I'm EXPOSING My Philippines House Build Scam Nightmare

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  • @erichamradio919
    @erichamradio919 6 днів тому +120

    Best of luck to you and your daughter to get this house thing straightened out

    • @phantasmnine1384
      @phantasmnine1384 6 днів тому +83

      That's his wife, fool. Be respectful.

    • @ynasra1065
      @ynasra1065 6 днів тому +22

      ​​@@phantasmnine1384he intentionally said it...it shld be a compliment to her

    • @LegalAutomation
      @LegalAutomation 6 днів тому +57

      😂😂😂😂 I love how Paul pins these comments. This is why Paul is the best vlogger.

    • @phantasmnine1384
      @phantasmnine1384 6 днів тому +30

      @@ynasra1065 Really? It's disrespectful. Seems like you should learn to treat a man and his wife with respect, instead of trolling videos you obviously have no business watching.

    • @karlenzmann
      @karlenzmann 6 днів тому +12

      😂

  • @JRobson1955
    @JRobson1955 6 днів тому +42

    I was raised not to trust people. For every time that's harmed me there's been dozens of times where it saved me. People suck.

  • @jonathankerr882
    @jonathankerr882 6 днів тому +56

    Mark Thornton Every man has a story, RIP

  • @joesixpack5691
    @joesixpack5691 6 днів тому +36

    Thanks for humbling yourself and posting all this, Paul. I'm sure it wasn't easy but it's a huge help to all of us who value your opinion. I lived there 8 years and I'm not surprised at all. Wishing the best for you.

  • @onelonleyfarmer
    @onelonleyfarmer 6 днів тому +37

    When we built our house we went to the city engineer and got the preferred builder and that worked out well. These fly by night builders suck ass over there

    • @bobTom37
      @bobTom37 6 днів тому +3

      How much did you pay?

  • @David-jm6yo
    @David-jm6yo 6 днів тому +101

    The guy liquidating his land and assets tells me he is leaving for another country soon. 😮

    • @John-or8ze
      @John-or8ze 6 днів тому +24

      Exactly. He is getting ready to run

    • @bill648
      @bill648 6 днів тому +15

      I’m sure he’s already gone by now. Sad to say.

    • @tombkk1322
      @tombkk1322 6 днів тому +19

      When I heard him say liquidating his “Bitcoin” all the red flags started flying.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому +12

      HOW DOES HE OWN LAND IN THE PHILS???

    • @LiliLucy-y2g
      @LiliLucy-y2g 6 днів тому

      he has gone...he only rented everywhere he stayed to con expats...in several countries already.
      the sites where men were working,he had nothing to do with them !

  • @JOHNPoST-y4u
    @JOHNPoST-y4u 6 днів тому +63

    Sorry basic rule never ever pay upfront to a construction contractor.

    • @stephen7701
      @stephen7701 6 днів тому +6

      just enough to build for 2 or 3 weeks at a time

    • @222jojo
      @222jojo 6 днів тому +8

      you HAVE to pay something to get started otherwise you'll NEVER get anything built.

    • @eChicken-k6d
      @eChicken-k6d 6 днів тому +1

      Or for new Tiddies for your daughter.

    • @michaelfeehily5926
      @michaelfeehily5926 5 днів тому +3

      @@eChicken-k6d its his wife!!

    • @natalliaf6387
      @natalliaf6387 5 днів тому +1

      what about for materials? You ask a guy to paint your house purple. He spends $300 on purple paint, then you change your mind. Is that how the rule works?

  • @Matt_T__
    @Matt_T__ 6 днів тому +174

    Wow what a paradise. Not only doesn't anyone have any sort of recourse after being victims of a major crime, but don't even have the freedom of speech to warn others of the perpetrator.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 6 днів тому +23

      Same problem in Thailand when something like this happens, My biggest complaint is lack of consumer protection.

    • @joehinds29988
      @joehinds29988 6 днів тому +8

      ​@@pensionandapassport Consumer protection is being handled by the Philippines department of trade and industry (DTI) for complaints against scrupulous businesses.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 6 днів тому

      @@joehinds29988 There is zero recourse.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 6 днів тому

      @@joehinds29988 I hope he gets vindicated.

    • @garytibo
      @garytibo 6 днів тому +17

      They do have the freedom of speech ...just don't say is name. The real fools are the one that give the money in advance. SIMPLE

  • @djfitz13
    @djfitz13 6 днів тому +40

    Sorry to hear about Mark's passing this morning...my condolences to his family and friends.

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 6 днів тому +10

      Such sad news he was a source of great inspiration and telling things as they were , he will be sorely missed ... such a shock RIP Mark

    • @larrye2679
      @larrye2679 6 днів тому +1

      Who died?

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 6 днів тому +3

      Mark Thornton RIP

    • @jonheredia8789
      @jonheredia8789 6 днів тому +2

      Did Mark have a you tube channel?

    • @mrroymichelc1701
      @mrroymichelc1701 6 днів тому

      @@jonheredia8789 Everyman has a Story

  • @albathoughtsofficial
    @albathoughtsofficial 6 днів тому +7

    Thanks for your heartfelt honesty...and sharing your ups and downs. It's greatly appreciated. You will save many others from making the same v mistake. It seems that despite this mistake, you are doing a good job putting this in proper perspective, and keeping an overall positive attitude about life and all the other blessings you have. Wishing you both a joyful Christmas and for sure 2025 will be a fresh restart 😊

  • @chuck5555
    @chuck5555 6 днів тому +4

    Paul, I appreciate you telling us this story. I pray for everyone involved and hope justice is served

  • @Jonathan-je9uh
    @Jonathan-je9uh 6 днів тому +19

    Paul and Mae, Sorry to hear that, and sorry to hear that your mate Mark passed yesterday afternoon, very sad indeed, he will be deeply missed..

