Unhealthy Relationships in the Philippines/They Asked My Wife For What?

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  • @williamfields9983
    @williamfields9983 11 місяців тому +43

    What you share Paul of baby Mae experience with this woman had a lot of red flags and it is hard to tell what happens to these Filipinos it does not sound good. I am so glad that baby Mae did not go with her not go with her

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому +1

      Hi @williamfields9983 Glad Baby Mae made the right decision. We're just grateful for a safe and loving relationship.

  • @david5131971
    @david5131971 11 місяців тому +31

    100% she should post the video to shine a light on a situation that is at best suspect

    • @tedm4932
      @tedm4932 11 місяців тому +2

      For sure !!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @SweetCandy-x4j
      @SweetCandy-x4j 11 місяців тому +5

      Agreed! She should also post to warn other potential victims.

    • @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y
      @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y 5 місяців тому

      I don’t think trouble is what you want in the Philippines. Leave the nefarious to their ways as it’s not worth becoming a target to silence.
      This video is word to the wise perfect. Fellas, spread the wisdom to your sweetheart and she to her friends.
      That’s enough.

  • @AidaJof
    @AidaJof 11 місяців тому +53

    Recruiting was the first thing that came to mind as well. I am proud of Baby Mae for backing out of that one🙏

  • @justinmcintosh6554
    @justinmcintosh6554 11 місяців тому +11

    Clearly a procurer. Good on Mae. You’ve a faithful partner, Paul. It’s a good insight into the more mercurious side of PH. Thanks for sharing

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @justinmcintosh6554 Thanks for watching and appreciating our honesty! We're glad to share our experiences with you.

  • @juancarlosvaldes4538
    @juancarlosvaldes4538 11 місяців тому +23

    Definitely a recruitment for foreigners putting up money to acquire sex trafficking, or for sexual favors! Plus the one recruiting gets a small percentage of gathering all of these women! Great for Mae to watch her back in these situations Paul!

  • @AndTheCorrectAnswerIs
    @AndTheCorrectAnswerIs 11 місяців тому +50

    No teeth woman was the Ghislaine Maxwell for her "friend". Being recruited as a "bar girl" was probably the best case scenario...none of us want to think of the worst case.

    • @robertputt7794
      @robertputt7794 11 місяців тому +6

      Lol... Ghislaine was my first thought as well... 😂

    • @glennmchenry6198
      @glennmchenry6198 11 місяців тому +4

      Going to the Epstein Bar.... hahaha

    • @FOCUSonASIA13
      @FOCUSonASIA13 11 місяців тому

      I had exact same comment, except I called her Gizzy Lacksteeth

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @AndTheCorrectAnswerIs Thank you for sharing your perspective, it's an important reminder about the struggles many women face in the Philippines.

  • @PILearning2LiveAgain
    @PILearning2LiveAgain 11 місяців тому +10

    I'd love to see that interview. Might be good to serve as warning to young ladies who could potentially fall victim to this lady.

  • @sherrylawson5335
    @sherrylawson5335 11 місяців тому +35

    It is called SEX TRAFFICKING. The lady kept looking Baby Mae up and down. She was assessing her value in the field of endeavor for her employers. I am really glad Baby Mae was not naive an desperate as the woman thought she was. This occupational field (if it is to be called that) is heartbreaking. The individuals head of this scam should be incarcerated in solitary confinement forever. In most cases this drives their mental status to insanity. I know it is a longshot but I hope they capture these horrific nonhumans. Appreciate you Paul making this vid. Hopefully it can help women out there who watch this. Thank you for posting this. Very important.

    • @rs120
      @rs120 11 місяців тому +3

      100% with you on this

    • @derekwatson7037
      @derekwatson7037 10 місяців тому +1

      You sound like a lovely person.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @sherrylawson5335 Thanks for sharing your perspective, appreciate the support!

  • @mikeschrader6052
    @mikeschrader6052 11 місяців тому +14

    You're right on the money with this one. It's good that Baby Maye was suspicious.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @mikeschrader6052 Thanks for agreeing! We're glad we could share our experience and help others avoid similar situations.

  • @timg5463
    @timg5463 11 місяців тому +27

    We used to call it bird-dogging. Pointing out and flushing out prey. You nailed it. It works the other way too. I had a gorgeous but rather naive friend who went away to nursing college. She came home and told me how three other much less attractive friends would insist she go out to the bar with them. She said every time a man came over they would almost knock her off her chair and grab them.

  • @markingtime9723
    @markingtime9723 11 місяців тому +10

    I think you hit the nail on the head. I bet you can guess the establishment they hang out at.

