How to Manage Intrusive Thoughts w/ QuarterJade

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  • @Pogonotrophy
    @Pogonotrophy 3 роки тому +717

    "...I must be inherently bad; There must be something wrong with me that somebody just won't tell me..." I felt that

    • @dregling5884
      @dregling5884 3 роки тому +21

      that be satan trying to deceive us

    • @eliasgarcia6576
      @eliasgarcia6576 3 роки тому +9

      @@forcedge2302 And who decides what's a weakness and what is a strength? Do you have proof that Satan doesn't exist? Perhaps your feelings aren't his responsibility, but it's his reliability to get to you.

    • @biocular
      @biocular 3 роки тому +18

      @@forcedge2302 Jokes on you. Santa is real. Checkmate, atheist.
      For real though, you don't know that guy and i could just as easily assume you just never experienced actual hardship in your life to get to a point where you'd fall on a religion to cope. Get off your high horse, man, or at least keep self centered comments like that to yourself. Coming from an agnostic person with plenty of reasons to hate on religion.

    • @HyperManic1000
      @HyperManic1000 3 роки тому +22

      @@eliasgarcia6576 I’m a bit late to the party, but no one should have to prove something exists if you can’t even prove it exists to begin with. There’s nothing to disprove since no one has ever seen neither God nor Satan. You have to show proof of why you think Satan (or any other godly ”creature” for that matter) exists in the first place, then we can try disproving you.

    • @Omnihilo_
      @Omnihilo_ 3 роки тому +6

      @@biocular “You’ve just never experienced enough hardship to use religous delusion as your coping mechanism” What a shitty ass thing to say to somebody, especially in the midst of a pandemic when people’s loved ones are dying left and right.

  • @dropthekorpi
    @dropthekorpi 3 роки тому +857

    So cool how the cat hugged her while they were talking about self-compassion, looked like it knew she needed to be comforted after resurfacing those emotions. after 1:28:00

    • @ranj541
      @ranj541 2 роки тому +6

      yeah!!! that was such a great moment

    • @jbx30001
      @jbx30001 5 місяців тому

      Animals be smart

    • @LeninMcDonalds
      @LeninMcDonalds 3 місяці тому

      Cats always know man.

  • @RouskSour
    @RouskSour 3 роки тому +1264

    "Is fuslie a real person? I feel like you're trolling me." LOL

    • @SETHthegodofchaos
      @SETHthegodofchaos 3 роки тому +82

      Dr. K got trolled too many times recently and now he expects it. kind of fits the topics of the video, doesnt it? :D

    • @RouskSour
      @RouskSour 3 роки тому +12

      @@SETHthegodofchaos I'm fully aware lol

    • @miyalys
      @miyalys 3 роки тому +8

      Haha, he pronounced the name right, though!

    • @AlexBeast25
      @AlexBeast25 3 роки тому

      @@miyalys no, close, but he did it incorrectly. he pronounced it fooslie, while its supposed to be foozlie (like leslie)

    • @db5094
      @db5094 3 роки тому +2

      @@AlexBeast25 isnt it fyoozlie

  • @Chachixo
    @Chachixo 3 роки тому +238

    The way Dr. K gave Jodi an idea of where she may want to set a boundary and not speak publicly about some things was so well done. Goes to show the importance of speaking with a professional when you make this kind of content. He cares about the person he's talking to more than the content itself.

  • @maulds7650
    @maulds7650 3 роки тому +343

    It is very hard to confront childhood trauma, it's very scary and very emotional, sometimes you don't even know that you are avoiding it like Jodi was by acting bubbly and happy when talking about it.

    • @robbytheyogi990
      @robbytheyogi990 3 роки тому +9

      I agree 100%. And we all some some to confront.

  • @AnimeLoaderLP
    @AnimeLoaderLP 3 роки тому +495

    Jodi's smile is so captivating, isn't it? Just beautiful

    • @j.rlouis3756
      @j.rlouis3756 3 роки тому +42

      @BunsGlazing Simp leaning but not full simp. Shes just really good looking imo

    • @lillrice27
      @lillrice27 3 роки тому +83

      @@j.rlouis3756 not even simp leaning, complimenting a girl doesn’t make you a simp in anyways

    • @Teus123
      @Teus123 3 роки тому +19

      that is not simping it just true

    • @schmellyhorse9735
      @schmellyhorse9735 3 роки тому +11

      i shit my pants

    • @BoneThugsRTheBest
      @BoneThugsRTheBest 3 роки тому +25

      Compliments are not simpin

  • @Scias
    @Scias 3 роки тому +31

    1:29 so cute how that cat hugs her, such coincidental timing, when she struggles with self compassion the cat gives it instead

  • @WanderTheNomad
    @WanderTheNomad 3 роки тому +2442

    Is it a common occurence to grow up and find out that your parents are actually pretty immature or childish?