  • @britinoz4305
    @britinoz4305 6 днів тому +12

    Sorry about this crap you're going through, very sad. And great of you to feed the guys, hope they show some solidarity and stick it out ... Miss Mae looks great in Green and Gold ... Oi Oi Oi ...

  • @timhardman4764
    @timhardman4764 6 днів тому +4

    Sorry to hear about this scam you got sucked into. Glad to know you didn't pay everything up front and you will recover from your loss in less than a year. Hope your eye is recovering and you have no permanent vision impairment. All of this is a good warning/reminder that one has to be careful, no matter where they are in this world, unscrupulous people are always looking for the next person near them that they can take advantage of.

  • @JR-mo8os
    @JR-mo8os 6 днів тому +25

    Like every banana republic, you need to be at the site constantly babysitting the project to ensure stuff is being done. Break the project up into mini projects, pay weekly/monthly or when certain milestones have been completed. You have to micro manage, there is no other way. Also buy all the materials yourself, don't allow the builder to do it and inflate the cost.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 6 днів тому

      It's the Philippines you're just a guest here

    • @richardhessian4725
      @richardhessian4725 6 днів тому +2

      I've lived here 8 years, and you couldn't be more right. I built a 3 story concrete mansion on Negros, and the contractor was ME. I personally bought all materials and was on site every day. You have to do that here or they will turn your project into a nightmare.

    • @johnp9890
      @johnp9890 6 днів тому

      ​@@richardhessian4725are you experienced in building? I would not know how to do it? Or did you ask an architect to make plans and drawings?

    • @JWDREAM-d3x
      @JWDREAM-d3x 6 днів тому +2

      Build it yourself just hire a few workers & point & tell them how you want it built & be there fir every step looking over thier shoulders .

    • @scottburgess5410
      @scottburgess5410 5 днів тому

      @@JR-mo8os that’s what I’m doing hired a foreman and workers. I pay them myself keep track of their hours order materials pay for that myself. I have a truck so I haul a lot of materials to the site. I’m sure they don’t like it but I’ve caught multiple mistakes early, so no major impact. You have to go to multiple places to price materials and I don’t do business with anybody that tries to inflate the price on me so far so good.

  • @rexlaughlin3897
    @rexlaughlin3897 6 днів тому +46

    He probably sold the farm and left the country.

    • @JaimeFerrer-l1y
      @JaimeFerrer-l1y 6 днів тому +3

      Yes he admits liquidating anything they. You’d seize and now he can easily flee if he hasn’t already

  • @stevemorris3544
    @stevemorris3544 6 днів тому +40

    Sounds like another example of the problem most expats have in Asia is with other expats. Sorry for your troubles.

    • @pensionandapassport
      @pensionandapassport 6 днів тому +5

      It happens, with expat and local, it happens in America even. Construction is cut throat. My father lost his fencing business floating crap contractors in California decades ago.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому +2

      @@pensionandapassport You are CORRECT , as a retired builder I saw other builders ripping off people here in U.S.A.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 6 днів тому +4

      @@nottelling620 I agree. When I was in the US, I didn't give contractors any money up front. I only paid when work was completed. If they didn't agree with that, I didn't hire them.

    • @shep68
      @shep68 6 днів тому +3

      ^goes both ways. My son has a contracting business and has been screwed over by clients multiple times. Now he only completes work in stages being paid after each stage and an initial down payment. So if both sides were to dig in their heels….well the whole industry wud be at an impasse.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 6 днів тому +2

      @@shep68 No, it wouldn't. Only honest people would get anything done.

  • @renaldonormani6646
    @renaldonormani6646 6 днів тому +7

    Thanks for the update guys. So Sorry got scammed but hard to compete with a professional.

  • @milzchiveous2024
    @milzchiveous2024 6 днів тому +15

    Hi Paul and May, I’m so sorry to hear about the problems you have been encountering with regards to your house. I have always been following your videos even if I don’t comment that much.
    Also I’m not sure but I guess you have heard about your old buddy Mark Thornton ‘s sudden passing! For old times sake I know you guys have been buddies and you have been a mentor for him from doing YT videos in the past. It’s such a sad news to know that he’s gone. FYI , your videos and interviews of you and him together were really popular and have had a lot of following. You guys had a good vibe together during your old videos. For whatever reason I respect the loss of connection between you and Mark as we never see you guys together anymore. But I know deep in your heart that you are not happy with his sudden passing. I hope you could tackle a bit about him when you can and perhaps give us some info about his death as we would like to hear it from you than other hearsays if you happen to know a bit about it.
    I am sad for his new baby not able to see him and Mark with Rogan as well. And goes with his wife. Hope you could give us any info about your old mate . Thanks and you take care of your selves there as well May and Paul.

    • @TrainLordJC
      @TrainLordJC 6 днів тому

      Wow! I just read this sad news about Mark. He was working with cruise ships as was I in a different capacity and as a result I was one of the first people he interviewed online (five interviews all up online) and it inspired my filipina wife and I (living in Australia) to go to the Philippines in 2022 to meet up with him and his wife in the beautiful property that he was renting on the beach in Bacong.
      In addition, I had also seen a few videos of the interviews that Paul and Mark did together so I also asked if Paul could make his way from Valencia to Bacong to meet with us together.
      And yes, Paul made the effort and together we all had a wonderful afternoon also shared with my son Emilio.
      My condolences go out to his lovely wife and they're little child. Mark was aware of his health problem but he seemed quite happy living in that wonderful house on the beach with his wife and child so it is a sad occasion indeed that this happens now before he had a chance to watch his child grow up.

