@facts_talker nah fr tho, demon want you to stay in your comfort zone and not progress while your angel is pushing you to your full potential. That was a good way of breaking it down 🤙
I like how Hamza added another level between Jeffrey and Adonis which is younger Hamza, who is still a lot of Jeffrey but on his way and learning to become Adonis just like all, keep going Hamza as always great video ;D
Just started doing gratitude this week, thought I might as well start with the person who made this all possible for me, Hamza. Thank you Hamza. You have no idea how greatly you’ve impacted my life in the last 2-3 months. You’re someone I can really look up to, and even from the maybe 25 videos I’ve seen of yours, I’ve learned an assortment of new things. I’ve actually felt a significant confidence boost from when I first started watching your videos. Thank you Hamza. You really are helping mold my life for the better, as well as countless other thankful subscribers like me.
The biggest tip I’ve formulated is that a conversation is formed by two people. So many people focus only on what YOU are gonna say and the other side of the convo is neglected
Hamza this is coming from a person who usually NEVER comments on videos like these i'd just shyly watch these videos from a distance and barely adapt to it because they seem so unrealistic But your honesty and you being the realest mf out there helped me a shit ton Just this past week i felt nervous before i met this really cute girl in my school that wanted to hang out w me and the only thing i did that calmed me down was pound my chest like a gorilla and yell to myself "Adonisssss" 3 times and from there everything was a breeze. Thank you king.
As someone who did speech and debate and loves public speaking, here are a few baseground rules: 1. Convince yourself before others: You need to believe in what you’re talking about. People can sense your hesitation / apprehensiveness when you start speaking out of your ass. That’s because you’re conflicted internally about what the hell you’re talking about. 2. You will be okay: Go into every situation knowing that even if you botch it horribly, you will walk it off and you won’t die. People won’t remember your blunder for more than the rest of the day. You will live. 3. Understand when to shut up: This is a hard one for people who love to hear themselves. There are times and people where it’s acceptable to go on tangits without letting anyone else talk. But in most social / work settings, you need to allow for the give and take flow of conversation. 4. An interesting person is interested: the real trick to having people like you and want to talk to you is really just letting them talk about themselves. Ask them questions, and be genuinely interested in them. Next time you find yourself with someone you love talking to, analyze what they do.
Another way is to work soul crushing retail for 13 years till your soul becomes corrupted. Glad to see you're still killin' it with the content. 1.7m views a month is just crazy.
5:05 think about how to entertain yourself and be less self serious. When I started doing this I stopped thinking “I need to practice smiling” as much and focused more on how I could put a fun spin on my current situation
What’s more important than how you speak is your conversation skills. I agree with the tips in this video but you’ll never make it far into conversation without knowing how to make meaningful connections.
Honestly, I seem to be doing good. I've been opening up more recently, man-spreading, putting my arms out, sitting up. I'm naturally loud, and everyone will and is going to hear me talk, whether or not they want to or not.
I’m a pretty obese person whose currently fixing himself, and I personally don’t have any trouble gaining friends, I talk to people daily without any trouble. I’ve been doing what you’ve said all this time. Being confident when talking is essential, everyone stumbles time-to-time and many people wouldn’t care about those minor mistakes.
When Hamza started talking about the ideas for your “Notes” app. I had already done it a few days prior. That moment actually made me feel so proud of myself.
5:34 One thing with this imo is, that while being loud is nice and all, but there are people, who speak calmly and quietly, but are amazing to listen to
Your legs aren’t bad, Hamza! Your calves are the size of your head!!! Don’t feel bad about yourself when you have worked so hard to become the best version of yourself! Much love and respect to you, Hamza!
Hamza really spitting facts with another banger of a video. To say that you've helped me is such an understatement, words can't describe how great full I am that you are producing the content that you make. #discordgang
I like how Hamza always starts from step 0 and it's always like the pre-requisite thing the basic thing that everyone should have in their lifes...great work Hamza my man is goated🤙🔥
I'm the highest value member of my social group and the feeling of power I get is immense.. since I realised this, I can literally talk to anyone. Even the other day I remember walking into the room and one of my mates stood up so I could sit down, I didn't even signal it, I just put my drink down next to him.. then he just stood up and stayed standing awkwardly whilst talking to me. I also notice people parrot me. I'll tell a story and they'll tell a similar one to try and get the same reaction I got from people.
