MEN PREPARE EARLY. LOOK AT OLD MEN AROUND YOU AND GET SOME SENSE.

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  • @GlennSapp
    @GlennSapp Рік тому +106

    Dr Apoki,
    It is an honor to comment on your offering of knowledge, experience and wisdom. I am in the US . I’m the son of a career criminal who died in prison. I grew up dirt poor and I too married early. Today I am 58 and have been married 38 years. I raised my children and the youngest is a medical doctor. I appreciate your gift of serious esoteric, worldly and spiritual guidance. I am the descendant of Africas in West Africa but I do not know my tribe or village thus a bit of my being is lost. Please be encouraged and continue your messages because across the ocean and world they are being received. Blessings.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +6

      Wow!

    • @EyeSpy-pg5cw
      @EyeSpy-pg5cw 9 місяців тому +3

      Your message touched me. Thank you for sharing it.

    • @VivSees
      @VivSees 8 місяців тому +2

      @GlennSapp you’re an inspiration too! Thank you for being a committed black American husband and father. We see/hear too little of it in usa.

    • @kweku144
      @kweku144 7 місяців тому

      Who is a Career Criminal?

  • @jameskatuya5495
    @jameskatuya5495 11 місяців тому +21

    Am a Malawian but these messages are impactful to my life

  • @1anre
    @1anre 9 місяців тому +137

    Tetrahedral structure.
    - Settle your kids with great education
    - Settle your wife by making herself sufficient
    - Settle yourself by having investments that can protect and provide for you in your moonlight years without relying on your kids

    • @Gitaukeke
      @Gitaukeke 8 місяців тому +1

      Yess ❤😊

  • @simplydivine77
    @simplydivine77 Рік тому +325

    This is all facts. I watched my mom work her whole life and never invest her money. She avoided conversations about retirement and money. Now she’s older, became sick and was forced to sell her home…she lives with my sister now. People need to learn about money, and keep learning, and start investing now!!!! The time is passing fast. You look up one day and you’re 40. Also take care of yourself while you’re earning/investing. Exercise often, eat well, drink water, take your medication, go to doctor/dentist/optometrist once a year, sleep 7-8 hours a night and take your vacations.

    • @1anre
      @1anre 9 місяців тому +3

      That's sad to hear. Was your dad absent always or why was that a path she chose to work all through her life?

    • @EyeSpy-pg5cw
      @EyeSpy-pg5cw 9 місяців тому +1

      Your message touched me. Thank you for sharing it.

    • @lakeside4jesus
      @lakeside4jesus 8 місяців тому +1

      You said it all,Jah bless you❤

    • @TurinMatongo
      @TurinMatongo 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much

    • @johnadona3014
      @johnadona3014 8 місяців тому

      maybe because her loser son didnt make it.

  • @superiorinsight2202
    @superiorinsight2202 8 місяців тому +50

    YOUNG MEN, SETTLE YOUR SELVES FIRST.THE DYNAMICS OF HIS DAY & TIME HAVE CHANGED RADICALLY !!!

    • @Jack.254
      @Jack.254 8 місяців тому +10

      True,
      You settle her first and she leaves you. Actually, I settle myself and my children ONLY.

    • @Himothy704
      @Himothy704 8 місяців тому

      🤡

    • @horeshieevigoddess2972
      @horeshieevigoddess2972 8 місяців тому

      Kindly don’t marry somebody’s daughter sir. Create ur own woman nd put ur seeds there. And if u happen to have daughters think abt that man that is thinking like you think in her life.
      Selfish and
      Wicked generation!

    • @roseveltquarshie7898
      @roseveltquarshie7898 7 місяців тому +1

      Depends on the kind of woman. If it is the kind who values hair nails and phones over being wife and mother, then there is no need settling her.

    • @beekay6958
      @beekay6958 7 місяців тому

      You are enlightened. Love yourselves KINGS. We in a different generation and the mindset surrounding some of these have changed.