    • @keith-kb1zl
      @keith-kb1zl 6 днів тому +1

      It was eerie in the sense that Mark just recently did a video about us older guys making the most of our time left before we leave this planet 😢😢and he gave such sage advice to live our dreams while we still can.😥Mark and Paul are my favorite vloggers and have helped me on my journey as I’ve been coming to the Philippines for 13 years and have been married for 8 years.. I will miss Marks wisdom and advice 😢😢

  • @armandosanchez8901
    @armandosanchez8901 6 днів тому +54

    Let me get it straight...in that " great" country, telling the truth about a scumbag it's a crime... but stealing thousands of dollars is a civil matter?... Not even in the Dominican... Republic

    • @jozah2148
      @jozah2148 6 днів тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣🙄🤔😱🇬🇧

    • @deedeew4040
      @deedeew4040 6 днів тому

      There is a former Prez (won't mention which country) who scammed people and he paid a fine both times.

    • @Koza480
      @Koza480 5 днів тому

      I wouldn’t pee on the best part of the Philippines!

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 5 днів тому +1

      @@armandosanchez8901 Sometimes.... Policies encourage bad behavior

    • @antoniohardaway6913
      @antoniohardaway6913 5 днів тому +1

      It’s ridiculous in this country. No paradise it’s sink or swim and scamming is a job. 😂

  • @tomcataleno9128
    @tomcataleno9128 6 днів тому +5

    Sorry for your loss,,,Hava Merry Chrissy & a New & better Year .

  • @kevinandgemma7740
    @kevinandgemma7740 6 днів тому +44

    As I mentioned in an early video it was a big red flag , being in the industry I knew from the start that this was not going to end well ..

    • @timhardman4764
      @timhardman4764 6 днів тому +9

      what were the red flags you noticed early on? Your details might help others to avoid this same trap.

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 6 днів тому

      Seeing as expats can’t legally own a business outright, or do physical work, I would not have dealt with your “contractor “…
      Good luck recouping your losses🤞🙏

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 6 днів тому

      The prick might be pig food already, especially if he’s pissed off the wrong/right locals…

    • @altriplett9099
      @altriplett9099 6 днів тому +2

      If he’s still alive, and in country, facing criminal charges, he would likely be hiding out as you speak… hopefully the Philippine government can flag him, so that he’ll be detained at any international airport 🤔🤞

    • @BreavisBrisket-l4d
      @BreavisBrisket-l4d 6 днів тому +1

      well paul knows everything. just ask the subs he bought

  • @raymondrhorer2695
    @raymondrhorer2695 6 днів тому +118

    Paul you don't know me, but I've been in construction my whole life. Brick, block, and precast concrete. Cut out the middle man. You need the worker, the talent, the skills. The worker needs TOOLS. Barter tools for his knowledge and skills. When house is complete he gets the tools. Sets him up in business. Barter the dream of being his own contractor. You want the man who actually does the work. You will be the expeditor of materials. He knows what to buy and when to buy it. "Contractor" is the middle man, you ever see one with the shovel? Why pay someone else to do what you can do yourself.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 6 днів тому +9

      @@raymondrhorer2695 great point. My build is about a year out and considering going to the University and recruiting a graduate engineer who has some fire to get started and train him.
      I ha been in the construction field for 48 years, but still new to the local scene.
      I think it would be an all around win with the right match.

    • @leedensmore5970
      @leedensmore5970 6 днів тому +11

      I agree whole-heartedly! Find good workers that you can deal with directly.

    • @raymondrhorer2695
      @raymondrhorer2695 6 днів тому +9

      @richardclausen154 well I hope Paul and Mike considered what I wrote. I was a hands on contractor and never ever out of work. But it takes time to "earn" the respect. The contractor is the owner of the tools, most won't invest in tools. I wish I was there, I still love the work but don't want a JOB.

    • @darrylcotton3112
      @darrylcotton3112 6 днів тому

      @@raymondrhorer2695 There is a downside to acting as your own GC. Now you have to chase down every friend and family member who will treat your job as a piggy bank. Tools get stolen, materials are stolen or over-ordered for their other jobs, subcontractors are told to add $$ for the friend, the worker won't have work comp or liability insurance if there is a problem downstream. When I develop a project with a GC I want them to agree to weekly site meetings with past week spreadsheet for work completed to what was spent and I add a performance and completion bond which means ANY of the shit he's pulling on you will result in you exercising your right to terminate based on nonperformance. I know it's PI but these principals work all over the world to some degree or another. You can tell what the climate is like based on what large scale construction sites are built by international or larger commercial developers do to avoid what is happening to you to happen to them.

    • @1DancingCloud1
      @1DancingCloud1 6 днів тому +1

      I see this is not your 1st summer out.
      Your 1 smart cookie!

  • @darrellyoung9586
    @darrellyoung9586 6 днів тому +15

    Wow, This is a complete Scam. I am shocked that this guy is an expat. I too, assumed he was Filipino. We all have our different ways of handling situations. I hope you are cutting your losses and moving on. Merry Christmas

    • @jonathancoffman4311
      @jonathancoffman4311 6 днів тому +1

      Has a pinay girlfriend who is a lawyer helping him

    • @rickINcali1
      @rickINcali1 6 днів тому +1

      I guess...u think...expats are perfect...!..far from the truth...(btw, im not Filipino)..

  • @krish6128
    @krish6128 6 днів тому +3

    Sorry to hear about this building scam Paul, for you, Baby Mae and everyone else involved, devastating, hope you guys get something back or some progress on the build

  • @Joshua_DeMoss
    @Joshua_DeMoss 6 днів тому +34

    Guys like that have to be very brave especially in a foreign Country. Con-men are worthless to society and wouldn’t surprise me if this guy ended up crossing the wrong person and ends up floating in waters off the coast. Hopefully he makes things right, but a con-man can never be trusted.

