BEAUTY INDUSTRY IS MESSED UP: WHY BOLLYWOOD ACTRESSES UNDERARMS ARE SO UNREALISTIC?
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- About this video: In this video, we will talk about Priyanka Chopra, Ananya Pandey, Deepika Padukone, Alia Bhattjanhvi kapoor & Janhvi Kapoor
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I love your content. When I was teenager i also used filters for showing clear and fair skin and for sharp features but slowly as i grow up i also realized that im lying to myself and I'm not accepting myself as I'm and now i can post selfies with dark circles and acne marks. It's all about changing your perspective towards beauty. Thank you spill bee for talking about this, we need more people like you.
I am a teenager and 3-4 months ago i noticed that I am using snapchat every time I click my photo. But soon i deleted snapchat and now Everytime i click my it is by real camera 📷 and i am proud that I noticed my fault and changed it ASAP
@@amee4856 u nice keep going. I also used snapchat alot but now seeing people posting selfies with filters actually make me feel better about myself because I know I'm not faking my real image and I'm proud of it.
@@amee4856 girl you go 🤍pround of you 🥰
I agree i am a pre-teen and i too use filters but i will need time to overcome the using filters and spill bee made me realise that thanku for sharing your story to cause i can be more inspired by you ☺️ thanku spill bee for having such thoughts and converting it into a video i am lucky to find your channel thanku so much☺️☺️☺️
@@rishikaagrawal2595u r really wise for a preteen. Be like this forever, embrace your true self.
I'm also very lucky to find spill bee.
I love Rani Mukherjee she never tried to change her complexion unlike her co-stars. And she literally looks damn gorgeous and when she's young I'm damn sure she must have been the crush of lots of guys.
Rani & Bipasha❤️
She is already beautiful and have light skin tone, then why she'd change her complexion
SHE IS STILL THE CRUSH OF MANY GUYS
For people who have visited other western nations.. Must be aware how people stay for hours in sun to get the Sunkissed dark skin tone (kinda indian) I don't appreciate that but still think if Bollywood recognizes this and starts showing more of indian brown skin I bet it would bring alot of attention to the industry
PS -remember how everyone were simping over maitri's (never have I ever), simone's dusky skin tones. Even the Indians loved them
Its human nature to desire something you dont have with time you realise everything is beautiful white black hairy or less hairy ❤everything is god creation
I usually am a silent viewer, but couldn't resist today. I totally agree with each point you mentioned. The unrealistic beauty standard is a bug which has bitten most of the users of Instagram too. Barely does anyone click a photo without using make up, and almost no one posts without filters. Even if they do, there are all sorts of people telling that yaar achi photo laga na, even to people not belonging to the glamour industry. For people belonging to the glamour industry, there are trollers, paparazzi and what not. And this obsession with flawless skin. Let me tell you that I had to under go a surgery (to correct a life threatening problem). However, the scars are more visible to the world than to me and I get all sorts of unsolicited advices like make up se cover kar le, god knows konsi cream laga le, wear something which covers the scar. And it's not even an inch of scar which is visible.... I remember once loosing my cool and responding "yaar ab insaan sundar dikhe ya zinda rahe". Someone contacted me as their daughter had a similar problem and they wanted to know if the scars will pose a problem when it's time for her to get married (that girl is 3 years old now btw) . I again lost my cool and said " Zinda rahegi toh shaadi karvaoge na? " Luckily I am blessed with the best parents who taught me right from day one to just ignore such stupid people
Wow! What a terrible experience dear. I hope you get people who really see you, other than these toxic people.
Don't worry we love you ❤
Stupid people sis ,same thing happened to me..
Wow!
So those parents were confused between whether to choose their daughters's life and the possibility of getting married.
It's true... I can totally relate as I have fair skin and more than fair amount of hyperpigmentation which is still increasing.. people give me unsolicited advice of covering it with make up every day. I have over 50 dark spots on my face alone and they are growing, which concerns people around me more that it does me..
So happy that you talked about this!! A few years ago, a girl of Indian origin won the title of miss USA and it was a proud moment for all Indians. But she herself has said that she would not have won in India. Because she is too dark. And that’s the harsh reality. So in truth, women that are considered beautiful in America are not considered beautiful in India. Even though India tries to take influence from American beauty standards. In this case I think they should take influence from this also. There are always a variety of skin tones for successful models, actresses and pageant participants.