  • @innocentobiegue6219
    @innocentobiegue6219 Рік тому +26

    Dr., Thanks for all your teachings. The family rules are not the same. Unlike you, I'm first in my family, all my juniors of a man and two ladies, are dead. I trained myself in universities to two masters degrees. I'm married with three boys and one girl. All these details are background study. Your wife must be very submissive. Before I married I had 12 buses doing transport business. My intention was to go into real estate later. I was a civil servant and also my wife. I had a shop where I stay until late in the night. I instructed my wife to bank money rendered by the drivers. She did not do that. She rather kept the money under bed where her brothers and sisters were using them to enjoy themselves. That was how my future got ruined. She is the type that would want to show off without any streams of incomes. All what I'm saying is that the race is not for the swift, ... time and chances happen to them all.

    • @1anre
      @1anre 9 місяців тому +2

      That's shocking. You didn't find that out early and take over the savings of the money yourself until old age?

  • @etimspeed
    @etimspeed 11 місяців тому +50

    Older people in Nigeria had the opportunity to be whatever they wanted early. Today, young men are struggling to eat once a day.

    • @1anre
      @1anre 9 місяців тому +20

      Go and acquire skills. No man has an excuse not to fight for his welfare and wellbeing today.
      Do hardwork and know you won't remain in that same position forever

    • @homericrealty
      @homericrealty 8 місяців тому +6

      Not true, we also have opportunities to become what we want to be via the Internet

    • @jumokea2274
      @jumokea2274 8 місяців тому

      I agree with you to an extent but there's a culture trending in the present generation. Lack of patience and no interest in pursuing skills other than western education. They want to rush to the top in a short space of time. Sometimes I wish they can ban all those entertainment social media to force them to reality.

    • @VivSees
      @VivSees 8 місяців тому +4

      @etimspeed you ingore the fact that Dr. Apoki grew up dirt poor and once lived in a mud hut.
      No excuses.

    • @tegaedema548
      @tegaedema548 8 місяців тому +1

      Its a lie. Big lies. Young men have more opportunities to make it big early age now.

  • @dapyday
    @dapyday Рік тому +70

    Unfortunately, many of us modern men don't present our women with responsibilities, but romance and entertainment. In the long run, the man becomes a mule laden with financial burden. It's always too late to know it and almost impossible to rectify.

    • @1anre
      @1anre 9 місяців тому +21

      If you ask them to pick up bills in the house, you start hearing that's misogyny. That that isn't the type of equality they asked for, and that if you were a "real" man, you'd be taking responsibility for everything and not allowing them to do anything at all.
      Then they come online and cry asking where the "real" men are

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +4

      @@1anre 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @ojames1983
      @ojames1983 9 місяців тому +8

      @@1anre A wise man avoids those type of women. You're welcome.

    • @kinsdonn
      @kinsdonn 8 місяців тому

      @@1anrethat’s not true, most households split the bill 50/50.

    • @cookiesfantasies3038
      @cookiesfantasies3038 7 місяців тому

      @@1anrepick up bills or empower ur wife, listen to dr apoki

  • @David-fu9es
    @David-fu9es 9 місяців тому +64

    "I started very early punishing this body to prepare for my children" WOW 🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥

  • @s.akanteyagamu3773
    @s.akanteyagamu3773 9 місяців тому +41

    "I am not your friend, I am your father. your father." hahahahaha

  • @idehenreosas3969
    @idehenreosas3969 Рік тому +33

    The key facts- settle your kids and wife 💪

  • @martinebinu6527
    @martinebinu6527 Рік тому +28

    Plain truth,thank you Dr Charles Apoki.I see old men who were top bankers struggling.The ones who prepared are living comfortably.
    Once again let's keep the channel hitting a million subscribers now now 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  Рік тому +3

      Amen. Thanks so much.

    • @emily_gemify123
      @emily_gemify123 Рік тому

      its not one million one billion jokers of people and content creator. he just decived his wife.

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  Рік тому +5

      @@emily_gemify123 My wife is a rich and fulfilled independent woman proudly married to me for 39 years. She is so independent very few women enjoy the liberty she has.

    • @1anre
      @1anre 9 місяців тому

      ​@@drcharlesapokilet wait for her reply now

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  9 місяців тому +3

      @@1anre She has nothing to say because she did not watch the video to the end.
      She must have seen the recent video of my wife and I. You know out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Every comment reflects the content of the speaker. Please forgive her 😂😂😂

  • @ezenwaodurukwe3221
    @ezenwaodurukwe3221 11 місяців тому +4

    I love this channel. You have a message of good life in the twilight zone.

