How To Become A Stronger Empath
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
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More than the overwhelming experiences of an empath, empathy is a gift and a skill that can be developed for the benefit of yourself and others around you. In this episode, you're about to learn 4 steps to become a stronger empath.
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I dont judge, I FEEL.
It's IMMEDIATE.
Then I observe.
mostly cats 222 yes that's true...I've been doing this and it's helped me later to know I'm right ,wish i could listen to my inner voice more..
It's more normal to feel than it is to think.
Trust heart/gut, and listen to Eckhart tolle on youtube...I have a playlist on my channel.
The younger a person is when they find Eckhart Tolle, the better off they'll be.
So many of our thoughts and worries are just our thoughts messing with us.
Observing is key... I spent hours watching people walking in the street for the sake of doing it
@@KevinontheroadFr It's fun,huh? Been doing this all of my life.
As do I.I feel a person before I see them.Be careful there is MORE to empathic abilities then people's feelings.
It’s so lonely being an empath because everyone is in the matrix and just goes with the flow. And I want to build an empire and create. People don’t get it
Totally! Even im a room full of friends it can be lonely. Ugg
New Earth baby
Lol u right but it's so sad
I get it
Sorry I mean we get it
Create the empire and they will come. Don't talk about it . Show them.
If you want to fix people, fix yourself first. One of my favorite quotes : I can show you better than I can tell you!
For things to change, you must change! One of my favorite quotes.
Amanda Graves amen 🙏 ❣️
I want to know how to protect myself from negative. Do many empathssuffer addic tions
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And empath is very good at guiding others but helpless regarding himself most of the time...
For many years I thought I was crazy since childhood. Now I know it’s a rare gift from God to help others.
Up at night can’t sleep because I’m thinking about my family members individual issues that they’re not even aware of. I just want to fix them and fix everyone. I know this isn’t right, I deserve to have my own peace of mind but I SEE everything. I will find balance.
i am an empath and I value my judgments. I judge for the reasons of seeing who I want to keep in my inner circle and who are not allowed in. I will listen to them and try to help if I can and realize when it is not my place to help and have them learn or not learn on their own. I believe that everyone has potential and many people do not live up to it. Most people would rather be like everyone else. Though I don't understand it it's their journey not mine. I have lived like this and kept a lot of toxic people out of my life and as an empath I feel I need to do that for my own sanity. What I don't do unless the person is just extremely awful is I do not condemn. There are only 2 people in my entire life I have ever reserved that honor. I used to let everyone in and it was taxing to my soul. I need to judge to take care of myself and the ones I love.
Very true. I just don't see the point behind not judging others. Isn't judging the same as evaluation, and perceiving the reallity of people?
Profound wisdom from someone who obviously has walked this path! I also have made some of those choices for my own sanity and my own survival. It's not an option! Thank you for sharing. 💖
Help me as a beginner of this.what to do how to use this for my life
AMEN! Yes
That’s called discernment.
I already am an empath and never wanted to admit it to myself or anyone. It drains me and because of the negative people I've crossed paths with , I stopped trying to help ppl.
I totally understand. It's good to learn where your boundaries are & where your limitations take you. Its all a delicate matter of fine tuning your guidance system. When you use your gifts appropriately based on what ur guidance system has taught you then you can have a beautiful life of your own... leading by example is also clearly being giving of yourself!
Thanks for watching. I've shared some of the steps I use to protect myself in this video, ua-cam.com/video/NvtRzNiVdwE/v-deo.html. They're my first go to's.
Help yourself first, Theres no positivity without negativity.
Embrace yourself raise your vibrations and frequency.
Once you grow mentally and spiritually. The better and more positive are the people you meet.
You will get better perspections in life.
❤️
@@teddi111 Hi can a empath get occasional premonition ? Thank you and God Bless
same here, esp, I walked away from people whom dont love themselves. They are so draining. I have to soak epsom 10 min tub, once a week.🙄Drive ya nutts.
