10th November 2024 1. I'm not a youtuber and I will never be, nothing is monetized, there are no adverts, I don't have any sponsor and I will never say the _"like and subscribe"_ bs... I dunno why the eff are yall subscribing anyway, this channel is for the missus and I to upload some scuba diving shorts to share with friends and family... 🤷 2. I'm from southern Europe but: 3. When I uploaded this video I was a democrat sympathizer, and I used to delete pro democrat and pro republican posts. 4. Now I'm a republican sympathizer and I still delete pro democrat and republican posts. 5. I'm also deleting religious, antiputin/willsmithbitchslap/palestine this israel that posts because: 6. *NONE OF THESE INVENTED BULLYING.* 7. This comment section is to talk about bullying and Mr. Inbetween, period.
He is 100% correct. People can do whatever they want but when you protect your boundaries then all of the sudden you're the problem. The world is crazy.
Not the world, however american values. Once a country full of good values and virtues is now those days a shithole filled with leftists assholes who don't know the difference between right and wrong and want to settle everything "peacefully" because they are so offended by "violence" and "bad behaviour". They traded in their back bone for being some pussies. Maybe America was once the best country in the world but not anymore.
You are right. A lot the laws that were meant to create a more peaceful society gave more powers to bullies (often even criminals) because if you defend yourself or stand up for yourself the laws will punish you for it. Ass holes know this. So they can prey upon people much easier now then they could before.
@@DannyRedCheeks A good story deserves embellishment - Gandalf the grey. lol. The social media statement doesn't need anyone's name attached to it to make it great.
The problem isn't the bullies. The problem isn't those who fight back. The problem is those who defend the bullies actions while condemning those who stand up against the bullies.
Partly true...but the bully does have a mind of its own...just. The blame culture allows a lot of negatives to occur and the perpetuator to not be accountable...well a short piece of justice..like a kick to the Jacob's....does focus one's attention and draws them in to thinking about their next day's bullying or being a complete turd in society 😉
That tyoe of person is part of the problem. They are enablers of the bullies . In fact they are worse than them because of how they seem to defend the bullies behaviour and call them the victim when it is the other way round . Its completely backward but you see this a lot . This therapist is a sort of devils advocate to the bully
With the description of the incident he was given, the therapist's reactions were pretty appropriate. Ray didn't frame it as providing a good rationale for bashing someone. He left out the part where the kids were pushing for a fight themselves ("you wanna start some shit?")
@@Electricshrock The challenge for society is how to protect the rights for those who have no voice! Abusive cops often bully the mentally ill, those trapped in a spiral of drug use AND people who are just plain weird!
When people say: “If you bash him, just because he was harassing a girl or bullying someone, you’re no better than them”, you say this: “A real human being fights for those who can’t defend themselves”.
when people say that violence is not the answer to a bully, they only prove that they've never been bullied and have never faced a bully, they are just running the mouth with that so *very* fake moral superiority that comes just from ignorance, its so annoying, the little shmucks, thinking like they are better when they are just arrogantly ignorant.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I love when people try the whole, "Violence is bad" Argument. I tell them the story of my grade 5 experience where two boys would pick on me every day and when I'd try to do the "right" thing and tell the teachers, I'd be told to man up or stay away from them. It wasn't until I snapped and went after those two with a bat and was screaming how I was going to cave their skulls in (a teacher managed to stop me before I caught them). They called in my mother and wanted to expel me for extreme violence. My mother asked me what happened, I told her about all of it and she told the principal that if they tried to expel me or punish me in any way, she would sue the school, the district and him personally into the ground (My dear sweet sainted mother was not one to be messed with and you didn't mess with her boys either). Those two boys never messed with me again and at the time, yes I would have beaten them bloody if I'd caught them. Sometimes there is no other choice but violence.
@@Unclegrimm3937 society nowdays ostracizes the loud guy, it won't even stop for a moment to wonder WHY is he loud, maybe he has a right reason if we just listen to what he has to say, maybe we all need to start being loud instead of compliant.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I find now that a measured and low tone is far more effective. Especially coming from a near seven foot monster LOL Nothing unnerves someone more than a calm and quiet giant.
I was bullied all through high school. I was always told that bullies would get tired of it. When I was 16, I finally had it and took my bully's head and hit it against a metal pole. I stopped being bullied after that. Some people only understand violence.
@@147andreluiz a metal pole is still a metal pole. I've seen bears run away from cats. It really depends on who's willing to go the distance. Sure your bully may hit you but if he thinks he might lose an eye in the process, maybe you're not worth it.
"People let them get away with it." This is one of the most accurate statements today. Do not be afraid to stand up for yourself or those you care about.
my own frustrations is towards school system in general that punishes those who stand up against bullies, but never the bullies themselves? i'd say bringing vigilante justice for oneself is sometimes the answer. violence against bullies is neccessary to let them leave us the f alone... and if they continue to torment, then it's time to really tell them "don't f with me" i hate it when schools punishes the victims... it makes the victims become doormats...
@@hulCAWmanianUniverse Its more and more common in other areas of society as well . But the general theme is that by not punishing the bully , the system is enabling and rewarding that bad behaviour and it then escalates because they know they will get away with it . The system wants to punish strong individuals , they want meek , weak sheep poeple in society who just do as they are told and dont fight for real justice
@@MrTimjm009 and that's the thing that frustrated me, I didn't had the balls to hit my bullies not because I feared them, but because I feared getting probation or expelled from school (which I'm now a loyal alumni student of since i already graduated)
Don't be afraid to stand up to assholes. Personally it doesn't need to be someone I care about. If I saw a young kid getting pushed around by two older guys, it wouldn't matter if I knew the kid or not. Stand up for anyone who isn't able to stand up for themself.
"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality." - Desmond Tutu.
Love this show. Quiet, slow burning, and even though Ray is both violent and has the emotional bandwidth of a rock, he is also has his own brand of empathy. So you cannot help but like the guy. Really brilliant acting.
When he held the hand of the druggie who was dying after the car crash (the one who said he didnt want to be an addict and wanted to change and not be a bad person anymore) it was a moment that showed Ray had a lot of compassion buried underneath his tough exterior.
So what you're saying his Ray is an average male. The way males are supposed to be. We're not supposed to be emotional women. Otherwise you become the insufferable therapist in this scene.
Pure gold. Solid street wisdom. "The world's full of assholes, Ray". Ray, "Yeah, you know why?" "Why?" "Because people let 'em get away with it". Bingo.
Some people are just passive, and don’t have that sort of violence in them. That’s why the asshole that do it to the people that aren’t that way, meet a person that won’t put up with their shit, and they’ll get dealt with.
@@Slitherv5, my brother apparently thought that about me until one day in my senior year of high school he found out differently. I bounced him off the kitchen stove which preheating. I had come in hot, tired and thirsty and he started trying to hit me and when I told him to stop he said he wanted to see if I had learned anything in my Tang Soo-Do. After blocking a few blows from him while telling him to stop I struck him in the solar plexus with my left heel of palm. Needless to say that was the last time he did that. At the time I weighed 122 pounds and he weighed almost twice that.
@@donotneed2250 I’m glad he doesn’t bother you anymore, for now. Always protect your peace; never instigate, but be the person that will end something, if someone tries to start something with you. This is one of my life’s lessons. Remember your peace of mind is a very valuable asset for yourself and some people just don’t give a fûck sometimes and will try to violate you-so draw that line for them.
It isn't just a man fed up with jerkoffs in public...it's a father protecting his child. He protects her to the point he doesn't let her see the violence he's capable of.
He took her to the car so she won't see the violence, she might get scared, kids get scared whenever they see people fighting, they'll start to think that if they do something bad, they are going to start to think that their parents are going to hit them.
@@Metalviking18 well, not really. they more likely do the thing parents done with others. the thing is- let your kid understand that even the violence sometimes necessary. there will be consequences for every action you did thru your life. teaching kids about consequences - thats most parents are incapable of these days.
And this is why fighting back against bullies is the most morally correct thing you could ever do in your life. Give no quarter to those who think their petty comforts and desires are above other's well-being.
@@exhumus He did not choke him out and he was not dead when he released him. He used a hold that restricts the flow of blood to the head until they pass out. Once he passed out the witnesses reported that he put him into a recovery position. The criminal died because of whatever drugs he was on and was probably on the verge of death when he got on the subway and started assaulting people. If you do not want people protecting themselves against you then act like a civilized person. Bullies will be bullies as long as the pleasure/profit they get from it outweighs the cost.
"Because people let them get away with it" is such a correct statement. Bullies know that their parents will always love them unless they get enough proof that their son is evil, that some people just dont care, that some people are too afraid to do something about it, and abuse it.
@@clampmotosua1789 Even if you get your arse handed to you, you always fight back anyway. You have two options, be a pussy and let them hit you, or stand up for yourself, where you either get beaten or they piss off.
