Men Are Very ATTRACTED To Women Who Know THIS
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- Men Are Very ATTRACTED To Women Who Know THIS... I want you to know the kind of women men are very attracted to be able to celebrate your unique qualities, cultivate self-confidence, and build meaningful connections based on mutual respect and understanding. Most of the times men are very attracted to women who know their worth, exude confidence, and embrace their authenticity. Take heed to this relationship advice and learn how to attract men.
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A good man who can openly communicate to and to express his emotions effectively to his partner is❤ the greatest blessing to a woman. Both embracing these skills with each other nurtures the relationship and sustains it. "One-sided relationships" are not relationships.
Sadly, most of the ppl I meet seem to struggle with that communication part unfortunately. Who knew it would be that hard finding a good single woman that's not toxic, that you're attracted to that is honest with good communication skills. Mann.
Agree with you. Men who don’t how to communicate are annoying because they would either get defensive or try to gaslight you 🙄🙄
Yes!!!! It truly is !!!! ❤
A two way process ✨️
Ase' ❤❤❤
Sometimes he or she will not see the true value in you and how much of a blessing you are, until your gone, and they look for you in someone else and they can’t find you.
Do they come back? Would you take them back?
@@debragulbrand6296 it’s up to that individual and if her or she wants that person back in their life.
This makes sense 💯💯
I like this ! 👍
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Receiving a man who can communicate without yelling and saying degrading things when speaking on his feeling is a blessing.
I am with someone who yells all the time and that says degrading things.when he talks
My husband of 17 years is the biggest blessing in my life…. Not perfect as I am not perfect but he has made my life 100 times better by being in it!
❤❤❤❤❤Hearing this thx
CONGRATS & MANY MO HAPPY YEARS TOO U BOTH!!
🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤🙌🏾👌🏾💯
I would like to ask a question. I'm sorry if this seems off-topic. My husband told me that it doesn't matter where he gets his appetite from as long as he comes home to eat (sexually). It makes me feel like he can't get horny with me, his wife.
Can you please share what makes him so great?
A Good Man is a blessing 🙏🏾
Amen, and so hard to find nowadays
So true the problem is these good men don't see that their woman are good women
Define a good man?
@@skinman499A man that has good morals and can lead according. Caring, kind and loyal.
A good man will take huge pride in the woman he choose and would want her to be the best version of herself (he would nurture and assist in her growth)
@@wakondahazel5627 How are they a good man then? 😅
I made him more important than myself. My bad. Never again.
Nah don't do that, big mistake....I hope you find your king.....just let God do it for you, he will come
Live and learn right... been there too.
You did it for the wrong guy
@@marriogandy9891 Yep, it goes both ways.
@@IMarie-xs5dg
Amen
It's easy to communicate, when you're used to telling the truth.
And YES, it is that simple.
Yes po
Yes po true po yang
I’m not looking for someone who just 🤮 their insides, but I’ve got to have some honesty and integrity when you are dealing with me. I’m basically a lie detector so don’t bother coming around me if you can’t handle that and me. 🏳️
I need a man who is open & honest
A man who knows his feelings and can communicate that?
Yes please. Xoxoxo 🥰😭💖✨
Sadly, most of the ppl I meet seem to struggle with that communication part unfortunately. Who knew it would be that hard finding a good single woman that's not toxic, that you're attracted to that is honest with good communication skills. Mann.
@@jayc5756 when we consider the broader picture and history of how people were conditioned into BEing toxic we start to awaken.
We heal ourselves.
We pray for healing for family and friends.
We pray healing for the world.
Our parents were brought up a certain way.
The environment and/or neighborhood influence us.
Toxic relationships when we were younger but we thought was normal.
Then the myriad of emotions that we have to allow ourselves to actually feel from 30 years ago so we no longer stuff them inside.
Then the process of forgiveness for ourselves and others.
And sometimes we want to hang onto the vibration of anger or protection.
But then the Essence of Who we Are just has to BE because that's who we are in our core.
And then allowing Ourselves to BEcome the L💖VE in the World because we choose to sow Love because we all deserve Love.
✨💖✨💖✨💖✨💖✨💖✨
Oh I will take at least 2 of them ❤
Date a woman. No man should be more emotional than a woman.lol.
@@AG-nn8lp- everyone has emotions. You like the suppressed exploder guys?
Sometimes a man is too blind to see your positive actions towards him,so its best to ignore him when he won't see your natural worth and love ypurself more ,put that energy back into yourself
Omg.
