ul
    @ElizabethCastillo-bb1ul 4 роки тому +6

    I’m so sorry you had to go through that. And to the person who did that to you shame on them. God Bless you and don’t give up on the world. For there are more good than bad people out there. And you are absolutely a good person. Thank you for sharing with us Have amazing day. God loves you 👏👏💕🙏🏼💕👏👏

  • @sweetmemoriesect.4749
    @sweetmemoriesect.4749 4 роки тому +47

    The "Daisies"are actually Sunflowers

    • @shaykayraycrochet
      @shaykayraycrochet 4 роки тому +4

      And she passed right by the matching cookie jar and something else (2 matching pieces, large ones) at 25:16, just before she got the pig & cow teapot...

    • @julieswlife
      @julieswlife 4 роки тому +7

      The workers at my Goodwill are happy when I take stuff off their carts, less work for them, lol!

  • @bonniej5789
    @bonniej5789 2 роки тому +3

    I am so very sorry you had to deal with a rude employee. She should have kept her hands to herself. Keep your chin held high. I enjoy your posts and look forward to viewing all your treasures. Thank you, for sharing!

  • @junemcgregor8083
    @junemcgregor8083 4 роки тому +6

    There are so many lovely people in the world like yourself. Don’t let the thoughtless ones get you down. Sending you a big hug.

  • @tuppey66
    @tuppey66 4 роки тому +15

    Your kind hearted but this person should be reported even without the covid situation you should complain ...... I myself write a letter it usually has a bigger impact remember nobody has a right to touch you at all ...... your a sweet lady but sometimes you have to fight back .... 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

  • @jessicashippeehealcalm9943
    @jessicashippeehealcalm9943 3 роки тому +3

    I hope that employee doesn't have a child. Imagine. I'm shaking my head and I'm sorry for that happening to you. You are so generous with your knowledge and insight. I'm not sure I would have been so kind as to walk away. I am glad you and your daughter took action. When people believe they can get away with it, that is when it continues. Be kind.

  • @tessalynne6778
    @tessalynne6778 4 роки тому +11

    I am so sorry that happened to you. I have worked retail for years and that is totally unacceptable. I also know that from my side, I am dealing with a lot more rude behavior from customers over every little thing. We have a department dedicated to doing the personal shopping for online customers. They are clearly dedicated staff and customers will follow them expecting them to answer questions on specific products. It is a mess on both sides. 🤮

    • @musiciankitty
      @musiciankitty 3 роки тому

      I'm so glad I don't work retail anymore. I always said everyone should have to do it once in their life and then all customers would be more considerate. So many in this world say things to people I would never dream of saying to anyone. People everywhere need to remember the Golden Rule. best of luck to you :)

    • @tessalynne6778
      @tessalynne6778 3 роки тому +1

      @@musiciankitty I wish experience mellowed people out. My former sis in law spent many years as a waitress. I refused to go out to eat with her because her behavior was that bad. She was embarrassing to shop with also.

  • @triciayewer8407
    @triciayewer8407 2 роки тому

    I am so sorry for what happened to you that was totally uncalled for. You are so right about how we should be kind to each other. I have been watching your you tube for a few weeks now and love what you do. I am learning so much and you have lovely family and friends. Just want to say thank you for what you do and for sharing. Please take care xx

  • @alisade127
    @alisade127 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so sorry that happened to you. Keep your chin up. Your one of the good ones, the positive energy you out out in to the world will come back to you. I enjoy watching you every day!

  • @lindypierce9066
    @lindypierce9066 4 роки тому +5

    I watched that very same thing happen at one of our Goodwills! I watched a older lady worker pop/push another old ladies hand and tell her same thing! It started a outburst in the store! Your Goodwills has some awesome stuff I needed🙂! I love thrifting it’s my hobby ! I love decorating and crafting on a dime! Love your videos I’ve learned a few things from about items you talk about! HAPPY THRIFTING!

  • @joeplana7450
    @joeplana7450 4 роки тому +6

    So sorry that happened to you, I can’t understand why people have to be so hateful.. Don’t let them get you down..