    • @sgtjuju2389
      @sgtjuju2389 3 роки тому +365

      Yes, exactly that is happing to me and my father. Every day I realize more and more what an idiot he is.

    • @craig7405
      @craig7405 3 роки тому +44

      i already know my mom is annoying and childish

    • @hkxr
      @hkxr 3 роки тому +156

      Half of the time thats the truth and the other half it's puberty making u ungrateful/ overconfident

    • @flarebear5346
      @flarebear5346 3 роки тому +87

      It is. Parents are literally just like you but with a kid. It's kind of fucked up considering that I would not trust myself with a child.

    • @nikobates6897
      @nikobates6897 3 роки тому +155

      Not so much that they are “idiots”, but that they are just as human and imperfect as anyone. Lol it seems like allot of people here want to distance themselves from their parents.

  • @diegowushu
    @diegowushu 3 роки тому +126

    30:52 "I was both a loser and a failure". Oof, I felt that. At least I nowadays don't get graded anymore so the second part stings less.

  • @dumpling7055
    @dumpling7055 3 роки тому +87

    Jodi is so empowering. When I first watched her i was really captivated by her energy. I want to express myself just like her(and valkyrae), but I feel like my personality image is so opposite that i don't know how to escape it. Idk if that made sense. But Jodi is my inspiration and i hope I can find friends just as empowering as her.

  • @animefanluver7
    @animefanluver7 3 роки тому +363

    I think Jodi is one of the gamers with the most emotional intelligence (EQ) that has ever been on the show. Not a lot of people would confront their own father about his actions and be able to see where malicious behavior in others may stem from - or be able to share so many insecurities so eloquently and candidly. Also thanks Dr. K for these sessions! Super interesting and helps me contextualize my own life.

    • @multicrogamer
      @multicrogamer 3 роки тому +9

      You don't need EQ for confrortation. You need courage and belif into things you are experiencing.
      SJW are IDIOTS who confrot everyone about everything. EQ is how do you relate understand and manage your emotions.

    • @poe_more_please
      @poe_more_please 3 роки тому +35

      @monichiatto have you seen any of the Sweet Anita streams with dr.k? They are wildly insightful.

    • @datscrazy4095
      @datscrazy4095 3 роки тому

      @@poe_more_please true, but just make sure this comment section doesn't become a debate

    • @poe_more_please
      @poe_more_please 3 роки тому +12

      @@datscrazy4095 oh no, I agree with you. My comment was more of acknowledging others streams that align OPs comment in terms of emotional intelligence. I stray far from having this being a debate or needless comparison of other people dealing with the limitless encounters of life.

    • @universal_stupidity
      @universal_stupidity 3 роки тому +4

      Sweet Anita and Jodi both show an impressive amount of EQ

  • @bamie16
    @bamie16 3 роки тому +142

    My mind is blown, "Can i think for a second" is also a second for the client to relax a bit from the heavy work

  • @oliverbeck6839
    @oliverbeck6839 3 роки тому +122

    This made me realize often time during social interactions I get intrusive thought that im going to ruin the interaction, they come out especially when things are going great (laughing together, connecting / bonding) then the thought pops up and I may act kinda weird which actually may kinda ruin it low key. I got a thought like this just yesterday for example, I was on a call with my friend and suddenly im thinking that I should cut the call short even though everything was going fine because I don't want to ruin it

  • @YoutubeYoutube-te2ny
    @YoutubeYoutube-te2ny 3 роки тому +362

    I have suffered with intrusive thoughts for ages and have had to seek help for it. This is a really cool and interesting conversation

  • @Dylan-qt2mh
    @Dylan-qt2mh 3 роки тому +15

    I've been struggling with intrusive thoughts for 4 years now and every time people come up and talk to me, I get thoughts of hitting them. Those people then end up not liking me and start to feel uncomfortable around me. I've been isolating myself in my room for 5 months now and I've been frequently tuning in to your streams. They've been helping me out a lot but I'm still having these intrusive thoughts. Hopefully, things will get better and I can move on with my life. Thank you Dr. K , you are a true legend.