Their parents will love them? Wtf planet are you on? Oh yeah, that melinnieal bullshit. No their parents don't love them. Their parents beat and abuse them. Which is why their bullies. Welcome to the real world kiddo. Grow tf up. All of you in this thread smh. Petulant preteen idiocy. "They'll cry if you fight back" what Saturday morning cartoons are you prepubescent children regurgitating this crap from? How about you fight the bully when the bully is a 240lb drunken asshole with 5 of his friends in the parking lot of whatever dive bar is next to the convince you had to just run to at 2am because ur wife is 7 months pregnant and can't stop puking so u needed to get anti nausea meds so she can actually get an hour of sleep. So u petulant children are saying that we should what? Attack 5 random drunk men instead of bringing a bottle of meds back to ur pregnant wife? That's not something that's smart or even possible for anyone. And even if u do, I promise you, that "bully" isn't crying and running away. Not with a broken femur he wasn't.
I can only speak on the bullies I knew in my life, and of myself. I got bullied and beat up pretty bad in the 3erd grade. My dad kicked me out until I kicked the other dudes butt. When I did an went home he beat my ass for being a bully. I learned the lesson he was trying to teach me. The problem, I started to become a bully to the other bullies. I realized I liked fighting and some of the bullies were the only ones who could give me a good fight. Not all of them. I never picked on normal kids in school, or normal people when I got older. I stood up for them, I knew in most cases that if they fought back it would only make things worse for them. I would say stand up for yourself always, but use violence only as a last resort. You don't know if the bully is a glass tiger or if he is the real deal. If they are the real deal you just made your life a lot worse, not to mention painful. This is not the 80's anymore and I would not do what I did back then today. I would take every chance to walk away today and never look back, you just don't know what's going on with people today. BTW, all the fighting, I have no back teeth, removed because they became abscessed with age from the repeated hits. My nose is crooked, I just don't look how I should, fighting will rearrange your face. What I'm saying is, stand up for yourself, just don't fight.
The most upsetting part about this for me was the anger management therapist and how he phrased his questions in a way that didn't really allow for the man to tell his story of what happened, step by step, beginning to end. Without him being able to tell his story in that way, no understanding of the events or it's context can be arrived at, hence an innocent man gets blamed and stigmatized for having "Anger issues" when in fact he was just doing the right thing.
I mean he wasnt innocent, I totally understand your point and I think youre right in all the rest, just not him being innocent, you cant go hiting people in the streets and tell yourself youre innocent, if you gonna do it, do it right
The kids were assholes, but all they did was talk. He's the one who got violent. He wasn't protecting himself or anyone else. HE went after THEM, long after their first interaction. HE was the aggressor. That's not innocent by any means. Pretending this guy was in the right is delusional.
That in itself is a form of bullying. People can verbally bully others, while not even saying anything nasty or aggressive, they're probably the worst kind.
@jcorb No ? Well if a lot more people stood up against bullies, there wouldn't be so much of them. No matter what part of the world you live in, the statement is true.
@jcorb For my personal experience (not that I've been bullied, but I've dealt - and deal - with bullies) : There's 2 things that will stop any bully. 1. Fear. If you make sure that a bully is scared, he will stop bullying. 2. Pain : a bully - like a lot of other aggressive types - will stop their behavior if they receive a dose of their own medicine. I'm not saying that you have to beat them up or put them in hospital. But a choke or wrist / finger / arm grip, has always - for me - done the job. When I was in the Army, our close combat instructors showed us and demonstrated how you deal with bullies and aggressive people. They only had to deal once with one of the troublemakers to straighten them out. Your "different and more intelligent approach" might work, but it requires some sort of intelligence from the bullies. I'm sorry but the bullies that I met, aren't the most intelligent people out there. I see your approach working for people that are locked up in prison. But not on the streets... So yeah, stand up to bullies and aggressive people, not only as a victim but also as a bystander. It usually only takes around 2 or 3 people to speak up and/or react, to stop bullies. Be one of those 2 or 3 people.
Years of saying "be the better person" or "rise above the hate and anger" or "turn the other cheek" or "evil begets evil" have created the environment where abuse can occur. You don't have to seek out the scumbags to put them in their place. You simply have to fight back decisively that they will think twice before messing with you again. Pain is an excellent motivator, and an even more effective attitude adjustor.
As a Christian, I must say people misunderstand the whole "turn the other cheek " thing. Jesus isn't telling us to be "doormats ". What it means is, rather than retaliating right away, give the other person a chance to do the right thing, i.e. apologize, or make right the wrong. Failing that, you should walk away, which is exactly what our "hero" did in this clip. It was only by chance that he saw them again before getting into his car and driving away. So, he approached them to give them another chance to do the right thing. Had they done so, he would've turned around and no harm done.
I agree to an extent, I really think that you should rise above your anger and Ray should have just walked away here. However if anyone puts their hand on you or your family or tries to take away your property, you should be capable and willing to defend yourself. There are too many people thinking that since we are civil and play by rules everyone is.
@@hisdud3ness93 in my honest opinion and with absolutely no will of offending you, those that draw the line on responding just on the phisical agression are cowards, i'm not saying that everyone should be fighting back at every turn, obviously if this where the case the world would be utter chaos, but these idiots in this specific case where begging for a good spanking, and that is what ray did, if you watched the show you know that there are several instances where he held back, furthermore, in this specific case these bullies targeted him and his daughter in a very clear and agressive way, they even bumped onto her so it was indeed phisical and even if it was not, they wouldve deserved it anyway. for example, in the case of the icecream shop, ray held himself back (with the help of his gf), the guy selling them icecreams wasn't his friend or anything so i dont think it was necessary for him to intervene.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I do watch the show and I think duality of Ray's character is the point, he is obviously a killer for hire and a criminal on one end of things and a father, brother, son and a friend on the other. This is one of the scenes where you can see 2 worlds colliding, he could have walked away no problem and never see those 2 pricks again. However in his other world not punishing a perceived offense is a sign of weakness. In real life there is no gain in going to that alley and attacking them. Thats how people get shot/stabbed by a punk wanting to prove something. You can just move on and never see those assholes again. Its just Rays ego and emotion thats telling him to go there, its not for "betterment of society" in any way.
When I was in high school in Belgium we had a gym teacher who was a former boxer. His motto was : "Not everyone has the talent to be good at sports. But I will always respect effort and commitment." There was a class that majored in sports (around 25 students per year). The students that were in the 4th, 5th and 6th grade, were athletic, muscular guys. The gym teacher had them patrolling the grounds during free time (20 minutes in the morning and afternoon, an hour at midday). These students made sure that there were no fights and they kept an eye on those that tried to bully others. It worked perfectly : everyone was afraid of the patrolling students and bullies never got a chance to bully. The patrolling students were friendly and they helped students whenever they could. For example : they carried the backpacks of students that walked with crutches because of a broken leg they got in a bicycle accident. It worked because the gym teacher learned HIS guys that it was their duty to protect those that were not as strong or muscular. The patrolling students took pride in their task. Of course, every now and then, some students stood nose-to-nose, ready to fight, but the patrolling students always preventing things from escalating. They took the ones that wanted to fight away, and put them in the showers, so they had to spend the rest of the day with soaking wet clothes. It literally cooled them down :-) Apart from a couple of colds, nothing serious ever happened to them. That was 35 years ago. I'm still friends with some of those patrolling students, some are in the Military, some work in law enforcement. They still take great pride in protecting others.
I am no close combat guy and was quite non-muscular and risk-averse. In school we had to choose between boxing and judo. And everyone had to perform at he horizontal bar, bock jumping etc. I very much despised this. And I nearly did no make it to high school in former GDR, because of not throwing mockup hand grenades far enough. I do not rum very fast and I do not throw hand grenades very far, but ar quite good in archery. Also needs some muscle for longer range archery ...I think it is not good to force children to doo things in sports education they do not want at all...
After kicking the guy's ass (and his crotch) there should have been a scene where Ray checks the guy on the ground for his wallet, pulls out the cash, retrieves four bucks, and puts the rest back before putting the wallet back in the guy's pocket. That would have been mint
Picking on what seems to be weak is a form of natural selection unfortunately. But I’ll never understand why people blame the animal they themselves forced into a corner. My personal defense mechanism was to put on 50lbs of muscle and now they all cower. But I’ve seen so many others turn to suicide,guns, or drugs. It’s deeply saddening
Bullies are psychopaths, their fellow psycho's defend them. There isn't anything normal about a bully, they are just a silence of the lamb story looking for a location.
Totally agree. This attitude has resulted in a proliferation of bullies, they feel invincible as they are immune from punishment knowing the victim will be revictimized by our perverted so-called "justice system."