  • @prolificlife1710
    @prolificlife1710 Рік тому +18

    The hard truth as usual. God bless you sir

  • @kofiduku934
    @kofiduku934 9 місяців тому +48

    Your channel is growing fast bcos you drop gems. Some of us our parents didn’t know the things you taught your children. We’re learning from you.

    • @ancientwisdom-ty4nb
      @ancientwisdom-ty4nb 9 місяців тому

      No church in your community?

    • @Dr.gymbouy
      @Dr.gymbouy 9 місяців тому

      If the church leaders are a losers,they don't bother to teach others..

  • @emmanueludensi2314
    @emmanueludensi2314 8 місяців тому +14

    I like this message. Any man thinking that his children will take care of all the cares about him at his old age should think again. The children will have their problems to deal with. Settle yourself before old age.

  • @Timenowistoact
    @Timenowistoact 8 місяців тому +9

    The Bible said parents leave inheritance for your children not the other way around. Well said sir 👍🏽

  • @magirimwandau2610
    @magirimwandau2610 Рік тому +3

    This presentation is an eye opener especially to young men who still have the time to apply the principles
    Thank Dr Apoki

  • @k.dashbeatsbeats5150
    @k.dashbeatsbeats5150 9 місяців тому +29

    I completed 30 years old this year, and i passed the bar association exam(lawyer) here in my country mozambique , i need take my life very serious after i heard your video i know that im able to reach my potencial, only problem i have now i dont have a mentor that can help me to reach that level..

    • @lebosebete2299
      @lebosebete2299 7 місяців тому +1

      Find one. Find people who you aspire to be like in all aspects

    • @phenyomatseke557
      @phenyomatseke557 6 місяців тому

      God will bless you with sommerschield house. Stay hungry Stay humble my brother.

  • @catherineumeike5830
    @catherineumeike5830 Рік тому +11

    You are the best role model i have

  • @pearseseun
    @pearseseun Рік тому +10

    My first encounter with you sir....since then I learnt what it means be FRUGAL. In your message you thought us the meaning of FRUGALITY!

    • @pearseseun
      @pearseseun Рік тому

      I heard your message on FRUGALITY about 13yrs ago. I can never forget that day!

  • @PendameBeats
    @PendameBeats 9 місяців тому +34

    I'm a young Malawian 25 years Old suffering from low self-esteem

    • @mezobernard
      @mezobernard 9 місяців тому +12

      I hope you feel better as each day passes by , just be you , don’t live up to anyone’s expectations

    • @afrikaditm9519
      @afrikaditm9519 9 місяців тому +16

      Hit the gym
      Start working out
      And watch
      Purpose by Dr Myles munroe

    • @yahyeabukar
      @yahyeabukar 8 місяців тому

      Do Nofap.
      Fapping 100% kills You self steam And Your confidence .
      Dont watch the porn videos

    • @Swopinion
      @Swopinion 8 місяців тому +3

      Work and engage hard day by day over month years … paid or unpaid … self esteem will increase.

    • @Edlizzy247
      @Edlizzy247 8 місяців тому

      Avoid social media, scrolling 247, reading comments and jumping through blog pages. IG, FB and tiktok will drain ur energy..
      Hit the gym, be physically active, avoid porn or anything near it.
      In less than 1 month, you will feel different

  • @thegospelsite
    @thegospelsite 9 місяців тому +9

    The key is in Starting Early, you're right Doc ✅️

  • @puretruthawaken
    @puretruthawaken 9 місяців тому +21

    Happiness is from God, but a fool finds joy in vanities of this earth!

    • @Tvasio
      @Tvasio 9 місяців тому +6

      Happiness is from god and so is wealth and financial intelligence, if you’re miserable and have money you’ll be more miserable, if you’re godly and happy while broke; with money you’ll be more godly and happy. Abraham was wealthy and left inheritances for Isaac and Jacob. He even invested in land to bury his wife.

