@@forcedge2302 And who decides what's a weakness and what is a strength? Do you have proof that Satan doesn't exist? Perhaps your feelings aren't his responsibility, but it's his reliability to get to you.
@@forcedge2302 Jokes on you. Santa is real. Checkmate, atheist. For real though, you don't know that guy and i could just as easily assume you just never experienced actual hardship in your life to get to a point where you'd fall on a religion to cope. Get off your high horse, man, or at least keep self centered comments like that to yourself. Coming from an agnostic person with plenty of reasons to hate on religion.
@@eliasgarcia6576 I’m a bit late to the party, but no one should have to prove something exists if you can’t even prove it exists to begin with. There’s nothing to disprove since no one has ever seen neither God nor Satan. You have to show proof of why you think Satan (or any other godly ”creature” for that matter) exists in the first place, then we can try disproving you.
@@biocular “You’ve just never experienced enough hardship to use religous delusion as your coping mechanism” What a shitty ass thing to say to somebody, especially in the midst of a pandemic when people’s loved ones are dying left and right.
So cool how the cat hugged her while they were talking about self-compassion, looked like it knew she needed to be comforted after resurfacing those emotions. after 1:28:00
The way Dr. K gave Jodi an idea of where she may want to set a boundary and not speak publicly about some things was so well done. Goes to show the importance of speaking with a professional when you make this kind of content. He cares about the person he's talking to more than the content itself.
It is very hard to confront childhood trauma, it's very scary and very emotional, sometimes you don't even know that you are avoiding it like Jodi was by acting bubbly and happy when talking about it.
Not so much that they are “idiots”, but that they are just as human and imperfect as anyone. Lol it seems like allot of people here want to distance themselves from their parents.
Jodi is so empowering. When I first watched her i was really captivated by her energy. I want to express myself just like her(and valkyrae), but I feel like my personality image is so opposite that i don't know how to escape it. Idk if that made sense. But Jodi is my inspiration and i hope I can find friends just as empowering as her.
I think Jodi is one of the gamers with the most emotional intelligence (EQ) that has ever been on the show. Not a lot of people would confront their own father about his actions and be able to see where malicious behavior in others may stem from - or be able to share so many insecurities so eloquently and candidly. Also thanks Dr. K for these sessions! Super interesting and helps me contextualize my own life.
You don't need EQ for confrortation. You need courage and belif into things you are experiencing. SJW are IDIOTS who confrot everyone about everything. EQ is how do you relate understand and manage your emotions.
@@datscrazy4095 oh no, I agree with you. My comment was more of acknowledging others streams that align OPs comment in terms of emotional intelligence. I stray far from having this being a debate or needless comparison of other people dealing with the limitless encounters of life.
This made me realize often time during social interactions I get intrusive thought that im going to ruin the interaction, they come out especially when things are going great (laughing together, connecting / bonding) then the thought pops up and I may act kinda weird which actually may kinda ruin it low key. I got a thought like this just yesterday for example, I was on a call with my friend and suddenly im thinking that I should cut the call short even though everything was going fine because I don't want to ruin it
I've been struggling with intrusive thoughts for 4 years now and every time people come up and talk to me, I get thoughts of hitting them. Those people then end up not liking me and start to feel uncomfortable around me. I've been isolating myself in my room for 5 months now and I've been frequently tuning in to your streams. They've been helping me out a lot but I'm still having these intrusive thoughts. Hopefully, things will get better and I can move on with my life. Thank you Dr. K , you are a true legend.
She is so awesome. It takes a pure heart to be traumatized like that and still turn out to be such a good person. She refuses to let others feel the pain that she felt
It's fascinating how p much every single twitch streamer who winds up on dr K's streams is rly a compelling, thoughtful person in one way or another. I rarely watch streamer content so I always has this idea of some silly kid just playing videogames and mock-reacting to scarejumps for attention or whatever. I don't know if there's self-selection bias in the kind of streamer who would talk to dr K or I'm just chronically underestimating twitch people. They almost all come off as thoughtful, articulate, mature, with a rich inner life. It keeps blowing my mind
You also have to deal with the internet on a much higher scale while being streamer and you have to know how to manage your emotions due to some hateful people and lot of other things(like being misrepresented, being the target of a hate mob). And if you never learn how to deal with that then you're just gonna be a complete mess 24/7.