  • @patricialenaburg6553
    @patricialenaburg6553 4 роки тому +8

    I can imagine how you felt, some people are just rude. She needed to be reported though, at least been talked to by her supervisor. I am sure she needs the job, but she needs to show respect also. Don't let this episode keep you from going there again, I suspect she does better. God Bless you.

  • @2ofUs23
    @2ofUs23 2 роки тому

    Props to you for not smacking the lady back ,I'm completely with you I think we need more love an kindness in this world

  • @lisatague305
    @lisatague305 Рік тому

    Something has to give is correct. No one is to touch a person without consent !!! You are such a kind caring person and your followers love you . I’m glad your daughter called and reported this person.

  • @cathybiller9203
    @cathybiller9203 4 роки тому +48

    That employee is lucky it wasn't me Depending on my "mood of the day" I would've at the very least gotten my items free that day or filed assault charges and have her fired You're a nicer person then me

    • @sortathesame8701
      @sortathesame8701 4 роки тому +5

      I would most definitely gotten her fired and pressed charges! I would not expect to get anything for free however!

    • @deniseangonese8314
      @deniseangonese8314 4 роки тому

      Cathy Biller I don’t think I would have gone as far as had them fired, but I would have walked out with my cart for no charge or filed assault charges.

    • @lorrainesyratt6317
      @lorrainesyratt6317 4 роки тому +2

      @@deniseangonese8314 But she deserved to be fired. She's representing GW. If she was my employee, she'd be gone instantly. If it was just a tap, assault charges won't hold muster.

  • @margaretalbert69
    @margaretalbert69 4 роки тому +19

    They should price matching candle sticks as one set!

  • @SuperBrowndog1
    @SuperBrowndog1 4 роки тому +28

    I’m not trying to be mean, but I hope that never happens to me because my reflexes would have me slapping someone back. I know that’s not right but like I said, reflexes kick in, and I don’t like anyone putting their hands on me like that. And yes, Goodwill and Salvation Army prices are outrageous, $15 and up for used goods?? No, not good.

    • @SD-nh5yr
      @SD-nh5yr 4 роки тому +5

      If someone hits you, well expect to be hit back. Simple.

    • @idaayers9120
      @idaayers9120 4 роки тому +5

      RIGHT! Their prices have gotten way out of hand. They have made that " rule" about not taking things out of the cart at our goodwill too, but they really don't enforce it. Yes, we should all love each other, but you need to file charges against that employee.

    • @michaelspringer4200
      @michaelspringer4200 4 роки тому +3

      Unlike Goodwill (it's just a money making independant business chain) the Salvation Army uses its profits to help people. They do the most good for the most people. Goodwill lines their own pockets.

    • @joburrow9863
      @joburrow9863 3 роки тому +1

      The prices are terrible especially when every thing is DONATED to them. I live in KERNERSVILLE, North Carolina, and go to Goodwill looking for unusual decorative items. The Goodwill here is so NASTY now.The smell is completely disgusting and it is so messy. There is no order to anything and there is more that should have been tossed and never put out on the shelves & racks, than is acceptable. This is really disturbing to me because I donate to certain organizations and never give anything away that’s worn out. Someone from Goodwill headquarters should see what’s happened here, but I don’t think they really care. If they are trying to sell donated crap at unreasonable prices in a disgusting store, I personally will never go back. There are too many other thrift stores in this area. I know lots of people who will never donate to Goodwill again because of the higher prices. Disgusting.

    • @junestevenson6434
      @junestevenson6434 2 роки тому

      @@joburrow9863 we have to remember that it costs Good Will to display all donations for sale. They are a business like any other. As well staff fled.when the pandemic came to town and many never returned. So you have few trying to do the job of many. I hate that a customer was treated so bizarrely. I expect that employee was at the end of her rope. (To be kind)

  • @ReallyReall
    @ReallyReall 4 роки тому +2

    Please dont be discouraged . we have to try our best to radiate love because that is what peeps need to see again is love 💛💛 youre doing good so far so keep on keep in on lady you seem cool!! God bless is all 🕊🌱