Right on right there. The ending statement says it all, "Cause people let them get away with it." Imagine a world where people who purposely, not accidentally, do wrong unto others and were held accountable for it. Damn, what a much better place we'd live in.
The Dems refuse to put the criminals in jail so they commit more crime, the plan is to let criminals out to kill and rob then blame the guns not the criminal.
I have a similar problem where the angrier I am, the bigger I smile. I'm not having, I don't think it's funny, it's just a weird thing I do. I'm smiling huge when I'm close to snapping, I think it's a stress thing and boy has it caught people off guard.
@@CappyK I have 2 possibilities here: 1. You are genuinely enjoying hurting someone/the thought of hurting them. 😈 (can feel good to hurt someone when you are really hurt yourself) 2. You are in so much stress and pain, (just like how people who are mentally and emotionally insane experience) that you fake laugh and/or fake smile (like the joker) to be in a state of denial, so that you can ignore the pain, and counter act the stress. 🤡 (No different than someone who rubs their own head and neck when they are nervous and feeling anxiety) What do you think it is? 🤔 (I’m thinking number 2) (I don’t think you are a spiteful and/or evil person who ENJOYS hurting others.) (That would be a serious concern of mine.)
Sadly, bullies only understand one thing and Mr. InBetween explained that to his sanctimonious anger management therapist proper like. Simply brilliant.
His "anger management" therapist spoke like a man who has never been bullied. Those of us who finally found the strength to fight back - and the fury to do a proper job of it - know better. How do we feel about it? Just fucking great!
A man. A real man. He removes his daughter from the conflict immediately. He has no ego about it, just gets it done. But then, he conquers the right and wrong of it; the morality of it. Life is complex. There are still real men in this world. This is a film depiction of reality and it's spot on. We will take care of business... and our families and friends.
No. He went back go thr conflict and got into a fight. A real man let's stuff go. I get. It's a movie, we all like action. But in real life, you would be at fault if you did this. And quickly put in jail. No immediate threat. So goin back to those men is egocentric because you can't let a small thing go. Yes they bumped into the gurl. But nothing became of it. He made it into conflict. That my friend, is egocentric alpha male shit.
In today’s society, people have more compassion for the attackers than for the victims.. victims have to justify themselves. Loved this! This society has lost it completely.
Its the trouble with basing your judgments upon compassion. Compassion is great, but its too unstable. This clip is exactly a case where the 'therapist's' compassion is toward the bullies not the little girl. Law needs to be based on principle. not compassion. Compassion depends entirely on the emotional whims of the judge. ps. the reason the judge has more compassion with the perp than the victim is because the judge sees themselves more in the perp than the victim... thats just the result of corruption and moral decay.
Down that road lies madness. Read the original starship troopers novel and then think about what you just said, and things get a little scary when you look around
In system that works proper Ray would've filed a case against these bullies with the police having zero problems afterwards, meanwhile bullies would've spent time on various rehab meetings, talks with their parents, general investigation why the bullies had attitude like that in the first place (problems in family perhaps), actually fixing the core of the situation
@@queterian1526in a system that works. Bullies get punched in the face. And not a single second of police time is wasted because if I was a fuckin judge. Id say the problem handled itself. Case dismissed. Next.
Ok! So what do you think happened after the last scene went dark? I think Ray killed those two guys in the taxi, but maybe that is just hope that he is ok because I'm connected. Maybe the show was showing that death by violence was just him karma playing out. I'd love to read your interpretations.
This is beyond true and his philosophy and exact manner of how to deal with such people has worked just fine for me minus the scripted judicial bullshit for 40+ years. I was bullied as a kid in school for the better part of 5 years. It was common knowledge. Not a single teacher ever helped unless it happened directly in front of them, and even then zero punishment aside from them losing a recess was ever done. The military set my head straight and helped me make a man of myself. In all my years I've never seen a bully stop until someone, like me, was willing to subject them to very suffering they seek to inflict. I won't lie. I take pleasure in putting their kind in their place. I've never put a hand on a person outside of blatant bullies in the act of violence, or on behalf of someone being attacked. Generations of non confrontation turn the other cheek bullshit has only led to a steady increase of entitled tools thinking they can hurt or prey on others for kicks. Worse is your average person walking the streets is more likely to pull out a cell phone, piss their pants, or just spectate than get involved and help. Way I see it, I'm just doing my small part to do for others what no one would do for me. Spare them the same humiliation and suffering I went through and remind them that while rare there are people willing to stand up.
you know what happens when you let bullies "get away with it" ? You get mass shootings years later. The victims of years of bullying and neglect lashing out because they start hating everything and everyone around them. How often do you read about some shooter(s) having been bullied in their teens only for them to come back at innocent people or taking 'revenge' on their bullies ? I've read an article once where someone who was bullied at work by a coworker, when the victim came back a whole bunch of people died, including the ones that 'let it happen' and turned a blind eye. Things like this shouldn't happen, but they do because ppl just let it happen, i have no sympathy for them, they should have spoken up.
True. Sometimes a fool needs to be smacked back out of their reality INTO reality. Some people just don't learn with words. They only learn after getting the shit knocked out of them. Maybe. Some years back i was a corrections officer when i was 23. I went through an experience where I was assaulted. Dude was always just picking at me. I was on a work detail. He just happened to be there. He had diarrhea of the mouth that day. Took a swing at me. I ended up breaking his arm. I'm just glad the other "residents" didn't jump on me. I had to resign, go to anger management in order to avoid prosecution. Believe that shit. Fucking gangbanger got me fired.
if one person can remove the possibility of stopping a bully from bullying anymore, I believe that you're doing the world a favour. Not all heroes wear capes.
One of a handful of things I have to be proud of is that I never once skipped an opportunity to put a bully in their place whether it was for me or someone else.
Mistakes you made: 1. you spilled his daughter's ice cream 2. You cursed in front of his daughter 3. You disrespected him in front of his daughter 4. You pissed off a professional hitman 5. You should'nt have opened your mouth unless it was to say "sorry"
I couldn't agree with you more. The whole "don't stoop to THEIR level" phrase was invented by someone that was probably a coward, and felt that potentially getting THEIR asses kicked would somehow exalt themselves as some kind of a "hero" to others like them. Sadly, NONE OF THIS is true. There is only one way to defeat a bully (which is a necessary evil in the world, IMHO)... and that is to simply STAND UP TO THEM... no matter the cost... so that they will think twice about bullying you again! I am from the Old-School, and we were taught this, even in SCHOOL, in which case, after the ensuing fight was over the two young men were told to shake hands. In many cases, you might just have made a new friend because of it!! In other cases, the bully would learn his or HER (that's right, I said it) lesson, and either find someone else to bully, or simply end their bullying ways altogether. The point is, violence would normally play a role in the scenario. NO "use your words"... NO "time outs"... NO calling an adult to handle KID problems... and NO litigation of ANY kind! The schoolyard, playground, street corner, or backyard would now become THE OCTAGON. Gee, how I miss the good ol' days!!!!
I spent 9 years with the US Army, served with the Strike Force 2/502 Inf, 101st Airborne in Vietnam, moved down under in 1979 to teach. This has been the best Australian production I have ever seen. I have to be honest, with all my skills, training and knowledge, there have been times in my life where I have held back, even when I could have really hurt the other person as it isn't socially acceptable to act out that anger. ... .Watching this actor play a returned solder and a skilled sniper is close to reality... I'm so sorry there won't be more, he's a brilliant writer and actor.
@@CrazyScubaCouple That was the advice a local police Sargent once gave me..No witnesses. The police hated a local criminal, and for good reason. When I said I walk away if I can, until I can't..I mean that. Then a day came I had to look for the guy..That's when I got the advice.
Why wont there be more? The last season seemed ok, had some good moments. It's a great show I'm sure we haven't heard the last of Ray Shoesmith. Speaking of great shows, did you see Justified? I just heard they were bringing that back again after a few years hiatus oh, also a great show
@Blitza I'm proud I served the United States of America, Just like my father and Grandfather. What did you ever do for your country??? Does your mother know you are up this late, playing on the computer?
@Blitza Attitudes like yours have always been shameful mate. What a mindless, insulting mindset you have. If you ever find yourself in some disaster situation, more than likely it will be the military that will save your ass. Perhaps you could start by considering that.
Love this show mostly because Ray does what every man would like to do in a society that lets us down. Like the episode where they kidnapped his daughter's friend and Ray just goes into hunter mode to find the people that took her, and get her back. Damn good show.
sometimes putting someone in their place only increases the anger, like dude was beating his wife on the street, me and my homie intervened, pushed guy around a bit, only to later find out he put the wife in hospital because he was frustrated with how we treated him...
Definitely true. Abusers won't stop abusing others if they never face any consequences for doing it. The way the legal and school systems come down in favor of bullies most of the time is insane and only encourages more atrocious behavior.
