things we are TOO old for | letting go of cringe culture in your twenties

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  • Опубліковано 30 тра 2023
  • Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon share what they've outgrown in their pursuit of authenticity, connection & joy in their twenties.
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    Twenty Whatever features Sierra Schultzzie, Riayn Christina, & Paloma Malfavon talking candidly about navigating your 20's with your friends through different phases of life. (formerly Sierra Unfiltered)
    things we are too old for | letting go of cringe culture in your twenties
    • things we are TOO old ...
    0:19 intro
    3:57 Blue’s Clue’s & Barney controversies
    4:48 Blue’s Clue’s lore: “Hopscotch college”
    5:32 our beloved childhood shows
    6:58 We stan Ms. Rachel
    8:24 The Nickelodeon of it All
    12:18 The Group Chat!
    15:33 I’m too old for what…?
    16:12 socks
    20:03 pregame
    24:03 making besties in the bathroom
    27:13 sunscreen
    30:55 the floor
    34:40 breakfast
    37:15 closed captions
    40:05 read receipts
    42:52 judgment
    44:27 loud af
    46:35 wrinkles
    49:14 putting taco bell on “baja” blast
    52:53 CW for lots of censored swearing. Over at 55:23
    55:24 talking about “taboo” topics in your 20’s
    58:39 FOMO
    1:06:34 astrology
    1:07:51 sensible shoe
    1:13:12 cringe
    1:20:19 Dungeons…and some Dragons!
    1:29:39 sleepy girl
    1:33:06 RIP shot girl
    1:38:44 perspectives on aging
    1:41:25 disconnection
    1:45:09 closing thoughts
    Thanks for listening 💗❤️🧡
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  • @hannah-gracedavis1335
    @hannah-gracedavis1335 Рік тому +32

    14:42 I saw a TikTok yesterday that said to always ask your partner or friend, “Do you need to be helped, heard, or hugged?” And that changed my life.

  • @inspirekymberly17
    @inspirekymberly17 Рік тому +15

    I’m shocked this didnt come
    up but i am too old (and have always been too old) to not openly discuss my period/period products and actually say the word period. Particularly around men. My biggest accomplishment from my previous relationship was desensitizing my boyfriend to periods. Too old to be hiding men from the reason we’re all here!

  • @yourmeanbestie
    @yourmeanbestie Рік тому +105

    love me some women who never shut up for 2 hours 🫶🏽😫

  • @jennerallyamazing5528
    @jennerallyamazing5528 Рік тому +25

    i'm too old to make up excuses for why i don't wanna hang with someone. if i don't, i straight up tell them hahah love ya guys!

  • @jjaayyddaa
    @jjaayyddaa Рік тому +93

    love when y'all bless us with a nearly 2 hour long episode. just what i needed today.

    • @jjaayyddaa
      @jjaayyddaa Рік тому +6

      THE PART WHEN Y'ALL ARE TALKING ABOUT SEX WITH THE CONSTANT BLEEPS HAS ME DYING.

  • @lalakass9041
    @lalakass9041 Рік тому +22

    I cannot relate to the sock thing, I keep rebuying the same pack of socks over and over and they’re all black. So I always have matching socks.

  • @reneer7069
    @reneer7069 Рік тому +34

    As a huge D&D fan I love how passionate Sierra is about it XD I would love if there was a discord for this channel where all the twenty whatever fans could come together and chat about all our shared special interests (ie thrifting, star wars, D&D, gardening, etc)

  • @9081ms
    @9081ms Рік тому +9

    PLS PLS PLS Have Carrie Dayton on this podcast!!!

  • @aliciadunkley3133
    @aliciadunkley3133 Рік тому +10

    I’m too old to skip washing my makeup off my face before bed. P.s love you girls so much 🥰🥰🥰

    • @palomamalfavon
      @palomamalfavon Рік тому +2

      I CANNOT BELIEVE I FORGOT THIS ONE. I feel this in my bones!! Yes!!! Ily 😘

  • @amandadeal2139
    @amandadeal2139 Рік тому +8

    The moms of TW should definitely join for an episode! That would be so sweet :)

  • @AuthorTinaMoss
    @AuthorTinaMoss Рік тому +4

    The beautiful thing about getting older is realizing how much you don’t need alcohol at all to enjoy friends. I’m far too old for drinking in general now. Feel so much better, honestly, without it.

