BUYERS's Remorse: When BREAD LOSERS Attack!
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Chloe: "The reality is most women will interact with men on the level of their self-esteem" 🥂 That part!!!
Sadly true. I'm just now coming to terms with that, and I must say it's the right timing because the year is almost over and I left that dead weight exactly where I found it😄.
I realized this a few years ago and now I’m trying to understand why my self esteem was so low. 😢
This line has hit me the hardest. It is so true. Now, that I know this....I realize where I need to work on in my levelig up journey.
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Hello!!
There has literally never been a happy ending for marrying/dating down especially for black women
Nope non whatsoever
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THIS!!!!! I have never, in my entire life, seen a bw happy, thriving and glowing in health and spirit when she dates and marries DOWN.
Ladies: SPARE yourself the misery and struggle, please please please. My heart is sore from seeing this over and over and over
I have seen black women in my own family marry down and it never has worked out. Never. They die early as well in these relationships.
Exactly!!! Never 👎🏾 EVER NEVER 👎🏾 🤕
It’s so important for us black women to not only date men who can financially take care of us, but as well as emotionally, psychologically, physically, and spiritually. Prayers for KeKe ❤
And to realize that it’s ok NOT to be in a real. So many women end up in this situation because they can’t cope with being alone. To me, being alone will always feel better than tolerating abused just to say you have a man. We put up so much just to be in the presence of a man and it seldom seems worth it.
**the average male is a pred@tor.** women should avoid males when possible. they are not suited for healthy romantic relationships.
Money isn't everything sometimes you have to work your way up.
No female should face any stress human are only female talerat males
Humans are the only females that tolerate males. As human beings they potential to become men the opposite of males. Males have no value as females you don't even need males
It’s becoming safer to just stay single. I’m sorry, but in this day and age, my biological clock isn’t ticking loud enough for me to risk my life to have a man.
I swear!!! I even took out the clock batteries 🍵👀💯 #Peace
Amen!
Girl was literally just thinking this earlier. If they aren’t abusive they’re liars, cheaters, and gaslighters.
Amen!!
you aint never lied
As a very private person myself, I HATE this for Keke- that this dusty has her in the toxic blogs more times this year than ever in her lengthy career.
She will be fine. It's a hard lesson learned
@@TondaniRaluswingaexactly
Yes me too. things are not always fine it's called being dragged through the mud. i want to acknowledge that for her it means something to be acknowledged that you've been dragged through the mud it really does sometimes you need that emotional support.
Ikr my heart goes out to her❤
I knew it was serious when her mother spoke out because I've never seen her before.
Keke did what so many women do. Take care of a man thinking he'll be grateful, faithful and return the favor, but that rarely works out. He definitely looked at her as desperate, which is why he felt comfortable disrespecting her. Lesson learnt.
Very well said!
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I also think it was pre-planned I think he wanted a acting career and seeing that his career wasn't picking up in the industry and so he started hanging around women that were in the industry and rather make one and then my baby mom and that this is something that his brother did as well both of him and his brother both got domestic violence issues both their careers did not take off in Hollywood as much as their baby moms did not only is he a opportunist now that I'm looking at all the photos of the voice messages the more it looks planned out.
@@pausedforcyberbullying_ yep
We think they're like women who are naturally kind and cooperative. I work with mostly men because I am in construction and engineering and they are extremely angry, ego driven and flat-out selfish.
This Keke Palmer situation is a literal representation of why hypergamy is needed for balance in relationships. I hate this for Keke and hopes that she heals and levels up her dating choices. If Ciara did, so can she. 🙏🏽❤
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South Park Panda Verse is crazy but I'm on her side & her momma side
"Most women operate and deal with men at the level of their self-esteem...and only when our self-esteem is raised is when our choices and decision making is improved" ...now that's a good take back ❤
Most species don't even have males
@@RussianBot-dc6qgHuh?
This is why we should never get with the guy who can “only pay the light bill” a chance. This is what that life with that kind of man looks like. If he’s not bussin’ you upside the head, then he’s psychologically, emotionally abusing. They’re jealous.
That’s why you know Tyler Perry really don’t give af about black women for real because we all know those men will grow to HATE that woman & will take it out on her every chance they can. It’s a recipe for disaster every single time.
