5 Ways to Practice Self Care WHEN DATING | Dating Advice for Women
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Hey yall! Today we will talk about self care while dating. It's important that you consider and value yourself most during this time. What do you think? Don't forget to thumbs up and subscribe. It's FREE. Love y'all!
Thank you for this!
I don't believe in dating more than one person at the same time cause that would confuse my head and emotions. Let me date one person and if it don't work out drop him and move on to someone else.
This was so good! I’ve dated my fair share of bustas🙄 but in the end, I could only blame myself for allowing them to take up so much of my time. After setting those boundaries, I started dating the most amazing man and we’ll be married by the end of the year!🥰🥰🥰🙌
Congratulations and best wishes!
Congratulations! 🙌🏾🙏🏾
Ooh. That’s beautiful. Congrats Amber 🙏🏾☺️
Congrats
These advices are so relatable and on point. Just last week I mentioned to my husband that even though he still sees me as beautiful when I'm a mess, if I'm not keeping up with my grooming and weekly self maintenance I feel less womanly. I'm not doing it for him and it's a form of relaxation and good mental health practices for me.
I feel the same way!! I’ve kinda let myself go the past few months, trying to move and stuff. And even though he always tells me how beautiful I am to him, I know I look busted!🤣 I gotta do better!!!
You got this sis!
Girl this sit down was EXACTLY what I needed! It is rough out here and it can be hard to ignore little red flags when you’re infatuated with someone. Thanks for the wake up call 💛
No problem! So happy you enjoyed it!
These tips were good! A tip that my grandfather gives me every time that I go home is "if they are not bringing something to the table, then they need to get up from the table." This does not apply to just material things. I, also, have learned that boundaries are necessary while dating, and peace is a must. Tfs!
"Value not just Validation" This was a wooorrddddd!!!
I completely underestimated the power of adorning myself. I always had inner confidence in my abilities and I didn’t have the energy the adorn since I was doing the “real work”. Truth is it does boost you abs opportunities sometimes. Even if the opportunity is just connection or a really good selfie that later someone makes your caller ID pic. People who care about you love to see you care about you too.
I agree! ❤️
Man she said the person claim to be high value and all they bringing in your life is dust... I almost passed out! 🤣
Preach!! This needs to be taught in High School!
Loook! Here I come!
Facts
THIS!!!
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Dr. Nina!!!!!! Girl!! Pass me my church fan and the offering plate because you are coming with the word today!!! Therapy is so very important. I wished I had invested in myself before marriage. I'm learning so much about me, it's blowing my mind!! You never let us down with the knowledge you bring. BTW, I told my therapist about you and she was so excited that I joined your Mentorship program. Oh yeah she watches you too! ❤️❤️❤️. Tell Mr. Harness hello!!! 👋
This brought so much light to my week. I love you sis! More than you know!
That's it- Establishing Boundaries and Determining Value added are essential in relationships 😊
There you go!
This was so good and so necessary. I’m not currently dating but learning all of these lessons without the experience itself is better for me. I just committed to my self care routine and ways to shop for myself so I’m always looking and feeling my best.
Please share how you stayed consistent with working out. It's real over here!
I got you!
My current struggle 😫...it used to be a natural thing for me.
@@LondonKLuv You can do it! Classes are awesome, also making a great gym playlist. Reward yourself and did u know about cheat days? I didn't at first and I burned out! You got this lady!
Self preservation is number one!
Thank you for the video. I agree self care is very important. I had to use everything you said in this video within these last several months. It has really been a challenge. Especially difficult when it’s people you love. Please let’s keep us all in prayer.
Hey Dr. Nina, thank you so much for talking about this. We need #selfcare even when caring & loving others.
Dr. Nina, thank you for this very helpful video! Much needed, so I shared it with my 30 year old daughter and 26 year old niece.
Advice on point. So beneficial to me as well because I am currently in this stage too. Making sure that you take care and maintain yourself while in a relationship is so important. Being with someone who also has this mindset is definitely a necessary plus.
Absolutely. Love your outlook
💯 this was so on point!!!
Thankyou Dr. NINA LOVE you I appreciate all the information you gave.
Yess to this. Letting your significant other know upfront that self care is important to you...and what that looks like is key. They have to know that you care just as much about yourself..and that self care is a PRIORITY. No one will give you a cookie for taking care of you.
Great advice as always, thanks
I agree that taking a break from dating is a healthy component to heal from hurt, finding yourselves, and see the wrong in what you done in a relationship.
My dating advice for me is to not be afraid to let a man know what you’re looking for in a relationship. I did that and it worked.
