A guy here and I was really curious about it. Hats off to women. Respect and love. I must say women go through a lot and it is more complicated for them.
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It's not easy to discuss this issue as being a mother, you are being judged right away... where other mothers are bonding with their babies, you on the other hand are constantly worried, easily annoyed, or even start hating yourself thinking you can never become a good mother to your baby... what's worse is your child will suffer too... parental bond helps the baby to reach milestones at right time but you unintentionally deprive your child to do those as well... At such times, what I did was to meditate, pray and calm myself down, positive thinking is the key... when overwhelmed I use to ask help from my closed ones and gladly they did... my daughter is 2 now but still PPD haunts me... stay strong ladies... nothing in the world matters more than your child's health and happiness... God bless all!
But dont worry ,, calm ua mind .. start meditating .. ,, think positively , see your baby face wen eva yu feel depressed n keep moving ,,, !!! Even m going thru PPD from 10 months n still its killing me in .. but only hope is this vil also pass ,,,
Who feels miserable because nobody in the family or even your partner understands you. They just shrug it off or they think its not that serious. They even get mad at you easily.You only got youself in the proccess but youre slowly losing yourself because of it. Sometimes, i just want to hang myself so that everything ends but i always think about my kids. I dont have anybody who understands me here. My depression and postpartum depression is mixing, its too strong not to bother. I hope i wont get into self harm again. I dont want this to happen again. Hoping everyone will cope up soon, i know its hard but mommas only yourselves will help yourselves especially if you have a partner who doesnt understand you. Godbless
I’m more likely to suffer from it because like I’ve been depressed & suicidal before and even tho I’m 18. I just hope that if I do decide to have kids one day. I better have someone to support me through this and not yell at me constantly and take me for granted
If you meet your partner in a different continent/country and decid to have pregnancy and birth in his country....don't do it because even when your partner is very supportive, he cannot replace your family and friends. You will get more lonely and isolated. Speaking from experience
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I think im suffering postpartun depression right know. I don't know what to do my husband didn't care about my feelings when im angry he's angry too when Im sad and feeling tired he doesn't care. I yelled my daughter when shes crying
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real it’s impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES! ua-cam.com/video/EXQGTInPpZU/v-deo.html
Talk to your husband. C'mon talk it out. Your husband will understand. Some people lack ability to read minds. But understand it's okay. Communication is important here. Don't think your husband don't love you. He does (hopefully). Have a nice life. Go and see a pyschatrist if you don't feel releif. Please do that. Don't prolong things that adversely affect your life. Always treat yourself with significance. :)))
I don't know if your situation has improved or not since we're in 2021 now But if it hasn't I'd suggest that you do whatever you think is best for you and your child I hope for the best if you're still in that situation
I have MDD and I got PPD with anxiety... its ruined my relationship with my 10 year old who says he "hates me" bc "I never do anything with him" .... I am a "functioning" depressive... im a single mom and now have to work which literally takes ALL my energy. So when I am home I am in bed A LOT. my mother made a relationship with him and it really hurts me and its like I said... ruined my life. I pray for anybody that goes through this.
I had this after my son was born. I had it a week after delivery with C section. Stitches pain and severe kind of depression was just about to kill me. I had to go to a mental hospital with stiches on and had a treatment plan from a psychiatrist for a month. I never wanna go back to that situation 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
@@torresthemonster o never I'm from middle class Muslim family. My life is from home to college and college to home and I'm a full day housewife. I never touched alcohol and never ever I have seen drugs in real.
Feeling like need to go undermedication. Having all the symptoms. Growing up with a broken Family + broken relationship with my Fathers Baby Tryin my best to overcome all of this alone 😭😭😭😭
I’m a new mom suffering from postpartum depression. I’m seeking professional help now. I think all the moms suffering from this should seek professional help. At first I thought it’s just baby blue it would get better soon. It didn’t. It’s getting worse. I feel like a different person. Hopefully I can gradually get better with the help of psychiatrist.
So sorry dear about this...motherhood is hard i know but try praying as much as u can....and see a psychiatrist who can sit and listen to ur problems....or what u feel
@@rubymars5493 hey ruby hope ur better in this moment try alwys to calm i know the shouting and frustration ur feeling u feel ur not perfect enough for ur husband and ur baby and also u must be feeling ur fat and stretch marks accepting urself like that is hard trust me its a beautiful process as u grow with ur new family keep calm with ur hubby too enjoy the moments talk to ur husband how u feel atimes he will understand u trust me♥️all the best
Im crying while watching this. This is what feeling right now. My partner always tell me that I got easily annoyed and Im having trouble sleeping always crying esp at night :(
I had rough time too giving birth away from my Family facing postpartum by my own....my husband not understanding my situation in a foreign country...and normal early marriage issues has been hard for me too....also kept affecting my mental state too....
I was never a fan of long distance marital relationship and here i am dealing with same situation being a pp 3 weeks single parent . I am definitely in severe pp depression .
Causes for PPD are not unknown. There are many ways to avoid PPD and that is what our great-grandmothers have passed onto our grandmoms and they passing onto our moms. Simple answer is "You Need Help" right from delivery up to at least 3-6 months. Also, you need to follow the below points: 1. Avoid getting exposed to cold air/wind/breeze. Hence, we were asked to tie a scarf around our ears or putting cotton in our ears. Wearing socks/flipflops at home based on the season. 2. Do not wash your hands too often which means "No cooking for the 1st 3 months from delivery". 3. Get a good night's sleep for at least 4-5 hours straight in the NIGHT. 4. Eat heat-generating foods to stay in Balance as our bodies get cold after delivery so introducing heat-generating foods make us balance mentally. Foods such as ginger, dry-ginger, chinese-okra, garlic, lamb, sesame seeds, sesame oil, ghee. 5. Eat foods immediately after cooking. Eat everything hot i.e; immediately after cooking and is ready to serve. Consume within 30mins-1hour of cooking. 6. Drink lukewarm water. 7. Do not step out for at least 21 days from the day of delivery.
Im going to see a psychiatrist tomorrow. I just gave birth to my son last month and my dad passed away the same day.. I also have graves disease which causes me to have hyperthyroidism that causes more anxiety. I know i feel lucky I have a healthy beautiful baby boy. But I just cant stop thinking about my dad. I also feel like I'm not a good wife to my husband. I also feel like my mom-in-law is trying to take control of my life. She helps but it feels like she is overstepping. I say this because she would push me whenever I change my son's diaper because SHE WOULD DO IT. I would have to beg to be able to hold my son. She would not let me bathe my son. All the pressure they have put me through. I do not understand. I want to just scream and grieve. Im tired. I could not even grieve because they wont allow me. They scoff everytime they see me crying over my dad. 2 days after my dad's burial they were forcing me, my husband and my baby to stay in their house. I WAS SOOOOOOO DEVASTATED WHEN THEY SAID MY PARENTS DONT HAVE RIGHTS TO ME ANYMORE. OMG. I canr even talk to my husband about this because he respects them very much and I dont want him to hate on me for feeling disrespected. I also fear that if they know I have depression they would get my son away from me..
I know how this feels sorta I lost all three of my grandparents during the time i was pregnant and they raised me. Now I'm looking at adoption options feeling like a shit person. I have a beautiful healthy 2 month old but i just dont want him. Never wanted kids, found out at 16 weeks and idk the whole abortion situation at that point seemed barbaric so i went for it and thougth my no children future could be different now idk the resentfulness i feel towards my baby is bad. Idk what I should do.