  • @xoxolaur
    @xoxolaur Рік тому +5

    i know y’all did NOT forget ab the og spongebob movie which is a cinematic masterpiece from nickelodeon. agreed with everything else said about how it’s cringey to rewatch but cmon spongebob movie???? iconic

  • @BeyondJadedd
    @BeyondJadedd Рік тому +10

    I started cracking up at the image that came into my mind when Riayn was like "shes got one eye on the subitles and one on the show" 😂😂💀

  • @lauren.13
    @lauren.13 Рік тому +17

    I was probably too old to be watching Blue's Clues at this point, but I remember the episode where Steve left and I was just sitting there with my mouth hanging open like WHAT JUST HAPPENED

  • @KellySetula
    @KellySetula Рік тому +10

    The thing Sierra said about family resonated with me. That's how it is with my "mom". It took many years to cut ties, but it's been about 10 years and we still don't have a relationship. While it's sad because my dad passed away and it's like I don't have any parents, it's better than keeping a toxic parent in my life just because they're blood.

  • @MeganGirondaToxicFoxy
    @MeganGirondaToxicFoxy Рік тому +2

    When you hit 30s, it's happy hour at 5, dinner at 7pm. Leaving the place by 9-10pm LOL!!! Honestly I'm like man we are leaving early! I'm 39, but still could totally stay out till midnight ha.

  • @aksez2u
    @aksez2u Рік тому +6

    So much wisdom from these young women! P.S. Regarding the subtitles - I watched a video talking about how EVERYONE feels like they have to have the subtitles on now. Something having to do with how they record the dialog, music, etc. being more muddled than it used to be. Made me feel better! (VOX: Why we all need subtitles now)

  • @Liztheb
    @Liztheb Рік тому +5

    I’m too old to cater to others feelings at the expense of my own.
    This video was so fun!

  • @samthegoblinchild1937
    @samthegoblinchild1937 Рік тому +9

    I clicked the SECOND I got the notification! I’ve been waiting all day for this! ALSO blue and magenta are both girls, there’s green puppy and periwinkle (cat) that’s a boy. I love that show so much I just turned 19 but I still watch it like… every day
    Edit: I also watch bear in the big blue house daily too. I match most puppetry based children’s shows though cause I have autism and puppetry and educational children’s shows from the 90s/2000s are my special interests.

  • @agirl808
    @agirl808 Рік тому +2

    I’m cacklinggg at riayn during the D&D segment, haters unite 😂👏🏽✊🏽 and p rephrasing “D&D” 😂

  • @taylorcozart4940
    @taylorcozart4940 Рік тому +13

    Thank you for being my relaxation in this crazy time as I prep for my wedding in 8 DAYS! Love you ladies!

  • @regina_agl
    @regina_agl Рік тому +5

    as someone that English isn't their first language I always have subtitles on, it's a great way to practice, also I love Korean dramas and I need them

  • @SweetieMcPetey
    @SweetieMcPetey Рік тому +14

    I actually laughed out loud at this one!!!!! Y’all are killing it!

  • @DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld
    @DaniqueEmiliaSteinfeld Рік тому +1

    Whaha, I literally knock on the coach when there's no wood nearby.. because I'm like there's wood in there somewhere right!😂😜

  • @sofyaa2943
    @sofyaa2943 Рік тому +5

    Hi Twenty whatever! I'm only nineteen but i already have stuff Im too old for. I have never had a relationship. Honestly ive never done it because i havent found a person who i like and they like me the same way. Through reading romance books (lol I have high standards mostly from them😂) and observing my friends and their relationships I've come to the conclusion that I will have my first relationship when I find someone who has the same amount to give to the relationship as I do. I had so many friendships where I was desperate to make things work and the other person put in zero effort and that only ended in me heartbroken. Also after three years in therapy I need a person who is willing to learn how to communicate and be vulnerable. I know its hard for a lot of people but you have to be willing to try. Especially when it comes to the bedroom. If I cant have a conversion with you about STIs, no way Im letting you go on a journey to my southern aisles 😘 Thank you for another great episode, love you 💕💕💕

  • @stephaniehenderson2733
    @stephaniehenderson2733 Рік тому +1

    these long episodes give me LIFE. i love you girls so much! 🫶🏻

  • @deniserios_
    @deniserios_ Рік тому +1

    “At the cLuRb” -Paloma ❤

  • @danijadedd
    @danijadedd Рік тому +18

    "Let Them Eat Cringe" -Sierra Antoinette

    • @Mrs.Mcnandez
      @Mrs.Mcnandez Рік тому

      I hope they slap this iconic quote on some merch!