  • @TheKnightSlayer
    @TheKnightSlayer 3 роки тому +39

    I'm so happy that my favorite streamers are getting the help and support they need,dr.k is a true legend.

  • @Justin--ze6qq
    @Justin--ze6qq 3 роки тому +28

    She is so awesome. It takes a pure heart to be traumatized like that and still turn out to be such a good person. She refuses to let others feel the pain that she felt

  • @nicf1555
    @nicf1555 3 роки тому +276

    It's fascinating how p much every single twitch streamer who winds up on dr K's streams is rly a compelling, thoughtful person in one way or another. I rarely watch streamer content so I always has this idea of some silly kid just playing videogames and mock-reacting to scarejumps for attention or whatever. I don't know if there's self-selection bias in the kind of streamer who would talk to dr K or I'm just chronically underestimating twitch people. They almost all come off as thoughtful, articulate, mature, with a rich inner life. It keeps blowing my mind

    • @hunchbackproduction
      @hunchbackproduction 3 роки тому +1

      Same. Well said my dude

    • @gainsgoblin9953
      @gainsgoblin9953 3 роки тому +42

      The selection bias is being a streamer in the first place, being charismatic and interesting is the #1 requirement

    • @papercat5829
      @papercat5829 3 роки тому +21

      You also have to deal with the internet on a much higher scale while being streamer and you have to know how to manage your emotions due to some hateful people and lot of other things(like being misrepresented, being the target of a hate mob). And if you never learn how to deal with that then you're just gonna be a complete mess 24/7.

    • @rowanburwell5910
      @rowanburwell5910 3 роки тому +25

      The way I see it Doctor K could talk to anyone at all and we would start to feel this way simply because we start to empathize with that person. Like logically we know that everyone is living their own life and has their own story but our monkey brains don't really get that. In the same vein when Dr. K talks to people and we learn more about them, we naturally start to get a feeling that they DO live their own life, that the streamer persona is just something they put on. IDK did that make sense?

    • @Nikolai508
      @Nikolai508 3 роки тому +1

      it's because if you aren't interested in a subject the only news that you'll hear about said subject is the sensational negative side of things. So of course there are bad people on UA-cam and Twitch. There are plenty of people like Keemstar and people who enjoy that type of content. But for the most part in order to be successful on Twitch you have to be a genuine real person.

  • @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327
    @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327 3 роки тому +46

    This made me realize I have intrusive thoughts similar to Jodi. I just thought this was my feelings and that everyone felt this but this was so specific that I feel like this is what it was about

    • @isabella7p
      @isabella7p 3 роки тому +2

      I actually thought it meant low confidence. But then I'm also a very confident person when I'm alone or with ppl I know well. Which tells me I might be similar to her in that sense. Never thought of it as intrusive thoughts though. I feel like treating is as intrusive thoughts might generate different approaches to deal with it which might finally work

    • @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327
      @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327 3 роки тому +1

      @@isabella7p this. I actually feel this so much

  • @jordanwood3150
    @jordanwood3150 3 роки тому +67

    When she said she didn't know why she was good at streaming me and Dr K literally had the same thought. I've never seen her streams but you can just tell she's a bubbly and charismatic person.

    • @levoGAMES
      @levoGAMES 3 роки тому +9

      Also she's a cracked gamer, watch her play Valorant, you'll know :D

    • @najrenchelf2751
      @najrenchelf2751 Рік тому

      I loved Jodi's confusion there. XD

  • @jotunn30
    @jotunn30 3 роки тому +678

    I was already a fan of Jodi but seeing how much emotional intelligence she has especially for only being 23 makes me respect her a lot more.
    PS: kinda unrelated but since he's part of her friend group i would really want to see Sykkuno on the show cause i feel like half of the internet could learn from him/his story(but it's probably just a pipe dream since he seems a rather private person)

    • @matthewsilva5598
      @matthewsilva5598 3 роки тому +1

      I think he would do the show

    • @narubizarate
      @narubizarate 3 роки тому +14

      It will be really interesting if he did

    • @elgancho-ty2jj
      @elgancho-ty2jj 3 роки тому +8

      WOW. siiiiimp. siiiiimp. simp simp. tier 3 simp simper simp word simp funny. simp. simp hilarious.. simp lol. (simp) funny word

    • @universal_stupidity
      @universal_stupidity 3 роки тому +54

      Jodi definitely comes off as older than 23 in the way that she seems very mature and intelligent.
      Also about Sykkuno, when a lot of offline TV was on here 5-6 months ago he said he might do it, but he probably won't because there's a lot of things he isn't really comfortable talking about online. I don't know if that has changed because he does seem much more confident now, and it could definitely be helpful for a lot of people.

