Parenting Style, Traits We Love & Would We Move House? | Vlogust Day 16
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- Опубліковано 16 сер 2023
- Parenting Style, Traits We Love & Would We Move House? | Vlogust Day 16
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Watching how alfie looks at Zoe when she’s talking is just the purest thing ever
My favourite thing about Alfie, and for as long as he has known Zoe, is the way he looks at her. So loving and kind and calm. You can tell just how much he loves her and this is all the time. I'll be watching and just spot Alfie watching Zoe with smile eyes 😊
Over an hour?? We’re spoiled!! Thank you Zoe and Alfie for working so hard all month!
I wonder at what point while editing Alfie was like: " Fuck it, it's going to be a long one today!" 😂
I need snacks for an hour long vlog!
The love in Alfie's eyes for Zoe is priceless.
The contrast of the way they film Ottie vs how Anna and Jonathan filmed their kids is insane, I have so much respect for zoe and alfie x
alfie saying he would take away zoes anxiety and swap with him when shes anxious is the sweetest thing
The "little editing" and loong answers were THE PERFECT COMBO FOR TODAY! Just what we all needed
Alfie saying “I definitely want the girls to grow up here” I was like awwwww the girls 😭 I can’t believe how much this beautiful family has grown. I love them sm.
Did anyone else reach their hand out to hold Zoe’s and do the deep breaths? It honestly made my day!! Thank you Zoe and Alfie! 🥰
8:04 the way Ottie pats her tummy when she said "Daddy's lunch" HOW IS SHE THE CUTEST LITTLE GIRL EVER!!!?!?!?!!!!!! i cannot get over how smart she is
The popsicle clip with Zoe and Ottie was sooo adorable 😊🥰
Zoe and Alfie's interactions while answering the questions was so great. 😊 I love that they still have so much fun. It was so nostalgic hearing them talk about the past. I remember when Zoe first moved to Brighton. 💕
i think a Millennial Parents Podcast with you and Alfie would be so comforting and fun to listen to every week !! answering questions - covering parenting topics. PLEASE!! being a parent myself and going into my mid 30's would be so lovely to listen to
Zoe: Matil-
Ottie: LITTLE BIT NAUGHTY!!!!!!
shes so cuteeee at 13:02
My fav parenting quote that helps me a lot "Hes not giving me a hard time, hes having a hard time."
When Alfie was asking what none gentle parenting meant, it healed something in me. The way you two work together is so admirable
So glad Alfie and Zoe think about ottie first and foremost. It is refreshing to see parents not want or need to profit off their children. Forever grateful for what they do allow us to see because ottie is adorable and such a little bundle of joy (from what we see 😉 lol). Although I’ll be sad when the time comes that ottie is no longer in the videos, I thoroughly appreciate and respect Alfie and Zoe for that decision. They’re going to raise such beautiful girls who know they’re loved and well taken care of. Parenting can be extremely difficult and tiring and you feel like you mess up all the time. You feel stressed and exhausted and overwhelmed but please always remember your own childhood. I for one don’t remember my mothers overstimulated days. Her days she was too exhausted to play. I strictly remember her being beautiful and loving to me in general. That’s what ottie will remember. That’s what the new baby will remember. You two are doing amazing. I love the chats between you both at the end of the videos. I could watch just you two for hours being real about life and parenting and making jokes. I’ve been watching since I was 14 and I’m 25. You’ve both very much feel like older siblings to me. I just wish you both the absolute best in life. P.s I’m American and want to go to the UK strictly to visit Brighton because if you guys lol 😂
The ice lolly time lapse was just the cutest thing! Her little legs dangling over the step. She makes me want a child so badly!
A WHOLE HOUR? Thank you Zoe and Alfie! ❤
21:34 THIS MOMENT IS SO FREAKING CUTE, i feel as if i witnessed something so intimate ❤️❤️❤️
51:41 Alfie saying “I wish we could”.
I can’t right now 😭 that is so sweet 🥹 🥰
I REALLY appreciate the conversation about children being shown on social media and just hearing how you've discussed it and thought through your decisions on those boundaries.
When we started talking about having a baby, I ended up down a worm hole of showing children on social media and its something I never considered as someone who grew up before the social media boom. I think a lot of people our age don't think about it!
I look forward to future conversations about you and your children and the relationship with social media.
It really is a softer side to Alfie being a parent for sure.. The way he is with Ottie really shows that :)
The part where they were praising each other as parents was really sweet. What a lovely little family they are.
