Off The Record: Erik Griffin Gives Everyone Relationship Advice!

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  • @Chany14
    @Chany14 5 років тому +372

    Blink twice Casey 👀

    • @meemee-nj9rl
      @meemee-nj9rl 5 років тому +11

      How can he? He's already dead without even knowing it. A walking bank account

    • @OG20001
      @OG20001 5 років тому +1

      Lmao

  • @Andjun5174
    @Andjun5174 5 років тому +158

    Never thought I would watch a 22-minute video about relationships without being in a relationship

  • @cactusnopal4991
    @cactusnopal4991 5 років тому +141

    This episode could’ve gone on for way longer and I would’ve been here for it, really good conversation

  • @navyblue76
    @navyblue76 5 років тому +156

    Tiff needs to learn to let go of her resentment towards Casey. I'm not saying Casey hasn't done anything wrong, but it's pretty evident that she is a very emotional person who holds onto bad feelings and has a hard time letting go. Honeymoon phase has passed for these two and the true test of their relationship will depend on whether or not they can see past through each others flaws (and baggage) and not hold on to resentment, especially over mundane things, like Erik was talking about.

    • @yams.4308
      @yams.4308 5 років тому

      navyblue76
      Tell me? What’s the resentment from?

    • @JassonLemus2
      @JassonLemus2 5 років тому +3

      @@yams.4308 why are you defending them so much

    • @yams.4308
      @yams.4308 5 років тому +1

      boof's2cents
      I’m not THAT sad.

  • @sarisolbajoelsol
    @sarisolbajoelsol 5 років тому +104

    It’s like Tiff always has something to be mad at Casey for and she always manages to plug it into the episode and shade him. Poor Casey.

  • @xteamxsupremex
    @xteamxsupremex 5 років тому +268

    I feel like tiff is the girl who thinks “ if you love me you would change for me” and its not wrong. But she also doesn’t realize its lowkey controlling and if she feels that way she truly isn’t accepting Casey for who he really is. Shes letting the minor negatives weigh out the major positives. Best of luck though hope everything works out.

    • @Isaac-ul8yz
      @Isaac-ul8yz 5 років тому +14

      You shouldn't be in a relationship trying to change someone or expecting that person will change you.

    • @mr.puppycat9019
      @mr.puppycat9019 5 років тому

      Teamsupreme on your sentence when you say "you feel like Tiff is the girl who thinks " if you love me you would change for me " and that it's not wrong . But actually it is wrong to say that to your relationship Partner that you love .and I dont think she would say that to him yes she could be a little Controlling at times in her life but I dont think she would say that to Casey . I bet in this video they learn more about themselves and be more open with each other . There were some moments in this video made me laugh when Tiff was yelling YEAH YEAH at Casey and I was like dam what Huh. And Griffin man hes good yeah some of the things he said are dam true in relationships problems some of them I agree . But dam that's way to much money his girlfriend is buying some Expensive shoes ahah .

    • @xteamxsupremex
      @xteamxsupremex 5 років тому

      Mr. PuppyCat
      nope its not wrong to say that, nor is it wrong to think it. You probably dont know this because u are lonely and never been in a relationship but guess what? Its actually healthy to fight! And in the example i stated before it still holds truth to a certain extent. For example If you smoke cigarettes and ur s/o wants u to stop bc of health reasons and bc they care about you it is still a valid reason for them to think or say that. Its up to you to make the choice to stop or not but every action comes with a reaction. (Aka dont be suprised she leaves yo ass for a halthier nigga) It all depends on the situation, i was just stating that from this video and previous ones thats what it feels like since she seems shes holding onto some resentment. Shes also talked about some of their issues online saying that she does indeed have a little issue with letting things go.
      so u lowkey make no sense and speak as if u know tiff and case? Wtf is “i dont think she would say that” ??? Stop holding people on a pedestal or to ur own standard. We are all people and people aren’t perfect.

    • @mr.puppycat9019
      @mr.puppycat9019 5 років тому

      @@xteamxsupremex it is worng to say that . Even the other 1 Commenter that Commented your text say the same thing and I agree with that person. You can't tell a person to change for you if you love them . What made you want to be with that person and why are they together in the frist place? I did had relationship in past. And so if she did leave with someone else that ok I can fine someone better than her all I could say to her if she did leave me good luck and my god be with her . Tiff and Casey are doing to be ok teamsupreme they can work things out and yeah fights . Relationship fights are healthy but there is a point to don't take it to far in a fight and your Metaphor . Your "idea of me " that I was Smoking was sweet but I never smoke a day in me life I know those things could kill me slowly each day if I touch them but if the Apocalypse ever hit our way of life or earth well yeah sure y not

    • @xteamxsupremex
      @xteamxsupremex 5 років тому +1

      Mr. PuppyCat
      nope its still not wrong to say it. Its called communication. If ur partner dont feel comfortable with something they have the right to tell you. And its up to you to adjust and face the natural reaction to whatever the situation is. Welcome to the real world where nobody HAS to be with you, both ways(plenty of other girls and guys). If u had any real game you would know. And idk what in the fuck ur even saying bc ur grammar dont make no sense, u sound crazy. I suggest you re read what i stated and read it SLOWLY, think it through. It seems ur either really young or you think u know shit but u really dont.
      And for that reason ur out.
      I rest my case.

  • @betterffd
    @betterffd 5 років тому +291

    Daaaamn. NOBODY agreed with Tiff at the end. 😅

    • @xBigD527x
      @xBigD527x 5 років тому +33

      Because its just another way where Tiff can be right so she doesn't have to admit she is in the wrong.

    • @OG20001
      @OG20001 5 років тому

      Lmaooo

    • @JordanReedYT
      @JordanReedYT 5 років тому

      better.øff'd
      They didn’t disagree, they just said not every situation is the same.