    • @KumarAnimesh935
      @KumarAnimesh935 3 роки тому +43

      Yeah seems unlikely he’ll come but if he does, i bet he will have the sturdiest concrete wall for Dr K to crack through

  • @thee_yelwah
    @thee_yelwah 3 роки тому +538

    LOL the ending... "Is fuslie a real person??"

    • @sigged
      @sigged 3 роки тому +1

      jared from subway?

    • @fatcow3723
      @fatcow3723 3 роки тому +1

      Time stamp?

    • @MariaClara_x
      @MariaClara_x 3 роки тому +8

      Would love to have Leslie on the shooow 💙💙💙💙

    • @MariaClara_x
      @MariaClara_x 3 роки тому

      @@fatcow3723 last like 10 seconds

    • @phatgurlyang
      @phatgurlyang 3 роки тому +8

      1:43:19

  • @anirudhrao4053
    @anirudhrao4053 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @janelrod1808
    @janelrod1808 3 роки тому +44

    Crazy how strong Jodi is, I truly admire that

  • @annamata4758
    @annamata4758 3 роки тому +44

    The comment section talking about how relatable this is is a monument to the show's thesis on AOE Healing. Really awesome

    • @Owaowah
      @Owaowah 3 роки тому +3

      AOE?

    • @annamata4758
      @annamata4758 3 роки тому +12

      @@Owaowah Area of Effect. It's a video game term about affecting multiple objects in a proximity as opposed to an individual. His goal with this is to reach as many people as possible with the videos bc 1. there's not much net affect in helping 1 person, and 2. there's much commonality among any number of people's stories/lived experiences

    • @Owaowah
      @Owaowah 3 роки тому +2

      @@annamata4758 Oh makes sense. Thank you

  • @TheFrodoBaggins33
    @TheFrodoBaggins33 3 роки тому +20

    As an older brother with younger sisters, hearing what Jodi was saying about her own brother really struck a chord. lots of really good talking points here

    • @softia9
      @softia9 3 роки тому +1

      jodi’s relationship with her brother is literally me and my brother-

  • @tracylh
    @tracylh 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you Jodi , you found your little Jodi , love her & accept her!!! You are very brave to do this & share your life journey with us; I found it very helpful to my life 🙏😊❤️

  • @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327
    @chaeyoungsstrawberryfarm3327 3 роки тому +62

    Her cat could definitely feel her emotions right there when it went all up in her hair. My cat lays on my stomach and purrs when I’m sick (which I am a lot and it’s from in resolved trauma) and it gives me comfort

  • @chloerene7858
    @chloerene7858 3 роки тому +4

    Wow, I haven't watched a ton of Jodi before but watching this, we had very similar upbringing and college experiences and just a lot in common in general. And she's still so confident. She seems like an amazing person and I'm looking forward to watching more of her ❤

  • @kungfusteeze
    @kungfusteeze 3 роки тому +6

    I absolutely love Dr K, and always gain alot from his talks with others. It makes me wish everybody could talk through stuff with somebody like him. I feel society could begin mending if we all understood ourselves better.

  • @MadnessQuotient
    @MadnessQuotient 3 роки тому +224

    There's actually loads of men around that late 50's age who are gamers. I guess they were in their late teens/early twenties and had disposable income when the first consoles and computers were out. You run into them all the time when you take the time to talk to the people you meet online. Maybe it will be less surprising in 20 years to hear that someone's Millenial parent is a gamer. In fact I expect that it will be more a case of "my gamer parent ruined my life" or "growing up with parents who only looked at me through a camera lens" or "growing up as an instagram baby" eesh. Good luck Dr K 2040 edition

    • @thiocarbamoyl
      @thiocarbamoyl 3 роки тому +18

      My dad fits this to a T. Always been into computers and board gaming and video games were just a natural progression. He got me into gaming (watching him play WoW and Medieval: Total War as a little kid are some of my most nostalgic memories) and we trade rounds on Battlefield 1 while having drinks when I'm at my parents' place these days.