The way I see it Doctor K could talk to anyone at all and we would start to feel this way simply because we start to empathize with that person. Like logically we know that everyone is living their own life and has their own story but our monkey brains don't really get that. In the same vein when Dr. K talks to people and we learn more about them, we naturally start to get a feeling that they DO live their own life, that the streamer persona is just something they put on. IDK did that make sense?
it's because if you aren't interested in a subject the only news that you'll hear about said subject is the sensational negative side of things. So of course there are bad people on UA-cam and Twitch. There are plenty of people like Keemstar and people who enjoy that type of content. But for the most part in order to be successful on Twitch you have to be a genuine real person.
This made me realize I have intrusive thoughts similar to Jodi. I just thought this was my feelings and that everyone felt this but this was so specific that I feel like this is what it was about
I actually thought it meant low confidence. But then I'm also a very confident person when I'm alone or with ppl I know well. Which tells me I might be similar to her in that sense. Never thought of it as intrusive thoughts though. I feel like treating is as intrusive thoughts might generate different approaches to deal with it which might finally work
When she said she didn't know why she was good at streaming me and Dr K literally had the same thought. I've never seen her streams but you can just tell she's a bubbly and charismatic person.
I was already a fan of Jodi but seeing how much emotional intelligence she has especially for only being 23 makes me respect her a lot more. PS: kinda unrelated but since he's part of her friend group i would really want to see Sykkuno on the show cause i feel like half of the internet could learn from him/his story(but it's probably just a pipe dream since he seems a rather private person)
Jodi definitely comes off as older than 23 in the way that she seems very mature and intelligent. Also about Sykkuno, when a lot of offline TV was on here 5-6 months ago he said he might do it, but he probably won't because there's a lot of things he isn't really comfortable talking about online. I don't know if that has changed because he does seem much more confident now, and it could definitely be helpful for a lot of people.
@@Owaowah Area of Effect. It's a video game term about affecting multiple objects in a proximity as opposed to an individual. His goal with this is to reach as many people as possible with the videos bc 1. there's not much net affect in helping 1 person, and 2. there's much commonality among any number of people's stories/lived experiences
As an older brother with younger sisters, hearing what Jodi was saying about her own brother really struck a chord. lots of really good talking points here
Thank you Jodi , you found your little Jodi , love her & accept her!!! You are very brave to do this & share your life journey with us; I found it very helpful to my life 🙏😊❤️
Her cat could definitely feel her emotions right there when it went all up in her hair. My cat lays on my stomach and purrs when I’m sick (which I am a lot and it’s from in resolved trauma) and it gives me comfort
Wow, I haven't watched a ton of Jodi before but watching this, we had very similar upbringing and college experiences and just a lot in common in general. And she's still so confident. She seems like an amazing person and I'm looking forward to watching more of her ❤
I absolutely love Dr K, and always gain alot from his talks with others. It makes me wish everybody could talk through stuff with somebody like him. I feel society could begin mending if we all understood ourselves better.
There's actually loads of men around that late 50's age who are gamers. I guess they were in their late teens/early twenties and had disposable income when the first consoles and computers were out. You run into them all the time when you take the time to talk to the people you meet online. Maybe it will be less surprising in 20 years to hear that someone's Millenial parent is a gamer. In fact I expect that it will be more a case of "my gamer parent ruined my life" or "growing up with parents who only looked at me through a camera lens" or "growing up as an instagram baby" eesh. Good luck Dr K 2040 edition
My dad fits this to a T. Always been into computers and board gaming and video games were just a natural progression. He got me into gaming (watching him play WoW and Medieval: Total War as a little kid are some of my most nostalgic memories) and we trade rounds on Battlefield 1 while having drinks when I'm at my parents' place these days.
@@thiocarbamoyl if handled well, i feel like gaming can be overwhelmingly positive medium for parent-child bonding because kids' desposition towards video games. Honestly im jelous
Yeah! I'm "middle-aged"... and his shock to people in my generation being "gamers" kind of shocked me. PLENTY of people who are now 40-55 got into gaming early and are still going strong. lol
Im still about a third of the way through this i just had to stop and say soo much of this hit home way too hard. So much of this is exactly how my childhood was
I relate to the whole fake friend thing so much. It's obviously not really something that I can talk to my friends about, and I always thought I was alone in feeling like this, so I appreciate this a lot!