I disagree with your first statement. It was not a proud moment for all indians. Someone winning miss USA doesn't concern India.
@@foreverrocks7989 exactly.. We have our own miss world and miss universe.
@@foreverrocks7989 yeah true
@@foreverrocks7989 she was an Indian
@@letzdoit-c1r doesn't matter
I've been recently thinking about my underarm hairs and I then thought to myself...'I am fricking 16..I don't have to bring myself about fricking underarm hair.' But then again I have been feeling bad. Then you posted this. Thank you.. you are like a big sister! I love you 😍
Same here dude, I am also a 16 year old girl facing problem related to this
so, I just wanna ask you, are you gonna clean it or leave it? actually I am still confused .
@@AdityaKumar-tx4kl Just leave it....sis
Whats the big deal
@@AdityaKumar-tx4kl I won't do anything but simple self care that I can do and afford😊
shave them in summers because of sweat otherwise leave it
I feel it's very important to make people aware of the fact that fair skintone is not at all important for a girl to look beautiful. Thank you so much @spillbee to help people enhance their sensitivity towards people who have dark or brown complexion. It's all because of the shitty western culture....people have become completely mad for fair actresses and the actresses of dark complexions have always considered low standards. This complexity doesn't only happens in Bollywood but in every field of life such as schools ,colleges, offices etc. WE NEED TO CHANGE OUR MINDSET otherwise this will keep on depressing people.
Priyanka has brown skin.but i think she is the most beautiful woman
Bipasha always looked EXOTIC hence for me she stands out a lot amoung actresses
As a 23 year old female, i proudly say that I've never waxed nor shaved my leg and arm hair I'm so comfortable with that and i don't care what people thinks about it, and i do not try to cover them with my clothes😊☺️
Same bruhh
I am proud of this girls in my india
Will you be my frnd
Same... I am 22 and i don't like to shave my arms and legs either ... but there's also an uncomfortable feeling that lingers whenever I wear shorts 🤣🤣 ... still I don't shave . I'm too lazy for that ...
Chee
My Mom is a very beautiful dark skinned beauty. I mean she's quite dark and gorgeous even at 58........and she attracts a lot of people.. but she herself couldn't come out of her insecurities. I had given her a foundation that matches her skin tone but she has to use 2 shades lighter which makes her look worse.... many a times its we ourselves who can't value our own features
Pooja Hegde is dusky skin toned actress. She is super beautiful. More than any fair skinned actress. I just love her looks and features
Dusky bro no way she s also white washed now
@@vishnupriya.2729 exactly listen to her song ashiqui a gai she's looking extremely white
She's light skinned even by Indian standards. Dusky is priyanka chopra and 90s actress Anu Agarwal
Being a dark guy I know the pain and sometime I too feel under confident just bcz of my skintone 🙂
It is easy to say color doesn't matter but who is going through it he or she knows the reality
Mera bi dark skin tone hai but agar mai hi and i know skin colour hamesha yahi rahega agr mai hi khudke skintone ko embrace ni krugi toh kon karega mere siwa so mujhe mera skintone psnd and bhaad mai hai baki log yeh unki problem hai meri nyi😊so bro itna matt sochoo apne dimag ko faltu burden matt do ishi fazul chizo ka isko tum sachi mai psnd anhe honge wo banda kabhi skin tone ni dekhe ga
Bhai,colour sach me matter nahi karta,thoda muscle badha "chehere ka",aur personality bhi,buss 2 hi chize hai...
I'm a girl so but still confidence toh hona hi chaiye khudko carry karne ka chahe jaise bi ho
@@AmandeepKaur-oy3qr Thank You Sister.. aap ne bilkul sahi bola..main v confident rehta hu n m proud of my skintone but kabhi kabhi aa jata h man me
@@Dank.man45 yeah bro u r right...mujhe v sab wo hi suggest krte h jo aap bole..Thank You
Honestly this is my biggest insecurity...i tend to avoid the sleeveless ones but I really do wanna wear it... although m not going to wear it tomorrow but atleast in the future need more courage uuh know 😬 thanks for informing 🌈♥️✨
Go for it sis,, I have dark armpits too soo same I'm insecure to wear sleeveless tops then I gathered my confidence n wear it one day.. believe me no one care about that I have dark pits.. N if someone do then let them waste their time on another's dark pits..