  • @SSoul0
    @SSoul0 5 років тому +556

    Not gonna lie, i really feel bad for Casey sometimes lol

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +11

      Bart too Geo keeps deleting my comment cause she knows I’m right
      IN MY VERY THOUGHT OUT OPINION (but it’s probably facts) it is that serious because at face value you are just making your woman happy and making a relationship work a little more smoothly but in the long run when you have a country full of weak men that is how Mao Hitler and Stalin come into power and we end up as slaves and in concentration camps being gassed to death and cremated.
      (In my factual opinion based on history and psychology)

    • @JuQui228
      @JuQui228 5 років тому +21

      cr1m1nalspeed gio doesn’t run the channel though. It’s Jess.

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +18

      asd fgh Lol are you a moron? Geo does EVERYTHING for Bart. If she could she would lift the weights for him too but he wouldn’t gain any muscle that way.

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +1

      j qui Okay well Jess did it but even then it’s the same shit

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +2

      asd fgh Well you have a problem with the phrase “your woman” because you would have preferred me to have said “all women” (right there is proof that you are a part of the problem. Second most of the time women learn from and mimic what men do but the underlying issues are that women do not have integrity honor self-disciple etc etc to the degree that males do. Men have more ability to create balance in the world.
      Look at how the country is right now?
      A few years ago women gays and blacks had more power than they have ever had but the morality of our society was turning into dog shit. What did that bring? The weights swung ALL THE WAY in the other direction and now we have Trump as the form of the backlash. It’s not all to do with Trump and his dictator like ways. Trump was a message from the rest of the population that is ready to whoop some bastard asses!

  • @sayusaymee7722
    @sayusaymee7722 5 років тому +423

    Erik is really a mature man beyond the jokes and bits, he's really talking real shyt. Guys take heed.

    • @chowmane9584
      @chowmane9584 5 років тому +8

      Nah

    • @melissayes3161
      @melissayes3161 5 років тому +2

      thought u said guys take head i was like Yes!

    • @OG20001
      @OG20001 5 років тому +3

      1st top comment that is not about tiff and casey

  • @seeavi8426
    @seeavi8426 5 років тому +66

    Run Casey, >>> RUN

    • @nomad9871
      @nomad9871 5 років тому +7

      He can run, but he can't hide. He's married. Also known as a walking dead.

  • @TurstMe4
    @TurstMe4 5 років тому +35

    No kidding. The fact that Tiff has a kid and Casey gives them love, care and attention to both is huge. Dont forget to step back every day and look at the bigger picture of your life, Tiff.
    I'm sorry Casey. We all are.. because all we see is snippets, but those snippets are...well sad.

    • @B0ngl3r
      @B0ngl3r 4 роки тому +2

      Lmfao who are you? Why are you giving them life advice over a comment. Mind your own life lol so weird these comments, lofe you know them lol

  • @chiapet2595
    @chiapet2595 5 років тому +344

    Damn I feel like Tiff and Case are the ones who needs this the most lol

    • @meemee-nj9rl
      @meemee-nj9rl 5 років тому +41

      No amount of advice is gonna help in this case. Casey is doomed.

    • @nibiruthecat7652
      @nibiruthecat7652 5 років тому +9

      @@Invizzabul yeah, but look how that ended lol

    • @technicalmachine1671
      @technicalmachine1671 5 років тому +6

      Steve needs to step in again

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +5

      Technical Machine Yeah but the difference is that Steve doesn’t want to bang Tiff

    • @amichelle5862
      @amichelle5862 5 років тому

      cr1m1nalspeed am i missing something

  • @AstarionWifey
    @AstarionWifey 5 років тому +314

    Casey fight back for once jeez 😂😂😂

    • @jonne4555
      @jonne4555 5 років тому +2

      @@UncleAlpha1 what

    • @tee9040
      @tee9040 5 років тому +26

      It’s so true, I know some of you will say “but you don’t even know them” etc, which Is true. however in the latest jkn ep about being introverts etc, they even stated that Casey doesn’t like confrontation at all, hence why he’s submissive and tiff “seems” as if she’s “controlling”

    • @erich6640
      @erich6640 5 років тому +7

      Casey is a b*tch

    • @Nhleko9303
      @Nhleko9303 5 років тому +13

      Eric H Stfu

    • @MaggieRoo0
      @MaggieRoo0 5 років тому +10

      The worst a man can do is let the wife emasculate them. By not speaking up and confronting the the situation head on a woman can see that as weak and not have respect for the man

  • @valloyola
    @valloyola 5 років тому +182

    Eric has the patience of a saint.

    • @genesiscarl4065
      @genesiscarl4065 3 роки тому

      i guess Im asking the wrong place but does someone know a tool to get back into an instagram account??
      I somehow forgot the account password. I appreciate any help you can give me!

    • @nikolaiaarav3032
      @nikolaiaarav3032 3 роки тому

      @Genesis Carl instablaster =)

  • @xBigD527x
    @xBigD527x 5 років тому +331

    Tiffs face when ever they talk about relationships just makes me think she has to be difficult to be with.

    • @yams.4308
      @yams.4308 5 років тому +14

      xBigD527x
      Or Casey’s hard to deal with...

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому +55

      @@yams.4308 why you defending her so badly? Half of the problems she talks about during relationship videos are about her getting mad. Casey's hard to deal with? LOL Everyone from JK knows he's a quiet guy. Tiff was ratchet as fk back in the day. 90% of the comment on this video are in support of Casey...and then there's you

    • @angelr1549
      @angelr1549 5 років тому +22

      PROJECT REMEDY I’m not defending tiff but you seem really passionate on their relationship considering the fact that you only know them through UA-cam videos....

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому +12

      @@angelr1549 No, I just like to instigate stuff LOL. But also I have always been slightly annoyed by Tiff. She's cool and hardworking and all, but she has always been easily triggered. Back when she replaced Julia, people called her triggany or something + she used to always talk about things that coincide with her line of thinking so it was pretty biased.

    • @makkaucbkia9640
      @makkaucbkia9640 5 років тому +1

      Yeah I’m sure it’s always one person’s fault.