I teared up at the end because I think Jodi is the sweetest person and I love her streams and watching her in the conversation you can just feel the hurt that she's had in her life, I empathized so much with her story. And weirdly I was so proud of her for sitting in silence for a minute and just being in that space.
So the main thing I personally take away from this talk is that confidence is not a one-way street. I relate to Jade in the sense that I am both confident and insecure at the same time and because insecurity is "louder" it can feel like I am not confident. Thanks Dr. K and Jade :)
I think I have the same kind of sum-scar that Jodi has, so this was very helpful and somewhat emotional for me. I‘m thinking about going to a therapist now, not sure yet how I‘d sway my parents since I‘m only 16 but you’ll only know once you try. Thanks Dr.K!
I loved the part when you said "My experience was that I got terrible grades and didn't have any friends anyway." It made my laugh a lot. Thanks Dr.K. this session made me learn a lot.
i can relate to the friend situation sm holy shit. like we stopped being friends cause she was toxic but then she was better and apologised, only to go back to her toxic habits again and were not friends anymore. like i didn't even realise that's where intrusive thoughts could stem from... my therapist and me gonna have a lot to talk about
I love all of your videos especially the interviews where you do a session - this channel has really helped me a lot , I’m a nobody but I’ve wanted to not be alive for as long as I can remember like since I was 6 - I don’t have a therapist but I use these videos to help me to to understand why I am the way I am. I know this comment means both but I appreciate the hellmout of you Dr.K you are a reallllly chill dude and I wish I knew ya lol I hope everyone here has a good day.
Jodi must be an awesome friend! I hope that she too learns that fully herself over time, as 7-year-old Jodi receives the love and support she should've gotten back then.
Yeah. The whole thing is always people interviewed that nobody ever heard of and they don't care. Tons of twitch thots, or people that are only known for being friends of other twitch streamers. It's a huge incest pool. Everyone fame whoring of each other. Although they are all just plain 24yearolds that haven't done shit in their life.
everything she says about her brother is soooo relatable like if u have siblings u just Get it. also jodi i understand what u mean about wishing they were more considerate with ur parents bc i have that same thing with my sister
I came to this channel because of Therapy Gecko and this is first video after that one I watched and wow… Jodi and her fathers relationship is exactly like my mom and I’s and we process EVERYTHING the same way. It was a trip, but it gave me so much insight.
Wow… this one kinda snuck up on me. Did NOT see coming how profound this got around the middle of the video. Really identify with being protective of just about everyone in my life or even strangers. Probably also because of being bullied and mistreated not dissimilar to what happened to Jade. Kudos for being this open and reflected! Keep doing what you’re doing.
Yo this really is great, I'm so glad my friend got me hooked on this podcast 😁 I'm a psychology student and right now we've got a seminar about psychological conversation leading and this really is a inspiration for our exercises 😁
Wow she's such a lovely and positive person, I always liked Jodi, but now I like her even more! I think she's very brave for doing this! Dr K is amazing as well,, excellent stream!
I think her father, intentionally or unintentionally, taught her confidence. That confidence is helping her a lot with life right now. It makes a great deal of difference.
I don't know most of the streamers that we have interviews with, but boi, was this girl someone I'd love to have as a friend. So charismatic and authentic. Love her.
I always thought of Jodi as a thoughtful person but this brings a completelty new perspective on her for me. She has gained a lot of respect from this even though she already was one of my favourite streamers as a person.
The early chat really resonated with me. I had a similar dad and I've had friends who were, as Dr K pointed out, really into logic. And yeah, when their logic was wrong, they got mad, and did not listen.
1: 23 tears roling over my face. 1:28 Dr K thank you so much you are our mental health guru, this converssation helped me so much. Therapy is everything everyone should try analyses. The chanting was an interesting experience. Dr K's wife is his thid eye.
I can relate so much to having the angry dad who would blow up at the slightest little thing. Sadly I can see that in myself as well, although I've been learning to control that over the past few years. Honestly, sometimes it feels like he actively goes out of his way to find anything to get pissed of at and complain about. Like he'll see a shoe that's not on the shoe rack and start shouting and throwing a fit. As a teenager, if I ever spoke back he'd say some of the vilest shit at me and talk about he's the adult and I should respect him. Cause apparently me defending myself when he's accused me of something I didn't do is disrespectful. I still live at home cause I've gone back to uni as an adult. I basically just stay in my room and keep to myself so I don't draw attention to myself. That way he can't complain.
