Sarah's endometriosis is getting worse...
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- it’s been an insane journey over the past couple of years trying to deal with this endometriosis stuff. To any one out there dealing with it, we are sorry.. it’s such a difficult situation but we are trying to always stay positive as we’ve been blessed with 2 beautiful kids (which we know is a miracle). There are also so many success stories of other women navigating it which gives us a lot of hope! If you have any tips or advice on how to deal with it let us know in the comments 🙏🏼 we love you all and are always grateful for the major support you show our fam!
My vote for Sarah is to do what she wants with her hair. 🥰 it’s HER hair 💗
Sarah, as a person who loves tattoos I would suggest putting it on the front of your arm so you can see it. My first tattoo, which is a portrait of my son is on my shoulder and I regret that I can not see him all the time.
@@lynnfoster6298That's an awesome tip! I'm looking into getting a sleeve&these tips help me so much!
Absolutely this
I really love the red hair but you gotta do you.😊
Love love love the red hair on you, but…you should do what makes you feel best. ❤
I agree that Sarah so do what makes her feel good!
Also agree with many that have said, Sunny needs a few more NO’s in her young life.
She will be grateful when she gets older and won’t be so disappointed when she doesn’t always get what she wants.
Y’all are good parents, fun parents, but set boundaries on camera and off camera.
Love y’all, from Texas.
Has she ever been told no? 🤔 she doesn't behave like it
People have been telling them they for years. I’ve never heard either of them say no to their kids.
Hi there. I have endometriosis and have had so much success with an IUD. It disrupts the growth and helps so much with all the period things. I’ve had mine since 2013 and the last 11 years have been a real blessing whereas before it was literal Hell on Earth! I hope you feel better and hang in there, this is just one of those valleys in life.
Came here to comment the same thing!! Night and day difference with my IUD
Sorry to hear about your struggles with endometriosis! As a fellow endo patient who has gratefully been able to say “ I’m endo free for 5 years” is an incredible feeling. Yes, even impossible, as most doctors will tell you. Dr. Andrew Cook in Durango Colorado is a board certified endo specialist and is truly the BEST!
I'm all for Sarah doing what she wants with her hair. 😊
I dnt think you should make kids share everything.
It's her hair. She should do what makes her feel good.
Having to do your hair every 3 weeks in your busy schedule has to be a burden. Wait a bit when things aren’t so chaotic for you all. ❤❤❤
If I didn’t color my hair it would be pure white. Derek, it is a pain in the neck to have to color roots every three weeks. By the end of two weeks the white is already showing so I usually wear a hat in public during week three. I color it myself but it’s about $100 including tip for a professional so Sarah should be able to decide on what she is willing to put up with. 😊
Sunny is the right age to be just learning boundaries and sharing.
Yeah it’s that fine line between infancy and terrible twos💜
vocabulary or sign language too! i'm a teacher at a preschool & kiddos her age are often frustrated because they lack the speech to specify their needs 🤍 started sign with my 2s and in 6 months they had 40+ signs! it teaches them bodily awareness and imprints more pathways in the prefrontal cortex than monolingual children. also, self regulation clicks best at this age! maybe phase out the bottles and pacifiers to opt for breathing exercises or an age appropriate comfort item like a stuffed animal 🧸
Yeah and aren’t you the right age to be learning that keeping your opinion to yourself is a good option?
Her hair will be fried if she continues this EVERY 3 weeks. Vote for Sarah!
Red looks amazing on Sarah!!!!!!
@@AngelasAdviceI absolutely agree, but continuously coloring will destroy it.
What choices are there?
Henna for sure! If she wants to stay red it's the best option. Doesn't fade nearly as much, can get the same color easily, it's actually healthy and conditioning to hair and makes it thicker over time by binding to the outside of the hair shaft instead of penetrating it like regular dye, has no harsh chemicals like PPD (can cause hair dye poisoning), and she can highlight or bleach it to a strawberry blonde if she wants
Yes should use root touch up spray week 3 thru 6!
Do it with natural colours or with Henna, what I do. 😮
Sarah - if you trace the design and mark it in the position where you'll see it all the time, do a sharpie temp of the design to see how it will affect your emaotions before the real thing. Hope this helps ❤💜💙
Good idea
The Temporary Tattoo Is a Great Idea!!
I wonder what you think about getting it ABOVE your elbow crease on the inside of your arm? That way it isn't always reminding you, but it's easily seen when you want to see it! On the back of your arm is Really out of sight, out of mind & I question the point of having it there. Since you would have to go out of your way to see it in a mirror means you would have to think of her just to see it.