  • @LOLTASM1
    @LOLTASM1 5 років тому +531

    Tiff really makes it seem like she's never done anything wrong in her relationship and it's all casey's fault

    •  5 років тому

      😊😂

    • @Meelameels
      @Meelameels 5 років тому +37

      Albert C this is based on what you’ve seen through a camera. You don’t know the dude to say this nor have u lived with him. A lot of people *seem* perfect until you actually get to know them

    • @mefilmmaking
      @mefilmmaking 5 років тому +1

      *woman trait (lol jk)

    • @wtf1231122
      @wtf1231122 5 років тому +16

      Its called: beta male. When 2 betas get together, one had to.assume the dominant role.
      Casey has already mentioned that he gets pushed around by his significant other in previous relationships, so this one is the same.
      What's happening is that we are seeing tiffany assuming the dominant role, and like most women betas, they dont know how to act when they have that responsibilit.

    • @XanhDT89
      @XanhDT89 5 років тому +5

      Tiff has mentioned she plays the victim.

  • @naomieadair5635
    @naomieadair5635 5 років тому +68

    @9;55...I really think that Bart had an epiphany. The look on his face made it seem that he was ACTUALLY processing what Eric was saying. I think at the end of the day, he wants to be the TOTAL OPPOSITE of his parents. Bring a long time fan of JK, had led me to believe that Bart is probably traumatized by his childhood 😔 I commend him for trying to end the cycle. He actively tries to be present and mindful in his home life.

  • @doggindr1
    @doggindr1 5 років тому +16

    If your in a relationship and you find yourself rolling your eyes WHENEVER your partner talks.
    BE CAREFUL, you are resentful and when one of you becomes resentful the relationship is in serious trouble.

  • @tendaisimbanegavi519
    @tendaisimbanegavi519 5 років тому +24

    I personally don't think anybody should be anyone's punching bag. David once said that when his wife is angry that its ok be so...but that it's her responsibility to take time to herself and release that anger and to not direct it towards David. After she has calmed they would talk about it as opposed to having a yelling match where people say things they shouldn't cause they're angry and frustrated.

    • @redscul129
      @redscul129 5 років тому

      actually you should combine the two points "is not good to be a punching bag for nobody, but, both sides have to be in the moment of crazyness and learn to deal with it so both sides can grow together"

    • @Babodae
      @Babodae 5 років тому +1

      Something thats hard is guys want to walk about it right away and girls just want time to just get their thoughts together rather than just yelling out of emotion

    • @rubyaceves5122
      @rubyaceves5122 5 років тому +1

      Bethany Hernandez yes this. I’ve told my husband time and time again. I need space FIRST, then I’ll go to you and talk about it. I mainly do it because I don’t want to say something hurtful that I may regret later. I want to calm down and just “review” my feelings before actually speaking. Is that really that hard to do? Give us space, instead of poking at us to talk. That just makes you want to blow up in their face.

    • @redscul129
      @redscul129 5 років тому

      well my point was and is, if you wanna relax alone cool but go to source and be better by helping to understand each other

    • @tendaisimbanegavi519
      @tendaisimbanegavi519 5 років тому

      @@redscul129 Of course...one needs to be resiliant and put an effort into it...but...that isn't an excuse to abuse your spouse. If you can't talk to your S/O with out verbally/emotionally/physically attacking them you shouldn't talk to them yet...wait. Nobody deserves to be hurt just because their partner is upset

  • @aiwili2bh
    @aiwili2bh 5 років тому +249

    When ever they talk about their relationships, Tiff always comes out looking bad because she always throws shade at Casey but she never says anything about her. As if she is perfect and Casey needs to change.
    Again, that's how it seems, not saying that it's a fact.

  • @tyeljackson2124
    @tyeljackson2124 5 років тому +13

    I like it when the platform is relationships & self help/love. Gr8 discussions.

  • @AndyHongFJ
    @AndyHongFJ 5 років тому +17

    Joe said it best at the end. Feel like Tiff should take their advices... lol

  • @GunzGot5
    @GunzGot5 5 років тому +146

    Tiff has too much baggage for a guy like Casey. Her issues run deep .

  • @maryelleee7112
    @maryelleee7112 5 років тому +256

    I need a story about tiff and Casey because the way she calls him out and looks at him when someone says something about relationship problems or solutions. I hope they’re ok and will stay happy without that problems.

    • @maryelleee7112
      @maryelleee7112 5 років тому

      ^much

    • @zakt6418
      @zakt6418 5 років тому +81

      Casey is stuck in that relationship because of their friend group and Isaac loves Casey too much I feel bad for him tiff is to toxic

    • @mO-gy8ee
      @mO-gy8ee 5 років тому +92

      Ever time tiff burns Casey on camera she should say 5 nice things about him on camera

    • @forgetit411
      @forgetit411 5 років тому +16

      @@mO-gy8ee that is hard. She barely say good thing about him on camera

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому +12

      @@zakt6418 you can tell she kinda CRAZYYYY. I mean she did have a kid at like 17 or something right?

  • @bs4e
    @bs4e 5 років тому +146

    Is tiffany always mad at casey? I just want to know what's wrong!?!?! Im so nosy

    • @meemee-nj9rl
      @meemee-nj9rl 5 років тому +18

      Only while she's awake. When asleep she's an angel 😂

  • @yarelybanuelos1004
    @yarelybanuelos1004 5 років тому +159

    It's ok to tell the girl (or guy) that shes wrong. Idk why they're acting like you have to tip toe and kiss their ass, even if what they're doing isn't right. That's just dumb

    • @tendaisimbanegavi519
      @tendaisimbanegavi519 5 років тому +29

      Its important to be with someone who knows how to be called out on their shit. Communication is key but many people find it very difficult to tell their loved ones things they think will hurt their feelings so they bottle it up till they explode and actually do damage

    • @TrillShvt
      @TrillShvt 5 років тому +6

      We live in the age of communication and no one wants to actually communicate..... lol

    • @_Maxten
      @_Maxten 5 років тому +1

      thats the happy wife happy life theory

    • @H2Opink
      @H2Opink 5 років тому +16

      They said address the situation and then let it go. It wasn’t about being right or wrong. it was about staying angry. Anger leads to resentment.
      So if you’re the one getting called out on your BS, instead of retaliation, you listen, state your point and move on.
      If you’re calling your partner out. You state your point and move on.