    • @instanttregret
      @instanttregret 3 роки тому +21

      @@thiocarbamoyl if handled well, i feel like gaming can be overwhelmingly positive medium for parent-child bonding because kids' desposition towards video games. Honestly im jelous

    • @authorbhattacharjee4957
      @authorbhattacharjee4957 3 роки тому

      You talking about Joe rogan?

    • @Trecesolotienesdos
      @Trecesolotienesdos 3 роки тому +6

      gaming isn't a kiddies thing. no reason why it should be.

    • @arfym2581
      @arfym2581 3 роки тому +3

      Yeah! I'm "middle-aged"... and his shock to people in my generation being "gamers" kind of shocked me. PLENTY of people who are now 40-55 got into gaming early and are still going strong. lol

  • @sitdowndusty
    @sitdowndusty 3 роки тому +10

    Im still about a third of the way through this i just had to stop and say soo much of this hit home way too hard. So much of this is exactly how my childhood was

  • @danielasat4563
    @danielasat4563 3 роки тому +21

    Love the way Dr. K hepls bring up people's confidence

  • @viniciusgoncalves2642
    @viniciusgoncalves2642 3 роки тому +34

    try to picture your parents playing halo at 2:00 a.m. that´s wholesome and unbelievable at the same time.

  • @Noahhhhhhh10
    @Noahhhhhhh10 3 роки тому +6

    I relate to the whole fake friend thing so much. It's obviously not really something that I can talk to my friends about, and I always thought I was alone in feeling like this, so I appreciate this a lot!

  • @HalfinchLonomia
    @HalfinchLonomia 3 роки тому +77

    It's crazy how similar people lives can be. Parts of her story are identical to mine. In a way, Dr. K coaching her is like he's talking to me.

    • @annamata4758
      @annamata4758 3 роки тому +13

      That's the entire thesis of the show. AOE Healing :)

    • @suvtropics
      @suvtropics 3 роки тому +2

      I fewl the same way. At the end of the day, we’re the same species, similar hardware, similar software

    • @db5094
      @db5094 3 роки тому +4

      @@annamata4758 Dr K is healer class

    • @mrs.quills7061
      @mrs.quills7061 2 роки тому

      Same her relationship with her father and how she picked up his anger is identical to me.

  • @ryn_young
    @ryn_young 3 роки тому +7

    I teared up at the end because I think Jodi is the sweetest person and I love her streams and watching her in the conversation you can just feel the hurt that she's had in her life, I empathized so much with her story. And weirdly I was so proud of her for sitting in silence for a minute and just being in that space.

  • @ritaverdronk4341
    @ritaverdronk4341 3 роки тому +8

    So the main thing I personally take away from this talk is that confidence is not a one-way street. I relate to Jade in the sense that I am both confident and insecure at the same time and because insecurity is "louder" it can feel like I am not confident. Thanks Dr. K and Jade :)

  • @tyloschsosas
    @tyloschsosas 3 роки тому +31

    I think I have the same kind of sum-scar that Jodi has, so this was very helpful and somewhat emotional for me. I‘m thinking about going to a therapist now, not sure yet how I‘d sway my parents since I‘m only 16 but you’ll only know once you try. Thanks Dr.K!

  • @kaustubhxdd
    @kaustubhxdd 3 роки тому +427

    Jodi looks like Jodi and Syd's love child with the new hair

    • @NorroTaku
      @NorroTaku 3 роки тому

      actually ^^

    • @chromso
      @chromso 3 роки тому +24

      imma keep it a buck fifty she looks like princess bubblegum

    • @hopefulbloom
      @hopefulbloom 3 роки тому +1

      @@chromso ACTUALLY THOUGH. Tanned PB?

  • @nezlok
    @nezlok 3 роки тому +96

    That cat knew it was comfort time. Weird, psychic creatures.

    • @rraebanzzzz
      @rraebanzzzz 3 роки тому +8

      The Egyptians worshipped them for a reason. 😻

    • @forkmasterderp919
      @forkmasterderp919 3 роки тому +3

      @@rraebanzzzz Cats have never forgotten this either.

