Let's START NORMALZING..I Episode 107
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- Опубліковано 25 чер 2024
- Last episode on things we need to stop normalizing has you guys HOOTTT!😅🤭
So we are back with things we need to START NORMALISING! From short men, YES!YES! We stun a short king👑 To therapy - because honestly it should be a life norm at this point. This conversation can really take us more than one episode but let's hear what you have to say in the comments .What should we start normalising?
One thing I know we should definitely start normalising is being subscribed to this channel! Yes, you! We are talking to you! Ebu subscribe🤗🥳
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Let's normalize paying back money that people owe you before they actually remind you
Dear women,
Let's normalize seeing men as fully grown individuals who know what they are doing.
Let's stop mothering and directing and hold them accountable for their actions.
(Things am learning now 😅)
Ding ding ding!!!
As Lydia would say.
Thisss!!!!😭😭😭
@@dorahmulinge3800
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Say that again
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Let’s normalize not asking people who are not married why they are not or why they don’t have kids.Normalize minding your business
Din din din!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Oh yes...am dealing with this alot
This!!!
Yeees the reason I don't go home for christmas.... family though
Or asking the ones with only one wanaongeza lini.
Let's normalize great sex and great friendships.
Let's normalize unconditional love to our lovers, partners, friends, family etc.
Let's normalize INTENTIONAL living and THERAPY.
Let's start normalizing solo traveling and solo dates. The thought of it might be scary but it's all worth it at the end, you get to discover so much about yourself during the adventures you take alone.
Lets start normalising look like our age. I'm 25 and no body should pressure me to look 19 yrs. I'm happy to grow old.❤
Ding ding ding
Gal .....say that again
God bless you...me too am happy to grow old
This🎉 I agree with you. I am happy to grow old too❤
This is everything ❤
Kingbetweeners fear commenting here. I'm coming out of bondage guys. Kingbeetweners listening to this girls...tap in the like button😅😁
Lets normalize having boundaries with our parents. It improves our relationships with them.
100%
Manzee especially men some relationships ended because the Man's Mom was jealousy TML need to talk about this
Lets start normalizing celebrating every milestone that we achieve no matter how small it may seem. Celebrate yourself and keep going
I totally agree on this, a win is always a win so lets celebrate it. Especially in a world where we constantly criticize start glorifying the wins too.
Gurllllll I learnt this and have never gone backkkk..I make sureee I celebrate
Correct jackline ,lately am very happy for something I was able to today for myself no matter how little it may seem or others have been able to do it doesn't matter 😊
@@wambuinderitu2461 keep going mama and always celebrate the small wins because they will lead you to big wins
@@jacklinekendikinoti amen 😊
Let's normalise giving ourselves grace🤗 not being too hard on ourselves and appreciating our achievements no matter how little they are
Lydia your makeup is on fire today plus your hair the outfit you re killing. On that note let normalize tell other women they look stunning when they are
The mint sure does look beautiful ❤and blends well with the lippie
Let's start normalizing setting boundaries and respecting other people boundaries.
Lets start normalizing staying single and focusing on ourselves till we are called selfcentered.
Yes 🙌
Let's start normalizing having says in our lives without giving unnecessary explanation
Can we un-normalize the idea that being in a committed relationship means losing your independence !!
Us avoidant can't relate 😂😂😂
Let's normalize hiring someone for once a week or every two weeks to come do the cleaning in your house. Hiyo 500 or 1k is worth your peace of mind aki.......all your weekend should not be ya kufua nguo 😂😂
Y'all out here are so wise, I love it for eeal❤To many more of this please
😅Normalizing the difficult conversations is soo true.
I stayed quiet over 5 months over something that was solved with a 30 min conversation and the involved party was okayyy with it🙄 and he was also the one who kept pushing for the conversation .
Learnt my lesson ❤️
Let's speak up 😂!
I should normalize living a comment on content that I genuinely love and enjoy💚💚
The makeup and the colour on Lydia make her really look stunning.
Lets normalize not asking people to have more kids😊 welldone lyd and murugi❤
Cheers to that😂😅
Our parents needed to teach us how to rest among other things. But since they did not, I love that these ladies chose to take it up and say "because our parents didn't teach us we will teach ourselves how to do it". That's such a compassionate way of approaching the situation for both our parents and ourselves.