On my above suggested location you would Only Occasionally see it, which would likely bring you Joy because of the surprise of seeing it. Hope this Helps!!! ❤
P.S. I'd like to Place My Vote FOR You to Keep Your Hair Red!!! However, YOU Need To Be The One Who Is HAPPY, So Do Make Your Decision With That In Mind, Otherwise It Would Feel Like A Burden (or something you Flat Out Dread) & Not Something That Makes You Feel More Beautiful. On That Note:
Always Remember How BEAUTIFUL You ARE No Matter What Color Your Hair Is!!! ❤❤❤
One Last Thing -- I Think Y'all Were Questioning Moving Back to Hawaii? If So, I Would Say If You Can Afford To Do So, Then My Thought Is Yes, Do. I Can Remember Videos When Y'all Were Originally Packing To Move From There. Even Then Y'all Were Voicing Doubts About Leaving. Also, There Have Been Videos Where You Expressed Maybe Wishing You Hadn't Moved -- & When You Visited Your Friends There Y'all Were Really Enjoying Yourselves & SO Sad When It Was Time To Leave. The Children Are Young Enough That They WILL Be HAPPY Wherever They Live! However, Before You Know It They Will Be Old Enough That Uprooting Them Will Affect Them. Do You Think Tanner & His Crew Would Move Back, Too? There's a Lot to Consider, But Y'all Need to Be Where You ARE The HAPPIEST!!! ☺️❤
I think that is a great idea! I was thinking of doing my brother's initials and birth/death dates. I miss him so much. We were barely a year apart and so close growing up. It will be 15 years in August and not a day goes by that I don't think about him.
This is an amazing idea that a temporary tattoo on where you might want it and maybe try behind your right or left shoulder too. Hope she does see your idea for again, it is amazing.
I think you need to make the decision about your hair color. It's your hair. I'm not into tattoos so I couldn't say. I just know if I saw it everyday, it would make me so sad all the time but everyone is different.
Hey Sarah, I do know your pain! I lost my first ovary at the age if 17..they said that u would never have children..well 5 children later and 21 grandbabies, I can testify that I think yall gonna be ok.. I have endometriosis and adimetriosis.. the only difference is, endo is endometriosis tissue on the inside and adimetriosis is endometrial tissue on the outside of your uterus.. I'm almost 56 yrs old now and yall are so Blessed and God's got yall, so don't fear or stress too much, just be thankful!! Love all yall soso much
Good info‼
I had endometriosis and never knew it always thought that I just had heavy periods by the time I had everything really seriously checked out I had calcified fibroids all in my uterus and at a hysterectomy, and they had to actually break up the calcified fibroids to get them out be careful you can lose a lot of blood and it’s very very painful
I too have endo, severe stage. I went 30 years undiagnosed. I’ve had over a dozen surgeries in the last two years. Praying for you 🙏🕯️, it’s the worst.
If you still had a they functioning ovary strange that you wouldn’t be able to get pregnant
NO such thing as adimetreosis. Endometriosis is uterine tissue OUTSIDE the uterus. It'd be normal if the tissue was on the inside. Google it.
Sarah you need to do whatever makes you happy but, the red hair is sooooo flattering on you!
Sending love to you Sarah, I hope you can get the support & relief you deserve ❤ i have fibromyalgia & chronic joint pain and can empathise with how debilitating being in constant pain can be. My mum had endo & remember her being in a lot of pain and had a couple of ops when i was 6-9 to remove the clots, but she finally ended up having a hysterectomy when i was 10 & my big sis was 14. It's a condition many females experience & is not researched enough, nor is there enough medical support for those with it xxx
So sorry Sarah's endo is flaring up. I managed mine with two laser surgeries two years apart and taking low dose birth control pills. Praying she finds the right solution for her.
So Sunny learned that if she screams she gets what she wants. “No” doesn’t mean “No”. You have to set boundaries. Trust me, you will all survive it.
I agree, all children need boundaries.
UA-cam supernanny how to stop whining
I agree, its an extremely bad habit to form for young kids, they get older and they don’t grow out of it, it just gets worse
I have notice on the second child the older child talks for them, at least it was that way my girls!
I agree also. The cereals she wanted? Give them to her in a small bowl, even if she is angry about it. You must know all that, right?
Sarah you have been added to my prayer list for those suffering with endometriosis.
My daughter is 32 and had her endometriosis surgically removed in 2022. The doctor gave her a video of the procedure, and it was eerie to watch her dig around with a robotic arm and remove it from multiple organs (and remove her appendix). But it only gave her a few months of relief. She had a hysterectomy last year and is now pain free and the bloating is gone. So sorry you're experiencing this, Sarah. I enjoy your family chronicles and appreciate how real you both keep it.
I have mine on my shoulder. For my nephew who died when he was 8 years old from cancer. I always have an angel sitting on my shoulder.