This ability to let go of judgement has improved the way I feel about myself and others so much. Thanks Kirk.
Yes, it is, Chris! Thank you for watching.
Interesting points, thank you. I need to stop trying to 'fix' everyone! We're so sensitive and we see and feel so much 💖
Thank you for watching Karen, here's some more insight for you ua-cam.com/video/7xaf5ZlSonM/v-deo.html
I really do agree. I think i am a naturally born empath. I've always felt other people's feelings and I think I can spread my energy.
I just never have any solutions to fix a person except positive reinforcement and saying stuff....you’ve made it this far you must be doing some right things. Keep up the good effort!
Remember you can help people and that's not trying to fix them.
I spent years trying to fix people
Not everyone can be empaths... unfortunately. Most true empaths were born that way.
Amy Elizabeth I agree
It's weird I'm a partial empath.
I can change personality with different people and I had a identity crisis for a couple years.
Although I can't read people.
@@korpoa3888 it's because somehow ( even unconscienaly, I don't know if I use the right word, hope you will understand what I mean, I'm french ) you told yourself this ability wasn't normal or didn't serve you, or put yourself in trouble, etc... If you don't want this thing and tell yourself so, your subconsciens ( don't think I write this correctly but whatever ) hear you and do the job so that doesn't bother you anymore you know. It's the human brain, if you think something you have is bad for your life than it erase that, it's that simple. You have the choice, it's yours to decide if something is good for you or not. It's up to you. That's the beauty of our specy. If you want it back, just ask. And be patient. Keep going, not trying too harsh. Things come in time, trust.
Hope I helped you.
Amy Elizabeth you’re absolutely right, every bit of it feels and comes naturally
Amy Elizabeth I am it’s been very hard especially being born with no thyroid
I was born an empath and would like to ask something: Why is it that I seem to attract narcassists?
I was born a empath too and attracting narcissists is one of the worst parts.
Recovery is really hard...
same.... I did the same thing for years now I know what a narcissist is I don't attract them anymore I think we need to work on are self and know exactly what a narcissist looks like and acts like and stay away from them. We cannot help everyone nor can we change any narcissist for the better.
I wonder why too. I am going through an awakening at the moment and recently realised that I was born into a family of narcissists.
And don't forget it's not inpaths that attract narcissists it's codependents that attract narcissists.
Dahlene Pretorius I too am experiencing narcissistic people that are very manipulative. But I am not a codependent person in fact I am independent.
My friend asked me to find out if I was an empath just yesterday, because she is one. After 3 divorces at 51 years old, I found out she was right. This is the second of your videos that I watch and i am only now learning to understand myself. I know already understand things that happened in my life that I could not explain. Thank you for taking the time to help others in growing.
Being an Empath I feel like I’ve lost all my abilities after being married to a narcissist and finally divorcing one. Hopefully this helps me get stronger again. I use to be scary good at being one.
I was dating a covert narcissist recently and it made me question myself and I started believing it was me from the gaslighting
❤️ You will get there
Going through that now
hannah have you managed to heal from your past narcissist relationship how are you now, have you got your abilities back,
Anybody else notice that he didn't write "judgement" but "judgemeat"
Ashley Hickman 😂😂
Ashley Hickman his a, is actually an n, if you notice how personal is spelt as well.
😂😂😂😂
Ashley Hickman lmao
It’s an n. It’s just the way he wrote it.
Wow, I've been out of control. Recently had a spirtual awakening.. Detaching from others and wanting emotional freedom.....thank you I needed this so bad.
Thanks for watching. If you like this vied, be sure to subscribe here and check out the other trainings I have here. Awesome!
Look into a mirror and do not be afraid of what you feel use it as a way to confront what you feel inside of your self.If you are willing to see and fell the good and the bad and not judge yourself then you can do the same with people you meat and people you know.
I feel the same way....
Lol...I judge all the time.... Because I see everything. I will stop.