I'm so sorry. I was just in that situation with a friend who was renting me a room. I tried my best to stay out of her way, and she found an excuse to come into the room and corner me to yell at me. I hope your dad doesn't do that to you.
After watching the part about her family, I can now understand why she doesn’t talk much about her dad and brother. Maybe sometime in the future she can do a sibling tag (is that what it is called or is Q&A better?).
"...I must be inherently bad; There must be something wrong with me that somebody just won't tell me..." I felt that
that be satan trying to deceive us
@@forcedge2302 And who decides what's a weakness and what is a strength? Do you have proof that Satan doesn't exist? Perhaps your feelings aren't his responsibility, but it's his reliability to get to you.
@@forcedge2302 Jokes on you. Santa is real. Checkmate, atheist.
For real though, you don't know that guy and i could just as easily assume you just never experienced actual hardship in your life to get to a point where you'd fall on a religion to cope. Get off your high horse, man, or at least keep self centered comments like that to yourself. Coming from an agnostic person with plenty of reasons to hate on religion.
@@eliasgarcia6576 I’m a bit late to the party, but no one should have to prove something exists if you can’t even prove it exists to begin with. There’s nothing to disprove since no one has ever seen neither God nor Satan. You have to show proof of why you think Satan (or any other godly ”creature” for that matter) exists in the first place, then we can try disproving you.
@@biocular “You’ve just never experienced enough hardship to use religous delusion as your coping mechanism” What a shitty ass thing to say to somebody, especially in the midst of a pandemic when people’s loved ones are dying left and right.
So cool how the cat hugged her while they were talking about self-compassion, looked like it knew she needed to be comforted after resurfacing those emotions. after 1:28:00
yeah!!! that was such a great moment
Animals be smart
Cats always know man.
"Is fuslie a real person? I feel like you're trolling me." LOL
Dr. K got trolled too many times recently and now he expects it. kind of fits the topics of the video, doesnt it? :D
@@SETHthegodofchaos I'm fully aware lol
Haha, he pronounced the name right, though!
@@miyalys no, close, but he did it incorrectly. he pronounced it fooslie, while its supposed to be foozlie (like leslie)
@@AlexBeast25 isnt it fyoozlie
The way Dr. K gave Jodi an idea of where she may want to set a boundary and not speak publicly about some things was so well done. Goes to show the importance of speaking with a professional when you make this kind of content. He cares about the person he's talking to more than the content itself.
It is very hard to confront childhood trauma, it's very scary and very emotional, sometimes you don't even know that you are avoiding it like Jodi was by acting bubbly and happy when talking about it.
I agree 100%. And we all some some to confront.
Jodi's smile is so captivating, isn't it? Just beautiful
@BunsGlazing Simp leaning but not full simp. Shes just really good looking imo
@@j.rlouis3756 not even simp leaning, complimenting a girl doesn’t make you a simp in anyways
that is not simping it just true
i shit my pants
Compliments are not simpin
1:29 so cute how that cat hugs her, such coincidental timing, when she struggles with self compassion the cat gives it instead
Is it a common occurence to grow up and find out that your parents are actually pretty immature or childish?
Yes, exactly that is happing to me and my father. Every day I realize more and more what an idiot he is.
i already know my mom is annoying and childish
Half of the time thats the truth and the other half it's puberty making u ungrateful/ overconfident
It is. Parents are literally just like you but with a kid. It's kind of fucked up considering that I would not trust myself with a child.
Not so much that they are “idiots”, but that they are just as human and imperfect as anyone. Lol it seems like allot of people here want to distance themselves from their parents.
30:52 "I was both a loser and a failure". Oof, I felt that. At least I nowadays don't get graded anymore so the second part stings less.
Jodi is so empowering. When I first watched her i was really captivated by her energy. I want to express myself just like her(and valkyrae), but I feel like my personality image is so opposite that i don't know how to escape it. Idk if that made sense. But Jodi is my inspiration and i hope I can find friends just as empowering as her.
I think Jodi is one of the gamers with the most emotional intelligence (EQ) that has ever been on the show. Not a lot of people would confront their own father about his actions and be able to see where malicious behavior in others may stem from - or be able to share so many insecurities so eloquently and candidly. Also thanks Dr. K for these sessions! Super interesting and helps me contextualize my own life.
You don't need EQ for confrortation. You need courage and belif into things you are experiencing.
SJW are IDIOTS who confrot everyone about everything. EQ is how do you relate understand and manage your emotions.