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 6 днів тому +2

      I was thinking the same thing. Sounds to me he might be liquidating his assets, not to do the right thing, but to prepare to flee. Sometimes street justice, which can be brutal, finds people like this, how unfortunate vigilantes sometimes won't wait for official charges and court dates. tsk tsk

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому +1

      @@tryscience As nice as FILIPINO people are , THEY TOO MAY TURN TO STREET JUSTICE O.K. SO I AM ITALIAN LOL

    • @keith-kb1zl
      @keith-kb1zl 6 днів тому

      @@tryscienceI’m honestly surprised he hasn’t been offed yet by the locals if he’s got 27 complaints against him.. the Philippines is like the wild,Wild West where street justice is king..

    • @scottburgess5410
      @scottburgess5410 6 днів тому +4

      He already had one of his workers come after him with a machete for no pay

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому

      @@scottburgess5410 THATS EXCELLENT

  • @stevebearsley2308
    @stevebearsley2308 6 днів тому +3

    Hi Paul, thanks for the update. My partner and I lost a lot of money to a scam building contractor, so I know what you are talking about and how disappointing it is. But we survived and are now finishing off our home after a five-year struggle. Hang in there and keep marching on; you will get there. Best wishes and a very merry Christmas to the both of you. Cheers

  • @MikeWood-yc1er
    @MikeWood-yc1er 6 днів тому +9

    It is good you are telling it like it is, no shame or blame, just the facts mam, just the facts.

  • @bobc5730
    @bobc5730 6 днів тому

    Thanks!

  • @barrypress3704
    @barrypress3704 6 днів тому +4

    Sorry to hear about this problem you have with this person. I hope the police takes action against him.

  • @georgevwalking
    @georgevwalking 6 днів тому +23

    Paul and Mae being scammed is a terrible feeling and I know what you are going through.
    It's time to spend your time and energy moving on to finding a new builder. I have watch many good youtube stories about successful building projects in the philippines and also in Dauis.
    Good luck guys stay strong and merry Christmas
    Baby May love the shirt

    • @nrolo3356
      @nrolo3356 5 днів тому +1

      There have been other UA-camrs scammed aswell. I think one of their names is something like Rubeauty

    • @georgevwalking
      @georgevwalking 5 днів тому +1

      @nrolo3356 yes so true she bought land

  • @CharlesWhite-j4f
    @CharlesWhite-j4f 6 днів тому +4

    So sorry to hear you got conned Paul, hope you didn't lose too much. Happens to us all at some time.

  • @dukewanders
    @dukewanders 6 днів тому +4

    Scammers exist everywhere in all forms. I am sorry to hear you and so many others have been fleeced this way. Especially for the ones who now have to postpone their retirement because of this ASSHAT.! Karma will catch up to him sooner or later, hopefully sooner. It is great that you have the courage to speak and share your experience. I am surprised (not really) by some of the comments here... wow.

  • @jeffbradshaw1591
    @jeffbradshaw1591 6 днів тому +3

    Relationship is everything. Getting to know the person(s) and doing homework on them involved with any project PRIOR to signing anything and exchanging $$ (even in the Phils) is critical. So sorry, Paul, what has happened to you and Baby Mae. Thank you for sharing your situation. Learn, grow, adapt, look ahead.

  • @koufax174
    @koufax174 6 днів тому +2

    No weapon formed against you will prosper. Excellent work not letting this toxic person pollute you. Hope you and Mae heal from your cough. 🙏🏼

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 6 днів тому +5

    Merry Christmas, Paul and baby Mae … and I will say happy new year because hopefully this new year coming things will get straightened out for the both of you and all the people that lost their money. Very sad situation. I’m listening carefully because I will retire next year and I want to do something in the area of Building, but I’m learning from other people’s mistakes first luckily I developed the subdivision so I know a few things about property and ingress egress, and all that stuff anyway the best to you.

    • @Arthur88
      @Arthur88 6 днів тому +1

      Think really hard before investing your money in land and a house in a country that doesn’t allow foreign ownership. All your property will have to be in your Filipina’s name. Anything can end anytime, even the best relationships. In the Philippines it’s a big issue with land titles. They have deep rabbit holes. A land can be owned by several family members who can be spread out all over the country or even in other countries. If one or more died and if the title succession wasn’t properly established in court, that’s a huge problem. If gelous locals sue you for something stupid, most likely as a foreigner you will lose. Rents is Asia are very low and inexpensive compared to the west. Renting allows you to pack your bags and move fast somewhere else. It’s best to look out for yourself no matter where you are but especially in foreign countries.

    • @marcrichard7251
      @marcrichard7251 6 днів тому +1

      Thanks but I’m more than aware of any repercussions when it comes to land in Asia. You don’t have to put any property in your wives name. You can lease the property for 50 years with options to purchase at a future date should you want to. The main thing is to have more than one lawyer involved so there’s no surprises and so on. But I feel your sincerity with your 2 cents so I thank you Arthur….

  • @PlanetVampire
    @PlanetVampire 2 дні тому +1

    I love your videos. They have given me alot of ways to prepare for life there one day. I'm sorry you are going through this mess and have to be making videos about this, but hopefully people will learn and understand that this can happen, and one day you get justice and a house. I also hope those poor workers who are caught up in this get paid, it's really sad for them too.

  • @CaptainKremmen
    @CaptainKremmen 6 днів тому +33

    Sounds like he should be fined, jailed and deported when his jail time is over.

    • @radiodare
      @radiodare 6 днів тому +4

      Key words are going to be "should be".