I always judged myself for looking ugly on normal camera because I was so used to the Snapchat filters. But I realised that it's toxic and made me doubt my own skin. Then I made a choice to click photos without filters. It's the best descision I've ever made
Not only Bollywood movies, even in Hindi serials the obsession with fair skin, dolled up actresses are HUGE! Even if they start the drama centering Dark Skin Main lead, after some episodes that lead is going to have a Makeover & Get Fair. I mean how they do it!! People’s skin just doesn’t change that easily! Hindi serials are more absurd than Bollywood movies!
It's also repetitive that only when the story is about a dark skin girl facing the problem bcs of her skin color than she is lead. Otherwise it 98% of time fair skinned girls.
@@Vor567tez True! And I have watched so many dramas where the dark skin girl surprisingly Becomes Fair & when she is Dark toned, her styling is average but as she becomes Fair, her style just gets glamorous!!
Rani mukherjee, Rekha, Priyanka chopra, Bipasha Basu, Kajol - these are some dusky actresses that have had successful careers in bollywood through generations. I dont think color of skin is a big question but having a flawless figure definitely is. Because only vidya Balan made it to the charts despite being on the heavier side.
Vidya Balan had a figure at some point in her career tho
and then most of these actress got skin whitening done
@@Anushka-fz9bm none of them except Kajol, and she got it done like 4-5 years ago. :) Priyanka still looks dusky in all her interviews. She looks fair in movies due to post processing and make up. Bipasha proudly flaunts her dusky complexion. We need to give credit where credit is due! These actresses have proved that acting is a skill that you hone and being an actress requires that skill set. Lets not take away their achievements in a snarky remark like this.
@@MyLifeWithKai ok
All these actresses have done skin whitening
My armpit is dark idk why I take a shower everyday and clean my armpit but still it's dark maybe it's because I sweat a lot 💦also I never shave my leg, arm hair and it's ok all the girls who reading my comment we all have something which make us feel insecure perfection is fictional accept yourself the way you are 🥰 (sorry for my poor english 😅)
yaa hyperpigmentation in areas where we sweat is very normal .. and our climate is also too hot, so it is something that will happen .. n kudos to you to writing such a beautiful comment
@@spillbee thanx 🥰🥰
Happy that u talked about it,I m also brown girl and there were times when my family said that I should be fair or I m not enough beautiful because I m not fair and they do got influenced by non other than bollywood so yeah they should stop influencing people to admire or idolize fair skin and should admire all skin types
I hope you talk about Hritik Roshan and his new gf saba too , as one day i just saw people commenting on their picture by using such absurd names for his gf like chipkali ne fasa lia and also saying that is she his son's gf , some were even commenting about her body parts shamelessly and that was really sad 😢😢
Yeah, don't understand when Hrithik likes her,why others have a problem? 😅 Jealousy maybe?
@@Livelivefullcircle that's exactly it. They're projecting their insecurities
Even in school i have faced racism..like some girls who have fair skin tone were selected as an angel in a skit or any kinda dance performance and also as a front dancer in any school functions.😷🍂
I m a short height girl and my height is just 5 feet...sometime people bully me for being short and seriously I don't care if I am short or tall...I am just special in my own way and I think that barbie doll figure doesn't exist in real life...everyone is special and everyone should be proud of themselves for being them...we r not here to satisfy the society...we r only here to live our life and we need not to fit in so called beauty standards made by this society to live our life to the fullest. And ye confidence agr kisi ke wjh se aaya h na to wo aap ho #spillbee . Thank u so much❤
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Ykw while growing up when I used to see actress and thier flawless skin tone and body, I used to be very insecure of my body hair and dark knees, armpits. I did all sort of things to just attain those so called Beauty standards. 15 y/o Teenager me didn't knew about editing software and reality behind those flawless bodies. Luckily I came out of that unrealistic Beauty standard bubble, thanks to some amazing influencers!!
We see Katrina, Tammanah dancing with milky skin tone and get obsessed with looking a certain way. I'm sure I'm not the only one who went through these stuffs!
Personally i dnt like armpit hair Bcz I keep my armpit hair and chest hair clean. So, it's personal preference but I dnt have any issue with darkness of the skin bcz diff people have diff skin and it's normal to have darker skin in those parts of the body m
I am really surprised that people really get influenced by the celebrities promoting such worthless products... I mean everyone knows that they are getting paid for the promotion and they have never in their used that product...even after knowing the complete reality how can people still get influenced by them❤️
Great explanation❤️
Bcs they want to be included and accpted too. It very common people making fun of someone over anything and it get worse when they r discriminated on the basis of it.
