Womanhood | The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly- Ep 86
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- Опубліковано 7 бер 2023
- It's International Women's day👭🏽, and although women deserve to be celebrated every day, we are really happy to have a day just for us. 🤗
In this episode, we're talking about all the amazing (and not-so-amazing🙄) things that come with being a woman. so feel free to add your pointers in the comment section below👇🏽!
Remember to flex a little today sis💪🏼! You totally deserve to.
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King betweener here since episode 1. One thing I love about women, is the wisdom that comes from them. Every time I need advice it's my mom, my sister, girl bestie.. just women. And I love that ❤️
We love the sisterhood community 😊 It can’t compare to anything else
Happy International Women's Day. As a childfree woman ,I feel you, Murugi. The childfree content, to my opinion, I think people have blown it out of context sai nikama competition btwn childfree and motherhood. I love my sisters kids to death even with all the tantrums, but deep down motherhood on a daily basis is not just for me. It should never be this or that, but celebrating each woman in their journey of womanhood.
And there’s nothing wrong with feeling this way hun❤️
Happy International Women's Day to all the amazing Queenbetweeners and all women out there!
As a man, I would like to take a moment to recognize and appreciate the incredible gift of awareness that so many women possess and generously share with those around them. In my personal experience, the women in my life have been the most important pillars of my support system and have taught me so much about emotional intelligence and mental enlightenment.
I have learned that the way women interpret and experience the world is unique and invaluable, and their feedback and perspective have been instrumental in helping me grow as a person. Whether it's gaining insights into my own behavior or understanding the experiences of others, women have a way of opening our eyes and helping us see things in a new light.
I am grateful for the way that women bring a sense of community, time, and progression towards something clear, and how they are able to grant men the perspective of a lady. This is perhaps one of the best gifts from women to humanity - the ability to wake men up from subconscious sleep and bring a greater level of awareness to our interactions and relationships.
Thank you to all the wonderful women out there for sharing your experiences and continuing to inspire and enlighten us. Happy International Women's Day!
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Thank you for your kind words and thoughtful message in honor of International Women's Day! It's always heartening to hear from men who recognize and appreciate the important contributions and perspectives of women.💯💯
Thank you
Very empowering message
You are welcome, Queenbetweener@@maggydavia930. 😊
Interesting Fact about Men and having kids at an old age. Men's age plays a bigger role on reproduction than most people know; for instance the genetics carried by Sperm are the dominant contributers to building the placenta. So if he's older, or unfit , or doesn't live a healthy lifestyle this could affect the quality of the placenta and stability of the pregnancy. Also sperm from older men has been linked to higher rates of deformities, heart problems, Autism, ADHD e.t.c. Don't let this scare anyone off babies of course at any age, but it's always good to be aware.
Thank you very much for this
Indeed. Today, more and more sperm banks are placing the sperm donor age to be 18-45, as men see a 52% decrease in fertility rate by the time they get to 40-45...
...with men 45 or older taking more than two years to conceive and when they do, it comes with increased risk of pregnancy complications and the child developing neurocognitive disorders, seeing sperm quality parameters (count, mobility, morphology and DNA fragmentation) are changing with age... lifestyle, eh.
Older african men have been giving birth for ages now. To healthy children...science and too much wokeness smh
@@didiash Biology and Science don't care about your fight or your sensitivity to wokeness. If youre angry about the facts go fight a doctor or a scientist please. Mimi sitaki makasiriko.
@@didiash Alot has changed in time, from the food we eat even lifestyle I bet that's a greater contributor to the research and science now.
As a gentleman in my very early 20s who is very emotional and with a high EQ, I find it so hard to fit in to the standards men have set for themselves. We are not allowed to express our emotions at all because we are judged harshly. However, my high EQ has also enabled me to stand out in areas where I can express myself better. I would say most women have a certain double standard about emotional men, in that, you want your man to be emotionally aware but at the same time judge him for being too emotional. Emotion is powerful. Men should be allowed to feel. We are not made of rock. We cry. We hurt. We are human. Thanks for elevating this conversation TMI. Enjoyed this.
100%. Most people think that being an emotional person means you're always crying when actually being emotional means you are in touch with your emotions..You allow yourself to feel and able to decipher how your feelings are affecting your thoughts and actions and then you know how to respond or deal with those emotions. That's the difference between someone who gets angry and punches a wall and someone who gets angry and knows how to address that in therapy, journaling or any other way. Everyone should desire to be in touch with their emotions tbh and be more emotionally intelligent
💯 nice @Victor George @Brian Thomas
Being in touch with your emotions is such an attractive trait because there's level of maturity that can only be tapped into when you are that vulnerable
@@the.victorgeorge agree with you 100%. THANKS.
