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I'll never be poor button🙏🏿
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A button wont change anything, go and make money
@@AsANigerian A button made you type a comment, pls park well 😂
@@giftij you sound like an idiot, what's your point?
some people are so poor
the only thing they have is money
“You can feed a woman for 50 years,but if she feeds you for 5 months the whole world will hear about it”
Because it’s the man who is responsible and meant to feed the woman not the opposite
That's the realest line ever heard
Lies. I know many women who stand by tgeir men during hard times. But pursue your money and don't complain when kidnappers want same money. Useless advice.
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbthat’s not the majority🤡
I really hope young men don’t destroy their relationship and marriages by believing this. It is well sha
Never underestimate the wisdom of a old black man
True talk but not all old black men
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Big difference between a African-American and a African
Not old black man has wisdom . Out of 100, only 60 has the wisdom
He is African, Nigerian precisely. Being old does not bring wisdom. God does.
"I will be rich" button
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I had to hit the dislike cos I'm gonna be broke till the end of days
Amen
@@captainchaos1741I understand this.
Where is the wealthy button 👀
Type shi ngl eternal riches
If you don’t have money don’t get married simple don’t let anyone put you under any pressure
exactly
Facts
I disagree. I had a room mate on campus poor as a pagan rat. His girlfriend stood by him. I told him if u don't marry this woman don't invite me to your wedding. They happily married today. Catholic women for some reason hav d winning formula and protestants should learn: meditation, self sacrifice and a mindset of surrender is what is missing cos fear of God lost years ago. Many women singing praise Jesus would hav been far from hm if they lived in his days on earth. Cos he king now with riches to give right? Learn from the catholic woman of meditation and decency
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@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb That is the way it should be …..
I hope the man’s extended family don’t surface when the money comes to push the wife aside, recount to the wife and the whole world the story of how they suffered with the man growing up and turn the husband’s back against her using every means…..
I was dumped over brokeness. Singlehood is surprisingly peaceful
Very true... single wood is very peaceful
Your “sin” was dealt with very harshly. Keep grinding, you’ll surely get to the top!
@nuhu7354 Thank you brother
Very peaceful
Don't celebrate it; get angry, make money and find a better love.
When a poor man acts like a crazy person, we call him insane.
When a rich man acts like a crazy person, we say he’s weird/eccentric.
Nonsense. I call them insane both times. You must be really dumb to do that. Wrong again.
Never been treated more like an animal than when I was living out of my car
When a poor man travels, he is a wanderer and a lost soul.
When a rich man travels, he is cultured and open-minded.
Basically what media says about some guy who bought some platform by the name of a bird and called it a letter of the alphabet.
ahh perspective
As a young man with little money I can tell you forget these girls and keep your money 🤣🤣
I told my son the same thing!
@@cynthiadickerson5403 ❤😘😍😂💕🤣🌹
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You are a wise man
Dat is it
If you're wealthy and have a good health you're living heaven on earth
wealth and heatlh
@@ngaronero4691 Health is part of Wealth that is. And there are other three parts which makes up Wealth.
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U saying there are men out there who don't think they need money and need u to remind dem? Jesus said beware d deceitfulness of riches. Isnt it sad you know your wife respects your money not u? Your society is in trouble so don't blame poliand kidnappers chasing money by all means. Sad really for an old man to make a video teaching what David and zlatan sang in 5 minutes. When u 90 years old remember this useless post old rich man
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This video didn't come to my recommendation by chance, The World is telling me something
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The world doesn't control itself for it to tell you something.
You’re not special bud
“You start introducing yourself to your wife 🤣🤣🤣
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Am crying right now...for the young ones coming from a poor background, please let's make money but through decent means
If only I was indoctrinated into this from an early age.
Our own na gospel dem use full our head..
Even now indoctrination still makes it hard for one to focus on making money..
there are millions of languages but this man decided to speak just facts
Underrated 👏
Only couple thousand languages but yeah..man on FACTS!