They rn't buying the products bcs they know it will work instead they r buying the hope of finally having a happier life.
Looks doesn't matter bus kehne ki bate h... In reality looks, colour and body size, shape everything matters but personality or soul or good intentions doesn't matter in today's toxic world
You are absolutely right
U r not overthinking I am also so done with these things. Sometimes I feel like we live in society jahan pe sabko ek paper pakara denge aur bolege these are beauty standard of this place so if u r not fitting in it so you have no right to live and that beauty standard bhi unrealistic honge.
When shraddha got tanned and attended a zoom meeting.... people trolled her for her tanned body... and told her that it was her no makeup look....
Thank you so much for reminding this again because people say this all over but again when it comes to them they flip their side... My sister is dark skinned and stunningly beautiful but because of these beauty standards and insta and these biased social media she is always insecure about herself and i always try to make her understand that loving ur self is important not the colour u see outside what they nothing . Seeing these double beauty standards hurts a lot
I love Lisa heden.. I think she's sexier than most of the 'beautiful' actresses... She's good in acting too but the roles she get🤐
Lisa, Deepika, Priyanka, Bipasha,Konkana all These Ladies are Beautiful ❤️
Remember when Bhumi pednekar was made to apply dark makeup in Bala
They could have given chance to a person of the same tone but noo. They Just won't
Similar Case in Anushka sharmas upcoming movie
This was so important to get discussed because in today's world we are faking everything and talk about that we should be real 🤣🤣
Thanks yrr i totally love your content atleast we have someone who bring these things in front of everyone.
Have you ever noticed that fair skin actresses don’t need to have much of acting talent but if you are dark skin or your complexion isn’t pleasing or if you don’t come under the so called beauty standards of Bollywood, you have to be good in acting!
I know I am off topic but what's your take on thugesh and that ex tiktoker controversy
Yeah pls do it
Its literally a senseless one, I think we shouldn't hype it..voh adnaan ko kuchh jyada hi hype milega faltu mein
Sab bas maje le rahe hai aur kuch nahi. Pichla Y vs T bhi pointless tha aur ab ka bhi pointless hai.
Thugesh is just so bully
Noo way....it shouldn't be given attention
Thank you so much for bringing this topic up. As a teenager I feel extremely insecure about my body and I am in a constant rush to make perfections in my body. But after listening to you I feel comfortable with my body and its unique features. So thank you so much ❤❤❤
I'm really happy that you talked about this
You know some people just wanna ignore this topic by accusing us for being insecure and jealous.
Man! WE ARE NOT INSECURE BUT THEY ARE. That's why they are creating such unrealistic standards 😕💅
I also have the same thought in this topic like in my friend circle there are some of my friends who like Jacqueline Fernandez ok it's fine it's there choice one day i ask what do you guys think about radhika apte konkona singh they said are they actresses they are not that much fair so it's about ki jo jyada fair hai wo acchi actress hai baat acting ki na ki fair dikhne ki🙄
No hate to Jacqueline but she's always there for glamour portion in most of the movies while her dialogue delivery is nothing infront of Radhika..i can't believe your friends think like that atleast people from our generation should have some common sense 🤡🧠
Its time to change opinions along with friends.
@@mehwish_fahim not gonna lie, you had me in the first half.
@@winterpromise2523 yes like if they like Jacqueline it's totally okay but as a model she is okay but if you are talking about actors or actresses so please note there acting
@@snehakhatun2402 Jacqueline, Disha aur katrina acting bhi karte hai? Well you learn something new everyday.
I once heard a dermatologist and a makeup artist say that “you should never expect your skin to be like models or be attracted towards them because no one actually has flawless skin, don’t forget that they use immeasurable amount of makeup to fix themselves which is naturally impossibly, the photos and videos of them you see are edited and multiple shots are taken with the presence of a hairstylist, makeup artist and designers.”
Embracing your own skin tone needs to be normalized. Where Indians and other Asian countries are trying to be fair, other half of the world are using spray tans to make them bronzed.
Indian actress that are doing
Good in Hollywood
Wouldn't be casted in Indian movies because of their skin colour
Actually the problem lies within us, we always like a person with fair complexion rather than a person with dark complexion. Kyuki pehele se hi logo ne line draw kr rakhi hai gore aur kale ke beech me. Even in some books we can see beautiful hona = gore hona and ugly hona = kale hona. Like bachpan se hi bacche ko smjha diya jata h esa. But now we need to spread awareness, which will take some time.