Alex truth. I try my best not to.
Alex I do too
I will limit
Something I'm working on myself
so true
This is easily one of the most important videos I have ever watched
Judgment and the need to fix are the two things I've struggled with throughout my life.
Me too
Being damaged by a narcissist causes an empath to develop a more cautious and judgmental perspective. “Stepping into caring” before discerning potential danger is no longer an option.
Have you addressed this in a video?
Forgive yourself for the feeling being a failure because of a narcissis and the healing will unfold. Also see what the narcissis this as a tool 🔧 to reference so that way you'd know whether a new person who comes into to your is a narcissis or not. I'm healing as I type this.
I'm 37 years old and have known (not understood) about my abilities my entire life. I cannot count how many times I've been taken advantage of and been called "naive." I have gotten much better about not allowing this to happen anymore and has certainly been an interesting learning process.
me too
tuckjess that is interesting i wish you well, narcissts can be hard to spot, they can appear caring and like they are nice people, how do you discover if someone is a nice person so you dont get taken advantage of i am curious thankyou!
@@sll110 mark hey how are you doing, i guess you are an empath as you clicked on this video, hows life treating you,
When it comes to judgement, I try to see the differences like color hues. Your beliefs, values, and fears make you your own rainbow.
Hate (bigotry, etc) and evil (inflicting pain on living creatures)
Is not part of a colorful array. To me, it is the black cloud that keep colors from shining their brightest.
Be authentic, be YOU. Embrace the differences as color variations, and never try to change another person's rainbow. Be compassionate and use your incredible empathy to understand others better ♡♡♡
Great show!
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You should teach them self love that's the only way
Self love is the highest form of Power, because self love is equicalt to loving God/ Universe
In deed , we are gifted . We should honor our soul desires and needs so we can love ourselves .
exactly
Sylvie Lockhart I don’t know how you got this conclusion from the information given. It’s like everything he said went over your (and those below who agreed with you) head so fast that you are not even in the same zone. An empath doesn’t “not” love themselves. It actually has nothing to do with it. You’re missing the whole point.
This is to Lara not to be rude, but it seams that something got over your head .all I'm trying to say about this is that before we become anything or let our self be told of what we are ,we should find our self love just like Jesus teaches us most ppl miss understand the teaching when it says love your neighbor as your self key words (as your self ) an empath doesn't love them selfs truly they feel only loved when the do for others. I was an empath for a very long time not understanding that what I really needed was self love ,not from others coz they can't give you what they don't have for them self and that's why we get hurt and never feel good enough
Not sure if I can handle being a stronger empath.
Being a stronger empathic is learning to cope with be an empath.
That was my 1st thought when I saw the title of his video but that's not what his video was about to me anyway once I watched it because Maybe it's different for others but all of this stuff is what I've been going through since elementary school and I wish this information was available to me back then and because I did not realize I just wrote it on Facebook the other day that I was sending messages back-and-forth and I was picking up a people's information & feelings from others & taking it as it was about me..
From one empath to another the best thing to do is to use the tools that you know how to use and don't sweat the big stuff.You will be able to use stronger tools wen you are ready.YOU WILL KNOW WEN because you will use them.
I so understand this
NUMBER ONE really resonated with me. For those who may not completely get where he is coming from, the type of Judgement he is referring to is the "Wishing things and people were different". It doesn'texplicitly sound like -"why can't I be different" "why can't they behave this way instead" "why can't they make better choices" - but the undertone is definitely there. Judgement is different from evaluation. Evaluation is seeing things as they are and making decisions based on what is. Judgement is liking/or not liking how things are, condemning it/them for how it is and wishing things were different.
I was born this way, so much that I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia years ago. I never judge because I can feel how they really feel and try to help. Thank you. I use my gift in my field of law Enforcement and it has served me well. I always knew I was different and have just learned what this was called. My husband and myself are always doing this since day one.