Postpartum depression and marriage problem .. shadi se phele in law bhi bhot ache ban kar rahte hai.. apni beti jaisa rakhenge but after marriage 😤 i will never forget their behaviour which was in my postpartum delivery.. which was never ever expected. I hate these relations.
I’m wondering whether postpartum depression has always been an issue it’s something that’s only recently become a widespread problem. It seems like PPD among women today is more severe than it has ever been, and my only guess as to why is that these past few generations have been the worst as far as NEGATIVE social pressure on women for having children. It’s never been seen as such a bad thing until recent years, and I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of women felt guilty for resisting that social pressure and organizing her life around her child(ren).
Another reason why it seems so common these days is because woman are able to seek help and speak about their struggle with PPD. Up until recently women and men have kept their mental health issues a secret mainly due to the backlash it would’ve caused! It may very well have been a common issue in the past but no one wanted to talk about it! :) Mental illness doesn’t mean you’re crazy but back then ppl didn’t understand that.
It happened a lot in the past, but people would pass it off as hysteria or ignore it. People are able to talk about it more now, and people listen more now
This video was the most descriptive! I had mixed feelings about being a parent and my parents told me to do it anyway. It’s like right after I had my daughter, job fell through and it’s been up and down with my finances. I’m wondering was it worth finishing graduate school, honestly?
I still have my PPD and i have to hide it from my family because i dont want them to see that im unhappy...sometimes its fine sometimes its worst...i feel so empty and i feel unloved
Please do not do this. You are suppressing the problem by not being transparent and honest with your family. Open up, get help, you will feel so relieved.
Because society told us it’s the happiest time of your life but it’s not, happiness it’s not a moment it’s a journey, and if you Say you are sad then you will be judged.
I’m going thru this now I have a two year old and now a one year old and I’m struggling financially and going thru a lot with my kids father I’m always tired and I’m losing weight my mom is now giving me a break before I have a break down I’m jus really tired and really ready to give up
I was judged for keeping my 2 kg premature baby boy in the nursery.l thought for my sons safety but they thought l am a bad mother who did not want to take responsibility of a child.Baby was healthy although he was premature.Doctor recommended that baby can be given to mother the nurses told me and also told me to keep attendant.l was in a traumatic position where l could not apply my common sense l thought l had to take care of my premature baby with little help from attendants.l continued to ask them.They only told me if you could not do the work of your baby how you could do at your home.At that time taking care of a premature baby who was so tiny was just similar to diffusing a bomb.They forced me every time to take the baby and try to take care of him .Doctors and nurses asked why the mother was not keeping her child.They mocked and told them she could not hold his child due to c section pain.l was embarrassed .Finally a generous nurse came in the ward and told me you could have kept an attendant.She should have entirely do the baby care and you could not have thought of your baby.Hearing this my guilt feeling started that what a blunder l have done l could have applied my common sense.l also could not understand why the other nurses did not give me the information. Adding to my woes l failed to breastfeed my baby due to my flat nipples.l was 6 months postpartum but still the guilt feeling haunts me.l felt like a bad failed mothet
Rooming in was not known to me since l was a first time mother had to undergo emergency c section and could not read about baby care during pregnancy because during pregnancy l was highly affected of hypermesis gravidarum extremely nauseous and vomiting condition during pregnancy.No support after sudden water broke no attendants before or after delivery.l wish someone could have told me
I am suffering from this depression.. and the same things are going on in my life.. phele laga ki pagal ho rahi hu shayd .. raat bhar nind nhi aati.. feels lonely.. Ghar ka mahol b bekar kar rakha h.. thode time ke liye apne parents ke pass aai hu bas unhi ka support h abhi. husband ache hai lekin unka sath hona .. naa hona.. ek jaisa he lagta h.. Samjh nhi aata kaha khushi dhundu..
I'm essentially a stranger but I'm so sorry that you are going this. You are a Good Mom and i hope you and your family are doing okay. I'm hoping you are in a better place now ?
Nothing is going right. No-one is helping.noone wants to listen..no-one wants to understand what I feel.. they talk only if they are in mood but when I talk they unhear it..so freaking broken..
I gave birth 1 month before..and I'm having mood off feelings...it's my 2baby I expected this cz my during 1st baby after birth I had ppd for 2 monnth...this tine also..I cry alone ..I hope it wil go away❤️
Im raising my baby all alone no family support for either sides no child care had to pull her out I pay 1000 a week. I pay all my bills by myself I work over 19hours a day and even have my baby with me working. I don’t get a break sleep I barely can shower now I’m starting to feel like a zombie I’m sleep deprived. I went to work today and felt so unmotivated I went home and slept in my car. I can’t get any true sleep unless I’m separated from my child I gotta sleep in my car and I hate it. I hate how I’m all alone. And I contemplate on giving her up. I love her but it’s too hard for me especially by myself.
@@Cherokee004 I’m sorry to hear that. I really do sympathise. I am going through post partum depression rn and it’s so hard. Like I’m trapped in a hole and can’t get out. Have u sought any medical help?
A guy here as well, many guys are starting it all out like this. Even i, a guy, knows exactly how you avoid postpartum depression and I can vouch for it given i have an aunt who had three kids whom she wanted to just "off entirely" and then a fourth kid where she finally avoided PPD entirely and Im gonna share what it was that allowed her to avoid it since it was all my idea and it seems to have worked. Ok rewind a second, it wasnt my idea at all...but i suggested she try it. And many of you aren't gonna like it. But i thought, "how is it that other animals don't have PPD to the point we do?" Well, they avoid it by doing what that idea is, as most of them have the instinct to take care of PPD entirely. And i would say that it is because your body isn't ready to just dump that amount of hormones entirely and not look back. So what do animals all do? They almost all eat the afterbirthbafter they have given birth. Wo i suggested to my aunt that she must be dumping too many hormones for her body to keep functioning and i told her to hire a placenta chef and she did. She said it was night and day. She didnt have a single negative thought about that fourth baby. And i gaurantee that in our more natural settings thousands of years ago, just like the other animals do, i have a feeling that human mothers ALSO ate their placentas after delivering. It doesn't sound appetizing or fun. I get it. But that is because it is not a 5 star gastronomical experience, but a health minded natural reintake of those hormones that your body has dumped temporarily, but i am sure expects to be reintroduced into the body. Someone will be rich when he or she discovers a way to strip the placenta of its hormones and positive substances and re introduce it to the body via injection or something. There has got to be a way better than eating it to put it back into you, but the fact almost all animals do it this way tells me that is how nature intends for it to be avoided. I bet you though that in 100 years, before mom leaves the hospital, her placenta will be taken to a lab near the obstatricians's delivery place where the placenta will be turned into an IV bag they will hang for her before she leaves her room.
@BurnerAddress95 You bring up some interesting points about postpartum depression (PPD) and the practices surrounding it. The idea of consuming the placenta, known as placentophagy, has been discussed as a way to help some women recover from childbirth, with proponents claiming benefits such as hormone stabilization and mood improvement. While some anecdotal evidence exists, scientific research on the effectiveness of this practice is limited, and more studies are needed to draw definitive conclusions. It's also true that many animals instinctively consume their placentas, which may help in managing hormonal changes. However, human experiences with postpartum recovery can vary widely, and what works for one person may not work for another. It’s crucial for new mothers to have support and resources available to them, whether that involves dietary changes, mental health support, or community assistance. If you or someone you know is navigating postpartum challenges, discussing these concerns with a healthcare provider can lead to personalized strategies for mental health and well-being. It's great that you’re sharing insights and encouraging open dialogue about such important topics!