You did a great job making a video on this topic ❤️ thank you
Are people really ready though? I was seeing Bridgerton and was struck by how it embraced the dark South Asian skin and put it up front, and celebrated it. And still I saw so many Indians saying couldn't they get 'better looking' actresses. Both the South Asian girls in that show are very good looking, so basically it means that these people didn't like their skin colour. Sad but true. As a dark skinned girl myself, I hate it when friends take pictures and add filters that make me look like a ghost, but just don't comment on it.
Kate and edwina are such beautiful ladies . My God... I fell in love with their beauty the moment I saw them .... I don't understand how people could say they weren't beautiful enough..... their skin tone represents south Asian skin in its rawest form....
Very true.......look at USA, we have many main lead actress with Darker complexion even shows like Bridgerton made in Britain have lead actors with dark complexion...And here in Indian we have more than 50% with dark complexion...then too we have very few main lead actress with dark complexion.....I surely believe that if Simone Ashley would have been in Bollywood,she won't be casted even though she is an amazing actress.... Casting Directors should think that Indian is a country of people with varied colour.....Not always fair is beautiful...Such wrong beauty beauty standards should not be set.
Yess.... this is a real problem, I have dark skin ton and I don't like filters ....but everywhere I see people are really obsessed with fair skin ton they do not consider dark skin ton as a beauty, and everyone want's fair skin ton girls for their life partner too.
Arey this fairness problem is so deep rooted, my mother-in-law who is so frail and old that she cannot carry out her day to day activities without the 24 hrs Aya masi. But since the Aya masi is a bit on the darker side, everyday we get to see discrimination against her only because of her skin colour. But the irony is she cannot do anything without her help. We all laught at such things, the Aya masi too. But this is a very serious matter and is so deep rooted, that it's made its way into my family
i am a teenager .I'm scared to shave my underarms cause i have these tiny raised up moles in some places and am scared that the razor will cut it off and cause pain . but my mom day and night keeps shaming me for my underarm hair . i honestly dont feel bad about the hair but that my mom is forcing me .also she has never taught me to use razor or even given me one ,just randomly keeps telling me to shave . the only razor available in my house is that of my dad . i feel little disgusting to use his so thats another reason for not shaving ..
Every point is damn true girl... Same thing happens with me. I feel so uncomfortable to wear sleeveless. Nd I like without filter wala pics... Sachme. Lighting a66a ho to pics normally a66e aate hai, without filter.
Tbvh india's most cosmetics show fairness related products as the half or more of the Indian population is obsessed with fair skin
Even the songs have been made with words like goriye,chittiya kalaiyan..... And still these ads aren't counted in provoking racism ..
And moreover these all unnatural and unhealthy things are targeting females and few amongst them agree with out knowing the consequences
So vital a topic you have brought up to us... Love you for that ❣️
Jennifer Winget is quite raw and shows herself as she is maximum of the times... The initiative taken by Miley Cyrus is definitely awesome but we should also consider the fact that she gets an environment most of the times which has definitely people of broader mindset than Jennifer... Still Jennifer has that courage to be real... So, hats off to her and also to Miley... ❤️
i like kokna sen. and Nandita Das... they are very talented but I thought they didn't get lots of movie
3:00 Ohh god FINALLY SOMETHING TALKING ABOUT IT ! dude , because I went out with someone, and that guy said you need an upper lip , I was SOOO PISSED 😭😭 , also people judge me for not shaving/removing my arm and leg hair , I do remove my underarm hair but I don’t wanna remove my arm & leg hair as that does not bother me but no one understands; I once waxed my arm hair due to peer pressure & I regret it because I feel like I have a thicker hair growth now😭😭😭
Another thing about beauty standards is ageism.
I dont remember correctly but some bollywood actor said 'we don't hire older actresses because they dont look young'
Ageing is normal and its beautiful too.
Who the hell said that signs of aging are ugly? and why do we believe it?
It is is there in Hollywood and all over the world too, but that doesn't mean its not wrong.
Like older age actresses like Madhuri, Kajol, Kareena Kapoor, Aishwarya Rai, etc who were superstars in the last decade are barely in movies now.
Whereas actors like Salman, SRK Aamir, Akshay Kumar, Ajay Devgan, etc. Get casted with actresses who are their daughters age.