@@tmipodcastkeExactly. Thank you TMI.
The best thing that I ever chose is being a QUEENBETWEENER. Happy women's day Lyd and Murugi💖💖
This women are very intentional with their friendship and i love that for them.
We love you too
Not Murugi imitating Milly wa Jesus ''hi rav"😄😄😄
Happy international women’s day to all of us. Some good advice for Lydia since I can see she is as scared as I was about child birth and the extreme pain, I had medicated vaginal birth and it was the best thing that ever happened to me. Got to the hospital I was 4 cm dilated and I could handle the contraction all through. Then when I got to 5 cm, I was given pethidine, it's a pain reliever and it helped me sleep, When I got to 6cm, I was given an epidural and it changed the whole ball game of my contractions, I had no pain at all. Just pressure when contractions came. Within 20 minutes of getting the epidural I was at 10cm and ready to push my baby. I gave birth to a handsome baby boy with no drama. So this whole pain that comes with child birth is something I see or hear on tv didn't experience it.
Thanks for sharing. Did you have this done in Kenya? Do you mind sharing the hospital name?
It's sad that we don't always get to know the full extent of the effects that childbirth and motherhood have on women. We're happy you had a safe delivery
@@victoria_njeru yes i got it in Kenya at Nairobi hospital.
Thank you❣at least somebody wished me happy women day ...Happy Womens day to you two you are amazing🥰... keep up with the content it means a lot to some of us..👏👏
Thank you for your message and for celebrating the incredible women in our lives. Happy International Women's Day! The way that women build communities and work towards progress is something that should be celebrated and valued. Women have a natural ability to connect with others and work towards common goals, which is a crucial skill in any setting. #positivefeminism💢💯
I recently saw a TikTok of four girlfriends who got married. It wasn't anything romantic, they read friendship vows to each other, got friendship bracelets, all that jazz🥰. It was the most beautiful thing I've seen this year to be fair. Female friendships are so beautiful and pure with the right people.
Happy women's day to all you beautiful women, these two queens especially👑❤️
the series insecure also potrays friendship so well, i loved it. i love and treasure the sisterhood.
This is so beautiful❤️
Happy international women's day!!!!!I'm late but I wanted to say i have been enjoying this podcast ...I just joined the group/chat this year n I'm loving it here
Are we all gonna ignore that Murugi has seen Lydia's prettie Vj😂😂😂 that was too funny yoo🤣🤣🤣
Aziii
That's not a big deal😂😭😭.. I've seen my best friend and she has seen mine😂😂 it's normal
@@mochechenyanchama4330 alaaar 😂
Haven't you seen your friends'? I thought that was normal?
@@mochechenyanchama4330 aiya for real!
I'm a Kenyan who moved to Australia 6 years ago and just discovered your content na nimejichuna. I'm like 'ona sasa! see what you've been missing!'
but yet again I have 70+ episodes to binge. 🍿 🍿🍿🍿 And you are also on Spotify so I get to listen while I go to work....like what is joy?
WHAT? quality quality content. I love how you guys are world friendly and also LGBTQ friendly. *Clapping hands* keep it up girls 🫶
Mko na merch? Sijui muanze merch? Number one buyer ✋
Get comfortable because you have a lot to catch up on😂
Thank you for making it into the Inbetweener community❤️ Yes, we have merch. Follow us on socials @tmipodcastke and tap the link in bio to find out more!
Murugi’s expression In admiration of Lydia’s miss v 🙈🙈🙈🙈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Happy Women's day. This has been a fun episode. Thank you ladies
Its definitely TMIIII 🎶💃🏿😄. Celebrating you Lyd and Murugi #WCW❤️ and Queen betweeners, Happy Women's Day💐💐🎉🎉❣️.
I think part of the aggressiveness of childfree women comes from social conditioning. We have been brought up believing every woman must be a mother. Now you choose not to and when you tell people as much they make you feel like you have to defend yourself,and defend your choice. I love kids,so so much. I just don't want to have them around all the time among other reasons. The make up part, I noticed how on you tube almost all women have Makeup and men seem to have so little
Valid point
It's comical when women who have kids feel/get offended that another woman doesn't want kids... it's like how dare u disrupt the status quo & not put ya womb to work.
Simple answer...#Choices
Live & Let Live!