That No judgement interfers with the BOUNDARIES you talked about in another segment. Some judgement occurs when that person out there does not belong anywhere near you.
This video explains more about creating boundaries ua-cam.com/video/rY_V-KlPXfI/v-deo.html
Thank you for watching.
Judgement is seeming someone as a good person or bad person. Who knows why people are the way that they are and if we would be the same way if we had their life? Judging is usually saying how someone "should" be.
Discernment, on the other hand, is just saying, this isn't safe for me. It doesn't matter why they are unsafe or qualify it, but you can protect yourself without condemning them.
im a very sensitive emphat, because i am a clairvoyance and clairsentience... I don't think all people have abilities of emphat...because emphat is not just feeling the emotion of the people around you,its morethan than that....and idont think all people are introvert because majority of emphat is introvert...
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Yes preach it , I also don’t believe being sensitive means your kinda like an empath , it’s very rare being an empath for me since I was born this way is knowing stuff that I shouldn’t know getting information without knowing how but knowing it’s true and so much more things
@@lonerEmpath Wow thanks, I never thought by 'knowing' things had anything to do with me being an empathic.
Omgeee same here!!!! Nice to see & FEEL I am not alone!🙏⚡🦄
being a clairsentience... People disagree ma thoughts and what I feel abt them.. make me feel guilty.. Tough 2 handle it.
when there's dialogue it's called telepathy. when it's a strong feeling like moms it's called intuition.
The four agreements! My favorite book! Helps me tremendously... wonderful messege Impeccable dialogue really helps me to truly engage in the presence of each moment and any judgment really is a waste of focus! Thank you for your video. Great content!
The Messy Messenger - Teddi I love love love 4 agreements. I work with them in every situation and with people around me , even my thoughts.
they messy messenger what is the main key points of the book the four agreements, how can it help an empath thanks
@@Amy-li5uv what is the main key points of the book the four agreements, how can it help an empath thanks!!
@@Samanthax1221 it helps me take a step back if I feel overwhelmed, or even super excited. I answer each “key”. Impeccable word (for the situation and myself or others) make no assumptions (again looking at same myself, situation and others) don’t take it personally, take yourself out and look at what’s happening and then do YOUR best. No more no less. Doing more or less, your are not true to you. It truly helps me to step out for a moment and look at it. Cheers.
It took a friend to talk about empath. I feel I am, am helps me to better understand myself. It is hard being an empath...I work at a goodwill outlet, so many people, if they are angry I feel it, and it hurts me. This sure makes sense throughout my whole life...
Iam tired feeling other people emotions and not apple to block it. So draining , especially people who are feeling angry and sad all the time. Worst thing that we can feel is hate. people who having hate in their hearts and they don't know how to forgive and move on.
Thank you for watching. Try these steps, ua-cam.com/video/ikHIgHO3X84/v-deo.html&lc=UgxGH2fpU-HxW31Yeox4AaABAg. They work for me.
I used to try and fix people. Finally the penny dropped when I kept getting damaged in the process. Now I’m on a journey of fixing myself 😁
Wonderful information...... I forgot about these points because I got so overwhelmed with studying my past .... I tried to numb my present. I got burned out helping strangers, i.e. brothers and sisters in humananity... they didn't ecknowelege we were brothers and sisters, I gave the x up on them and myself in the long run. I tried isolating. Numbing the energy field with alcohol... Bad idea btw. The intensity of it all coming back after numbing it could make an empath go bonkers. Plz you guys don't numb it down. What we focus on gets bigger than it actually is. And omg our imaginations and what can create! Take his advise. Don't judge! Let everything be and live and process and learn. And stick together! Much love. Thank you for the channel.
Applying these steps you explained is going to make my life so much easier, help me feel more joy and serve others in a far better way. I have been doing a lot of this wrong and it made everything harder.