  • @roustabout4fun
    @roustabout4fun 11 місяців тому +3

    Spot on ! No teeth but also no eyes to see the marriage RING...more fun in the Philippines and believe me...much much warmer too!

    • @roustabout4fun
      @roustabout4fun 11 місяців тому

      @@roselee4445 Possible but if she was and my logical guess is that she does and was wearing a wedding ring (boundaries are important)...that makes it all the worse...in my humble opinion.

  • @grandpatsworld6938
    @grandpatsworld6938 11 місяців тому +5

    You got it Paul! Sometimes innocents can unfortunately get someone in a bad situation.

  • @samuelmartin707
    @samuelmartin707 11 місяців тому +4

    Great video Paul!!!! Yes you are right Paul 2 thumbs up my friend!!!!

  • @RobertFredman-ld6kc
    @RobertFredman-ld6kc 11 місяців тому +6

    You can be real proud of Mae

  • @davidkaiser810
    @davidkaiser810 11 місяців тому +5

    That is the first word that came to my mind, recruiting. BTW, great interview with Regular Guy

  • @charlesbronson5235
    @charlesbronson5235 11 місяців тому +4

    Absolutely RECRUITING my friend

  • @CharlesHolmes-zw5dn
    @CharlesHolmes-zw5dn 11 місяців тому +1

    You Are Absolutely On Point Paul, And I'm Glad GOD Was Blessing Baby Mae And Protected Her Of What Could Have Been A Terrible Situation. I'm Proud Baby Mae Stood Her Ground 😊

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @CharlesHolmes-zw5dn Thank you for your kind words and support! We're grateful for the blessings in our lives.

  • @dannydubose
    @dannydubose 11 місяців тому +6

    You did not say it but I agree with your conclusion

  • @renaldonormani6646
    @renaldonormani6646 11 місяців тому +6

    Great Story Paul! The No-Teeth thing got us laughing out loud!…Every other day has it’s weird story here!-) Good job Mae!

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  11 місяців тому +1

      Looks like we never run out of weird stories to share! The no-teeth incident was definitely one for the books. Thanks for watching and laughing along with us, we appreciate your support!

  • @jonmaher2531
    @jonmaher2531 11 місяців тому +20

    Of course she was recruiting. Paul, I know you see yourself as a wise old dog and Mae as an innocent/naive/inexperienced young person, but Mae also knew exactly what was going on too. She fully knows the choices she made, being with you and she will fully know the choices she makes going forward. Don't you be naive either my friend. She seems like a great, good girl. Let's hope it lasts.

    • @M.R.T.V.Videos
      @M.R.T.V.Videos 11 місяців тому +9

      She is not innocent , she is not young , she is not naive 😂 you must be joking

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@M.R.T.V.Videosshe's my age and yes we are young compared to most of the old dinosaurs in this area 😂

    • @jonmaher2531
      @jonmaher2531 11 місяців тому

      I said "he thinks", good reading.
      @@M.R.T.V.Videos

    • @daiglemary89
      @daiglemary89 10 місяців тому +1

      Hate to say it cause I adore you both but it's Not Baby Mae who's being naive...love can be blind but YOU need to be more aware..She thrives on being noticed in the least clothes ever..look at the pic you posted for this video. 100% Not innocent or naive..😢

    • @puppy6646
      @puppy6646 7 місяців тому

      @@daiglemary89 Lol I'm sure if you had a six pack you'd wear a tight shirt

  • @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y
    @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y 5 місяців тому

    “Hi. How are you?”
    I used to be so suburban America naive. Grew wise in the city of SF and know all the tricks now.
    Not saying I’m invincible as we all have our kryptonite but this was something I’d have caught at the first line. Good on her for being wise.

  • @herbwitt7710
    @herbwitt7710 11 місяців тому +2

    Good job Mae 😊 Yes I agree Paul 👍

  • @Robin-xt7yo
    @Robin-xt7yo 5 місяців тому

    Bravo Baby Mae! Proud of your wife. She is smart and had good judgement.

  • @jimsullivanyoutube
    @jimsullivanyoutube 11 місяців тому

    Great story. Thanks for sharing. Stay safe!

  • @watersbey25
    @watersbey25 11 місяців тому +4

    Great video and content as always

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 11 місяців тому +5

    One thought is, Mae really knows how to make new friends easy.☺

  • @IrAbynormal
    @IrAbynormal 11 місяців тому +6

    Oh this was recruiting for sure, what starts out as an innocent invite for a good meal can get nefarious in seconds flat. Good on Mae for reading the situation. This is how human trafficking happens.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @IrAbynormal Thank you for sharing your insight and experience! We've had similar situations before too.