    • @peter72268
      @peter72268 6 днів тому +1

      He knows the system here well which works to his advantage as the arresting powers are so disjointed and the legal systems wheels turn very slowly

  • @nottelling620
    @nottelling620 6 днів тому +2

    HI PAUL and MAE , I think you guys are 1 of many wonderful expats in your area.
    I want to apologize if my comments get out of hand HOWEVER it is tough to see people get scammed/hurt/ripped off by anyone...
    Please do NOT let this ruin your good nature and giving spirit , I understand you lost money BUT your health is MORE IMPORTANT.
    YES , I commented on some comments..
    HOW DOES AN EXPAT OWN LAND IN THE PHILS , that he ALLEGEDLY SOLD?
    PLEASE have a MERRY XMAS , HAPPY HOLIDAYS
    TY for sharing your life with us , for better or worse.
    GOD BLESS CIAO

  • @BruceCinader
    @BruceCinader 6 днів тому +32

    I think it's a crying shame that the laws in the Philippines are essentially in cahoots with this man not allowing you to expose him and threatening you with jail time if you do.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 6 днів тому +5

      Welcome to the wild, Wild West!

    • @radiodare
      @radiodare 6 днів тому

      ​@@joehinds29988this should all be resolved in 3-5 years at this point

    • @bmactattoo1219
      @bmactattoo1219 6 днів тому +1

      Same as Thailand.

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 6 днів тому +2

      Gotta know the system before you play into the system.

    • @RedneckandPinay
      @RedneckandPinay 6 днів тому

      Welcome to the real world! Crooks, even in the U.S., always find a way to circumvent the law. Hell, in the U.S., they just pay off some legislators to keep their dirty business legal…example healthcare insurance…

  • @johnhale9892
    @johnhale9892 6 днів тому +1

    Merry Christmas, Paul and Baby Mae. I am praying for resolve on your housing issue.

  • @Into_the_void71
    @Into_the_void71 6 днів тому +9

    Look on the bright side, Paul. At least you helped another expat live a better life financially in the Philippines.

    • @John-or8ze
      @John-or8ze 6 днів тому +6

      That's cold blooded

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 6 днів тому +8

      Hahaha, so true. He bragged about how he's got this all figured out when he started, Wow these vloggers are something!!!

    • @Koza480
      @Koza480 5 днів тому

      @@sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      Paul knows everything 😂

    • @LewisJones-k6g
      @LewisJones-k6g 5 днів тому +2

      Well Paul is a salesman and he sales his audience lies every video he puts out 🤣

  • @giorgioredigolo1967
    @giorgioredigolo1967 6 днів тому +20

    Love the T-shirt ,Baby Mae

  • @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql
    @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql 6 днів тому +23

    Lessons learned. You still have the land. Don't be hard on yourself, you were just trying to provide Baby Mae with a home and some security in life, which is what a man should do. I feel sorry for the laborers because they cannot afford the losses. Best Wishes to you guys and try to have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

    • @AidaJof
      @AidaJof 6 днів тому +4

      Agree, the labourers still have to eat and provide for their families. Heartbreaking for them but FURIOUS at the scammer who goes on lying to them👹

    • @paulk8444
      @paulk8444 6 днів тому +3

      Yeh the local workers got Screwed the Hardest as small consolation is there is SO MUCH construction going on that Filipino contractors are picking up the Best workers from this guys crew but sadly it comes right before Christmas and allot of Filipinos get a 13tth month type of Bonus and these guys were not even paid for weeks in some cases

    • @wxman2003
      @wxman2003 6 днів тому

      Are you sure? He got a building permit, but does he actually own the land?

    • @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql
      @Dodgerblue7381-ey3ql 6 днів тому +2

      @wxman2003 I believe in a previous video that he said that he acquired the land in Baby Maes name.

  • @co...ahjack2818
    @co...ahjack2818 6 днів тому +1

    Thank you for your honesty. A lot of people wouldn't talk openly about being ripped off. It doesn't look good for recovering money for everyone. One option might be to get the workers to quit and employ them yourself. However, this would require a good knowledge of building or hiring someone with that knowledge and has the ability to plan the build.

  • @billsmith981
    @billsmith981 6 днів тому +7

    In a Country where "Face" is so important you get these Cyber issues. Good Luck

  • @TWCH
    @TWCH 6 днів тому +4

    Sorry to hear you've run into this. I'm glad it's not too much. Miss Australia looks good though:)

  • @barryking5993
    @barryking5993 6 днів тому +22

    I’m glad to see you are doing your due diligence and but it’s heartbreaking to see nice people like you get screwed over by somebody that you know

    • @stephenhalloway6633
      @stephenhalloway6633 6 днів тому

      I once paid $25,000 to have a two storey house built,after 6 years it's a wreck,my mistake was to be absent and trusting.....

  • @Rob-u3c
    @Rob-u3c 6 днів тому +14

    I guess the key is to have the workers build, then pay them for the work done.

    • @jozah2148
      @jozah2148 6 днів тому +2

      Yep!🤔👌🏾🇬🇧

    • @Tony-eb5kh
      @Tony-eb5kh 6 днів тому +3

      Same here in Thailand
      It’s what we did and worked a treat 👍

    • @door1479
      @door1479 5 днів тому +1

      I drive my crew to the jobsite every morning pick them up every night. Purchase materials and snacks and payday is on Saturday. It consumes my day but I am on my second house and it works as long as you weed out low productivity.

  • @moparsquid
    @moparsquid 6 днів тому +3

    Sorry to hear of this I've been concerned about home construction I've had friends done wrong on construction projects, I've looked into pre made homes that are fast and sturdy to make .hope everything goes well with you both

  • @donwells9309
    @donwells9309 6 днів тому

    Sometimes you don't have to search for content. But this sort of content I am sure you could have done without. Every dog has its day, and you will have yours. That builder will come to the end of his lead. I have heard some wild building stories; this one takes the cake. Best of luck for the future. You and Baby Mae deserve so much better.

  • @brianandlynphilippines
    @brianandlynphilippines 6 днів тому +11

    Me and 2 500 peso per day guys built my womans house in about 6 months. It is not rocket scientry to lay a foundation, stack some blocks, throw up the rafters and tin roof, install electric and plumbing... These houses are like building a fort as a kid. Our house is one of the nicest in our small town, spent like $10k. Why build a Western Quality house here, go cheap and enjoy the simplicity. I had that cough 1 month, took antibioticpills for 3 days and all cleared up.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 6 днів тому +3

      It isn't rocket science but, you need luck for that. You can see most foreigners get ripped off. You didn't accomplish that, you just got lucky.