    • @tendaisimbanegavi519
      @tendaisimbanegavi519 5 років тому +3

      @@OhGeeGanksta which couldn't be father from being wrong. Attacking some one because you're upset and they are close to you is abuse right? Nobody deserved to be yelled at like a belligerent child, not even *BIG STRONG MEN*

  • @rebekabalogh2321
    @rebekabalogh2321 5 років тому +85

    send Casey on a trip by himself he deserves it at this point lol 😅😅

  • @underline4191
    @underline4191 5 років тому +7

    Sometimes roughness is a good reality check for a high maintenance partner otherwise being too of a nice guy/girl will doom you in the wrong run, a healthy relationship is when both partners are willing to sacrifice, forget and forgive while not being too negligent or sweating the small stuff which is hard when ego is in the way ( being rough doesn't mean violent btw ).

  • @Kingcaru
    @Kingcaru 5 років тому +139

    I'm getting tired of Tiff acting like she never messes up at all.

    • @mysticstrikeforce5957
      @mysticstrikeforce5957 5 років тому +23

      That's why her baby dady isn't there and someone else has to pick up the mess.

    • @xteamxsupremex
      @xteamxsupremex 5 років тому +4

      MysticStrike ForceSSJ3 thats not even right wtf. her babydady was just not the one for her. Prolly didnt get HIS shit together and tiff just did what was best for her and issac

    • @contraasss
      @contraasss 5 років тому

      @@jasenrock her baby daddy was like in his early, mid twenties while she was 17/18 and he wanted a kid to match up with his ex.

    • @OG20001
      @OG20001 5 років тому +2

      And she gave herself a trip to bora bora😂

  • @Jaayhussle
    @Jaayhussle 5 років тому +153

    Poor casey, tiff must be a handful

  • @KasheYan15
    @KasheYan15 5 років тому +65

    Damn.. I feel bad for Casey.. the way tiff thinks.. and after everyone disagreed she wasn’t interested in what they were saying

    • @mysticstrikeforce5957
      @mysticstrikeforce5957 5 років тому +12

      And yet casey is taking care of her kid so that should defeat all arguments.

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc 5 років тому +1

      @@mysticstrikeforce5957 lol no

    • @nomad9871
      @nomad9871 5 років тому +1

      I don't. He totally deserves it if he can tolerate this lunatic

  • @ShesBeyondBeauty
    @ShesBeyondBeauty 5 років тому +125

    Everyone’s relationship in this table is not perfect, but at the end of the day they still show affirmation of love. Tiff and Casey is different though, I haven’t heard tiff show affirmation of how much she loves Casey & thankful for him.

    • @dannysanchez4383
      @dannysanchez4383 5 років тому +22

      Maybe they do that behind close doors. Some people don’t like that. My mom and dad have been married for like 35+ years and they don’t really show that out in public

    • @jnm2088
      @jnm2088 5 років тому +12

      Danny Sanchez the amount of time you have been married has nothing to do with the quality of the marriage.

    • @yams.4308
      @yams.4308 5 років тому +8

      Luna yung
      They have to do it on camera?

    • @sephron17
      @sephron17 5 років тому +12

      go check out her personal channel, she does, it's just Casey is always behind the camera for these things

    • @dannysanchez4383
      @dannysanchez4383 5 років тому +1

      Jenlagen no but it definitely shows the time and commitment they’ve put in. And I was just giving an example of for that long amount of time they’ve gone w/o being pda

  • @vincentle3954
    @vincentle3954 5 років тому +260

    Listening to Tiffany react to Eric's advice just shows me she doesn't think shes wrong about anything.. Notice how everyone jokes but admits their faults, TIffany will only deflect it to Casey.. poor guy

    • @ozcar7552
      @ozcar7552 5 років тому +73

      She's got too much baggage and he's too good for her honestly.

    • @MrChaoslich
      @MrChaoslich 5 років тому +9

      Amen to that brother !

    • @zakt6418
      @zakt6418 5 років тому +26

      I here you I mean sometimes I want to like her because she’s an og but sometimes she thinks to highly of herself and I feel bad for Casey and Isaac

    • @sayusaymee7722
      @sayusaymee7722 5 років тому +47

      You guys are confusing "thinks highly of herself" with having her walls up because of her childhood and past relationships. Don't pass judgement when you haven't walked in her shoes or know the full story. No one sitting up there is perfect, everyone there including y'all have your own baggage to sort....so stop worrying about hers.

    • @bigbrownrooster4167
      @bigbrownrooster4167 5 років тому +3

      @@sayusaymee7722 amen brotha, sometimes we let that baggage out without even knowing

  • @ChrystaalLoovee
    @ChrystaalLoovee 5 років тому +321

    Damn Tiffany is always mad at Casey for something. But Casey’s so chill and nice. I feel tiff has too much baggage and she’s constantly thinking she’s in the right. It’s not up to someone else to make you happy (hence why forgiveness and letting go is interpersonal)

    • @ShogunThomsen
      @ShogunThomsen 5 років тому +24

      Meh, I think you're projecting. She said nothing about Casey.

    • @aiwili2bh
      @aiwili2bh 5 років тому +27

      Foodoholic Check arround 2:40. For about a minute or two, she implies that Casey is the one that messes up. She doesn't say anything about herself

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому +19

      @@ShogunThomsen mEh i ThInK yOuRe PrOjeCtInG!!!!! LMFAO STFU YOU CLOWN. READ HOW MANY COMMENTS ARE SAYING THE SAME SHIT HAHA

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 5 років тому +16

      Looool apparently your in their marriage

    • @trueful146
      @trueful146 5 років тому +9

      @@ProjectRemedy16 oh yeah because random teenagers on the internet would know more about some grown adult theyve never met relationship

  • @rafardzrba
    @rafardzrba 5 років тому +10

    I like how Mr. Potato is an actual real life character.