  • @Offgridwealthmanagement
    @Offgridwealthmanagement 11 місяців тому +2

    Nowhere else can you have a day like that, gotta love it!😅

  • @LionelHumphreys
    @LionelHumphreys 11 місяців тому

    I think you're 100% right! That's the first thing I thought of.

  • @stanleyspores7979
    @stanleyspores7979 11 місяців тому

    Thank God Mae didn't go one only knows what could happen glad to hear your both safe and sound

  • @salvatorekellawan5010
    @salvatorekellawan5010 11 місяців тому

    Spot on Paul, Recruiting

  • @phil-54
    @phil-54 11 місяців тому

    omg - so many Red Flags Paul - she is very innocent of the bad world - Im happy she survived and learnt a valuable lesson - my wife had a similar situation - now always dresses a little better

  • @MsShipreck
    @MsShipreck 11 місяців тому

    Sounds like great investigative journalism!!!

  • @gregsmith2262
    @gregsmith2262 10 місяців тому

    We think alike I was thinking recruiting almost from the start of your story. I have had tricycle riders asking my wife how much in tagalog while I am sitting beside her. Things are different in the Philippines but it will always hold a place in my heart.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @gregsmith2262 Thanks for relating! Yes, cultural differences can be interesting and sometimes challenging. We've learned to navigate them.

  • @williamsinns419
    @williamsinns419 10 місяців тому

    So true Paul I thought the same thing too

  • @mrjuvy49
    @mrjuvy49 11 місяців тому

    Spot on, one must be careful to fall in the trap with " new friends" Trust your judgment at the time and go home

  • @NelsonCummings
    @NelsonCummings 11 місяців тому +2

    I love learning more and more about you. And learning more and more about regular guy. He's definitely a character and you can understand. When you hear about the challengeses and the situations in their lives, you come to a will you come to assess why they feel the way they feel. I think it was outstanding video that you guys made together a little more empathy for regular guy. He is very entertaining and he's a pretty good guy. I do know that some people can't stand him, but I think he's great. But you're still the dumaguete or Philippines father youtuber. I never miss any of your videos. One day I'll buy a cup of coffee if you ever have time. I know you're a rockstar and very famous. Lol. We love you Paul

  • @robertdrevyanko8665
    @robertdrevyanko8665 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi Paul I think your conclusions are correct the other woman was trolling for innocent women for her forinor male friend I'm glad baby mae used her gut feeling and walked away I'm happy baby mae is ok and so smart Respectfully Robert from Virginia USA 😊

  • @salvatorekellawan9572
    @salvatorekellawan9572 11 місяців тому

    Spot on ,Old Dog, obvious case if recruiting Baby Mae was smart to recognize the approach.

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 11 місяців тому +15

    Personally I’d be freaked out if a stranger approached me with weird and wonderful story ideas run in the opposite direction 😊

  • @DogWalkerBill
    @DogWalkerBill 11 місяців тому

    "Recruiting" was my word too!

  • @WayneLee-j4c
    @WayneLee-j4c 11 місяців тому

    I think you are correct 100%. W Millsboro, De.

  • @chris_bagasan
    @chris_bagasan 11 місяців тому +3

    That's right I wouldn't trust just anyone coming up to my wife asking to join them. They could be trafficking people. She could actually get kidnapped. Please be care Old Dog and Baby Mae.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому +1

      Hi @chris_bagasan Thanks for your concern, we're always careful with our safety and well-being here in Dumaguete.

  • @JerryJolley
    @JerryJolley 11 місяців тому +1

    Recruiting. I really enjoyed your story with regular guy. Very interesting.

  • @WendyH10
    @WendyH10 9 місяців тому

    💯 agree with you, Paul. Scary!

  • @jamesduncan1809
    @jamesduncan1809 11 місяців тому +23

    Hi Paul and Mae. In a nutshell it looks like she was recruiting for some monkey business. A woman should never go anywhere with a stranger. You never know what's going to happen.

  • @joen220
    @joen220 11 місяців тому

    You’re right Paul.

  • @doitee52
    @doitee52 11 місяців тому

    Paul....loved yoiur story with the Regular Guy. You made it all the way through bro. Congrats. Great stuff.