  • @romainehbaneye5357
    @romainehbaneye5357 2 місяці тому

    I love you and your teaching Sir, but I must say some of the things a man can achieve in this life greatly depends on the woman you married. You are lucky you had a woman that will follow your lead, i am currently 35 i went into commitment with a woman early too at 25 and we lived together for almost ten years, she will not listen nor accept my lead. I don't want to write my life on your post here, but count your self lucky too in that your woman was on your side. I'm from Cameroon now in Asia for a year trying to set a path for my self and the 3 kids I have. The woman I must say held me down with competition rather than collaboration. Those who know what I am talking about know. But I don't give up. I will by the grace of God go to that level God has prepared me for. Thank you for your teachings Sir

  • @kenkim6403
    @kenkim6403 Рік тому +6

    Listening from Kenya🇰🇪

    • @Zainab-ts4mj
      @Zainab-ts4mj Рік тому +1

      @Kenkim6403 wacha tupate wasia huku. Very inspirational 😅

    • @Jack.254
      @Jack.254 8 місяців тому

      Usisettle Njoki ama Njeri kwanza, atakutema. Hii ni Nigeria, tena kitambo.

  • @MikeMendy-hj4gt
    @MikeMendy-hj4gt 9 місяців тому +8

    Blessed is the one who subscribes to this channel.

  • @paulnwafor68
    @paulnwafor68 9 місяців тому +9

    You won life

  • @raphaelamanpene1318
    @raphaelamanpene1318 8 місяців тому +6

    This channel is gradually changing my mindset and way of thinking. Thank you Mr Appooki 🙏

  • @ananichukwuneku114
    @ananichukwuneku114 7 місяців тому +2

    I think is wrong to say all this without appreciating the wife, cos there would have been a breach no matter how intelligent you plan. It all came to success because your wife was also a good woman thank you

  • @GreatpotentialOgodo
    @GreatpotentialOgodo Місяць тому

    You really healed a soul with today's message.. quite educative and challenging to reality..
    Thanks alot sir

  • @ThaAlfaMale
    @ThaAlfaMale 9 місяців тому +15

    Men. Nigerian men. Listen! This is wisdom.

  • @zion_dgaf
    @zion_dgaf 9 місяців тому +4

    As men this is the reality and lifestyle we should aspire to live. Amazing video 🤙🏼

  • @TheLegend-uq1gz
    @TheLegend-uq1gz Рік тому +5

    This is priceless.

  • @PorokolBarifaa
    @PorokolBarifaa 5 місяців тому

    A day doesn't go by without me listening to Dr apoki,sir you are my role model and I will love to work with you in the future to come.
    Keep pushing and educating we the young ones

  • @Bajsvsuevdj
    @Bajsvsuevdj 9 місяців тому +5

    This some hard reality check 😢

  • @kelvinosemeshan7798
    @kelvinosemeshan7798 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much sir, you doing well, God bless you for this valuable information.

  • @dorothymakumba6742
    @dorothymakumba6742 Рік тому +5

    Thankyou so much Doc. Listening from 🇿🇲🇿🇲

  • @osazeeoghide4986
    @osazeeoghide4986 9 місяців тому +5

    Dr Charles Apoki, your wisdom is a blessing to me. Thank you sir

  • @garrickjames9199
    @garrickjames9199 8 місяців тому +1

    You are speaking all this because there's no spiritual force distorting your plans or your destiny. Many planned but because there are foundational principalities holding them back they couldn't achieve their goals. Sometimes in life we have to look from different angles, what worked for you may not work for the other person

    • @Bhagbe
      @Bhagbe 7 місяців тому

      Very true

    • @watchforlife
      @watchforlife 4 місяці тому

      Which spiritual force are you referring to? Are you insinuating that this force is picky and selects certain individuals at random to mete out misfortune, hardship and difficulty, thwarting whatever plans for the future that have been made?

  • @anujomjude6323
    @anujomjude6323 Рік тому +4

    Thanks Dr

  • @RENZO1444
    @RENZO1444 9 місяців тому +2

    Yes Sir🙏🏽🧘🏾‍♂️🙏🏽 Settle with obedience a blessing always follows .Eliminate distractions, negative people, places, and things that block our blessings Settle home A lot of boundaries that we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our (The most important thing is how you feel and think about yourself purposefully focusing on goals and dreams to help sell your family in the right direction ✅relationships with other people, and how we operate in our relationship with ourselves."peace of mind all else will follow. Use boundaries on yourself and eliminate distractions, confusion, chaos negative people, places, and things that will block your blessings .peace of mind From boundaries are for your well being and healthy relationships from parasites.Yes.protect yourself Positive mental health =Boundaries on yourself discipline and emotional self control protects freedom peace of mind Stops negativity’s from blocking your blessings 🤨With peace of mind all else follows 🙏🏽 we're missing are the boundaries that we need with ourselves, around how we operate in our relationships with other people, and how we operate in our
    relationship with ourselves."😊

  • @AniekanEshiet
    @AniekanEshiet Рік тому +1

    Message is start early. Kindly do another video for others.