Facts!
“Bread loser” 😂 at first I thought it was a typo because he also is a “bred loser” 🤭
Women not just black women but women: please learn from this. Learn from Keke’s situation. And Learn from Britney Spears and Amy Winehouse.
Humans are the only females that tolerate males
Yeah junkies
I turn 27 in 6 days. That you for this much needed video! I’m ready to walk into my late twenties surrounded by love, success and in the spirit of recieveing all that I deserve.
Happy early birthday! 🥰💓
Happy early birthday 🥳
Happy Birthday sis! 🎂🥳🎉
Awe, thank you all! 🥹🦂
Stay ahead of the game sis 🎉 I wish I knew this in my 20s
I love that you mentioned The Crown,it’s a great show and shows the power dynamics when a woman has the upper hand and the male ego is threatened.
Runs to Netflix! My bff has been trying to get me to watch this for years
Her child's dust mite father sounds like he intentionally preys on women who he can abuse and use for his own self interests!! I wish KeKe could refund and erase this entire situation. His family sounds like a bunch of toxic, unhealthy abusers.
Women who are highly successful and well resourced would be better off to go to a sperm bank or adopt a baby or small child. It's less stressful than being attached to an abusive person for the rest of your life. I pray for Keke and her family's continued safety. 😞😞
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Dating a financially and emotionally stable man is the most healthiest medium for a woman, in my personal opinion I find these qualities in a man much older than me who’s now matured and experienced.
why I don't date men under 33...by 33 a man is who he is and will not change. I have no hope that he will "grow up" he's done growing . if he's not mature, I lose interest.
See we need to talk about how keke was trying to sell this relationship standard to us too
Sitting on her podcast talking about pay attention to the character and not just his money while he was beating her
Then went and got his birthday tattooed
That's dangerous
Very. So disappointed when she tattooed his bday on her body. However it was giving trying to save the relationship by all means necessary.
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Oh I had no idea
I watched that interview yesterday. Women like her are detrimental to black women, especially young black women, and she should NOT be giving relationship advice to anyone.
Oh this is very horrible. I wonder why she did something like that. Trying to deceive her female listeners into thinking that she's practising what she's preaching meanwhile she was with a male that lacks character.
Well, she tried. Hopefully, she learned too and will do better next time. 🌻
I feel for Keke and applaud her for finding the courage to protect herself and her child. I had to learn a similar lesson the hard way a few years ago, and sometimes that's just how we learn. I dated a man child and abusive man and thought my love for him would be enough to make things better in our relationship. I had to end it for my own sanity and safety. I wish I had ended it sooner, but I'm glad that I walked away child free.
The time doesn't matter, what's important is you go away and are not tied to him in any way.
Thank you for not victim blaming her. I see too many bloggers blaming the victims of abuse for not choosing better and it’s sad.. cause why kick someone when they are already down.
That point you made about Steve Harvey not being able to set up Lori with a billionaire really made sense. Wishing Keke all the best.
Yes, at some point people have to admit that Hypergamy will require a lot of discernment and comfort with being single because the amount of QUALITY high earning men just isn’t abundant. Not saying anyone should settle but a lot of women need to be disciplined and learn to be ok being alone in the meantime.
I remember that video! And I thought, “Wow. Keke Palmer must be on another level to turn down Steve Harvey’s offer to set her up with a billionaire.” I was so surprised when I learned that she was dating and then became pregnant with this man. I thought, “Oh well, she went down the road that many successful, unhealed women do.” Now, to see these DV claims is both a surprise and not at all surprising. Women really do dare at the level of their self-esteem sigh.
Don't rush relationships. It takes time to figure out if a man is defective. If he's the real deal.. He's not going anywhere. But, I have noticed that toxic males will accelerate a union to trap and tie you to them.. Hoping you won't be able to find a way out.
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they rush moving in or a baby
I'm sorry this happened to Keke. She should consider getting into some therapy to deal with her self-esteem issues. This man is unhinged and an opportunist; he made his last girlfriend terminate her pregnancy just before he got with Keke. I hope she doesn't end up paying him for the next 18 years. This is a cautionary tale for women who think that if they marry a less accomplished man, he'll be loyal and grateful. I've seen it with some of my friends who've tried to build men up; their egos get bruised, and they become jealous, insecure, and abusive.