LOVE THIS...AN ANGEL ON YOUR SHOULDER!😇♥️
You don't have to have an AnGel on your shoulder. Your nephew will always your 😇 👼
Tattoo
Jack is truly advanced when riding his bike. He is amazing!
On your shoulder!!! That's where a personal angel would sit!❤
I’m wish Sarah on the hair thing. She’s a full time mom of two little ones & keeping up with her hair is hard especially if it’s something she already doesn’t want to do. She’s beautiful blonde. The change was good for a bit but I’m super ready for the blonde back!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Put it where you can see it. My husband signed “I love you” after he took his last breath and I have that tattooed on my wrist. I smile every time I see it.
My husband would sign his initials in a different way on invoices to pay.
I’ve got that on my wrist with a little heart.
I vote for whatever Sarah wants to do to her hair!
I feel for you girl! I did have the operation to remove my Endo and it changed my life for ever. The pains went away totally. Hope you find ease soon. Hugs
I used to dye my hair this deep shade of red and yes, it is very tiring. So I ended up going back to brown and then I realized just HOW RED my hair actually was, even when I thought I needed to dye it again. Now I want it back lol The thing is, you have to go with your gut. Sometimes it's just too much work. However, if you feel like going back to red, then do. Just remember to always keep it hidrated, understand how your hair works to keep it healthy and just do what your gut tells you, girl. You'll be good no matter what :)
I too had stage 4 endometriosis. After multiple surgeries the Dr said there wasn’t anything more that he could do. I was taking 6 birth control pills a day and still having breakthrough bleeding. The Dr knew I wanted to have children but said it came down to quality of life at that point. I had a complete hysterectomy at 35. I was blessed with a son when I was 38 through adoption and a daughter 22 months later. We have an open adoption with both of our birth mothers and their extended families. Blessings to you Sarah, I know that pain and frustration. God is standing in the gap for you❤
What about a strawberry blonde for Sarah? You won’t have to dye your hair as often and IMO has been easier to maintain. I, too, am a “tow head” that went copper and now am strawberry blonde and it’s the best of both worlds!
I don’t think she should keep red cause I don’t know the blonde just make sure look younger the red is too hard to keep to keep it going it’s gonna mess your hair up just like us doing mine
Love this strawberry idea!!! 🍓 Best of both worlds and will blend easier with new growth.
Yes Strawberry blonde is a great idea. But she can do whatever she wants.
@@karmaoutlaweveryone I have seen here …their strawberry blonde looks pink
How about toned down blond hair, leave it darker than before….
Endometriosis Management (that worked for me)
- Low Fodmap diet (this was key!)
- Exercise
- Low dose birth control pill
- Odd tip - stopped using drinking straws (helped keep down bloat)
My endometriosis diagnosis was extremely similar to Sarah’s. The low FODMAP diet has been life-changing for me, within a month I had great results since I figured out the foods I needed to avoid. Eliminated the extreme painful bloating and all that goes along with it. I pray you get relief and find solutions that work for you.
Girl, I feel ya with all the maintenance that red hair brings! Love it, but long-term, it just wasn't practical, unfortunately. Blonde highlights was my go-to for years, but when the pandemic hit, I threw on a box dye and embraced my natural dark brown hair. I love how shiny it is now, and getting my hair done now is way cheaper...huge bonus. I personally think you should go with whatever works for you and your lifestyle!
P.S. I have always loved your beautiful blonde locks! 🤗
What is Sarah's natural hair color??????
Prayers for Sarah and the Beeston Family. Stay strong, you will get through this Sarah. ❤️🙏🏻
14 D &C,'s, 3 laps, this was the 60's early 70's. Finally at 29 Total hysterectomy including cervix. The relief from the pain and spontaneous bleeding landing me in ER's. Dont have a baby yo stop the pain, after you have 1 more kid and still endo. Sarah, I dont know how u do it
People making PERSONAL choices and voicing opinions. This is YOUR LIFE. DONT REGRET ANYTHING. Sounds like a lot of treatment options for the endo, now. My heartfelt best wishes. Be the best version of yourself for yourself young lady😊
Hi Sarah! Praying for you and your family 🙏🏻. I suffered from PCOS had two surgeries that I thought would heal me and help me have more babies, I had such severe pain and was diagnosed after my hysterectomy with severe Endometriosis. My left ovary was fused to my sacrum and my right pinned to a hip ligament and scar tissue everywhere. They were able to save my right for me thankfully, but it has been almost 2 years and I am still in pain, not as much but still enough. I would recommend massages especially lower back area, lots of epsom salt baths stretching and also magnesium needs to be in the diet. I found not eating any red meats helps with the bloating. But the best home remedies are those sweet babies and husband’s love and support. Those dark days remember you are not alone and they are going through it watching the woman they love the most going through this. You are not alone praying 🙏🏻 for you!