  • @ccpperrett7522
    @ccpperrett7522 4 роки тому +4

    Sorry that happened to you. Some people do things without really thinking it through. Happy shopping to you. I pray for guidance for you where to go to bless you and the folks you purchase from. Pray for those who have offended you. May they experience God's love and can become a blessing to others. God bless you too!❤

  • @hollybiegel4345
    @hollybiegel4345 4 роки тому +14

    I understand you being offended and hurt. The sad part is she got the best of you. We can let people like that win. Hugs to you 🤗

  • @neilschafer1836
    @neilschafer1836 4 роки тому +14

    go to corporate with this one. covid 19 does not equal assaulting a customer!

  • @holleyjomartinez4009
    @holleyjomartinez4009 4 роки тому +46

    I would have gone directly to the manager and if that didn’t seem satisfactory I would have gone directly to the corporate office in your area. They’re suppose to wear name tags which in our area are usually worn backwards. SO, if anything does happen you can’t see their name. Corporate will usually do something about it. I understand most employees have some special need...still it is not an excuse to be abusive. If management doesn’t know there is a problem with their staff they can’t fix it. Who knows, there may have more customers who have been slapped. Ultimately Corporate is responsible. Slapping is abuse! You are correct, something HAS to give. Amen. (Done with sermon.)🙂

    • @sortathesame8701
      @sortathesame8701 4 роки тому +8

      That slap was not abuse, it was assault! And assault is a crime. No one gets to lay hands on you! The police should have been called and charges pressed. The employee may very well have special needs, but GoodWill and any other business has the obligation to hire employees, special needs or not, who are capable of working with the public without harming them!

    • @cindypittman8776
      @cindypittman8776 4 роки тому +4

      I would have went to jail

    • @badbag9625
      @badbag9625 4 роки тому +3

      @@cindypittman8776
      Am going on 83 yrs and might have really confronted her big time a few years back ! The thing today is we hopefully have LEARNED, not knowing the state of mind of a person we're dealing with could result in a nightmare . She most definitely should have been reported, following up with the district CEO of Goodwill ! Everyone's safety and well-being depends on their findings and actions ! THE TIMES HAVE CHANGED. BE SAFE OUT THERE !

    • @likemeordont5951
      @likemeordont5951 4 роки тому

      @@cindypittman8776 LOL, me too!!!

    • @holleyjomartinez4009
      @holleyjomartinez4009 4 роки тому +1

      Bad Bag That is a very good point. 😀

  • @StrawberryFields4ever65
    @StrawberryFields4ever65 3 роки тому +1

    I agree with you! As a RN, I have seen what stress and panic can do to some people. It can either bring out the good...or reveal a very ugly side in some. We MUST remember exactly what our Father instructed...and it IS to love one another. I'm sending you peace and love with a little splash of hope. I've been right where you were today on a recent trip to a department store...needless to say, I left my buggy and departed just as you did. I've had much time to think about the altercation and how I could have changed the other person's perspective. The only thing I am sure of is I can only change myself and keep projecting love and kindness and if it isn't reciprocated, then it's ABOVE my area of expertise and I'll just give it to a Higher Power. Hope your next trip is better and the worker who treated you so disrespectfully will rethink their actions. God bless.

  • @hollyyokoyama3962
    @hollyyokoyama3962 4 роки тому +4

    The Goodwills in my area used to let us shop from the stocking cart. In fact, they even announced on the PA system when a new cart was coming out. They no longer do this I think because of the social distancing requirement.

  • @goodwillbunny5773
    @goodwillbunny5773 4 роки тому +8

    Loved those 1993 Christmas carolers--I would have grabbed them for resale too. This store sure had a lot of framed wall art. I hunt for custom framing. Sometimes shoppers remove the price sticker as a protest when they think the item has been priced too high. I've seen that happen. Also, people donate chipped, cracked, and broken items to get the donation tax receipt, not because their junk is usable. I'm an avid thrifter and I've seen it all over the past 70 years.

