"Wimpy Kid" Actor Murders Mother To Avoid Shame | Ryan Grantham Case Analysis
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Ryan Grantham?
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"He was Overstating his fame, I don't feel like anyone was paying attention to him."
Very true statement since I never even knew about this case lol
Interesting to see how many people consider themselves to be the benchmarks of human experience.
well he was just convicted yesterday but same
I even live closer to the area. Never heard of him and the murder.
@@passwordsuggestion5336 he was in court the other day.
Yeah, I remember seeing the book cover in Barnes & Noble when it came out. But having been a wimpy kid myself, I had absolutely no interest in wallowing in someone else's experiences of that. Yuck.
Diary of a Wimpy Kid was actually pretty popular. I'm surprised that I had no idea this ever happened.
the movie is old and this guy played a side-character. it probably would have blown up if he played a main character. plus the movies werent as popular as the books
The headlines that reference the movie are clickbait to make people think he was the lead.
@@Sputterbug Who was the main character of the movie? Wasn't he the wimpy kid writing the diary?
@@daledickey8400 that was Zachary Gordon. Idk who this guy played. Even after googling it. But he wasn’t the main character
@@rockyayyy8978 he played a character named rodney james in doawk, which even if i recognised the name, that’s a pretty minor character.
"He was overstating his fame, I don't really feel like anyone was paying attention to him."
ROAST HIM DOC
Never heard of him until I saw Dr. G video come on my feed. So you're exactly right.
He does have a point. I did watch the wimpy kid movies as a child but cannot remember his face to be fair.
I think that’s why he committed the crime. The fame he got wasn’t the fame that he wanted. He wanted fame so much that he was going to do a mass shooting, but the thought of his mom talking to him in prison was a nightmare I guess.
Yeah
How is that roasting him? stupid comment. Guy was more famous than 99.999 percent of the population
You brought up something interesting. The fact that he looks so young cute and innocent makes him even more frightening
Didn't even have the balls to look her in the eye when he did it. If you're going to be a poc, at least look them in the face.
well probably didn't want to give her a chance to defend herself. But how disgusting... her own beloved child.. bet there were signs previously though, probably bossing her about etc,. That should be looked into, my spoilt cousin used to threaten to kill her parents...because they always gave into the little biatch
how is that frightening at all?
@@Ch4rlz_ThA_Princ3 because you wouldn’t see it coming
@@shameronstar7220 does anyone ever see it coming though?
I’m going to start describing myself as “Just a dude who enjoys non-murderous activities”
THANKS DOC! 🇺🇸
I'm starting to appreciate Dr Grande's deadpan humour - "He was not very well known for non-murder activities."
I love it!
🤣 You're not wrong! That one was pretty damn funny! 🤣
Dr. Grande is dry as a desert and he sneaks his quips in when you least expect it. Dude is hilarious and never breaks character. 😆
@@iambored678 Well, I haven't watched many of his videos yet!
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Very scary to learn just how dangerous vulnerable narcissists can be. Just by saying vulnerable makes you feel that person must be harmless.
I liked the term covert more than vulnerable because they are very far from harmless.
I had a 16 yr ' relationship ' with a vulnerable narcissist. I escaped 2 yrs ago, our 16 yr old son got out a year ago. Mentally, we'll never be the same. Both our family and my ex's family want nothing to do with him, as they know how dangerous he is. We got out with our lives, so that's the best part.
never assume a narcissist of any kind is harmless
@@MakeMeLo I agree. Covert is a better name. I don’t really think these are vulnerable people in the traditional sense.
Narcissists are not really vulnerable at all. They can be dangerous because narcissism and criminal activity can go hand in hand. 🤔❤🇺🇸
16 years for killing his mother ? WTF how do people kill a random person and get life in prison and this guy kills his mother and gets 16 years ? 🤦🏻♂️ not saying a random person’s life is worth more or less but he killed his mother .. if he can’t find love for her what about everyone else ? He was planning on going on a rampage and he’s eligible for parole? Seriously 🤦🏻♂️
Yep 16 years is way too little for that, especially considering his mental state at the time. It was premeditated so it should have been like 25+ years IMO
That is the most shocking thing to me. He murderd his mother so he could then murder many more people!! That alone screams he should never be released since rehabilitation is highly unlikely in his case.