My husbands really doesn't care about hw I feel what I think no nothing at all.i feel really hopeless,helpless.i am alone.noone cares.love is not just about saying ..you should show it prove it everytime..actions are important n plays a vital role in relationship.
If you deal with depression you shouldn’t get pregnant until YEARS after you treat it or work through it. It can and will affect the child in a negative way. Trust me, my mom was depressed. I know....🤷🏾♀️
I just had a baby and I suffer from depression. My baby is so calm and easy to care for. I didn't take medication for depression while pregnant like my nurse practitioner and friends tried to get me to do. I also had postpartum depression and developed major depressive disorder after I had my son 10 years ago and he is a very happy child. Mother's depression doesn't always negatively affect children. It can on bad days (everyone has bad days), but it doesn't have a constant negative effect on them from my experiences.
Mine started in my 3rd trimester. Will this go away on its own??, and how long does it take? Its been since the end of june and sometimes i feel like im going crazy. Ive known my husband since 2011 and we never fought or argued and now we arnt getting along. I was perscribed 10mg lexapro and it made me have this really heavy feeling and after day 3 i just couldnt handle it anymore. It got put down to 5 mg but I am terrified of taking it or anything. Also, I have a uti which im taking an antibiotic for and found out i have a vitamin d deficiency today so i just started on a 5000iu d3 pill. Im curious if the d3 pill is all I'll need? Im really scared of antidepressants. I want help so bad but im justvsonscared ti take anything. Is there anything natural that would take this away? And soon...its already been a month since i had my baby...i want to be better now 😞
@divinenature1981 I'm really sorry to hear you're feeling this way, especially after having a baby. It's common for new mothers to experience changes in mood, and postpartum issues can be tough. While some women find that these feelings improve over time, it’s important to seek support, especially since you’re experiencing anxiety and relationship challenges. Regarding the vitamin D deficiency, taking D3 can be beneficial, but it’s also important to ensure you’re getting a balanced diet and considering other lifestyle factors. Natural remedies like exercise, mindfulness, and talking to supportive friends or family can also help improve mood. If you're feeling hesitant about antidepressants, consider discussing your concerns with your healthcare provider. They may suggest therapy or other natural approaches that can support your mental health. It's great that you're seeking help, and remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time. You deserve support and care as you navigate this transition!
Please start exrsing specially yoga meditation. Dont overthink too much whatever happen will happen... Do fun activities like dancing singing coloring. Write your feelings down on paper or diary.
I had to stop the video half way because I felt like it as going on and on about the obvious. Me and my baby nearly died at childbirth. We had an awful experience afterwards in hospital. Horrible experience coming home, we're not sleeping or eating properly, I've been stuck in the house the last 7 weeks because I'm still recovering. The midwifes didn't show us anything on how to take care of a baby, we just had to learn. It's stressful, awfully stressful. Right now the whole thing doesn't seem worth it, I feel like crap emotionally and physically. I feel like whatever I do is never good enough, but I have to take everyday as it comes. Yes I've got a cute baby, but he is a handful. And I'm a first time mam, not like I had an experience in this. I'm just learning as I go along. So yes it's crap, but I'm just taking one day as it comes. I'm depressed but I still love my son, and it's my job to make him happy and healthy, even if that means im a mess.
It sounds like you're going through an incredibly challenging time, and your feelings are entirely valid. Postpartum depression can be overwhelming, especially after such a traumatic childbirth experience. It's important to acknowledge that you're doing the best you can in a very difficult situation. Being a first-time mom is hard enough, and recovering from childbirth while dealing with sleep deprivation, stress, and the immense responsibility of caring for a newborn can feel like too much to bear. Please know that you don't have to go through this alone-reaching out for support from loved ones, friends, or professionals can make a big difference. Your well-being is crucial, not just for you but for your baby too, and it's okay to seek help when you need it. Taking one day at a time is a great approach, and it's important to be kind to yourself during this process. You're doing an amazing job under very tough circumstances.
@@MedicalCentric Hi, thank you for the lovely comment, to be honest i wasn't expecting anyone to read mine let alone comment on it, so thank you. But yes I've got friends, I've got family too, accept for my parents and my sister. Funny isn't it, the people who you'll think should be in my life, isn't. But I do get counselling. It is nice to just talk about the crap but still nothing can change what we went through.
you are just not bringing enough money home. i think postpartum dep. is about her worries. MORE MONEY, LESS WORRIES. your child sick= hospital with money. your wife bored= Find hobby with money. (ex. baking, cooking, take a baby sitter and let her meet friends atleast even once a week.) MORE MONEY, LESS WORRIES.
Thank God , I've never wanted or had children, it not worth it! I think women have post depression because it's the soul telling them they just ruined their life
you got no money and power and you added responsibility. now your mind tells you "you played yourself" though i think postpartum is just women overthinking and thinking of year 5 year 10. etc. the future. when she is still in the first week of motherhood. Worries that money will fix.
If you have a good mother who can tell and support you, your problem will solve, Unfortunately there are many including me who doesn't have 'mother' in real its real meaning. Only because we deliver a woman will not be mother, its the mind and sacrifice of a woman makes her mother...
I think I may have it again should I see my gp because because they cant help me with this all they do is make you talk to a professional and it's not like it would go away
I don't know why but all these facts make me feel like post partum is funny... want to lose your mind and end up getting electroshock therapy? have a baby! wanna add tension to your relationships? have a baby! it makes it seem like the last thing anyone wants... but I adore my son AND have some depression post partum.
It's all about timing and patience. No woman should be having children with a man they haven't known for at least 3-5 years. On top of that, cultural values should be the same.
i dunno but if i have to guess, if the child is 4 years old and above and the mother still goes staring blank. i think the child will come to the conclusion that her mother is broken. which lowers self esteem. not build respect for mother. etc.
goddamn. hindi naman ako psychiatrist pero tinatanong pa ba yan? Postpartum is for preggy/after labor. parang ganito ang kinalabasan ng tanong mo: truck driver is driver exclusively for truck. eh anong tawag sa mga driver na hindi truck ang minamaneho🤣🤣🤣
Postpartum is only for pregnant female. Exclusively. its like, Testosteron Cancer (Kanser sa Bayag ng lalaki) ay eksklusibo lang sa mga kalalakihan. eh anong tawag sa depressed na hindi naman buntis? edi (insert category) depression. ex. teenage depression vovo depression LGBT depression lol
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DEPRESSION SOLUTION: MORE MONEY postpartum depressed given money: Can afford baby sitters with money. Have freedom if you have baby sitter. No worries if you know you got you and baby's future is covered. Can afford meds with money.
@@shiromaniw3527 covid cannot cause postpartum depression. the cause of postpartum is the labor itself. understand. if covid is making you depress then it is NOT postpartum.
I have postpartum depression with my puppy she’s a mix breed, and I can get overwhelmed and break down they say it goes away after 12 months so I’m sticking threw.