  • @redrubysrubies7669
    @redrubysrubies7669 Рік тому +2

    I’m too old to share rooms on trips. I need my own space and time to decompress.

  • @kalisue6573
    @kalisue6573 Рік тому +17

    I would love to see the 20-whatever girls do 30 days sober/dry!
    No shame in the game but would be interesting to see reflections and thoughts as people who seem to be decently often social drinkers!

    • @avocadoll7285
      @avocadoll7285 Рік тому +3

      huge agree, i would be so curious about that

  • @abbygregory7451
    @abbygregory7451 8 місяців тому

    I’ve started a small business and every time I work, I put on this podcast and it helps pass time so easy! I’ve watched just about every single one now so I need more 😂

  • @ashleymagee407
    @ashleymagee407 Рік тому +2

    Yasssss, a Twenty Whatever D&D episode would give me life!

  • @glorytowers0562
    @glorytowers0562 Рік тому +3

    I feel so validated every time yall mention zoboomafoo

  • @magictfn88
    @magictfn88 Рік тому +2

    Riayn was on a roll this episode!! I was crying laughing 😂 😂😂

  • @cupcakexcake
    @cupcakexcake Рік тому +3

    Can we get an updated UA-cam Bts chit chat now that riayn and Paloma have experienced brand trips and Sierra talking about child privacy online 🤗

  • @zaideaben
    @zaideaben Рік тому +1

    JESS!!

  • @hellotheredara
    @hellotheredara Рік тому

    I love the nostalgia talk at the front of this episode. I recently showed Bear and the Big Blue House to my 2 year-old and he loves it. I now sing the “Goodbye” song to him all the time.

  • @mariannevandamme9738
    @mariannevandamme9738 Рік тому +2

    This was so funny!! Also loved that it was so long! ❤

  • @cfuller1994
    @cfuller1994 Рік тому +1

    "Name one nickelodeon movie that you loved." Spectacular! It was a musical and I don't even know if anyone knows it exists. 😂

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому +3

    Nickelodeon movie? Good Burger! 🍔 and they're filming Good Burger 2! 🍔 🍔

  • @beatricemcmillan283
    @beatricemcmillan283 Рік тому +2

    i cant with riayns look at 1:22:36 whilst Sierras explaining d&d 💀

  • @gracecutrona576
    @gracecutrona576 Рік тому +1

    One of the most entertaining episodes, laughed so hard 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @thenaturalresearcher
    @thenaturalresearcher 6 місяців тому

    Literally with the "you're old" thing, that's how I feel. I don't have any issue with aging or whatever EXCEPT the idea of losing my family ands loved ones. I just had my first baby a month ago (12/22) and every since I'm so much more aware and terrified of how everyone is getting older and that means one day they will be gone and it hurts so much

  • @CaitlynSpencer
    @CaitlynSpencer Рік тому +1

    the Dungeons and Daddies podcast is SO good! It actually makes me want to play a campaign. My husband played a star wars D&D style tabletop RPG in college and loved it.

  • @taylerwhitaker8497
    @taylerwhitaker8497 11 місяців тому

    “I have 2 eyes” killed me 😂 I spit out my water when Sierra said that!

  • @yourideordie
    @yourideordie Рік тому

    Love the podcast ladies! If I’m giving a full honest review I had to click off the last episodes because holy moly the ads.. I swear I got maybe 3 minutes of talking and there was an ad every 3 min. Not sure if it’s on my end only but realized this is the second time I haven’t been able to listen fully cause I just can’t be running to skip all these long ads 😢 love y’all though ♥️

  • @christinemanjourides5447
    @christinemanjourides5447 10 місяців тому

    I freaking love Riayn ❤ when she says “it’s giving” to legit anything! “It’s giving self awareness” 😂 idk why it made me smile huge. I’m 29, and I know I’m GETTING old because I just can’t say “it’s giving” without adding “vibes” after… like “it’s giving old people vibes” for example lol.

  • @alessiac795
    @alessiac795 Рік тому

    i LOVED this episode so much

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому +2

    Paloma would have been epic on Blues Clues! ... you still have a shot!