I’m 65 and I lost my older sister 2 years ago and it still hurts so much. I was also thinking about a tattoo, a butterfly or robin- 2 of her favourites. I’ll wait to see what your tattooist says to you, I want it to be somewhere less painful!
As for your hair go with what you want. Family tell me to go grey but dark hair makes me feel like me!!
Love to all the family. X
After 2 preventative surgeries from my endometriosis, my OBGYN did the right thing…she did a hysterectomy. However, she found more problems so I also
had an appendectomy- a 2 for 1 deal.
The nurse in the ER - Linda…I will always remember her, she saved me! So, there I was, in the ER and after seeing what was going on she Linda said, “Oh honey! You’re going to need a hysterectomy! It will take a couple of months to recover…but, it will be the best surgery that you’ve ever had.”. She was SO right! Thank god I had the surgery when I did! Twenty two years later- it was the best surgery that I have had so far. My hysterectomy/appendectomy turned into a A++!
I have had too many surgeries- over 12 of them…one was open heart ❤️ surgery and another was a craniotomy followed 3 years later by a Burr hole surgery.
Oh…I had a major stroke from a patient foramen ovale- ostium secundum- a hole in my heart- between the atria/atrium…I forget which one- I think it’s atria. That is what caused my major stroke. People don’t believe in miracles- I definitely do!
Good luck to (you) Sarah! Whether it’s another child and then the hysterectomy like Derik wants…well, if you (Sarah) do have the elective surgery…after a 2 month recovery, you will see what I mean!
Me too.
I understand its hard to get pregnant with that but after having a hysterectomy i was told pregnancy cures it. When your children are young you think well i have two children so getting out of pain with surgery sounds good. Around 38 you will start thinking maybe another would be nice. That ship sailed. Its very sad.
a good spot for a tattoo is also on your back shoulder because you’ll be able to hide it easily when needed. Would not recommend putting it on a very visible place.
I know how painful Endometriosis can be. I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Get better soon.
Sarah, I just lost my dad a few months ago and I got a tattoo on the back of my arm for him. I thought about putting it on my forearm too and I was in the exact same mindset as you!! I love where it is and I smile every time I see it in the mirror because I don’t see it all day everyday! I’m not sure if that helps, but I feel where you are!! No matter where it is, it will be beautiful and very sentimental 💚💚
I was diagnosed with stage 2 in 2001. I did Lupron for 2 years and then switched to a natural remedy…Evening Primorose Oil (I used VegLife). It stopped all of my pain. Cutting out all inflammatory foods (gluten, dairy and corn) helped (immensely) with the pain as well. I had my first child in 2013 and my second in 2016 (with only taking evening primrose oil). Good luck, Sarah. I hope you feel better soon. 💜
Castor oil packs can be helpful too. Best wishes for comfort and healing ❤
@@tinaritchie7873 absolutely!
I agree with nutritional advice. In my experience of really painful periods, cutting out gluten and sugar helps (inflammatory for me) and I discovered recently that red meat really aggravates mine too. I believe it really helps to avoid glucose spikes too - 10 great tips on how to achieve this with Glucose Goddess.
If your tattoo is a way of honouring /& keeping your sister’s memory Alive put it where you can see it.( remember Sarah love never dies ❤) seeing it will keep your sister’s love ❤️ alive a daily reminder of her gift 🎁 It’s your decision sweetheart but I believe if you do it for the right reason it will enhance your beautiful memories. & keep them alive / rather than make you upset...make it a mindset decision I’m doing this as a positive enforcement of my love for her..❤& a way to keep her in the present & when you’re asked about it’s significance you get to talk about her & share something big about her that you are super proud of...
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I vote for Sarah to keep her red hair.
She looks beautiful with her blonde hair but looks amazingly gorgeous in her red hair. 😍 🥰♥️♥️♥️
To have to dye it every 3 weeks is really a lot of wasted time. I also would be thinking about all the chemicals but that is a given with dying it blonde too.
One of my friends got cancer from hair dye. I stood dying my hair because of that.
@@KarenArchie-rj4iq Blonde is her natural color
Sarah could dye her hair every two-three months (just to take a break) and not every three weeks, which can be a bit much.
Use a darker color.
@@aidavazquez4858
An angel on your shoulder is a great idea. And yes Fall Guy was hilarious. Hope you’ll find the healing you need and deserve
Beautiful to see your happy family together.
Think of it as your sister being with you all the time. She gave you a angel to keep you safe always. It's amazing! It's almost like she knew. ❤
I love the red hair on you. It totally enhances your natural coloring.