  • @jamb5057
    @jamb5057 4 роки тому +13

    Wow, the prices are really high at your Goodwill. I would never be able to make a profit margin. Good Luck! Also, I would have pressed charges against the employee and Goodwill. If she’s done it to you she won’t hesitate to do it again.

  • @dianaoliver8493
    @dianaoliver8493 4 роки тому +19

    This is the first time I've seen your videos and I was enjoying it up until I saw you in your vehicle, distraught. I was very sad for you and I agree with your editorial. This country has always had its share of jerks, idiots, and unkind people. But these past few months have been beyond my imagination! The hate and ugliness has tripled.
    As a former Assistant Manager of Goodwill, that person would have been let go immediately. I'm sorry. May all of your future hauls be good, positive, and fun!

  • @cass77788
    @cass77788 4 роки тому +1

    i am so glad your daughter spoke with the manager there is no call for such actions....so wrong to slap anyone that is assault!!! you have every reason to be distraught, that was very hurtful, i am sorry you had to go through that!! God bless

  • @nancyloomis3046
    @nancyloomis3046 4 роки тому +10

    I would have said something to her right then and then “maybe” made contact with her manager or her manager’s manger or a regional director if you really wanted to make a stink. At the same time, I might have checked myself and just taken it (except for, depending on my mood, telling the offender directly how inappropriate her behavior just was,) because I wouldn’t want her to lose her job or get in big trouble, which “touching” a customer for said reason could certainly do. One thing that was super emphasized when I used to work in social services is that unnecessary, unwanted or inappropriate touching is a big, huge NO NO. OK, that was in an entirely different setting and for different reasons, but “touching” even hugging, became discouraged as it may be be misunderstood. So in a retail setting, even in a Goodwill, an employee “slapping” your hands, is clearly inappropriate when just politely telling you to “please don’t pick from the cart,” would have been enough. One thing you might do is to call to speak to the mgr and tell her that “one of your employees” did this. He or she will try to get you to say “who” it was. But they might then relay to all the employees that “someone” called to complain about an employee “slapping her hands” for pulling from the cart and the explain how unacceptable that is, etc. That might be enough. You don’t know, maybe this employee is just ignorant & clueless?

  • @sheilaabraham4350
    @sheilaabraham4350 4 роки тому +8

    I've shopped Goodwill hundreds of times. I've NEVER heard that you can't touch anything in the cart. Goodwill is not as fun as it used to be.

    • @oscargoldfield1593
      @oscargoldfield1593 3 роки тому

      Lots of mine have a fit if touch the carts. It doesn't make it fair for everone. Funny how they are different.

  • @lindaowens2966
    @lindaowens2966 4 роки тому +7

    I find that hospice thrift stores can be a good place for vintage items

    • @oscargoldfield1593
      @oscargoldfield1593 3 роки тому

      I've never heard of such a thrift store. Sounds like something I would support and donate items.

  • @maryexton7929
    @maryexton7929 4 роки тому +21

    I'm a "big" woman because I have an inherited health condition. I have never been more insulated in my entire life than I have been over the past few months. It's as if some people think they can say anything they want about the person in front of them and that person can't hear them. If it was just me, I could ignore it. But, I often shop with my daughter who has inherited the condition from me. And to hear some rude smart-ass woman say to the person beside that I'm the reason there's birth control when my beautiful, well educated, and successful daughter is standing in front of me waiting in line just makes me feel like I want to smack them upside the head. But, I don't because I won't stoop to their level. I just wanted to say that I agree with you; people in general are meaner than they've ever been. And, my fear is that it's only going to get worse with all that's going on.

    • @suzanne529
      @suzanne529 4 роки тому +2

      I am sorry that happened to you.

    • @kermitandmisspiggyb
      @kermitandmisspiggyb 4 роки тому +3

      I'm terribly sorry Mary Exton that you were treated so badly. People like that have a far more severe problem than you or I with our weight. Please know you are beautiful. I don't have to see you to know that. Real beauty is in how we conduct ourselves. God Bless you and have a great day.

    • @katiemartin5962
      @katiemartin5962 4 роки тому

      Slapping your hand is assault call the cops!