I'm so glad that you found value here Wendy. Here more insight for you ua-cam.com/video/ikHIgHO3X84/v-deo.html&lc=UgxGH2fpU-HxW31Yeox4AaABAg
I always know when my boyfriend isn’t happy. I just feel it. And I then feel it too
I figured it all when I was 16 years old. I am 31 now.
1- Judgement is a very important to understand the wrong in what you do.
2- I almost had a mental breakdown due to empathy. I was feeling EVERYONE'S emotion simply I was walking in the street... knowing what was happening to them just by looking to their way of walking....a simple gesture gave it all to me. A lot of suffering around and it was overwhelming for a teenager. I stopped it by myself and I learnt to drain it all by creating a huge virtual library in my mind where I store all this information without letting it submerging me.
For the last decade and more I do not recall me suffering at all as I filter it all. I use it and transform it into positiveness towards myself and making sure everyone get the same chance to have a taste of this positiveness that everyone can achieve....
``Taking it personal`` can be channeled into good.
3- dialog is essential. No dialog no solution for anyone. Others and yourself.
4- I understood a long time ago. I ain't Superman. Helping and saving everyone is not possible. It is called the superman syndrome. Make piece with it and you will leave better.
Guiding others towards positiveness is the thing to do.
A little bit complicated to explain in a UA-cam comment but it is me...
I swear i thought me and my brother hearing each others thought once and responding but with no words was imagined till just now. I felt like it happened and me and my brother realized it happened and asked did we really just hear each others thoughts but it only happened once.
that's awesome!
Hey that happen with me and my cousin but like 6 times
I have searched the internet forever for THIS!! Simple and spot on. Wow.
I am so guilty of number 4 :( This was a VERY informative video! Thank you!!
"See the music I consume to escape the doom and gloom
All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay
But what happens when the records done and starts to fade away
...
Alone within myself again
I try to veil away my pain
The dirty grey surrounding me 'round
And now I hear no sound
...
I see only what I wanna see
I be only who I wanna be
My blanket covers me"
-Imogen Heap. BLANKET.
It's pretty interesting how when I was younger with less knowledge, I did things instinctively and was right most of the time but always got criticized for being myself. This was even before I knew about being an empath. It hurt my feelings and I hated the criticism so I tried to do things differently like other people would want me to but I hurt myself even more because I was trying to act like who I wasn't. Now, I'm more conscious with my actions and trying to tune right back in and I realize everyday that I'm just trying to be who I used to be once again. I'm learning to make my present conscious mental state to act like my previous subconscious mental state. It's a bit difficult and quite confusing. They told me something was wrong with me, I never believed but after so many years, I began to believe "maybe something is actually wrong with me" (in turn trying to change myself) then I find out that I'm not the only one like this and I'm perfectly normal, just different. Then I want to revert back to my default self, feels like a loop, a bit confusing and has affected my mental state. Like, I'm going back and forth and it's a bit frustrating and quite annoying.
Judgement creates a barrier between the judger and the judged, preventing the transfer of Empathic information.
People are broken, most people break but they can fix themselves. All you can do is help them help themselves if they need you're help. I've tried to fix people and though it's a nice sentiment, there's a flaw with trying to be a hero. You imply that they can't do it themselves and if they get use to you saving them and doing everything for them they don't overcome the problem. the weaker of a state they are in, the more they will use you like life support. You have to have more faith in yourself and them. You need to soothe them, lift them up and help them discover their own strength if they haven't already. It's okay to help but their struggles are theirs to solve. The best you can do is give out suggestions and broaden their horizons by giving them ideas possibilities they have yet to consider. If you've ever been in a band or have siblings you're close to or played teamwork cooperative games then you know that there are specific things you have to do and specific things they have to do. You have to trust your partner enough to know they have your back to the bitter end. If you have issues with this then it's probably due to the fact you're use to people who weren't cooperative and wasn't truly on your side and You're use to trusting people you shouldn't have trusted. True partners have each others back to the bitter end.
OMG seeing this video is like a fresh clear glass of water 💧 THANK YOU!!!!!