Its Canada, here in Germany its the same, for example a distant relative of mine got killed by robbers in front of his wife and all they got was 8 years in prison and they are now free again. They killed him because they wanted him to show them were he hid his safe but the tragic was that he didn‘t even have a safe and they didn‘t belief him.
It’s Canada. They’re more soft on punishing murderers.
Hes white
i so appreciate this channel for not sensationalizing and playing up the evil with distasteful horror music, its just straight up information. its already a heinous and real story no need to make people unnecessarily uncomfortable while listening. Kudos to you sir.
Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Last Straw
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Brilliant!!
Dr. Grande!!!
Can we get more on the topic of vulnerable narcissism?? This was excellent.
If you take a look at Dr. Grande’s repertoire on this youtube channel you will find numerous videos on that very topic plus so many more. As Cluster B personality disorders seem to get more attention from the public in modern day, there is a lot of content out there but Dr Grande’s is superior and trustworthy. You need not look anywhere else.
@@oregonsnob31 Dr. Grande is pretty good but it is always a good idea to look at other sources.
@@Catlily5 True.
@@oregonsnob31 I've listened to most of the narcissism videos, but this one was interesting to have an actual patient tied to it.
@@MeglynLad his video on Revenge Narcissism was a lightbulb moment for me in regards to someone in my life. I kept thinking they have some signs of narcissism like lack of empathy, withholding things I like, and lack of insight to themself and others, but just never fit the full definition of other types until then.
Dear God, I hope they NEVER let this guy out of prison. He will go off like a time bomb.
I was a Teamsters driver working on the RIVERDALE series in Vancouver, Canada and seeing him after takes, around the crafty truck, etc. he seemed very chill, professional and a nice guy. Wild what major changes can occur in a life.
The CIA flip his switch clearly MK ultra PSYOP operation gone wrong … or so they want us to believe
Thanks for sharing this. It gives us some perspective.
Tragic man.
Anyone can play Mr. Nice guy for a few minutes.
Being more a fan of psychological insights than TV-friendly drama, I appreciated the extra focus on the mental health substance here:)
This is unacceptable. I am greatful that the defendant in this case was held accountable for his actions by the proper authoraties. Excellent video Dr. Grande.
idk if id say 14 years is really accountability for murder
@@Sputterbug No, I would think not. Except, he doesn't seem to be insane to me!
Fourteen years isn’t being held accountable. It’s barely a slap on the wrist
i dont think he really did anything wrong.
What a tragedy! It is scary to think that he may be free one day with the possibility of parole in 14 years. The excuse he gave to commit such a heinous crime against his own mother is just ludicrous. I do think he is and will be a danger to society for a long time. Nonetheless, I hope he gets the mental health treatment that he needs.
Outstanding review! Thank you, Dr. Grande.❤️
Narcessits rarely benefit from mental health treatment
It's Canada. I advocated for the murdered teen Serena McKay. The two underage killers ,15 and 16, got 40 months for beating her to death and filming it.
@@lisamac8503 because there's nothing wrong with us. we're just better than you.
He was such a coward to sneak up behind her while she’s playing piano and take her life
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complete premeditation
In his defence, She could've been playing a Coldplay song.
@@johnburke6332 lmao
@@johnburke6332 bro...
Same. I screamed so inevitably loud when I heard Dr grande say that she was playing Piano. And then started crying. Poor woman. Fucking Coward & worthless Piece of S$+$(#( and an Absolute Abomination. I am Hoping that the shame is related to anything & anyone else As Opposed to connected to his own mother, if Sexual Sexual Abuse at an Early age for however long did take place, with his mother and or The Father which would explain why He Left In a way, and his mother knowing about this could be a clear motive or one of the few to Finish her off , aside from his depression & boredom, anxiety, Praise Me personality Type, and Homicidal fantasies& tendencies. I hope and Pray to God he won't out in 13 or 14 years. How scary & Macabre.. 😢💔🙏
The character he played in Supernatural was a kid who got powers to attack his bullies. Maybe he really felt that way?