    • @dalespencer11
      @dalespencer11 4 роки тому

      You rock, Mary! People just have hate in their heart. You should just say, "I will pray for you."

  • @gregknutson9093
    @gregknutson9093 2 роки тому

    I’m just seeing this video and I’m so sorry this happen to you. Your very good at what you do and so kind for sharing and teaching all of us. Stay happy and remember, that person has to look at herself in the mirror knowing she acted that way. You on the other hand can look at your pretty face and wonderful family and know the blessings will keep coming your way.

  • @donna2843
    @donna2843 2 роки тому +1

    Touching anyone like that is a definite no no! That worker is very lucky she didn’t encounter someone crazy like herself.

  • @lizstucklen4134
    @lizstucklen4134 4 роки тому +4

    I am sorry the worker was mean and rude, I noticed there are more angry drivers also....be safe and GODBLESS

  • @Neonmoon3
    @Neonmoon3 4 роки тому +21

    That smack is called assault. And thats NOT ok

    • @bettybrigance6784
      @bettybrigance6784 4 роки тому +1

      Call p,.police then your attorney

    • @butterflyforeve
      @butterflyforeve 4 роки тому +2

      @@bettybrigance6784 I wouldn't sue a Goodwill because an employee but I would talk to the manager and if I wasn't happy I would call corporate. That employee is putting a lot of people in danger because hit the right person now days and someone could shot up the whole store.

    • @melodylecroix1291
      @melodylecroix1291 4 роки тому +1

      Heifer is gonna slap the wrong person with PTSD or a red head like me! And she will be picking her face up off the floor!! I would definitely report her to manager!

    • @CassieDavis613
      @CassieDavis613 3 роки тому

      It's called battery. Assault is the threat of harm.

  • @fayejones6740
    @fayejones6740 4 роки тому +19

    This world is becoming a very selfish place. So sad.

    • @funkoholic1952
      @funkoholic1952 4 роки тому +1

      I don'd think it's so much selfish as it is scared and stressed. That clerk at GW may have been told not to allow customers to take things from the cart. I can imagine several instances in which that would be a good idea. If the item is picked up and looked at and then put back; that is one more person who has put their possibly infected hands on that item. However, slapping a customer is an offense that should be punishable by separation from your job.

  • @theresaohman7187
    @theresaohman7187 2 роки тому +2

    Omg! I've had them tell me that over 5 yrs ago. I said ok....moved on from miss fake mean girl. Your so right, we need to be kinder even if we encounter people like her but this is no place for her to hit you, even a slap is out of line.

  • @shirleyoneill9291
    @shirleyoneill9291 2 роки тому

    You're doing a great job in so many ways. Don't let negative people get under your skin.
    Be happy doing the things you enjoy. You have a lot of silent
    people out here who appreciate you and what your going to do.
    Be Happy 😊 you make us Happy.

  • @janetcooke384
    @janetcooke384 4 роки тому +3

    The reason that things with cracks, etc. slip through those similar cracks is that this is a training ground for people. SA has the same issues. Resellers are what keeps thrift shops going.

  • @DungNguyen-jk7hb
    @DungNguyen-jk7hb 4 роки тому +9

    The stuffs in Goodwill nowadays the prices are high same as the new ones that’s why I don’t go there often , the flea markets to me better !

    • @TheNICHELady
      @TheNICHELady  4 роки тому +2

      I so wish we had a flea market here!

    • @Rummagelady86
      @Rummagelady86 4 роки тому

      @@TheNICHELady that sounds like a good opportunity for a new line of business maybe with a subordinate partner to mentor.

  • @Sissytaz
    @Sissytaz 4 роки тому +8

    Ohhhhh Hell no.... I would have gotten a manager faster than you can imagine. That employee wouldn't know what hit her.

    • @dianneczifrik438
      @dianneczifrik438 2 роки тому

      I am so sorry that she hit you, omg, I do hope you reported her, she had no right

  • @kblack8770
    @kblack8770 4 роки тому +2

    I live in NC. My local GW does not allow touching items before they are placed on the shelf but I have never been smacked. In today's world you never know who you are dealing with and I would think it would be a really good way to get injured, if you get my gist. Sorry that happened to you and I commend you for keeping your cool.

