Why do men cheat? Is cheating related to unresolved human issues? Should we accept that all men cheat? In conversation with Nolla, who became famous for “cheating” on international television. I’d appreciate if you subscribe to this channel and get us to 100K so that we keep producing more growth conversations 🙏🏿
Stop talking like a therapist. Cheating has nothing to do with unresolved human issues. Majority of men cheat because they want validation from their friends. If you don't cheat as a man, your friends will think that you are not man enough. Secondly, we must not forget that there are men who cheat because of disrespect. When a man gets disrespected inside the house, he will cheat in order to close the wounds which disrespect has created in his soul. It is natural for a man to go astray but he will never forsake you, if you give him respect. The only thing which a man wants from a lady is respect. A man does not want your money, or your education, the only thing he wants from you is respect. He can cheat on you but if you give him respect, he will never make a fool out of you.
So my mother and grandmother always said to me: when looking for a husband, check his family. Such strange advise it was as i was a teen and not interested in dating. But i understand what they meant now: dating someone with a dark past and upbringing can actually cost you, even your own life. Hurt people hurt people. If they arent willihg to come to terms and fix their dark past, dont ever make it your issue and try to fix them. You will lose yourself in the process, best advise i ever received.
Please make it a habit to introduce your guests even if they are public figures, I personally don't know him from anywhere but I got captured by the thumbnails. I'm trying to say don't presume everybody knows who your guests are and from which show they aired
I have asked for the same thing for a while now and I've just learned to watch and figure it out along the way. It gets frustrating sometimes. They assume we know the people they know, forgetting that we don't live in the same bubble.
I can relate to his childhood trauma, this is how I am as well, I lost too much in life mostly the ones I love. But it still does not condone cheating.
Oh maan bhut wami, you were never a Budden, I'm talking from experience had to raise my brother as young as I was. But it taught me to be a very very responsible somebody at a young age. I didn't even felt burdened, instead I wanted to make sure that he is well taken care of at all times. Kodwa it was not easy at all. So don't feel bad I'm sure they are very proud of themselves for doing that ❤❤
Oh my. That excuse of the experiment on TV was one of the most wildest take ever. It's a fugazi breakup, a hypothetical one and you use that as an excuse to cheat by saying you were too "committed" to the experiment, lmao.
Maybe the dislike/hate for women came fromthe fact that a woman murdered my mother... i am glad you decided to change , i wish you all the best in your changing journey ❤
If Nola is being honest, he wouldn't have lied on the show about sleeping with Ruth. He would have owned up and stated the reasons. The reality is he cheated and now he's avoiding accountability
I'm proud of this gentleman, but it was too early to lay it like that but I still believe his on his toes on still coming up to do worse than̈ he coming from
I love your podcast my brother... I always make time to watch atleast 3 interviews a day 😂 I don't even skip the ads❤😂... I should start normalizing saying something to comments section
He really did. I have also realized how these platforms can be used by people who want to clean up their image. If you can humiliate your partner like that on tv it's all on you and it has nothing to do with your background. Choices at the end of the day.
The excuses people make for bad behavior. The reason for having sex with someone on TV is all you need to know. His behavior before the show is who he was on that show. Could his changed ways be imposed on him by the fact that now everyone knows who he is how he behaves around woman and not because of self correction on his part? 🤔
This guy did absolutely nothing wrong. As he said, "he was partaking in the concept/experiment him and his partner decided to participate in". However, he did F*ck up when he allowed the world and the noise to convince him he shouldn't have done what the show is all about.
Why do men cheat? Is cheating related to unresolved human issues? Should we accept that all men cheat?
In conversation with Nolla, who became famous for “cheating” on international television.
I’d appreciate if you subscribe to this channel and get us to 100K so that we keep producing more growth conversations 🙏🏿
They are simply selfish that’s all
Why do women cheat ?
@@thabaningwenya6589same people who cheat it’s cause of failing to consider the next person
Stop talking like a therapist. Cheating has nothing to do with unresolved human issues. Majority of men cheat because they want validation from their friends. If you don't cheat as a man, your friends will think that you are not man enough. Secondly, we must not forget that there are men who cheat because of disrespect. When a man gets disrespected inside the house, he will cheat in order to close the wounds which disrespect has created in his soul. It is natural for a man to go astray but he will never forsake you, if you give him respect. The only thing which a man wants from a lady is respect. A man does not want your money, or your education, the only thing he wants from you is respect. He can cheat on you but if you give him respect, he will never make a fool out of you.