"KNEEL BEFORE TODD!!!"
Whoa, I hadn't heard of this case 😳 I'm just glad his self-centeredness was a good thing for once, deciding it was in his best interest to just turn himself in saved a number of other lives
he was just sentenced yesterday.
Yes, this makes me question if maybe he is not a narsassist? Maybe he got a tumor causing this to happend in his brain, or even autism.
Everything said at the end, so true Dr. Grande. I'm marking your words. This man will offend again. They usually do without proper rehabilitation.
I always suspected the damage childhood acting does is why a lot of actors say they don’t want their children following in their steps. It surprised me that Will Smith was the exact opposite in actively encouraging his children in a potentially devastating environment (however it makes more sense in light of Smith’s recent behavior)
That was a setup b/c A, nobody gasped and it was live.
B, he wasn't immediately arrested, which he should have been. We all saw it. The joke wasn't funny, but it wasn't THAT big a deal. Wasn't horribly mean. She's losing her hair or whatever. So what? Lots of people are, even women.
Mans slapped a guy. One time. You're acting like he murdered someone
@@orangeglow57Official Did 10 people really agree that criminal battery isn't a big deal? Sad to think a vote by the likes of you counts as much as a reasonable person's vote.
His children would have NEVER had the experiences of a random kid stepping into the entertainment industry
And now look at his kids. Complete train wrecks.
I've enjoyed this channel for a few years now but my enjoyment level has doubled since you've been tossing in more and more humorous one liners delivered in your classic, don't crack a smile fashion. I love it! Keep it up, please!
Dr. G, this was unexpected. This showed me how much a professional human being you are, not to mention your intellect and insight. Never taught how that could be the realisation of that killer behaviour.
Best analysis by far. Thanks.
Not all of them of course, but this story continues the tragedy that many "child stars" end up VERY badly by the time they reach even young adulthood- examples are too numerous to mention...
What a terrifying case! I'm actually in the process of covering it to and I appreciated the analysis for sure Dr. G! I feel awful for his family/ Mother.
Scathing final thoughts and strongly worded predictions! Good stuff as always Dr Grande.
As a Canadian, our justice system is a joke. People out here actually pay for billboards or put signage on old trailers by the highways demanding judicial reform. Our current government and its predecessors decided "we're putting too many people in prison" without considering that those in prison may have actually deserved their sentences. Truth be told, it's a cynical way of saving money to redirect to more politician-friendly social causes, and pressure is on judges to make lighter and lighter sentences.
I agree that we put too many people in prison. A lot of them belong at the gallows instead.
UK here, our prison system is a joke 🙄
I would like to see a focus on fixing why they are committing crimes or getting into non-crimimal trouble when people are young. Once they get older or are repeat criminals prison is the best place for them. I do know that this current crop of kids.....we need to do something with these lazy self-centered super entitled kids before they age up.....or we need to build a lot more prisons.
They need better suggestions of stopping crime. China used to do, death from a 1000 cuts. Ottomans did foot whipping... for minor crimes, foot whipping probably WOULD be a deterrent. Rather than the soft touch psychiatry... any other suggestions? The Venus project had a totally different outlook than prison, where free sex is provided... it's possible that many consider that a bonus, plus free food, no bills to pay... it obviously doesn't really deter many people who want to commit murder
As a Canadian myself I preffer a legal system to be a little to soft then way to harsh. Like weather it' the death penalty or years in prison it has the same deterrent effect on crime. Although I understand other people have different values but from a pregmeatic point of view it's a solid way to run a legal system. I would take our justice system over Americas any day of the week.
I think you are judging to harshly. Look at Jennette Mcurdy’s case. She wrote a book entitled I’m glad my mother died which exposed the trauma child stars can go through. You have no idea if this boy killed his mother for a similar reason:
Brilliant analysis Dr. Grande! Thank you for your coverage of this tragedy. 🖤
I smoke weed everyday and being a very introspective drug, if you have psychological issues, it's probaly not good for you.