    • @klausschumacher7126
      @klausschumacher7126 6 днів тому +3

      Senseofstile... Not most foreigners get ripped off... Only some who were not cautious enough...

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 6 днів тому

      @@klausschumacher7126 It is quite common. It doesn't matter how cautious. The only solution is to not give any money to the contractor until the job is complete.

    • @privateowner-y9p
      @privateowner-y9p День тому

      @@senseofstile Don't seem like luck to me. He hired local guys most likely, worked with them, which means he supervised and made sure he wasn't getting ripped off. He took responsibility and got it done, affordably.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile День тому

      @@privateowner-y9p No, it's luck. It has nothing to do with past performance. You never know when a contractor decides he is going to start ripping of clients.

  • @jonpritz9838
    @jonpritz9838 6 днів тому +10

    Pay the workers to leave your property. Fence it asap

  • @LeroyJenkins-nn5go
    @LeroyJenkins-nn5go 6 днів тому +10

    Hard to believe people would be so loose with their finances as to send all their money to a stranger in a foreign country

  • @danielsanteler8290
    @danielsanteler8290 6 днів тому +1

    Merry Christmas, count your blessings! Dan

  • @Ego-Kills
    @Ego-Kills 6 днів тому +6

    Sorry for what happened to you Paul and Mae.
    Scamming is as old as human species. I am glad you haven't taken a big hit.

  • @Danamount
    @Danamount 6 днів тому +1

    All our best to you. I hope you get it right soon!

  • @GeeGee19
    @GeeGee19 6 днів тому +9

    Your crazy for building a house at your age especially in another country. Good luck 🤞 to you.

  • @geraldstewart
    @geraldstewart 6 днів тому +1

    Wishing You and Baby Mae a MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR HO HO HO

  • @happylohomestead6323
    @happylohomestead6323 6 днів тому +5

    Sorry to hear this,I am lucky my father was a Mason and I worked as a laborer a d know people in the house construction business I got the permits first before even started building and bought and controlled the materials and tools and pay for workers I am just not trusting of people something my father pounded in to my head to be at site everyday all day so I stay on top of the job. I hope everything works out for you I have been coming to Philippines since 1981 and married since1996 here in philippines. Now retired on disability and pension. Pray everything works out for you.

  • @danielroy3039
    @danielroy3039 6 днів тому +13

    You never know here in the Philippines when you put your hard earned money into the hands of a total thief. Good luck to the both of you. We all get burned sooner or later. I myself. YES many times. "TRUST" could be a terrible word.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 6 днів тому +1

      Yet you feel safe there, although being a constant target?

  • @michaeljenkins2294
    @michaeljenkins2294 5 днів тому

    Howdy Paul, so sorry to hear that bad story. It’s been interesting videos and I hope there is a happier ending in your house build plans. Happy to hear you realized it before you got in deeper. I’ll probably build a house over in Leyte in a year or two so I’m learning from your videos. Take care of yourself.

  • @armandosanchez8901
    @armandosanchez8901 6 днів тому +38

    Why is he not in jail?

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest 6 днів тому

      Probably because there is so much corruption in the Philippines, that if people were put in Jail for corruption, the jails wouldn’t have space for everyone.

    • @sgriffin8739
      @sgriffin8739 6 днів тому +1

      Bc there has to be a trail. Why ask?

    • @timboyle2746
      @timboyle2746 6 днів тому +4

      Or grave

    • @nordicdog
      @nordicdog 6 днів тому +8

      As my dad always said a fool and his money are soon parted … you should of known better sir

    • @privateowner-y9p
      @privateowner-y9p 6 днів тому

      My guess is he provably fled the country using his real name. Fake id is a simple matter in the phil

  • @sharonbradshaw4589
    @sharonbradshaw4589 5 днів тому

    Merry Christmas and a wonderful New Year Paul and Baby Mae and here is to praying your house will be built and finalised in 2025 🏠 🥰

  • @BC19572
    @BC19572 6 днів тому +13

    Amazing how many people hired the builder yet they were so naive about the whole process.

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 6 днів тому +7

      Not really amazing.
      Many homeowners in the US hire unqualified contractors because the sell them a song.
      If you are not working or understand the industry, methods, etc, you are vulnerable anywhere.
      As an engineer, I have seen it too many times over the decades.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому +1

      @@richardclausen154 SIR , You said it CORRECTLY , it is NOT the homeowners fault

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 6 днів тому

      @@nottelling620 100%

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 6 днів тому +1

      His a professional con artist. You won't have a chance.

    • @RedneckandPinay
      @RedneckandPinay 6 днів тому

      I guess one third of United Healthcare customers are just ignorant too.

  • @LionelDeang
    @LionelDeang 6 днів тому +1

    Hi Mae and Paul: Sorry to hear about your house progress or lack of it. I am a retiree living in the DC area and had a two-storey vacation house built in the Cebu countryside. Rejecting my architect’s suggestion, I didn’t use a contractor. My workers were all locals and they completed the house just recently and in time. Am sharing this information with you to let you know that use of local construction workers is a viable alternative for you. Besides, you’re able to help local neighborhood workers.

  • @herbwitt7710
    @herbwitt7710 6 днів тому +10

    Terrible!!! Sorry Paul and Mae. What a piece of crap this builder is.😢

  • @85antone
    @85antone 6 днів тому +2

    Sorry to hear - 😢 good luck

  • @danielroy3039
    @danielroy3039 6 днів тому +36

    Why hasn't the barangay been notified about this idiot. Do this asap.