@@TrancEndingMedia as a programmer I have rights to include the other languages 😂
Be original this comment is over played
Well, aren't you original.
This man can convince any man to behave well and invest 😂😂
Speak 4 yourself.if he is right d wives of rich men will never cheat. But they do. See how easy it is to wind your mind. Fear God. Find a good woman. Good women usually have few friends cos they on d straight and narrow path where few people walk.
😅truth be told
He had me glued😂
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nb so at least you have the money to help comfort lol. Any women can cheat. And that’s not the point here
@@ancientwisdom-ty4nbTrue 💯
If I ever get rich, I won't let people know and study how they treat me. I'll know who's real and who's not.
You may just discover that no one is real.😢
No one is real bro
Only God and your mom
Know this and know peace 😊
Then you have understood nothing.
I lost my job a few years back and was really struggling but I put my nose down and I've actually seen years of my hard work pay off. I'm not rich but I have a leadership position in a tech company at a young age, but all of those people who said they were rooting for me and all of that jazz, they did not fucking smile or even congratulate me after years of knowing I struggled and years of supporting them even when I was broke.
Moms aren't equal, mine is my mortal enemy @@Zlatan..
Moral of the story dont be broke
Thanks can berly understand my black brotha 😊
“You must enter her gates with something in your hands… and there will be thanksgiving in her heart…” 💀😂
Gem after gems
bars
A true poet✨
You caught that too 😂. This man is ruthlessly funny 🤣
If a woman says you owe her something - never interact with this woman again.
“When a man has no money he has no respect from his wife.” 👏🏾👏🏾
YOU GUYS ARE 🤡 THERE IS NO MONEY ONLY DEBT FIAT MONEY COLORFUL MONEY BACKRD BY "FULL FAITH AND CREDIT"OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA"WHICH IS A CORPORATION..
This is why I love that God created me as a man and not a woman because we have better temperaments than them in terms of materials. It is impossible for me to disrespect my wife because she has no money or because she cannot get pregnant. What a gift from God.
The Sad Thing is that not only your wife disrespects you but also the people around you including your family and friends
I want to believe that we live in a world where money doesn't a play a factor in finding a partner but the first thing they ask is "what do you do for work?" 😂
And after that, you know already, what she is after. This is gold diggers advice form tiktok on - how to find rich man being discret about it. We know the game now...
As a man who don't have money, you should not be looking for a woman. Money answers everything. Not love. Period!
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Money can buy many things. Love isn’t one of them.
Money is useful and necessary for a good life but love is more powerful than money. Some millionaires committed suicide and some people go in schools and shoot innocent children. what do they both have in common? they are deprived of love. Money is necessary but LOVE is a Non- negotiable and Mandatory for life.
💯let those who’ll argue argue
@@kofiduku934 Ecclesiastes 10:19
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My grandpa used to say "Poverty is a sin."
Sorry to say but your Grandpa is not wise, as it will imply poor people are sinners and even more. Poverty is a process, a legitimate source of wealth is honorable.
@TheLocalStandard Many children inherit the sins of their parents and foreparents. Many times, our parents and foreparents don't share all their dirty deeds. That man was wise as a fox.
a very big one.. root of all evil
@@megasg75090 so if my parents did bad things can that actually effect me like this is 100% real?
Ima have to check the law of Moses for that. But then again I’m not bound by the law. My sins are washed.
Ive been married 13 years..the first 3 i was so broke. For ten years now i have never cooked, cleaned, or prepared my outfit for the next day. I am blessed to have my wife. I am blessed to be able to provide amd maintain. Thank god! I am by no means rich..but as a young man at 37 years of age..you have to find a livable income!
Golddiggers everywhere
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Ironically, women always compare themselves to the wives of wealthy men, and wonder why they cannot find a wealthy man.
They never consider the wife‘s role in their success. They were together before becoming wealthy.