Sooo happy to get another notification from Dr Grande!
Thank you doc so much and have an amazing Sunday💎
Thank you for your insight Dr Grande .Even If Ryan isn't psychotic and is a narcissist ,I still think people should still be aware that a surprising amount of people are unaware of marijuana induced psychosis, including extreme paranoia .Having watched a relative of mine turn from a sweet young man into someone absolutely altered from his first experience, into a severely mentally disturbed and often dangerous individual , gripped by delusions , shame and rage , I can only conclude some drugs are like Russian roulette ! I hope in the future genetic markers will reveal those that would be vulnerable....in the case of Ryan as a narcissist, I wonder if the drugs and alcohol he took magnified or exacerbated his narcissistic traits ; in effect adding more fuel to an already dangerous fire ....this is a truly horrible case.
A lot of people are convinced that Marijuana is a harmless drug or that's it's beneficial to smoke when the truth is that it is a dangerous substance that can ruin people's lives
Blaming weed seriously? If theyre crazy theyre born crazy
@@mrcloud9750 It was just one of the factors that made things worse
@@snowpanther7076 no it wasnt, he also drank water and ate food is that another factor? Seriously blame weed all u want it was because the guy was born insane not the weed
@@mrcloud9750 You're acting like weed has no effect on the mind. I know people who went mad from the stuff and I don't know anyone who used it and came out unscathed. He did intend to kill people, that much is certain, but I think the weed helped to push him over the edge
Judge in Canada: "For your heinous crime, I sentence you to LIFE IN PRISON! You will be eligible for parole next Tuesday."
Thank you Dr Grande. This is truly terrifying to me.
Dr. Grande. Your content is the content that I never knew I needed until I found you. Please continue to keep up all your good work. 🎉
This is a tragic situation.
He would rather hurt his mom than accepting his own mistake.
Keep up the good work doc.
The world needs to heal inside out.
We need to get to the root cause of the rising number of mental illness and focus on our well-being.
Single mothers keep prisons full and welfare well utilized.
@@jhoughjr1 So do fathers who abandon their children.
@@Catlily5 Good point.
I am not sure if there is a rise of mental illness. There is a rise of awareness, of media coverage, and maybe the kind of mental illness we see nowdays is different from the kind we saw 30 50 60 years ago.
Canada needs to look at their sentencing laws, too mild in my opinion
Contrary to popular belief just because they can go for parole doesn't mean they get out. Ever. Many won't live to get out. It's not perfect.
It's part of our human rights act. Same with a lot of Commonwealth countries.
We don't put children on death row, I'm good with that. We don't kill people, I'm good with that too.
If you think the American system is flawless, you're blind.
In this case I think justice was served. Also you never hear full details in the media.
@@slsilver481 So you do have then the full details, making a statement like that?
@@kirschrot77 Do you have the full details of Canada's justice system, making a sweeping statement like that? To answer your question I have an education in psychology and work with people with mental illness. I also know enough about our justice system (I'm Canadian) to know that the psychiatrists and psychologists involved in this case, not to mention the judge who heard hours of evidence and made the sentencing decision, are better informed and qualified than I am.
@@slsilver481 Well you said with your last statement, many are better informed and qualified than you. You seem to be a very angry person, so I have tip for you physician heal thyself. And just bc Iam not Canadian, I still can have an opinion, which based on Dr Grande´s video. I have met many Canadians and I really like Canada, but you are a very special Canadian
Greetings from Poland! 😘 I love this channel 👏
“13% were intoxicated.” Sad that this actor had so much to overcome, but could not. Thanks for this great analysis, Dr. Grande.
Dr. Grande, I've listened to your analysis on THIS young man (Ryan Grantham), very carefully: THIS IS ONE OF YOUR BEST!!! it was as if YOU were speaking MY thoughts, as 'I' was trying to form an opinion of him, while I had listened to this story, for the very first time; I don't have a television either, so I was REALLY clueless as to WHO he was as an actor.