@@dbv6282 no, he is right, training is always the key. If u cant train then u are probably under therapy with antidepressants and shi. Ik how hard it is to overcome anxiety cuz i still have it and i tried to find solution in psychophysical substances, but that doesnt mean u should just stand and do nothing about it
#discordgang This is definitely something I need to improve heavily on haha. I've watched so many videos when it comes to charisma but whenever the situation comes to where I need it I shit the bed. Definitely just need to get more XP in the field. Thank you for the video bro
Hamza I was about to go sleep in my bed while crying.I sometimes hate myself and i feel lonely.I train every day so hard for my dreams but I don’t get any progress.I don’t have Friends and i can live without it,but in the night before I go to sleep I just feel empty and i ask myself if I should concentrate on school more so I can get a job in the future,or follow my dreams.Nobody believes in me but I do...sometimes.I feel like a pussy and not like a man sometimes because I cry in my bed.I can’t really talk to anyone about my feelings because I don’t have friends and I feel weak if I speak about it...I like to talk with people around me but I get ignored or they just say to me that I should ,,f@ck off” or something like that.Your Videos gave me motivation and I’m thankful that you helped me in some way😔
At 2:00, Hamza spoke to a new person he hasn't met before. Look at him, casually saying hi with confidence, oldman vibe, and made a friend. How inspirational is that?
This is so true. Here’s my story. Example 1: I play sports, I’ve played soccer for a long time and I’m pretty good at it. I get compliments on my defense. I’m incredibly confident and willing to talk and be a leader when it comes to soccer because I’m always starting on the team and usually leading the defense. Example 2: On the contrary, in American football and basketball I’m not near as good. I’m usually benched or a backup in both. I’m always intimidated by the coaches and older players and I have a lot of anxiety talking to them. I’m not near as valued on the team in those situations and I don’t lift as much weight as a lot of the other players.
Do you think that it is unnatractive to smile too much? I often feel like I laugh and smile too much (it is completely genuine and difficult to resist).
Not Hamza but here's my opinion: Obviously you lose the chance to be enigmatic which is something that girls like. On the other hand girls also like guys who smile. If it is part of your personality, then that's who you are, there's no need to fix it just to follow some "standards"
U really helped me first time today journaling, working out since me and my ldr gf broke up, before 2 months or so, after she cheated. But I realized that this relationship couldntz work because i didnt put work in myself but rather the relationship, what made it even harder, now im on no fap since we broke up training every single day running ever 2nd for 5 miles, I use social media less and dont play video games no more, my only bad habit is my weed addiction, which im working on rn also got better, im also trying to meditate every single day, if had some experience before meditating but stopped, bc fapping was more important lmao, now im doing it every day and it really helps me, since im working out everyday its like really hard to actually have time to do bad habits, i stopped playing video games not bc i was like "i stop playing games now" it just like happened bc i literally dont got time no more. Everybody can do it just start with physical exercise and stretching and most things will get better. STAY HARD BRAHS but.... Bro i got bigger calves lmao
Hamza is the only person i actually trust when he says "sources: trust me bro"
He has a PhD in Broscience.
Right!!! I even happened to tell somebody that Hamza said this so it's true. Had to awkwardly explain the situation then, lol
on god
@@saintvino1772 And in Adonisssssssssss
😂😂same
1) increase your value.
2) improve body language (open up).
3) talk louder and deep.
visualization, affirmations and reminders are important.
You Don't have to talk louder but you have to talk clearly..
@@sjsaad2023 debatable
@@sjsaad2023 talk louder if you normally talk quietly. if you already talk at a normal level, then there's no point in speaking louder.
4) change your personality and become extraverted
@@DarkSentinel52 nope.talk normally
Shoutout to Paul for being a good chap 😂
Go with your feelings can be bad advice, but he said so nicely, you can tell he meant to be positive from the heart
@facts_talker well said.
@facts_talker opinion accepted
@facts_talker nah fr tho, demon want you to stay in your comfort zone and not progress while your angel is pushing you to your full potential. That was a good way of breaking it down 🤙
Chap? A fellow Irish?!
Love for Paul he's smile gives me a positive feeling
ye
I like how Hamza added another level between Jeffrey and Adonis which is younger Hamza, who is still a lot of Jeffrey but on his way and learning to become Adonis just like all, keep going Hamza as always great video ;D
Ah ha , younger Hamza was Jeffrey
@@Claireradusha99
we all start as Jeffrey without the right guidance
Just started doing gratitude this week, thought I might as well start with the person who made this all possible for me, Hamza.