Just had to say that I saw this snippet and decided to watch the full series. It was absolutely amazing. The acting, writing and just the utter realism was so powerful. I've never been so engrossed in a character and be so fearful and hopeful for them at the same time. The most amazing scene was Ray's brother's final words, that life doesn't end, it just changes form. How wonderful. It was truly one of the best shows I've ever seen. I hope the writer does more.
i am *SO* glad that thanks to this clip you watched the show and liked it as much as i did, this was the whole reason of me doing it, its realism, it being to grounded to the *real* world, not the fucking bullshit that _normies_ try to shove down our necks.
@@CrazyScubaCouple gotta ask.... What do you think happened to Ray in the ending of that last episode? I realize it's up to interpretation, but love to see what another fan thinks.
I was introduced to this show from a clip on TikTok. I'm so happy I decided to watch it. Mr. Inbetween is one of the most exhilarating and beautifully paced shows I've seen in recent years. An absolute masterpiece and hidden gem. Scott Ryan is a legend and a genius. Can't wait to see what he comes up with next.
@@CrazyScubaCoupleI wonder what Ray brother Bruce did before getting sick. I saw a tattoo on Bruce hand and it looks like a firefighter one. And I think 💭 Bruce knows whatvRays does because he said Ray your getting sloppy
If your friend, family member or anyone else is being bullied, stand up for them. You scare the bully if it’s a kid, if it’s a “youth” then a kick in the balls, slap in the face or just humiliate them. Then they don’t come back. Stand up for those who can’t or are too intimidated/scared. Don’t let the bullies win.
> if it’s a “youth”. Replace "youth" with "anyone else". Old people don't deserve immunity. Being old is no excuse for being a bully. Unfortunately there is a lot of false entitlement going around amongst middle age and older people.
@@Noi5ee I'm sn :old person". I don't feel the least bit entitled, as you call it. I also don't feel like having to put up with bullshit from young people...I don't put my hands in others, and I won't tolerate anyone putting their hands on me. I don't harass others, and I won't stand them harassing me. Most "older people" I know don't like disrespect. They don't act entitled.
@@Noi5ee I was giving examples going up in age. If it’s a kid, just appearing intimidating can be enough. As the age of the bully increases, so the way to handle it changes. Sorry if I wasn’t clear.
Violence is never a good choice, but sometimes it’s the right choice. “It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than to be a gardener in a war.” - Miyamoto Musashi
My father was ex military, he was also a SGT of Arms for a chapter of the Mongols MC here in the Harbor Area of Los Angeles (not Harbor Chapter, but the Harbor Area. I will leave which specific chapter anonymous, while he’s passed away a few years now he was a notoriously bad guy to certain people and who knows who reads these comments but I digress…) well, what seems like a lifetime ago when I was around maybe 8/9 years old, my sister and I watched him do something physically to someone else that we weren’t meant to see. As kids do I asked why he did it and his word’s burned into my brain for almost 40 years now. “A lot of people understand English and a lot of people understand Spanish and a lot of other people understand a lot of other languages. If you speak English to a man who only speaks Spanish then whatever your trying to tell them won’t be understood. Money is a language just like English or Spanish, and unfortunately, fighting and punching is also a language. What you watched me do over there was just me making my point to him in the only language he speaks and now what I was saying to him he understands “ (granted this was almost 40 years ago and he always said it this way or some variation of this way but you get it I’m sure) and to this day those words ring true. This video is proof of that. Dude was walking with his kid, spoke English and they just didn’t understand. And damn near made it obvious that the only OTHER language they spoke, was get beat TF up on. My dad was a hard man. He loved hard and he hated hard, he did what he did but always tried to reiterate why he did it, and why I should or shouldn’t do the same. My older brother joined the MC. He’s gone too now. I never did, but I am a very successful business owner that started in my garage and now have 29 employees and cleared over 900k in 2021. I like to think that his metaphor helped me get here. I learned the language of money, and while I haven’t been in a fight since high school, The language of punching or getting punched even is not foreign to me and I don’t mind speaking it if it’s the only language someone I’m trying to communicate with understands. I’m so damn sorry for the long comment 🤦🏻♂️ kinda went on a tangent there. This scenario just shot me back to 3rd grade when I learned the different languages of the world. Everyone be well and stay safe out there 🙏
_A lot of people understand English and a lot of people understand Spanish and a lot of other people understand a lot of other languages. If you speak English to a man who only speaks Spanish then whatever your trying to tell them won’t be understood. Money is a language just like English or Spanish, and unfortunately, fighting and punching is also a language. What you watched me do over there was just me making my point to him in the only language he speaks and now what I was saying to him he understands_ EZ CLAP, pure wisdom, nothing more to add other than thank you very much for sharing in such detail, no worries on the long comment.
I hear you and I respect what you said. Only a fool picks a fight with someone he doesn't know. And some people, bullies in particular, only understand one language - so when I get into a conversation with a person like that, I speak it loudly and with confidence. They get hurt bad? Tough luck. Pick someone you know you can beat next time...
take it with a grain of salt. I mean, do you know if or how many peope he killed in his military carrier? Maybe he does not know himself. few talk about. Maybe it is also the main language he himself spoke fluently and did not consider alternatives in a adequate way. Relatives not everytime are exposed to this bad side of soldiers.
@@andyking957 I’m not positive how many people he killed. I specifically remember him saying that his first few times him and his buddies would say “BRO, YOU KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE WE KILLED TODAY!? 😃 🙌” and by the end, they would say “man… do you know how many people we killed today? 😞 😔” I never tried to get too in depth about that specific thing. But I do know he had more than his fair share. I only remember those words of him and his buddies thinking it was awesome at first, and by the end, it turned into just something he did. He was a hard man. I would never say “I’m glad he has passed away” out of malice, because he was actually a very good man to us, but I am definitely glad he’s not around to see what the world has turned into. What the military has turned into. People hating America is nothing new, Americans hating American is something else.
I remember at school in the seventies in south London we had a kid in our class who had physical disabilities. We also had the hardest kid in the school who could one punch knock out anyone of any age. I am still friends with both of them. The tough kid made it very clear all around the school that if anyone hurt or abused the disabled one he would ruin their week. It never happened because the arseholes knew what was coming.
When I was 7 years old I was being bullied and shaken down by these four kids that lived down the block and it was pretty much everyday on my way home. My dad new something was wrong so I told him. He then told me that if I didn't stand up to them the bullying would continue. He taught me how to size them up picking the leader out as my first target and to plan my first strike well. He said go for the nose with as many punches as you can get in before the other join in. If it looks bad then get him on the ground behind him and make it hurt. Then he told me I would probably get my ass kicked but they would know that I would fight back. When I hit the gang leader it took him completely by surprise. One punch and that was it. He started crying and then took off with the others. So later that day there was a knock on the door and it was the kid and his dad. My dad invited them in and offered them something to drink. The kid had told his dad that he had been attacked and then after a discussion the facts came out and that boy was in trouble. We actually became good friends and all the neighborhood kids new not to try and push me around. It's funny how things turn out sometimes.
@@MegaMagicdog Not a bad idea now that I am older and know what a larynx is. To your point: UA-cam the "Better Call Saul" scene where Mike disarms the hot- shot guy with a punch to the throat. Classic.
All those kids being bullied and tortured by kids they go to school and yet when they protect themselves they are the ones who are the attacker and the bully is the victim. If the people who ran schools addressed that I think a lot of these school shootings would stop too. Just my two cents
well, same happens in the judicial system, context is always disregarded, or rather, not even taken into account, the judge doesn't want to know about it, they want to know who bashed who, how much damage one did to another so the forensics, the judge and the prosecutor can make up this pantomime and fine each part "accordingly", they don't really care about justice, only punishment. many years ago some idiot wanted trouble, he started insulting me and stuff on the street, i just left because that guy was just mad and i didnt want any trouble, 10 minutes and 2 streets down the road he kept on insulting until i lost it, i headbutted him once, he fell, i grabbed him, make him stand up on his feet then punched him once, his glasses fell off, after that i even picked them up from the floor and gave them to him, i mean, i wasnt even enraged, the moron had the nerve to go report me to the police... surreal, if he was man enough as to go asking for trouble, he should've been man enough to deal with the consequences, i explained it in court, they didn't care one bit, not even after the dumbfuck said plainly "yeah i could really use this money so i could do renovations on my home's bathroom", and even after saying this the judge ruled against me, unreal.
Problem is bullying will never go away. But what people fail to realise is that its children's first hard lesson in life that shjt rolls down hill considering someone is always bullying the bully as well.