So refreshingly surprised to see a woman who understands the art of IGNORING a misbehaving man lol 😅😅 ignore him like the dirt on your shoe that you can clean next week and still use the shoes till then!!! There's nothing that a man hates more or responds to more than the woman he loves and wants ignoring him and his antics lol 😅 he will snap back to factory settings all by himself. I usually tell women all the yelling and fighting gets you nowhere. Just communicate to him clearly and if he pretends to not understand you just ignore and redirect your attention to yourself and your kids and your family. When he's ready to rejoin you he will tag along. 😅😅😅
@@misselle1430i stand on my word and sit back a see if he comprehend....i learned the hard way and as long as i know i tried to show and not just tell him all else does not matter when i silently walk away and stop turning around to look the past in the face ,i keep forward and stop wearing my heart under my shoe getting my feelings dragged by a man i gave pure unconditional love too,so be he does not see my love matters and not just as a weakness,i will continue to ignore him until he is can learn to stop trying to manipulate and learn to be a man to himself first before he can be my man,lil boys play with toys my azz aint a toy....i hold a woman's stance that lil girl mode left my system 45 years in the making of a genuine woman, i want but don't need a man and many men miss this point when a woman that holds her own says it or minds her business by living her own life and get defended when you see the game in his eyes and hear it when he opens his mouth,real is real fake can't waste my time❤🙏💯
@@misselle1430😂😂😂"snap back to factory settings lol" you are too funny
@@misselle1430. You are so smart and a very intelligent person. . Arguing .and fighting will not get you anywhere... So good for you!. Keep being intelligent. We need to be a more of intelligent people !.😊❤
@@misselle1430. And. Yes you are a very funny person😊😂
Good people are a blessing to eachother ❤
FACTZ!!
The spiritual journey is so TRUE! Finding God has made a big difference towards finding myself and truly heal before even looking for a relationship 🙏🏼
All I did was attend to his needs and desires - but he had absolutely NO interest in any of my needs or desires AT ALL. I put my dreams on hold for his dreams and he just treated me like I was a slave and didn't give a shit.
Emotionally unavailable he was/is 🙅♀️🙅♀️.
We teach people how to treat us by what we allow or don't tolerate. Learn from the experience and move on to greate with ❤
@@michelekeaton6392. You are right I have tolerated enough
My ex told me once he was blessed to have an amazing girl who talked to him every day and hasn't got bored of him. He told me that. I said I was equally blessed to have a guy who liked me for me. How can we go from saying that to each other to what we are now? Broken up for 3 months 😭
I've been in that same situation! It was over 2 yrs ago. In retrospect, it was the best thing that could happen. His mouth said the positive things. His actions showed another side. I have peace!
@@denitrasmith7042 I am trying to see that him breaking up with me was maybe for the best. I am trying. But it gets hard since I had apparently more feelings for him than he did for me. And I put in more effort than he did. I try to keep telling myself this was for the best.
He was lieing to you. He’d rather have someone who wasn’t thinking abt him, that he had to chase or that would treat him the worst!! He prefers toxic women 😢
I’m very sorry that happened I pray that GOD heals your broken heart ❤️🩹 and HE gives you the man that will love you and treat you like the Queen 👑 that you are In JESUS Name Amen 🙏🏾
Thanks everyone 😢 I really appreciate your input and kind words. Yeah, this breakup has definitely screwed me and broke my heart 💔 I really thought he cared about me. And he knew he lost interest in me by month 3 of our 4 and half relationship, and he still continued leading me on. Giving me hope. I think that is what hurt the most. My hope being shattered. I don't know if I believe anything he ever told me 😭 but I am slowly healing. I deserve better. Someone who won't push me away, be cold to me and won't give me excuses. Who treats me like a priority and not an option. He also said I was just an option. That hurt me, too. Makes me wonder if he had other options on the side just in case we didn't work out 😭 and the fact that now he is hanging out with a girl he met a week before our breakup makes me wonder if the real reason he broke up with me was to be with other women 😭 I wasn't good enough. Sometimes I feel like that. But nope, I need to tell myself he wasn't good enough for me!!!!
I needed to hear this, I love communicating to my partner about my emotions and thoughts but sometimes I forget he may be having a long tired and overwhelming day that sharing my thoughts at that moment can add more stress to what he is already going through. Waiting for a better time to share my thoughts when he’s more at ease is not dismissing my feelings but it’s knowing at that moment I need to be his peace and when he in a better space of mind I can share my thoughts with him with love.
