i’ve said it once i’ll say it again, PODCAST! this is basically a podcast anyway, I think you guys would love having one together!!! literally you could talk about anything and it’s gold. wonderful considered advice ❤️❤️❤️ !!
4:47 really hit close to home. Wished my parents thought about this... because theyre still so so so unhappily married. They've always talked about divorce but never did it. It was absolutely traumatising for my sister and I growing up..
Wow this is complicated the same as me, they don’t really like each other but still together and I think it would of been easier for me and my sisters if they had split up, sad but true x
Bless, I have had similar experience. Looking back would you want small kids to experience the parents together, but then as the kids have grown up it is better if the parents were apart?
@@Travis_22 Apart. If I were in that position, I wouldn’t want my children to see all the fighting, constant disagreements, unhappiness and overall negative energy. Children should grow up in an environment where it’s wholesome and full of love. Happy home = Happy children. As a child, it was hard because I felt like I had to pick a side. It was pressuring and it made me feel so anxious every day. As I grew older and as things got worse, I developed severe panic disorder and depression.. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a long time now. So yes, I would never want kids to grow up in an environment like that. It does affect their adulthood too.
I have to say, for the first question about dating your supervisor I think it really depends on the job. In my field you can’t even gift anything to someone who is your superior, yet alone date them. I’d say if you are beginning a career not necessarily an odd job I would not do it. I am an environmental engineer and I love my job, but having that separation of my work and personal life is a must for me.
I completely agree with this. If this is the first step in you career, cut it off. If it's a casual job that you don't really care about - then go for it.
24:14 I respect Zoe for saying that so much because it's something that a lot of us think of sometimes, either it is in the present or about the future. It's just so normal to think of these things and it definitely is not selfish, it just shows how much we care about our relationships. Overall, this video was so comforting, I felt like I was chatting with friends
My parents hated each other for as long as I can remember. Don’t even remember them sleeping in same bed. They didn’t get divorced until I was 18 though as they were “staying together for the kids”. I can tell you watching my parents hate each other and hear the constant name calling and arguing did way more damage to my mental health than if they just divorced as soon as they knew it wasn’t working. They both grew up without fathers so I know they meant well but in hindsight I’d have rather them be divorced. So Zoe hit the nail right on the head with that one.
Just to say... i loved the friendship question! It's SO normal for friendships to ebb and flow as people go through life changes. My friendships changed when they had babies and we saw each other less; but the same can be said when others got new jobs or got married, moved cities or started travelling more. Friends recognize that life changes and things get busy but it's important to always make an effort and prioritize your friendships when you can and have the capacity to do so! Also, friends with kids... keep checking in on your friends without kids!!
I honestly BEG that you guys bring out a podcast!! I would listen every week without fail (& I’ve not found a podcast that I’ve committed to yet) Honestly, I could listen to you guys for hours!! 🥰
Zarah and mike need a podcast where they get people on the phone to talk about their confessions. I know it’s similar to Alfie’s podcast but having them on the phone would get the good tea and answers.
I could honestly watch these for hours! It truly feels like we are just catching up as friends. You two have always been so humble, down to earth and relatable! I just love you both ❤
this is honestly just what I needed. My whole life has changed and I’m feeling so low and this has brought the BIGGEST smile to my face! Watching you both is so comforting to me and is making this hard time brighter. I wanted to let you know how much happiness you bring to the viewers. Sending all the love your way from Leicestershire🤍
This is totally what I needed today. You two are a breath of fresh air always xxx my best friend is a guy and we sit and talk just like you do. 30 yrs friendship x
This video was my favorite video because I feel like we really are your best friends too, and we get to be as equally as excited to sit and listen to chat as you are to hear from us.
Your friendship is just so beautiful, I really feel like I'm with the kindest friends when watching you two together! So hard to find a friendship like yours❤
I too am an avid over-thinker so I HATE first impressions. Especially when it’s someone you just meet and you don’t know if you’ll ever see them again… because maybe I come to the conclusion that I want to see them, but idk if they’ll want to see me because their impression of me wasn’t great. I can be quite shy and I’m like Zoe in the way that it takes time for people to get to know me, so meeting someone new in person is a challenge! Idk how to represent myself in the best way that will leave people interested and wanting more if that makes sense??