@@cerebusrex-u1721 i've known several bullies, and what i can say is that what you just said is a pile of horseshit, let me elaborate: a dude i knew, used to bully because he had low selfesteem and the only way the poor fuck knew how to rise himself was to lower others, the only issue this twat had in his family was that his mom was single, no father figure, but no one ever bullied this bastard... another bully i knew, was told by his mom that he was special on a daily basis, the dimwit belived it so in his mind and due to his "specialness" he thought he was entitled to much more rights than anyone else, this family where the founders of the Cardellach elevator brand which ended up being the OTIS elevator brand, so you bet they where astonishingly rich, the kid was rotten spoiled, no one ever bullied him, i'm just gonna say that he had a servant, when he left the house the servant would run after him to put his coat on him, he just had to raise his arms and let the servant dress him up, no one *ever* bullied this dude. I'm not saying that what you say is false per se, but when you say "someone is *always* bullying the bully" is just false, majority of bullies are just insecure morons with null emotional inteligence and empathy with low self esteem, not abused kids... i'd dare to say that them being bullied themselves is less than half, or even less, mate, please do read aroud these comments where i explain the kind of school i went when i was a kid, let me expand it here:this school was full of nazis, in spain, hitler's partner francisco franco died of old age, in his bed, buried in his mausoleum, with all his friends and family put in places to perpetuate the dictatorship, even after the transition to democracy, even nowdays, them fascists still rule spain, this school was full of nazis, so i knew a SHIT TON of bullies, in this school, we where only 12 kids per class, their motive for this 12 per class was that the kids would receive the attention that they needed, so problematic kids would go to this place, but this was no public school, it was private, and 12 per class costs heaps (at some point my class had only 8 kids), parents would pay 730 american dollars every month, and this was 20 years ago, no unstructured broken families, no drunk dads, belive me, mom and dad where filthy rich, as i said, the problems these kids might have had (if they had any) where mostly absent parents that would just give a black mastercard credit card to his son or maybe overprotective parents, which just creates little hitlers. What you say may extend to some point, but is far, very far from "always", they have other issues, and being abused is rarely one of them.
@@CrazyScubaCouple Maybe the case, but we can't all be psychiatrists to work people out, sometimes the simple method is best, get yourself disciplined , learn a martial art or boxing , and fear no one, I was bullied relentlessly as a kid, never looked back after some judo.
@@espenforfen1334 indeed, if you look further down that's what i told someone else, and that's what i'll do with my future son, get him karate lessons with some good sensei, someone that can teach him both karate and discipline 👍
I like how calm and rational he is. His logic is sound as well. Back in the day people generally refrained from being assholes because they were afraid of getting their asses kicked. Today people act like self entitled turds because they know if you attack them they can ruin your life and many do it on purpose. It's turning society into a bunch of shitty people looking for trouble.
shitty people looking for trouble and indoctrinated sheep, right now, i've arrived from from the supermarket, i went to buy groceries, there where a couple of guys, a 60 year old dad and a 30 year old son i reckon, their trolley was empty, they had nothing to buy, yet they where on the queue waiting to get out... so fucking pathetic, i told them to just gtfo, and they hesitantly did so...
@@CrazyScubaCouple I grew up during a different age where people for the most part were pleasant. We said yes sir or no ma'am. Society had a certain code of ethics and people observed proper mannerisms. The threat of getting your ass kicked for being a dick was real but people generally refrained from being dicks because there was no reason for it. It was kind of like the philosophy peace through strength or mutually assured destruction. You only saved aggression for extreme cases as a last resort because all that will lead to was more trouble than it was worth. Today petty people wear aggression like a badge of honor and aren't afraid to show it everywhere they go.
Bullies don't stop bullying of their own accord. Only the victim can stop the bullying. By refusing to be a victim. Sure, you might get in trouble when you fight back, but the satisfaction of standing up for yourself is priceless. Plus, if you're a school kid, you'll likely never be bullied at school again. Bullies only bully people who won't stand up for themselves.
@jcorb Your "Na" is actually illogical because it doesnt change what Jc said. Why should having a low amount of social intelligence make his statement wrong? That is illogical. Notice also that all of us who actually successfully dealt with bullies say the same thing other while people who think they know how, merely state "research". Almost all the time without even stating the source, nor checking if it is reliable. Worse are people who mouth of cliche they hear from schools, bureacratic or religious institutions that dont know what they are talking about.
100% facts. I was bullied relentlessly by this little twerp in middle school for about 2 years. He messed with me in the 6th and 7th grade almost every single day. Constant name calling, constant physical assault, if he ever saw me in the hallway it was a never-ending ride as he would just follow me and slap me, try to trip me, try to steal my backpack, etc. He did not do this to just me. He did it to other kids too. In the 8th grade, I had just gotten to the top of the 3rd floor stairs and I was on my way to a classroom to hand in work. I needed to get it to my teacher in the next 30 seconds, otherwise that jerk would have given me a zero. Then the bully shows up and steals my backpack. He's laughing and howling and cackling the entire time. Nobody tried to stop him. He started running back towards the stairs and was clearly threatening to toss my pack over the railing. I slowly, calmly walked over to him. And then I shoved him. He looked surprised but continued to laugh at me. I shoved him again, this time much, much harder. He fell back against the railing and almost fell, head first, over the railing. I almost sent this asshole to the hospital. Possibly could have even landed him in a grave. All over a stupid backpack and a minute or two of high-grade "entertainment" for him. It was in that short 5 second moment where I could see the look of complete and total fear on his face. It's like he realized that what he was doing was incredibly stupid. He didn't fall. He got his footing back, said "holy shit man", and I grabbed my pack out of his slimy little hands. He did not screw with me for the rest of the year. And nobody reported me for this little incident either. There were TONS of kids around...I think pretty much everybody knew this douchecanoe had it coming. F*** you Kyle. I hope your life is currently a failure.
I would put all bullies of one district in one school together with a large wall arount. So they can do they like most. After some 3 months they can apply or mercy and to be re.trandferred to normal school. The winners of this contest go to military or jail.
but it's not just about self satisfaction Now i don't know how old youa re, BUT YOU MISSED THE POINT the satisfaction IS A MEANS TO AN END, without the end it is pointless I'm 48 Here is what it is you get bullied because you lack confidence at the time in shcool. it doesn't mean that much BUT... GIVE IT 30 YEARS You will find yourself depressed, possibly on drugs, possibly suicidal (i speak from facts) the satisfaction GIVES RISE TO CONFIDENCE CONFIDENCE RAISES SELF ESTEEM SELF ESTEEM RAISES POSITIVE FEELINGS and the end result is .... If you have positive feelings you will not be depressed or suicidal Later in life when you have a wife you won't be a bitch and you can defend your family should the need arise, if you are negative YOU WILL FAIL TO DEFEND YOUR FAMILY it's not about satisfaction it's about WHO YOU BECOME IF YOU DON'T FIGHT BACK and it takes the hindsight of around 30 years or more to realize that a bully can't know what he is doing to you 30 years from now while at school picking on you but yeah... kick the fuck out of him in 30 years he'll realize you were right THE WORLD HAS A BALANCE TO IT PRESERVE THE BALANCE
As a disabled kid at school, I was regularly bullied - until one bully FORCED me into a fight after school. I was NEVER bullied again after that! I got him down on the pavement, and grasping his hair in my hand, kept banging his head on the ground. He REFUSED to give in and end it. Fortunately for him, a woman waded through the crowd and rescued ME! He ended up in hospital. VICTIM 1 - 0 BULLY
for me it worked too somewhat like that. I was bullied in school by some kids some 4 or 5 years elder. Someday they cornered me and my nature defense reflexes took over and i hit one of them quite badly in the face. From this day on they never tried again. Because in their heart, bullies are mostly very coward people who are affraid if they risk serious resistance.
me too. when i was at school this kid bullied me constantly until i took up the courage to punch him in the face. looking back wasnt a very good punch but it took him by surprise and he didnt do it again after that. Rise up and Stand up for yourself!
@@christiantaylor1495 Hi Christian, good question! BEFORE the bully tried to kick me between the legs TWICE, he'd punched me in the face. My nose was bleeding non-stop and had covered my shirt and light coloured trousers in blood - as well as my face. The woman immediately assumed that I was in a bad way. When he attempted to kick me in my genitals, I tried to grab his leg, but missed. He foolishly tried it again, and this time I succeeded and pulled him down onto the ground. If he reads this: ROBERT DORAN from Priesthill in Glasgow, I hope you grew up to be a better adult than a teenager. P.S. A warning to all bullies: Be prepared for the day that you bully the WRONG person. You MAY live to regret it!
Fully agree. So many people are just horrible, cruel, patronising scumbags, even on here after you've said the right thing. They fully enjoy trying to intimidate you,and the verbal abuse they snarl out is totally unacceptable.