The exact causes are “unknown” lol, let’s be honest with ourselves and say that it’s due to women not wanting the kid and that being a parent fkn sucks most of the time, especially for women. A lot of straight women don’t want to be mothers but they also don’t do abortions so they have to live with this life altering decision of having and raising a kid they didn’t want in the first place. I don’t have children and the people I know that have children ALWAYS admit sooner or later how much it fkn sucks. I would bet BIG money on the guarantee that postpartum rates are going to rise now that abortion is illegal in most states. Forcing women to have kids they don’t want is not a good idea for anyone.
@Izzie-qz7ds It's clear you're expressing frustration about a deeply complex and sensitive issue, and your feelings are valid. The choice to become a parent is life-changing, and it's important that every woman has the autonomy to make decisions about her body and future. The challenges of motherhood, especially when it's not a desired path, are significant, and forced decisions can lead to long-term emotional and mental health struggles. Access to safe healthcare and reproductive choices is crucial for supporting women through these difficult moments. Everyone's experience is different, and it’s essential that society listens to and supports women in all stages of their reproductive journey.
Pretty much saying the lady that was pregnant was so used to getting attention because of the baby and when the baby is born she’s jealous cause everyone is used to giving you attention and now since the baby is born people give more attention to the baby and not you. Just like when a parent gives birth and the older sibling(s) are jealous cause you give the baby more attention... what I heard even men goes through it... remember when women said we are equal as men ......
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A guy here and I was really curious about it. Hats off to women. Respect and love. I must say women go through a lot and it is more complicated for them.
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Facts
I hope every guy understands women who undergoes this stage
Seriously… I have experienced madness twice in my life and I have two kids now so you can imagine what the cause will be
Thank you for your recognition. 🕊️✨
It's not easy to discuss this issue as being a mother, you are being judged right away... where other mothers are bonding with their babies, you on the other hand are constantly worried, easily annoyed, or even start hating yourself thinking you can never become a good mother to your baby... what's worse is your child will suffer too... parental bond helps the baby to reach milestones at right time but you unintentionally deprive your child to do those as well...
At such times, what I did was to meditate, pray and calm myself down, positive thinking is the key... when overwhelmed I use to ask help from my closed ones and gladly they did... my daughter is 2 now but still PPD haunts me... stay strong ladies... nothing in the world matters more than your child's health and happiness... God bless all!
Doesn’t help other mothers showing how happy they are and how easy it’s to have a baby. They may be suffering but they show their perfect lives
I m now suffering this
I'm writing a novel with a woman who has postpartum depression.
This video really helped doing some research about this topic. Thank you!
Good luck to tou
Name?
Where can I read the novel?
@@kerellemurphy4089 Thank you for your interest, but I won't publish it. Writing my stories is just a hobby for me.
Postpartum depression plus marriage problems = miserable life
Now how are you??
Especially if your partner dont understand you or gets mad easily at you knowing youre going through this kind of phase. You have no one but yourself.
But dont worry ,, calm ua mind .. start meditating .. ,, think positively , see your baby face wen eva yu feel depressed n keep moving ,,, !!! Even m going thru PPD from 10 months n still its killing me in .. but only hope is this vil also pass ,,,
Postpartum depression plus marriage problem miserablepp life
I have this! But with my dog, and I’m so worried all the time I can’t even enjoy my life!
Who feels miserable because nobody in the family or even your partner understands you. They just shrug it off or they think its not that serious. They even get mad at you easily.You only got youself in the proccess but youre slowly losing yourself because of it. Sometimes, i just want to hang myself so that everything ends but i always think about my kids. I dont have anybody who understands me here. My depression and postpartum depression is mixing, its too strong not to bother. I hope i wont get into self harm again. I dont want this to happen again. Hoping everyone will cope up soon, i know its hard but mommas only yourselves will help yourselves especially if you have a partner who doesnt understand you. Godbless
I feel you 😔
Be strong momma ❤️i feel the same way crying myself to sleep going through all this alone but be strong !! ❤️
Yep.
How do I get over this? I need tips?!
Not the hang myself part.
I’m more likely to suffer from it because like I’ve been depressed & suicidal before and even tho I’m 18. I just hope that if I do decide to have kids one day. I better have someone to support me through this and not yell at me constantly and take me for granted
I’ll support u wassup lol where u from
Don't rush to have children and don't have children with someone you only half-like or don't feel sure about. It'll be the worst mistake of your life.
If you meet your partner in a different continent/country and decid to have pregnancy and birth in his country....don't do it because even when your partner is very supportive, he cannot replace your family and friends. You will get more lonely and isolated. Speaking from experience
I'll adopt a kid and give it a good life and love.
Same also a cat
💯
Hmmmm
Exactly! Everything presented in the video is very much true. This video deserves more likes.
Nithya Shree of course all of the things are said for anxiety. You just need to choose
nitya Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "depression control" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (do a search on google ) ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my mate got great success with it.
SO BASICALLY ANYTHING!!! YOU LISTED EVERYTHING!!!!!
I think im suffering postpartun depression right know. I don't know what to do my husband didn't care about my feelings when im angry he's angry too when Im sad and feeling tired he doesn't care.
I yelled my daughter when shes crying
I started drinking when I was 16. I would drink at parties, but I also started drinking alone because I was unhappy, and I was in a lot of emotional pain all the time. My mom was very aggressive when I was younger, and my brother hated her and so did I. He started hanging out with shady people, he started failing all his classes, he was never home, and my parents fought all the time. I also ran away several times. I was always trying to figure out a reason as to why I was here or what the purpose of life was. So, I started looking at different philosophies, religions, and beliefs. When I was 18 after I was hungover, I got on my knees and I prayed for the first time. I asked if God was real that he would show me he was real because I couldn’t take it anymore. I was crying when I prayed for this. At that moment I felt a presence come over me like a wind. It was barely noticeable, but it was unlike anything in my life I had experienced up until that point. I was surprised when I felt it and I remember saying “what was that?” after that experience I pretty much forgot what happened and kept partying, until my senior year when I got arrested. After my arrest, my parents lost all their trust in me and I was expelled from high school. I was told never to come back. At that time, I felt afraid and hopeless. That’s when I started looking for God, and I prayed that he would reveal himself in my life and that he would give me signs. My prayers began getting answered so consistently that I couldn’t deny that God was doing something. It was mysterious and compelling. I ended up in Church and started reading the bible hours a day. I stopped hanging out with all my other friends because they were continually getting arrested. I was able to forgive my family and myself and to ask to be forgiven. I noticed how at Church people were judgmental and how they formed cliques but were afraid to be around anyone else different from them. It increased my faith because I realized Jesus was not like that and ever since I was young, I saw people as people regardless of who they were. After a while, it’s like I could see God's presence was in my life and then it felt like he wasn’t, and then he was, and then he wasn’t. One day I woke up and felt more depressed than I ever have in my entire life. I felt like I was dying on the inside. That night I prayed, and I said, God, I don’t see my life five years from now I'm going to die Jesus save me Lord, please save me. I was weeping when I said it and when I asked him to save me, I felt a presence inside of me like a heartbeat, and I felt it once like a pulse, and I said Lord please save me and I felt it again even stronger. It was like radiance. When I woke up the next morning, I had transformed everything felt brand new like I was a kid again. All my fears and all my racing thoughts everything was gone. I looked at my hands, and I said this can’t be real it’s impossible. When I looked at myself in the mirror, I saw a different person. I started praying, and the holy spirit became entirely real to me it was washing over me and inside of me. It was total love and peace, and I heard a voice but not an audible one, it was an inner voice. It said I am with you; I love you, I will never leave you, it’s done it’s finished. That was May 3rd, 2009, and ever since then I’ve followed God, I have seen many things change and many things I know wouldn’t have changed without faith and belief. I know what it’s like to be lost to feel you have no hope. Don’t ever think you’re stuck, or life can’t change because it can. My mom is a Christian now, Its night and day. Some of the things that went away during that period were severe anxiety and my addiction to alcohol. I’ve seen and experienced so many things that are miraculous and seen how God has worked in my life. When we ask God to forgive us for what we’ve done and turn away from our sins and wrongdoings and we believe in Christ's sacrifice everything changes. His word says if we confess with our mouths that Jesus is Lord and believe in our hearts that he died and rose again we will have eternal life but not just life after death but abundant life in the present. Our sins are erased not only past, present, and future but our burdens and fears are lifted also. Our thoughts, our minds, our hearts, our souls are transformed and united with God and we know his spirit lives in us. If you seek, pray, and knock you will know JESUS IS KING!!! HE LIVES!