  • @good_to_be_gold8
    @good_to_be_gold8 5 років тому +50

    Why do I feel Casey's always at fault lol. Poor man

  • @richardlee5486
    @richardlee5486 5 років тому +49

    Here I thought Erik was just a comedian funny man, he’s actually got some deep advice

  • @booklover466
    @booklover466 5 років тому +346

    Tiff and Casey might need a good amount of couples counseling. She seems like she thinks she’s always right and doesn’t fault herself in somethings like the other are willing to do 👀😬

    • @xXThatOneChannelXx
      @xXThatOneChannelXx 5 років тому +46

      Randomly found ooof you shouldn’t insert your commentary into someone else’s marriage. You are not apart of their marriage, you don’t know what they fight about or who’s “right” or “wrong”; therefore you shouldn’t comment.

    • @MA12K0
      @MA12K0 5 років тому +28

      Preach.. poor Casey

    • @berky1012
      @berky1012 5 років тому +5

      i thought tiff said they went or going to couples counseling in another vid

    • @moonlightrouge3956
      @moonlightrouge3956 5 років тому +17

      @@xXThatOneChannelXx yeah don't comment about stuff they talk about in the video

    • @AstarionWifey
      @AstarionWifey 5 років тому +2

      Randomly found they’ve been going lol

  • @burrito4422
    @burrito4422 5 років тому +39

    Poor Casey, dealing with disrespect and having to help raise a child that's not his. he should jump ship now b4 it gets worse

    • @annou1256
      @annou1256 5 років тому +19

      Don't forget he's the one cooking too 😭

    • @annou1256
      @annou1256 5 років тому +1

      @Albert C Then Joe wonders why Asian men are so emasculated 😏

  • @voravincii
    @voravincii 5 років тому +10

    20:00 This is where the crew disagreed with Tiff

  • @imasha9086
    @imasha9086 5 років тому +157

    Are Tiff and Casey ever in a good place 😂😂

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому +28

      Nope! Not to blame her or anything but she got lots of...inner conflicts she should try to find peace with. Having sex with a pillow over Casey's face? Past trauma from previous relationships? Like it's understandable but if Casey has been doing right for a long time, I think she should stop holding things against him.

    • @KyddAzor
      @KyddAzor 5 років тому +6

      PROJECT REMEDY - I always wondered what the fuck the pillow thing was. I guess I had missed that episode of Ask the Feels or whatever.

    • @ProjectRemedy16
      @ProjectRemedy16 5 років тому

      @@KyddAzor Yeah back then I forget what was the reason, but for a few months of their relationship, she forced him to have sex in the dark/with pillow so he can't see her.

    • @franciscocollazo9056
      @franciscocollazo9056 5 років тому

      PROJECT REMEDY I remember one episode Tiff said she kept her ex’s ring.

    • @meizhen2265
      @meizhen2265 5 років тому +8

      @@KyddAzor if I recall correctly, she simply was just insecure of being looked at while on top of him 😅 (not sure if it stems from past trauma though). I dont know why some JK fans are obsessed with bringing that up constantly cause it's not a big deal and it doesnt even happen anymore. 🤷‍♀️
      (kinda weird to keep butting in their sex life like that 😅)

  • @Dells16
    @Dells16 5 років тому +65

    Damn Tiff needs to realize that no it's not Casey's job to recognize and acknowledge what he did wrong so she can forgive.... Wth... He, from past jkn episodes, has openly said he doesn't realize what he does wrong and then notices she's mad.... She needs to learn how to forgive and he needs to learn how to acknowledge what he has done to upset her but forgiveness is not about someone else being deserving of forgiveness it's about knowing they may/may not deserve it but you love them so you're willing to look past what has happened and focus on love over resentment

    • @tee9040
      @tee9040 5 років тому +6

      Finally I’ve found a true subscriber, most people defending tiff are quite new to JK and don’t understand this has BEEN an issue.

    • @Meelameels
      @Meelameels 5 років тому +1

      I think that’s all fine but eventually it all builds up. And u keep seeing the same thing happening over and over. After that point it’s important for that person to realize what they’ve done wrong and work on it so it doesn’t keep happening. And that goes for both parties. You can’t just move on that easily

    • @OG20001
      @OG20001 5 років тому

      Right

    • @teatime9810
      @teatime9810 4 роки тому

      @@tee9040 yah... no one is defending Tiff man. But whatever issues they have. It's on them to acknowledge it with each other and work on it together. We, as fans or viewers of the channel don't know jack shit to even give advice to them. Even if you're an OG viewer. ... then again most people who've been watching JK know and understand the cast and crew quite well to not pass ill informed judgments.

  • @zinniasegura7508
    @zinniasegura7508 5 років тому +8

    Honestly, even though I'm a woman and in general we think with emotions+logic rather than just logic like men, I still don't think it's okay for a guy to be an emotional punching bag, or for him to automatically understand when something is wrong. We need to be more straightforward with each other and if he doesn't get it sometimes, that's okay.

  • @natyki
    @natyki 5 років тому +21

    I really enjoyed this segment. I see it from both sides honestly. Though I do hope Tiff and Casey are okay. It seems that what ever is hurting them individually and as a whole together has been going on quite some time. I know we are outsiders looking in, but I'm just hoping for the best for them and giving my support to all JK Fams.

  • @nomad9871
    @nomad9871 5 років тому +114

    Makes you wonder why Steve won't do the same favor for Casey as he did with Joe. Please help him dude, otherwise he's done

    • @seeavi8426
      @seeavi8426 5 років тому +45

      The comments he made in nikki's vlogs certainly show he's well aware of Casey's situations. Maybe he's already working on it.

    • @jxditthh
      @jxditthh 5 років тому +4

      Ser Avi steve the homie

    • @eltina21
      @eltina21 5 років тому +1

      @@seeavi8426 what comments?

    • @seeavi8426
      @seeavi8426 5 років тому +4

      @@eltina21 Watch nikki's vlogmas videos. Listen carefully what Steve is saying about Casey.