  • @Emmakff
    @Emmakff Рік тому

    an HOUR AND FORTY FIVE MINUTES?!?!? perfect for my hour and forty five minute drive hehe😏 thank u!😙love you ladies🥰

  • @mothmallow
    @mothmallow Рік тому +1

    One thing I decided I'm too old for is making myself drive to work in the snow. I work at a job where I don't need coverage if I'm not there, I can just use paid time off or make up the time later. There's no reason for me to risk an accident while it's snowing and the roads are slippery, but I used to do it to show my "dedication." Eff that, the company won't pay my bills if I get into an accident. I'll just take the day off, thanks.

  • @k.....................
    @k..................... Рік тому

    So relatable. I always hated going out late, sitting around waiting getting tired 😂 now I'm ready to go home at 10

  • @StephanieCeleste
    @StephanieCeleste Рік тому

    I’m too old … for not setting boundaries at work, in friendships, in relationships period. Ive learned to just protect my peace ❤

  • @danaology.
    @danaology. Рік тому

    In the beginning of me and my partner’s relationship, I was battling with some tough mental health stuff. I didn’t know until years later that he would Google how to be there for someone/help and one of the suggestions was to ask if the person wanted to be helped or just listened to. When he reflected on past situations with me, he realised I was always unhappy with his suggestions to help and I felt unheard. So he started just listening and now I can be like “what do you think, what’s your advice?” and he can give it. Honestly such a game changer (but also so cute that he had no idea and researched what to do 😅)

  • @katepark709
    @katepark709 Рік тому

    I play DND with my husband and his friends and we’ve been playing our game for over 2 years! Do what you love - who care if anyone cringes!

  • @jazminejones6246
    @jazminejones6246 Рік тому +1

    omg the PINK NATION yoga pants. with the rhinestones on the flap . those were the days .

  • @yvettemayorga3242
    @yvettemayorga3242 Рік тому +2

    I wish there was an episode everyday but alas, we all have lives to live. Lol

  • @happilyellisafter
    @happilyellisafter Рік тому +1

    I would 100% notice mis-matched socks. My father would safety pin our socks together before putting them in the wash just so we’d never lose any in the wash. NEXT level…I cannot go with mismatching socks, I would lose my mind even if I couldn’t see them. 😅

  • @MyLifebyJuliaIRL
    @MyLifebyJuliaIRL Рік тому +1

    its cool to quietly quit family members i have had to do that with my own and once i am married and have my own family ill be doing it even more

  • @r_ebeccamarie
    @r_ebeccamarie Рік тому +5

    I love the message of this episode, can’t wait to see what you all have to say about it!

  • @callijonmassengill1063
    @callijonmassengill1063 Рік тому +2

    **turns read receipts off immediately** Loved this episode!

  • @firetjie91
    @firetjie91 Рік тому

    Fellow D&D stan! I play in 2 weekly campaigns and one is from 9am to 3pm each week 🙃

  • @Zoffi95
    @Zoffi95 Рік тому +1

    Vox has a really interesting video why EVERYONE is using subtitles more and more. I was interested in the topic as a non native speaker, but it seems we're not the only ones using them even if we speak the language well 😂😂 I recommend it 👍

  • @alicehurtgen2329
    @alicehurtgen2329 Рік тому +1

    Literally 17 and can relate to everything you’re saying

  • @rosebud7233
    @rosebud7233 Рік тому

    I’m in my mid 30s, and I can definitely say that I have been loving my 30s. There’s some things I do miss about being in my 20s, but so much of being in my 30s has been so much easier. Hopefully my 40s will be just as good!

  • @brightorange23
    @brightorange23 Рік тому

    They used to film Slime Time at Universal Studios in Orlando, and my family would go watch it. I was always too nervous to volunteer to be a part of it, though.

  • @ghazalistudies2275
    @ghazalistudies2275 Рік тому +1

    THE GIRLIESSS ARE BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

  • @ShortyOfCourse71
    @ShortyOfCourse71 Рік тому

    Not the 5 mins of beeps from all of them just throwing c""ks around 🤣😂

  • @Macbethinspace
    @Macbethinspace Рік тому

    I love P’s energy 😭😭😭 not the blue’s clues larping

  • @courtneyerntson898
    @courtneyerntson898 Рік тому +1

    I only say… that word (C***) when it’s getting ✨dirty✨😅

  • @autumnssssss
    @autumnssssss Рік тому

    u guys are so right about the breakfast thing. i will actually get nauseous if i dont eat. im like…whats wrong with me??? girl ur just growin smh

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому +1

    Rewatching the pillow stealing was silly 😅

  • @PatronMinette
    @PatronMinette Рік тому +1

    I need a 20 Whatever DND campaign!!!