  • @sn0wolf
    @sn0wolf 11 місяців тому

    You used the right work and she used good judgement, yay babymay….;)

  • @want2bsailing804
    @want2bsailing804 11 місяців тому

    Same . Recruiting. 👍cheers 🍻🍻

  • @tomcataleno9128
    @tomcataleno9128 11 місяців тому

    Very good, 1 ,,,,thanks for the share

  • @cordovanbee
    @cordovanbee 11 місяців тому

    Yep that was All BAD ju ju, good on Baby Mae

  • @frankb.269
    @frankb.269 11 місяців тому +6

    Mae has to learn to stay away from suspicious people. A quick answer like "please go away I'm not interested " would have been indicated.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @frankb.269 We agree, directness can be helpful. "No" or "thank you but no" can be a clear boundary.

  • @mick-berry5331
    @mick-berry5331 11 місяців тому +4

    Mae possibly overdid her 'not to be noticed dressing'. So she got noticed by the wrong people with bad intentions...

  • @BaconNBeer
    @BaconNBeer 11 місяців тому +6

    Baby Mae knows what side of the bread has the butter on it. Good girl.

  • @andymartinez9446
    @andymartinez9446 11 місяців тому +1

    Since the military is returning to Subic Bay there's a shortage of women to service them. I can understand there has to be some recruiting happening through out the islands.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому +1

      Hi @andymartinez9446 Thanks for sharing your perspective! We're just focusing on our life in Dumaguete and respecting all cultures here.

  • @ke5znj
    @ke5znj 11 місяців тому

    Yes Paul I'm thinking the same as you.

  • @modusop8
    @modusop8 11 місяців тому

    Recruiting definitely!!

  • @Kasiyahanlife
    @Kasiyahanlife 11 місяців тому

    I agree 100% Paul nothing but bad in that situation

  • @kurtweber162
    @kurtweber162 11 місяців тому

    you have the right of it.

  • @tonyhooper3621
    @tonyhooper3621 11 місяців тому +1

    Definitely a big red flag. But your Wife is to smart for that cheers baby mae👏👍🇦🇺

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 11 місяців тому +1

    Really nice pic thumb of Mae.
    Great job.

  • @jamesrobinson7381
    @jamesrobinson7381 11 місяців тому +7

    I think your instincts are sound Paul. One thing I missed. At what point did Mae mention she had to meetup with her "husband" later? I'm pretty sure that would have shutdown the friend of a friend meeting immediately. But I get having this type of attention is flattering.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @jamesrobinson7381 Thanks for pointing that out! You're right, it was a red flag. We were both uncomfortable with the situation.

  • @KiwiInPhilippines
    @KiwiInPhilippines 11 місяців тому +5

    As comical as it sounds, I would agree with you Big Dog, definitely suspicious, smells to high Heaven and beyond. However, I am not in the least surprised that Mae was onto her from the beginning, smart cookie you have there.

  • @oldmanpapi2363
    @oldmanpapi2363 11 місяців тому

    For sure was recruiting, and other nefarious activity. Keep up the good work Paul.

  • @JMoroccoMisterBoy
    @JMoroccoMisterBoy 11 місяців тому

    Outcome = N.G.,
    Baby Mae/Paul ;
    Glad ya'll doing fine:
    Tks., much appreciative.

  • @hughjanis6439
    @hughjanis6439 11 місяців тому

    Absolutely.

  • @cansssable
    @cansssable 11 місяців тому

    Mae sure is a keeper......

  • @DanielNguyen-o1d
    @DanielNguyen-o1d 11 місяців тому

    You'll not want to believe what hurts. Think.

  • @retiredrebel111
    @retiredrebel111 11 місяців тому

    Definitely recruiting...

  • @dougparson4407
    @dougparson4407 11 місяців тому +2

    I dated a younger woman with dentures a long time ago. I did not know this until one night when I heard them come out. That was a Fun night !!!

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 11 місяців тому

      As a 33 year old guy I loled 😂

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому +1

      Hi @dougparson4407 Thanks for sharing your unique experience! We've had some interesting moments ourselves, but that's definitely a story to remember!

  • @Gary-lj7pi
    @Gary-lj7pi 11 місяців тому

    Yep.

  • @rogerlenton3335
    @rogerlenton3335 3 місяці тому

    Wow, that's actually rather scary. As you say, she was clearly trying to "recruit" Mae. So glad she was smart enough not to go!

  • @RobertFredman-ld6kc
    @RobertFredman-ld6kc 11 місяців тому

    I think your correct with your thinking and she did the right thing going with the woman

  • @jdsim9173
    @jdsim9173 3 місяці тому

    Glad she got away safely.

  • @cowboyPinoy1969
    @cowboyPinoy1969 11 місяців тому +1

    Yes, Being a Sample Is Better. Every time I go Home My clothes Look like A Rag. I am Walking On The Street Invisible, But When I started Buying Stuff In the Store and I started Speaking They Know I am A Balik Bayan. Then The price of The Product I Just Went Up to.