Thank you Hamza. You have no idea how greatly you’ve impacted my life in the last 2-3 months. You’re someone I can really look up to, and even from the maybe 25 videos I’ve seen of yours, I’ve learned an assortment of new things. I’ve actually felt a significant confidence boost from when I first started watching your videos.
Thank you Hamza. You really are helping mold my life for the better, as well as countless other thankful subscribers like me.
100% agreed
what a beatifully said statement 😭😭
Paul giving off that happy person vibe. Seem like an amazing person
Jeffrey constantly apologizes for being awkward socially
Adonis enjoys the girls' awkwardness around him
Adonissss*
@@walter2223 adonisss
Adonissssssss
Adonissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
Adonisssssssssssssssssssssss
Smile mentally, smarting thing ive heard all week
self improvement isnt watching every video Hamza makes, its not needing the videos anymore.
I feel like you should keep watching the videos so you can keep learning. Like it's a never-ending process of trying to get better
I need his videos as a reminder because half the reason why I fail is because I lack consistency
@@isopropyltoxicity to learn and grow, you must try and fail
The biggest tip I’ve formulated is that a conversation is formed by two people. So many people focus only on what YOU are gonna say and the other side of the convo is neglected
Hamza this is coming from a person who usually NEVER comments on videos like these i'd just shyly watch these videos from a distance and barely adapt to it because they seem so unrealistic
But your honesty and you being the realest mf out there helped me a shit ton
Just this past week i felt nervous before i met this really cute girl in my school that wanted to hang out w me and the only thing i did that calmed me down was pound my chest like a gorilla and yell to myself "Adonisssss" 3 times and from there everything was a breeze.
Thank you king.
Yo boii, that's way to be a confident Adoniss 😉
Lmao this is the real advice, ADONISSSSSS
this made my day
😂
you had me in the 1st half ngl
As someone who did speech and debate and loves public speaking, here are a few baseground rules:
1. Convince yourself before others: You need to believe in what you’re talking about. People can sense your hesitation / apprehensiveness when you start speaking out of your ass. That’s because you’re conflicted internally about what the hell you’re talking about.
2. You will be okay: Go into every situation knowing that even if you botch it horribly, you will walk it off and you won’t die. People won’t remember your blunder for more than the rest of the day. You will live.
3. Understand when to shut up: This is a hard one for people who love to hear themselves. There are times and people where it’s acceptable to go on tangits without letting anyone else talk. But in most social / work settings, you need to allow for the give and take flow of conversation.
4. An interesting person is interested: the real trick to having people like you and want to talk to you is really just letting them talk about themselves. Ask them questions, and be genuinely interested in them. Next time you find yourself with someone you love talking to, analyze what they do.
thanks bud
hi fellow speech and debater!
I was also a debater in school and I agree to all the points stated above
Loving the change of scenery in the videos, going for the walk then coming back in. Videos have improved tremendously lately !
Completely agree with this.
1)increase your value
2)body language
3)smile
4)talk louder
5)down talk
-end sentence with lower pitch
Another way is to work soul crushing retail for 13 years till your soul becomes corrupted. Glad to see you're still killin' it with the content. 1.7m views a month is just crazy.
5:05 think about how to entertain yourself and be less self serious. When I started doing this I stopped thinking “I need to practice smiling” as much and focused more on how I could put a fun spin on my current situation
What’s more important than how you speak is your conversation skills. I agree with the tips in this video but you’ll never make it far into conversation without knowing how to make meaningful connections.
You can learn to do connections by doing conversations, and this video help with starting one.
Honestly, I seem to be doing good. I've been opening up more recently, man-spreading, putting my arms out, sitting up. I'm naturally loud, and everyone will and is going to hear me talk, whether or not they want to or not.
I’m a pretty obese person whose currently fixing himself, and I personally don’t have any trouble gaining friends, I talk to people daily without any trouble. I’ve been doing what you’ve said all this time. Being confident when talking is essential, everyone stumbles time-to-time and many people wouldn’t care about those minor mistakes.
Pig Dude - change your avatars name brother. It will become a self fulfilling prophecy. Big Dude? Jacked dude? Fit dude?
@@MrDanielvass D dude is fine
The dude
U got this
@The Dude how’s the progress?
I like to think that Adonis is an actual guy and Hamza just fuckin stalks him and he gets video ideas that way
When the man says follow your feelings but Hamza wants us to do the hard work even when we don’t feel like it 💪🏽
Quite awkward but he dealt with it well
I think he met gut feelings like instinct
Thought I was clicking on a Charisma on Command video finally recognizing Hamza. Can't say I'm disappointed.