I met my partner at work(he was a manager) we then both left the job after so many arguments and the job itself not being great but we have now got separate workplaces, have bought our dream home and our first baby is on the way! It does work in some cases , just stick to it and if its meant to be it will be. Loved this video 💗
This is so cozy and all the feelz. Love this. More of this pls! 🙌 Very good insight! I don't want it to end!!! Someone suggested a podcast! I whole heartedly am behind it! 😍😍😍
For questions 1 & 2 I lived both first hand, my supervisor, who was still married told me he was interested in me, I was interested too. So I told him I couldn’t deal with a power relationship and external partners, so quit the job (and left the country because I moved for work) and told him we wouldn’t see each other until he fixed things. Seems like a crazy thing to do, but keeping your integrity is more important than liking someone. Months later we called and he fixed everything and it feels so good to do the right thing, life is really generous when you act with dignity.
I completely agree with you guys regarding red flags. I spent 3 mos of time with someone who was inconsistent & I would catch them in lies sometimes… not worth it. They never change.
You guys are so funny especially at the end when Mark was saying about leaning on the wall and it wasn't there, and the elf shoes omg... And then Nala perfectly signaled in her way that that was the end of the video 😆
6:07 - i was with my ex for 6 years, they strung me along for about 4 of those years. then dumped me when they found someone new… the damage that has done to my mental health is insane 😭😭 please never do that to someone. let go of people you don’t want to be with and allow them to grow & do new things. i will never get that time back!!!
My bf and I met at a previous job, 5 months later we got together and we are still together almost 6 years later at separate jobs now but worked together for the first 4 years together, live together and hopefully moving house soon ❤
28:37 anyone else see Zoe what looked like stroking Marc’s leg and thinking “that’s a bit strange” then realized Nala was on his lap and she was stroking her? 😂
You both should really do a UA-cam podcast together. These put me in such a great mood; I just like to hear you both chat really. Not even about anything specific, just chatting about life and what you've been up to.
For introverts like me. I searched my hobbies on UA-cam. Found a live stream watched a couple then started chatting randomly until I made a few acquaintances. Now I have a huge community of friends going on 6 years now and have met a few in person.
The work question, me & fiancé met through work & are getting married in 10 months time. As long as your both single & it’s not sackable in work, set boundaries & go for it! It worked in my case & I hope it does for you ❤
Me and my current boyfriend were friends and part of a bigger friendship group when we started dating. Our friends didn't know for the first 3/4 months but it turned out for the best ☺️ 7 years and still going strong 💖💪🏻
i’m the same as zoe when it comes to making friends. i go out with my extroverted friend to little shops and cafes and make friends so when i go back alone, they’re there again and i feel good to talk to them then.
Love ya! About friends and making them point -go for a walk with the dog! There is were I met some friend and a lover for some times!)) It can be more comf, because you are starting to spreak with each other about your pets and then you can go more in it!^*
I have just spent most of this video laughing- squeaky bum hole, teeth painting and elf shoes 🤣 Absolutely adore the two of you and if you could do this more often I would appreciate it..... PODCAST!?!??!?!? Yes plssssss xoxoxoxoxoxoxo😘
Liar 🤥 😂🤣….. you are both great a friends advice 🤗, I have never had a friend that has been like you both . I’ve had friends that wanted me as someone that makes them look better yes I was overweight brilliantly funny and a great crowd pleaser. But eventually something would happen and once again I’d realise and walk away . But I was hiding a huge secret and until I was 40 nobody new I was a Lesbian……. But within a year I found love Lisa 🥰and next March it will be our 17 civil marriage anniversary. We are so good together even though life chucked a few curveballs our way health wise we are amazingly happy , the friendship I was always looking for , the love I never dreamed would happen did and I’m 60 next year and after all that’s happened to everyone I feel extremely lucky. You have a special friendship that’s not to be taken lightly, honestly you are so good for each other . Ottie is going to learn how to be a brilliant friend to someone one day . Love you all xx
I needed this today, I love you two... I'm having a shit time with someone at work, they get away taking down to people. She bares a grudge with me, because I've spoken to area manager... Feeling lost right now. Lol the ending made me laugh, Nalas bum.
mark & zoe sit down = wholesome yet chaotic vibes always 😭
Why is youtube everywhere commenting 🤣
@@aleksandrad6801 I’m starting to think it’s hacked lol.
Ariana what are you doing here
We need a Zoe and Mark podcast!! 🫠 I loved this video guys 💗
I agree! It would be my absolute favorite podcast and I would listen everyday honestly I would die if you guys did this!
Omg yassss!
Omg yeeeesssss
plz do a podacst like plzplzplz
35 minutes of Mark and Zoe is what I need 🥰🤍
Could 👏not👏agree👏more
i’ve said it once i’ll say it again, PODCAST! this is basically a podcast anyway, I think you guys would love having one together!!! literally you could talk about anything and it’s gold. wonderful considered advice ❤️❤️❤️ !!