  • @GoldenBeetl3
    @GoldenBeetl3 8 місяців тому +1

    You are right but its only valuable for a man who want to live long and old. Some people only want to live fast and with a lot of adventures and die at an early age. I mean its important to explain the difference. I personally have no interest to reach your age but I totally understand your point

    • @80zplug
      @80zplug 8 місяців тому

      why don’t yu wanna live his age?

    • @GoldenBeetl3
      @GoldenBeetl3 8 місяців тому +2

      @@80zplug Im not suicidal, I enjoy life. I just don’t feel the need to live long because its a boring cycle repeating itself. Im not really into materialistic stuff like have a family, have a house, have a job so I don’t need to prepare for these things. Im living in the present and ready to go at any moment. I totally respect what this man i saying but its his truth not the same for everybody.

    • @80zplug
      @80zplug 8 місяців тому +2

      @@GoldenBeetl3 okay okay I respect that bro❤❤

  • @dorisenga4701
    @dorisenga4701 Рік тому +2

    You Are a Good Man.

  • @joshrobertson3419
    @joshrobertson3419 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Dr. Apoki for your words for wisdom. I am a 23 year old young man in the United States who has lost his way in life since teenage years. I grew up in a single mother household without close connection to my father & I am now realizing the effects of this since hitting my adolescent years during my transition to independent manhood. Your words are a helpful guidance to me in finding a way to build a respectable life for myself and I hope that you continue to spread your wisdom. You are doing a great thing! God bless you sir.

  • @s.akanteyagamu3773
    @s.akanteyagamu3773 9 місяців тому +4

    I do not know if you have a video on this topic but I wish you would touch on it. How to not be trapped in family issues as a young man. I saw a video that talked about avoiding the desire to be a family hero and I feel you will do better justice to this. Thank you!

    • @olusegunjinadu5902
      @olusegunjinadu5902 8 місяців тому +1

      Hi, I read your post and thought I should recommend a video from another knowledgable man of God. Black Tax from Apostle Femi Lazarus, I hope it helps. You are welcome.

    • @ephraimm.1750
      @ephraimm.1750 4 місяці тому

      @@olusegunjinadu5902 Thanks for this

  • @fiyebosamson3182
    @fiyebosamson3182 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much sir
    For this advice
    🙌🙏

  • @madhusudan6129
    @madhusudan6129 Рік тому +4

    Apoki 🤗

  • @glorysalami1792
    @glorysalami1792 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much sir

  • @j.b402
    @j.b402 Рік тому +3

    Sound wisdom

  • @waedjradi
    @waedjradi 8 місяців тому +2

    This man gets it. Thank you, Doctor Apoki.

  • @sihlemasondo2898
    @sihlemasondo2898 Рік тому +1

    DR Apoki thank u sir

  • @tommyy5041
    @tommyy5041 7 місяців тому

    This man is an embodiment of practical wisdom. Thank you Sir. My opinion is that for some people who couldnt start family early, you can set up account with insurances in the name of those children so that their education is secured all through weather you are there or not. Such insurance also has the capacity to pay you some level of interest depending on your capital and duration. Thank you Doc.

  • @GabrielAmadi-n6o
    @GabrielAmadi-n6o 8 місяців тому

    You sound like my dad, my father is my role model because of how he settled us all

  • @akaninyenethompson1173
    @akaninyenethompson1173 7 місяців тому

    Dr.Akpoki is a great blessing to young and mature people. God bless you sir.

  • @owowenukingsley4135
    @owowenukingsley4135 7 місяців тому

    Me, i have this already in my 20years plan. I read over 100 books outside academics in 1 year during my nysc year. Atleast, live a good and comfortable life

  • @Higlorynwaneri
    @Higlorynwaneri 7 місяців тому

    I love listening to you Sir.. you’ve changed my perspective to life. Thank you ✨

  • @IbrahimAbdurrahman-o1m
    @IbrahimAbdurrahman-o1m 4 місяці тому

    You really impress me

  • @Kenmusaudev
    @Kenmusaudev 9 місяців тому +2

    Dr Charles Apoki. You are my new friend. Your are dropping gems.