Let's start normalizing getting(asking for) help from others, be it mental, physical, emotional.etc you ain't superman to do it all on your own. You will break down.The same way you give it out, should be the same way you ask for it!! It's soo healthy. Am glad I started doing so😜
This, we need to normalise at a 100%. Ongeza volume!!!👏👏👏👏
Let's normalize ghosting fake friends🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
😂😂
On the point about normalizing deserving good thing, I totally agree. For Christians, we believe God is a good good father and He gives us gifts we don't deserve, never worked for - just because of His Grace. I am currently reading a book called Quiet by Susan Cain and she says that most people are reward sensitive where everything they do is so they can get a reward at the end. In this case, if they get good things out of nowhere, it's hard for them to accept it because they didn't "work" for the reward. Then the opposite is also scary because they might end up staying in toxic situations or jump into risky situations because they are just thinking of the reward at the end without considering the risks involved.
Aaah i love this,it's super informative and true we've normalized attaching pain and suffering to success/life's rewards.We don't need to always justify deserving good things you just deserve them final! We wont disregard working hard for what you want of course but if it comes to you without to much effort then just take it in and enjoy that period.
Woow❤I love your insights 😊they are soo deep and it made me think 🤔 of it and actually that's happens😢
Wow,, found that u talking literally about me😮..am actually going to work on this attitude of rewards for work
I have my 'off day' on Monday😅 The weekend is never enough, plus I feel like prioritising myself early in the week keeps me motivated to get through the week.
Lets start normalizing:
1 Accepting that internet addiction is a thing_ many of us use it to cope with or avoid dealing with certain issues
2. Keeping abusive family members at bay_ block, cut contact, reduce interaction, e.t.c. blood is not thicker than water, and sharing blood with someone doesnt mean they get a pass for being horrible to you
4. Filling our own cup/ doing something for ourselves_ many of us put kids, spouses, jobs and business first and ourselves last_ make yourself a priority too. You have vacation days at work but like the worker of the year that you are, and because you think work wont go on without you there, you havent used them, meet your friends every once in a while, get a facial, e.t.c. your family and work will benefit from you taking care of yourself and being energized and healthy.
5. Find ways to make your life easier_ get a washing machine or dishwasher, get a nanny/ housekeeper, get an assistant for your business, if you can afford. There is no oscar award for being overworked and tired. It also isnt a proof of strength or hardwork. Outsource where you can.
Thankyou you grace
i love Lydia’s outfit
how it blends with the back ground
Ever since I started having the difficult conversations I haven't been in my own head for a while...... like things are crystal clear now
Let's normalize not seeing other people like they don't think if we become successful before them. There's time for everything
Wanjiru you and I should talk Kwa ile tent we follow same people same conversations
Let's normalize genuine friendships/ relationships without ulterior motives...
So in love with you ladies! Fantastic conversation as always.
I LOVE what you both said about the opinions we carry and separating them from the person. You are allowed to have vastly different opinions from people you love and continue loving them outside of the conversation. It doesn't have to be a fight. There doesn't have to be a winner. YOUR VIEW DOESN'T MAKE YOU YOU! And it can change tomorrow! So let's discuss, share what we think and then keep it moving please.
I second Lydia on the point where we need to normalize being selective about who we parent with. Everything is harder with kids. The partner needs to be exquisite all round so as to raise the kids well. I was part of the one percent with my first kid. The second was pure planning but unfortunately wrong partner! Doing the single parenting all the way.
I laughed so hard when Muringi said, " we are supposed to do it together. Be in unhappy marriages. Have children and be unhappy and tired". THE WHOLE LOT OF US😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
It reminded me of a time I was called for a 'meeting' by some female colleagues, who were asking, what I was working so hard for. Why get a masters degree and promotion at work and yet I have no husband or children at 34yrs. I was sooo confused coz they were both in horrible situations and everyone knew about their terrible marriages.
Kumbe it's an unspoken female contract 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wise quote, "Misery recruits company."
Joans makeup is always on point
So on point!!👌
Wow, I am literally witnessing Murugi change on this podcast. She has mentioned two points so far that she was obsessively against. Well done Jo. Amazing. You are definitely unlocking versions of yourself that you did not know exist.
Growth is a beautiful thing❤
Let's normalize accepting that ,there days that you are not up on your game ,and on those days sweerie it is okay to just exist 😊.