@@magalienia6958 that's my philosophy. Live and let live
Happy Women's day,Tuned in for the Wednesday dose😍
Happy international women’s day to all women especially those who get motivation to dare to do anything from this channel.
I started a UA-cam channel from the motivation I got from these 2 phenomenal women. I love you Joan and Lydia
We love you too❤️
Such a beautiful gift on Women's day
Happy women's day TMI team 💙 you consistently show up every week and that's amazing, feel appreciated 😊
Thank you so much❤️
Today's Topic- Perfect 🥰. I love being a modern woman. I guess this is the best time for us not only being a Women but experiencing it in every way possible compared to our Grandmothers💜 .
I had to laugh at the part where Murugi mentioned women sexuality 🤣. This is because a Catholic priest ( ama wanaitwa fathers ✝️) visited his sister. We started talking about Religion and Confessions Embarrassed 🙈 . That's when he Confessed to us ( his sister too) that he doesn't judge Homosexuality/ Lesbianism BUT he finds it so cute when he imagines two women loving each other. As for men his words are unprintable 🤣
Yeyyyy, just what I needed for Women's dayyy🥳🥳🥳❤️❤️❤️🎊🎊🎊
Happy international women's day ladies. Lydia, that dress is gorgeous on you. (I got the dress plug as I watched the video - Epiphany)
Even with all the troubles, how I love being a woman! I'm so glad I exist in this universe as a female being❤️
Lydia"you kissed njoroge" 🤣🤣🤣 really love this podcast
We really hold nothing back!🤣
Oh I love this podcast so much!
Happy international women's day
Happy international women's day queen betweeners ❤️❤️
18:00 I literally felt it when Joan was saying how that child free babe was scrolling through over 250 points. 🥰🤣🤣she really doesn't want kids at all costs.
Happy women's day queen betweeners☺️ you are phenomenal 😘
Thank you so much 🤗
I love that as a woman, I’m allowed to change my mind😁on anything!! Love it here
Happy women's day❤
Loved the conversation, every birthday celebration my mind always reminds me of my biological clock smhw, for hormones stuff I Def love the ovulation period ooh the good feelings and the energy ooh it's amazing.
Happy Women's Day Inbetweeners !!!!
You too!!❤️
Woooow am the first today. Happy women's day gals. You are such an inspiration.
Thank you for your kind words ❤️
Happy women's day
Gosh these bebs are heavenly ..am becoming constantly attached to this chanel....educative and very self awekening ❤️❤️❤️
we absolutely love hearing this❤️
Happy International Women's Day 🎉🎉🎉
Right on time.🤗💘
Yes you are!
Gosh. Been waiting for so long. 😂😆
I always look forward to Wednesdays. Happy IWD 💜
Hope you enjoyed it!
My first time commenting simply because I enjoyed the conversation.keep it up we love you
Yay! Thank you!❤️
It's murugi defining lyds vag for me 😂😂😂😂u bebs are super raw and authentic ❤️❤️
Besties know everything about each other!
Happy international Women's day to all Queenbetweeners here
I really enjoyed this episode. I used to hate being a woman. I believe God slapped me with the wrong genitals when I was conceived. I always knew men had it easier. They don't do house chores women have to do all the house chores ..and this dynamic really bothered me because I have one brother and I could see how he got away with not doing any chores and I on the other hand laboured intensively.
I met a woman 2 years ago who embodied womanhood in such a fantastic way and that really changed ( for the better) how I viewed womanhood.
It’s sad that external factors (valid though) make most of us women hate being women. We hope that you don’t let all that noise distract you from the fact that you are amazing😂
When Lydia says, ' What a Harlot?' funniest thing today!🤣🤣🤣
Somebody call Comedy Central because the masses love us!
I look forward to every Wednesday bc of this beautiful Icons ❤️.
Yay! Thank you!
The thing about men not having a community once they retire and grow old is 💯 their own fault like Murugi said. My Dad is retired and is a grandpa to so many kids and let me tell you, Babu is always the star of our home, not even my mum(who is still very much loved). He is so beloved by his grandkids and it's because of the intentional work he puts into loving his family and always checking up and being present and concerned.
when you said about how we have divine bodies, makes me believe that maybe God is a woman. must be, with that kind of art.
We definitely believe so too!
Happy Women’s day to all the amazing women in this comments section. Lyd and Jo you know you have my heart ❤️
Let’s keep at it, we are women
We are strong
And we are empowered ❤
Same to you!
Happy women's day ladies 💓💓
You too!!