  • @OutoftheBoxThrift
    @OutoftheBoxThrift 3 роки тому +2

    thats wild im sorry you had that experience! you are so right though - we need to focus on LOVE ❤❤

  • @tarasimon3918
    @tarasimon3918 4 роки тому +3

    I’m truly sorry that in these days which have been so hard that someone stole your joy.

  • @chipecomartin6571
    @chipecomartin6571 4 роки тому +7

    Hugs.. no one has a right to slap or put their hand on another person...

  • @liat8447
    @liat8447 4 роки тому +14

    Yes. We all need to mind our own business. Be courteous and kind. Literally every single person you see is stressed right now. Having a bad day is the new normal. Nobody can see a welcoming or kind smile under a mask. We must verbalize in our muffled little voices- not just push past or block. Its crazy out there.

    • @marisshaupt8304
      @marisshaupt8304 4 роки тому +3

      If we smile big from our heart a smiling expression can be seen in the area around our eyes.

    • @PestilentAllosaurus
      @PestilentAllosaurus 4 роки тому +2

      Well good thing we can see smiles with eyes. You can always see the emotions in others eyes. After all they are the windows to our souls.
      We gotta wear masks to keep safe and not spread this horrible virus. :(

    • @musiciankitty
      @musiciankitty 3 роки тому

      I still find myself smiling, then realize they can't see the smile so say hi

  • @maryferrell4360
    @maryferrell4360 2 роки тому

    I’m a new subscriber and I’m so sorry that someone did that to u because u seem so kind and lovable. Kindness really does matter. Tku for your editorial, totally agree.

  • @katylou1801
    @katylou1801 4 роки тому

    I have watched at good many of your videos. I had noticed your attitude and spirit. Then you mentioned your faith at the end of this one and I thought to myself, “I knew it!”. The light shines through you. 😊💕

  • @kathybird7251
    @kathybird7251 4 роки тому +6

    they ALL sell broken stuff ! yesterday SA had 2 identical resin boxes..$4 but ONE had top broken big time!! WHY it was even out beyond me

    • @googleuser4772
      @googleuser4772 2 роки тому

      It's broken because some people are in a hurry to scrounge in the standby cart before it get put on the shelves and accidentally break things ..

  • @maryantwiler1263
    @maryantwiler1263 4 роки тому +18

    Don't let ugly people get you down. What they do or say is more about them and certainly not about you. Keep having fun....

    • @debbiehanson6714
      @debbiehanson6714 4 роки тому

      Maybe you might consider the employee’s side? Perhaps there is a store policy. If everyone grabbed things off the cart, interfering with the orderly placement of objects, it would be a mess. The store provides real world job experience for those not able to find a job. You interfered with the task. Maybe you should apologize?

  • @musicmusic6299
    @musicmusic6299 4 роки тому +11

    The world is going crazy. It's Sad But True.

  • @oceanjoker3544
    @oceanjoker3544 2 роки тому

    Wow! So sorry. Glad that there was some sort of follow up. I hope you feel better and stay motivated and encouraged. 🥰

  • @AdventureswithCheryl
    @AdventureswithCheryl 4 роки тому +1

    Enjoyed your video...can't believe that I watched for over 22 minutes! I definitely see why you have so many followers! Wow. I just started my own travel channel and am having so much fun! Unbelievable that she actually smacked you....

  • @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042
    @gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042 4 роки тому +7

    You were ASSAULTED! PRESS CHARGES! THAT'S INSAINE!

  • @thekeeks58
    @thekeeks58 4 роки тому +6

    My heart goes out to you Yes the world is going mad and those that still are holding onto manners and respect to others or being outnumbered it seems
    Much love to you!

  • @sweetmemoriesect.4749
    @sweetmemoriesect.4749 4 роки тому +14

    At about 20.minutes you passed 5he sunflower canisters 5hat matched the dishes

    • @jenniheikkinen9080
      @jenniheikkinen9080 4 роки тому

      I saw them too and was wandering why you didn’t take them... 🌻 But in the end everything was left behind. 🥺

  • @dhearndon
    @dhearndon 4 роки тому +2

    The two Goodwills around here has more clothes than household items. I love how its organized. Prices were high too.