    • @joshschoof8733
      @joshschoof8733 5 років тому +3

      @@seeavi8426 which episode and it's this year, right?

  • @crystaljanedario
    @crystaljanedario 5 років тому +4

    Please bring back Ask the Feels or something similar to it! Erik Griffin, and possibly his girlfriend, should definitely be in it. I watch most of your videos on all of your guys channels, and I can honestly say, I really think you guys are good humans. Thank you for putting out great content!

  • @MaggieRoo0
    @MaggieRoo0 5 років тому +7

    This man spitting some knowledge here. Ladies and gentlemen please take note.

  • @Bull66th
    @Bull66th 5 років тому +37

    11:26
    Steve: "Mine's a brat"
    Erik Griffin: "Yeah they're just brat, so you know what you do?"
    Steve: "What?"
    Erik Griffin: "You got to say that"
    STEVE GREENE: "Take 'em to daycare?"
    FOR FCUK SAKE STEVE HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

  • @ashleyoreads
    @ashleyoreads 5 років тому +21

    People in the comments: we have no idea what tiff is talking about. whether we try to bring up comments either of them have made in videos-it still isnt their whole life. They still have their own struggles we dont see. We see more of tiff than casey so its easy to think tiff is the "wrong" one, we see more of her and he just seems "chill." BUT WE KNOW NOTHING. I wish them the best, they can work through things and grow-if they share more -great! But we will not get her or him to share more when we attack her for being "controlling" or resentful, we just gotta support them as fans. we can give advice tho-respectfully.

  • @sw8carbon
    @sw8carbon 5 років тому +50

    in the example Erik gave about the guy being the punching bag and stating that its your role in the relastionship. The girls agreed like its ok to treat the guy like that. I think you should question if those kinds of actions are even ok and should be endured by someone you are with...

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 5 років тому +16

      That will happen for both sides in a long relationship mate

    • @stetsongray5355
      @stetsongray5355 5 років тому +5

      You know case isn’t gonna say anything

    • @user-du7it1xn2g
      @user-du7it1xn2g 5 років тому +1

      Salma Abdullah yeah but only one side will claim it was all the guy and not the girl

    • @sw8carbon
      @sw8carbon 5 років тому +3

      @@stetsongray5355 Implying case has an issue and an issue with keeping quite. I think its a bit fucked that he has to remain quite because its not worth the abuse that would come from defending his point.
      Some might see it as a bit far, but you wouldnt tell a typical example of a victim of mental abuse to "just endure it"...

    • @mayvelaz8767
      @mayvelaz8767 5 років тому +8

      Miketech I think he generally means to let them vent it out. Because Steve mentioned being repulsed by it but in reality he thinks maybe he can offer to empathize and help her through it. Not exactly to take a beating or direct anger. It’s easy to take things out of context for some; they’re joking lot of the time.

  • @Enchant314
    @Enchant314 5 років тому +10

    can we talk abt how fresh Joe’s hair was today

  • @Bvvvbvvbbluv
    @Bvvvbvvbbluv 5 років тому +71

    Tiff keeps looking at Casey 😂

    • @annou1256
      @annou1256 5 років тому +3

      When she really needs a mirror to look at herself

  • @bx0183
    @bx0183 5 років тому +20

    I’m glad Tiff is in therapy.

    • @fearMe007
      @fearMe007 5 років тому +5

      @@voszinga7701 Hahaha

  • @LOLTASM1
    @LOLTASM1 5 років тому +46

    I hope Steve frees my boy case like he freed joe

  • @MusicforMe123
    @MusicforMe123 5 років тому +3

    @1:05 Joe just called Erik's wife dumb, then Geo asked is she dumb, then Bart says so she is dumb. Tiff says she is not dumb but can be dumb with fewer brain cells cannot hold onto an argument. Then Steve goes she got this special dumb power. Erik is like what just happened here, I ain't never coming back, these people are dumb.

  • @purplehazee90
    @purplehazee90 5 років тому +6

    more of these relationship videos please! reminds me a bit of 'ask the feels' :(

  • @alexad7821
    @alexad7821 5 років тому +131

    I have a feeling tiff and Casey are going to end up divorcing

    • @patwhw
      @patwhw 5 років тому +64

      I feel Tiff is so sensitive about everything due to a lot of things that happened in her past and seems like she doesn't want to fix that but assume Casey will fix it and will be her punching bag forever.
      Sometime I see tiff as a Karen Facebook mom with the sensitivity and believing everything she hears and reads on the internet 😂

    • @oso3202
      @oso3202 5 років тому +12

      Forsure forsure bruh i give it 3-4 years

    • @forgetit411
      @forgetit411 5 років тому +29

      @@patwhw feel like the group doesnt want to go too hard on her. Cause she going to cry and everyone is going to feel bad.

    • @coldpocket1988
      @coldpocket1988 5 років тому +2

      Fr

    • @Time4tacos02
      @Time4tacos02 5 років тому +2

      I have the feeling too. I also think Casey wants a baby but tiff always finds some excuse that she isn’t ready yet. Then when Isaac gets too old I feel like she wouldn’t even want to try to have another then Casey will get divorce

  • @andromydous
    @andromydous 5 років тому +19

    After 17 years of marriage, the biggest fight we have is when she doesn't realize that it's time to let it go. She gets home and vents about work. That's fine. I want her to do that. Six hours later, or even her off days, she's still talking about it. That anger is still right there at the surface. I keep telling her that it's not healthy for her. I'm a slow burner. I let it build to a point and then I blow my stacks. Which is usually the times where she pulls a fit that doesn't make sense. For example, our son loves pushing her buttons and, at some point, she'll be like "You guys finish grocery shopping. I'm not getting anything to eat. I'm going to the car!" She's only punishing herself and it frustrates me. Her anger is still from what happened at work yesterday, but our son just get throwing gasoline on the fire (mixed with tnt). As far as being angry with each other, it rarely happens, rarely last for more than an hour, and is never brought up again. Don't get me wrong. I'm not perfect by any means. There have been a few times afterwards where I'm like "That was fucking childish of me". But, you have to recognize those moments, deal with it, and move on.