My aunt is in an abusive relationship with a dusty. He’s isolated her from the family and she barely talks to us. I fear that he will k1ll her. And it’s sucks that the only thing I can think to do is pray for her. Abusive men suck
If you are a Christian, I will advise you use "O Lord show me mercy " by Pastor Jerry eze to pray for her 😢
Maybe suggest to her some abuse hotlines she can call if she ever needs help? There are lots of resources. Please type “how to help someone in domestic violence” into google
@@sadraolaedo4733 thank you. I appreciate the suggestion. Will read it for her
@@sadraolaedo4733 or go to Zion Prayer Outreach Movement ( The Night of Open heaven).
This makes me scared for Nicki Minaj I pray she’s not dealing with this behind closed doors
Today I was meditating and I said I'm so worried about Nicki. I know she is wealthy and all but, I feel such sorry and sadness.
@@Markaisthereal3478 same 💔🙏🏽
I mean her husband already has sexual abuse and other assault charges right? And nicki grew up with a father who burned her childhood house to the ground? I think it’s a given that the man is likely physically violent
Why didn't the police arrest him????
Fortunately she is still young and can bounce back. Stay away from “pretty” men
He’s not even pretty.
It’s the SONG at the end for me ! 🤣🤣”Hell naw! To the naw naw!” 🤭🤣😂
SHES TOO GORGEOUS FOR THIS! BW HEAL FIRST! .EVE WAS SMART!
What has looks got to do with it 😏
Beauty is a tool. She wasted her’s.
I do wonder why her dad has not spoken out like her mom has.,.It was stated in the docs that her dad witnessed some of his behavior..,,
Best take on Keke’s situation. You handled this with grace. Thank you Chloe for spitting your knowledge ❤
🥂cheers ladies be safe out there.
I experienced the same thing it ran in his family and his mother was an enabler…this also happened while I was pregnant. I hate hearing other women start abusing a victim of this this is what happened to me I am glad you’re not blaming her.
This pov was very much needed im so tired of reading the I told u so narrative. Especially when everyone tries to be an online psychologist every week but somehow don’t understand the sinister nature of being in abusive relationship.
Notice that the rapper Eve had success but she also married up and they seem to be doing okay
i'd like for it to stay that way for her too
@@marig9236 SAME! I don't like to make any couple relationship goals but I really do wish them the best
Take as much time as you need to heal from the last relationship. Heal until you are whole! Then, if you choose to do so begin to
look for an equal, not a project. You're looking for someone who takes care of themselves and has the capacity to take care of you too. Someone on your level that you can respect and vice versa. Don't fall in love with potential.
My table is SET and yours should be as well. You got to bring something to my table besides a fork and knife!
When you are confident in what you bring to the table, you don't have to beg and chase anyone to sit down and eat!
What category do they belong in? Partner, project, parasite or pond? Putting people in the wrong category will mess your life up! Pain prevention is tied to people being properly placed in your life y'all!! A tolerable level of permanent unhappiness just won't work!!
Yes thank you 👏🏽 Say it louder for the ppl in the back ❤
I was very disgusted at the shaming, blaming, name calling ect.. that came from black women. I say black women bc this story was covered by many and I didn’t see any negative comments from them. My question is did your grandmother, mother, aunt, sister, cousin or friends deserve the abuse? Did you tell them they were stupid? They got what they were looking for? How many of you would say that to them? Many women suffer in silence and don’t come forward. We all know Tina Turner’s story and that’s only because she decided to tell her story. Many women left their abusers when it was shared. I’m happy Keke left and I pray that anyone going through this will have the strength to leave as well.
Thank you for posting this video. DV is real and we have to educate ourselves on healthy and unhealthy men to know the difference. Please go to the police immediately if you are experiencing DV.
The police have been failing us. Ladies, please set up an ESCAPE plan ASAP!
@JukuduB The police helped me when I was r@ped and poisoned by someone that I dated. Having an escape plan and having actual authorities, programs and help through the police is what saved my life.
Cocaine bear behavior 😂😂😂
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Preach! I agree with every single thing that was said in this video, because I too, have been in my masculine energy in previous seasons of my life. Dating men who don’t know their purpose and can’t manage finances will literally drain you.