Agreed…Sarah is so pretty and her red hair brings out her natural beauty ❤
I think it blends in with her tan , she look nice with it but the blonde hair brings out her blue eyes more 💙 to me.
Endometriosis and adenomyosis for me. Had an ablation and finally a hysterectomy. The pain is unbearable and really, it is misunderstood. I had one doctor say, “So you have bad periods. It’s no big deal. Finally found a doctor who actually listened. Good luck, Sarah. 🙏🏻❤️
I sure feel for Sarah and know what she’s going through, especially feeling bad with small children to take care of. I had endometriosis in my 30’s (I’m now 64). We had all the kids we wanted (3 sons) and then had a total hysterectomy. Before that, I would take birth control pills even through the 1 week off them as that would stop the pain if I didn’t have a period. I had multiple laparoscopies to remove the endometriosis scar tissue. Some of it had attached to my bowel, which caused alot of pain even when I wasn’t on my period. They couldn’t get all of the scar tissue removed with the laparoscopies, so a hysterectomy was the only answer. I had the surgery when our youngest was 7 months old. I will be praying for you. 🙏🏼❤️
I am bone on bone both knees from a terrible accident and not able to have knee replacement due to chronic kidney disease from taking Nexium, no surgeries! Be blessed that you could at least have surgery. Find other ways to enjoy physical endorphins. Swimming is great too! In life sometimes we have to accept our limitations. And still live a wonderful life. You have a choice, whereas my husband was diagnosed with cancer and passed away a year and five days later, leaving myself and our 4 year old. Enjoy your family, your wife, your son, your daughter......😊❤
The idea of riding a bike is kind of scary. Appreciate that you can walk after your last surgery. Please take care of your knees.❤
I'm so sorry sweetie for your pain, I'm bone on bone on my spine, shoulders and hips.. I have osteoarthritis and bone degenerate disease..I. still here and live in chronic pain..just hereditary and I had kidney disease at the ripe age of 19..God healed from that or me and my first daughter that's 34 wouldn't be here..the doctors tried to get me to abort her because I would die!! But I didn't listen to them and I know thats why God took my kidney disease away.. well the doctors threatened me to have no more children, but I have 5 and grandbaby # 21 on the way!!! So you see, if I would've listened to the doctors with my oldest, then I wouldn't have ALL the blessings from God that I have now!!! Shalom
No tatoo
How scary Nexium damaged your kidneys! I’ve been taking Prilosec for 20 years. Now I’m worried.
@rhonah2255 same with me. I had no idea that Nexium could do that. I've been on it for 20 years, too.
Big hugs for Sarah! I have stage 4 Endo. Not something I'd wish on my biggest enemy.
Same here. It’s rough
@@selinalee1077 yes it is. I had a hysterectomy a year ago, they left 1 ovary to keep me from going through menopause. And now I'm unfortunately getting ready to have another surgery to take that ovary.
@teganjohnson9794 I went through the same exact surgeries as you.
@@teganjohnson9794 I’m only 24 and due to this disease combined with me also having PCOS I lost my right ovary and tube and the recovery process for me was extremely hard. I got diagnosed when I was only 21 and from there my condition has gotten worse each year. Because it’s so bad my doctor and I have discussed me getting a hysterectomy this year
@tegan my heart breaks for you hearing this. My daughter has stage 4 endometriosis as well, it is spread throughout her body and she is in severe pain every day of her life. I pray they find a way to manage this disease better, Surgeries can only do so much. Good luck to you. 💕
Hey Sarah, I totally understand your hair color. It really is alot of work to keep up. You are beautiful either color. Re: tatoo. My sister passed and I got a tattoo. I got it on my forearm inside so that I could see it every day. I wanted it for me, to help me through my grief. It really makes me feel at peace, as I feel she is close when I look at it. Everyone is different. Do what feels right for you. :)
You two are the sweetest couple . I love this family❤️
I’m happy Sarah is going back natural or blonde. It’s her personality and we love and miss the blonde Sarah. She’s gained the confidence of how pretty she is with red hair but I miss the blonde Sarah. Weird eh? And defbSunny will outgrow this- her brain is making connections- keep her food as close to source as possible and bare feet on the ground. Sometimes the kids that give u the hardest time end up being the best adults. It’s like they go through it so hard they morph into it.😘
I think the red hair makes her look old
You guys are really going through it! The leg surgeries and now Sarah's endometriosis. Life can be so hard.
Tattoo on the back of the arm!! So special🥺 Love you guys❤️
I was just diagnosed with endometriosis last week and it’s not at all fun. Feel better Sarah x 💕
My endometriosis specialist recommended the following things - and it has reduced my pain massively (it hasn’t got rid of the pain, but it really has helped) & I hope some of these can work for sarah!!
The following diets - Gluten free, Dairy free & Low FODMAP & LOW SUGAR (I feel this has made the biggest difference with pain).