Damn bro. Help your wife out once in a while lol.
Ur not a young man
Who needs Tate when you have Sir Apoki
Both are important
Tate will get you arrested. He has no solutions.
I saw hell when I came back to Nigeria after my masters... i could barely manage a relationship past few months...God willing... I own houses now...I don't wish poverty on any man... its hell on earth
Poverty is the worst thing a man can experience.
Sheep needs their grass to not feel sad.
How did you get wealthy??
@@KylETISZAII have the same question
That church was vibrating very low.
If you were born dead poor like me and understand that struggle He is talking about gather here....The one of Temper is very True...
very true 😂. Glad I came across this video.
MAYBE A MAN WITHOUT "MONEY"KNOWS WHAT YOU DONT KNOW IF U THINK FIAT "MONEY" IS "LAWFUL MONEY"IS REALLY DEBT NOTES.AND HAVE NO IDEA WHATS REALLY GOING ON
ONLY THE CHOSEN ONES EXPERIENCE STRUGGLE,HARDSHIP,ETC CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED NOW GO READ THE BIILL OF EXCHANGE ACT OF 1882 and NEGOTIABLE INSTRUMENTS TO START PROMISES ULL LOVE THESE THINGS
swear
This video is too deep, comical and extremely valuable at the same time
The Bible says the poor man is hated by his neighbor
But that’s a load of BS, though. Who cares what it says.
@@user-fd7ju5sb6bi do, and if you dont then dont respond to people who bring it up its that simple. Why argue over something you dont believe in?
that is served as a reminder of the importance of compassion and solidarity with those who are less fortunate dont het mixed up
Dr. Apoki. Today's video is very deep. Even the dogs in your neighborhood will disrespect you when you are poor. I will watch this video again and again. Thank you.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Even the dogs😂😂😂
Quite true with the dogs; they try to assault a rich person. They would squamish instead of attack. The story of wives frustration over unsuccessful husband, is due to her not sharing her knowledge, and communicating with her husband to be successful together. This culture is prevalent with Nigerian society only, and not a general opinion of human state of affairs. A loving husband and wife are supposed to build metrimony wealth together, if that makes sense. I wouldn't want my partner to be in poor condition, with time to develop money making projects. Mind you, unlike Nigeria, in comparison to the rest of the world, is the most extroverted commercial society in the world. Rich Nigerians, prefer to acquire wealth with foreign friends, than their own country citizens, it appears to be a custom that needs changing. Women shouldn't fear rich men,it's always a pleasure to have a rich woman as a friend of rich men, both academically and business moguls or magnates.
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The word hit me hard in my heart and I subscribed 😂powerful. Looking forward to more inspiring and encouraging messages to ginger is out of poverty 💯
Those who value wealth above everything else will lose their soul if they already did not. Those are not human but sheep eating grass their whole life having nothing else behind their empty eyes. Repeating the same nonsensical thing over and over thinking it will make it true somehow.
Someone once told me this:
Without money, a man ain't a man but a child.
And you believed them did not you? That's why you are really a child. Real man checks everything critically and does not just accept someones nonsensical words as facts. But that's too hard to use ones brain is not it? Let's just trust someone who has 10 selfish agendas behind their words to use and abuse and manipulate others for their own benefit. Stupid... And trust me you can have all money in the world (you won't) and you will still be stupid kid thinking in status figures instead of intelligence and understanding.
That s a foolish word and world
pretty stupid. so are war veterans that are homeless children? are children therefore defending you and your freedom.
You can see how this is quite the idiotic statement
Whoever told you that lied to you
@@MG-ul3mi No need to be abusive. We can expess our opinions without using abusive language. Have a nice day.
I will never be poor in Jesus name
Amen brother
Jesus won’t help you brother put in the work and dedication you will see the fruits of your labour
Broke or rich, I will be happy regardless because happiness is internal. Nothing from outside can make you happy if you aren’t happy inside. Look at all the rich and or famous people that committed suicide, hooked on drugs etc. I want to come back to peace at home and not have someone because society wants me to.