@monichiatto have you seen any of the Sweet Anita streams with dr.k? They are wildly insightful.
@@poe_more_please true, but just make sure this comment section doesn't become a debate
@@datscrazy4095 oh no, I agree with you. My comment was more of acknowledging others streams that align OPs comment in terms of emotional intelligence. I stray far from having this being a debate or needless comparison of other people dealing with the limitless encounters of life.
Sweet Anita and Jodi both show an impressive amount of EQ
My mind is blown, "Can i think for a second" is also a second for the client to relax a bit from the heavy work
This made me realize often time during social interactions I get intrusive thought that im going to ruin the interaction, they come out especially when things are going great (laughing together, connecting / bonding) then the thought pops up and I may act kinda weird which actually may kinda ruin it low key. I got a thought like this just yesterday for example, I was on a call with my friend and suddenly im thinking that I should cut the call short even though everything was going fine because I don't want to ruin it
I have suffered with intrusive thoughts for ages and have had to seek help for it. This is a really cool and interesting conversation
same.
@Christaps the 3rd you alright?
@@alyanah everything ok?
I've been struggling with intrusive thoughts for 4 years now and every time people come up and talk to me, I get thoughts of hitting them. Those people then end up not liking me and start to feel uncomfortable around me. I've been isolating myself in my room for 5 months now and I've been frequently tuning in to your streams. They've been helping me out a lot but I'm still having these intrusive thoughts. Hopefully, things will get better and I can move on with my life. Thank you Dr. K , you are a true legend.
I'm so happy that my favorite streamers are getting the help and support they need,dr.k is a true legend.
She is so awesome. It takes a pure heart to be traumatized like that and still turn out to be such a good person. She refuses to let others feel the pain that she felt
It's fascinating how p much every single twitch streamer who winds up on dr K's streams is rly a compelling, thoughtful person in one way or another. I rarely watch streamer content so I always has this idea of some silly kid just playing videogames and mock-reacting to scarejumps for attention or whatever. I don't know if there's self-selection bias in the kind of streamer who would talk to dr K or I'm just chronically underestimating twitch people. They almost all come off as thoughtful, articulate, mature, with a rich inner life. It keeps blowing my mind
Same. Well said my dude
The selection bias is being a streamer in the first place, being charismatic and interesting is the #1 requirement
You also have to deal with the internet on a much higher scale while being streamer and you have to know how to manage your emotions due to some hateful people and lot of other things(like being misrepresented, being the target of a hate mob). And if you never learn how to deal with that then you're just gonna be a complete mess 24/7.
The way I see it Doctor K could talk to anyone at all and we would start to feel this way simply because we start to empathize with that person. Like logically we know that everyone is living their own life and has their own story but our monkey brains don't really get that. In the same vein when Dr. K talks to people and we learn more about them, we naturally start to get a feeling that they DO live their own life, that the streamer persona is just something they put on. IDK did that make sense?
it's because if you aren't interested in a subject the only news that you'll hear about said subject is the sensational negative side of things. So of course there are bad people on UA-cam and Twitch. There are plenty of people like Keemstar and people who enjoy that type of content. But for the most part in order to be successful on Twitch you have to be a genuine real person.
This made me realize I have intrusive thoughts similar to Jodi. I just thought this was my feelings and that everyone felt this but this was so specific that I feel like this is what it was about
I actually thought it meant low confidence. But then I'm also a very confident person when I'm alone or with ppl I know well. Which tells me I might be similar to her in that sense. Never thought of it as intrusive thoughts though. I feel like treating is as intrusive thoughts might generate different approaches to deal with it which might finally work
@@isabella7p this. I actually feel this so much
When she said she didn't know why she was good at streaming me and Dr K literally had the same thought. I've never seen her streams but you can just tell she's a bubbly and charismatic person.
Also she's a cracked gamer, watch her play Valorant, you'll know :D
I loved Jodi's confusion there. XD
I was already a fan of Jodi but seeing how much emotional intelligence she has especially for only being 23 makes me respect her a lot more.
PS: kinda unrelated but since he's part of her friend group i would really want to see Sykkuno on the show cause i feel like half of the internet could learn from him/his story(but it's probably just a pipe dream since he seems a rather private person)
I think he would do the show
It will be really interesting if he did
WOW. siiiiimp. siiiiimp. simp simp. tier 3 simp simper simp word simp funny. simp. simp hilarious.. simp lol. (simp) funny word
Jodi definitely comes off as older than 23 in the way that she seems very mature and intelligent.