  • @samsonphotography1397
    @samsonphotography1397 3 місяці тому

    MANY THANKS DADDY.

  • @darrenm6120
    @darrenm6120 8 місяців тому +2

    Great video Dr Charles. Bless from the UK ✌️

  • @samuelonimisi7393
    @samuelonimisi7393 10 місяців тому +1

    I wish i watched many of your Videos in the last 10years. I have learnt many wisdom and lessons of life from you that need rapid adjustment.
    Thank You Sir for your word of Wisdom!

  • @captaindipuo3931
    @captaindipuo3931 7 місяців тому +1

    Well said.

  • @earkaifie3535
    @earkaifie3535 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the new information. Dr Charles Apoki

  • @drimzmjeshii4701
    @drimzmjeshii4701 8 місяців тому

    Dr Charles I see you as a friend en a father to me your so inspiring God bless you

  • @quantum7154
    @quantum7154 Рік тому +3

    But you put yourself last though…that can be dangerous too

  • @IsaacAgbi-x7s
    @IsaacAgbi-x7s 8 місяців тому +2

    Wiseman

  • @josiahm.muriuki916
    @josiahm.muriuki916 7 місяців тому +1

    Wisdom!! This is amazing.

  • @Mr.O.Cardenas
    @Mr.O.Cardenas 8 місяців тому +1

    Glory to the Most High.
    Great information Dr.
    I’m taking notes

  • @septimuscogent6761
    @septimuscogent6761 7 місяців тому

    I love you Dr Charles
    I'm from Sierra Leone
    I really like you wisdom towards we the young folks
    Just advice sir
    I want to connect with your seminars
    Please

  • @princeharry9681
    @princeharry9681 2 місяці тому

    I love this

  • @Kingdom-Doctor
    @Kingdom-Doctor 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for the wisdom you are sharing Sir. You are a great blessing to us

  • @mahvenblaise3666
    @mahvenblaise3666 8 місяців тому

    Daddy Dr. Charles Apoki, Thank you immensely for sharing your wisdom with us. I did listen to you from Cameroon and I am grateful. My God the Almighty continue to bless you as you bless others with your wisdom and more.

  • @collinsfemmville1067
    @collinsfemmville1067 8 місяців тому

    GOD bless you sir, Your messages touches every men regardless of their age, May you grace be reknewed

  • @mhlonishwabiyase5532
    @mhlonishwabiyase5532 Рік тому +2

    Ur wise

  • @derekdaniel9128
    @derekdaniel9128 6 місяців тому

    Thanks for sharing this invaluable insight

  • @richdon7679
    @richdon7679 7 місяців тому

    I love this man

  • @alawodetosin6153
    @alawodetosin6153 8 місяців тому

    All these are possible for you because you came from a well-to-do family sir.
    Many don't have the pedestal to start early like yours sir.
    There is no one size fit it all sir.
    Things happen to people that they spend years trying to even get their finances stabilized

    • @anyaehiegbujo
      @anyaehiegbujo 8 місяців тому

      Not entirely through, you must go out there, and make it happen

  • @letsgo5713
    @letsgo5713 8 місяців тому +4

    I can see that our priorities in this world is different, what are u going to gain in the end sacrifisen all ur life settling ppl why not just make it easy enjoy ur life and settle ur self simple carrying all this bagages of kids n wife which will end up unfinish chasing of wealth which in the will left u as the man alone bcos all of them will b with their family and far away in europe or america. What do u gain as a man? Service society n feeding ur ego🤔 "oh my childrens are abroad while old age u are mostlikely to be alone. Guys life is short enjoy wat u can n avoide too much of burden b simple as a minimalist bcos all this this things he said if u follow it u aint gonna enjoy ur youth n dats all u have or u wanna sacrofise all ur life for ppl till u grow old, think about it.

    • @cookiesfantasies3038
      @cookiesfantasies3038 7 місяців тому

      Open ur own platform and say that, ur mind is very small and there’s no problem with that alllow him do his thing, he has done a lot for himself

  • @ArcherFPVGH
    @ArcherFPVGH Рік тому +2

    Thank you Doctor, you are a Blessing ...