  • @redrubysrubies7669
    @redrubysrubies7669 Рік тому

    I’m too old for jobs,ppl, ECT to not pay me what I’m worth! Whether it be money, love, or energetic payments.

  • @christinesmith5276
    @christinesmith5276 Рік тому

    The subtitles is totally a new mom, not a getting old, thing. I became a new mom at 41 and never once used subtitles before then. Bam, baby: low volume and subtitles became a necessity. Once you start you can't go back!

  • @laurafayelewis
    @laurafayelewis Рік тому

    This is SO relatable 😆

  • @sarahbreen9907
    @sarahbreen9907 Рік тому

    i will pay NO attention to the movie if subtitles are on! 😂😂i love to read too much 😂

  • @nicolewilkinson5857
    @nicolewilkinson5857 Рік тому

    The Baja blasts are giving

  • @annastephens581
    @annastephens581 Рік тому

    I was a hater of DND for a long time and now happily play a weekly campaign 👀

  • @annastrother187
    @annastrother187 Рік тому +1

    I teach 4th grade and JUST introduced them to Zaboomafoo the last week of school, and my kids were like “oh, this is a dupe of Wild Kratts!” Like no guys…THIS is the original 😂 also I’m laid up on the couch physically not being able to move because of a sunburn😭 IM FREAKING 29😂😂

  • @lilyjones2368
    @lilyjones2368 Рік тому

    I’m too old for small talk. I like a big talk, HUGE talk. Real talk. If you can’t handle that I’ll politely say hi and then talk to someone I can have interesting conversations with ☠️ fuck that “it’s such a beautiful day today” or “this is a lovely home isn’t it” bs- I’m tired 😅

  • @YoitsKendahl
    @YoitsKendahl Рік тому

    im too old to sacrifice my sleep for other people. its just never worth it.

  • @beccajean4418
    @beccajean4418 Рік тому +1

    I am too old to not wear slippers. But I hate slippers and envy anyone barefoot right now. I hate all shoes. But my feet hurt.

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому

    I'm too old to think I can do all this by myself. Ask for help and outsource!

  • @ChanGab
    @ChanGab Рік тому

    I’ve never felt so seen with the closed captioning 🤣

  • @margiehislop7812
    @margiehislop7812 Рік тому

    “We can’t hang if we’re on the toilet” I’ve never related so hard

  • @KayGrayEngg
    @KayGrayEngg Рік тому

    Sierra! Grace would love sesame street or blues clues. My little guy loves Ms Rachel and now it's all "clue clue" (Blues clues) and "mo mo" (Elmo) ALL the time!

  • @rebachick94
    @rebachick94 Рік тому

    I went to the lake this weekend and I’m very fair. I wore sunscreen and still burned. I was worried about blinding people. 😂

  • @kaitlynrain899
    @kaitlynrain899 Рік тому

    The pillow sharing had me DEAD

  • @-Angelmaire
    @-Angelmaire Рік тому

    Facts my dad was in and out of my life he hits me up then disappear for few years then hit me up again

  • @kelseyp600
    @kelseyp600 Рік тому +1

    My grandpa always knocks on his head if there is no wood around. Not sure why, but Riayn there ya go just knock on your head. Lol

  • @kelseaulrich3668
    @kelseaulrich3668 Рік тому

    Once you go subtitles, there’s no going back.

  • @luzperez1042
    @luzperez1042 Рік тому

    My kids 8,7,3 love arthur but they barley started liking it I was so sad because when I first showed them they were so uninterested but now they love it! They are bluey kids tho

  • @jazminmadera2015
    @jazminmadera2015 Рік тому

    Honestly as long as you don’t comment your hate, being a hater is a 10/10 😂

  • @whitebirdification
    @whitebirdification Рік тому

    OMG ladies, I'm twice your age, and you all sound like you are 100.Thank you for making me feel less decrepit 🤣

  • @laurenelizabeth124
    @laurenelizabeth124 Рік тому

    Old enough to know better, young enough to do it anyway

  • @alainapecor2794
    @alainapecor2794 Рік тому +1

    I want a dnd episode so bad😭

  • @esmee100100
    @esmee100100 Рік тому

    Me watching this absolutly burnt after 1 day in the sun with sunscreen. My skin hates me...😢

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому

    First censored episode? Lol here for it

  • @Jenalamah
    @Jenalamah Рік тому

    Lololol can I do a 4 min? LESS! 2 and a half 😅 that half was being generous