Also about Sykkuno, when a lot of offline TV was on here 5-6 months ago he said he might do it, but he probably won't because there's a lot of things he isn't really comfortable talking about online. I don't know if that has changed because he does seem much more confident now, and it could definitely be helpful for a lot of people.
Yeah seems unlikely he’ll come but if he does, i bet he will have the sturdiest concrete wall for Dr K to crack through
LOL the ending... "Is fuslie a real person??"
jared from subway?
Time stamp?
Would love to have Leslie on the shooow 💙💙💙💙
@@fatcow3723 last like 10 seconds
1:43:19
Thanks!
Crazy how strong Jodi is, I truly admire that
it seems like she needed to be that.
The comment section talking about how relatable this is is a monument to the show's thesis on AOE Healing. Really awesome
AOE?
@@Owaowah Area of Effect. It's a video game term about affecting multiple objects in a proximity as opposed to an individual. His goal with this is to reach as many people as possible with the videos bc 1. there's not much net affect in helping 1 person, and 2. there's much commonality among any number of people's stories/lived experiences
@@annamata4758 Oh makes sense. Thank you
As an older brother with younger sisters, hearing what Jodi was saying about her own brother really struck a chord. lots of really good talking points here
jodi’s relationship with her brother is literally me and my brother-
Thank you Jodi , you found your little Jodi , love her & accept her!!! You are very brave to do this & share your life journey with us; I found it very helpful to my life 🙏😊❤️
Her cat could definitely feel her emotions right there when it went all up in her hair. My cat lays on my stomach and purrs when I’m sick (which I am a lot and it’s from in resolved trauma) and it gives me comfort
Wow, I haven't watched a ton of Jodi before but watching this, we had very similar upbringing and college experiences and just a lot in common in general. And she's still so confident. She seems like an amazing person and I'm looking forward to watching more of her ❤
I absolutely love Dr K, and always gain alot from his talks with others. It makes me wish everybody could talk through stuff with somebody like him. I feel society could begin mending if we all understood ourselves better.
There's actually loads of men around that late 50's age who are gamers. I guess they were in their late teens/early twenties and had disposable income when the first consoles and computers were out. You run into them all the time when you take the time to talk to the people you meet online. Maybe it will be less surprising in 20 years to hear that someone's Millenial parent is a gamer. In fact I expect that it will be more a case of "my gamer parent ruined my life" or "growing up with parents who only looked at me through a camera lens" or "growing up as an instagram baby" eesh. Good luck Dr K 2040 edition
My dad fits this to a T. Always been into computers and board gaming and video games were just a natural progression. He got me into gaming (watching him play WoW and Medieval: Total War as a little kid are some of my most nostalgic memories) and we trade rounds on Battlefield 1 while having drinks when I'm at my parents' place these days.
@@thiocarbamoyl if handled well, i feel like gaming can be overwhelmingly positive medium for parent-child bonding because kids' desposition towards video games. Honestly im jelous
You talking about Joe rogan?
gaming isn't a kiddies thing. no reason why it should be.
Yeah! I'm "middle-aged"... and his shock to people in my generation being "gamers" kind of shocked me. PLENTY of people who are now 40-55 got into gaming early and are still going strong. lol
Im still about a third of the way through this i just had to stop and say soo much of this hit home way too hard. So much of this is exactly how my childhood was
Love the way Dr. K hepls bring up people's confidence
try to picture your parents playing halo at 2:00 a.m. that´s wholesome and unbelievable at the same time.
I relate to the whole fake friend thing so much. It's obviously not really something that I can talk to my friends about, and I always thought I was alone in feeling like this, so I appreciate this a lot!
It's crazy how similar people lives can be. Parts of her story are identical to mine. In a way, Dr. K coaching her is like he's talking to me.
That's the entire thesis of the show. AOE Healing :)
I fewl the same way. At the end of the day, we’re the same species, similar hardware, similar software
@@annamata4758 Dr K is healer class
Same her relationship with her father and how she picked up his anger is identical to me.
I teared up at the end because I think Jodi is the sweetest person and I love her streams and watching her in the conversation you can just feel the hurt that she's had in her life, I empathized so much with her story. And weirdly I was so proud of her for sitting in silence for a minute and just being in that space.
