He will be obsessed with you if you do THIS!

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  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 3 роки тому +164

    Came for the accent, stayed for the content 😃😍

  • @SeanyDTarot
    @SeanyDTarot 3 роки тому +169

    How to make them obsessed. Ignore them. 🤣

  • @saturnianitch8384
    @saturnianitch8384 3 роки тому +100

    “We have to learn to receive and not just give.” 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌💖✨

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Рік тому +15

    *Genuine connections are based on mutual feelings and understanding, not on trying to create obsession. Focus on building a respectful and meaningful relationship where both partners feel valued and appreciated for who they are.*

  • @lisaann4248
    @lisaann4248 3 роки тому +75

    This stuff actually works, I completely let go of him and now he's calling and chasing after me, fe Soo good, thank you Alex.

  • @felicitypaulse7965
    @felicitypaulse7965 2 роки тому +17

    I had enough of chasing him and I gave more than he did so it was time to let go...it makes me feel so much better...

  • @dianaisabela7816
    @dianaisabela7816 3 роки тому +40

    I always make my choices by how I feel towards a man. I don’t do nothing special I just let them pursue me and then I give affection little by little until we fall in love and start a serious relationship. Real men don’t play games 😉 he will go with his instincts.

  • @tripteeagarwal3176
    @tripteeagarwal3176 Рік тому +7

    Alex I promise.. I'll become a challenge for him.

  • @nicolelagamo11
    @nicolelagamo11 3 роки тому +20

    ALWAYS BE YOURSELF LADIES

    • @juwa73g24
      @juwa73g24 2 роки тому

      Thank you Nicole, I’m not naturally flirtatious so I was feeling a bit uncomfortable with that bit of advice.. but I will still watch the video, as who knows I might tap into something which can help. Feeling enough is so important and so difficult for me.

  • @MelissaKing-o4z
    @MelissaKing-o4z Місяць тому

    I recently went through a tough breakup. My 7 year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been really hard for me. I still love my ex so much and can't stop thinking about him. I've tried everything to win him back, but nothing has worked. It's frustrating, and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I've been trying to move on, but I can't seem to get him out of my mind. I know it might sound strange to share this here, but I miss him a lot and just can't stop thinking about him.

  • @rehemaabuya2878
    @rehemaabuya2878 4 місяці тому +1

    I swear I'm going to make you proud.... just found this the right time that I needed it.
    I'll come back here to testify.

  • @Roxanacookingsu
    @Roxanacookingsu Рік тому +6

    Thank you, I used your tips and now he is chasing me and I am focussing on myself.

  • @jodirowe2996
    @jodirowe2996 3 роки тому +8

    I’ve lost count of the number of men who text me for days…then wait until Friday afternoon to ask me out Friday evening, then get angry with me when I tell them I already have plans.

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 роки тому +45

    You've got me thinking Alex, thank you for that! I hear you! Very wise, I realize now that I was too available, and I've got taking for granted! I've learned my lesson and that's over now!

  • @Girlwiththecurls
    @Girlwiththecurls 2 роки тому +7

    He just asked me (same day) to hang out w him tonight. I just politely said I’m not in the area for the evening and left it at that. I said ok the other 3 times we met, now he got comfortable and asked to meet the same day instead of planning something special

  • @ily2524
    @ily2524 3 роки тому +50

    Thank you SO MUCH!!!! I have listened to many dating advice videos and this by far made the most SENSE or it just finally clicked. Never again will I be the same! Transformation has begun 🦋

  • @enoguoghojoy1340
    @enoguoghojoy1340 3 роки тому +11

    I did it and I got him

  • @annstar2793
    @annstar2793 3 роки тому +20

    Yeah- and if they treat you inconsiderately, and you tell them that hurt your feelings and to please not do that again, they freak out and run away and don’t come back cuz he’s not emotionally stable. He’s not obsessed any more then !!!!

  • @maryannbolobanic9801
    @maryannbolobanic9801 3 роки тому +3

    I am Croatian and enjoy your advice. Tu es magnifique!!!!!

  • @jelenazoric9300
    @jelenazoric9300 3 роки тому +65

    In REAL life, this works just partially....because HOW LONG are you NOT gonna be fully available...You can play this game up to a point, then it becomes tiring and pointless. Both sides need to make a decision to act normal and give and receive in reciprocity...Only then, the relationship can last-thrive. You can't play this game for long....