Happy women’s day to us women🥳, on another note I feel unsafe only when am in Kenya sad that that’s where i should be free n safe as it’s my home😢
It's sad that you feel that way and its even more sad that we relate
So now we are letting men cry alot of tears with no sounds😅😅😅😅,,,happy women's day queen betweeners
I can't deal! Njoroge was a just chilling then boom!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Njoroge needs to stay alert
Jo 😂😂😂😂 your face after you said you could be a 55 year old woman changing a tampon…love you two. Happy Women’s Day fellow Queenbetweeners 😊
At least it ends soon😂
I love that you two incredible women exist 😘😘😘😘😘😘
This is so beautiful to hear ❤️
Love you guysss cant wait for the interview with makena njeri
We are super excited for you to see it!🤗
aki mimi. I'm laughing here with how they are talking about men crying. Love you gals.
Happy women's day ♀🌹👩
Love you guys
We love you too!
Happy international women's day to all queenbetweeners 🥰🥰
Same to you
You Queens look gorgeous 🔥🥺❤️as usuallll, my daily source of inspiration and motivation🏆🤲
Thank you so much!!
Alwaysss🥰
Murugi had me on the floor with the milly mimic"hi raaavv"🤣🤭
Being a Queenbetweener is beautiful
Happy international women's Day to you lovely ladies
Thank you! You too!
I LOVE THE CHEMISTRY BETWEEN YOU GUYS,,I REALLY LOVE WATCHING YOU. .SPEAKING OF THAT, HOW DID MURUGI KNOW HOW LYDIA'S VIRGINA LOOKS LIKE
Am curious too😂
Everyone is asking this question 😂
Hope Lydia finds a good man she can have the kids she’s dreamt of soon
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Looking good ladies
Thank you!
Happy women's Day queens 🫶❤️
Murugi's expression at minute 51:30 had me on the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
I'm unapologetically childfree by choice! No little monsters...LOL
And there's nothing wrong with that❤️
Happy women's day loves❤️❤️❤️
Same to you
I loved parenting content when I was child-free.
What happened afterwards? 😂
Hey pretty ladies😍😍
Hey hey
Not the ring light lmaaaoooo 😂😂😂😂😂
Happy women's day to you both❤️❤️ you guys are amazing keep it up.
Now we all want to see Lyd's cute vaj 🙈
You're crazyyyyyy 😂
This can’t be the conversation we are having 😂😂
Murugi point ikishika anavuta miwa🤣🤣"sssssssssssss"
I am among the first people
The end!😂😂
I love my period days ,I feel sooo aligned ,I feel so well recharged and energetic after shedding 🌳🌳🌳
I don like.,...nooo
You are rare! If menses was removed from the equation 😫
Must be nice 😂... the rest of us just want to die during menses
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I can't have a man who cries like dom on perfect match😂😭😭
Njoroge was Just chilling 😂😂😂
On the topic of kids...I think people need to answer that question for themselves. WHY DO YOU WANT KIDS? Most people don't know why...it's not just a kid. It's a whole human that would contribute to this world and you as the mom has a major part to play in how that human evolves on this earth. So think of that before you embark on that journey.
Because we want to procreate. We want to see ourselves in our children. No greater love than that you feel for your child
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@Lydia...Chelsea was being sarcastic...it was not a serious video...
Happy International Women's Day inbetweeners....
Happy International Women’s Day to you too
Not me understanding what Lydia is saying concerning child birth....I am student in nursing and my first time in labor ward changed everything for me!Women are such strong humans!!💜
it's an experience that just can't be put into words.❤️
Am the first one here 🥰🥰
Congratulations!!!
There is not a single TMI episode that I haven't watched
I too...we shd be rewarded
Same here🎉❤❤❤😊
The biological clock puts us on a pedestal for sure. Happy International Women's Day ladies
But is it a good thing?
@@tmipodcastke Not at all. Some times all one wants is to live life without all the pressure. And to know that the biological clock is sort of beyond our control is painful.
I love being a woman too ☺️
Jo how did you see lyds Vag am curious 😊
Lol me too🤣
Me too
Maybe they went waxing together
51:34 😂😂😂😂gosh Murugi! Your imagination is wild😅
😁
Dom on perfect match was just chilling 😂.
Dom needs to straighten up 😂
Not njoroge😂😂
Joan 😂😂ati hi rove 😅😅
Happy IWD but can we talk about Lyd with Njoroge 🤣🤣🤣
Lyd and Njoroge are a whole other episode!
Bafoon was just chilling then lyd remembered 🙄🤣🤣🤣
U lazy buffoon🤣🤣🤣