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What a shitty husbumd you have! You shouldn't go through this alone
Same here
Talk to your husband. C'mon talk it out. Your husband will understand. Some people lack ability to read minds. But understand it's okay. Communication is important here. Don't think your husband don't love you. He does (hopefully). Have a nice life. Go and see a pyschatrist if you don't feel releif. Please do that. Don't prolong things that adversely affect your life. Always treat yourself with significance. :)))
I don't know if your situation has improved or not since we're in 2021 now
But if it hasn't I'd suggest that you do whatever you think is best for you and your child
I hope for the best if you're still in that situation
A woman in my state killed her own child and doctors say she was having postpartum depression. Never thought this condition could be this serious.
Yes it is unfortunately 😢😢😢😞
I went through this and I tried to suffocate my baby. I still feel very bad about it every time I remember that.
@@julissaledesma198700 go to hell
That’s postpartum psychosis
@@julissaledesma198700 UM EXCUSE ME??? 🤨🤨🤨 u need to be in jail u sick fuck.
I have MDD and I got PPD with anxiety... its ruined my relationship with my 10 year old who says he "hates me" bc "I never do anything with him" .... I am a "functioning" depressive... im a single mom and now have to work which literally takes ALL my energy. So when I am home I am in bed A LOT. my mother made a relationship with him and it really hurts me and its like I said... ruined my life. I pray for anybody that goes through this.
Its never too late to start building a relationship with him, Please stay positive.
@@MedicalCentric
I had this after my son was born. I had it a week after delivery with C section. Stitches pain and severe kind of depression was just about to kill me. I had to go to a mental hospital with stiches on and had a treatment plan from a psychiatrist for a month. I never wanna go back to that situation 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Question: did you consume alcohol or did drugs?
@@torresthemonster o never I'm from middle class Muslim family. My life is from home to college and college to home and I'm a full day housewife.
I never touched alcohol and never ever I have seen drugs in real.
Strong story. I also felt helpless and a failure
im wondering what thoughts are running in your mind when you worry about something. or is it just you stare in blank space?
This is another reason for me to be child free
absolutely!!!
Who ask?
@@Abmafatima Stop crying lol
I'm here because I just saw a news about mother suffering from this.. she killed her 4 Childrens using Machete then stabbed her self.. 😭
Same. Philippines represent!
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Because they are poor. and whose fault is it that they are poor? if you are poor why make 1+ babies
@@susandinosaur732 exactly..
that’s insane
Feeling like need to go undermedication. Having all the symptoms.
Growing up with a broken Family + broken relationship with my Fathers Baby
Tryin my best to overcome all of this alone 😭😭😭😭
Hi how long did your ppd last
I’m a new mom suffering from postpartum depression. I’m seeking professional help now. I think all the moms suffering from this should seek professional help. At first I thought it’s just baby blue it would get better soon. It didn’t. It’s getting worse. I feel like a different person. Hopefully I can gradually get better with the help of psychiatrist.
So sorry dear about this...motherhood is hard i know but try praying as much as u can....and see a psychiatrist who can sit and listen to ur problems....or what u feel
@@yahyakw91 Thank you🥺
@@Noneyaviz13 I’m still not recovered but getting better than a month ago.
@@rubymars5493 hey ruby hope ur better in this moment try alwys to calm i know the shouting and frustration ur feeling u feel ur not perfect enough for ur husband and ur baby and also u must be feeling ur fat and stretch marks accepting urself like that is hard trust me its a beautiful process as u grow with ur new family keep calm with ur hubby too enjoy the moments talk to ur husband how u feel atimes he will understand u trust me♥️all the best
Hey ruby don’t worry the professional help going to help you, many women get like this, Im glad you’re getting help. You will recover soon!
Im crying while watching this. This is what feeling right now. My partner always tell me that I got easily annoyed and Im having trouble sleeping always crying esp at night :(
You are strong 💕💕💕
Same situation I'm feeling right now and my partner is calmly sleeping although he has watched me crying
I had rough time too giving birth away from my Family facing postpartum by my own....my husband not understanding my situation in a foreign country...and normal early marriage issues has been hard for me too....also kept affecting my mental state too....
Hi where r u 4rm
interesting,,have a better understanding and attraction when watching this video more then notes.
I was never a fan of long distance marital relationship and here i am dealing with same situation being a pp 3 weeks single parent . I am definitely in severe pp depression .
the most common antecedent of depression -> Stress (From many external and internal factors).
Causes for PPD are not unknown. There are many ways to avoid PPD and that is what our great-grandmothers have passed onto our grandmoms and they passing onto our moms. Simple answer is "You Need Help" right from delivery up to at least 3-6 months. Also, you need to follow the below points:
1. Avoid getting exposed to cold air/wind/breeze. Hence, we were asked to tie a scarf around our ears or putting cotton in our ears. Wearing socks/flipflops at home based on the season.
2. Do not wash your hands too often which means "No cooking for the 1st 3 months from delivery".
3. Get a good night's sleep for at least 4-5 hours straight in the NIGHT.
4. Eat heat-generating foods to stay in Balance as our bodies get cold after delivery so introducing heat-generating foods make us balance mentally. Foods such as ginger, dry-ginger, chinese-okra, garlic, lamb, sesame seeds, sesame oil, ghee.
5. Eat foods immediately after cooking. Eat everything hot i.e; immediately after cooking and is ready to serve. Consume within 30mins-1hour of cooking.
6. Drink lukewarm water.
7. Do not step out for at least 21 days from the day of delivery.
Im going to see a psychiatrist tomorrow.
I just gave birth to my son last month and my dad passed away the same day.. I also have graves disease which causes me to have hyperthyroidism that causes more anxiety. I know i feel lucky I have a healthy beautiful baby boy. But I just cant stop thinking about my dad. I also feel like I'm not a good wife to my husband. I also feel like my mom-in-law is trying to take control of my life. She helps but it feels like she is overstepping. I say this because she would push me whenever I change my son's diaper because SHE WOULD DO IT. I would have to beg to be able to hold my son. She would not let me bathe my son. All the pressure they have put me through. I do not understand. I want to just scream and grieve. Im tired. I could not even grieve because they wont allow me. They scoff everytime they see me crying over my dad. 2 days after my dad's burial they were forcing me, my husband and my baby to stay in their house. I WAS SOOOOOOO DEVASTATED WHEN THEY SAID MY PARENTS DONT HAVE RIGHTS TO ME ANYMORE. OMG. I canr even talk to my husband about this because he respects them very much and I dont want him to hate on me for feeling disrespected. I also fear that if they know I have depression they would get my son away from me..
