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  • Retired and Living Abroad on Social Security/Expat John Returns‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ Ever wonder what happened to expat John? Join me as we reveal the conclusion to his long and arduous journey home to his family
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  • @ricksdestinationcebu
    @ricksdestinationcebu 5 місяців тому +208

    Sincerely wish him well no matter his location

  • @xiaobao4757
    @xiaobao4757 5 місяців тому +319

    The heroes of this story are you and the men who helped Jon and his family. Respect!

  • @jennymark7403
    @jennymark7403 5 місяців тому +114

    To all that helped John, thank you for keeping a family together

  • @jdburch7402
    @jdburch7402 5 місяців тому +204

    You’re the “Man” Paul, without you this whole outpouring of help would not have happened.

  • @kennethaustin7718
    @kennethaustin7718 5 місяців тому +142

    Anyone can have struggles in life. However you don't have to let your struggles define you. John did an amazing job. I always enjoy seeing people make it. I am happy for John and his family. Good on you brother!

  • @jasond.2091
    @jasond.2091 5 місяців тому +66

    That's a story of a man who made some mistakes and also had a lot of had bad luck. He learned from them and worked hard to make things better. That's a story of a true man.
    I wish John and he's family all the best.

  • @ddlapierre
    @ddlapierre 5 місяців тому +146

    John is a success story. Hold your head high and proud. Few could follow through like John has.

  • @jimbo3609
    @jimbo3609 5 місяців тому +41

    Wow! It's been 3 1/2 years now? Time flies. Just like Gen. McArthur, Expat John kept his words and returned with more ammunition. Lol Thank you Paul, Roy and the gang for saving an American and his family.

  • @coffeecup3177
    @coffeecup3177 5 місяців тому +40

    I will give a Massive Shout Out to John and say Thank you for Stepping up to the Plate and when you went home to regroup you Supported your Children. I know it was not easy but you are a true Man for setting an example for others to follow.

  • @rlwings
    @rlwings 5 місяців тому +51

    I'm so happy that John returned! - Please watch out for your partner's family. They treated you like crap when you ran out of money. Now that you do have money they might try to 'sweet up' to you again.... Don't buy it! Please protect yourself this time from the psychological hell they put you through last time... Wishing you the best of luck moving foreword. Peace brother.

  • @Crimson_Red_Lotus
    @Crimson_Red_Lotus 5 місяців тому +86

    John is tougher than the naysayers gave him credit. Many a man would have buckled under similar circumstances. Two strokes on record and still plugging on? He’s a hero in my book.
    Thank you Paul for bringing the human being that you are. It’s the Christian creed to look out for others and you are holding up your end of the bargain. 🙏🏻

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому +2

      Hi @Crimson_Red_Lotus Thanks, means a lot coming from you! We're just trying to make a difference here.

  • @jlmarc01
    @jlmarc01 5 місяців тому +72

    I was highly critical of John’s choices and help given due to his mistakes.
    Then I realized that we all make mistakes and some are minor and some are colossal.
    So now I just wish John the best and he’s so blessed to have Paul and all Paul’s supporters coming together

  • @quietflight7092
    @quietflight7092 5 місяців тому +140

    Thanks, Paul and those who supported John. God bless you all, John and his family. 🙏

  • @JoeSA671
    @JoeSA671 5 місяців тому +33

    Not all heroes wear capes. Some make YT videos with a toy chicken on the couch. You the MAN Paul.

  • @woodspirit98
    @woodspirit98 5 місяців тому +9

    It must make you feel really good Paul knowing that you help this man and his family. For all the right reasons too.

  • @thomasthompson4619
    @thomasthompson4619 5 місяців тому +18

    Wish john well and hopefully he'll be ok this time and learned his lesson from last time he was in the Philippines

  • @DesertVox
    @DesertVox 5 місяців тому +28

    From probably the lowest point of his life, he made such a rather impressive self-rehabilitation and recovery. I guess most of us were somewhat skeptical if he would even be able to support himself. He proved to be a survivor and overcomer. Praise God.

  • @garyjohn
    @garyjohn 5 місяців тому +51

    It’s really weird that you made this video now. I was just thinking about expat John the other day and wondering how he’s doing. Thank you for sharing this with us. Take care.