So the main thing I personally take away from this talk is that confidence is not a one-way street. I relate to Jade in the sense that I am both confident and insecure at the same time and because insecurity is "louder" it can feel like I am not confident. Thanks Dr. K and Jade :)
I think I have the same kind of sum-scar that Jodi has, so this was very helpful and somewhat emotional for me. I‘m thinking about going to a therapist now, not sure yet how I‘d sway my parents since I‘m only 16 but you’ll only know once you try. Thanks Dr.K!
Good luck!
Samskhar i think haha
@@ameliasyifa4332 संस्कार to be precise
Jodi looks like Jodi and Syd's love child with the new hair
actually ^^
imma keep it a buck fifty she looks like princess bubblegum
@@chromso ACTUALLY THOUGH. Tanned PB?
That cat knew it was comfort time. Weird, psychic creatures.
The Egyptians worshipped them for a reason. 😻
@@rraebanzzzz Cats have never forgotten this either.
She was an incredibly wholesome presence on this stream. She also had an awesome and disarming smile.
I loved the part when you said "My experience was that I got terrible grades and didn't have any friends anyway." It made my laugh a lot. Thanks Dr.K. this session made me learn a lot.
Jodis smile is so wholesome and infectious 😭❤
Her smile is so genuine 😊
"IS FUSLIE A REAL PERSON?" LMFAO. Now Dr.K goes back to his analogy of getting bit by a dog, he has been TRAUMATIZED.
i can relate to the friend situation sm holy shit. like we stopped being friends cause she was toxic but then she was better and apologised, only to go back to her toxic habits again and were not friends anymore. like i didn't even realise that's where intrusive thoughts could stem from... my therapist and me gonna have a lot to talk about
I love all of your videos especially the interviews where you do a session - this channel has really helped me a lot , I’m a nobody but I’ve wanted to not be alive for as long as I can remember like since I was 6 - I don’t have a therapist but I use these videos to help me to to understand why I am the way I am. I know this comment means both but I appreciate the hellmout of you Dr.K you are a reallllly chill dude and I wish I knew ya lol I hope everyone here has a good day.
I swear, the ending part of every video so far has been getting better and better, its so funny.
Jodi must be an awesome friend! I hope that she too learns that fully herself over time, as 7-year-old Jodi receives the love and support she should've gotten back then.
Love her energy, really cool and enlightening conversation 😌
I think when the cat hugged her, it was like a grace from gods :), with the message, let's heal the child together :). Such a beautiful moment.
I don't know who she is but of course I'm going to watch the whole video
Shes a twitch stream and youtuber. She's friends with the offlineTV guys.
Yeah. The whole thing is always people interviewed that nobody ever heard of and they don't care.
Tons of twitch thots, or people that are only known for being friends of other twitch streamers.
It's a huge incest pool. Everyone fame whoring of each other. Although they are all just plain 24yearolds that haven't done shit in their life.
Yeah weird how that works
@@livinlicious 😬😬😬dude u r the one of “us” dr.k is talking about. I think he might be able to help.
@@livinlicious this some incel incel type shit. you okay? hope you’re doing fine, cause sheesh.
everything she says about her brother is soooo relatable like if u have siblings u just Get it. also jodi i understand what u mean about wishing they were more considerate with ur parents bc i have that same thing with my sister
As someone who has intrusive thoughts OCD this is gonna be a good watch!!
I also suffer from pure O OCD. OCD GANGGGGG
@@Errorcodes2 squad upppp
same (:
You don’t have Ocd
@@2hillsinbetween You have no way to know that, real people with OCD exist
man jody is such an inspiration FeelsGoodMan
the description of what low confidence actually looks like was incredibly helpful!
Jade's hair and makeup is gorgeous +____+ I am so in awe of you, girl
This couldn't have come in the perfect time. Intrusive thoughts has been destroying my self esteem. This one hit home a few.
I came to this channel because of Therapy Gecko and this is first video after that one I watched and wow… Jodi and her fathers relationship is exactly like my mom and I’s and we process EVERYTHING the same way. It was a trip, but it gave me so much insight.
Dr k is a real star for these talks
i've never related to someone in your videos more than this. thank you and jodi for sharing!
This one is amazing for me. Thank you both.
Damn, her father story is sooooo relatable.