I know how this feels sorta I lost all three of my grandparents during the time i was pregnant and they raised me. Now I'm looking at adoption options feeling like a shit person. I have a beautiful healthy 2 month old but i just dont want him. Never wanted kids, found out at 16 weeks and idk the whole abortion situation at that point seemed barbaric so i went for it and thougth my no children future could be different now idk the resentfulness i feel towards my baby is bad. Idk what I should do.
Well What country are you from?
@@ПётрИванов-ф7д hello! Why do you ask?
I am also suffer with same situation... 😞
I hope everything has worked itself out. People should never threaten custody of a child! You are the parent!
Great Webinar with lots of educational information. Highly recommended.
And then having toxic people around you don’t help
Postpartum depression and marriage problem .. shadi se phele in law bhi bhot ache ban kar rahte hai.. apni beti jaisa rakhenge but after marriage 😤 i will never forget their behaviour which was in my postpartum delivery.. which was never ever expected. I hate these relations.
I'm afraid of ever having kids because I already am pretty depressed so I think it wouldn't work, and I just like having time for myself
I’m wondering whether postpartum depression has always been an issue it’s something that’s only recently become a widespread problem. It seems like PPD among women today is more severe than it has ever been, and my only guess as to why is that these past few generations have been the worst as far as NEGATIVE social pressure on women for having children. It’s never been seen as such a bad thing until recent years, and I wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of women felt guilty for resisting that social pressure and organizing her life around her child(ren).
Another reason why it seems so common these days is because woman are able to seek help and speak about their struggle with PPD. Up until recently women and men have kept their mental health issues a secret mainly due to the backlash it would’ve caused! It may very well have been a common issue in the past but no one wanted to talk about it! :)
Mental illness doesn’t mean you’re crazy but back then ppl didn’t understand that.
It happened a lot in the past, but people would pass it off as hysteria or ignore it. People are able to talk about it more now, and people listen more now
U aint no doctor. Dont reccomend medical uses as it is dangerous
can I just say Amen?! agree
Most women died before modern medicine after birth. You can't be depressed if you are dead
This video was the most descriptive! I had mixed feelings about being a parent and my parents told me to do it anyway. It’s like right after I had my daughter, job fell through and it’s been up and down with my finances. I’m wondering was it worth finishing graduate school, honestly?
I still have my PPD and i have to hide it from my family because i dont want them to see that im unhappy...sometimes its fine sometimes its worst...i feel so empty and i feel unloved
Please do not do this. You are suppressing the problem by not being transparent and honest with your family. Open up, get help, you will feel so relieved.
Because society told us it’s the happiest time of your life but it’s not, happiness it’s not a moment it’s a journey, and if you
Say you are sad then you will be judged.
I’m going thru this now I have a two year old and now a one year old and I’m struggling financially and going thru a lot with my kids father I’m always tired and I’m losing weight my mom is now giving me a break before I have a break down I’m jus really tired and really ready to give up
I was judged for keeping my 2 kg premature baby boy in the nursery.l thought for my sons safety but they thought l am a bad mother who did not want to take responsibility of a child.Baby was healthy although he was premature.Doctor recommended that baby can be given to mother the nurses told me and also told me to keep attendant.l was in a traumatic position where l could not apply my common sense l thought l had to take care of my premature baby with little help from attendants.l continued to ask them.They only told me if you could not do the work of your baby how you could do at your home.At that time taking care of a premature baby who was so tiny was just similar to diffusing a bomb.They forced me every time to take the baby and try to take care of him .Doctors and nurses asked why the mother was not keeping her child.They mocked and told them she could not hold his child due to c section pain.l was embarrassed .Finally a generous nurse came in the ward and told me you could have kept an attendant.She should have entirely do the baby care and you could not have thought of your baby.Hearing this my guilt feeling started that what a blunder l have done l could have applied my common sense.l also could not understand why the other nurses did not give me the information. Adding to my woes l failed to breastfeed my baby due to my flat nipples.l was 6 months postpartum but still the guilt feeling haunts me.l felt like a bad failed mothet
Rooming in was not known to me since l was a first time mother had to undergo emergency c section and could not read about baby care during pregnancy because during pregnancy l was highly affected of hypermesis gravidarum extremely nauseous and vomiting condition during pregnancy.No support after sudden water broke no attendants before or after delivery.l wish someone could have told me
Most of mothers are left untreated because of judgmental people around
Thank you so so much for this.
You are welcome 🙏🏻
I am suffering from this depression..
and the same things are going on in my life.. phele laga ki pagal ho rahi hu shayd ..
raat bhar nind nhi aati.. feels lonely..
Ghar ka mahol b bekar kar rakha h..
thode time ke liye apne parents ke pass aai hu bas unhi ka support h abhi.
husband ache hai lekin unka sath hona .. naa hona.. ek jaisa he lagta h..
Samjh nhi aata kaha khushi dhundu..
I wish you the best
Same here yr... 😔😔😔😔
Im.a new mother and I'm going through it bad just wanna say in bed all day and cry
Go to your doctor, talk. You are strong
exactly me right now
You are a good mom and are not alone ❤️ wishing you brighter days ahead ☀️
Midwest Badger ty so much .. ,, i hope il recover soon ... !! waiting fa tat wonderful day of my lyf😍
Hope you're doing ok mama. You brought life into this world and you deserve to be happy god bless you!!
I'm essentially a stranger but I'm so sorry that you are going this. You are a Good Mom and i hope you and your family are doing okay. I'm hoping you are in a better place now ?
Same😭😭😭🔪🔪🔪
Nothing is going right. No-one is helping.noone wants to listen..no-one wants to understand what I feel.. they talk only if they are in mood but when I talk they unhear it..so freaking broken..
Is everything okay? I'm here to listen and help.
@@zukyi9325 thank you so much.but I am ok now.everything is okay with me.god bless u
I gave birth 1 month before..and I'm having mood off feelings...it's my 2baby I expected this cz my during 1st baby after birth I had ppd for 2 monnth...this tine also..I cry alone ..I hope it wil go away❤️
Yup I’m gonna adopt
Thank u lo much...tq for the valuble informstion thank u
I lost my baby during delivery m in depression bt I can’t help myself 😞
I’m sorry to hear that…🥺
Im raising my baby all alone no family support for either sides no child care had to pull her out I pay 1000 a week. I pay all my bills by myself I work over 19hours a day and even have my baby with me working. I don’t get a break sleep I barely can shower now I’m starting to feel like a zombie I’m sleep deprived. I went to work today and felt so unmotivated I went home and slept in my car. I can’t get any true sleep unless I’m separated from my child I gotta sleep in my car and I hate it. I hate how I’m all alone. And I contemplate on giving her up. I love her but it’s too hard for me especially by myself.
Hey it’s been a while since you commented this but if you want to talk to someone I’m here for you❤
Hope ur better now ❤
@@tasnimsultana7271 nope it’s worse
@@strawbsteph thank you
@@Cherokee004 I’m sorry to hear that. I really do sympathise. I am going through post partum depression rn and it’s so hard. Like I’m trapped in a hole and can’t get out. Have u sought any medical help?