If you don’t have money, you will be at the mercy of everyone including NEPA, Neighborhood, & even strangers. Poverty stinks.
People who used to like you even begin to avoid you cos they know you’ll beg for money anytime 😂
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@@kofiduku934 Absolute truth my friend
4:45 he said they will marry what is available. not who is available. 🤣 wiseman🤗
i liked him forshoo
💯truth
what is available not what you want
That line killed me😂😂
Great Minds sure think alike.
Old Age is a blessing when you have money ooh... SO HELP US GOD...
If you don't have money, the gate is not properly oiled self 😅😂
He is right. My brother had no money, and he was miserable. It showed in his behavior. He felt less of a man because he couldn't provide for his family. G-d rest his soul though.
If you associate anything external with being a man you are a fool. Those two are completely separate. Needy behavior for external validation. Lacking moral strength of character.
When a 🥷 pull his chair forward like that you know he’s about to drop some wisdom
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I never respected someone simply because they had money. The ability to provide for a family is respectable, but it’s not make or break. I respect a person’s character first and foremost. Money or lack thereof doesn’t change that.
Agreed well said
Completely agree
Brotha woke up and chose FACTS
That's why everyone wants to do anything legally or illegally just to get this money😢
Sad but real
Since the dawn of time
'If you dont have money' HAVE MONEY!!!!
Simple
The underlying message is to grow balls and brains, watch your economy so you don't waste and fight for your place in the work hierarchy.
So trueeeee…not having money destroyed my marriage. Going through divorce now.
I will never settle for less and i will be work my way to wealth
This is advice for men to work hard in school or other training and pray while theyre young
Right
True
If only…
School does not create future wealthy people just good workers. My former high school teacher gave me the best real live advice ever: “who you know is more important than what you know”, network guys. The parties will continue even when you’re not there prioritise being close with valuable people: “you’re the sum of the 5 people you spend your time with.”
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It’s good to learn valuable skills I’m not bashing education just don’t over glorify the education system it’s a scam for most
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Very true but men please don’t go and steal or kill just to get money. Watch his other videos for money tips.
My reservation exactly 💯. Some people especially the youth might take this the wrong way and go doing things that will destroy them in the name of money for freedom.
I build and supply weapons and arms. Videos like this are good for business. 😂
@@funaccount-vr9qoI’ll dm you soon 😂
@@lawron2 But this is exactly what is going to happen. Search and listen to Scott Galloway on this subject. He says:
"If you look at the most violent, unstable societies in the world, they all have one thing in common, and that is they're producing too many of these young, broken, alone men."
@@funaccount-vr9qo😂😂
I cant let something that was made by a machine determine if I’m gonna have a bad day or good day, it’s always a good day when I love me and got me to the end
No man is an island
It is the value you can get from the money, not just the paper. For example, with money you can take your family to exotic places in the world, send the kids to the best schools, donate to your church , feed the poor and old people.
@@TheLegend-uq1gz Contentment and happiness can be and should (also) be found outside of materialistic things. Do you think tribal people are unhappy because they can’t offer themselves holidays, cars, exotic places ?
As long as you have God, you have everything you need.
Stop It!! That’s that poverty talk….
@DaBlockPartyTvShow who will be rewarded in heaven? Who will be first and who will be last.
Don't you know I'm your husband 😂😂😂😂
Dr Apoki's wisdom is unique 🎉❤
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...'money answereth all things' Ecclesiastes 10, 19
“For the love of money is the root of all evil” 1 Timothy 6:10
A poor person doesn't eat what he wants but what is available.
Facts
I went through this for more than 3 years, chasing a vision, eating only what's available.. And please do yourself a favor and stay single else your eyes will see shege
Some people are so poor the only thing they have is money. Money and power are important, but money cannot fill the emptiness a materialistic lifestyle will give you. If your wife does not respect you because you have no money then that is not your wife, that is merely a person that you pay to make you company and when you dont pay her she is rude to you. Money is ONLY a means to an end, not the end.