Wow… this one kinda snuck up on me. Did NOT see coming how profound this got around the middle of the video. Really identify with being protective of just about everyone in my life or even strangers. Probably also because of being bullied and mistreated not dissimilar to what happened to Jade.
Kudos for being this open and reflected! Keep doing what you’re doing.
always love these talks w content creators. jodi gives off good vibes
This is the first show i sat through the entirety of it because every single thing said hit home. It all correlated with my life
Holy shit I’m 20 minutes in this is identical to my dad and it caused the same feelings. That you for sharing
don't google narcissism
@@fghfghsrtsrthsrthsrt5968 what?
Same here, but my dad used to take steroids, so his anger was caused by drugs
@@criminalchicken499 what about the reason he had to take steroids, health problems? insecurities?
@@mournlove6745 to get buff. Ended up turning him into a violent person. Had to go to a domestic violence shelter twice.
Yo this really is great, I'm so glad my friend got me hooked on this podcast 😁 I'm a psychology student and right now we've got a seminar about psychological conversation leading and this really is a inspiration for our exercises 😁
I would love for doctor K to talk more about the importance to do your own laundry, I never knew it was so important 🤔
@@Ur_N0.1_fan Thanks! I'll look it up 😊
Jodi is vibrant, she puts a smile on your face, people like that can be like magnets for depressed people.
Wow she's such a lovely and positive person, I always liked Jodi, but now I like her even more! I think she's very brave for doing this! Dr K is amazing as well,, excellent stream!
jodi is great, makes me feel good whenever I can stop by her stream and hangout... lots of laughs and feel good moments in her community
I relate so much to Jodi and I'm actually crying, wasn't expecting that :^)
i totally understand jodi when she spoke about her brother, i feel the same way about my own brother
she's a great person
I think her father, intentionally or unintentionally, taught her confidence. That confidence is helping her a lot with life right now. It makes a great deal of difference.
Aw man QJ is awesome. Used to follow her back in the days, pure sunshine. Great to see her on the show!
shes incredibly smart, strong and brave
Bro I love healthy gamer gg its so real
holy shit i never expected to see my main problem talked about here damn FeelsGoodMan
I don't know most of the streamers that we have interviews with, but boi, was this girl someone I'd love to have as a friend. So charismatic and authentic. Love her.
It's really interesting to see a person's experiences which are like the inverted of what I believe is mine. Great interview!
I always thought of Jodi as a thoughtful person but this brings a completelty new perspective on her for me.
She has gained a lot of respect from this even though she already was one of my favourite streamers as a person.
The early chat really resonated with me. I had a similar dad and I've had friends who were, as Dr K pointed out, really into logic. And yeah, when their logic was wrong, they got mad, and did not listen.
Jodi is a cool girl. She's got good vibes
1: 23 tears roling over my face. 1:28 Dr K thank you so much you are our mental health guru, this converssation helped me so much. Therapy is everything everyone should try analyses. The chanting was an interesting experience. Dr K's wife is his thid eye.
casually watching the vod at 1:04:10.
yes Dr. K has me in tears like a small boy
Her smile would save my days.
I can relate so much to having the angry dad who would blow up at the slightest little thing. Sadly I can see that in myself as well, although I've been learning to control that over the past few years. Honestly, sometimes it feels like he actively goes out of his way to find anything to get pissed of at and complain about. Like he'll see a shoe that's not on the shoe rack and start shouting and throwing a fit. As a teenager, if I ever spoke back he'd say some of the vilest shit at me and talk about he's the adult and I should respect him. Cause apparently me defending myself when he's accused me of something I didn't do is disrespectful. I still live at home cause I've gone back to uni as an adult. I basically just stay in my room and keep to myself so I don't draw attention to myself. That way he can't complain.
I'm so sorry. I was just in that situation with a friend who was renting me a room. I tried my best to stay out of her way, and she found an excuse to come into the room and corner me to yell at me. I hope your dad doesn't do that to you.
Hell yeah.
One Love!
Always forward, never ever backward!!
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💚💛❤️
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her hair is amazing
her smile is sunshine
I had no idea why I related to Jodi so much till rn
it is crazy how similar her experiences are to mines JODI I FEEL YOU GURL!
After watching the part about her family, I can now understand why she doesn’t talk much about her dad and brother. Maybe sometime in the future she can do a sibling tag (is that what it is called or is Q&A better?).
Thanks as always
Wow. Super comforting to hear people who have similar relationships with their siblings as me :(
actually really loved this interview