A guy here as well, many guys are starting it all out like this. Even i, a guy, knows exactly how you avoid postpartum depression and I can vouch for it given i have an aunt who had three kids whom she wanted to just "off entirely" and then a fourth kid where she finally avoided PPD entirely and Im gonna share what it was that allowed her to avoid it since it was all my idea and it seems to have worked. Ok rewind a second, it wasnt my idea at all...but i suggested she try it. And many of you aren't gonna like it. But i thought, "how is it that other animals don't have PPD to the point we do?" Well, they avoid it by doing what that idea is, as most of them have the instinct to take care of PPD entirely. And i would say that it is because your body isn't ready to just dump that amount of hormones entirely and not look back. So what do animals all do? They almost all eat the afterbirthbafter they have given birth. Wo i suggested to my aunt that she must be dumping too many hormones for her body to keep functioning and i told her to hire a placenta chef and she did. She said it was night and day. She didnt have a single negative thought about that fourth baby. And i gaurantee that in our more natural settings thousands of years ago, just like the other animals do, i have a feeling that human mothers ALSO ate their placentas after delivering. It doesn't sound appetizing or fun. I get it. But that is because it is not a 5 star gastronomical experience, but a health minded natural reintake of those hormones that your body has dumped temporarily, but i am sure expects to be reintroduced into the body. Someone will be rich when he or she discovers a way to strip the placenta of its hormones and positive substances and re introduce it to the body via injection or something. There has got to be a way better than eating it to put it back into you, but the fact almost all animals do it this way tells me that is how nature intends for it to be avoided. I bet you though that in 100 years, before mom leaves the hospital, her placenta will be taken to a lab near the obstatricians's delivery place where the placenta will be turned into an IV bag they will hang for her before she leaves her room.
@BurnerAddress95 You bring up some interesting points about postpartum depression (PPD) and the practices surrounding it. The idea of consuming the placenta, known as placentophagy, has been discussed as a way to help some women recover from childbirth, with proponents claiming benefits such as hormone stabilization and mood improvement. While some anecdotal evidence exists, scientific research on the effectiveness of this practice is limited, and more studies are needed to draw definitive conclusions.
It's also true that many animals instinctively consume their placentas, which may help in managing hormonal changes. However, human experiences with postpartum recovery can vary widely, and what works for one person may not work for another. It’s crucial for new mothers to have support and resources available to them, whether that involves dietary changes, mental health support, or community assistance.
If you or someone you know is navigating postpartum challenges, discussing these concerns with a healthcare provider can lead to personalized strategies for mental health and well-being. It's great that you’re sharing insights and encouraging open dialogue about such important topics!
My husbands really doesn't care about hw I feel what I think no nothing at all.i feel really hopeless,helpless.i am alone.noone cares.love is not just about saying ..you should show it prove it everytime..actions are important n plays a vital role in relationship.
I am so sorry 😞 i really understand this feeling 😔
My husband understand this problem as a common one and not genuine
This just sounds like life.
I would take regular "life" depression over this
Please don't downplay ppd. Are you a guy?
Thank you
this is v useful information
I dnt wana get pregnant till I treat my depression I’ll feel bad it will linger in the baby
If you deal with depression you shouldn’t get pregnant until YEARS after you treat it or work through it. It can and will affect the child in a negative way. Trust me, my mom was depressed. I know....🤷🏾♀️
I just had a baby and I suffer from depression. My baby is so calm and easy to care for. I didn't take medication for depression while pregnant like my nurse practitioner and friends tried to get me to do.
I also had postpartum depression and developed major depressive disorder after I had my son 10 years ago and he is a very happy child.
Mother's depression doesn't always negatively affect children. It can on bad days (everyone has bad days), but it doesn't have a constant negative effect on them from my experiences.
Huhuhu,im using my husbnd accnt. I gve birth dis july 3.sad to say thts what im feeling right now.
I had suicidal and homicidal ideations and crying spells body aches too
It's important to seek professional help if you're experiencing suicidal or homicidal thoughts, crying spells, or body aches. ❤️
Mine started in my 3rd trimester. Will this go away on its own??, and how long does it take? Its been since the end of june and sometimes i feel like im going crazy. Ive known my husband since 2011 and we never fought or argued and now we arnt getting along. I was perscribed 10mg lexapro and it made me have this really heavy feeling and after day 3 i just couldnt handle it anymore. It got put down to 5 mg but I am terrified of taking it or anything. Also, I have a uti which im taking an antibiotic for and found out i have a vitamin d deficiency today so i just started on a 5000iu d3 pill. Im curious if the d3 pill is all I'll need? Im really scared of antidepressants. I want help so bad but im justvsonscared ti take anything. Is there anything natural that would take this away? And soon...its already been a month since i had my baby...i want to be better now 😞
@divinenature1981 I'm really sorry to hear you're feeling this way, especially after having a baby. It's common for new mothers to experience changes in mood, and postpartum issues can be tough. While some women find that these feelings improve over time, it’s important to seek support, especially since you’re experiencing anxiety and relationship challenges.
Regarding the vitamin D deficiency, taking D3 can be beneficial, but it’s also important to ensure you’re getting a balanced diet and considering other lifestyle factors. Natural remedies like exercise, mindfulness, and talking to supportive friends or family can also help improve mood.
If you're feeling hesitant about antidepressants, consider discussing your concerns with your healthcare provider. They may suggest therapy or other natural approaches that can support your mental health. It's great that you're seeking help, and remember, it's okay to take things one step at a time. You deserve support and care as you navigate this transition!
How to fight my feelings for depression. Help me im on going 8months now. I dont know what i need to do.
You should go see a doctor they will help with something your not alone theirs ways seek a doctor
Try to calm yourself.. Its very common to feel like this..
Please start exrsing specially yoga meditation.
Dont overthink too much whatever happen will happen... Do fun activities like dancing singing coloring. Write your feelings down on paper or diary.
I had to stop the video half way because I felt like it as going on and on about the obvious. Me and my baby nearly died at childbirth. We had an awful experience afterwards in hospital. Horrible experience coming home, we're not sleeping or eating properly, I've been stuck in the house the last 7 weeks because I'm still recovering. The midwifes didn't show us anything on how to take care of a baby, we just had to learn. It's stressful, awfully stressful. Right now the whole thing doesn't seem worth it, I feel like crap emotionally and physically. I feel like whatever I do is never good enough, but I have to take everyday as it comes. Yes I've got a cute baby, but he is a handful. And I'm a first time mam, not like I had an experience in this. I'm just learning as I go along. So yes it's crap, but I'm just taking one day as it comes. I'm depressed but I still love my son, and it's my job to make him happy and healthy, even if that means im a mess.
It sounds like you're going through an incredibly challenging time, and your feelings are entirely valid. Postpartum depression can be overwhelming, especially after such a traumatic childbirth experience. It's important to acknowledge that you're doing the best you can in a very difficult situation. Being a first-time mom is hard enough, and recovering from childbirth while dealing with sleep deprivation, stress, and the immense responsibility of caring for a newborn can feel like too much to bear. Please know that you don't have to go through this alone-reaching out for support from loved ones, friends, or professionals can make a big difference. Your well-being is crucial, not just for you but for your baby too, and it's okay to seek help when you need it. Taking one day at a time is a great approach, and it's important to be kind to yourself during this process. You're doing an amazing job under very tough circumstances.