    • @agneslaufer9579
      @agneslaufer9579 3 роки тому +6

      True, chasing is not healthy for both sides.

    • @kayodudu5190
      @kayodudu5190 3 роки тому +4

      So true what you said

    • @iamvikku
      @iamvikku 3 роки тому +5

      @@agneslaufer9579 high value man and never chase each other and play these game .
      They just attracted toward connections.

    • @powerfulberry237
      @powerfulberry237 3 роки тому +1

      This tbh
      I'm almost sure he also watches this sort of vids or at least reads up about dating techniques, because we have gone back and forth being hot and cold and taking turns chasing each other, shifting from 1 extreme to another. It's almost comical. I'm sick and tired.
      But I'm on the losing side because when I love, I am ready to commit. He isn't.

    • @jJust_NO_
      @jJust_NO_ 3 роки тому +1

      exactly.. even listening to this guy talk tires me already lol.

  • @theresamwango831
    @theresamwango831 3 роки тому +17

    Thank you sir for the important info.relationships are quite tricky &men are usually so full of sweet talk but personally I have learnt to value myself as a woman.will continue to implement your teachings.

  • @DinaStrange
    @DinaStrange 2 роки тому +23

    I had realized that if all women collectively raised their standards and kept their legs closed - we wouldn't be having a bunch of very spoiled men feeling entitled to a woman.

    • @reneehaynes8289
      @reneehaynes8289 5 місяців тому

      Yes in a perfect world but unfortunately there are always pr0stitutes, escorts, and wh0res so they'll forever feel entitled.

  • @karasimon6766
    @karasimon6766 Рік тому +2

    I think it should just flow if you like each other. Just try to chill and not read into things too much. Anyone playing mind games isn’t worth it

  • @Noorulann
    @Noorulann 3 роки тому +7

    Ohh you're awesome alex a lot of love❤️❤️❤️❤️ from Pakistan 🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰🇵🇰

  • @SandySandy-us3ud
    @SandySandy-us3ud Рік тому +1

    You’re the only person I will listen to now. Your advice is irked for meek thank you Alex.

  • @hisful123
    @hisful123 2 роки тому +3

    I did followed your tips Alex and just within one day he changed hahaha ...I like your advice Alex 👍👍

  • @khalidarezgui8740
    @khalidarezgui8740 3 роки тому +2

    You have the most wonderful Frenglish sir. All you give is valuable thank you 🙏

  • @jacquelinemunialo6667
    @jacquelinemunialo6667 3 роки тому +12

    Following from Kenya.. I just love what you do♥️♥️

    • @aikoyu9815
      @aikoyu9815 3 роки тому +1

      I was in Kenya before. Actually went there 3 times. Will be my 4th.....

  • @suganyan7416
    @suganyan7416 3 роки тому +6

    Yeah Alex, u r always surprising me, i do felt the same , & iam dealing exactly same,hw u explained.,
    Ofcourse we r all humans, we hv to respect eachother, respect comes on either side, if the both feel, iam with an unique person, whom i shall not miss,
    For both men & women Be genuine in ur relationship, hv peace of mind, we r all here to just to enjoy life , BE HAPPY TO ALL MY DEAR ONES, ENJOY LIFE'S RELATIONSHIP, BREAK UR EGO.,
    tnq Alex , u r doing a wonderful job, keep going ., Happy for u.,

  • @kalelake3067
    @kalelake3067 2 роки тому +2

    I promise Alex; and I will keep being the Woman that I really am..

  • @carolinenafula7814
    @carolinenafula7814 3 роки тому +12

    I am from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪 😍. I subscribed yesterday and I am very impressed with your lessons. Everything you teach I am applying. Thank you very much. I will use every technique you have taught

    • @misstee8130
      @misstee8130 2 роки тому

      😍🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @ewm4266
      @ewm4266 2 роки тому +1

      Hehe, mko kila mahali, ni fukuswi Gani unataka ikue obsessed na wewe?😂😂😂😂

    • @ivylillace
      @ivylillace 2 роки тому

      🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪

    • @ivylillace
      @ivylillace 2 роки тому

      @@ewm4266 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @anntv4654
    @anntv4654 3 роки тому +6

    Your tips are far good than others I watched. I'm excited to apply it.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching Analita!