That's beautiful that u r aware about his needs and the timing
You got that wisdom Sis.. Blessings
❤ I hear you❤ Great reminders -Thank you so much! < words of wisdom - Embrace one another's differences and ways of thinking with good intentions and have a positive mindset and much better understanding to support one another! PEACE BE WITH YOU ❤🙏
A good man is definitely a blessing
I was the woman who were so focus on giving my best to the relationship my all I was blinded I automatically thought just because he said he loves me I thought he had same values same mindset as me. I understand now how important to observe a man actions and not his words
Being MINDFUL IS DEFINITELY A MUST for a HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
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BOTH people are the prize in any relationship
Women
@@Sophiecatherina765no not at all
The woman is the prize. The man is the winner 🎉
He used my ability to put him above my own needs against me. I compromised and was able to put myself in his shoes. Down to changing the type of toilet paper I used for over 30 years. It may seem small but small things shouldn’t be overlooked because I compromised on big things like empathizing with his lack of not being able to control his temperament when he was rattled about something. I would say it’s not about you, yet when I suggested counseling I became the enemy. All you can do is try but some of these people have a “slave mentality” and are never satisfied with anything you do, because to them you are their puppet who they are pulling the emotional strings with. I learned a lot from this last connection, mostly about myself and therefore I am grateful, happy and single and give thanks to the Most High for getting me out before it was too late.
Yes. They are master manipulators. I am so grateful that you got free from that too.
My heart celebrates that for you.
Same. Sounds a little familiar. But I learned
Yeah alot of do a slave mentality due to childhood trauma, influces from others and lazy motives that easily satisfy them. Alot of people have a freaky BDSM mentality type in and outside the bedroom that causes nothing but abuse and no happiness added to it. Just like you mention slave mentality the bdsm mentality thinking is very similar to that if you really look at it.
We have the experience. He made me like a puppet and manipulated then he left us with my two daughters. He has other women and other family. A great liar and great manipulative person. I’m free and happy now being a single mom. It happens 5 years ago. Thanks God I’m satisfied with my two daughters. Living with my ex husband is stressing
Dysfunctional or toxic relationships are definitely NOT a blessing. A GOOD man is willing/able to communicate & express feelings while also capable of empathy & understanding those of his partner. It takes BOTH people being emotionally mature, open, nurturing, & willing to make the effort... Addressing conflict with humility & unselfish concern for each other's needs is important for growth & true connection.
I am set free in the mighty name of Lord Jesus, Amen 🙏🏽❤️
Amen 🙏🏾
I listened very well.
You have a good point.
Understanding each needs as a man and woman, is very important.
Thank you for the topic you shared.
I’m not blind to how my man feels.. me I observe him listen to him pay attention to everything that involves him.
Poured too much into him that he took me for granted and diminished my value and called me worthless saying I never did anything for him.
Just know that you’re the exact opposite of what names he called you. A bully preys on the weak because he/she is weak.
Absolutely. Exactly
Both people matter in a healthy relationship
Yes you don't want to be left out on time together
Here's what I do not understand - why are men constantly talking about how women are all about their feelings when since the beginning of time men have been absolutely unconcerned about the feelings and thoughts of women. Men have been blind to how women feel and the reality is men have beem wrongly socialized to think that they were created to 'lead' women when in fact both men and women were created to help and serve each other. Now if more men understood this philosophy there would be more successful relationships.
I have always embraced his feelings and desires. And he did too for a few years, but he changed and started ignoring me and drooling over other women
A good man is a blessing to a woman😍💕
I have met a guy. He is my blessings❤
I hung up in his face for scolding me like a child over something petty. I asked him what did he think about Robert F. Kennedy as a candidate on the ballot . He went on a rant, talking about Trump and all this other stuff he cannot control. He went on several rants, about Father’s Day, his son’s mother, etc. during the course of our situation-ship. He is a bully and immature, always trying to control me. He called me back. I didn’t answer. He left me a message stating we need to take a break. I texted him your wish is my command. I feel a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders, tired of pouring into a grown baby! Glad, I never slept with him! He will not have to worry about me calling him again.
This definitely goes both ways. The capacity to feel worthy enough to receive and accept love is just as important.
Yes Indeed
Assuming he's even capable of communicating his feels instead of just sitting back and blaming our feelings for being in his way of ignoring all feelings
I haven't encountered that many men that can or try to communicate on an emotionally mature level without somehow blaming the woman.
Relationships/Marriage is about serving the other person before yourself.