We are so glad you liked this video. Thank you for watching.
I will thank you
It's born in to us
Become a service employee. I love teaching!
Loved the vid, I've found when I "try" to read someone especially my S.O. it does alter perception of what I'm seeking--truth. Allowing myself to just receive instead of search mode, I do get truth & all it includes the why, how, what etc etc 😁 Thanks for great coping skills!
Here are a few more tips I've shared to help ua-cam.com/video/ikHIgHO3X84/v-deo.html
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Thank you!
Have you written any books about empath? You explained every detail in so much clarity. There's no coincidence, i found you because i was guided to you. Thank you :)
My son of 30+ n daughter 30+ we all do this and talk 100's of subjects in like an HR. It's sooo cool, we cut to the chase. We live n let live and when they need reaffirment and my voice that's when they speak.
Yes #1 and #2 lower our vibrations. And yes I am working on #1 as I see/feel people intent. Which leads me to judgemental.
My interest lies on question the intent. Like seeing someone trying to fill a bucket. Never be able to.if you help me get out and realized the task is quite daunting despite how easy it is. If question it, will they realize theirs hole in the bucket.
I just want to be of service to humanity with this gift.
I'd love to have you part of my new monthly mentoirng webinar. You are perfect for the techniques and principles I share there. Go to 3ke.to/lifeskills and check it out. Thanks for watching, Jose
Great video ... just one thing I disagree with is what you think anyone can become an empath and I don’t think that’s accurate. Being an empath is rare especially those who are born naturally as an empath , anyone can learn to be empathetic to others but that’s not what an empath is correct me if am wrong I been like this since I was kid and empathy and empath is very different
Thank you for watching and thank you for your insight.
I do agree some people are born with different propensities... I love that I am an empath & I wish I could run faster & multitask more but that's just not in the cards for me at this time... I guess I'm just going to have to accept that my real strength is in being of service and not as an Olympic medalist or as another Steve Jobs...lol... stay well!
wolf guy I totally agree with you.
Exactly, I think he's trying to make it out like "oh come and watch my video, click on it so you can become an empath". Personally I was hoping to get help for how much it DRAINS ME. I've always been this way, and it physically drains me because I am a hairstylist ! I am literally feeling their pain 😓
Lisa Hollis look into " grounding " yourself before you start your day- this can be done in different ways - protect yourself with white light before u leave the house & look into crystals - black obsidian and others ... Good luck & much love ( wear pendants or put crystals in ur pockets ) 💓💓💓
Thank you so much for this video and all that you do. I invited a friend to join me at your last MYI event. During one of the breaks, we were talking, and before she had the chance to ask, I answered her question out loud. It surprised her, and made me realize that my own self doubt is what gets in the way, and when I don’t doubt, I am more able to use this gift and ability
Wow, that is awesome. We are so thrilled you attended our Master Your Influence event. That is a great class for people, and Empaths, to get clarity and direction in their lives.
All my friends turned their back against me, recently I felt so drained 😢😢😢 I feel alone. I felt used
reythel kim DONT feel alone spirit aka as universe is guiding you into the right path and you will meet your tribe just be patient and keep raising your vibration ❤️🦋🌌
As sad as this is it means they were never your friends.Live and learn from this and don't let them drag you down with them.I am a empath and I care even though I am a stranger.
Same, sometimes some time after you realize it was for your own good
I don't think we should mess with our capabilities. We are beacons of light, to feel people's pain and we comfort them. That's why people walk up to us and tell us thier problems. It's a gift not to be messed with, we all grow at different times, because we're all unique. We are not psychic. We are born this way. Don't listen to advise, because we are very powerful, don't forget that.💕
I think this is right. Judgement is part of the upgrading process too. Learn to protect yourself then you can help others
Thank you.. Learning more and more about myself. I thought I was a manipulator, but I knew that wasn't me, always felt guilty after a verbal fight. That was NEVER the case...