I know someone that got picked on in school. They did everything that they were supposed to. Each day, for a week, they told a person of authority what was going on. Nobody talked to the bully. So, one day, this kid just beat the holy crap out of the bully, worked them over good. They never got in trouble, and nobody messed with that kid again. 😊
usually the teacher tells the kid "ignore him, he will tire of it", which in reality i̶g̶n̶o̶r̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶h̶i̶m̶ being passive triggers him more and encourages him to continue.
3 step rule - say stop - tell authority figure - if they try to stop you doing 1 or 2 and don't stop then solve it by yourself Even my 13 y.o daughter knows these rules. Give them a chance but only one at each level
I was bullied all through primary school and most of high school until I stood up for myself I defended myself. A school teacher asked me if I hit this guy. I said yes. He knew my father and knew that I was bullied for most of my school days. The teacher shook my hand and said if I want to learn martial arts from him. I now have been studying martial arts for over 45 years now and have my own system of martial arts. All through that one teacher.
Ray is 100% right, people have come to accept Ars holes, and are not willing to do anything about it, and just walk away. This is what has emboldened them, but I don't.
Yep, I was bullied in the past and had enough of it. I messed up my bullies, and was reported to the principal because of that. The principal said I have no right to hit somebody, I replied “so its okay to hurt other people through words but not physical? “ i was with my father back then and he was holding back his laughter when the principal stuttered to reply.
I was so young the circumstances are lost to me; but I remember my dad told me, "Never hit someone - but if they hit you, punch them in the face as hard as you can. Don't tell your mom I said this." I followed his advice. Got in one fight in grade school, one in middle school, and... never saw them around otherwise. Guess bullies in fact don't like being punched in the face, because I never really saw them around otherwise.
That group therapist ... he spent more times making assumptions and judgments than actually listening to the facts of the incident. As if he's already made his conclusions before Ray has had an opportunity to give his story.
A line I'll never forget was Toby Keith's reply during a TV interview. The host, while asking him about his past, asked him, "You were a bouncer before, right? Did you ever hurt anyone?" He thought, then answered, "Yeah. But then some people just need hurting."
Mr Inbetween is THE most underrated show! It packs a lot into 1/2 hr and leaves you wanting more! They need to hurry up and get the next seasons on ASAP!!
Yeah, look at drug cartels, Ukraine and Russia, and kids with assault weapons at school dealing with bullies. I guess they’re are just not using enough violence.
A lot of people, particularly on the internet, have become far too comfortable with being unaccountable for their actions. In the real world, the sort of things they say from the anonymity of their electronic device would earn them a slapping.
internet dehumanizes interactions because you don't have the other guy talking right at your face, and that's created certain behaviors that people exploit, we had this thing back in the day with my friends, we would ask each other what superpower we would like to have, ages ago my answer always was "i'd like to be aquaman, breathe underwater, not freeze to death, etc.", but nowdays my answer is "i'd like to be able to punch over TCP/IP".
I was told to "be less prone to bullying" when my parents brought up I was being picked on at school to my vice principal. This is the same vice principal who later suspended me for being violent, after I bled my bully like the squealing pig he was. I can't say high school went perfectly smoothly after that- it's high school. But I never had problems with that asshole again.
well, scott ryan is the brain behind mr-inbetween so it just makes sense... i think that he kind of plays a version of himself, that's why it's so perfect. before watching this show, my favourites where the expanse and breaking bad / better call saul, now these are on the second position :D
I was bullied and beaten when I was about 10 or 11 by some older kids. My brother walked right up and calmly smashed the leader in the face with a brick. He spat his teeth out crying and moaning. I never did get bullied ever again.
Violence isn't always ideal, but it's a form of communication when all other forms have failed! Glad that was the end of it for your and your bro! I even hope the bully remembers what being a dickhead results in to this very day and is a better person because of it! (His jaw might still ache when it rains :P)
Violence may not be the answer most of the time. That being said, sometimes it is the answer. Like it or not, there are assholes out there and for whatever reason, violence is the only language they understand. Should you meet every encounter with violence, no. But when it counts, sometimes it's the only way.
This was one of my all-time favorite series ever. I forget the actor's name but if I saw him, I'd shake his hand for a job well done playing a character I can identify with to a tee. I wish the series wouldn't have ended.
People who say “violence is never the answer” either have never faced any true adversity in their lives or are just plain soft. It shouldn’t be your first response sure, but you can’t just let people walk all over you either. Those guys bumped into his kid, they were given the opportunity to do the right thing and apologize. Instead they continued to disrespect him and curse in front of his kid because it made them feel big. All he did was give them a reminder of just how small they really are
i share the same theory, these people have had a very placid upbringing and never seen bullying 1st hand... simply because if they did they'd knew that bullies are cowards that go for the easiest pray, the don't wanna fight, they just want to humiliate.
@@roberts5539 It's also fact. i can garuntee that. The law is so hypocritical. For context young black boys get the electric chair. And I'm talking kids here. People call this "law". People call it "justice". I call it hate, grudges fear and resentment. At least honest monsters don't pretend.
I found, growing up, that fighting back against a bully was the only hope you had. It generally worked out. Some of them ended up being friends, they themselves improved and became less mean, more kind.
The truth is that men usually make amends better through trading fists as opposed to words, sounds stupid but it builds mutual respect in the sense that neither are a push over.
10th November 2024
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2. I'm from southern Europe but:
3. When I uploaded this video I was a democrat sympathizer, and I used to delete pro democrat and pro republican posts.
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6. *NONE OF THESE INVENTED BULLYING.*
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That's very respectable, I'll be subscribing for the Scuba Diving shorts then!!
He is 100% correct. People can do whatever they want but when you protect your boundaries then all of the sudden you're the problem. The world is crazy.
Not the world, however american values. Once a country full of good values and virtues is now those days a shithole filled with leftists assholes who don't know the difference between right and wrong and want to settle everything "peacefully" because they are so offended by "violence" and "bad behaviour". They traded in their back bone for being some pussies. Maybe America was once the best country in the world but not anymore.
You are right. A lot the laws that were meant to create a more peaceful society gave more powers to bullies (often even criminals) because if you defend yourself or stand up for yourself the laws will punish you for it. Ass holes know this. So they can prey upon people much easier now then they could before.
Yeah... I'm like Ray. Don't fuck aroundcand 0 problems. Fuck around and find out what problems are
@@visualizeanddo2014 here comes the vatnig who needs to play the victim again...
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“Because people let them get away with it.”
Best line that sums up today’s world.
It's applicable everywhere rn
Yeah yeah, today's world bad.
It definitely wasn't like that for the WHOLE FUCKING HUMAN HISTORY.
@@danielgadomski5129 That's why the US has the 2A. F*** around and rind out.
@@danielgadomski5129Are you sure about that?
Are you missing the fact that Ray isn't being made to pay for what he's done?
'Social media made y'all way too comfortable with disrespecting people and not getting punched in the face for it.' - Mike Tyson
This mile Tyson quote has morphed so many times Social media wasn’t invented when Tyson made this comment
@@DannyRedCheeks Everyone has a face. Until you get hit in the plan! - Mike Tyson or someone.
@@DannyRedCheeks A good story deserves embellishment - Gandalf the grey. lol. The social media statement doesn't need anyone's name attached to it to make it great.
That’s because they’re safe sitting behind a computer without the fear of physical reprisal.
If I took a shot
He got that right. Watched the series while on holiday in Australia. Ray is a very likeable character.
The problem isn't the bullies.
The problem isn't those who fight back.
The problem is those who defend the bullies actions while condemning those who stand up against the bullies.
In all fairness, I believe one of the problems IS the bullies. Then it’s people who don’t know or don’t care that their kids/friends are bullies.
Partly true...but the bully does have a mind of its own...just.
The blame culture allows a lot of negatives to occur and the perpetuator to not be accountable...well a short piece of justice..like a kick to the Jacob's....does focus one's attention and draws them in to thinking about their next day's bullying or being a complete turd in society 😉
Like the bullies’ parents sometimes
sad thing is society protects the criminals more than the law abiding citizens...
Please give us some examples of people defending bullies.
The therapist actor played his part really well, as the insufferable condescending therapist lmao.
That tyoe of person is part of the problem. They are enablers of the bullies . In fact they are worse than them because of how they seem to defend the bullies behaviour and call them the victim when it is the other way round . Its completely backward but you see this a lot . This therapist is a sort of devils advocate to the bully
In the U.S. we would call such an ASSHAT "woke" because of such a narcisstic posture as to advocate on behalf of the victimizer!
With the description of the incident he was given, the therapist's reactions were pretty appropriate. Ray didn't frame it as providing a good rationale for bashing someone. He left out the part where the kids were pushing for a fight themselves ("you wanna start some shit?")
@@Electricshrock The challenge for society is how to protect the rights for those who have no voice! Abusive cops often bully the mentally ill, those trapped in a spiral of drug use AND people who are just plain weird!
In other words he played a really bad therapist?