  • @michaelgrider8135
    @michaelgrider8135 11 місяців тому

    Stay safe baby Mae

  • @genevive272
    @genevive272 11 місяців тому

    Good for you Mae! Thinking on your feet. No teeth, big problem! 😂 Love your story, Paul! Thank you❤❤❤

  • @Ray_Warren
    @Ray_Warren 11 місяців тому

    Agreed Paul

  • @markaustin1135
    @markaustin1135 11 місяців тому +2

    I agree with you

  • @godfreyvonnordeck2056
    @godfreyvonnordeck2056 11 місяців тому +1

    She was definitely recruiting

  • @richardhallal4803
    @richardhallal4803 11 місяців тому

    100% recruiting

  • @Randy30165
    @Randy30165 11 місяців тому +3

    😆 we all know creepy people are active in the Philippines, kudos to Mae for recognizing it. Im surprised that woman would agree to let Mae film her. You guys have such an exciting life!

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @Randy30165 Thanks for your support and understanding of our experiences! We appreciate your kind words about Baby Mae's awareness and courage.

  • @lostinasia25
    @lostinasia25 11 місяців тому +1

    Sounds like a setup of some kind with bad intentions . What I find amusing and interesting is. Where in sleepy Dumaguete along the boulevard can you find a place open until 4am?
    I was there 60 days and didn’t see much nightlife with Live Music anywhere. They have a 24 hour McDonalds near City Mall, that’s about it.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @lostinasia25 Thanks for the info! We actually found some hidden gems along the boulevard that are open late, but no 4am spots with live music unfortunately.

  • @edic2619
    @edic2619 11 місяців тому +3

    Yep, exactly. These are the people you run from. They bring nothing but sh..t to a good person's life.

  • @JW_Cricbuzz
    @JW_Cricbuzz 11 місяців тому

    Paul,, That's EXACTLY the idea I got ! 😮

  • @martinascot5477
    @martinascot5477 11 місяців тому

    yup.....procurement

  • @LB-ty6ks
    @LB-ty6ks 11 місяців тому

    Yup, it sounds like recruiting.

  • @mylifethaidiy7045
    @mylifethaidiy7045 11 місяців тому

    This reminds me of "David Bond" UA-cam channel. He has 3 girlfriends in Cebu and he calls them his angels and takes them all over the Philippines.

  • @jwmiller9089
    @jwmiller9089 5 місяців тому

    Good morning Paul I think you're right about them trying to recruit baby May please don't be offended but after all you are her security in life respectfully JW Miller❤

  • @clsybear
    @clsybear 11 місяців тому

    I think your right

  • @napoleonmdusa8877
    @napoleonmdusa8877 11 місяців тому +2

    Yep, you got it correct Paul--that woman was a "recruiter" and I think you know what was expected to happen at the "party" and after.

  • @davidgoodell4298
    @davidgoodell4298 11 місяців тому

    wow... WOW!!! that was short! good job. Yes, I agree. Sounds like a recruiting attempt to me too. Good the wife is smarter than the average bear...

  • @garyaltenburger6667
    @garyaltenburger6667 10 місяців тому

    Sounds like the foreigners have a nice thing setup. Some variety and a little strange once in a while at a low cost. Years ago in Thailand I had a small favorite bar. They had usually about five ladies working there. When I was the only customer, they would lock the front door and put up the closed sign. I would buy a cheap bottle of whisky and the fun would begin.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @garyaltenburger6667 Sounds like you've got some great memories in Thailand! We've had our share of fun times here too.

  • @tedm4932
    @tedm4932 11 місяців тому +2

    Seems to me , like sex trafficking , smart of Mae for not taking the bait ! She really needs to show that video she captured that day . Might save a life !!

  • @rexlaughlin3897
    @rexlaughlin3897 11 місяців тому +2

    Recruiting for sure. Makes me angry.

  • @michaelj3282
    @michaelj3282 11 місяців тому +1

    "She had no teeth" Brilliant!

  • @TWills-oe7hn
    @TWills-oe7hn 11 місяців тому

    Definately being recruited. Please make sure Mae understands.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @TWills-oe7hn Thanks for looking out for us! We're aware of the situation and taking necessary steps to ensure we stay safe.

  • @larryc6676
    @larryc6676 11 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely she was recruiting. She thought Mae didn't have any money and a good lunch would entice her. Some people never cease to

    • @tedm4932
      @tedm4932 11 місяців тому

      Exactly !!!

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  7 місяців тому

      Hi @larryc6676 Yes, unfortunately, that's all too common here. Thank you for sharing your experience.