Thank YOU sir, for such an AWESOME interpretation of this guy's mindset!!!
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I appreciate how matter of fact you are. Love your view and analysis.
It is frightening to see how some people view other human lives. They see them as objects, a means to their own end, and not as full entities with independent lives. No matter how much a person receives, they want more. It seems this could have been a mass shooting. I’m glad he was caught before he acted again.
Problem is, he will act again and when he does we will know it was possible and likely.
I really hope not.😨😔😡
You must be referring to like 40% of young women.
Just use men to get child support, use the kids as an excuse to do nothing but go online and invite men over. It's basically how America is becoming.
@@blueStarKitt7924 Listen again beginning a 11:40
Basically some people only care about themselves and their own feelings. Sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists whatever you want to call them. He should be in prison until he dies.
Excellent analysis and commentary, Dr. Grande.
I appreciate your realistic and no nonsense perspective.
I love your voice. Very soothing. Thanks for the analysis of this evil but sad case.
An attentive father or atleast a father figure is extremely important for a child, both male or female. ppl underestimate how imp fathers are in raising kids
not really. people with two moms tend to do perfectly fine. its whether you have parents that love you and care for you properly, not the gender of the parent
@@Sputterbug Cool. Kids don't need to be raised by Lezbo parents.
Just having a "father figure" around doesn't magically make mental health issues disappear.
Most people are busy getting on with their own lives..but I guess he thought the eyes of the world were on him..they weren't.. now they are..very sad story all round
I am so grateful at present that I made it to my 60's without any tragedy/revenge/etc. from my 3 children!
Yeah, that's a weird thing to have to say. I just left my mother to her own devices. No contact. Don't know why that wasn't an option.
Very insightful and intelligent diagnosis, not to mention chilling. It takes a lot of courage and maturity to say people can't rehabilitate.
Thank you for covering this case, I really wanted to hear your opinions and you really framed it perfectly. I don't think he should be considered for parole, and think the vulnerable narcissism is very clear in his case.
He must have hated his mother. Family secrets...
He didn’t care that he killed his Mother and wasted all the years she spent taking care of him. Guess her life didn’t matter to him. So horrible and sad.
Something about the age of 20/21, a lot of psychotic "snaps" seem to occur around that age.
You always blow my mind with these cases! Understanding how he felt is hard to emphasize with.. i want to under whats going on with these people more… idk about fixing them.. but prevention seems best!
Now that I have young kids it’s even more terrifying to think that children could ever murder their own parents. They’re so dependent on their moms and dads as little ones.. heart breaking to think about.
Same. I have a two year old son and a two month old daughter.
They're my whole world.
The thought of one of them killing me is chilling
This was such a surprise as hadn't heard this story? My now grown kids used to watch this actor! Thank you once again Dr Grande 👍🇭🇲
insane that this happened! can't believe it 😮
Whaaa? Just yesterday I said to myself, "Dr Grande needs to review this case. I'm surprised he hasn't..." Love your work! Keep it coming!
I don't understand why young men these days feel driven to mass murder. I understand depression and suicide, but where does this aggression and entitlement from?
👏👏 “BRAVO DR. GRANDE!” 👏👏
Tysm for another exceptional video!
Thank you Dr. Grande! An interesting analysis, and may his Mother Rest In Peace, and may HE never be released from prison. Very nice shirt also!! from Jean
Wait...wait...wait. This video popped up as I was watching scenes of the movie,since I'm a fan...i know I never specifically searched the subject but how has this not crossed my YT algorithm before! I watch so much true crime. Wow, I am floored..I need to rewatch this and get a better grasp.
Thank you Dr. Todd Grande for the information! Great title btw 😂
Well glad he turned himself in before going on a further rampage. Probably why the rather light sentence.
Wow! I think this is the most serious i have ever heard Dr. Grande be when discussing an offender!
I really enjoyed watching this video, it felt like something about it truly resonated with you. I was expecting a backhanded compliment regarding the murderer and his delusion of exaggerated game but it didn't seem to be delivered with the usual winsome charm and grin.