  • @user-dy5pq7tp7g
    @user-dy5pq7tp7g 5 місяців тому +16

    Thanks for the update Paul….I admit I would love to see John and his family. However I understand him not coming on…. I’m actually proud of John and how he made a comeback….everyone loves a comeback story 😊

  • @filipinadreamin6272
    @filipinadreamin6272 5 місяців тому +8

    This is proof positive that good people are here and willing to help. It also shows that if you strive to improve and better your life, you can accomplish your dreams. I wondered how John was faring in the US...and here he is back in paradise with a plan to succeed. Best wishes to all who played a role in this happier chapter. ❤

  • @renatep.7566
    @renatep.7566 5 місяців тому +18

    HOW WONDERFUL to have John back and reunited with his family! I can’t believe that he stuck it out in the cold riding a bike to work, he has proven himself and to all of those who put their trust in him! I am thrilled for him and his family and wish him nothing but the best! However, I would love to have him come on your channel in due time, it would be a real treat after all if our worries.
    Thanks for the update, Paul! ❤

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 5 місяців тому

      It really hit me in the chest when I heard about the bike in the snow. Lived it, but at least I had a small motorcycle instead of pedaling. Perilous trips for sure.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому +1

      Hi @renatep.7566 Thank you! We're glad John is back with his family, too.

  • @mikeadams4621
    @mikeadams4621 5 місяців тому +9

    We all make bad decisions sometimes. Glad he got it together and did what he needed to do.

  • @RonaldKarle
    @RonaldKarle 5 місяців тому +16

    What a great story. John took responsibility for his actions and did what he had to do. I think everyone should take a lesson from this story. Take Responsibility, you will have a better life if you do. And forget what other negative people say. I saw the other videos and my hats off to him. 👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @KingRealEstate
    @KingRealEstate 5 місяців тому +15

    Great news, Congrats to John & Family.

  • @dotconnector76
    @dotconnector76 5 місяців тому +11

    Thanks for the update. I've been rooting for John. So glad to hear he, his family are doing well.

  • @D-E-Raptor
    @D-E-Raptor 5 місяців тому +10

    Good to see that John has recovered.
    There is a belief by many men the life here is all great and smooth sailing. But it can become he'll as we saw from John's story.
    Thanks to many people who refused to let him fail, I am happy for this chapter in his life.
    Best wishes to you and your family John.

  • @Thephilipcartmelexperience
    @Thephilipcartmelexperience 5 місяців тому +21

    Welcome back, John!

  • @josephlumba1817
    @josephlumba1817 5 місяців тому +10

    You’re the man old dog. Godfather of expats! Salute to you!

  • @robinorga528
    @robinorga528 5 місяців тому +47

    Well done John. God bless all those people who supported Paul and John!

  • @TropicalTodd
    @TropicalTodd 5 місяців тому +54

    Good for John . No matter what mistakes he made, proved he was no dead beat father. A solid person imo

  • @authoritymike
    @authoritymike 5 місяців тому +8

    Great to see this story come full circle! Good for your John! Thank you Paul! And thank you for your kindness to him !

  • @dianna7099
    @dianna7099 5 місяців тому +15

    Thank You for the updates on John and his family. You did an Excellent presentation.!

  • @alvahthompson7203
    @alvahthompson7203 5 місяців тому +9

    Great update Paul, wish him and his family well.

  • @christopherbradley5575
    @christopherbradley5575 5 місяців тому +46

    You're a good man paul. You basically save this man's life and saved his family. I wish you all the best

  • @everyonehasadream
    @everyonehasadream 5 місяців тому +11

    Paul, thank you so much for the update. John has been on my mind for a long time now. I wish him and his family the best always. And my best to you and Baby Mae as well. -Alan 🙂

  • @angelsantana3001
    @angelsantana3001 5 місяців тому +6

    Good for him. Hit the bottom and worked his way back. Much respect to all those who saw a human being in need of help and give him that push to get back on his feet.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @angelsantana3001 Appreciate the kind words and respect! We're glad to see people helping each other out.

  • @Koya_Sipanlog_Express
    @Koya_Sipanlog_Express 5 місяців тому +12

    👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 for John

  • @frankellis9627
    @frankellis9627 5 місяців тому +8

    Good on John. I can remember his girlfriend's family taking advantage of him when he was down. When the money ran out they discarded him. I hope he learned a lesson from that and he should keep his eyes wide open when dealing with her family. Congratulations, John 🤨

  • @user-hu3tx8vl7w
    @user-hu3tx8vl7w 5 місяців тому +11

    Why can't people just be respectful. Good job, john taking care of your family.

  • @Joeysgonerogue
    @Joeysgonerogue 5 місяців тому +28

    Awesome news! Congratulations to John and family! Thanks, Paul!