    • @markussunday9561
      @markussunday9561 3 роки тому

      ➕2349023923103⏯⏭⏮⏮⏮What sap him i pray for the universe grant your heart desired) I know of a great spll that can help you manifest your ex back) without any delay. he just help me restore relationship of 2 years) with a child back with law of attraction manifestation last week)

  • @oluwadamilolaoriade5426
    @oluwadamilolaoriade5426 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for your advice... yesterday my boyfriend told me his obsession with me and he kept hugging me I'm from NYC

  • @camehdinhobangura3396
    @camehdinhobangura3396 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Alex

  • @beckyarrey3703
    @beckyarrey3703 7 місяців тому

    I will have to apply this. Thank you Alex

  • @Sanatani2205
    @Sanatani2205 9 місяців тому

    Hey Alex, you gave me so positivity dat now m able to look myself as someone who is worthy of chasing ❤ 😊
    My bf is very handsome n gud luking, there r mny girls out there who tried on him n hez very friendly to all of them. This makes me insecure n moreover hez alwez on and off wid me, not treating me well, taking me for granted. So now this tym I promise to u I now ignore him, make him to chase me or else I m better without him 😊

  • @Caroline.H94
    @Caroline.H94 3 роки тому +2

    You know dear Alex. I agree with you what you just say in this video but I always been scared 😔 if my boyfriend never will contact me. If I will be pull back and don't contact him. I know most of the ladies we do mistake when our guys start taking us for granted cos they know that we will always contact them first will do everything for them is truth Alex you been always right. I was giving my guy all my heart and so many things I sacrifice a lot a lot..... and right now when I need give him space if I want to see if my guy will contact me I'm scared cos just in case he would never contact me back .....😔.

  • @reneehaynes8289
    @reneehaynes8289 5 місяців тому

    Act indifferent and use the hot and cold method like they do.

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  5 місяців тому

      Sometimes a bit of distance can be helpful. Just remember to stay true to yourself and what you need in the situation

  • @starseedstarseed311
    @starseedstarseed311 3 роки тому

    HELLO FROM GREECE. I HAVE RETRACTED MY ENERGY FROM HIM WAITING TO SEE IF HE LL ACT UPON

  • @ayeshamendoza8121
    @ayeshamendoza8121 Рік тому

    Thank you Alex this video is great

  • @momsinspiration3915
    @momsinspiration3915 3 роки тому +2

    Hi! Alex new subs here from Philippines 🇵🇭, thank u so much for ur tips, it was helpful, i really learn alot and surely I will apply ur advises, Will watch again ur other videos, Goodluck and God bless! 🙏😊😍💟💐

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому +2

      I'm always happy to help! I'm glad my tips are helpful for you!

    • @momsinspiration3915
      @momsinspiration3915 3 роки тому

      @@FrenchRelationshipExpert yeah my pleasure Alex, im so happy to see u while scrolling here and start to watch u and its so awesome that ur tips are all helpful, many thanks! 🙏😉😍💟

  • @AsiaMariam-i8p
    @AsiaMariam-i8p Рік тому

    Let try to practice this

  • @lanikalapa1510
    @lanikalapa1510 Рік тому

    Thank yu Alex❤ good one will help me alots💖👌

    • @lanikalapa1510
      @lanikalapa1510 Рік тому

      From island kingdom of Tongan🇹🇴🌹❤️

  • @africangirllifestyle7686
    @africangirllifestyle7686 3 роки тому +1

    This works 100%

  • @kabughojanejanet9455
    @kabughojanejanet9455 3 роки тому +1

    From Uganda we love u

  • @ghadeerothman8988
    @ghadeerothman8988 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you Alex 🌷

  • @netravatiyadahalli669
    @netravatiyadahalli669 Рік тому

    Tqsm alex.....I m following your words..!😊 Tq for your free guidence 🙏

  • @milliycheby4372
    @milliycheby4372 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Alex 😊happy for you always 😘I promise I will apply this 😊

  • @adikatseegii4707
    @adikatseegii4707 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you coach 😍🥰😘

  • @rosegonzales2186
    @rosegonzales2186 3 роки тому +3

    thank u sir alex for this advice 😊 i will start to apply this tips to a shy guy 😁😊he is weird sometimes, i don't understand him. I'm frm Philippines.😊

  • @KyalisiimaJoy-oz8ej
    @KyalisiimaJoy-oz8ej Рік тому

    Always my coach😍

  • @naavabackhausimmaculate9752
    @naavabackhausimmaculate9752 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you Alex!!

