💯 my “girlfriend” is a single mother fearful avoidant who is repeating the cycle on her 13 year old son that her mother impressed upon her. And that’s being emotionally unavailable, detached and borderline neglectful. In the beginning of our situationship/relationship it was difficult to get her to recognize. But now when she fears losing me, that’s when she becomes self-aware enough to face her flaws and do the work to “fix herself”. Thank you for your informative content 😉
I’m avoidant. And I really don’t like intimacy or commitment. I value it but I don’t necessarily want a romantic relationship as such. I respect and value others who have it. But with my kids I do tell them hard things.. at first i was emotionally not there but made great strides and are close with them
Very accurate. The avoidant is just a longer dead end
💯 my “girlfriend” is a single mother fearful avoidant who is repeating the cycle on her 13 year old son that her mother impressed upon her. And that’s being emotionally unavailable, detached and borderline neglectful. In the beginning of our situationship/relationship it was difficult to get her to recognize. But now when she fears losing me, that’s when she becomes self-aware enough to face her flaws and do the work to “fix herself”. Thank you for your informative content 😉
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I’m avoidant. And I really don’t like intimacy or commitment. I value it but I don’t necessarily want a romantic relationship as such. I respect and value others who have it. But with my kids I do tell them hard things.. at first i was emotionally not there but made great strides and are close with them
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