    • @salmaabdullahgb
      @salmaabdullahgb 5 років тому +2

      So she's human?

    • @yams.4308
      @yams.4308 5 років тому +8

      Andromydous
      Some people just vent a lot. My moms like that. I hear her stories over and over.
      Telling them to calm down and not vent is NOT going to help them. For some people it’s unhealthy to NOT vent out their feelings I think.
      I’m sure she would really appreciate it if you listened to her vent as much as possible and engaged with her story.
      Or maybe direct her attention to something else that’s a little more lighthearted. Maybe start telling her about your day or something that might make her laugh or interest her?
      But I wouldn’t recommend telling her to “let it go”. That’s dangerous lol.

    • @TrillShvt
      @TrillShvt 5 років тому +4

      You gotta realize who the person she is, her venting is letting out the stress from work. Sometimes it’s inescapable, we’re human. My mom sits there and vents to me a lot and lol honestly I don’t really care but I listen.thats what u have to do listen and also see what it is she needs to maybe relieve her stress even more so

    • @leyla1827
      @leyla1827 5 років тому +1

      Andromydous wtf, with a mindset like that, y’all not gonna be married much longer

    • @Barbara-ru5yn
      @Barbara-ru5yn 5 років тому

      My husband and I walk in or neighborhood and talk about 1 hours about work problems. I give him and hours to ventilate his problems is working for me 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @adolfgumera
    @adolfgumera 5 років тому +55

    missing Ask the Feels

  • @jordanobrien6787
    @jordanobrien6787 5 років тому +38

    Not quite sure why everyone is hating on Tiff. She barely talked the whole episode and I think she just tries to make people laugh when she glares at Casey like that. We can’t pretend like we know their relationship, meaning we can’t assume Tiff is always at fault. Same with Casey. Let them be.

  • @makanakali7278
    @makanakali7278 5 років тому +1

    Literally had this argument this morning, fought about something dumb then fought about how we talk to each other.

  • @EZee213
    @EZee213 5 років тому +1

    Joe laughing hysterically in the background screams "I'm so fucking glad I'm single!!" lmao

    • @onemai4468
      @onemai4468 5 років тому +2

      Yeah, but he's a total loss.

  • @Fmarce27
    @Fmarce27 5 років тому +2

    I felt that one Geo :( “a lot of guys think they’re buff, but they’re fat” damn :(

  • @wikeida
    @wikeida 5 років тому +19

    Tiffany has to work on her self awareness man. She has a lot of unsolved issues.
    Edit: I like how towards the middle of the video, the girls just got more quiet.

  • @naomieadair5635
    @naomieadair5635 5 років тому +20

    Are Tiff & Case having problems?? 😞
    And on a whole other topic...
    It’s funny that Eric Griffin sounds and looks like he could be Peter Griffin’s brother or something, come to life!😂😭😂😭😂

  • @faucetstudios
    @faucetstudios 4 роки тому +1

    Geo's facial expression 😂 0:28

  • @thescoobymike
    @thescoobymike 5 років тому +3

    Steve: can I learn this power?
    Erik: not from a Bart

  • @GunzGot5
    @GunzGot5 5 років тому +10

    Bobby Lee and Erik Griffin easily the best 2 guest ever. I want them both on at the same time .

  • @ShadowEditss
    @ShadowEditss 5 років тому +2

    everybody out here shitting on Tiff and Casey. One, you guys probably don't even watch Tiff & Case to know how their relationship is. And two, we don't know everything about their relationship because its none of our business. They have said they've gone to therapy and that they're working on their shit so just let them be. Its their life not ours.

  • @lamentspace
    @lamentspace 5 років тому +12

    22 mins of Joe being negative🤣

    • @krndevil313
      @krndevil313 5 років тому +2

      I’m sure Joe understands, he’s just kidding bro chill

  • @babyj8170
    @babyj8170 5 років тому +17

    I love this, a whole 23 minute off the record and wanna know why? Cuz they were actually talking about something they were invested in. That or it was the first one of the day so they probably had more energy lol 😂

  • @bazeballfreak18
    @bazeballfreak18 5 років тому +1

    Erik is the chill uncle at Thanksgiving dinner

  • @TheJProducti0ns
    @TheJProducti0ns 5 років тому +15

    Riffin with Griffinnnnnnn
    WooooOooooOOOOOooo

  • @officialniktheking6891
    @officialniktheking6891 5 років тому +10

    tiff and casey should have never gotten married. they never seemed right for each other. too fast and they should have just been dating for now

  • @shanaallen4507
    @shanaallen4507 5 років тому +4

    Tiff looks so pisssed lol

  • @evk3904
    @evk3904 5 років тому +8

    I love you Tiff, but you need to take a look at your own faults. You act as if though you have none, and always lash out about Casey. I don’t know the ins and outs of your relationship, but for the most part he seems like a pretty nice guy. You guys need therapy big time and you need to also accept your faults because I’m sure all your arguments are not solely Casey’s fault.

  • @KYCN8
    @KYCN8 5 років тому +22

    In a relationship you guys are partners... if something upsets one person, the other should be there to support / listen / comfort. *Both men and women* need to hear “it’s okay we will fix this, we will sort it out” and in Steve’s case sounds like he totally brick walled Nikki and she needed someone to tell her it’s gonna be okay etc 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @NYladyPD1
    @NYladyPD1 5 років тому

    I really enjoyed this episode. If I could like this a million times I would.. Hearing about your relationships are super interesting for me because I’m learning at the same time how to handle my own relationships. It’s super relatable and I love it! Thank you for sharing! 💕 Love u guys!

  • @kyori13
    @kyori13 5 років тому +1

    gota love erik his really entertaining. an bart good question an they down play ur question on the 1st ep for the day!!! that was one of the best ep of off the record!

  • @vanessacabrera2115
    @vanessacabrera2115 5 років тому

    I’m living for these longer videos!!!