I like the mix of humor and true talk😂
Exactly 😂😂😂
This doesnt apply to every man oo. I was living in a single room when i met my wife and i was a teacher. Three years later we got married. Long story short, our marriage is twelve years old, we have 3 children and we are doing very well financial. Things didnt immediately turn around for us after our marriage, but my wife was a great support and managed ever resource i made available then, no matter how small. She never disrespected me and that is why i dont spare any expense when i want to spoil her now. So it doesnt apply to every man and marriage. Lessons like this will only cause young men to go looking for money by all means necessary. Ask the rich men in Nigeria today whether they were wealthy before they got married...
Thank you very much
It’s better and easier to be more ambitious and patient than to sit and hope for the rarity of a woman who will accept substandard living conditions. This is just logic and common sense. God bless you. I’m happy it seems to have turned out well for you.
You are a lucky man bro otherwise its hell when you don't have money
I'm such the lucky guy too
You have missed the point Dr Apoki is making.
Your words may not be popular especially in western cultures where I come from but what you speak is a universal truth. I wish your teachings could fill the classrooms of today’s youth to inspire an additional reason why a good education will propel our young men into the professional workforce thus helping them be better husbands and respected lovers to their wives. Dr. Bob
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed forever. I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my first house in October and hoping to retire soon if things keep going smoothly for me.
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
Who is your financial coach, do you mind hooking me?
Am looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you think I should be buying?
Cryptocurrency investment, but you will need a professional guide on that.
Facebook 👇
money is not always good I made a lot of money from blood of others and to this day I still have nightmares about it
a man blinded by the desire for money and profit ends worse than a poor man living on the streets
in the end we end up in the same place, 3 meters underground
There were other people who made legitimate money and are happy, negative people always do negative things and think negatively. Jesus can still forgive you. Hold yourself accountable not money.
Money is ALWAYS good.
The good news is you came a long way but the bad news is you went the wrong way😂
@@DrCharlesApokiYou really worship Jesus?
@@nnajidaveed9896 Na you Sabi ooh. Jesusometer 😂😂😂.
@@DrCharlesApoki Just curious sir, am sure you've seen much in life, me I just started seeing, and no I don't think I was ever as privileged as you are but I think of we are honest with each other, you don't really sound like one who follows the teachings of christ, yea you may go to church and all, infact you may even want to belive you are spiritual but deep down you know you know not christ.. Of you are white say you are white, if you are black say you are black..
Stop contributing to the yoruba stereotype of deceit and chameleon traits..
Am not a Christian by the way, your speech sounds very much like something one of our members would have written.
Algorithm did it. I'm the lastborn here. Let me tell you, about the money. about the meetings. But I am inspired about the story of King David. He was the one the family least expected.
king David's story also inspired me as a last born, now at 22 I've already started doing copywriting
@@Elevate_Clips what I've learned as a last born. Carry on, you do not know what God will gift you with what others might not value.
David was practicing with a sling hunting birds before killing Goliath.
I'm 31, going to study my masters in music
@@kennethgithinji5631💪🏿💪🏿
Grow up. Go and study STEM course. And do music as a hobby. Stop being a sol boy
If your wife disrespects you when you’re poor or if anyone disrespects you while you’re poor, you’ve married the wrong woman and are hanging around the wrong ppl, don’t listen to his advice, listen to mine
This is a very intellectual way of saying that if you're insecure, just get more money to make those insecurities of yours look pretty.
Congratulations for thinking correctly
I'm sure if I put bows on my shit then it won't stink
This is deep!
Or maybe it’s talking about the opposite perspective and how people treat you, not how you feel yourself.
@@GIT-COMMS I agree
This whole conversation about making money because of women and family just makes me want to be by myself and leave these things behind.