  • @alixstaven4001
    @alixstaven4001 2 роки тому

    Thanks so much for your help, mine is taking me for granted and that's enough. You are the best 😘

  • @fatimasalie3911
    @fatimasalie3911 Рік тому

    How to accept..❤😊

  • @josiepedere1316
    @josiepedere1316 3 роки тому

    Thanks Monsieur Alex.. it's true ❤️ more power in 2022 !!

  • @camehdinhobangura3396
    @camehdinhobangura3396 Рік тому

    Zainab from FreeTown

  • @carolebitz3207
    @carolebitz3207 2 роки тому

    Ok Alex...yes I love what you say

  • @Queen-B_ExMusic
    @Queen-B_ExMusic 3 роки тому +5

    Now I know where I keep making the same mistakes I’ll get better

  • @analodi1869
    @analodi1869 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks 🙏 I am a queen

  • @maria3387
    @maria3387 3 роки тому +1

    Wow 🤩 your are the best!!!

  • @maggiewanjiru2807
    @maggiewanjiru2807 3 роки тому +1

    Wow! Thanks Alex

  • @sanotisaacks5054
    @sanotisaacks5054 3 місяці тому

    I promise alex😊

  • @khadijahsesay8205
    @khadijahsesay8205 3 роки тому

    Thanks very much 😀👍

  • @tradingrichmom
    @tradingrichmom 3 роки тому +8

    I promise to myself to continue to applying "high value woman" mindset with all the men in my life!

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much for watching and thank you for the suggestion! I can keep that in mind for a future video!

  • @roliapenalosa336
    @roliapenalosa336 3 роки тому +1

    Fr. The Philippines 👍

  • @iamvikku
    @iamvikku 3 роки тому +19

    High value man never attracted toward ur beauty.
    If u think u can feel us dumb . We never chase u ...
    We chase good connections only for long term relationships who keeps us and our family stable.
    If u try to get hard or cold . High value or godd man ll think that ur have very high expectations or u r just playing with him.
    Best advice from a man is just be in urself.
    U r great without any game.
    But u can attract low value man with these trick.
    The choice is urs..

  • @hopefaithbelieve1804
    @hopefaithbelieve1804 3 роки тому +1

    Love all your videos 🥰❤️😘

  • @lauraangelicalomeliraya4623
    @lauraangelicalomeliraya4623 3 роки тому +1

    Thx Alex

  • @Sabatini_Fialho
    @Sabatini_Fialho 3 роки тому +3

    Hi Alex can u pls share the link for being funny and flirtatious . U r really helpful it makes sense and relates my situation 🙂

  • @kim9953
    @kim9953 2 роки тому

    thanks 👍🏻

  • @swabelicious117
    @swabelicious117 2 роки тому

    Thank u always Alex 🙏☝️🥰

  • @mariawelchsantos4612
    @mariawelchsantos4612 3 роки тому

    Sounds 👍 great well new #Subscriber from Denmark 🇩🇰 👍 good luck

  • @dianariedel4788
    @dianariedel4788 3 роки тому +5

    Disagree on 1 point~if your man has any insecurities, the LAST thing he needs is when the woman shows no appreciation & that he'll Never live up to her Expectations 😕

  • @carolebitz3207
    @carolebitz3207 2 роки тому

    I've already lost him and I want to get him back.I hope it's not too kate.

  • @anishiaramjettan7804
    @anishiaramjettan7804 3 роки тому +2

    Alex l need your help... I going into depression.. 😭😭😭😭 Please hear me out... My situation is so different from what you say on this video

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому +4

      Hi Anishia,
      I know how hard this can be and I'm sorry to hear about this. I would love to help you can I hope you can book a coaching session with me.
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 роки тому

    I'll be here next time!

  • @saracirs8725
    @saracirs8725 3 роки тому

    Alxe Ty your wshdm apprshat I 'm so chang and I happy konw I will do it more !!!

  • @kimeton5502
    @kimeton5502 3 роки тому +3

    Can I get my ex back after he left me for a young girl

  • @dreambig7425
    @dreambig7425 3 роки тому +2

    I walked away because he was no longer chasing. Will this work on a man I have let go of? Will he come back?