  • @VTpieface1029
    @VTpieface1029 5 років тому +1

    Errbody talking about Tiff and Casey and I’m here like...Is Tiff just doing it for the bit? 😂

  • @shinobukouchou680
    @shinobukouchou680 5 років тому +20

    How come people in this comment section knows Tiff’s and Casey’s relationship so well? I didn’t know you all knew them personally. 🤔

    • @coldpocket1988
      @coldpocket1988 5 років тому

      We do

    • @infamouscha
      @infamouscha 5 років тому +3

      People don't, but they try and act like they see 100% of the things in the relationship.

    • @DianaGarcia-lb9dl
      @DianaGarcia-lb9dl 5 років тому +1

      Great comment!

  • @ontherun1957
    @ontherun1957 5 років тому +2

    difference between joe and casey and is that casey takes it in while joe doesnt and that's why his relationship with jess didnt work out. tiff and jess are similar in how they treat casey and joe. the only difference is that casey is more willing to take it.

  • @jeny2021
    @jeny2021 5 років тому +1

    I need 5 hours of this episodes

  • @xDakitoy
    @xDakitoy 5 років тому +2

    Yoooo ask the feels with this guy in it!!

  • @sharshar29
    @sharshar29 5 років тому +9

    Erik to Bart "well see! you have issues"

  • @MrChaoslich
    @MrChaoslich 5 років тому +42

    Damn tiff, the body language, the tension..woah
    And this has been going on for years ...it came up in vlogs and podcasts
    Tiff and case prolly won't last that long maybe 5 10 years max

    • @JuQui228
      @JuQui228 5 років тому +2

      Ghanem Ayoub she could also be cold. It’s “Winter” in California right now and once it hits 60 degrees we act like it’s a blizzard.

    • @MrChaoslich
      @MrChaoslich 5 років тому +3

      @@JuQui228 yeah ...no
      Wanna bet? :3

    • @JuQui228
      @JuQui228 5 років тому +2

      Also that building they are in is basically falling apart I doubt their heating system is even up and running. 😆

    • @MrChaoslich
      @MrChaoslich 5 років тому +2

      @@JuQui228 true true especially with all the holes bart and joe made 😂
      + But look at her face though
      Through all of the episode
      No need to read anything you can feel it

    • @JuQui228
      @JuQui228 5 років тому +1

      Ghanem Ayoub but even Bart has similar body language. They are all bundled up and this off the record is the first ep they recorded that day so it’s cold and it’s early morning. I would just be frozen stiff like tiff. You know how I know? Because it’s 8 am in California right now (where I’m from) and I’m a frozen tired popsicle. Trust me I’m usually here for the tiff and case need help squad but I feel like you are reading too much into it. (This time)

  • @omargurrola1656
    @omargurrola1656 5 років тому +32

    “Guys think they’re buff when they’re really fat” I felt that :(

  • @eeeyee6154
    @eeeyee6154 5 років тому +14

    Don’t bash on Tiff too hard because you don’t know the whole story. She talked about her experience going to couple’s therapy on a BeawCast episode, so at least she is trying to work on these issues.

    • @tee9040
      @tee9040 5 років тому

      The main reason why people keep bashing her is because she’s identified her own personal issues before (from hanging with jk videos to now) but it’s evident that they are still there. So from what we see, it “seems” as if the issue STILL hasn’t been resolved even tho it’s been YEARS since she’s identified them

  • @mehlohday
    @mehlohday 5 років тому +6

    Poor casey

  • @pablingotenciano9606
    @pablingotenciano9606 5 років тому +1

    I need a part 2 of this

  • @theprolificnetwork4670
    @theprolificnetwork4670 5 років тому

    THis is one of my Fav episodes Im actually learning from this Guy.

  • @xlllNIGHTMARElllx
    @xlllNIGHTMARElllx 5 років тому +3

    6:41 JK turns into a black congregation church.

  • @roxannedurand9685
    @roxannedurand9685 5 років тому

    I really enjoyed this! Keep up the good work guys!! To the viewers that are hating on Tiff... I think one of the main reasons we love jk so much is because everyone is real, if you going to be hating, people are going to start holding back. Stop cutting people with your words!

  • @_ciindyyy_
    @_ciindyyy_ 5 років тому +2

    “What is a regular chick.??” “Like a girl that listens.?” I died 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yesipan
    @yesipan 5 років тому +17

    8:40 For this point, I think that women are constantly looking at their appearances because women are always taught they have to look perfect all of the time.

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +1

      IN MY VERY THOUGHT OUT OPINION (but it’s probably facts) it is that serious because at face value you are just making your woman happy and making a relationship work a little more smoothly but in the long run when you have a country full of weak men that is how Mao Hitler and Stalin come into power and we end up as slaves and in concentration camps being gassed to death and cremated.
      (In my factual opinion based on history and psychology)

    • @trueful146
      @trueful146 5 років тому +4

      @@Cr1m1nalspeed_1 you had me in the first half and then you just went off the fucking rails

    • @annou1256
      @annou1256 5 років тому +3

      Taught by whom? The holy spirit?

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +1

      trueful146 It’s happened already lol That’s how crazy it is that it sounds like I fell off the rails but I provided examples from the past.

    • @Cr1m1nalspeed_1
      @Cr1m1nalspeed_1 5 років тому +1

      An Nou Taught by their mothers to feel insecure. It’s like that part from the movie mean girls when they ask the girl if she thinks that she’s pretty during lunch time

  • @Hooooojioo
    @Hooooojioo 5 років тому +62

    Thank You Erik Sensei

  • @Msdeanna.angela
    @Msdeanna.angela 5 років тому +3

    If men had to deal with even half of the hormones and symptoms we get on a daily they would be “crazy” and emotional too LOL

  • @alexiscormier4059
    @alexiscormier4059 5 років тому +2

    Let the man of wisdom speak!

  • @kevinsom8713
    @kevinsom8713 5 років тому +3

    The fuck is wrong with Tiff? Poor Casey.