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 6 днів тому +18

      Hahaha Hahaha, the barangay is already paid off, wake up!!

    • @richardclausen154
      @richardclausen154 6 днів тому

      @@sleepySUCKS-kf8thlol.
      You are not in Kansas anymore.

    • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
      @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 6 днів тому

      @@joehinds29988 you don't get it!! There is absolutely nothing that's going to happen about this, a foreigner ripped off another foreigner, NBI could careless about that.

    • @nottelling620
      @nottelling620 6 днів тому

      @@sleepySUCKS-kf8th EXACTLY x10000 , strange how PAUL and MAE get cited for building with no PERMIT when in FACT they have a contract with a BUILDER. A few PESOS HERE AND THERE YOU CAN BUY OFF EVERYONE..Yes I am a retired builder , honest THUS NOT A MULTI MILLIONARE

    • @radiodare
      @radiodare 6 днів тому +4

      Yeah I mean, at this point, you could be looking at a corruption issue. There could be more than one profiteer. And If he's scamming that many people, you might have a lot of hands in that Honeypot!

  • @jonathanjones9870
    @jonathanjones9870 6 днів тому

    Thanks, Paul good information. I will always remember this if I decide to build in the Philippines.

  • @Chickenlegs836
    @Chickenlegs836 6 днів тому +3

    Lessons learned & unfortunately even worse it’s an X Pat!! WTF?? Do your research, homework, & visit builders homes already built along with speaking to home owners 👍😉. Speak to Mike about Sean’s builder U2👍Good luck 🍀 to your future home build🙏Blessings 🙏🌺🌼🌸

  • @robo113603
    @robo113603 6 днів тому

    This same issue is happening here in Sth Australia, Good luck Paul, the bonus in this video is that Baby Mae is representing 🇦🇺, Aussie, the gr8 Green & Gold,

  • @kathiemathias212
    @kathiemathias212 6 днів тому +3

    My 2 siblings and I built a 3 door townhouse in Manila in 2020 (middle of pandemic) without any hitch. Guess why??? The builder is my brother in law’s company. This was done in less than a year. What tops this is the 2 of us (my sister and I) live overseas. I’ve even sent bathroom fixtures and other bespoke building essentials via airfreight. Very happy with the outcome. We visit our house 2x a year. The hardest part of this journey was buying furnitures…. Not a lot of choices in the Philippines. I know a lot of homeowners have nightmarish journey and wouldn’t do this again. I guess we were lucky. Don’t stop your built as somehow you will get to the finish line. Fingers crossed.

  • @GoBatman98
    @GoBatman98 6 днів тому +1

    thanks Paul

  • @Camera1931-p5v
    @Camera1931-p5v 6 днів тому +6

    I love the United States! I am glad I live here! Law and order is getting even better! He sounds like a politician! Lie and deny!

  • @teddykluk
    @teddykluk 6 днів тому +2

    I remember renting from this guy once and he was quite charming and helpful. He offered me to invest in his expanded AbnB business but I already had the principle of never going into business in my retirement, especially in a foreign country. It gets messy quickly especially in this kind of case.

  • @abc-mf4jn
    @abc-mf4jn 6 днів тому +9

    Have you been SWINDOLED? Oy!!! Welcome to the Philippines.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Bereadyalways123
      @Bereadyalways123 6 днів тому

      Yes I have but being a patched BIG biker in a BIG motorbike club the Filipino scammer cannot walk very well for the rest of he’s crappy life Sana-all karma DIBA.

  • @ocmcpherson7761
    @ocmcpherson7761 6 днів тому +8

    Just seen tonight a young black man from Canada getting scammed at kingswick tonight and just stopped by and told him to be careful and the room turned on me even my girlfriend said i was in the wrong none of my business. But if you see someone getting picked pocketed would you just mind your own business

    • @Ego-Kills
      @Ego-Kills 6 днів тому +1

      You did the right thing morally but it can be dangerous. Ignore and talk to him privately. It's material that can be regained. It's like snitches get stitches case. Snitch privately

    • @MyLifeThai371
      @MyLifeThai371 6 днів тому +3

      I would tell them to kick rocks. It's none of their business to tell you what to do.

    • @robinorga528
      @robinorga528 6 днів тому +4

      You did the right thing.

  • @phil-54
    @phil-54 6 днів тому

    Seeing Baby Mae in the Auzzie T Shirt is fantastic - Good Luck with your adventures

  • @eded866
    @eded866 6 днів тому +3

    in the philipeans it goes like this. A brick gets layed , a brick gets paid for. OR you give the downpayment to your lawyer and when something is done , that something is paid for by lawyer.

    • @LewisJones-k6g
      @LewisJones-k6g 5 днів тому

      Start a UA-cam channel 🤣 you clearly now more than this guy 🤣

  • @rickylee6129
    @rickylee6129 6 днів тому

    Very Good Sir Paul and Baby Mae 😊. I think I know who you are talking about. I will text Baby Mae and find out for sure.
    Keep the video's comin.
    Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏

  • @gordonbchristensen8727
    @gordonbchristensen8727 5 днів тому

    Thanks heaps, all the best to you both.

  • @barryking5993
    @barryking5993 6 днів тому +9

    There are lots of unscrupulous people like this in the United States of America is becoming the norm here now.

    • @Matt_T__
      @Matt_T__ 6 днів тому +1

      Yes but fortunately the US has a functioning judicial system.

    • @jetd9716
      @jetd9716 6 днів тому

      ​@@Matt_T__Dog eat Dog world. Not surprising.

  • @JohnThomas-lp3rf
    @JohnThomas-lp3rf 6 днів тому +1

    So sorry to hear about this Paul and May.

  • @LetsDoThePhilippines
    @LetsDoThePhilippines 6 днів тому +8

    Anything to do with kites and oranges? :)

    • @Barefootape
      @Barefootape 6 днів тому +2

      O rang e comes from orangutan and a kite is a con message passed between bars.