    • @powerfulberry237
      @powerfulberry237 3 роки тому

      My crush who almost became mine suddenly began acting cold 2 days ago. I'm also trying the method of ignoring, and giving him his time and space
      He used to be so flirty and friendly. It's really hard to focus and not be very heartbroken. Please keep us updated on your journey. We await your success story!

  • @ndyndy2785
    @ndyndy2785 3 роки тому +1

    Promise ☺️

  • @ei3816
    @ei3816 3 роки тому +1

    We are LDR. My boyfriend said he was angry me and he needs time to relax.
    Then, I stayed quiet without connecting him.
    After two weeks, he still silent. So I asked him"are you still angry?"
    He replied that he is too busy in work and he needs to try to get new job. He is in complete mess. He requested me to give more time until he gets the job.
    Is it possible?😔
    When men feeling pressure, do they stay without connecting?

    • @lke4907
      @lke4907 2 роки тому +4

      A man should never go that long without connecting if he likes you. It's abusive behavior from him and he will keep doing it.

    • @Tmacpherson
      @Tmacpherson 2 роки тому +2

      I hope you left him

  • @Headup-jr3cc
    @Headup-jr3cc 6 місяців тому

    Alex.... I promise you!!!

  • @zebokamalova3724
    @zebokamalova3724 5 місяців тому

    "Even Jennifer Lopez cannot be in his mind"😂😂❤

  • @Strawberry-bm6xh
    @Strawberry-bm6xh Рік тому

    If I ignore him he ignores me too 😢

  • @naomibandy6707
    @naomibandy6707 2 роки тому

    Alex please my husband just telling me that I'm taking too much and not listening and he just want to break up with me how can I get him back

  • @drgoodwell1082
    @drgoodwell1082 3 роки тому +3

    He needs to provide me more
    Standards
    Being unavailable
    Not being nice

  • @thuytienngonguyen2089
    @thuytienngonguyen2089 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the reminder! Great point!!!

  • @nantumeflorence1554
    @nantumeflorence1554 3 роки тому +1

    I need ur advice Mr Alex but i do know what to do and i go to the link but doesn't work help me please 🙏 thanks for the advice

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому

      Hi Nantume,
      I would love to give you advice,
      You can book a coaching call with me using this link:
      www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/

  • @mariaserrano5929
    @mariaserrano5929 Рік тому

    How do you healthy flirt

  • @nantumeflorence1554
    @nantumeflorence1554 3 роки тому +1

    And I'll be happy when u answer me bigup

  • @Fienixz_Official
    @Fienixz_Official 3 роки тому +3

    How do I communicate him that I require more? I simply ask him? I have also difficulty asking

    • @FrenchRelationshipExpert
      @FrenchRelationshipExpert  3 роки тому +3

      Hi there!
      I have a video on this channel that talks about how to communicate better to a man. I hope you find the time to check it out!
      ua-cam.com/video/4ChgKoN4qZ8/v-deo.html

  • @summerposkas8312
    @summerposkas8312 6 місяців тому

    How do I do this?

  • @michelleromero3102
    @michelleromero3102 3 роки тому +1

    Sorry I don’t understand you said we have to find new restaurants and us woman make reservations?

  • @emileneprinsloo5842
    @emileneprinsloo5842 2 роки тому

    hi Akex im from south africa

  • @josephinejeffery
    @josephinejeffery 2 роки тому

    I did this and my boyfriend said he can’t give me the love I want so he left

  • @chai46
    @chai46 2 роки тому +1

    how can i not give back when he always asks me or basically forces me to tell him that i like him .. OR should I lie and tell him that i dont like smth??

    • @juanitagonzalez8333
      @juanitagonzalez8333 Рік тому

      Sounds like he's insecure.hes gotta love ,and like himself first before liking or loving you.

  • @kenzomakeupartist9089
    @kenzomakeupartist9089 Рік тому

    What if he's saying "he prefers easy one"?

  • @rahikhan3618
    @rahikhan3618 2 роки тому

    My man has blocked me everywhere for 1 month. He is not seeing me. How will he know I am changed?

  • @DannyM.D.N.A
    @DannyM.D.N.A 3 роки тому +2

    Does it work on avoidant gay men ?

  • @emileneprinsloo5842
    @emileneprinsloo5842 2 роки тому

    i promise