Can you make a video about the features which are called perfect like whenever I just search on Google about gorgeous people they show me face that look like having same facial features. One more thing is as I am just insecure about big nose I searched beautiful people with big nose to see how to take pictures and they show me how to make my nose look small in pictures. It actually made me feel insecure about my features
Tbh i feel like Bollywood girta jaa ra h time by time
Yes konkana is my favorite ,DUSKY BEAUTY ❤️ ❤️
Deepika and Priyanka too!
I love Jennifer winget!! She's so real unlike others!
That's really Dark and people really have fair complex everywhere.....and that's really sad
Thank you for bringing up this topic. I forcefully made my fourteen years old daughter to listen to this...of late there seemed a distance coming up between us and then i realised she suffers from a great deal of insecurity in front of me as she is not as fair as i am , on top of that, when she comes up with various solutions found in UTube videos, i outrightly reject them .This outrages her . Funny thing is that even at this age of 55+, some of the family members of my generation still discuss my complexion and consider it below average on the scale of fairness... Tragi-comic situation...
I love how u said unnecessary insecurities... I have recently started to feel like influencers and actors and all these people who do have even the slightest bit of impact on the society are and have been for a while diverting our attention to things we cant do anything about other that feeling insecure and worry... I would really really apreciate to see atleast a few REAL PEOPLE WITH REAL OPINIONS getting the centre stage for once... I would love to have a discussion if u feel like it coz i think a lot of people may have started noticing similar things or maybe i am just becoming aware of it...
U have pointed out a very important issue🙌🔥 hats off to ur thinking
Just today, my best friend asked me how much you will rate my beauty out of 10
Well.. I don't know how to judge anyones beauty so I was confused but after thinking I simply said 8 by judging her character and behavior so she was satisfied by my answer but I asked her how much you will rate to my beauty and I was surprised by her answer 6 because I was a little bit brown and something was missing in me.
I was heartbroken after hearing this I mean now beauty will be judged by skin color..... That's not FAIR 🙅
I was in my hometown during vacation and there while resting I accidentally shown my underarm and my brothers started laughing and I was clueless then my sister said that so I got to know about it my skin is too sensitive so it's not ok for waxing even shaving and I was getting insecure about this again again thanks to you I am feeling ok now ❤️
Hello spillbee, I just love all your videos 👍 They are really very much interesting and informative 😊 Lots of love from Odisha ❤
Glad you like them! lots of love to u too 🥰
Omg I got a like from you and the best thing is that you have replied to my comment which is a very big deal ❤😊💖
Why only Bollywood... This happens in regional film industries and doubt industries etc...
100 % Apki baat shi hy, jo koi nhi bolega
U just make amazing content ❤️
I think this the high time now.. Everyone should change.. Fair skin ho ya nahi uss se kya faraq padta.. And one more thing i want to add what i feel is that people are just normalising to tease someone on the basis of their skin complexion, size, shape... Etc.. People think that it is okie.. To say that u are dull or black to someone but it is not..
I think very less people are changing.. People still finds this okie..
This is so true that not only Bollywood but we people are aslo somewhere responsible because you can see insta comments on a dark complexion girls or boys vediods
Even my classmates once made fun of me saying he is only Kala in our class how shameful
Sometimes our mother also say that bachpan Mai bahut gora tha ab Kala hogaya
I have hyperpigmented underarms... Sometimes i feel little conscious but its fine wid me..
Yes Indian cinema (bollywood) should change there mind set of making film with those who have fair skin tone
I had seen alot of Hollywood series and films in which the main lead characters are of dark skin tone .....
And one more thing we're in 21st century why we focus on the skin tone why we not focus to handwork of people
Only one word, BTS
Bollywood mai yeh discrimination kam ho raha hai, south mai toh abhi bhi😐
Whenever i see actresses with such clean and proper shaved leg and armpit i thought that when i will shave i will also have such a clean armpit and legs . Bt when i did and then i was like why i m having such a dark armpit . I always use to think that why these celebs don't have problems like normal people .