  • @ibrahimdavidy2719
    @ibrahimdavidy2719 8 місяців тому

    Thank you sir. For making your self available for God and for making yourself a manual for our generation, God bless you Dr. Charles Apoki

  • @gentlemarkyunusa4453
    @gentlemarkyunusa4453 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks you Sir

  • @LEVELnow
    @LEVELnow 9 місяців тому +1

    Big brother I really admire that you are still learning and gaining more knowledge. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @johnobinna6845
    @johnobinna6845 4 місяці тому

    Thanks Dr. Apoki

  • @Lungiswa.
    @Lungiswa. 8 місяців тому

    Wow.. he is so knowledgeable

  • @Zainab-ts4mj
    @Zainab-ts4mj Рік тому +1

    Thank you doctor Apoki for sharing your wisdom with us,,, be blessed!

  • @Realafricanlegends
    @Realafricanlegends 8 місяців тому

    You sir are a changer of generations!!

  • @mystykalmn4434
    @mystykalmn4434 Рік тому +1

    Dr your message is good but putting yourself last is not an option

    • @StripesFxYoutube
      @StripesFxYoutube 9 місяців тому

      He said take care of them so they’ll take care of you

  • @sanusitaiwo5185
    @sanusitaiwo5185 8 місяців тому +1

    You are full of wisdom sir

  • @stevereid926
    @stevereid926 8 місяців тому +1

    Words of wisdom.

  • @borizoolive2645
    @borizoolive2645 Рік тому +3

    Wow i cant thank you enough sir for this message God bless you sir...
    But for me i live abroad with my wife we both are working but our income is not enough to accommodate our children they are back in africa with my mum please sir i need your advice on how to put my immediate family together please sir advice me please thank you

    • @OluwatosinOlomo
      @OluwatosinOlomo 8 місяців тому

      May the Lord help you, keep hustling hard, you and your wife and the Lord would open the flood gates of heaven upon your labours….Pls keep praying and studying the scriptures, and the Lord will bring you and your children together.

  • @olawumiolutayo8370
    @olawumiolutayo8370 7 місяців тому

    Thank you sir

  • @Mr-Possibility1
    @Mr-Possibility1 7 місяців тому

    I appreciate your messages, sir. Thank you.

  • @kingsleyonye5565
    @kingsleyonye5565 4 місяці тому

    It's either he or she starve, use ozempic or undergo a sleeve gastrectomy. But most of our people think fat is a sign of enjoyment. They don't have idea what it does to the airway, breathing, n circulation.

  • @nobleidowu4919
    @nobleidowu4919 9 місяців тому +1

    So, fascinating facts. Day after day, I learn something new.
    Thank you sir

  • @kingbadel2023
    @kingbadel2023 8 місяців тому

    I really appreciate you sir for sharing your life experiences

  • @chituruoji8939
    @chituruoji8939 9 місяців тому

    Dr Apoki, you are a blessing to this generation. I love watching your videos.

  • @Tseeker12
    @Tseeker12 Рік тому +4

    Much respect ✊ however I want to know at that early age how can young men in Africa do all you’re saying? Where did you get your start up finance from????

    • @drcharlesapoki
      @drcharlesapoki  Рік тому +8

      I saved like a slave trying to buy his freedom. I did several jobs and I took a small loan from a bank.
      Frugality and the principle of gradualism and focus are key to becoming a ghetto millionaire.

    • @robertmzee1027
      @robertmzee1027 Рік тому

      ​@@drcharlesapokiYou have shown me the importance of not getting comfortable at the moment. Thank you baba, from 🇰🇪, I love your talks.

    • @payparallel
      @payparallel Рік тому

      @DrCharlesApoki, "I saved like a slave trying to buy his freedom". That's funny, witty and insightful.

    • @alinayili2199
      @alinayili2199 Рік тому

      Zip up, another bomb is forget African men are polygamous nonsense, many men have lost so much money because they sleep around.
      Self control is another key.

    • @Kevin_acee
      @Kevin_acee 9 місяців тому

      ​@@robertmzee1027tuko wengi 💯

  • @romans5875
    @romans5875 8 місяців тому

    Back in the early 2000s there was a McDonald’s commercial where father was taking his daughters out to get a happy meal with his wife and he was asking them what makes them happy and they said something about chicken nuggets or cheap plastic toys but then when they asked the father what makes him happy he said, making my girls happy. For whatever reason I always remember that commercial.