"Was he shorter than you"
"We were dancing. It was a dance"
Lyd pllllleeeeaassseee😭😭😂
The dancer 😂
Let's normalize moving on without closure. Are you going back to his house because you want closure or because you're hoping for some 😶
😅 Closure has some D tied inbetween. I've been there😅
We should normalize relationships where the woman is older.
We can but If she has a good past
I think its difficult for people to accept someone living a different way because there is this toxic belief that we should all abide by a template that was created by culture and society. Stepping outside the template is not seen as freedom or normal but as disorder.
👏... then those of us who choose to go against the grain shall own & wear those "disorders" unapologetically.
"If u're comfortable in the confines of the cages u've chosen for yaself, it's gonna bother u that I am free. " Lydia K.M
@murugi and @lydia could not relate how much of therapists they freely are to TMI fam 😅❤. Therapy involving talking your burden to smn and getting that harsh truth or that response that compromises your comfort, all served by these gurus❤. Hugs
Let's start normalizing being in happy romantic relationship. I just realized a lot of people are in unhappy relationship and they are stuck there. if you are not happy get out.
Lyd did you just say go with your hunging thong to church 😂😂😂😂😂🙌
Anyway, let's normalise celebrating our wins loudly no matter how small hii maneno ya move in silence when you win, all those who wanted see you win will not be envious when you make it loud! Nothing should stop you from celebrating as long as you have the right people around you.
All ladies who we are dating/married to short men let's gather here ❤❤❤. They're deserving of love too.
Yes queen short men are men too please😅.They deserve all good things❤
@@tmipodcastkeyes they're men, just not for me. They are deserving of love, just not from me. I respect them as human beings but my heart has refused to normalize them as romantic partners
@@shammahnzaana214 it's alright, do you
@Shammahnzaana214😂😂😂😂 the refusal though ❤
Lets normalize celebrating every small win...be your own cheerleader.
This is going to be fire🔥....ebu I will listen to it nikiwa Kwa jam on my way home 😂this girls are becoming addictive ❤I just can't stop🛑myself😅.
Oh. I loved this episode so much! You hit the nail on the head just with your irst point: we need to start normalizing changing our minds! That blew my mind right away! Thank you ladies for creating this space for us🤗
Please let people live life the way they want.....thank you Murugi. Let's normalize accepting that happiness is personal. ...what's makes me happy does not have to make you happy.
Jo got herself a tall husband and now is leading the "short kings matter" movement.... You only say that because you got yourself a tall man. Let us get our tall men too first then we can join this short men matter movement 😂
Good luck. Your competing for only about 20% of total available tall men(meaning u also have to in the about 20% of hot gals they want). Of the 20% tall guyz, a good number are not your type in other various aspects besides height!
Pls😅😅😅😅
@@royalusala8527😂😂😂 you must be short then
@@royalusala8527 let me just hope for the best 😔
Change is key🥂
Your conversations are making such a positive difference may the blessings I pray you reach you.thank you.yes to therapy.
Gurlllll it was bomb for sureeeeeee 🎉🎉🎉❤❤loved every moment of the live experience..also the pictures we had wooooow
for me it's Murugi saying how she's attracted to these men yet she's married
I wanna feel liberated when married like you dear
Yeeees guys.
I am honestly tired of having to be a mind reader. Like if I do sth that annoys you and you don't tell me; how am I supposed to know you're not ok with it. Make it easy for the both of us and say sth
👏 THAT! Use your words, that's why u learnt the ABCs, no one is clairvoyant.
@@magalienia6958 RIGHT??
Love that green couch😍what a BEAUTY!!!!😍
Thank you for speaking on behalf of short men ladies normalise respecting men standards the way we respect yours they have nothing to do with Mistgony
You guys have set the bar too high… C for consistency👍🏻 Live experience was fireeeeeee… congratulations queens👍🏻
Thank you so much 🤗
I can't believe it's Murugi saying let's normalize small penis'...Lydia has done the work!🤣🤣🤣love it!😍👏🏼
Maybe unpopular opinion: metrosexual is a bs term men felt they had to come up with to be a clean human being without being deemed "gay"/effeminate. Normalize men not having to measure themselves so much to worry about having their manhood questioned because they have a clean house and a full skincare routine (or cry)
I didn't even know the term metrosexual term existed. Thank you for that. Now that I do, I definitely agree that men should be free to do things traditionally associated with women or homosexual men without having to justify their heterosexuality.