Makeup don't make sense to me hehe.. But idk how there are so many fair skin tone people on Instagram now whereas it was not like that earlier I'm using insta from long time now and by seeing such girls I feel like I'm nothing and feel insecure about my looks I try to copy them (not in makeup aspects coz my skin is extremely sensitive I can't do makeup) like there poses there style.. Which I feel now is wrong
It's kinda same with me? Although I have fair complexion but i don't have those dominant features that our "society" consider beautiful (small nose, huge eyes and big lips etc) during pandemic i also gained weight so i became more insecure about myself (i gained almost 9 kg so it was a big deal for me ) and me being 2020 batch i had to go through college after spending a whole damn year at home so i lost contact with outside world and believed everyone looks damn beautiful as they are on social media..but when i went out i realised i was being toxic to myself and most of the people are average looking people like me so i gained my confidence back .. although i still struggle with it sometimes but still I am not that bad with myself now . So whenever you feel like you're not enough..as comparison to pretty people of Instagram....go out meet some real humans and remember that you're always comparing your behind the scenes to someone's highlights so don't do it
Ly ❤️🫂
@@winterpromise2523 I'm not black either but i have that brown Complexion that we indians have but Instagram is setting some different beauty standard I don't liked to use filters but now without using them I feel insecure about ny looks I need to change about that in me.. 😑
@@winterpromise2523 couldn't agree more..same thing happened to me..than i realize some people are more photogenic than others or they have better camera😂anyway i started working out recently and im feeling energized and more confident
Makeup does make sense unless it changes Ur skin tone...
@@Dank.man45 I said it doesn't make sense for me coz my skin is extremely sensitive I never commented about others
Yes people do ads and collaboration see its their job to do if you are promoting a brand and not using it that's okay. Lots of celebrities do promotions of a lot of brand and you can't expect from a one person to use a a lot of products and yes at the same time they need to or should also beware of a that thing they're promoting .
Exactly 🤭
Chlo koi toh Mila practical sochne wala🙏
Laser treatment doesn’t give spotless clean look. That requires monthly waxing too. Either it has to be done all over the body or there would be visible difference in skin color.
yes i don't understand why girls are so obsessed with makeup . Using cream for nourishment of skin is different thing but putting cream for fair skintone and with no pours with marks of any wound and ageing skin or flawless skin is not right thing . why cant pople be natural . few people defend this by saying that putting makeup boost my confidence i would like them to suggest that please work hard on your communication skill, personality development , body posture because if once you able develop these skills you don't have to worry every morning to put makeup to feel confident . once in a while is good but not every day .
This is so coincidental because not long ago, I too was having thoughts that "why Bollywood only portrays actresses of fair complexion? Why not actresses of colour?" We all talk about "Brown is Beautiful", but where is it? Why so much talk and no action? Even the actresses who had a dark complexion now got skin whitening. And this clearly doesn't give out a good message.
This is soo true, I also lived with this insecurity bring a dusky skin tone. But tbh I worked on my personality due to that I am grateful, that I didn’t fall in this trap of that fair skin tone is superior.Sadly I still see people with fair skin think that are superior to others, not all but atleast alot of them I came across.
I too had very dark underarms which I got due to using these hair Removal creams during teenagers... And I had been so much ashamed for it that I had to go for several sessions of chemical peelings and my darkness got removed upto 60% after 12 sessions but now I have decided that I am not gonna do any torture... I just try to take care of it now by a simple routine but no more treatment or anything...
Clicked seeing Jenny's photo on the thumbnal💖💖... She is perfect the way she is & I love her💖💖
I feel very insecure about my body hairs ....Afraid to wear sleeveless top and shorts
But now I am learning to live with it
I am not going for waxing, it's very painful
Katrina kaif brand kay beauty breaks stereotypes promoting acne skin , black , brown skin girls are on her promotion ads .. make video on her
I love her ❣️❣️❣️
Katrina toh khud insecure hai, lip fillers and skin enhancer. Ye toh wahi baat hogayi haathi ke daant khane ke kuch aur, dikhane ke kuch aur.
Yeh fair complexion Bollywood se jyada tollywood main hai.
We are having so much of double standards, you are absolutely right!!
its so overwhelming to see people talk about this issue .....im 15 and i have never shaved or waxed my legs or hands and idk why some people out there irrespective of their gender they judge females for having body hair ...like seriously are women supposed to like a plastic toy or something wtf is wrong w these beauty standards
Sabvysachi work with darker models for there dress and bollywood really need to learn from hin
Malayalam movie industry has to be mentioned. It’s not that they don’t have fair people in the state or they can’t get it from north or other industries but they want to speak the story of a typical girl next door and their girl doesn’t look like tamannah bhatia. Even sai pallavi with pimpled face being a tamilian was only taken in Tamil cinema bcos she gave a super hit movie premam in Malayalam industry. Same for actresses like nimisha sajayan who doesn’t even thread the eyebrows to look natural if her character demands it.