Perfect 35 minutes! Guys you NEED to do a podcast/vodcast!! Agony aunt / general chit chat reviews it would be golden … mark & zooo lol
This needs to be a podcast!!! I would listen to you both ramble about literally ANYTHING every week 🥹😍
Yes yes yes!!!!!! BRILLIANT IDEA!!!!! 🙌
Nala in front of the camera had me laughing so hard 😂
She was being a “bit cheeky”…..😅
I think the message here in all of this is 'Just be yourself and follow your heart' .... ❤
Mark I feel so connected with your videos lately, nice to see a single adult living their life and experiencing new things.
4:47 really hit close to home. Wished my parents thought about this... because theyre still so so so unhappily married. They've always talked about divorce but never did it. It was absolutely traumatising for my sister and I growing up..
Wow this is complicated the same as me, they don’t really like each other but still together and I think it would of been easier for me and my sisters if they had split up, sad but true x
Agree 💔
Bless, I have had similar experience. Looking back would you want small kids to experience the parents together, but then as the kids have grown up it is better if the parents were apart?
@@Travis_22 Apart. If I were in that position, I wouldn’t want my children to see all the fighting, constant disagreements, unhappiness and overall negative energy. Children should grow up in an environment where it’s wholesome and full of love. Happy home = Happy children. As a child, it was hard because I felt like I had to pick a side. It was pressuring and it made me feel so anxious every day. As I grew older and as things got worse, I developed severe panic disorder and depression.. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a long time now. So yes, I would never want kids to grow up in an environment like that. It does affect their adulthood too.
@@lilacblooms Thanks for your reply. I was thinking along the same lines.
I have to say, for the first question about dating your supervisor I think it really depends on the job. In my field you can’t even gift anything to someone who is your superior, yet alone date them. I’d say if you are beginning a career not necessarily an odd job I would not do it. I am an environmental engineer and I love my job, but having that separation of my work and personal life is a must for me.
I completely agree with this. If this is the first step in you career, cut it off. If it's a casual job that you don't really care about - then go for it.
Definitely don’t want a power imbalance either.
24:14 I respect Zoe for saying that so much because it's something that a lot of us think of sometimes, either it is in the present or about the future. It's just so normal to think of these things and it definitely is not selfish, it just shows how much we care about our relationships. Overall, this video was so comforting, I felt like I was chatting with friends
My parents hated each other for as long as I can remember. Don’t even remember them sleeping in same bed. They didn’t get divorced until I was 18 though as they were “staying together for the kids”. I can tell you watching my parents hate each other and hear the constant name calling and arguing did way more damage to my mental health than if they just divorced as soon as they knew it wasn’t working. They both grew up without fathers so I know they meant well but in hindsight I’d have rather them be divorced. So Zoe hit the nail right on the head with that one.
Just to say... i loved the friendship question! It's SO normal for friendships to ebb and flow as people go through life changes. My friendships changed when they had babies and we saw each other less; but the same can be said when others got new jobs or got married, moved cities or started travelling more. Friends recognize that life changes and things get busy but it's important to always make an effort and prioritize your friendships when you can and have the capacity to do so! Also, friends with kids... keep checking in on your friends without kids!!
I honestly BEG that you guys bring out a podcast!! I would listen every week without fail (& I’ve not found a podcast that I’ve committed to yet)
Honestly, I could listen to you guys for hours!! 🥰
When you've had a shit day and you have just sat down with a cup of tea and see THIS - perrrfect!
Zarah and mike need a podcast where they get people on the phone to talk about their confessions. I know it’s similar to Alfie’s podcast but having them on the phone would get the good tea and answers.
Who’s zarah and Mike
@@Jade.Mcritchie it’s what Zoe and mark call each other sometimes. They’ve been saying it for years.