Right. Its not always about us.
I find the opposite to be more commonly true. A good woman gets so lost in understanding her good man and his needs, desires, etc. that she and he,
lose sight of her goodness and her equivalent needs, desires, and understanding of her.
So you think the secret to a woman getting a good husband is to not care about a man’s needs and desires? Would your husband confirm that he decided to marry you because you didn’t care about his needs?
It makes the relationship way more beautiful
This is so true, a good man and a good woman it should be to each other
That is so true I've been in a relationship just like the way you we have to consider their feelings and their thoughts as well because sometimes us women are be consider about their thoughts and feelings as so basically is a two-way street 50%50% if I'm wrong🙂🙂🙂
I'm always giving. Very rarely do men even care about who I am let alone what I need. They are only interested in me in regard to how I make them feel and only that...
And vice versa for sure
Yes that s true me I want to know how he feels and think, how we be. On the same page with out, having some thing in common and love. Honesty compromise,there you should not be any competition between each other . We should be able to work together it’s giving and taking situations. And one more thing never base a marriage or relationship bye what other people do. Or did.❤
I agree. As a woman it's so easy to get caught up in how I feel about things. True. ❤. Great point. I have to keep that thought front and center to think of his needs and desires.
My communication experience with my husband had been he kept silent bc he was uncomfortable talking to express his personal perspective
Oh I you…! A Good Woman is 🎉Good for a Good Man ♥️ how come we give a chance to the really bad 1’s
When he loves her right. She will out love him. That's why women stay after infidelity. Most men will not do the same.
A good man won't cheat.
@@cherrylane79that's not the point ahe was making. Comprehension skills needed
Women statistically are more likely to be unfaithful
@Kim-ok5tn Every one is entitled to their own opinion. That was my point. Trust and believe I have excellent comprehensive skills. Haveva blessed day.
I doubt she was referring to you cos she tagged the other person @@latresawilliams1158
Thats called self-centered , that is a tool of the devil ! We are here to love each other unconditionally , as Jesus loves us all ! Relationships are eqal give and take , not one sided ! 😘
Sometimes men just do the most stupidest things to please other people without even thinking of his wife first then thinks later. It’s so hurtful but a woman in love puts all his feelings first worried to hurt his feelings.. I’m really getting over relationships already..
our job as ladies is always to be desired by your old man..
once he doesn’t desire you anymore relationship is pretty much useless unless you in for something in return
Most women see their man as a blessing and are beyond reciprocal in my experience
Healthy women are emotionally stable so they don’t get caught up on how they feel to the detriment/inconvenience of everyone else around them. They maintain a broad view of the situation and are mature enough to put themself in the other person’s shoes.
Very true I agree ❤
How much we think and we accept them how they are they wont even care about us.
It definitely isn't an easy situation but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏🏼
@@MeetStephanSpeaks iam seriously not getting how to get along with my husband. How can person so busy always. Even we not staying with him. We even ask anything with him. I even won't fight lot but in the matters of he give preference to his freinds and his old school girl freinds and his parents that to even I asked him rarely why won't u treat me like them. Why can't u talk with me like this.
This comes natural for me but I know now to start small. There are levels to this thing
I ordered your book, Love after heartbreak, and the Journal. Ebook, all I received is a confirmation of purchase over 24 hours a go, and I have not received this book, I contacted them, and still, no book or response..
Yes absolutely true❤❤
✨️Good reminder. Thanks.
AMEN!❤
Definitely, it works both ways however ❤
Whenever I see videos like this where a man is giving good advice to women, there's never a shortage of women in the comments who still make it about them.
Thank you for allowing God use you Sir
Amen ❤🙏♥️🙏♥️
Woman having money is a Blessing
Men need to RECOGNIZE this as a Blessing!
Both need to be mature enough to choose one another!
I Absolutely Agree & I personally ✋🏽Affirm this message for the Life of, Success of and Longevity of The Relationship ESPECIALLY A MARRIAGE! ❤ key word here is a "GOOD MAN" ..MEN just like Women MUST BE VETTED in Consistent Actions, Attitude, Temperament (Love walk) This is "The Fruit" that you are looking for and judging (just like in the grocery store you judge and inspect the fruit for freshness, no punctures, no rotteness no major bruising before purchasing it) before you can call them "Good" Not solely based on how they make you feel or how they look and how much money they have/make, how they dress what they drive ect... that means NOTHING!!! And Says NOTHING of The Character, Integrity, & Motives of The Man or Woman.
