someone once nailed it (in context to myself) : "that part between my ears (pointing with his fingers towards his head) is a bad neighbourhood. and i shouldn't be alone in that neighbourhood. because it treats my very bad and fights me all the time". this sentence was about clinical depression. it fits with me so well. plus, maybe having some autistic symptomes, extremly introvert. only having my husband in my life which i have to share with a lot of things and not just another wife. no selfconfidence at all. thinking i can never keep any relationship. i break everything. can not deal with other women. even if i want to. it simply doesnt work. i dont know where to start to work on myself. being intellectual able to understand my problems but practically absolutly unable to change something. sometimes just wishing life ends soon hoping Allah is ok with me somehow.
I absolutely love these videos y'all are awesome I'm a Christian, monogamous, married woman. Your videos have helped me for sure. As women it is tough not being perfect and we have to be okay with that or good with it.
Ma'sha'allah ta'ala! Beautiful Queens!!!!! Thank you for these gems. You all are such an encouragement and a beautiful example of sisterhood in polygany.
We currently do for our RMIC members because they tend to be more committed to the process of change. If you haven't seen our Relationship Mastery Inner Circle program, feel free to check it out at outstandingpersonalrelationships.com/rm in sha Allah ❤
Coach Nyla, Your example is so me In reference to the phone being cut off and not reaching out for helping. I have been ashamed of my lack of progress because I have always been looked up to amongst my family and friends. Not allowing people in when I was having difficult times financial or in my personal life has left me insecure, and ashamed inside...Working on my authenticity during this self improve journey...Thank you for sharing this
You are so very welcome! We are glad you are working on yourself and choosing to be proactive, that is noble and honorable sis. We know you got this! Thank you for the kind words.
alHamdulillah for yours as well, we weren't always close but we did make the effort and were patient. May Allah grant you that which you desire and also jannah, ameen.
Alhamdullilah, I once saw your post n I saved it a year ago. Now am following u people to learn alot because u both are doing a great job n making others to know that polygamy is not a bad thing if only the man can do the needful and so the Co wifes too will follow n be happy with each other as u both are doing. Am one of your fans. Am the first wife n very soon our co wife will join us n am trying to be like coach Fatima n pray my second should be like coach nyla. I pray to ALLAH that all women will understand 🙏 n we should not be scared. May Allah make everything easy n possible for us.
Alhamdulilaah so beautiful to see you two together bonding and encouraging us to bond . May Allah reward you Ameen SubhannAllah very good points and tips. 🥰💕💕💕💕Thanks for your honesty and sincerity Alhamdulilaah it shows. The sisterhood is amazing 💕💕🤲🏽💕💕Allahu Akbar🌸🌸🌸Beautiful MaashaaAllah TabarakAllah
Asalamualaikum my beautiful ❤️ sisters alhumdulillah I love y'all sooo much in this n everything you send my way I have a co wife and qe both watch yall all the time yall really help us out on some situations alhumdulillah may Allah bless yall family
Wow subhaanAllah glad I’ve stumbled upon your channel, you two are so beautiful maashAllah Allahumma baarik lakom... how do you deal with the disease of jealousy tho??!! (the one horrible disease that eats up the well being of so many relations) Still listening tho so looking forward to some of the gems you share😊
I love how you girls do your hijabs 🥰 show us how🙏😉 May Allah keep you real and may Allah increase your love for each other. You are a good role model to many
We get things from all over, not necessarily one place. Some are fabrics we choose, others are from thrift stores, others are from desi, African, or Arab locations or masaajid.
There is a time I lived with my co wife in the same house. She up stairs and I down stairs. Our sleeping arrangements was the change of him being in each floor at maghrib time. Although he is in the same house, we knew who would make dinner and who would make lunch. However we also felt it was better to be in different home, so this can take 3 days for each or one day for each when it comes to sleep arrangements. Personally I preferred the 3 days arrangements. So it's all up to the ones involved to discuss what suits them.
someone once nailed it (in context to myself) : "that part between my ears (pointing with his fingers towards his head) is a bad neighbourhood. and i shouldn't be alone in that neighbourhood. because it treats my very bad and fights me all the time". this sentence was about clinical depression. it fits with me so well. plus, maybe having some autistic symptomes, extremly introvert. only having my husband in my life which i have to share with a lot of things and not just another wife. no selfconfidence at all. thinking i can never keep any relationship. i break everything. can not deal with other women. even if i want to. it simply doesnt work. i dont know where to start to work on myself. being intellectual able to understand my problems but practically absolutly unable to change something. sometimes just wishing life ends soon hoping Allah is ok with me somehow.
I absolutely love these videos y'all are awesome I'm a Christian, monogamous, married woman. Your videos have helped me for sure. As women it is tough not being perfect and we have to be okay with that or good with it.