Hope you are having a good day! As always, I thoroughly enjoyed watching! High fives fro. 🇨🇦
Can you please bring out some mugs that say
"Simply speculating on what could be happening in a mug like this"
I didn't think you would cover this so soon. Thanks Dr. Grande!
“Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source. True humility is the only antidote to shame.” - Uncle Iroh
besides the victim and the situation, what is messed up is you take someone away from life, just so you can go to prison...It's the most wasteful crime ever and he shouldn't be let out, at least give him 30+ years if you let him out.
Those diary entries sure took a dark turn.
The things some people will do to get a sequel.
he didnt play the main character in that movie, he played a side-character
@@Sputterbug Thanks. I know. I was just making a joke.
1:36 Already I’m laughing with guilty pleasure, Dr. Grande thanks again for lampooning true crime while humanizing your fans. You da best, doc.
ohhhh.. vulnerable/covert narcissists have turned out to be the worst to shake in my own life. I unfortunately have an ex (now a friend) who just spent the last 4-5 years trying to lose our mutual friend as a roommate. the guy was neglected by his parents as a young child and he was honestly great to be around in his 20s, but he developed this uncanny ability to get other people to feel sorry for and make excuses for him as his life started to stagnate. fast forward to his late 30s and he's deeply alcoholic and somehow gets away with playing Destiny 2 all day (one of the top 10 players, deadass! lmao) and bringing girls home to sleep with during a pandemic and not having to pay rent or get a job because everyone feels so bad his life was so hard. they had to kick him out 2 or 3 times before it finally stuck but my ex is FINALLY getting his own life on track now. he basically got set back years by this 'friend'. it even broke up his years-long relationship, and trust me when I say this was the first time this ex had really been on the right track in a long time. so it really sucked to watch.
on the one hand I know people can't help having NPD, but on the other because they're so impossible to actually get help for I don't know what to say except keep yourself safe and be wary
that definitely sucks but please remember not everyone with npd is like that!
I'm curious as to how vulnerable narcissist become this way. It's scary to know that we don't know what they are thinking.
Freaky, Dr. Grande!
I remember when that movie came out, because we had a video store and it was very popular.
It's unbelievable, really. And 14 years is NOT LONG ENOUGH!
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There was such a tragic series of events that took place. Whatever the reason was that this young man did what he did hopefully he is able to get help and may those grieving the lose of his mother be comforted.
Dr. Grande, thank you for another of your usual excellent evaluations of criminal behavior. In case my question is noticed, should punishments be different for people who are properly, carefully diagnosed as having mental illnesses (particularly non-curable types). In your analysis of this case, for example, you recommend against releasing Grantham based on a possible vulnerable narcissist diagnosis, which could lead to his potentially committing more violent crimes if/when released from his current prison sentence. Are such mental health issues taken into consideration by the justice systems already (it seems they are not, or at least not in this case); if not, shouldn't they be considered; can punishments be of differing degrees based on (proper) diagnosis, ... etc. ...
Who is this Punk? RIP Barbara! ♥️
You really can't have Dr. Grande's Videos on while doing something else. Everytime I get distracted by tidbits of these insane stories, like, wtf and then I get interested in the analysis part
I like that you explain how “well known” is a generous interpretation bc I saw all the headlines and I had to do some digging to figure out who tf this dude was lol
I love Dr Grande's subtle roasts.
narcissism sounds very scary. like a cancer that cant be fixed.
I have a feeling those 'hundreds of videos' are not as innocent as you might be thinking.
i figured he was lying about the videos existing
@@Sputterbug Could be .... another excuse?!
Parole after 14 years is a ridiculous sentence for someone like this. It's amazing to me how countries like Canada, the UK, Australia, and much of Europe routinely give laughably light sentences for premeditated murder. It's hard to respect justice systems that treat human life so cheaply.
And those countries have a much lower homicide rate than USA.