It's because sometimes we are made to feel that our existence in the relationship is only to cater to our man and be submissive, and our needs goals and desires don't matter. So we slowly become worn out, and our motivation to please him decreases
Amen I will agree with you
you’re right. so true
It takes both parties putting in equal effort period, regardless of gender ❤
Exactly... meeting each other halfway to create balance!.
Exactly... meeting each other halfway to create a healthy balance!
What constitutes a "good" man? Some of the worst Souls seem to believe they are God's gift to women.
Thank you.
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So true! I can see how this can happen. But the only thing I can add to this is when you remind us of this just remember that we did not want to forget you, just try to be kind about it. ❤❤
This is great advice. I needed to hear it.
I feel like an awesome man has found me but he has a lot of past hurt from other women and sometimes it feels like he's projecting previous situations onto us. He's always in his head and he wants to be happy and I believe he feels good about us but those other thoughts creep in and make him doubt it. I'm being me naturally but he second guesses everything I do. I really love him and he loves me but idk that he will ever choose to commit to me and that scares me because I am in love with him but he won't let himself just be happy. It's like his conscience always reminds him of what another person did to him. Idk what to do
Goes for women also. If there's no mutual care, there's no trust or loyalty
There is no one, that is more important than another, but Cant say Ive seen many men wanting healthy relationships. It takes 2
Absolutely.
Great reminder 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I had just initiated that conversation and he ghosted me the next day. I felt like a fool.
He was so mean expressing his desires that I couldn’t see past my own hurt emotions. Sure, he was telling me how he was feeling, but I’m so emotional I would just focus on the fact that he was yelling and maybe I never heard him.
Now he’s gone and I’m devastated.
Amen! We are BOTH the prize and should be treated as precious
That's not actually true. The woman needs to see the husband's needs as more important than her own and vice versa. This ensures a much better marriage.
That attitude has gotten a lot of women in divorce court.
His desires are Sex, Sex ,Sex. His 100% needs. That to me is ridiculous. That to me is more of his focus in the relationship then anything else.
False. I saw more than sex for a woman. Then she leaves me.
@JeffersonRah Facts💯 Most women think that. That's because they're dealing with males.. not men! Most guys do get in relationships to secure daily intimacy. We do need sex! But not all of us make sex the only focus. I've had genuine intentions for women and still got burned. But of course, we're always the villains in the end. We all must choose what we're willing to tolerate. None of us are perfect.
Desires of BOTH partners should embrace their feelings for each other. Communication is necessary because most of us don't listen to understand, we only listen to respond. Listen and silent are spelled with the same letters. Think about that. Peace and love ✨️ ❤️
When I ask a guy “So what do you want?” Their eyes always widen 👀 yes some women care what you want too
Lol but you get what you give. No woman is going to hold a man up who doesn't hold her up.
And yes, Women are the feeling/emotional aspect in a relationship and men are supposed to be the rational/grounding aspect. When a man is in his feminine too much then of course she's not going to put up with dealing with his mood swings. Smh. A lot of Men need to grow a pair.
That's the most ridiculous thing I've read today.
Men have feelings even if you lack the empathy to pick up on them, if men having feelings is feminine then feeling is no longer feminine because all men have feelings and to say otherwise is a obvious attempt at dehumanizing men.
But yes men are the rational ones and with that "energies" is a cope for immaturity. But birds of a feather.
Presence. It doesn't cost much and people can't seem to be present with each other, in alot of different ways.
I agree! It’s like people are so caught up in their own life that connecting with someone new is so uncomfortable that it never seems to happen. That’s why woman “chase” even tho we’re not supposed to cause someone needs to break the ice.
Facts 💯🔥
ABSOLUTE TRUTH ❤❤
I Agree!💯
Truth is...in the garden of Eden didn't have to worry about guarding her feelings. We are here bcoz women these days give sex so casually that men nolonger take relationships seriously. But when u meet a mature man, u don't need to have those fears. I call this living in fear. Be u, but don't be vulnerable. Love if u must love but love God & u more.
Quans voice when imitating Mickey 😂❤
Open communication is important for❤ both
Blessing! 👌🏾👏🏾
Exactly!! Both important both valuable. Both God’s children. ❤
Sometimes the man can get caught up with how he feels that he neglects yours. Vice versa.
True ❤
But my husband forget everything I do for him when he gets upset. He say u never done shit for me. You don't got shit. I might let u take 1 picture. So if u do everything it doesn't matter. He'll still lie and say u did nothing