  • @QueenNanaEva
    @QueenNanaEva 4 роки тому +3

    AMÉN Love one another as you love yourself. People are not loving themselves either. I know how you feel but I also feel bad for you. I'm happy your daughter called and reported the worker. Be blessed.

  • @2bczar4u
    @2bczar4u 4 роки тому +10

    Those daisies look an awful lot like sunflowers.

  • @beautifulandsweet8826
    @beautifulandsweet8826 4 роки тому +13

    I can see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice. You were actually battered and assaulted by the staff of an establishment while you were conducting business with them. Their staff violated you. You should have engaged the manager of the store who should be knowledgeable about how their staff must interact with the public. Goodwill is a multimillion corporation and is legally responsible for their staff behavior. They are lucky you are not suing. By battering and assaulting you in the store, that staff handed you dollars

    • @dittohead7044
      @dittohead7044 3 роки тому +3

      Should have called the police immediately

  • @MerryBee707
    @MerryBee707 4 роки тому +12

    Not acceptable. At all.
    I can't imagine ever wanting to step foot in that store again.

  • @dawnlesesne5510
    @dawnlesesne5510 2 роки тому

    Please don’t change your intro or recap I’ve been looking at old episodes 2021 or earlier hated intro and couldn’t stay through recap …I love how you do it now

  • @lauramoonwoman
    @lauramoonwoman 3 роки тому +1

    this was a control issue. That person feels so powerless in their life that they have to control the contents of the cart. It is a shame. I am sorry you had that experience. I have just been with you and Yvon and the Lamp Lady for about a month and I am watching all the older videos as well as the new stuff. not sure if you read the comments on the old ones, but I am with you. Especially on the price thing. If you have to pay retail prices, they should take the word thrift out of their name!

    • @dittohead7044
      @dittohead7044 3 роки тому

      Sale stuff at a Walmart is cheaper

  • @akapatience5571
    @akapatience5571 3 роки тому +3

    Gosh, I'd like to think that I wouldn't have smacked someone who did that to me, but I honestly don't know what my response would have been!
    So sorry that happened to you!❤

    • @stacypolk3580
      @stacypolk3580 2 роки тому

      Lol.....I would have gotten in her face and asked "where is that new rule posted?" If the fight was on, it was on.

  • @jakers1158
    @jakers1158 4 роки тому +14

    You nailed it. Everyone is flipping out. Fear is the problem. God doesn’t give us fear. Psalms 91 promises that no plague shall come near us.

    • @kkeegan32
      @kkeegan32 4 роки тому

      Yeah tell that to all the people God let die of covid-19

    • @jakers1158
      @jakers1158 4 роки тому

      But if they know Him they are home with Him. This world is a temporary place. I do believe we all have an appointed time to die. It will happen one way or another when it is time. Don't get me wrong, I hate that anyone has suffered. I too have lost a classmate and close friend to it. He was in the hospital 2 months and just recently retired. But living in fear isn't good for anyone's immune system either. Fear isn't going to help but respect of the virus and washing ones hands, as well as staying out of large gatherings, that will help.
      @@kkeegan32

  • @bonniebates683
    @bonniebates683 4 роки тому +11

    If you wanted to be a real b, you could sue her for assault. As crazy as that is. By law, she cannot touch you.

  • @janieporter6434
    @janieporter6434 2 роки тому +1

    I'm sorry that happened to you. That employee was wrong! She should have been reported. Don't let that stop you from going back.

  • @sandraglover2681
    @sandraglover2681 4 роки тому +1

    How terrible for you. I hate this happened and the world is sad. I've not been back to our goodwills since they reopened, I think about going back the first Saturday in September. Everything in the store is half off and we have two stores and our major city close to where we live. It's just unacceptable to be slapped by an employee of Goodwill. Nice to see a fellow Christian come up to the plate. I pray your next shopping trip will be much better. God bless from Brownsville Tennessee.