I often have to remind myself that I don’t ACTUALLY know you guys even after more than a decade of following you. But this vlogust makes it even harder 😂 because it feels like through questions like these or the way you act around each other is even more intimate than any vlogs ever before. I really love it. Thank you for being you.
I have never put myself in the shoes of a youtuber/influencer and how difficult it must be to show your children to such a big audience. It saddens me of course to suddenly not see Ottie and baby #2. But I absolutely respect the hell out of how protective you are of her. You guys are amazing parents. I have a son and I can’t imagine my socials not being on private.
1 hour of Vlogust! I am saving this one for when I wind down with some tea tonight. ☺️
As a brightoner since birth for me it's just always felt like it has the perfect balance of everything and just has such safe and homey vibes 💛 we're just the best little community
1 hour vlog is a treat! Alfie is the GOAT for editing the vlogs
I could never have imagined how amazing Zoe would be as a mom. It is such an honor to watch her
My fiancé and I watch your vlogs and we both agree how much we love the childhood you’re giving Ottie. She’s not a “screen time baby” like so many are these days, she’s out and about and making memories and that’s so special in this day and age ❤
Ottie is the reflection of the wonderful parents you & Alfie are. You guys are doing amazing.
It has finally happened! An hour of Zoe! ❤
OMGG 1 HOUR OF ZOE! I’m in heaven😍
Yesssssss 🎉
My favourite thing about Zoe (from what i can see from your vlogs since many years ago) is that she brings so much joy and comfort to people. She's the best host, She's that friend that makes you feel excited for your birthday. She's able to make the ordinary extraordinary. ❤️✨ Sending you both, Ottie and baby #2 lots of love all the way from México. 🇲🇽🇲🇽🇲🇽
I love how Zoey is now clapping her hands a lot more like Alfie does in his video's 😄
I love Zoe's ability to just be and exist in the moment, and to allow herself to be content with 'enough'. I also love Alfie's drive to learn and soak up every opportunity that he is presented with or creates for himself and his determination to be better. I hope your girls have that balance of fearless confidence to search for more combined with acceptance and contentment of being in the moment and absorbing it because it's those existential moments that are undervalued. Great parents, great teamwork, really lucky children. 💕
An hour long? Well this is definitely the sign I needed to have a self care night✨️
Thank you so much for the time you and Alfie put in these vlogs🫶🏾
Zoe, I've been a silent watcher for over 10 years! Your vlogs are the only ones I watch, they make me feel so cozy and relaxed 💗
I loved your section on talking about what you film of Ottie. I can hand on heart say you are doing so right by Ottie, and I don’t think she’d have any issues with what you show of her, and I feel it’s great that you have said at some point she will go from the videos and that makes so much sense. We’ll all miss seeing her hugely, but totally appreciate why you would do that. Up to school age kids can’t do anything that would be deemed as embarrassing to them as they are just so cute, but the older they get they might start to not like certain things that they did on camera looking back. Aww you are both fantastic, and your girls will be so lucky having you both as parents ❤❤❤❤ xx
I’m a single mom and I work remote and my 18 month old didn’t want to nap today. I’ll be repeating ‘how can I make this easy’ from now on. Thank you for sharing your parenting experiences. I love the reminders that I’m not alone in this journey. You’re very inspiring and im grateful for these vlogs everyday. They keep my single parent stress and anxiety away for a bit. Your hard work and uploading is helping a lot of us feel less alone. ❤
The way Alfie looks at Zoe and gets shy when being complimented and the way he said “thank you” 🥺 You two are the cutest ❤
Girl the real parenting moment was just what I needed to hear 😂 Sorry you are going through it but my husband and I are in the thick of it as well. Gotta love toddlerhood 😂🤪🫠
I cannot even describe how happy a 1hour Zoe vlog makes me! thank you so much guys for putting such an effort this month, we are all loving it ❤️
I've been a silent watcher since 2015!! but today the chat you and Alfie had about parenting really touched me, so i had to comment! You're both so incredibly smart about every aspect of Ottie and watching you parent her heals my inner child. You are both such amazing humans and such amazing parents :)) I cant imagine the joy these videos will bring Ottie when shes older is beyond exciting!!
Ottie is SUPER smart for a two-year old. She is just amazing. I love how Zoe and Alfie are always encouraging her with praise. Good job, Alfie and Zoe!