  • @randallzook5570
    @randallzook5570 5 місяців тому +8

    Great video Paul, gotta love a story with a happy ending.

  • @blackwoodrichmore4531
    @blackwoodrichmore4531 5 місяців тому +8

    Hi Paul, very well done! It seems to me that you were the catalyst for all the changes that happened in John's life. You're a true gentleman & a good sport. Good luck to John & his young family!. We only get one run at life, then we're gone. So I hope that everything continues to get better & better for them. Three cheers for John & his family, & ten more cheers for Paul as well!. Be happy. 🤠🍻👍🏻❤️

  • @MathewTip
    @MathewTip 5 місяців тому +5

    Paul, you are an Angel in human form. God Bless Your Heart ❤️

  • @IsmaelPR75
    @IsmaelPR75 5 місяців тому +4

    Hope he learned to say no and how to manage his money. Props to Paul for all the work he did and the community that helped.

  • @user-hp9tv3vq5v
    @user-hp9tv3vq5v 5 місяців тому +37

    I am very impressed and proud of John. I actually didn't think he could commit as much as he did. I'm so happy things turned out as well as they did, and I am praying that he and his wife and children have a very happy and prosperous life.❤️🤗🙏

  • @exit61
    @exit61 5 місяців тому +7

    You've gone above and beyond. No wonder I've been subscribed and following your vids for so many years. Good work, Paul.

  • @jay-lm4we
    @jay-lm4we 5 місяців тому +7

    Fair play to you Paul. I know you didn't do it on your own but you got it started. God only knows what would have become of John if you didn't reach out and give him a helping hand👍🇮🇪

  • @downshift4503
    @downshift4503 5 місяців тому +12

    Good luck to him, he's certainly worked hard to sort himself out.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  5 місяців тому +7

      Thank you so much for your kind words! It's always inspiring to see someone put in the effort to turn their life around. Wishing him all the best on his journey!

    • @downshift4503
      @downshift4503 5 місяців тому +1

      @@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 on reflection compared to many he's proving himself to be a real man when it comes to commitment to his family, his daughters are lucky to have him as their father.

  • @michaelpettit9706
    @michaelpettit9706 5 місяців тому +5

    Thanks for protecting them from POS trolls.
    I also had criticism for them both originally but it was constructive. Not beating a dead horse. God bless all involved!

  • @joet.7831
    @joet.7831 5 місяців тому +8

    Thanks for the update. Happy to hear about John.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @joet.7831 Thanks for watching! Glad you're enjoying the updates, and we're happy to share our adventures with you!

  • @marcgoldbergdogtrainer
    @marcgoldbergdogtrainer 5 місяців тому +5

    Honestly I was very skeptical but wow i was wrong. Great job John and all of you who helped him make it happen.

  • @davidkaiser810
    @davidkaiser810 5 місяців тому +7

    It is so good to hear that John and his family are doing well. Thank you for this update Paul

  • @LionelHumphreys
    @LionelHumphreys 5 місяців тому +10

    I'm so glad that John made it! Well done John! Thanks for the update Paul.

  • @louisschmidt2129
    @louisschmidt2129 5 місяців тому +4

    I glad to hear about john and he has happy ending i wish John and his family a happy life

  • @RakeTable
    @RakeTable 5 місяців тому +12

    Good luck John. 😀

  • @daviderwin5930
    @daviderwin5930 5 місяців тому +5

    Most people make mistakes and wind up in a bind at some point or several points in their lives. Kudos to everyone who helped out and way to go John for keeping your eye on the prize and making it happen! 🙏

  • @J.A.7
    @J.A.7 5 місяців тому +5

    Proud of you and for you John. 💝

  • @jonrend
    @jonrend 5 місяців тому +37

    Excellent news, I followed the story in 2022 - Well done John and Paul the Ex-Pat community that helped.

  • @foreignermakingmoney-phili1458
    @foreignermakingmoney-phili1458 5 місяців тому +9

    Great news, good on him and everyone involved

  • @mick-berry5331
    @mick-berry5331 5 місяців тому +5

    I remember John's story very well. I wish him and his daughters well. 😊

  • @seanoneillsongs
    @seanoneillsongs 5 місяців тому +5

    I remember well John's story from your channel and I'm delighted to hear that he's really done amazing things in getting his life together after having such a difficult time.
    He must have the resilience of a Filipino. .
    Well done John and well done too, to those that had the resources and the kindness to step in.