  • @danpenner9424
    @danpenner9424 4 дні тому +1

    I think I may have mentioned this before, we also have a scammer guy here that has come from Palawan, to near Boracay and finally to Guimaras island province. He does things a little different, he gets desperate owners to sign over a power of attorney to him and then he works to build and sell to US citizens beautiful houses on the beach, but there is no building permit and there is no title and when he walks away with the cash, the new house owner and the old land owner are left looking at each other for recourse. And he is gone. With the cash.💸💵💸

  • @AlanHenderson-d6d
    @AlanHenderson-d6d 6 днів тому +13

    Hay Paul. this guy is smarter than you. and the other depositors

    • @Koza480
      @Koza480 6 днів тому +1

      Paul still doesn’t get it!

    • @kiwioffgrid2437
      @kiwioffgrid2437 6 днів тому

      He's going to end up in prison for decades.....is that being smart?
      I guess if one likes free slop and bed bugs while being bent over in the showers.
      Whatever you are into....but not for me.

  • @underdogrescueofflorida2313
    @underdogrescueofflorida2313 6 днів тому

    Thank you forr always telling your story with truth .
    Wisning you both a merry chfistmas !

  • @sleepySUCKS-kf8th
    @sleepySUCKS-kf8th 6 днів тому +44

    Atleast the used car salesman knows how we felt after buying a used car!!

    • @thomasclementz8149
      @thomasclementz8149 6 днів тому +4

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @goosecooker26
      @goosecooker26 6 днів тому

      @@thomasclementz8149 karma

    • @SirMountainpass
      @SirMountainpass 6 днів тому +3

      How to spell "due dilligence"...

    • @Arthur88
      @Arthur88 6 днів тому +4

      Not the same. They at least got a car. These people got nothing.

    • @senseofstile
      @senseofstile 6 днів тому +2

      It depends on the car and the deal. I bought a used car October 2022 in the Los Angeles area. A great car and a good deal. Runs great. I drove it from LA to the Texas coast and back. No problems whatsoever, just put gas in it.

  • @Parabola007
    @Parabola007 6 днів тому

    Please tell us more about your charity donations to people. Makes you feel good. So keep it coming.

  • @jagger9696
    @jagger9696 6 днів тому +9

    Forgive my Naivete, I was not aware you could go to jail in a civil lawsuit. I am aware that Philippine law is different but this is ridiculous. You get scammed, call out the scammer and they sue you for defamation? WOW!

    • @bill648
      @bill648 6 днів тому

      @@jagger9696 unless it’s a conviction for actual Fraud- move it to a criminal court

  • @KevinPrough-x4e
    @KevinPrough-x4e 6 днів тому

    I feel sorry for you two. You are good people, hopefully he will get his in the end. And Baby Mae will have her home one day. Thank you for sharing

  • @59jaguar
    @59jaguar 6 днів тому +5

    Need to have the guy charged criminally not civilly. He stole your funds. That’s criminal.
    I went thru a similar situation in the USA over a machine a guy sold me and then never returned back to me for repairs. He lied constantly with invented stories and excuses only to buy himself time. Long story short. I got my money back after I charged him with theft for not returning the machine.

  • @marcprobin1659
    @marcprobin1659 6 днів тому

    Merry Christmas guys! Sorry to hear about you being scammed! I am planning a trip to the Philippines. I will be dropping in Dumaguete in about 3 months to check it out!

  • @LewisJones-k6g
    @LewisJones-k6g 5 днів тому +14

    Paul positions himself as an authority on living as an expat in Philippines. People FOLLOW what he says. He made a video promoting this contractor which Paul has now taken down. Question: How many people hired this contractor and lost money as a result of watching Paul’s video and thinking if Paul picked this contractor then he must be legitimate.

    • @dumaguetedreaming
      @dumaguetedreaming 3 дні тому +2

      Ya, so much for expats helping expats! And they wonder why I avoid them.

    • @davidmadison1087
      @davidmadison1087 3 дні тому +2

      You might be right there. I watched that video too. I remember thinking, I wish I had the resources to hire a builder too. But having said that, if you have heard or read about this scammer, he's really a pro. He's been doing this for years in other parts of the world. Probably you or I would have done the same as Paul. 😉

    • @rs5801
      @rs5801 День тому

      Has that video been taken down? I vaguely remember that.

  • @davidwilles8577
    @davidwilles8577 6 днів тому

    What a great shirt Baby Mae is wearing, thanks for promoting my home country.

  • @noelsingletary
    @noelsingletary 6 днів тому +5

    Mark Thornton of Every Man Has a Story has passed away suddenly. Please pray for his wife Jen and his child.

    • @robinorga528
      @robinorga528 6 днів тому +2

      Sorry to hear that.

    • @teriscott685
      @teriscott685 6 днів тому

      I don't think this is true,I smell a scam

    • @noelsingletary
      @noelsingletary 4 дні тому

      @@teriscott685 He did. He died from a stroke. He had one before.

  • @robert.lstone1194
    @robert.lstone1194 6 днів тому

    Old dog I love your videos! Please take care of yourself and your loved ones I have just heard the sad news of mark Thornton passing away,he was another inspiration for those of us wanting to move to the Philippines as are you.

  • @mrbbkk
    @mrbbkk 6 днів тому +4

    This happens in America Thailand, many countries.

  • @Equitymaster191
    @Equitymaster191 5 днів тому

    Dang Paul!! God Bless you!
    I am on Siquijor island, and will return to Dumaguete today or tomorrow. Then Bangkok Christmas Eve or day. Would be great to see y’all if out and about.

    • @Equitymaster191
      @Equitymaster191 5 днів тому

      Paul , this guy has real issues. Please block him because I’m not sure how. Only full respect for you and your channel.