Over the last 10 years of watching Zoe and Alfie, I have learned so incredibly much. I have so much gratitude for the positivity they spread. It’s helped bring me out of depression and learn how to live and be. I love it.
AAAAAH A ONE HOUR VLOG!!!!!! thank you for sharing these special moments with all of us, thank you Zoe & Alfie, we appreciate it so much!!
Watching this in the hospital whilst waiting to go in for an operation, sometimes you just need a 1 hour long homely vlog to make you feel better ❤ thanks for uploading after a challenging day of parenting Zoe and Alfie!
I have never needed a video more than this one. Had a very stressful day today with receiving A level results & was immediately clouded by thoughts of Uni, moving, family etc along with hearing some upsetting personal news. It's been very overwhelming & i've felt lost for guidance. but THIS VIDEO is everything i needed and more. Both of you being so open about your own struggles, sharing your coping mechanisms & allowing us to destress with you. I mean, when zoe jokingly told us to hold her hand while we took a deep breathe I actually teared up a little & felt a weight had been lifted. Massive thanks to both of you for being such incredible & inspiring human beings. You both motivate me in different ways to keep growing, learning & have confidence in my future. In conclusion, vlogust is an absolute GIFT.
A WHOLE HOUR?!?!?! AAAA THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR IT!!! Truly loves the little moments of the family as well as the q&a. It was hilarious and heart-warming... 🥰
i hope i wasn’t the only one to clench my fist next to the screen and take a deep breath with zoe and alfie😂 had a very anxious day today and this was a lovely thing to settle down to watch with a cup of tea and some choccies
It's actually a life goal for me to visit Brighton if I ever travel to the UK. I literally take a mental note of all the things you guys talk about and point out. From what you guys have shown it just looks so beautiful and refreshing.
I just wanna say - I had a really hard day today, and it made me both laugh and cry when Zoe reached out her hand and invited us all into taking a few deep breaths together. Just meant a lot and I appreciate you both - not just for the content you create but the honest way you invite us into it. Much love ❤
Wow 🤩 wow 🤩 wow 🤩 We are being absolutely SPOILED with an hour long vlog. It is beyond adorable when Ottie says “A little bit naughty” 🥰 I wonder if Alfie gets all warm and fuzzy editing these vlogs. He gets to see Zoe and Ottie being so cute together.
This vlog is a sign that you guys should defo start a podcast! Enjoyed that chat so much ❤❤ I also appreciate how much work you put in making your videos and how responsibly you film ottie. You both are class apart from most of the influencers/content creators and I am so proud that I have been watching your vlogs since like 9 yrs ❤
Oh my gosh the thing that alfie said about Zoe having the ability to know when to stop is so trueeee. I’ve never heard somebody voice this just how I feel. It is exhausting to always be thinking about the next thing to do! I’m with you alfie!
Zoe, holding out your hand to de-stress with us all was the comfort I needed today! I felt like I was sat with you both! Thank you 💓
Hope you enjoyed what looked like a lovely sunset and enjoyed the unedited talk! Trust yourselves to be able to make the right decision when it comes up as a parent.
I’ve had quite a stressful week of night shifts at the hospital, and Vlogust has helped me decompress every day this week. I loved hearing your thoughtful answers. On another note, just wanted to give you guys kudos on your loving parenting and how much you do to help Ottie learn and develop. It makes my pediatrician heart warm. ❤
I’ve been rewatching old seasonal vlogs and I feel so warm 🥹 I feel like we share such similar senses of humor, I find myself laughing along with you 🫶🏻 thank you for bringing sm comfort to those who really need it. You’re my go to comfort watch when I’m feeling a bit sad, anxious or alone.
OMG 1 HOUR WITH LOVELY FAMILY. IM IN HEAVEN? Thank you sooo much. This is the best day❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ottie's vocabulary for her age is amazing!
Ottie looking up at the look up part in the book was so cute 😂😂
I can't stop smiling!! This was the first vlog that you referred to your kids as "the girls" and it made me so happy!!! These video's bring me so much joy!!! Cheers from Santa Cruz, California a town very similar to Brighton!
In the clip of Zoe and Ottie on the couch watching Matilda, I think Ottie looks so much like Alfie. I think when she was little she really looked like Zoe and now she’s starting to look more like Alfie ☺️ cute!
I love watching Alfie and you answering questions and just chatting like normal.