Ma'sha'allah ta'ala! Beautiful Queens!!!!! Thank you for these gems. You all are such an encouragement and a beautiful example of sisterhood in polygany.
Question: do you offer private consultations, In'Sha'Allah ta'ala??? I need you all as a team, lol.
We currently do for our RMIC members because they tend to be more committed to the process of change. If you haven't seen our Relationship Mastery Inner Circle program, feel free to check it out at outstandingpersonalrelationships.com/rm in sha Allah ❤
Coach Nyla, Your example is so me In reference to the phone being cut off and not reaching out for helping. I have been ashamed of my lack of progress because I have always been looked up to amongst my family and friends. Not allowing people in when I was having difficult times financial or in my personal life has left me insecure, and ashamed inside...Working on my authenticity during this self improve journey...Thank you for sharing this
You are so very welcome! We are glad you are working on yourself and choosing to be proactive, that is noble and honorable sis. We know you got this! Thank you for the kind words.
You people are doing great.
How I wishing could be this close with my Co wife.
ALHAMDULILAH for your life.
alHamdulillah for yours as well, we weren't always close but we did make the effort and were patient. May Allah grant you that which you desire and also jannah, ameen.
Alhamdullilah, I once saw your post n I saved it a year ago. Now am following u people to learn alot because u both are doing a great job n making others to know that polygamy is not a bad thing if only the man can do the needful and so the Co wifes too will follow n be happy with each other as u both are doing. Am one of your fans. Am the first wife n very soon our co wife will join us n am trying to be like coach Fatima n pray my second should be like coach nyla. I pray to ALLAH that all women will understand 🙏 n we should not be scared. May Allah make everything easy n possible for us.
Alhamdulilaah so beautiful to see you two together bonding and encouraging us to bond . May Allah reward you Ameen SubhannAllah very good points and tips. 🥰💕💕💕💕Thanks for your honesty and sincerity Alhamdulilaah it shows. The sisterhood is amazing 💕💕🤲🏽💕💕Allahu Akbar🌸🌸🌸Beautiful MaashaaAllah TabarakAllah
Always good to hear from you sis, ameen to your beautiful duas. Thank you for the kind words and love ukhti! ❤💞
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I love this topic 🤎
❤🖤💚 we appreciate ya'll ❤🖤💚 thank you for the beautiful display and breakdown of patience and love ❤🖤💚
AlHamdulillah ukhti, thank you for watching
Asalamualaikum my beautiful ❤️ sisters alhumdulillah I love y'all sooo much in this n everything you send my way I have a co wife and qe both watch yall all the time yall really help us out on some situations alhumdulillah may Allah bless yall family
Wow subhaanAllah glad I’ve stumbled upon your channel, you two are so beautiful maashAllah Allahumma baarik lakom... how do you deal with the disease of jealousy tho??!! (the one horrible disease that eats up the well being of so many relations)
Still listening tho so looking forward to some of the gems you share😊
Please look thru our vids, we've discussed it in detail so feel free to watch more on this channel.
I needed to hear this! Shukran JazakAllah Khair sisters
I love how you girls do your hijabs 🥰 show us how🙏😉 May Allah keep you real and may Allah increase your love for each other. You are a good role model to many
INFJ's I think. Real & they stand for what they believe, popular or not.
MashaAllah I just learn about you guys from the Deen show today Allah barik.
As salaam alaikum thanks for sharing sister.
How is your daughter 25 and you look 25? Allah Humma Barik.😌
Well she's 26 now and just made me a grandma! AlHamdulillah, Allah is Al-Lateef
As salaamu alaikum sisters 😍😍
Wa alaykum as salaam wa rahmatullah wa barakaatuhu
Where do you guys get your burkas and keymarsthey are so pretty i would love to get my wife one...
We get things from all over, not necessarily one place. Some are fabrics we choose, others are from thrift stores, others are from desi, African, or Arab locations or masaajid.
😂 I can't stand people they suck energy out of u it makes me frustrated
Ur hubby got 2 beautiful women u guys balance each other out
Do yall have any advice for sleeping arrangements???
We have larger families and have our own homes in close proximity so don't have any advice on sleeping arrangements.
There is a time I lived with my co wife in the same house. She up stairs and I down stairs. Our sleeping arrangements was the change of him being in each floor at maghrib time. Although he is in the same house, we knew who would make dinner and who would make lunch.
However we also felt it was better to be in different home, so this can take 3 days for each or one day for each when it comes to sleep arrangements. Personally I preferred the 3 days arrangements. So it's all up to the ones involved to discuss what suits them.
Please do a video on appropriate Islamic fashion love your hijab Salaams
Ummuatu-l- Janah
Alhamduli’lah
Masha Allah 🥰
indeed
MashaAllah