Empathy: The Heart of Difficult Conversations | Michelle Stowe | TEDxTallaght

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  • Опубліковано 22 чер 2024
  • Michelle Stowe is a restorative practitioner, trainer and consultant. She is passionate about creating well-being and happiness in the workplace; and particularly interested in re-culturing schools and cultivating a restorative paradigm shift that honours community and connection. Michelle also works with schools, communities and organisations that need support in resolving conflict between people. She is particularly interested in supporting others to turn towards and see themselves in one another in times of conflict. Being involved in this work allows her to feel that the life she is living is the same as the life that wants to live in her. Michelle Stowe is a restorative practitioner, trainer and consultant. She is passionate about creating well-being and happiness in the workplace; and particularly interested in re-culturing schools and cultivating a restorative paradigm shift that honours community and connection. Michelle also works with schools, communities and organisations that need support in resolving conflict between people. She is particularly interested in supporting others to turn towards and see themselves in one another in times of conflict. Being involved in this work allows her to feel that the life she is living is the same as the life that wants to live in her. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @thereseoreilly
    @thereseoreilly 3 роки тому +11

    Restorative questions move us from fear to love. Beautiful and wise talk.

  • @neelangopal9408
    @neelangopal9408 2 роки тому +4

    I've watched this video numerous times. I've found it infinitely useful. Especially when I need to have a courageous conversation. Such a practical way of approaching things - not just in schools but the workplace too. It's never too late to add this to your toolkit as a professional.

  • @blakebortles23
    @blakebortles23 2 роки тому +5

    Reminds me of professionals working with students suffering from home life traumas. Instead of asking "what's wrong with you", asking "what happened to you?"

    • @kimlec3592
      @kimlec3592 2 роки тому

      @ Blake Bortles : Yes ! Exactly right ! Thank You !!!

  • @karlakell27
    @karlakell27 Місяць тому

    thanks for sharing this video inspirational

  • @jaynepynes9031
    @jaynepynes9031 4 роки тому +4

    Brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @laurenseltzer1634
    @laurenseltzer1634 Рік тому +1

    Lovely message and lovely speaker! Thanks for the great info.

  • @senno101
    @senno101 3 роки тому +3

    This is so underrated. I listen to this all the time to remind me to live my values and to show up with empathy.

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      @arthurcash2282 2 роки тому

      @Jake Jerome instablaster =)

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      @jakejerome9062 2 роки тому

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      @jakejerome9062 2 роки тому

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      @arthurcash2282 2 роки тому

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  • @meljoy61
    @meljoy61 4 роки тому +4

    Brilliant, so helpful, inspiring and honest. Thank you.

  • @allysonprizeman9317
    @allysonprizeman9317 3 роки тому +1

    Very inspiring. Will be watching again.

  • @yuyanghuang7749
    @yuyanghuang7749 3 роки тому +1

    That's really awesome! Thanks for sharing your classroom example. It's powerful and useful!

  • @annepm180
    @annepm180 6 років тому

    So good. Thank you.

  • @LoveAndPeaceOccurs
    @LoveAndPeaceOccurs 6 років тому +3

    Thank You Michelle Stow,e so very much, for this very important conversation about difficult conversations. Thank You for providing the excellent real life example of how it can play out ... and Thank You for putting emphasis on how the focus needs to be not so much on a specific moment success but on the big picture success ... I agree Love is what it is about ... and that can be allowed when we allow ourselves to see from anothers perspective (as best we can in any given moment) ... I totally Love your entire aspect of presentation here ... [I'll be searching for the lady you mentioned next (which I also love that you do ... mentioning someone else who serve as your inspiration) and looking forward to seeing what else you offer] Love & Peace to All

  • @srbowm75
    @srbowm75 2 роки тому +1

    this is so wonderful. love this!

  • @StellaGooch
    @StellaGooch 6 років тому +4

    Really great Michelle. I will try this out.

  • @mmoloni3221
    @mmoloni3221 6 років тому +1

    Great example of RP in a school, great presentation Michelle.

  • @markkane7056
    @markkane7056 6 років тому +1

    Great presentation. Thanks :)

  • @garytighe24
    @garytighe24 6 років тому

    Fantastic Michelle ❤️

  • @yoelmorel2853
    @yoelmorel2853 5 років тому +1

    Thank you

  • @danbar911
    @danbar911 6 років тому +1

    Well done Michelle ❤️

  • @msspoonsartroomboon7592
    @msspoonsartroomboon7592 4 роки тому +1

    hi michelle, I am really looking forward to sharing this with our RP training group tomorrow

  • @faithashmore4962
    @faithashmore4962 2 роки тому +1

    really wonderful tedtalk

  • @emotionastips3251
    @emotionastips3251 3 роки тому

    Tarea constante... buena manera de sembrar excelencia 👍👌

  • @chev0804
    @chev0804 3 роки тому +6

    This was amazing. Give me new perspective on being calm and to have the courage to confront when I am wrong. Changing a question from "why you did.." to "what happened..." Have different outcomes. One thing I learned as a social work student is be careful with the "why" questions; it put people in defense mode.

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 4 місяці тому

    This is a true gem. I recently enjoyed a similar book, and it was a true hidden gem. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

  • @madridmalaga
    @madridmalaga Рік тому +1

    There can't be empathy when there is blaming and no acknowledgement.

  • @sarthakmohapatra3738
    @sarthakmohapatra3738 6 років тому +1

    Amazing

  • @eoinhoulihan
    @eoinhoulihan 6 років тому +3

    Excellent presentation. An amazing person who lives and breaths Restorative Practice

  • @brians1902
    @brians1902 4 роки тому +1

    Really great ... I also study empathy but you explained what to do when the expert themselves are in that situation. Not easy.
    Nice to see the Irish on Ted.
    Irish living in Sweden myself.

  • @smarte.r.1450
    @smarte.r.1450 3 роки тому +1

    amazing

  • @brians1902
    @brians1902 4 роки тому +1

    Check out Chris Voss!

  • @fakeweightsfredokwomo3016
    @fakeweightsfredokwomo3016 2 роки тому +1

    Empathy is a seducing, demonic spirit..
    Don’t be an empath. Have a discerning spirit.
    Seek the truth instead of acting how other people want you to act