This was probably my favourite vlog of you guys so far. It was so genuine and breezy. ❤
I am loving vlogust, don’t want it to end! Fair play to Alfie doing most of the editing! ❤️❤️
AN HOUR?! 🥳❤️
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I know everyone says this but I’m so impressed with otties speech it’s unreal
I thoroughly enjoyed holding hands & deep breathing in the garden. I needed that as of late. I’ve had an emotional 17 months. My Dad passed 22 March 2022 and my Mom passed 18 March 2023. Your vlogs always make me smile.
Thank you for being a ray of sunshine on a dreary day.
so beautiful to watch two people who love each other talking about their life together :)
Thank you genuinely from the bottom of my heart for making these videos and allowing us into your lives. I’m a quiet subscriber, but i felt like now was the time to express my gratitude to how much the two of you made an impact on my life when I was younger. It’s such a joy to see you both still so in love and looking forward to the future with your growing family. It makes me hopeful and excited for my own.
Seriously, thank you!
A real Zoe documentary! We love 🤩 x
Oh my goodness, this vlog is a goodie.
Zoe and Ottie eating an ice block together in the sun,
You two chatting about your futures, and it is the nicest thing ever. I love how you both have eachother in every way, and to be able to watch you both love eachother, honestly makes my day every single vlog so thanks xx
needed an hour of zoe to watch while I get work done
I had a really rough day with my anxiety and not eating due to that. This is the perfect thing to just chill and relax. Can't wait to watch it!
Aw hope you have a beautiful rest of your day 🤍 Wishing you blessed days ahead and hope you have a nice warm meal!
Ottis’s little rainbow shoes are SO adorable!! 🥰
I love love love your boundaries with ottie and youtube and social. So so soooo good. Also totally get what alfie was saying about zoe being able to be comfortable. I think what he was saying is that she knows how to switch off, and he doesn’t. He can’t stop going.
Gosh - Ottie's already grasped one-to- one correspondence - excellent ghost counting! Alfie, you are so right about putting the work in now and being consistent with Ottie. Your efforts now will definitely pay off. You two make a great team.
currently 16 weeks pregnant with my first and was just telling my husband how much i’ve been enjoying these videos because it gives me a sense of hope into what being parents is like!
You guys celebrate each other and are very compassionate with one another. It's really sweet to watch
Haven’t laughed so hard in a long time. Love Vlogaust. I actually took a deep breath with you and spat acros the screen in laughter. It’s so real. Almost better than vlogmas. Because summer. But no cinnamon. It’s a tie.
I love how honest, real and genuine you answer the questions ❤
You two are such lovely parents.
I have so so much respect for how you film your family life! I just hate those vlogging families who use their crying children for clout lol.
This is just the perfect thing you guys are doing
Because of you guys I changed the way my bf and I have arguments. Before I'd shut down and not speak or sit in anger but now my first thought is " well this is my forever person" and I instantly calm down and changed the way I speak to him in a much kinder, I want a future with this person type of way. I see things in a more long term way
I love this kind of video! The long chat in the garden is very comforting. Seeing the way you two parent together is so admirable. ❤
I’m a 3rd grade teacher and I also had a tough day with my kiddos today. Thanks for the deep breathing and the smiles. 💕
Each vlogust video makes me gain so much more respect for the two of you. It is so beautiful seeing this new generation put in so much thought into things that could affect their children in the future. Absolutely incredible! Hats off to the both of you ❤
Long vlogs are just my fave! Enjoying my lunch as I watch this. Also does anybody else love how Alfie just looks at Zoe while she’s chatting away gosh such pure love is what that is❤
these kinds of videos with the lil q&a segments make me soso happy and calm
I could watch them talk in the garden for HOURS it’s so comforting ♥️
This was just such a calming vlog. Ottie and dads lunch in that huge box was just hilarious.
I really love these chill q&a vibes. The think I’m the spot answers were both great and so funny. I definitely would love more of this vibe. Especially on the days where you’re both just not feeling up to do a whole lot. This is a lovely way to just chill and relax but have fun.
Have a lovely evening. ❤
Over an hour!! You really are spoiling us😊😊 loving vlogust so far, gonna miss it when it’s over😢
I moved to Brighton for 4 years when I went to uni and I fell in love with it. When I graduated I had to move home (because the only downside to Brighton is rent prices!) and I miss it more than I ever thought you could miss a place.
Omg the parenting style was my question!😢❤
Best believe I smiled so much when I noticed how long this video was!!!🥰 currently over half way through and I’m loving this vlog so much! Thank you guys so much🥹🥰xx