Its only for people who need these things to feel complete and are scared of being alone that will go through pain because they lack money.
thats life
Resources are one of the survival needs. Even alone you will feel that need bro
I’m a 30 year old woman, still a virgin not married. and I wish I could send this to my father ( he’s still my provider).. he’s in his 60s and my whole life growing up, I’ve always seen him on the edge & complaining not having enough money! Never been stable having his own house as well! My 2 brothers are younger than me and sadly now they are repeating his patterns because he never taught them nothing about what it means to be a man not even to be a man with money!
Recently he’s been trying to use my name my older sister’s name as well in an illegal way to got money but we’re just wouldn’t allow it! He got big families! Brothers and sisters!.. and he would always take advantage for them to give him money or help him with it! I’m so disappointed at him and feel embarrassed and don’t and never have respect for him.
This man just dey attack me and my papa anyhow 😂😂😂😂
Make i shaa go double my hustle 😂
I just tire, I just Dey think about my life since morning.
Lol😅😅
@@DannyVibes1 😂😂😂
@@DannyVibes1 😂😂😂
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I recently came into some money, not much but enough to not work a year(I still work a job) one thing I noticed is that I have never been soo relaxed and anxiety free. It’s truly a beautiful feeling
Edit: if anything it’s inspired me to earn more and not blow it. I love this feeling
If you have money, you can push back on so many things, even death, by good medicine, overseas treatment, exercise equipment, good food, holidays, other people’s organs & so many things. Trust me on this.
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I agree with you my oga 100%
If a man thinks that having financial capacity doesn't matter, this mindset he has is at his own peril. He shall SUFFER ALONE.
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😅😂 "He shall suffer alone"
I am rich but not wealthy. This is why I plan to remain single. I don't want no woman to disrespect me.
When a man finds a wife he finds a good thing. Prov18:22. Having a family is a wonderful thing. The bible says it's not good to be alone. A woman might disrespect you if you are lazy and depend on her for everything. If you are honest and hardworking why would a woman disrespect you?
Why will you go for a disrespectful woman?
"If you dont hav money as a man in church..." That one i know it very well , at my church there is this dude who physically abuse his wife and everyone knows abt it , but he got positions in church and sits at the front .
Growing up i always wondered why nothing is being done abt it , until i came to understand that its because he has money .
If you don't have money as a man, Work on your personality and character, they will outlive everything.
Unless you get dementia 😂
@@joshuawilson1544 sending healing. ⚕️
ethics can only get you so far,
As an American lady Dr.Apoki,
I enjoyed this video.
Did you have to include "as an American lady"?!
Yes,
I did. I want Dr. Apoki to know that he has Respect and is reaching my country.
Is that a problem for you?
Not really...now I gey you better. He teaches well
@@lawrencemalika9687lol superpower nation
Lol America is a poor country
As a nigerian doctor, everything he said is 100% accurate.
Being loved for money is dangerous once you have no money she's going to be someone else woman. I'd rather be single and happy with my peace of mind.
This video will soon have the highest views out of all the videos Dr. apoki has done.
Uncommon Truth everywhere.
This is giving off old and foolish vibes. The right knowledge & a powerful way to execute it is more important than just having money.
This is why I choose to have only 1-2 children that I can fully take care of and make sure they live a good life. I grew up poor… it’s not a good feeling at all. At least I am in good health and have better opportunities now, same for my kids
But brother, when you give your kids a good life, how do you know that it is not a detriment to them or their development?
Your personality will not pay rent, buy food, pay doctor when you are sick.
@@floydmayweather2043 Because common sense exists. You can never know anything unless you communicate effectively and take the time as a parent to council and guide your family.
@@TheLegend-uq1gz And money without personality will make you despised as well. You need both.
This was tough for me to accept of how shallow it is but is reality
Agreed
TLDR: *Get rich son*
The struggles for men are real.
What a terrible world we live in
That's the reality.