Awesome content. Actually accepted this empath concept a few months ago. How does an empath learn to not judge a blood Brother ,when all you feel is pain and, anger when around him? Everytime I travel to visit him, I always go with an attitude of "Maybe he's mellowed a bit, since Mom passed away. Yet he's always putting me down, for hours. Just this past Thursday, I ended up saying nicely, "no one deserves to be treated like this, not even myself. I'm not angry with you, I love you, but I have to go home". Even though I traveled from Wisconsin to Illinois (my hometown). By the time I get home, within our last two visits, he sends me a text explaining "I'm sorry, I don't know why I bring up the past, and I have been drinking". Even when he does not drink, he always has to mention something negative about our past, or get in some mean thing to say, and with such anger, painting pictures of some pretty violent acts, that my brain never would think about. It took me a week to finally let everything he said to me, go.
Either cut off the contact completely or reduce it to a very minimal amount. Blood family or not! You really can't afford this. And he will make it on his own. Much love and encouragement to you. ❤️
Thanks for spending the time to create and share this content awareness/perspective❤️🙏🏾
Thank you this is great - please please please give us more!!? 💚
Thanks for watching Sheri. If you subscribe to this channel, you'll get notified of each new video I post. Here's another one with more insight on empaths, ua-cam.com/video/DLKAtQwmKlk/v-deo.html
Second time around is going to work. As for children mine are grown Ive had this my whole life, my 36 yr old daughter will state it matter of factly my analytical son knows it but will not admit out loud but he relies on it. TY for your communication skills on this and helping us to help others.
I am a empath, and I am truly grateful for this video. I have noticed this internal dialogue before but didn't have the conviction in embracing it. Great Insight Kirk. Thanks for sharing.
There is a distinction between judgment and discernment. Let go of judgment.
Nice work Brother.
I'm one of those Dad's my Bro.
Thank you for watchign Robert!
My mouth dropped when you said moms having the ability towards our children I have a 22 year old daughter who lives on her own the other day I called her to tell her something that was upsetting me and worrying me about her in a very calm voice. Needless to say 45 minutes later I was off the phone and crying and physically and emotionally drained because she continue to talk and talk and talk and I was empath to the point it was overwhelming me I actually felt sick to my stomach and mentally exhausted at the end of the conversation. It has been like this since she was a teenager. It is finally finally making sense to me and it's nice to know that I'm not crazy 😁
Me n my husband can do this we know we are twin flames when we met we both went into an outer body experience... we have been together 17 years... I will think something and he will say it or vice versa
wow....awesome!!
I wish...sounds like a dream only few have the opportunity to go through.
Soul mate
One important thing to know, is that it's actually impossible n͟o͟t to judge, it's in our 𝗛𝗨𝗠𝗔𝗡 𝗡𝗔𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗘 to do so. What we c͟a͟n do however, is choose to be mindful of the judgemental thoughts that pop up in our heads, and 𝗖𝗛𝗢𝗢𝗦𝗘 to see them for what they really are. Which is just our minds doing their thing, so don't drive yourself crazy beacuse you can't control your thoughts..it's literally impossible, instead just acknowledge the thought and let it go.
Yes, but we can't help the narcissist.
I just found your channel. First off, thank you. I am currently on my journey of deeply becoming more in tune with myself & others. This channel really helps. Thank you.
Telepathy is the word you were drawing a blank for I believe.
I just look into their eyes. When people drop the eyes from mine, I feel they know they're being read. Deflection tells me so much!
Or when their tone gets lower after being asked a follow up question. Too easy. Ive learned to just take mental notes and not react. Best to just let them hang themselves.
That's do true I had to stop doing that though bcs I used to stare at peoples eyes so much as that was my main communication vessel and they would often look so uncomfortable after a few seconds so I try and avoid it bcs I think I am a bit too intrusive LOL really and truly I am not listening yo their words I am reading them.
Thank you for your videos. Can you use this for animal training?