Your way of thinking is so good.....the way you tell and make us understand everything....is so amazing...
I wanted to request you can you pls make video....on why there is so much hate for BTS in India.... 💜💜💜
There are already alot videos actually... their success and their "looks" which typically Indian society doesn't consider masculine... obsession of Indian girls with BTS makes people jealous of them . Talking about looks whenever we find someone looking different from us we find that wired and for most of the people it's not common for them to see them they make fun of them . Joke is still fine for a limit but hating someone because of what they look like is concerning. after that the fandom... is known for being the most toxic fandom in the world... although army's always do donations of millions and help others but their good works are always hidden behind their poor representation. Most of the people in fandom don't take critisism ( not most actually but many) and that's why haters use them for hating BTS . That's all i could say thanks for reading ❤️🙂
My bro hates BTS cause their (girly)look ...He hates Koreans Saying they look like girls 😏
Hope He will understand I listen to their music not their faces....
I am not only BTS fan but Also Kpop fan
thankyou so much for posting this , from many weeks i was feeling bad that i have dark armpits , how will I wear any sleeveless, i even have dark knees , so I feel very uncomfortable while wearing anything , bcz girls of my age are kinda skinny , where I am chubby. But i will overcome this.
Being a dusky skin tone, I also hard lots of thing about my complexion. Some people really changed these kind of mindset but it's the hars reality, that any kind of show business wheather it's Bollywood actresses, or singers, performers, dancers, models, anchors, news readers, or even those girls who's always stand behind on stage to just present the trophy or momentos or flower bouquet ... Even there are everyone wants fair skin girls 😡. Very less few girls got oportunity on their talent n hardwork. N this also true fair people attacks more success than dark people.
I personally loved bridgerton for its diverse cast they all look so beautiful and what I feel is beautiful comes from inside if a person is confident enough then that shows on their face and that's beauty according to me
Your contents are really good . I am happy that you are arising those topics which people somewhere knew but no one speak in public. Since childhood l have faced skin colour racism but it is like so normalised in society that I even started believing that may be l don't fit in society beauty standard just because you are brown. Every body gives their advice for who to become fair. No one compliment you if you are not fair.
The under arms fact is relatable mam
You are really correct they have actually always shown the clean legs just the thing they do in period ads cramps mood swings stains leaving all this things they show the girl dancing just after wearing pad.
Thankyou mam for such great videos you are a true gem🌟🔥❤
It's not just about Bollywood it's in most of Indian film industry... And yes people still do this color thing even on new born babies so it's not just in films.
You deserve more subscribers. You talk about harsh truth. In my childhood I was not happy about my hair, colour complexion that time TV ads show Gori Gori ladki and reshmi ballo wali ladki . Us time sach me koi nhi tha jo beauty standard, inner beauty etc. Topic k bare me baat kre. I used to believe TV ads although I have never used kind of products but applied multani mitthi, haldi etc. Now I would like to thanks to u ki ab ki generation aware toh h.
Our Jenny is so real and bold that the haters can't handle ❤️
Jenny ? Who ? Do you mean Kim Jennie ?
@@i...am...marvelbtsfan1059 the jennifer winget I meant! Tv queen ❤️
After watching your this video yr i seriously feel calm & happy bcoz i have soo many flaws ki me apne app ko accept he nhi kr pa rahi thi now i feel relax
I stopped shaving completely I just ignore people who think I should not wear dresses with hairy legs
OMG just few min before I was thinking I wish filters never came in this world so people would hav been more natural
Di I want to share my opinion not only movies even tv dramas shows such unrealistic beauty standards you know when I saw such flawless legs of the female lead then I became so insecure about my body type. They show actresses with such beautiful hair such clean face this really affect the mental health of many teenagers like me. Even our society place an important role in judging our body type. Thanks for making me understand that this such unrealistic beauty standards don't even exist in reality. I am 16 and I really admire you as my elder sister ❤.
U are right darker shades are considered as inferior and lighter shades are preferred
Thats the exactly content I was looking for years...... i have preey dark underarm and my mom always say to cover it up.... But we should embrace it what we have... And be grateful for it
I used veet but it didn't give me the results as shown in the ads, so now I know why . Thank u for the videos. Your content is so relatable.