So my mother and grandmother always said to me: when looking for a husband, check his family. Such strange advise it was as i was a teen and not interested in dating. But i understand what they meant now: dating someone with a dark past and upbringing can actually cost you, even your own life. Hurt people hurt people. If they arent willihg to come to terms and fix their dark past, dont ever make it your issue and try to fix them. You will lose yourself in the process, best advise i ever received.
Power!
Please make it a habit to introduce your guests even if they are public figures, I personally don't know him from anywhere but I got captured by the thumbnails. I'm trying to say don't presume everybody knows who your guests are and from which show they aired
I have asked for the same thing for a while now and I've just learned to watch and figure it out along the way. It gets frustrating sometimes. They assume we know the people they know, forgetting that we don't live in the same bubble.
My favourite person,I love how vulnerable he is willing to be,that is a strength
Vulnerability is power!
When those therapy sessions pay off. Awesome work Nola.
I can relate to his childhood trauma, this is how I am as well, I lost too much in life mostly the ones I love. But it still does not condone cheating.
Nolla truly changed. 🥂
This is an exceptional interview❤
Oh maan bhut wami, you were never a Budden, I'm talking from experience had to raise my brother as young as I was. But it taught me to be a very very responsible somebody at a young age. I didn't even felt burdened, instead I wanted to make sure that he is well taken care of at all times. Kodwa it was not easy at all. So don't feel bad I'm sure they are very proud of themselves for doing that ❤❤
Oh my. That excuse of the experiment on TV was one of the most wildest take ever.
It's a fugazi breakup, a hypothetical one and you use that as an excuse to cheat by saying you were too "committed" to the experiment, lmao.
He's trying to gaslight the entire country now
Maybe the dislike/hate for women came fromthe fact that a woman murdered my mother... i am glad you decided to change , i wish you all the best in your changing journey ❤
We listen and we don’t judge….. 👀😊
We judge 😢
If Nola is being honest, he wouldn't have lied on the show about sleeping with Ruth. He would have owned up and stated the reasons. The reality is he cheated and now he's avoiding accountability
Now I understand why Ruth fell in love. Nolla is sooo smooth and he's actually a nice guy.
@buhlembola2671 now i see why people fall inlove with bad boys. Do you trust him ?
Aiy
Thank you Sirs! Love Nolla for keeping it real
I'm proud of this gentleman, but it was too early to lay it like that but I still believe his on his toes on still coming up to do worse than̈ he coming from
Very relatable content sorry for your loss Nolla
Nola is absolutely delusional. You cheated bro
Oh Nola, 'i know that loosing people was part of me'
No, that's painful to even hear it coming out of someone's month.
I love your podcast my brother... I always make time to watch atleast 3 interviews a day 😂 I don't even skip the ads❤😂... I should start normalizing saying something to comments section
Nope. He wants peopke to pity him and not hold him accountable. He is just bad nje
My thoughts exactly. An attempt to clean up his public image. The reason he gave for the TV thing is all one needs to know.
We don't compete with people's exes or past but with their childhood traumas
Atleast he realised while still young ukuthi cheating is not it
Weeeeeeee already nje the snippet is making me mad nxa
Nola thot he wud get away with it ..thanks to genesis🙏🙏🙏
He really did. I have also realized how these platforms can be used by people who want to clean up their image. If you can humiliate your partner like that on tv it's all on you and it has nothing to do with your background. Choices at the end of the day.
The excuses people make for bad behavior. The reason for having sex with someone on TV is all you need to know. His behavior before the show is who he was on that show. Could his changed ways be imposed on him by the fact that now everyone knows who he is how he behaves around woman and not because of self correction on his part? 🤔
Love you more sisi
Haona madume nix on this podcast 😂😂😂haibo intro nyana nix hai ngeke Engineer how u start chats
This guy did absolutely nothing wrong. As he said, "he was partaking in the concept/experiment him and his partner decided to participate in". However, he did F*ck up when he allowed the world and the noise to convince him he shouldn't have done what the show is all about.
Yhu hayi nawe Lungelo with your constant ads, okokoko???
Big ups Nola!🤍