Exercise everyday - whether it be weightlifting, yoga or walking/cardio.
Also magnesium supplements reduce muscle cramping, and electric heat pads are a life saver to reduce the pain.
8 hours sleep per night (and as little stress in your life as possible) allows your body to recover while resting which reduces inflammation - therefore reducing the pain.
She also recommended acupuncture which I haven’t tried yet, but it’s supposed to be great!
I think you would be very surprised how quickly you adapt to a tattoo that you can see daily, whereas on the back of your arm will be more of a reminder when you catch it at a glade type of feeling. I also think (speaking from experience) it helps with the healing process, turning a really traumatic sad thing into a happy/positive/memorable aspect the more you see it and live with it so closely. I hope you make the right decision for you! Such a special and meaningful gift to give to yourself. ♥
I lost both my parents when I was 19 and 28. I have an old Valentine's card with a short handwritten message from both of them and I will be having that message tattooed on my left forearm when, budget-wise, it becomes a possibility. I chose that spot because you "wear your heart on your sleeve" and it's the sleeve closest to my heart. I will also be integrating my children into the tattoo in some way to have them, in some way, close to their grandparents (whom they will, sadly, never meet).
You chose the spot that is most meaningful to you. You have to live with it for the rest of your life, not us. But I think seeing it often will always remind you of the love you had for each other and how special your bond was.
I’ve colored my hair for over 30 years and it gets so tiresome but I started turning gray at 23. On the other side you are a beautiful red head.❤
Gray hair is a crown of wisdom 😁
@@trustinJesus_only-_I started going grey when I was in my early twenties also but back then it wasn’t a trend to have grey hair like it is today, so I’ve continued to colour my hair, I tried growing it out But it just didn’t look like Me and Who I Was…I’m 64 years old now. ❤️❤️🇦🇺🐨🦘
I feel you! Mine started at the same age, I'm 39 now and more are popping. I've been coloring my hair too, I'm just thankful I've been blessed with really big and curly hair. But I do feel so conscious about parts of my head with white hair.
You can have a temporary tattoo made of your sister's drawing. Then put one on the inside of your arm. It'll be there for about a week and you can decide if you like seeing it or if it makes you sad to see it frequently
Don't make winning so important to Jack. Instead emphasize how he's going to have fun.
Sarah, as someone that works with OB/Gyns, it makes me nervous when people with Endo wait to have kids. That surgery may not work a second time. You should consult with your OB/Gyn and really consider if you would be okay being done having kids before delaying getting pregnant. On the other hand there is alway surrogates as a back up, it’s just expensive.
On a much brighter note, I’m moving to the Kailua-Kona on Wednesday and I’m freaking out! Thanks for all the insight that your family has given me on the pros and cons of living in Hawaii!!!
It is a lot of chemicals in dying hair. So Sarah’s choice plus every 3 weeks is time consuming and one more thing for a momma to do! On the endo side of things…I had endo with cyst, along with fibroid tumors. Endo is painful enough. Also, every time a person goes in for another surgery you are more susceptible to scar tissue. I’m sorry Sarah that the endo is so painful. I eventually had a hysterectomy because of all of it. Once you have endometriosis, I was told by a doctor that it’s very common it will come back. All the pain that I had hurt so bad that I didn’t even know I had clusters of gallstones as well. The pain was that painful that I didn’t even notice the gallstone pain. Brutal. I hope that this helps you to make an informed decision. Love you guys!
I did 6 months of Depo Lupron shots (that put me into false menopause) and have been taking continuous active birth control pills to stop my periods ever since and I have no endometriosis symptoms! Skipping my periods is so nice! I haven't had one since 2017 after years of excruciating pain! I know I'll have to go off of the birth control if/when I decide to have kids, but I am very happy to skip my periods until that day comes lol. Keep your head up, Sarah! Endo is tough, but we're tougher! 💕
I did that too but didn’t help me. Hysterectomy at 26. What a relief it was. I felt great. No periods. Yeaaa
I did that same routine and it did NOT work in the long run. After 4 major abdominal surgeries, I ended up losing both ovaries and my uterus at a very young age. I had put off trying to have kids - and that was a fatal mistake, because then I couldn't. Please don't put it off!! Don't rob yourself of that opportunity!!
I had stage 4. I had it up to my heart and it scraped of of all my organs. It was a long recovery. I also had a total hysterectomy the same day as the scraping. I feel so much better.