@@janii4 Laughably, when compared to many areas of the USA, they actually don't. Atleast you tried to throw shade 👉👉🤡
Yesss king go offff
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Great analysis, Dr. Grande! Really scary and I can't believe the low prison term... I'm glad you pointed out that these people cannot be rehabilitated. He should be locked up for life and it's terrible to contemplate that it will take more deaths at his hands to keep him out of society.
Can we please have Dr. Grande replace the judge who decides whether criminals can be released on parole? His insights are sorely needed.
This is so sad! Even though after your analysis I can not understand how can someone kill its own mother.
I suffer daily the passage of my own beloved mother.
Also ,instead of just his misbehavior would be possible that he has a brain failure caused by the smoke of marijuana or alcohol usage?
Ffs...could you believe if they killed their father???
It's somehow ok right?
Your sexist do you not realize Hitler had a mother...mother's can be extremely abusive.
Hey maybe he did this because his mother was an abusive sexist...hmmm seems society is against men.
Dave Chappelle was right " women and children are loved unconditionally...men only if they provide something for women and children"
Your toxic woman.
Na.
it's crazy to hear things like this that happened so close to me. I have friends who go to SFU and friends who live in Hope. I usually don't hear stuff about places around me in the mainstream... scary stuff.
I hope and pray at his parole hearing they have a mental health professional convey your diagnosis and prognosis of what he truly is.
maybe he blamed his mother for his father leaving. as someone in their 20s who lost their parent, this is the first time I've chosen to deal with the events leading up to my parents death and what played a role and how I feel about it. he probably thinks if his mom wasn't the way she was, he would have a father. I observe the same situation in my relatives, I would never understand why a father wouldn't want to see his children despite the relationship not working out, but having experienced their mother, I can see how much stress it can lead to to deal with the failed relationship to get to their kids. once the kids are grown they are convinced they don't need their father, it's "too late" but it takes two to repair lost time, Ultimately I am a happier person since forgiving my remaining parent for the pain they caused my deceased parent, it wasn't intentional, but going forward, I refrain from starting my own family because broken people can only break other people, and innocent lives like children deserve better than to experience toxicity of adult relationships. it is a shame he couldn't bare the pain. I am in pain but I know it didn't happen in a day, so it'll take time to heal, and I'm willing to do that if it means pain didn't kill me, I want to pass in peace.
Jesus can transform lives and repair even the most broken people - if they approach Him with sincerity and humility.
I’ve always been curious.. is shame not the emotion that the guilty feel? Shame is the emotion, and whether or not they feel guilty of something is the provocation of that emotion.
Wow! This was deep and unflinching. 😳 Great analysis!
Spot on analysis of a vulnerable narcissist..... "insecure, hypersensitive, pessimistic and vindictive" ... hiding in plain sight!
And that’s their good side. 😂
as a student of simon fraser, hearing on the news that he was on my campus like that was startling to say the least
It is scary to think that narcissists could be so evil, sick, twisted, and lost that not even therapy can help them.
Thats cuz therapy is dumb lol
They couldn't be cured to start with and it's BS to imply that they can fix a PERSONALITY DISORDER.
@@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 facts
Was he in therapy? I wonder what evidence we have for that when it comes to people under 25 yrs. Our brains aren’t even fully developed till then. I think any kid in the public eye should be getting therapy from day 1. I’m not defending this guys actions, but I do think we are too quick to claim it must just be something evil inside a person that formed without any influence from the world around them.
He's clearly a psychopath or sociopath not just narcissists too.
I wonder if he was supporting his mother and himself which would make feeling like a failure worse. I wonder what his relationship with his mother was like- sounds like they were enmeshed.
Boggling.
Brilliant analysis Dr Grande, thx
RIP good mother
1:23 “he wasn’t that well known for non murder activities” dr Todd, u quack 🦆 me 🆙
What hell is going on with this world Father's killing thier children and children killing thier parents wtff
Yeah those things never happened in the past 🙄
Their not thier
its always been like that...
@@Big_Tex Funnily enough, you're the only person who said that. 🤣🤣🤣👉👉🤡
I feel a little abnormal finding this relaxing bc of your amazing voice!
They should never let him out .