When people say: “If you bash him, just because he was harassing a girl or bullying someone, you’re no better than them”, you say this: “A real human being fights for those who can’t defend themselves”.
when people say that violence is not the answer to a bully, they only prove that they've never been bullied and have never faced a bully, they are just running the mouth with that so *very* fake moral superiority that comes just from ignorance, its so annoying, the little shmucks, thinking like they are better when they are just arrogantly ignorant.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I love when people try the whole, "Violence is bad" Argument. I tell them the story of my grade 5 experience where two boys would pick on me every day and when I'd try to do the "right" thing and tell the teachers, I'd be told to man up or stay away from them. It wasn't until I snapped and went after those two with a bat and was screaming how I was going to cave their skulls in (a teacher managed to stop me before I caught them). They called in my mother and wanted to expel me for extreme violence. My mother asked me what happened, I told her about all of it and she told the principal that if they tried to expel me or punish me in any way, she would sue the school, the district and him personally into the ground (My dear sweet sainted mother was not one to be messed with and you didn't mess with her boys either). Those two boys never messed with me again and at the time, yes I would have beaten them bloody if I'd caught them.
Sometimes there is no other choice but violence.
@@Unclegrimm3937 society nowdays ostracizes the loud guy, it won't even stop for a moment to wonder WHY is he loud, maybe he has a right reason if we just listen to what he has to say, maybe we all need to start being loud instead of compliant.
In that instance if it was real life they deserve everything they got
@@CrazyScubaCouple I find now that a measured and low tone is far more effective. Especially coming from a near seven foot monster LOL Nothing unnerves someone more than a calm and quiet giant.
“I’ll get it off him later, alright.”
Is such a badass line when you know what it foreshadows.
I was bullied all through high school. I was always told that bullies would get tired of it. When I was 16, I finally had it and took my bully's head and hit it against a metal pole. I stopped being bullied after that. Some people only understand violence.
indeed, the same way that some people only understand violence, others don't understand that bullies only understand violence 🤷
sad but true
The problem is when the bully is bigger/stronger than you. Then things can get ugly.
@@147andreluiz a metal pole is still a metal pole. I've seen bears run away from cats. It really depends on who's willing to go the distance. Sure your bully may hit you but if he thinks he might lose an eye in the process, maybe you're not worth it.
That's very true! Some people understand only different languages. Glad you fought back!
@@martinsmith5520 yeah. So what if you get beat up ? At least you'll show him you're no doormat.
“Because people let them get away with it” is the most honest line in any TV show
This can be new catch phrase.
@@fransmadika4904it certainly is mine now
True. Stand up for what is “correct “
That is a fact.
Yup
"People let them get away with it."
This is one of the most accurate statements today. Do not be afraid to stand up for yourself or those you care about.
my own frustrations is towards school system in general that punishes those who stand up against bullies, but never the bullies themselves?
i'd say bringing vigilante justice for oneself is sometimes the answer. violence against bullies is neccessary to let them leave us the f alone... and if they continue to torment, then it's time to really tell them "don't f with me"
i hate it when schools punishes the victims... it makes the victims become doormats...
@@hulCAWmanianUniverse Its more and more common in other areas of society as well .
But the general theme is that by not punishing the bully , the system is enabling and rewarding that bad behaviour and it then escalates because they know they will get away with it . The system wants to punish strong individuals , they want meek , weak sheep poeple in society who just do as they are told and dont fight for real justice
@@MrTimjm009 and that's the thing that frustrated me, I didn't had the balls to hit my bullies not because I feared them, but because I feared getting probation or expelled from school (which I'm now a loyal alumni student of since i already graduated)
@@hulCAWmanianUniverse Similar fot me when I was at school . I could have done the same but I would be the one getting punished
Don't be afraid to stand up to assholes. Personally it doesn't need to be someone I care about. If I saw a young kid getting pushed around by two older guys, it wouldn't matter if I knew the kid or not. Stand up for anyone who isn't able to stand up for themself.
"Not all cowards are bullies, but all bullies are cowards."
A.D. Wallace
"By nature of definition only the coward is capable of the highest heroism." -David Gemmel
"Only when a mosquito lands in your balls you realize some things arent resolved by violence." -Napoleon Bonaparte
@@felipeduggan2812 you just have to aim perfectly
@@felipeduggan2812Nice work sir
If you're a coward, but not a bully then your cowardice is your own business.
I mean, he has a really good point
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.
@@ryanbroos5143 i agree but if they do nothing they aint that good ;)
"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality."
- Desmond Tutu.
Your damn right he got a very big point 😂
@@mrdaykerry evil flourishes when good people say nothing 🙏🏼
Love this show. Quiet, slow burning, and even though Ray is both violent and has the emotional bandwidth of a rock, he is also has his own brand of empathy. So you cannot help but like the guy. Really brilliant acting.
When he held the hand of the druggie who was dying after the car crash (the one who said he didnt want to be an addict and wanted to change and not be a bad person anymore) it was a moment that showed Ray had a lot of compassion buried underneath his tough exterior.
Yep I really loved this show, too bad it went away
One of the best shows Ive seen in a while.
Emotional bandwidth of a rock? Wow you really can read and know people right?
So what you're saying his Ray is an average male. The way males are supposed to be. We're not supposed to be emotional women. Otherwise you become the insufferable therapist in this scene.
Pure gold. Solid street wisdom. "The world's full of assholes, Ray". Ray, "Yeah, you know why?" "Why?" "Because people let 'em get away with it". Bingo.
Hes not wrong in what he said
Some people are just passive, and don’t have that sort of violence in them. That’s why the asshole that do it to the people that aren’t that way, meet a person that won’t put up with their shit, and they’ll get dealt with.
cringe mate either say smth new or stfu
@@Slitherv5, my brother apparently thought that about me until one day in my senior year of high school he found out differently. I bounced him off the kitchen stove which preheating. I had come in hot, tired and thirsty and he started trying to hit me and when I told him to stop he said he wanted to see if I had learned anything in my Tang Soo-Do. After blocking a few blows from him while telling him to stop I struck him in the solar plexus with my left heel of palm. Needless to say that was the last time he did that. At the time I weighed 122 pounds and he weighed almost twice that.
@@donotneed2250 I’m glad he doesn’t bother you anymore, for now. Always protect your peace; never instigate, but be the person that will end something, if someone tries to start something with you. This is one of my life’s lessons. Remember your peace of mind is a very valuable asset for yourself and some people just don’t give a fûck sometimes and will try to violate you-so draw that line for them.
This guys consistent expression of offended moral superiority 😂.
They way he's linguistically manipulative is spot on. This show is awesomeasuce.
It isn't just a man fed up with jerkoffs in public...it's a father protecting his child. He protects her to the point he doesn't let her see the violence he's capable of.
He took her to the car so she won't see the violence, she might get scared, kids get scared whenever they see people fighting, they'll start to think that if they do something bad, they are going to start to think that their parents are going to hit them.
@@Metalviking18 well, not really. they more likely do the thing parents done with others. the thing is- let your kid understand that even the violence sometimes necessary. there will be consequences for every action you did thru your life. teaching kids about consequences - thats most parents are incapable of these days.
It's just dumb like dirty harry. It's fiction. If you act like that in public you'll be dead or in prison within days.
It's a fkn TV show
Exactly!
But the law says you are not allowed to protect yourself or family mate...... Bitched nation we become mate
And this is why fighting back against bullies is the most morally correct thing you could ever do in your life. Give no quarter to those who think their petty comforts and desires are above other's well-being.
Thanks Ray.......You rock mate.
Unless you’re a Marine on a subway
@@themoonbubbleThere's a bit of a difference between belting a bloke for talking when he should be listening and choking him out until he's dead.
@@exhumus He did not choke him out and he was not dead when he released him. He used a hold that restricts the flow of blood to the head until they pass out. Once he passed out the witnesses reported that he put him into a recovery position. The criminal died because of whatever drugs he was on and was probably on the verge of death when he got on the subway and started assaulting people.
If you do not want people protecting themselves against you then act like a civilized person.
Bullies will be bullies as long as the pleasure/profit they get from it outweighs the cost.
no ..thats just an asshole murder who happened to be a marine@@themoonbubble
"Because people let them get away with it" is such a correct statement.
Bullies know that their parents will always love them unless they get enough proof that their son is evil, that some people just dont care, that some people are too afraid to do something about it, and abuse it.
That's why you always fight. Never be an easy target. If your a sheep then expect wolf to mess with you
Bullies are weak people, most of them cry if you fight back and some even run away when it gets serious.
@@clampmotosua1789 Even if you get your arse handed to you, you always fight back anyway. You have two options, be a pussy and let them hit you, or stand up for yourself, where you either get beaten or they piss off.