Everytime Hamza uploads, my life becomes slightly better. Thank you
Again man. Back to back to bac, the editing is sooo good. Give some congrats to the editor cause he slaps.
Thanks guys :)
Mans bought a charisma on command course and he's suddenly enlightened.
"He interrupts you like a blackpiller who has data to show you" LMAO
Wheat Waffles moment
@floppa phin thanks fellow based man
LOL NICE PFP I USED TO HAVE IT
Waffles got roasted
@@ActualVykosin who waffles?
The more you self improve the more addicting it gets man. What a crazy journey.
I go back and rewatch your videos just so I can reflect on what I've learned, overall good job Hamza you really giving solid advice out there
Im an Adonis charisma wise I am learning to be a gentle man and I'm working out and bulking glad to be part of this 👍
When Hamza started talking about the ideas for your “Notes” app. I had already done it a few days prior. That moment actually made me feel so proud of myself.
I hope that all of us will be like paul when we get old
Let’s hope that would be awesome. Seems like a good guy
Perfect video with the a perfect timing thanks brother
Dude gives practical and real advice for free, your channel is an hidden gem in youtube.
5:34 One thing with this imo is, that while being loud is nice and all, but there are people, who speak calmly and quietly, but are amazing to listen to
hamza is like the buff bhai i never had
True
Paul’s pretty cool 🙂
Your legs aren’t bad, Hamza! Your calves are the size of your head!!! Don’t feel bad about yourself when you have worked so hard to become the best version of yourself! Much love and respect to you, Hamza!
Sam is making these vids 200% better
thanks bro!
Hamza really spitting facts with another banger of a video. To say that you've helped me is such an understatement, words can't describe how great full I am that you are producing the content that you make.
#discordgang
Hats off to Paul. Seems like beautiful soul.
Great video hamzaaaa, watched this vid then i went and used the tips right away
The Down talk is overpowered and the reminders tip is very good
Hell yeah #discordgang
Gonna watch later once I've done my workouts 😉
I like how Hamza always starts from step 0 and it's always like the pre-requisite thing the basic thing that everyone should have in their lifes...great work Hamza my man is goated🤙🔥
Yooo this actually works wtf. I’m struggling socially and this is helping me out
Paul seems like a cool dude
I'm the highest value member of my social group and the feeling of power I get is immense.. since I realised this, I can literally talk to anyone.
Even the other day I remember walking into the room and one of my mates stood up so I could sit down, I didn't even signal it, I just put my drink down next to him.. then he just stood up and stayed standing awkwardly whilst talking to me.
I also notice people parrot me. I'll tell a story and they'll tell a similar one to try and get the same reaction I got from people.
Paul is a hero, seems like a lovely guy
Thank you Hamza. I am grateful to have found your youtube channel
Was hot off watching the wheat waffles debate. Much needed catharsis through this vid
Yeah that waffle guy is what’s wrong with world, blaming everyone and looking for excuses and not taking accountability
Love for Paul what a guy
Perfect timing
My new fav channel no cap
Starting to love the fact i have a natural deep voice
Love for Paul 💙
Perfect timing!! I’m speaking in front of 100+ people on Thursday
Good luck lad
@@joaoornelaslobo3633 cheers mate👍👍
Good luck 💯
@@tarunnair7095 thanks bud
Goodluck 💪🏽
Hamza bless that editor hope your treating this sickkunt well
He is :)
Hamza was in a Podcast? Gonna go check it out now, lmao
Wait send the link
Love how he says "in a bit" to a complete random stranger XD
great video as always, king!
Paul is one of the kindest man i've ever seen on this channel.
Paul is a great man !
My biggest struggle is public speaking, and my job requires me to present stuff sometimes. Any tips on how to overcome this fear?
I got the same exact problem and it feels like i can't control the fear when i'm up for a presentation
trainning is they key bro :)
@@goncalo1410 Not always though.
@@dbv6282 I mean if it's that bad might want to go to some kind of hospital
@@dbv6282 no, he is right, training is always the key. If u cant train then u are probably under therapy with antidepressants and shi. Ik how hard it is to overcome anxiety cuz i still have it and i tried to find solution in psychophysical substances, but that doesnt mean u should just stand and do nothing about it
Discord gang came through strong for this one Holy smokes
any studies to back that up my guy?
#discordgang This is definitely something I need to improve heavily on haha. I've watched so many videos when it comes to charisma but whenever the situation comes to where I need it I shit the bed. Definitely just need to get more XP in the field. Thank you for the video bro
Bro, you're literally a god-sent angel. I've been struggling with this shit for so long and i open youtube and i see this.