  • @godspeedhero3671
    @godspeedhero3671 3 роки тому +3

    She was an incredibly wholesome presence on this stream. She also had an awesome and disarming smile.

  • @AndreasKiaf
    @AndreasKiaf 3 роки тому +17

    I loved the part when you said "My experience was that I got terrible grades and didn't have any friends anyway." It made my laugh a lot. Thanks Dr.K. this session made me learn a lot.

  • @convox087
    @convox087 3 роки тому +6

    Jodis smile is so wholesome and infectious 😭❤

  • @MegaChickenpower
    @MegaChickenpower 3 роки тому +9

    Her smile is so genuine 😊

  • @kurolikesmusic
    @kurolikesmusic 3 роки тому +84

    "IS FUSLIE A REAL PERSON?" LMFAO. Now Dr.K goes back to his analogy of getting bit by a dog, he has been TRAUMATIZED.

  • @elliedevine6988
    @elliedevine6988 3 роки тому +5

    i can relate to the friend situation sm holy shit. like we stopped being friends cause she was toxic but then she was better and apologised, only to go back to her toxic habits again and were not friends anymore. like i didn't even realise that's where intrusive thoughts could stem from... my therapist and me gonna have a lot to talk about

  • @sewerpeople346
    @sewerpeople346 Рік тому +1

    I love all of your videos especially the interviews where you do a session - this channel has really helped me a lot , I’m a nobody but I’ve wanted to not be alive for as long as I can remember like since I was 6 - I don’t have a therapist but I use these videos to help me to to understand why I am the way I am. I know this comment means both but I appreciate the hellmout of you Dr.K you are a reallllly chill dude and I wish I knew ya lol I hope everyone here has a good day.

  • @nicolas_lf
    @nicolas_lf 3 роки тому +11

    I swear, the ending part of every video so far has been getting better and better, its so funny.

  • @miyalys
    @miyalys 3 роки тому +6

    Jodi must be an awesome friend! I hope that she too learns that fully herself over time, as 7-year-old Jodi receives the love and support she should've gotten back then.

  • @jagi7976
    @jagi7976 3 роки тому +8

    Love her energy, really cool and enlightening conversation 😌

  • @MatichekYoutube
    @MatichekYoutube 3 роки тому +10

    I think when the cat hugged her, it was like a grace from gods :), with the message, let's heal the child together :). Such a beautiful moment.

  • @kevinross6235
    @kevinross6235 3 роки тому +255

    I don't know who she is but of course I'm going to watch the whole video

    • @worldgoesround9
      @worldgoesround9 3 роки тому +34

      Shes a twitch stream and youtuber. She's friends with the offlineTV guys.

    • @livinlicious
      @livinlicious 3 роки тому +2

      Yeah. The whole thing is always people interviewed that nobody ever heard of and they don't care.
      Tons of twitch thots, or people that are only known for being friends of other twitch streamers.
      It's a huge incest pool. Everyone fame whoring of each other. Although they are all just plain 24yearolds that haven't done shit in their life.

    • @Blueline3691
      @Blueline3691 3 роки тому +6

      Yeah weird how that works

    • @a.blackwater3076
      @a.blackwater3076 3 роки тому +35

      @@livinlicious 😬😬😬dude u r the one of “us” dr.k is talking about. I think he might be able to help.

    • @AlexBeast25
      @AlexBeast25 3 роки тому +37

      @@livinlicious this some incel incel type shit. you okay? hope you’re doing fine, cause sheesh.

  • @M-L350
    @M-L350 3 роки тому +1

    everything she says about her brother is soooo relatable like if u have siblings u just Get it. also jodi i understand what u mean about wishing they were more considerate with ur parents bc i have that same thing with my sister

  • @JumboJames97
    @JumboJames97 3 роки тому +27

    As someone who has intrusive thoughts OCD this is gonna be a good watch!!

  • @NorroTaku
    @NorroTaku 3 роки тому +12

    man jody is such an inspiration FeelsGoodMan

  • @goblinodds
    @goblinodds 3 роки тому +4

    the description of what low confidence actually looks like was incredibly helpful!

  • @butwhymalemodels6368
    @butwhymalemodels6368 3 роки тому +2

    Jade's hair and makeup is gorgeous +____+ I am so in awe of you, girl

  • @Yuainai
    @Yuainai 3 роки тому +12

    This couldn't have come in the perfect time. Intrusive thoughts has been destroying my self esteem. This one hit home a few.