Dusty Darius 😂😂
Light bill Laruis
Ladies and lurkers, and ear hustlers, welcome!
OAN, Keke's makeup is always on point. I really enjoy her looks. I pray that she stays safe! God is with you!
As someone who used to work with victims of DV, there is so much that goes into the psychological damage inflicted upon a victim long before an abuser ever raises their hand. Her mental was under attack and likely has severe bruises. I’m praying that Keke and everyone who has endured similar trauma heal from all of this and turns their trials into triumphs.
Keke couldn't see the dust on the guy because he is so light....
Poor thang is in for a life of drama....
For the next 20 years for SURE
@Chloe_ I NEVER get tired of your wisdom / advice! Even at the big age of 50!
This is Keke’s canon moment. (Across the Spider Verse reference).
She will be more knowledgeable and refined after this situation is resolved and concluded.
Experiences are the hardest teacher. Please don’t ignore the pink and red flags ladies.
Prayers for Keke and her family.
I'm glad you mentioned that financially well off and accomplished men can also be abusive...many out there...
The titles of your videos are top tier 🔥😂
Don’t date a dude you feel sorry for
Keke Palmer relationship with this guy reminds of my mom and her brother. Her brother is the oldest however he allows my mother to talk to him like trash and he allows my brother to mislead him and treat him like trash. He is highly motivated to do nothing. Last year, my mother wanted me to help get his resume together for a job. I just sent her template to shut her up. Honestly, he should be getting up and doing it himself. My mother has engulfed herself in his personal life so much she was worried about him losing weight but i just left out the room to leave. I dont have time for a man who is motivated for others to do things for them and destroys everything they receive. Men like my mother's brother, I dont trust and I dont want to be in their presence or mines. Trust, its real in these streets, if he ever sees me or the other way around, I am going the other way. Not worth my time.
Mom treats her brother like he's her husband or a baby. It cripples a person when you do a lot for them
I was waiting for a Chloe_ observation!
I am by no means condoning domestic violence. However, I am curious why do these women jump up and have a baby by these men that they do not know? Now another child is in the world with a broken family. Why don't women take the time to learn the man (2 years), get married, and THEN bring a child into the world once you know something about the man?
We are so anxious to have a baby by anybody that we do not realize that a broken and abusive relationship affects the child too!
Seeing how Keke gained so much backlash for the way she dressed around Usher just goes to show how ignorant people could be. I had no idea she was going through this but I also dont understand why some men would bash a women they know nothing about. I'm glad she got out and has full custody of her child. Not all glitter is gold and I hope she finds a man who will love her, value her, protect her, and elevate her more than she already is.
Prime example of what Tyler Perry “advised” us successful black women to setting for-the man that can pay the light bill! Byyyyye Sir!
It’s so counterintuitive. You would think that boss women would only be attracted to powerful men, like actually powerful, emotionally and resource wise. I still don’t understand why it works the opposite way.
I hate how ppl been blaming Keke for this mess it's really sick 🤢🤮 God forbid someone they love ever gets caught up in a toxic relationship smh
Nuture your feminine divine ladies ❤
I LOVE that you mentioned The Crown!!!! New and final season starts tomorrow!!!!
@christinacreates2393 I’m going to start watching this!!!!
Their baby is so cute 🥰,sad Dad doesn’t want to have a nice healthy happy family.
Dusty Darius…..brilliant
I love your channel. You give much need grace to women. I really appreciate that because many UA-camrs are on their high horses.
We love you Keke❤❤❤❤ I literally want to cry for her. Will pray for her and Leo and momma Sharon❤❤❤❤❤❤
That lil baby is his spitting image, too.
Wow! I never thought Keke looked much like Chili until these pictures in this video!
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you Chloe for not subscribing to the I told you so mentality. I am bothered by that mentality as it is very spiteful. We are all human and as you said "pain and lessons can't always be avoided". Life is to be lived and as it is said "we all need to reach the answers to questions by ourselves" - The courage to be disliked book.
I also love your commentary on Steve Harvey/Keke clip. As always you are always naunced.
I have to mind my business on this one.