@@MedicalCentric Hi, thank you for the lovely comment, to be honest i wasn't expecting anyone to read mine let alone comment on it, so thank you. But yes I've got friends, I've got family too, accept for my parents and my sister. Funny isn't it, the people who you'll think should be in my life, isn't. But I do get counselling. It is nice to just talk about the crap but still nothing can change what we went through.
I had post partum so bad I was hospitalized
sorry to hear that
I think my wife has been on postpartum depression for like 2 years now
Why what is she doing?
you are just not bringing enough money home.
i think postpartum dep. is about her worries. MORE MONEY, LESS WORRIES.
your child sick= hospital with money.
your wife bored= Find hobby with money.
(ex. baking, cooking, take a baby sitter and let her meet friends atleast even once a week.)
MORE MONEY, LESS WORRIES.
Thank God , I've never wanted or had children, it not worth it! I think women have post depression because it's the soul telling them they just ruined their life
you got no money and power and you added responsibility.
now your mind tells you "you played yourself"
though i think postpartum is just women overthinking and thinking of year 5 year 10. etc. the future. when she is still in the first week of motherhood.
Worries that money will fix.
@@susandinosaur732Right
I think my wife has it and it's now affecting me what do I do 😞
I am really in pain ....I can not feel good
I'm surprised 'useless husband' isn't on the list of causes/symptoms
Mujhe v yehi sab ho raha hai...after delivery... medicine bhi use nahi kar sakti baby ko breastfeeding mei affect hoga...😔😔😔 Koi option nahi hai...
This is so sad
My patner only download snapchat and started hoeing around that cured the depression
One solution, love & care simple ❤️ ❤️
trye indeed
I thought I married the wrong one . Now I know .
If you have a good mother who can tell and support you, your problem will solve,
Unfortunately there are many including me who doesn't have 'mother' in real its real meaning.
Only because we deliver a woman will not be mother, its the mind and sacrifice of a woman makes her mother...
I think I may have it again should I see my gp because because they cant help me with this all they do is make you talk to a professional and it's not like it would go away
clearwoman.com/pregnancy/postpartumdepression/ please read this will heal you, it’s a lack of progesterone. Use progesterone cream/oil to supplement.
I don't know why but all these facts make me feel like post partum is funny... want to lose your mind and end up getting electroshock therapy? have a baby! wanna add tension to your relationships? have a baby! it makes it seem like the last thing anyone wants... but I adore my son AND have some depression post partum.
It's all about timing and patience. No woman should be having children with a man they haven't known for at least 3-5 years. On top of that, cultural values should be the same.
Thanks.
Does anyone know how postpartum depression can affect a baby into teenage/adulthood?
i dunno but if i have to guess, if the child is 4 years old and above and the mother still goes staring blank. i think the child will come to the conclusion that her mother is broken.
which lowers self esteem. not build respect for mother. etc.
Family guy actually covered this pretty well.
It's not a game .
useful..
It does feel like an alien took over your body.
Please help me. I think I have experience this
Hey..cheer up ❤️we love you😘
@@Kayvi0712 I have a 2 year old daughter and it feel that I been experiencing this kind of depression until now
Hey any updates? Have you gotten any professional help?
This is just my normal personality and im a man no baby or wife
Lmao start some hobbies and talk to people man
So basically everything
Me is condition sy guzar rhe hoon. 😢😢
I wish you the best
I can talk, if anyone needs help.
Postpartum depression ba only applicable for pregnant lang? How about yung hindi pero ganyan yung na feel nila
Hi. Better consult a Psychologist po para ma evaluate nang maayos. I hope this will help. 😊
Steven Zilmar I cant because of covid.
goddamn. hindi naman ako psychiatrist pero tinatanong pa ba yan?
Postpartum is for preggy/after labor.
parang ganito ang kinalabasan ng tanong mo:
truck driver is driver exclusively for truck. eh anong tawag sa mga driver na hindi truck ang minamaneho🤣🤣🤣
Postpartum is only for pregnant female. Exclusively.
its like, Testosteron Cancer (Kanser sa Bayag ng lalaki) ay eksklusibo lang sa mga kalalakihan. eh anong tawag sa depressed na hindi naman buntis? edi
(insert category) depression.
ex.
teenage depression
vovo depression
LGBT depression lol
For more information
#thoughtsonrollercoasterrides
This is so wrong for a partner trying to help
hindi lang nilang alam ayoko nalang umimik pag pra sa sarili ko na 😭😭😭
pag magulo na isip mo at nahihirapan kana wag kanang mag isip,saved my life a lot of times.
Are you doing well?if you are bored download POOR DAD RICH DAD book by Robert kiyosaki and learn entrepreneurial skills and financial knowledge,if you are doing well naman ignore. fighting hope you are safe.
This is life in general...
Some women have hurt their babies .
3:43 the doctor needs the pills😂
❤
It’s not far
DEPRESSION SOLUTION: MORE MONEY
postpartum depressed given money:
Can afford baby sitters with money.
Have freedom if you have baby sitter.
No worries if you know you got you and baby's future is covered.
Can afford meds with money.
It’s covid and I don’t have a babysitter!!
@@shiromaniw3527 covid cannot cause postpartum depression.
the cause of postpartum is the labor itself. understand.
if covid is making you depress then it is NOT postpartum.
Susan Dinosaur oh lol I didn’t finish.
I have postpartum depression with my puppy she’s a mix breed, and I can get overwhelmed and break down they say it goes away after 12 months so I’m sticking threw.
And pet sitters are all gone because of covid and, she’s getting very stressful and I worry I can’t raise her right, even if she’s just a dog.
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The exact causes are “unknown” lol, let’s be honest with ourselves and say that it’s due to women not wanting the kid and that being a parent fkn sucks most of the time, especially for women. A lot of straight women don’t want to be mothers but they also don’t do abortions so they have to live with this life altering decision of having and raising a kid they didn’t want in the first place. I don’t have children and the people I know that have children ALWAYS admit sooner or later how much it fkn sucks. I would bet BIG money on the guarantee that postpartum rates are going to rise now that abortion is illegal in most states. Forcing women to have kids they don’t want is not a good idea for anyone.
@Izzie-qz7ds It's clear you're expressing frustration about a deeply complex and sensitive issue, and your feelings are valid. The choice to become a parent is life-changing, and it's important that every woman has the autonomy to make decisions about her body and future. The challenges of motherhood, especially when it's not a desired path, are significant, and forced decisions can lead to long-term emotional and mental health struggles. Access to safe healthcare and reproductive choices is crucial for supporting women through these difficult moments. Everyone's experience is different, and it’s essential that society listens to and supports women in all stages of their reproductive journey.
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I'm here to become a good husband.
I'm sure you will make a great one.
get all the money you can get coz wifey is worrying about year 1. birthdays and future exoenditures. even if its week 1 of motherhood.
Pretty much saying the lady that was pregnant was so used to getting attention because of the baby and when the baby is born she’s jealous cause everyone is used to giving you attention and now since the baby is born people give more attention to the baby and not you. Just like when a parent gives birth and the older sibling(s) are jealous cause you give the baby more attention... what I heard even men goes through it... remember when women said we are equal as men ......
The sexual revolution and its consequences
Men go through depression too.
me huhuhu :(