  • @mikealsleben4671
    @mikealsleben4671 5 місяців тому +5

    Great success story! I learned from John and his story. I've got alot of respect for John. It helps me plan for my future retirement. As a man I know I am controlled by 3 different thought processes. My brain, my heart, and my lower trouble making brain. So one needs to stop and reevaluate why I made this decision. So thanks John for telling your story. John has done and grown more in the last couple years than most do in a lifetime. I hope you read this John, your a good man! You just do you and do your best for those beautiful girls. They are your legacy. Thanks for the great follow up story Paul! Take care and God bless!

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @mikealsleben4671 Thanks for the kind words and support! We're glad our story can inspire others to plan for their future retirement.

  • @armandosanchez8901
    @armandosanchez8901 5 місяців тому +6

    A real success !! Thanks to all of you guys

  • @michaelcassidy1864
    @michaelcassidy1864 5 місяців тому +44

    John, his lady, and their children are a success story. If I ever speak in a derogatory manner about anyone, all I'm doing is unconsciously trashing myself.

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 5 місяців тому +4

      think before you post - how might someone else feel when they read what you write? this is a handy reality check that can keep you from writing comments you later regret.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @michaelcassidy1864 Well said!

  • @dleatherman4539
    @dleatherman4539 5 місяців тому +4

    Man, what great news! Kudos to all for taking care of the situation. Continued success to John and your channel, Paul.

  • @Dag12324
    @Dag12324 5 місяців тому +7

    good job john that's a lot to accomplish in a short amount of time while in a difficult situation and good on you for being a responsible partner and father. congrats on making it back to where you want to be.

  • @gentledaisy
    @gentledaisy 5 місяців тому +4

    Paul, my highest respect to you for using your channel to network and especially helping your fellow Americans. It was a huge success story. You and Q Adventures are real patriots! Keep doing what you are doin and please dont get tired of helping. It is very important that all expats or Americans married to Filipina should have a strong support system whatever part of the Philippines. Filipina are the best wives in the world. I know that for sure.. but it is sometimes there are people will take advantage and heartless human beings to put down others..crab mentality syndrome. Thank you to you!! Thank you for helping also Q adventures to help the senior man to go back to London because of your networks you were able to help the old man fix his social security problem. I hope many more expats and american will have a sense of Band of Brothers mindset like you Paul and the Q adventures. Maraming salamat at Mabuhay kayong lahat!

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @gentledaisy Thank you for your kind words, respect, and support. We're happy to help fellow Americans in the Philippines.

  • @GK-wx6xo
    @GK-wx6xo 5 місяців тому +4

    Time moves way too fast. Unbelievable. You're a legend Paul.

  • @matthewdurkee5673
    @matthewdurkee5673 5 місяців тому +5

    Glad everything worked out for John . Glad he is back with his family. Good on him for Manning up and getting it done . Thank you Paul and Great video series

  • @user-bh1se9hn9j
    @user-bh1se9hn9j 5 місяців тому +17

    Good story should write a book

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 5 місяців тому +6

      Paul would be excellent at that. An easy way might be for Paul to record the audio, using voice recognition, then just proofread the results.

    • @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234
      @paulinthephilippinesolddog9234  2 місяці тому

      Hi @user-bh1se9hn9j Thanks for the kind words! We're glad to share our experiences.

  • @LeslieEaston
    @LeslieEaston 5 місяців тому +6

    Wish John and his family all the best. Hope every thing works out for him this time

  • @henryvanderbeek2973
    @henryvanderbeek2973 5 місяців тому +4

    I'm glad things have worked out for John. He did the right thing...He went back, worked his butt off and supported his wife and kids.....Our God is a God of second chances....

  • @Saltybluemap
    @Saltybluemap 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for letting us know how John is doing. Glad he is doing well and reunited with his family!

  • @chaddavis6230
    @chaddavis6230 5 місяців тому +4

    Great story, Paul. Thanks for sharing.

  • @Mark-in-Texas
    @Mark-in-Texas 5 місяців тому +28

    Good to hear that John was successful in making and saving money, supported his kids/woman, and able to return to them in the Philippines. I hope he has many good years ahead.

  • @mikejones1137
    @mikejones1137 5 місяців тому +4

    Seen him at ground zero and wanted to talk to him after i had already spoken with you Paul but i thought otherwise as i didnt know what was going on with him. Great story thanks for the update.