  • @goosefishh
    @goosefishh 3 роки тому +1

    I came to this channel because of Therapy Gecko and this is first video after that one I watched and wow… Jodi and her fathers relationship is exactly like my mom and I’s and we process EVERYTHING the same way. It was a trip, but it gave me so much insight.

  • @Trecesolotienesdos
    @Trecesolotienesdos 3 роки тому +4

    Dr k is a real star for these talks

  • @okayamyy
    @okayamyy 3 роки тому +1

    i've never related to someone in your videos more than this. thank you and jodi for sharing!

  • @ZackWatson
    @ZackWatson 3 роки тому +6

    This one is amazing for me. Thank you both.

  • @MegaRay0
    @MegaRay0 3 роки тому +46

    Damn, her father story is sooooo relatable.

  • @kalebs.2409
    @kalebs.2409 3 місяці тому

    Wow… this one kinda snuck up on me. Did NOT see coming how profound this got around the middle of the video. Really identify with being protective of just about everyone in my life or even strangers. Probably also because of being bullied and mistreated not dissimilar to what happened to Jade.
    Kudos for being this open and reflected! Keep doing what you’re doing.

  • @StimYuLus
    @StimYuLus 3 роки тому +4

    always love these talks w content creators. jodi gives off good vibes

  • @sitdowndusty
    @sitdowndusty 3 роки тому +2

    This is the first show i sat through the entirety of it because every single thing said hit home. It all correlated with my life

  • @saddlepiggy
    @saddlepiggy 3 роки тому +28

    Holy shit I’m 20 minutes in this is identical to my dad and it caused the same feelings. That you for sharing

    • @fghfghsrtsrthsrthsrt5968
      @fghfghsrtsrthsrthsrt5968 3 роки тому +1

      don't google narcissism

    • @erica-wf5sn
      @erica-wf5sn 3 роки тому

      @@fghfghsrtsrthsrthsrt5968 what?

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 3 роки тому

      Same here, but my dad used to take steroids, so his anger was caused by drugs

    • @mournlove6745
      @mournlove6745 3 роки тому

      @@criminalchicken499 what about the reason he had to take steroids, health problems? insecurities?

    • @criminalchicken499
      @criminalchicken499 3 роки тому +1

      @@mournlove6745 to get buff. Ended up turning him into a violent person. Had to go to a domestic violence shelter twice.

  • @kurookami8271
    @kurookami8271 3 роки тому +4

    Yo this really is great, I'm so glad my friend got me hooked on this podcast 😁 I'm a psychology student and right now we've got a seminar about psychological conversation leading and this really is a inspiration for our exercises 😁

  • @narubizarate
    @narubizarate 3 роки тому +21

    I would love for doctor K to talk more about the importance to do your own laundry, I never knew it was so important 🤔

    • @narubizarate
      @narubizarate 3 роки тому +1

      @@Ur_N0.1_fan Thanks! I'll look it up 😊

  • @Kavriel
    @Kavriel 3 роки тому +1

    Jodi is vibrant, she puts a smile on your face, people like that can be like magnets for depressed people.

  • @nblaise21
    @nblaise21 3 роки тому +2

    Wow she's such a lovely and positive person, I always liked Jodi, but now I like her even more! I think she's very brave for doing this! Dr K is amazing as well,, excellent stream!

  • @Loudman._
    @Loudman._ 3 роки тому

    jodi is great, makes me feel good whenever I can stop by her stream and hangout... lots of laughs and feel good moments in her community

  • @pjvlogs7180
    @pjvlogs7180 3 роки тому +2

    I relate so much to Jodi and I'm actually crying, wasn't expecting that :^)

  • @brendaortiz3810
    @brendaortiz3810 3 роки тому +4

    i totally understand jodi when she spoke about her brother, i feel the same way about my own brother

  • @AkeNo_H
    @AkeNo_H 3 роки тому +8

    she's a great person

  • @berzerius
    @berzerius 3 роки тому +16

    I think her father, intentionally or unintentionally, taught her confidence. That confidence is helping her a lot with life right now. It makes a great deal of difference.

  • @tuungan
    @tuungan 3 роки тому +1

    Aw man QJ is awesome. Used to follow her back in the days, pure sunshine. Great to see her on the show!