I really feel for you Sarah, I also had endo for over 16 years. Thankfully now been endo free fpr 9 years, please know you can be free from all pain and symptoms without surgery. What worked for me was a special homemade topical detox & cellular regeneration elixir you apply to the skin, it works similar to an IV drip just witout the needles so it goes directly to the root cause, you can feel the pain dissolving in minutes. I helped thousands of woman in the last 7 years & would love to share the recipe for the elixir with you or send you a bottle as a gift. My heart went out to you years ago but I didn't want to say anything unless you asked for suggestions. Sending love to you & your amazing family , thankyou for being such an inspiration for me over the years. Leila
I have both endo and pcos. What helps me is hot water bottles, a tens machine when your in pain (I use ovira, it’s specific for endo and pain) and lavender oil. Nothing will ever take the pain away fully but it helps you to relax and be more comfortable. Love you guys hope you feel better soon ❤
Sarah you are beautiful with red hair but I also know the upkeep can be tiring. Your blonde hair is just as gorgeous so I’d definitely go back blonde. I’m so sorry your endometriosis has flared up again. Big decisions here 😊
Love y’all bunches 💙🩷💙🩷
She's not truly blond (at least not light blond), more almost ashy brown/blond. So if she even wants to go back to blond, she'd still have to dye.
@@saga2964 I know this. The upkeep will be less is all I was saying and she’s beautiful no matter what color she decides on
@@candicesailsbury1355 yeah. I just feel bad for her that he's pressuring her at all.
Keep it red. Wal-mart has a product called “color lux” in many different colors. Its conditioner that is will make the red stay longer. Hope this helps! ❤
Always watching y’all every video ❤
BLONDE🎉 And yall have a girl and boy. God blessed yall!! Girls are so much harder. Men dont understand, Live your life, sarah. 😢❤
Sarah i am truly sorry you have felt so bad due to the endometriosis. Sending lots of hopes for your feeling better very soon with lots of positive vibes for all of you loves again
Do not wait to address. Love UA-camrs Alessio and Jessie, check out their fertility journey with endo. Keeping them from having any children at all to date. With miscarriages and heartache. They have two embryos waiting that they can not implant yet. Jessie does talk on their channel about what she does to manage the pain. There is no quick fix. But perhaps you could have them on your podcast and support one another.😊❤
About a year and a half ago, I started my period and it lasted 6 1/2 months. My provider was afraid it was cancer but they found growths and determined it was Endo. The growths were removed a year ago but I have been bleeding off and on for the last 2 months again. For me, a hysterectomy is the next stop but I'm 40 so I have long since given up on any thoughts of having kids naturally. My mom and her 5 sisters had terrible menstrual related issues and they all had to have hysterectomies. One of my aunts was 27 when she had it done. Praying for you, Sarah, and that you can find something that will work or that we both are just healed of Endo completely!
The love for your sister is why you are getting your tattoo. It’s also her art which obviously brings joy to your memory of her. Why not experience that joy every time you look at her beautiful artwork.
Sarah, I think you should do whatever makes you happy with your hair! 💗 And I am sending strength, prayers, and lots of love your way that you find a solution that works for you to manage your endometriosis. 💞 Your family and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
When my mom passed I got Love, Mom tattooed on my left wrist in her handwriting, the only tattoo I have, I did left wrist because it goes straight to my heart. I thought I would get sad when I saw it, but it was comforting, my Dad passed in September '23 and I am getting Love, Dad in his handwriting on my right wrist.
Blessings and prayers to you Sarah for your health ... stand your ground on your hair ... it's your choice if you want to keep the red or go back to blonde!
I had Endometriosis until my hysterectomy.
Best home remedies is Lavendar on my abdomen and alternating heat and ice. Tons of water too!! Stay strong, Sarah! It's a tough road but it'll get better!
Hope Sara feels better. I was once in her situation and suffered for many years…it took 7 years and 5 IVF cycles for baby #2, then hysterectomy. If trying to hold off for another baby in future, I was told the birth control shot and stopping cycles would be the best and only option for relief. Good luck!
Thank you for sharing your Endo struggles. I had three surgeries, including excision, multiple procedures, treatments etc and finally gave in to chemical menopause. I wasn’t “pain free” it just felt like the volume was turned down. It was the most relief I had in years. Although they may help relieve symptoms, Pregnancy & hysterectomy isn’t a cure. I know people who have it worse following both of these things. We are currently in the midst of IVF treatments and these hormones have just been triggering my endo pain & symptoms so bad!!! Sending all my love to anyone struggling with this and hope you find relief soon ❤
That’s why I stopped dying my hair too Sarah, every 3-4 weeks is crazy. You look great with any colour.
Hi Sarah,
I had endometriosis from age 11 to age 34. The pain was so horrendous. I just couldn't take it anymore.
I had a complete historectomy, and it was THE best decision I've ever made.
The only thing that helped (before surgery) was to be on birth control pills. Periods were MUCH less painful, and the flow was much lighter.
Hope this helps you!