I love hamza, man. I love you, hamza
Hamza I was about to go sleep in my bed while crying.I sometimes hate myself and i feel lonely.I train every day so hard for my dreams but I don’t get any progress.I don’t have Friends and i can live without it,but in the night before I go to sleep I just feel empty and i ask myself if I should concentrate on school more so I can get a job in the future,or follow my dreams.Nobody believes in me but I do...sometimes.I feel like a pussy and not like a man sometimes because I cry in my bed.I can’t really talk to anyone about my feelings because I don’t have friends and I feel weak if I speak about it...I like to talk with people around me but I get ignored or they just say to me that I should ,,f@ck off” or something like that.Your Videos gave me motivation and I’m thankful that you helped me in some way😔
It takes a real man to say their feelings bro
@@thecrisp632 thanks
I hope your doing amazing Buddy 🤝
You'll make it brother. You got it bro I believe in you.
Very nice getting Paul in this video !
This helped a lot thank you brother 🖤
At 2:00, Hamza spoke to a new person he hasn't met before.
Look at him, casually saying hi with confidence, oldman vibe, and made a friend.
How inspirational is that?
Will take this advice right this moment
Honestly bro like what a guy
actually good advices m8 appreciate it
This is so true. Here’s my story.
Example 1: I play sports, I’ve played soccer for a long time and I’m pretty good at it. I get compliments on my defense. I’m incredibly confident and willing to talk and be a leader when it comes to soccer because I’m always starting on the team and usually leading the defense.
Example 2: On the contrary, in American football and basketball I’m not near as good. I’m usually benched or a backup in both. I’m always intimidated by the coaches and older players and I have a lot of anxiety talking to them. I’m not near as valued on the team in those situations and I don’t lift as much weight as a lot of the other players.
Paul just made mi day happier
you are like a big brother i never had 😀😀
Hey hamza,next video on how to get a more deeper voice
Likes for this one!!!
Do you think that it is unnatractive to smile too much? I often feel like I laugh and smile too much (it is completely genuine and difficult to resist).
Not Hamza but here's my opinion:
Obviously you lose the chance to be enigmatic which is something that girls like. On the other hand girls also like guys who smile. If it is part of your personality, then that's who you are, there's no need to fix it just to follow some "standards"
Fuck no bro. Keep spreading happiness. Most of the brothers are already too depressed. They need to see a genuine smile. 😎 😁
Brother there has been days where all I wanted to do was be able to genuinely smile.Please, smile for those of us who are not able to.
Mad respect to Paul what a legend
not the wheat waffles roast lmfaooooo
in Hamza we believe ✊🏼🖤
Watching your video made me smile
Bald gi you are helping me out for perpetual time
Congrats on 100k bro. Have been off the channel and discord for a while now ngl
Adonis roasts someone indirectly at 0:05, Jeffrey doesn't realize it's about him.
Adonissss😂. Always love hearing that❤️💯.
Paul is an absolute g
Is this even Hamza's video without mentioning "ADONISSSSS" 😂
0:06 💀💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a shot at that one incel blackpill youtuber that Hamza had a debate with
U really helped me first time today journaling, working out since me and my ldr gf broke up, before 2 months or so, after she cheated. But I realized that this relationship couldntz work because i didnt put work in myself but rather the relationship, what made it even harder, now im on no fap since we broke up training every single day running ever 2nd for 5 miles, I use social media less and dont play video games no more, my only bad habit is my weed addiction, which im working on rn also got better, im also trying to meditate every single day, if had some experience before meditating but stopped, bc fapping was more important lmao, now im doing it every day and it really helps me, since im working out everyday its like really hard to actually have time to do bad habits, i stopped playing video games not bc i was like "i stop playing games now" it just like happened bc i literally dont got time no more. Everybody can do it just start with physical exercise and stretching and most things will get better.
STAY HARD BRAHS but.... Bro i got bigger calves lmao
When he said "be yourself , yeh yeh yeh yeh yeh yeh" it made me smile lol
Hamza this helped alot thx G
Love the videos man❤️
I love how Sam added a pic of the Red Pill vs Black Pill Podcast with Wheat Waffles at 6:44. Best example ^^
paul is a legend
People would always complain when I talked loud enough. As I got older my English got worse and I slurred my words, it sucked. Speak louder, it helps.
Wish there were more people like Paul haha
love for paul what a wholesome man
Love you man, I'm already a much better man than I was months ago but the grind never stops ❤️