Experience is the best teacher. Amen!
Chloe, your wisdom is my daily dose of sanity! 🌹 Your grace amidst chaos is my #goals. Darius and Keke need a dose of your charm. Thanks for making stressful situations a tad more bearable with your wit and wisdom. Sending you love and laughter! 💖✨ #ChloeWisdom #FeminineMagic
Love you Keenya!❤️
Great video sis. No lies told.
thank you Chloe. You a big sis
Thank you for your analysis on this ❣
This was great❤ you're right,no time for told you so's,praying Keke remains safe
Love your analysis.
Well said Chloe . Thank you ❤
Prayers to you Keke❤
Great Commentary Chloe 👍🏽❤️💯
This was a damn good video packed with Truth. ❤
Yas ma'am. Everything said was needed.
Thank you for always having a compassionate and balance perspective.
This channel has really built my awareness levels. And to be honest 🎉🎉🎉im so peoud of myself ❤
I had to watch simply because you called him a bread loser 💀
I did the same thing. I had a baby with an abusive boyfriend who never liked staying employed and did everything in his power to control me and degrade me/keep me down. And he was/is extremely jealous of me and has always resented me.
Great Video!...as always...and always learning so much from you Chloe ❤💋
This is the perspective I was looking for ❤
I agree. He's very dangerous. He's always given off zesty vibes anyway and I thought for a minute he was looking for a beard. Allegedly, he's done all three of the of the tactics you mentioned (submissive provider, contacting IG models and offering KeKe's $ to wine and dine, and the PA we've just started hearing about).🤡 Glad you mentioned Steve Harvey. I had forgotten about his famous match-making. In addition to his convo with KeKe, Cynthia Bailey set up, he had claimed credit for matching Shirley Strawberry and her husband together. However, another story about how they actually got together has emerged. Either way, SH proudly gave his seal of approval and walked her down the aisle when she married "Ernesto".
He could be. Who knows what’s going on in his confused mind and thoughts? My theory is that he saw KeKe as an easy target for a come-up, thinking she would remain overcome by his pretty boy looks and his pretend “nice and regular guy” demeanor, then realized she wasn’t gonna be overwhelmed by that stuff forever, especially now that she has a child. And he COULD also like men. Who k owns these days. He needs therapy. ALONE. Stay away from folks until toungetvyourselfbtogether. He does NOT want to be locked up.
love your even prespective on this and your grace. chloe is always the class act and also felt it was good mothering vibes you gave here too.
“BREAD LOSER!”
Chloe could you please make a video on Chantel from 90 Day Fiance? Her own show focused on her divorce just started it’s second season
Yes !! chantel is a classic case
3:45 I was just watching Season 1 & 2 last night… this example is on point! 🏅👑
Keke said she did not want the billionaire because of how they act. Unfortunately, she thought a man with nothing would treat her right and he didnt.
Always Truth Chloe, another SOLID breakdown. You are a gifted Teacher. ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤😂❤🎉❤
Some time ago, When Darius posted a video of Keke all torn down, I knew that he hated her! It was as just a matter of time.
Hello Chloe snd everyone 🖐🏾🖐🏾
The Outro Song 🤣🤣🤣
He was looking for a suga momma and she was looking for love. This is the end result = abu%se
Time to stop being aggressive doormats, ladies. Keke has a father and comes from a two parent household, where is he in all this?
Really? I was assuming she has no Dad in her life or male relatives because even my crazy cousins as much as I get on their nerves will pull up on a mofo if he start jumping crazy. Poor girl, that feeling of being unprotected creates a crazy wound that she’s probably working to fill😢
@@Flowerchild2421 Her dad was mentioned in her court documents. He's right there watching this going on. Darius isn't intimidated by him so that tells me everything I need to know.
not all dads in 2 parent households are worth a damn. I know firsthand.
@@angelika87 Yep because both of them grew up with their dads.
I feel bad for her and the great thing for her is that she has a great career and fan base! Sadly, I had to leave my job to move back home to get away from my abuser. That's a few things Keke has over us. I hope her healing is faster than mine. I'm still depressed and getting over the trauma bond, and I left the abuser 9 months ago.
Excellent commentary.
Not surprised!
Waiiitt let me Steep my teaaa!