The adultery case got me rolling on the floor. Hypocrisy in the church is sickening 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It has crossed my mind quite a few times that the true source of everyone's pain and sorrows is the expectation placed upon by the society, primarily parents, on them.
Having money has become the sole driver of many men, and will thus be their downfall.
Sad, really.
My advice: just live your life. Yes, you need money, but don't burden yourself with unnecessary weight. Otherwise you'll be depressed for the rest of your life
...Finally!!!
“Money is the Ego’s best friend, Money and Ego enslaves mankind”
-Roman Verzasca
When you participate in the world of division, separation, you will be split into atoms instead of being whole.
Having money as a man makes you weaker because you are susceptible and vulnerable to attackers such as pride, lust, greed, jealousy, women, men and with that you lose.
Money rules peoples lives and with that you have war and divorce. Money was supposed to be an exchange of value, now it is selling yourself as a slave to the bottom feeders who seek power over you and in turn you become that.
I’m a very ambitious and hard working man. I’m working towards something and if you can’t wait, free to leave. I’m not gonna speed up my process for anyone. My family worked hard for me to be here today so respect it.
You have ambition and working toward your goals that’s all that matters
How humanity is fallen.
Yhe bottom line is you had something to start and still took care of her regardless to how litle your finances were
If you don’t have money you can never be bold enough! You will fall in love with indoors. You turn to introvert! 🤦🏻♂️ hustle o!!! All he said is true!
What my dad told me is money don't mean nothing if you have poor character. There's plenty of cowards with money
Money legitimizes everything including bastards according to a Jewish proverb.
The reality is that brave men are not usually rich because they die prematurely fighting battles that the cowards will become rich from.
Society worships these rich people without character even in the different religions.
@@DrCharlesApoki I agree. Money only legitimizes from a society standpoint. It doesn't determine someone's character. You can have poor character whether rich or poor.
This is why you don't base your value on money and idolize rich people because many have poor character.
And if someone bases your value based on how much money you have, then that's probably someone you shouldn't have around you.
Dr Apoki, you are a bad, bad man. That’s why I admire you!!!!!
My former P. A. said I was a bad guys , plural. 😂😂😂
@@DrCharlesApoki😂😂
Return of King Solomon ❤❤
He is a very bad Bado
Thank you Daddy for this profound information. Infact when you don't have money as a man your eyes will see your ears. Thank you the motivation..
You’ll see what your mouth cannot talk😂
If you understand the principles of having good character, no matter where you are in life, you’ll attract money. Even if you were to lose it all, it eventually comes back. But you have to apply the principles of having good character. People will favor you for no reason. Then you have to maintain that favor with wisdom.
It’s just unresolved insecurities that most men have. Just identify your purpose in life as a man and that’s all.
This is true…I heard a young man say this a while ago. A black man can’t get any respect without money
It's not just a black man, brother. It's the case for all men, regardless of their skin colour and/or ethnicity. I would know this since I'm currently experiencing this reality and am trying to get out of it.
@@TheChampFighter all men need money and a woman that won’t spend it all
@@derekharris7634 True.
@@derekharris7634 thanks for the facts brother.
From all you have said, you are maintaining your wife! She doesn’t want you for who you are
And how many women out there will want you for who you are?? Even if they love you, the'll still need money for maintaining the love
women never love unconditionally.
Having or not having money is relative. A once rich man might think he is broke if he only has $100k in his bank account.
Meanwhile, a man who spent most of his life in poverty might feel $10k as being rich. He might have the same self confidence as a millionaire.
Dr. Charles = Rafiki
Audience = Simba
"For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until death do us part."
Thank you for being there for some of us that never had a father to tell us this!
Id rather have a soul than the respect of those who only respect money
This is the only motivation I need to say yes to my bosses when my table is full and they want to dash me more work...!!!
True Talks sir,ur wife will deny you access to Jerusalem😂
Nawa o. Them for tell you?😂