I love you guys!
Surgery is not as bad as it sounds. The relief is tremendous. I had it before kids. Took low dose birth control to keep it from coming back. Best decision I ever made. I used to pass out every cycle and felt horrible between. Surgery was a life saver.
I hate to say this, but I had Endometriosis horrible in my teens + 20's! Unfortunately for me, my scar tissue spread too quickly in my tubes I was unable to naturally conceive 😢 You are blessed to have your boy and girl, but don't force yourself to suffer in pain to please others! I eventually had a Hysterectomy/Oopherectomy in my early 30's because I spent equal time in bed as not... please put your health first🙏🙌🙏
Coming from someone who has tattoos on both places you mentioned (my own experience and opinion):
- inside of the arm: it is more delicate yes, but even though it’s in your sight, after a while it becomes a part of your arm and you don’t actually notice it anymore unless you stop to think about it. It becomes sort of like a birth mark or something
- back of the arm: it hurts a lot less, and the cool thing about it is that when you look yourself in the mirror or in pictures in poses that it shows you get this feeling like ‘wow I have this I totally forgot that’s amazing’ as if you got a ‘new’ tattoo every now and then
Don’t know if it helped but just trying to show you how either option works for me. But anywhere you choose it will look incredible, because it’s such a beautiful memory of her I love the idea ❤
I say where you can see it, let it bring you comfort ❤ it shows you connection
Your family is the sweetest
Tattoo opinion: on the front of the arm you can see it all the time. I have one for my dad on my wrist & it’s comforting.. I feel like he’s always with me.
The red is super duper YOU, Sarah! It looks so natural on you, like that color was MADE for you! Sorry, im with Derrick on this one.
Sarah looks amazing with any hair color. The red was a really fun change and yeah her eyes pop like crazy but it does fade super fast. She could always try a copper red and just do a gloss to shine it back up. Also washing in cold water helps a lil bit
My mom passed many years ago at a young age. She loved the singer, Neil Diamond. Every time I hear his songs, it makes me so happy, and reminds me of my mom. ❤
I think wherever you decide to have the tattoo it will bring you joy. It seems like that’s what the angels did for your sister. Live on with joy, I bet she’d be thrilled!
I know it’s a pain, Sarah, you really look beautiful with your red hair.
What a lovely and meaningful idea…! Behind de shoulder or in the front of the arm! 🌸
I would say for the tattoo, get a little sketch/outline done just in washable sharpie done on the inside section of your arm, just to see how it feels for a little bit and see about how your emotions would work with it being there. I personally think it’s a much better spot, as it’s always nice to have a little reminder that you can see whenever you think you might want one, plus it’d probably look nicer there as well! I have one there of a giant spider, and I can’t imagine getting the same thing on the outer side of my arm, I think they just look better on the other side!
Yes, red looks great on you but also red is hard to keep, it fades super fast. High maintenance.
No matter what kind of color you will get you will look stunning.
I agree. I had red hair from years it faded so fast I had to keep on dying it. Now I gone blonde again it lasts so much longer!
I loved Sarah with blonde hair. 😊
100% Do what you want but the red is GORGEOUS!! ❤
Angel on your shoulder. She’s always watching over you. ❤️ 😇
I am so sorry about your endo pain Sara. I had severe endo, like the worst you can get. I ended up having to have a full hysterectomy at a very young age and unfortunately wasn't able to have babies beforehand. I ended up adopting 2 babies instead. My advice would be, endure it for as long as you can until you decide for sure that you guys don't wish to have anymore kiddos, then explore all your options before making any decisions. Enough with the heavy! On to your hair! As gorgeous as you look with red hair, I have honestly really been missing the blonde! But you do you sis! As for your tattoo, I think on the back of your arm would be sweet. It's like you know it is there, your guardian angel sister perched on your arm, always having your back. But you don't always have to see it. It should be something sweet and meaningful for you, not a sad reminder. Much love to you and your Beeston Fam! God Bless you!
Hey Sarah-how about an “angel” on your shoulder? You would be able to show people and see it in a mirror when want to see it. Kinda like your sister is there like a guardian Angel…and I love your hair both colors! ❤😊
Love your dear wife as God made her, a blonde! So lucky to have her and respect her needs and wishes. It is not always about you.😊❤
He does love her as God made her she had a breast reduction, she tried red hair , her choices have been respected and are supported.
That's what Derik has been doing, respecting her wishes and more. You are watching one vid and made it seem he's a selfish husband. Don't be a Karen!
My vote red! It looks so natural on you.
I suffered with endo from age 15‐24. I had 2 sons at 21 & 24. Had a total hysterectomy at the end of my 24th year. My baby was 9 months old. The endo pain was unbearable. Bless you. ❤
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