God I just adore these two so much ,they bloody make me soo happy xx
Mark and Zoe sit down videos are such comfort videos for me💓 I always feel like I’m part of the friendship group watching these videos🥰
I love how real you guys are with each other and with the world its so calming 🥰
My gosh you guys don’t know how much I needed this in my life, life has been so horrid, thank you ❤️
I could honestly watch these for hours! It truly feels like we are just catching up as friends. You two have always been so humble, down to earth and relatable! I just love you both ❤
this is honestly just what I needed. My whole life has changed and I’m feeling so low and this has brought the BIGGEST smile to my face! Watching you both is so comforting to me and is making this hard time brighter. I wanted to let you know how much happiness you bring to the viewers. Sending all the love your way from Leicestershire🤍
Be wary of power imbalances with workplace relationships though!!!
honestly i cannot wait for more mark and zoe content, I've literally been rewatching all the old vlogs they're such a comfort for me🥰
This is totally what I needed today. You two are a breath of fresh air always xxx my best friend is a guy and we sit and talk just like you do. 30 yrs friendship x
This video was my favorite video because I feel like we really are your best friends too, and we get to be as equally as excited to sit and listen to chat as you are to hear from us.
This brought me right back to the videos you guys used to make like guessing what you were saying with headphones on 🥹💕
Your friendship is just so beautiful, I really feel like I'm with the kindest friends when watching you two together! So hard to find a friendship like yours❤
I too am an avid over-thinker so I HATE first impressions. Especially when it’s someone you just meet and you don’t know if you’ll ever see them again… because maybe I come to the conclusion that I want to see them, but idk if they’ll want to see me because their impression of me wasn’t great. I can be quite shy and I’m like Zoe in the way that it takes time for people to get to know me, so meeting someone new in person is a challenge! Idk how to represent myself in the best way that will leave people interested and wanting more if that makes sense??
I'm in hospital in Australia and awake way too early so this was the best feeling so see this notification pop up xx
Zoe saying “T’ara love!” Can’t tell u how many times I played that 😭😂
I met my partner at work(he was a manager) we then both left the job after so many arguments and the job itself not being great but we have now got separate workplaces, have bought our dream home and our first baby is on the way! It does work in some cases , just stick to it and if its meant to be it will be. Loved this video 💗
Just what I needed! Can’t wait for Zoe’s perspective !
it makes me so sad zoe doesnt feel confident in her appearance, before she mentioned it i was thinking how beautiful she looked x
This is so cozy and all the feelz. Love this. More of this pls! 🙌 Very good insight! I don't want it to end!!! Someone suggested a podcast! I whole heartedly am behind it! 😍😍😍
The best way to end a workday 💞 with great advice from the two of you! ❤ Nala’s bum shots toward the end 😂😂😂
I really feel like Mark should become a creative director or something in the timing industry, his ideas are PHENOMINALLLL!!!!!!
For questions 1 & 2 I lived both first hand, my supervisor, who was still married told me he was interested in me, I was interested too. So I told him I couldn’t deal with a power relationship and external partners, so quit the job (and left the country because I moved for work) and told him we wouldn’t see each other until he fixed things. Seems like a crazy thing to do, but keeping your integrity is more important than liking someone. Months later we called and he fixed everything and it feels so good to do the right thing, life is really generous when you act with dignity.
Absolutely loved this !!! & omg the carboot sitcom, these needs to be a thing!
Yup I see a successful podcast with these two, I love them both collectively. Make it happen please w a cherry on top ❤
I need a friendship like this 🥺💕
Thought Zoe was petting Marks leg/knee, turns out it was just Nala hahahaha
I completely agree with you guys regarding red flags. I spent 3 mos of time with someone who was inconsistent & I would catch them in lies sometimes… not worth it. They never change.
Yeeeees im gonna enjoy my evening now with a cup of tea and this video love you both 💖💖
Literally every time you both sing I remember that comment that asked Mark not to sing so they could hear zoe 🤣🤣 love ya both xx
You guys are so funny especially at the end when Mark was saying about leaning on the wall and it wasn't there, and the elf shoes omg... And then Nala perfectly signaled in her way that that was the end of the video 😆
Couldn’t have come at a better time. Appreciate these videos so much x
Zoe and Mark are my favorite example of platonic soulmates
Going through a breakup right now and this video has given me so much joy! Thank you 😊
So thankful this video was here today. You guys cheer me up tonnes! ❤
My fav duo forever and always 🥺😭
6:07 - i was with my ex for 6 years, they strung me along for about 4 of those years. then dumped me when they found someone new… the damage that has done to my mental health is insane 😭😭 please never do that to someone. let go of people you don’t want to be with and allow them to grow & do new things. i will never get that time back!!!