Irini Adler I'm a dog trainer and I thought this was fantastic.
Wow! So I'm an empath then.. Thanks for giving me a sense of community. I do all these things just as he described which probably explains why people adjust themselves when in my presence. I can spot a fake a mile away and I'm usually the one who causes people to gulp cos I'll say what I think while others are fluffing about with words. I don't have many friends these days cos they think I'm too brutally honest and fear what I'll say to them. Yes, I can be very judgemental but I am also very compassionate and find it easy to forgive and move on if people are willing to discuss it. This video has been very helpful for me to identify something I didn't know I had. I want to know more!
Great point on judgement, very convicting but enlightening at the same time. Thanks again Kirk.
Thank you. I love that you are gaining so much from my videos.
the key really to being a stronger empath the is knowing that you're judging people and knowing that you want to make it right for yourself and not somebody making you do. it that will only stop you even more. The universe is not forceful. when you are ready you will know.
Kundlini yoga strengthens the pychic channels
Mom's know! I've always been in tune with my mother and just the other day she called me when I was stressed. I can also tell when she is ill or something is not ok.
you know immediately what the other person will say even before they speak
Sometimes answers take time to form and come from nowhere. And questions too.
3KE I love your energy you made me smile and I’m grateful to be listening to you so I can develop my empath skills. :)
The middle line In The “e” is simply overlapping the “n”. Thank you Kirk for the valuable information! You have changed my life and I will be forever grateful .
This is so far the most beneficial I learned as an emphat. Thanks
Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So grateful for you!
HOW TO BECOME A STRONGER EMPATH ? BY LEARNING THE WAYS OF CHRIST ....HE HANDLE NARCISSIST AND PSYCHOPATH AND OTHERS WITH AUTHORITY , RIGHTEOUS , COMPASSION, AND HE WAS KIND BUT HE WASN'T A PUSH OVER , AND HAD NO RESPECT OF PERSON....... THE PERFECT TEACHER !
Luv4us Luv4All that is so awesome!! Best advice!
I am such a strong empath that the police have admitted that I can read their minds. I thought of training to become clairvoyant as I knew something was going on in my head, but I found studying to be a Forex trader enough of a distraction that my broken empath faze has passed. I am now well enough again to want to use this rare ability now that I have understood my ability to be a dream walker.
You do you
Thank you Ive learned so much, no judgment is very powerful.
We are all empathy seeking as it part of our balance in society. Many choose not to use it as they are seeking other attributes to fullfil in their realm. E G busy bees vs lazy lizards.
Prior to a week ago I thought that I was alone as an empath. I didn’t even have a name for it because I would avoid telling people about it “ dreams that manifest themselves as soon as I wake up, my senses telling me that something is or will be happening and it eventually happens, hearing people thoughts and finishing all their sentences etc. I’m from a family of empath, both parents and beyond and that is the only thing that help me maintain my sanity.
Been judging myself after what a few ppl said. I weigh everything and I need to let it go. Been working on it but it’s still in my mind.
I’m a empath but attract people who has so much grief. Sometimes I wanna attract someone who has a bright life into them.
You know, I am sure I'm not seeing the video by mistake.
I am really really glad. Thanks.
Dialog. I keep seeing people just blurting out what the person should do rather than creating dialog. Great steps.
I see myself so much in this! Thank you, the information you provide is very valuable ❤️
I struggle in all four areas..
I am trying to work on myself by not saying anything and today it helped .. But sometimes it can be really frustrating and overwhelming!
Thank you I feel empowered 💕
Thank you for advice
thank you soo much now i really understand all of this❤.. i know we cant fix them were just here just to let them know that someone is here to listen wid them
Thank you so much!💪 😊
I thought I was the only member wondering this. You know what I mean. Thank you for sharing.
It's really amazing his example-the kid in school named Tommy and my daughter's name is Tomi, his wife's name is Kim and my husband's name is also Kim. Learned from this. thanks!