Exactly.... Don't hold me to any opinions I've had. I change every second❤
The fits and the couch are niniing!! I love it 😍😍😍
Let's normalise living a life of contentment
😅😅😅😅this was super fun to watch. This video should literally be a PSA🤭🤭🤭
Definitely TMIIII 🎶💃🏿.Live Experience hoyeee🎉🔥. Hapo kwa THERAPY it should be the norm now. Mwanaume si kuparara😅. Keeping it 💯👏🏾. #WCW❤
I’m in the States rn and you people literally get me out of bed 🥱 to go to work. Like omg 😃it’s Wednesday! I don’t have to snooze my alarm !!! That’s the level of addiction I have for you ❤❤❤
I will make it my job to write a comment on every video that pls pls release merch.thank u
Thank you so much darling❤,we've heard your Merch requests and don't worry we gatchu stay tunned.
Let normalize being honest but not in a brutal way...
brutal honesty
Let’s normalize that lipstick on you Lyd..❤❤❤❤❤
Yes yes let’s normalize it
looove love this episode. enjoy the rest of the week ladies
😊
Not me here setting off in high GEAR with excess laughters at Murugi’s statement😂😂😂
I watch our episodes and for real i'm too funny😂
@@tmipodcastke U always make my days. Even on those dull days when I feel like I need an energizer, at least I go and re-watch an episode.🤣😅😅Kudos babes🤗🤗lots of love always from 🇺🇬. The Pearl of Africa💖
This is a petition for Lydia to drop 'Jane'. It gets personal every time🙆.
I suggest Paloma😊
Then she goes after 'njoroge down the road'
@@janenjoroge4682 not a Jane Njoroge! 😂 I'm sorry sis😅.
Favorite episode 💯❤
Great episode. Many laughs 😂😂.
Continue to church with your thong hanging out Jane😅. I love your conversations always, they are soo empowering, keep up with the good work ❤.
I need to be self aware like these ladies damn❤.You guys are emotional intelligence
Imagine the person you’d telling amegain weight has a mirror in his/her house 😂 let’s start normalizing not commenting on people’s body 😊
TMI Wednesdays ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love you guys
Lets normalise putting people's IG handles....niko hapa looking for sammy country sounds 😂😂😂😂😂. This episode is bomb. Love from melb
Giiirrrrll😂unashout,but we have been tagging them on our IG handle check them out.
I love this episode ❤
"Not long just like him"😂😂😂😂😂😂Murugi, time outttt!!!
😂😂😂😂This one is fireeee😂😂😂
I love you guys and your team wagotee saana have a lovely week
Awww love the intro😍
The new intro is amaaaaazzziiiiiing
Could @tmi come for a shoot like the one they do in nairobi in mombasa. We really need that too and heh ntawapromote please ... Otherwise amazing content guys i love it
Murugi therapy is working and it shows. You are kinder to Men😂. Lyd umesahau lets normalize queefing😊.
Hello ladies, you look lovely. I was talking to my boyfriend and he said the therapy only works on women and not men! That the average African man can move on well regardless the depression etc.
What do you think? Is it really true that a black African man doesn't need therapy
Not really just like any other self improvement process you have to be intentional and want to learn,unlearn and basically open your mind to it.This notion on African men not needing therapy or help with there issue's is an example of stereotypes we have to move away from.Kwanza if anything they might need it more looking at the recent s**c*de cases affecting our men.So no men need therapy and it works for them the same way it works for us the only difference is women find it easier to open up and talk about it.
This is so amazing
Eli was just chilling 😂😂😂😂
Gang 🎉it's definitely TMI.....this will be lit❤love you guys
As expected ❤
You know the vibes already 🎉🎉
Start normalizing short men, this got me wooh
Am working on that
One step at a time darling one step at a time😅😅
Let's normalize giving people space for peace of mind ❤
Lets normalize having warm conversations instead of cold arguments ❤
let's normalize believing all of us have different paths but same goals❤ we should also normalize having healthy breakups...
Thank you for that
Earthy tones❤, i especially love the green on Lydia. As usual, a thought provoking conversation.
Let's normalize snoring...for those who snore...complaining about it doesn't help anyone😅
I love you guyss
Lets normalise asking for help when stranded
People should normalise that childfree people like us don't want to get kids
We are many .... normalise that child free pple are OK without kids....❤
Lakini you two are so hilarious 😂
lets normalize accepting other people's laughter😀