I love your friendship, it’s so non judgemental and goofy, and you speak about such interesting topics. Makes me happier when I’m feeling off
You have no idea how much I needed this today ❤️
My fav type of videos!!! Zoe and mark , love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
My bf and I met at a previous job, 5 months later we got together and we are still together almost 6 years later at separate jobs now but worked together for the first 4 years together, live together and hopefully moving house soon ❤
awwwww love the friendship vibes between the two of you xx
28:37 anyone else see Zoe what looked like stroking Marc’s leg and thinking “that’s a bit strange” then realized Nala was on his lap and she was stroking her? 😂
You both should really do a UA-cam podcast together. These put me in such a great mood; I just like to hear you both chat really. Not even about anything specific, just chatting about life and what you've been up to.
The F word is so pleasant when its spoken with a Euro accent...its more gentle or something. Y'all have the cutest euphemisms.
trying not to laugh out loud on the train 😹😹😹 loved this!!
You two are my favorite 😍 every video you film together is my favorite! 😍 thanks for making my day!
MY HEART IS SO FULL! ❤️
forever my fave duo
For introverts like me. I searched my hobbies on UA-cam. Found a live stream watched a couple then started chatting randomly until I made a few acquaintances. Now I have a huge community of friends going on 6 years now and have met a few in person.
The work question, me & fiancé met through work & are getting married in 10 months time. As long as your both single & it’s not sackable in work, set boundaries & go for it! It worked in my case & I hope it does for you ❤
Great advice you two...Bravo!!! 👏🥰
Please do a podcast it would make my life😂❤
Just that split second of nalas butole and zoe was absolutely hilarious 😂
Thank you for this!! Just the kind of pep talk I needed ❤️
Everyone need a mark and Zoe day
Me and my current boyfriend were friends and part of a bigger friendship group when we started dating. Our friends didn't know for the first 3/4 months but it turned out for the best ☺️ 7 years and still going strong 💖💪🏻
i’m the same as zoe when it comes to making friends. i go out with my extroverted friend to little shops and cafes and make friends so when i go back alone, they’re there again and i feel good to talk to them then.
Honestly this is got to be one of my favourite vids of you guys!xx
Love ya! About friends and making them point -go for a walk with the dog! There is were I met some friend and a lover for some times!)) It can be more comf, because you are starting to spreak with each other about your pets and then you can go more in it!^*
We need a zoo & mark podcast!!!!!!!
When Mark said “hey Siri.” My Siri started talking to me 😂🤣
HAHAHA those last 10 secs had me CACKERLING! xx
Supervise it is normally lower than the manager, so I say go for it ❤
You guys bring me so much joy ❤️
Zue and Ferris podcast in the making! 😊
So here for this podcast soft launch
We need a Zoey & Mark podcast
I have just spent most of this video laughing- squeaky bum hole, teeth painting and elf shoes 🤣
Absolutely adore the two of you and if you could do this more often I would appreciate it..... PODCAST!?!??!?!? Yes plssssss xoxoxoxoxoxoxo😘
Love Nala’s bum hole at the end! 😂 No but I love a Zoe and Mark moment.❤️
Love u guys , awesome advice. Nala farting is gold! 😂❤
Liar 🤥 😂🤣….. you are both great a friends advice 🤗, I have never had a friend that has been like you both . I’ve had friends that wanted me as someone that makes them look better yes I was overweight brilliantly funny and a great crowd pleaser. But eventually something would happen and once again I’d realise and walk away . But I was hiding a huge secret and until I was 40 nobody new I was a Lesbian…….
But within a year I found love Lisa 🥰and next March it will be our 17 civil marriage anniversary. We are so good together even though life chucked a few curveballs our way health wise we are amazingly happy , the friendship I was always looking for , the love I never dreamed would happen did and I’m 60 next year and after all that’s happened to everyone I feel extremely lucky.
You have a special friendship that’s not to be taken lightly, honestly you are so good for each other . Ottie is going to learn how to be a brilliant friend to someone one day .
Love you all xx
i love these ☺️ i talk to my phone as if i’m sitting with you guys giving advice too 😂
I hope you know how happy this video made me 💕 thank you
Mark & Zoe my fav 🫶🏻
Markkkkkk drop the skincare routine 🤩 you’re glowing
Didnt realise Narla was on Marks lap and just thought Zoe was stroking his leg ahahah
Advice from mark & Zoe I am here for that❤
You don't need fake tan, you look beautiful as you are
Ok, time for a podcast 💞💞💞💞
God you guys need a podcast
OMGGGG MORE MARK & ZOE VLOGS PLSSSS
“You know your single when you get lied by Siri” 😂😂😂
I needed this today, I love you two... I'm having a shit time with someone at work, they get away taking down to people.
She bares a grudge with me, because I've spoken to area manager... Feeling lost right now.
Lol the ending made me laugh, Nalas bum.