I began watching your videos recently when I ran across your skincare for HS material.. I have struggled with HS (armpits) for over a decade, and have finally gotten it under control (thank God)… your video helped.. but in my time watching, I had no clue you are a Clinical Psychologist… I am an LCSW.. always pushing a lot of what you teach. Especially with holistic self care.. it’s so important that women of color get this.. I do a lot for myself that my mom and others around me say is for white people 🤣🤣🤣. But I wrote a 📕 about it last year and slowly but surely, those around me are catching on…
Loving your channel! Love to see sistas growing and loving themselves 💛
So happy to find you dr. Nina, you really do a great job🙏 🙂
Also, I needed this video! I’ve kinda let myself go the past few months because I’ve been so busy with working and moving. Even though he always compliments me and tells me how beautiful I am, I know I look a hot mess! I even avoid mirrors because my hair isn’t done!😩🤣
Amber, we all fall at some point. It’s amazing that you know how to take care of you!
Hiiii! 👋🏼🥰
I'm dyed my hair, did my hands and my feet 💅🏼 and drinking water 🚰
That's great!!
This video has really been of great help,tnxs.
Just pressed play and already love it love it love it! Great topic!!!!!
Thank you beautiful!!!! 🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing these tips, Dr. Nina! I'm here for it.
I wish I didn’t loose myself when I first became a mother and and wife to my ex- husband. So now with my second and last husband I know who I am now. I could go on lol.
I’m proud of you for realizing YOU!
You are like the big sister I never had! Excellent advice thank you so much! I definitely needed to hear this!
Welp this was really really needed Dr. Nina. Thank you!
So happy it helped!
Thank you so much! Awesome information ❤️❤️❤️
lovvve how you deliver your words! ♥️
Amazing as always... LOVED IT!
Dr Nina this was Avery powerful message. I also believe in self care weekly and roster dating.
Thanks for this video needed this especially what I’m going through right now 🤦🏽♀️
Happy it helps ya!
Swear every time I watch.. You 🎯 hit home.. 💯❤️👍🏽 thank you..
That warms my heart! Thank you
Great information. My goal is to have my first facial and to treat myself more often. Thank you for all the good and helpful advice Dr. Nina!
This was Excellent Advice much needed😘
Happy it helps!
Wow wow this is so on point. 💯💯💯💯
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Very informative Thank you for inspiring me to push harder with my videos 🙏💖
I am so happy to inspire you!
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Just in time. Thank you!
This was great! Thank you!
Love this sis
I love 💕 listen to your podcast cast I’m trying to catch up on your videos. Thank you for these tips 🤗
I appreciate you!
Hi I just want to thank you for helping me with keeping myself looking good.
So happy it helps ya!
Yasss Hunty self-care is a must
Absolutely sis!
Awwww, you still have Betty Boop blanket 🤗 Great video and advice!!
Yes I do! Thank you!!
@@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol I still have mine too. Super proud and happy for you, Nina! Be blessed.
Awesome video
Great tips!
My fav was when you talked about giving people the benefit of the doubt. I tend to do that to everyone but I have learned that it just doesn’t serve me AT ALL! I’m doing all this stuff to be a better me and you sitting here playing. Nah! Ima let you stay in the sandbox boo. My tip would be to make sure you talk about your faith upfront. I am a Christian. Not a Sunday Christian but I’m a Christian every day of the week. I want a partner who is the same. I’m not trying to save nobody so I can marry them.
Thank you! 💕
Thank you!
When come to dating u have experience with the person
Amen!!
Thanks for another informative video. You are such a down to earth person love your videos.
I live you right back! Thank you!
You look so beautiful. It is a pleasure to watch the videos you share. Thank you
Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing some great advice.
No problem!
As much as this advice helped me I feel like this advice should go toward men as well. I shared this video with my boyfriend because I think he could get some good pointers from this video.
Lol the shade
I think so too!
@@Imani.. it's not an insult. She wants to spread the valuable knowledge. I want to share it as well, but I kinda want to keep it a secret too.
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I got you sis!
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When people show you who they are, believe them.
Maya Angelou quote. Yup
I usually back off from relationship after I enter into rt away. I don't know why I do this but I got into a relationship not to long ago. An then I realized some of things he did I didn't agree with but I made up a lie just to back away but he's been texting me telling me he wants to be with me. Last night I finally told him the truth why I backed away now he said he will stopped everything just to be with me but I'm not sure if I want to be with him. I really need counseling to get o the root of the problem. I need help
Look up relationship advice on reddit for one. Maybe there's some free counseling in your area? You can contact your local hospital, ask for a social worker for any referrals? Moving quickly in relationships is a point of concern/red flag. Keep looking for good advice! And trust your gut!
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Lord Dr Nina. I wish u were around 20 years ago when I met some peace of garbage whom I invested way too much time in & ofc he encouraged it & pretended he was for real. Anyway..I completely agree. Date several ppl at once. 👌🏾💯
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I keep running into liars. Idk why
A good tip: sit back and analyze. How do you meet? Where? When? What do you give off early on? How fast do you move on? These all helped me!
@@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol for me it’s where I’m meeting them
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I like this video but try not to do videos in that location. There is too much distractions in the space from you.
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