  • @josephkephart9929
    @josephkephart9929 5 місяців тому +5

    good news....thank you for the update ,,,,, glad to hear this,,,, your a good man also Paul and many others

  • @dorianponcela9680
    @dorianponcela9680 5 місяців тому +22

    I'm glad everything is going fine for John. We also have to remember that you were the first guy that helped him out using your YT channel, and that's the reason John had all the support. He is lucky to have a friend like you. 🙂

  • @metrocomoj
    @metrocomoj 5 місяців тому +20

    John, An incredible comeback, Best Wishes, God Bless and a round of applause for his ex-pat helping Friends❤👍🙏

  • @jennymark7403
    @jennymark7403 5 місяців тому +5

    John 2.0 well done in getting it all together , and back with the family and enjoying life again but this time , it's planned well done John im proud of you 😊

  • @jameslanglie8855
    @jameslanglie8855 5 місяців тому +3

    glad to hear the news about Johns success! Great attitude of not giving up

  • @dajewel1982
    @dajewel1982 5 місяців тому +8

    Alright John ! Good on you !!

  • @mattking9679
    @mattking9679 5 місяців тому +2

    Man that’s awesome, I can’t believe it’s been that long, but I am glad to hear he is back with his family. Honestly, without you and the others there, I don’t think he would still be alive. You guys did an amazing thing. You are a good man, Paul.

  • @Watchme2828
    @Watchme2828 5 місяців тому +3

    Happy to hear this type of news after the last time John came up on your channel. thanks for sharing, hope people learn from this.

  • @brianleonard6885
    @brianleonard6885 5 місяців тому +3

    proud of John I wish him and his family the best and many happy years together, I do not doubt that John will be an amazing father!

  • @willyd6901
    @willyd6901 5 місяців тому +25

    Welcome back John 🎉 I prey neither you or your beautiful family ever find yourselves in your past circumstance. God bless your family and Paul’s 🙏🏽

  • @johncook2924
    @johncook2924 5 місяців тому +29

    That's great news Paul. Congratulations to John.

  • @lostboi3974
    @lostboi3974 5 місяців тому +3

    Good on him. A happy ending. And thanks to you too.

  • @jefferyowens9776
    @jefferyowens9776 5 місяців тому +3

    Remember the golden rules, one of those is if you can't say anything nice don't say anything at all. John should be commended for his sted fast work ethic and loyalty to his friends and family.

  • @BobConserv59
    @BobConserv59 5 місяців тому +3

    WOW,! Was thinking of him a few days ago. Great that he is back and with his family. God bless John and everyone that helped him.

  • @jeffreyblanding2623
    @jeffreyblanding2623 5 місяців тому +20

    I'm glad to hear that he was able to support his family in the Philippines, and was eventually able to return to them.
    He's an excellent example, that not all expats, just come to the Philippines for a good time; then leave, when they find out, they've fathered a child ...
    Good for you John; Honorable example !

  • @patpeifer7871
    @patpeifer7871 5 місяців тому +16

    Wow, it is amazing how John has been able to turn things around. Wishing the best to him and his family.

  • @sergebenoit6814
    @sergebenoit6814 5 місяців тому +6

    Hi I also live on Mindanao, love the way you present the struggle and happiness to live in the Philippine. Keep the good work

  • @KevinP32270
    @KevinP32270 5 місяців тому +3

    that was an amazing thing that the expat community did for john. i do remember his story. LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.

  • @keithjames2450
    @keithjames2450 5 місяців тому +3

    Good luck to you Paul and all the good people around you!

  • @joeyhoda1083
    @joeyhoda1083 5 місяців тому +5

    Hello Paul, I am so proud of John and of you, and I hope that you will feel some pride in yourself. You have been a great friend and mentor for him and for many others, including myself. I have followed John's story here with you since the beginning. I am retiring and plan to visit the Philippines for 6 months beginning in August of this year. I hope to meet you at some point during that trip. I will reach out to you when the time gets closer. Good luck to you in all you do, and please keep up the fantastic work that you are doing!

  • @xomox5316
    @xomox5316 5 місяців тому +2

    We all stumble and fall sometimes, good on you and your viewers helping him get back on his feet.

  • @reggyreginald8158
    @reggyreginald8158 5 місяців тому +3

    You’re a good man Paul. Love your channel and love the honesty without all the usual expat bs 😉👍

  • @justmike6825
    @justmike6825 5 місяців тому +3

    Sounds like he’s being a. Badass. Good luck John..proud of you for trying to the best of your abilities. Been following just saying.

  • @billylain7456
    @billylain7456 5 місяців тому +2

    Great report, Paul. Congratulations to you , all that helped, and especially to John and his family!