  • @muzzmunir8720
    @muzzmunir8720 3 роки тому +4

    shes incredibly smart, strong and brave

  • @MartinTB6
    @MartinTB6 3 роки тому +2

    Bro I love healthy gamer gg its so real

  • @TheKicerK
    @TheKicerK 3 роки тому +11

    holy shit i never expected to see my main problem talked about here damn FeelsGoodMan

  • @TheCof6656
    @TheCof6656 Рік тому

    I don't know most of the streamers that we have interviews with, but boi, was this girl someone I'd love to have as a friend. So charismatic and authentic. Love her.

  • @aditimr
    @aditimr 3 роки тому +2

    It's really interesting to see a person's experiences which are like the inverted of what I believe is mine. Great interview!

  • @yannik5460
    @yannik5460 3 роки тому +1

    I always thought of Jodi as a thoughtful person but this brings a completelty new perspective on her for me.
    She has gained a lot of respect from this even though she already was one of my favourite streamers as a person.

  • @robinfox4440
    @robinfox4440 Рік тому

    The early chat really resonated with me. I had a similar dad and I've had friends who were, as Dr K pointed out, really into logic. And yeah, when their logic was wrong, they got mad, and did not listen.

  • @matthewsilva5598
    @matthewsilva5598 3 роки тому +52

    Jodi is a cool girl. She's got good vibes

  • @musicbrazilian7065
    @musicbrazilian7065 4 місяці тому

    1: 23 tears roling over my face. 1:28 Dr K thank you so much you are our mental health guru, this converssation helped me so much. Therapy is everything everyone should try analyses. The chanting was an interesting experience. Dr K's wife is his thid eye.

  • @peterlustig7917
    @peterlustig7917 3 роки тому +1

    casually watching the vod at 1:04:10.
    yes Dr. K has me in tears like a small boy

  • @EssenceOfMine
    @EssenceOfMine 3 роки тому +2

    Her smile would save my days.

  • @jordanwood3150
    @jordanwood3150 3 роки тому +7

    I can relate so much to having the angry dad who would blow up at the slightest little thing. Sadly I can see that in myself as well, although I've been learning to control that over the past few years. Honestly, sometimes it feels like he actively goes out of his way to find anything to get pissed of at and complain about. Like he'll see a shoe that's not on the shoe rack and start shouting and throwing a fit. As a teenager, if I ever spoke back he'd say some of the vilest shit at me and talk about he's the adult and I should respect him. Cause apparently me defending myself when he's accused me of something I didn't do is disrespectful. I still live at home cause I've gone back to uni as an adult. I basically just stay in my room and keep to myself so I don't draw attention to myself. That way he can't complain.

    • @aliceh5289
      @aliceh5289 Рік тому

      I'm so sorry. I was just in that situation with a friend who was renting me a room. I tried my best to stay out of her way, and she found an excuse to come into the room and corner me to yell at me. I hope your dad doesn't do that to you.

  • @soner4805
    @soner4805 3 роки тому +9

    Hell yeah.

  • @Appleloucious
    @Appleloucious 2 місяці тому

    One Love!
    Always forward, never ever backward!!
    ☀️☀️☀️
    💚💛❤️
    🙏🏿🙏🙏🏼

  • @Ashstyx0
    @Ashstyx0 3 роки тому +4

    her hair is amazing

  • @mikasasukasa4479
    @mikasasukasa4479 3 роки тому +4

    her smile is sunshine

  • @matthiasnm4279
    @matthiasnm4279 3 роки тому +9

    I had no idea why I related to Jodi so much till rn

  • @brishawn996
    @brishawn996 3 роки тому +1

    it is crazy how similar her experiences are to mines JODI I FEEL YOU GURL!

  • @sspark_101
    @sspark_101 3 роки тому +8

    After watching the part about her family, I can now understand why she doesn’t talk much about her dad and brother. Maybe sometime in the future she can do a sibling tag (is that what it is called or is Q&A better?).

  • @robbytheyogi990
    @robbytheyogi990 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks as always

  • @jobless_mar
    @jobless_mar 3 роки тому

    Wow. Super comforting to hear people who have similar relationships with their siblings as me :(

  • @huangrenjunism
    @huangrenjunism 3 роки тому +1

    actually really loved this interview