Their parents will love them? Wtf planet are you on? Oh yeah, that melinnieal bullshit. No their parents don't love them. Their parents beat and abuse them. Which is why their bullies. Welcome to the real world kiddo. Grow tf up. All of you in this thread smh. Petulant preteen idiocy. "They'll cry if you fight back" what Saturday morning cartoons are you prepubescent children regurgitating this crap from? How about you fight the bully when the bully is a 240lb drunken asshole with 5 of his friends in the parking lot of whatever dive bar is next to the convince you had to just run to at 2am because ur wife is 7 months pregnant and can't stop puking so u needed to get anti nausea meds so she can actually get an hour of sleep. So u petulant children are saying that we should what? Attack 5 random drunk men instead of bringing a bottle of meds back to ur pregnant wife? That's not something that's smart or even possible for anyone. And even if u do, I promise you, that "bully" isn't crying and running away. Not with a broken femur he wasn't.
I can only speak on the bullies I knew in my life, and of myself. I got bullied and beat up pretty bad in the 3erd grade. My dad kicked me out until I kicked the other dudes butt. When I did an went home he beat my ass for being a bully. I learned the lesson he was trying to teach me. The problem, I started to become a bully to the other bullies. I realized I liked fighting and some of the bullies were the only ones who could give me a good fight. Not all of them. I never picked on normal kids in school, or normal people when I got older. I stood up for them, I knew in most cases that if they fought back it would only make things worse for them. I would say stand up for yourself always, but use violence only as a last resort. You don't know if the bully is a glass tiger or if he is the real deal. If they are the real deal you just made your life a lot worse, not to mention painful. This is not the 80's anymore and I would not do what I did back then today. I would take every chance to walk away today and never look back, you just don't know what's going on with people today. BTW, all the fighting, I have no back teeth, removed because they became abscessed with age from the repeated hits. My nose is crooked, I just don't look how I should, fighting will rearrange your face. What I'm saying is, stand up for yourself, just don't fight.
*This show was so ridiculously under-rated. The realism of the character & the grittiness & brutality of the show was on another level.*
The most upsetting part about this for me was the anger management therapist and how he phrased his questions in a way that didn't really allow for the man to tell his story of what happened, step by step, beginning to end. Without him being able to tell his story in that way, no understanding of the events or it's context can be arrived at, hence an innocent man gets blamed and stigmatized for having "Anger issues" when in fact he was just doing the right thing.
Yep just like media
I mean he wasnt innocent, I totally understand your point and I think youre right in all the rest, just not him being innocent, you cant go hiting people in the streets and tell yourself youre innocent, if you gonna do it, do it right
Wokeism in action😆
The kids were assholes, but all they did was talk. He's the one who got violent. He wasn't protecting himself or anyone else. HE went after THEM, long after their first interaction. HE was the aggressor. That's not innocent by any means. Pretending this guy was in the right is delusional.
That in itself is a form of bullying. People can verbally bully others, while not even saying anything nasty or aggressive, they're probably the worst kind.
"Assholes are everywhere because people let them get away with it" - So powerful this statement.
We need a t shirt with that on it
@@edwardlariviere9710 Yes we Do!
This is Lefty ideology.
@jcorb No ? Well if a lot more people stood up against bullies, there wouldn't be so much of them. No matter what part of the world you live in, the statement is true.
@jcorb For my personal experience (not that I've been bullied, but I've dealt - and deal - with bullies) : There's 2 things that will stop any bully. 1. Fear. If you make sure that a bully is scared, he will stop bullying. 2. Pain : a bully - like a lot of other aggressive types - will stop their behavior if they receive a dose of their own medicine. I'm not saying that you have to beat them up or put them in hospital. But a choke or wrist / finger / arm grip, has always - for me - done the job.
When I was in the Army, our close combat instructors showed us and demonstrated how you deal with bullies and aggressive people. They only had to deal once with one of the troublemakers to straighten them out.
Your "different and more intelligent approach" might work, but it requires some sort of intelligence from the bullies. I'm sorry but the bullies that I met, aren't the most intelligent people out there.
I see your approach working for people that are locked up in prison. But not on the streets...
So yeah, stand up to bullies and aggressive people, not only as a victim but also as a bystander. It usually only takes around 2 or 3 people to speak up and/or react, to stop bullies. Be one of those 2 or 3 people.
Years of saying "be the better person" or "rise above the hate and anger" or "turn the other cheek" or "evil begets evil" have created the environment where abuse can occur. You don't have to seek out the scumbags to put them in their place. You simply have to fight back decisively that they will think twice before messing with you again. Pain is an excellent motivator, and an even more effective attitude adjustor.
right on point!
As a Christian, I must say people misunderstand the whole "turn the other cheek " thing. Jesus isn't telling us to be "doormats ". What it means is, rather than retaliating right away, give the other person a chance to do the right thing, i.e. apologize, or make right the wrong. Failing that, you should walk away, which is exactly what our "hero" did in this clip. It was only by chance that he saw them again before getting into his car and driving away. So, he approached them to give them another chance to do the right thing. Had they done so, he would've turned around and no harm done.
I agree to an extent, I really think that you should rise above your anger and Ray should have just walked away here. However if anyone puts their hand on you or your family or tries to take away your property, you should be capable and willing to defend yourself. There are too many people thinking that since we are civil and play by rules everyone is.
@@hisdud3ness93 in my honest opinion and with absolutely no will of offending you, those that draw the line on responding just on the phisical agression are cowards, i'm not saying that everyone should be fighting back at every turn, obviously if this where the case the world would be utter chaos, but these idiots in this specific case where begging for a good spanking, and that is what ray did, if you watched the show you know that there are several instances where he held back, furthermore, in this specific case these bullies targeted him and his daughter in a very clear and agressive way, they even bumped onto her so it was indeed phisical and even if it was not, they wouldve deserved it anyway.
for example, in the case of the icecream shop, ray held himself back (with the help of his gf), the guy selling them icecreams wasn't his friend or anything so i dont think it was necessary for him to intervene.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I do watch the show and I think duality of Ray's character is the point, he is obviously a killer for hire and a criminal on one end of things and a father, brother, son and a friend on the other. This is one of the scenes where you can see 2 worlds colliding, he could have walked away no problem and never see those 2 pricks again. However in his other world not punishing a perceived offense is a sign of weakness.
In real life there is no gain in going to that alley and attacking them. Thats how people get shot/stabbed by a punk wanting to prove something. You can just move on and never see those assholes again. Its just Rays ego and emotion thats telling him to go there, its not for "betterment of society" in any way.
Mr. Inbetween. Randomly found this show and couldn't stop watching it. He's so frickn good.
Straya bloke 👌
@@eaglesbaby4233 TX r
I've binge-watched every episode a few times lol
@@badatti2d It's addicting.
When I was in high school in Belgium we had a gym teacher who was a former boxer. His motto was : "Not everyone has the talent to be good at sports. But I will always respect effort and commitment." There was a class that majored in sports (around 25 students per year). The students that were in the 4th, 5th and 6th grade, were athletic, muscular guys. The gym teacher had them patrolling the grounds during free time (20 minutes in the morning and afternoon, an hour at midday). These students made sure that there were no fights and they kept an eye on those that tried to bully others. It worked perfectly : everyone was afraid of the patrolling students and bullies never got a chance to bully. The patrolling students were friendly and they helped students whenever they could. For example : they carried the backpacks of students that walked with crutches because of a broken leg they got in a bicycle accident. It worked because the gym teacher learned HIS guys that it was their duty to protect those that were not as strong or muscular. The patrolling students took pride in their task. Of course, every now and then, some students stood nose-to-nose, ready to fight, but the patrolling students always preventing things from escalating. They took the ones that wanted to fight away, and put them in the showers, so they had to spend the rest of the day with soaking wet clothes. It literally cooled them down :-) Apart from a couple of colds, nothing serious ever happened to them. That was 35 years ago. I'm still friends with some of those patrolling students, some are in the Military, some work in law enforcement. They still take great pride in protecting others.
thats fucking awesome, and all thanks a PE teacher, such good example, thank you for taking the time to share
Hello, I'm very curious to know which school it was because it sounds like my old school back in 1985.
I am no close combat guy and was quite non-muscular and risk-averse. In school we had to choose between boxing and judo. And everyone had to perform at he horizontal bar, bock jumping etc. I very much despised this. And I nearly did no make it to high school in former GDR, because of not throwing mockup hand grenades far enough. I do not rum very fast and I do not throw hand grenades very far, but ar quite good in archery. Also needs some muscle for longer range archery ...I think it is not good to force children to doo things in sports education they do not want at all...
That's an amazing teacher, bro
This is amazing
"Because people let them get away with it"
And then he smiles that smile...brilliant acting
“Tell that guy that he owes me four dollars!”
“Yeah, he does. I’ll get it off him later, ok?”
😄😄😄 Love that line!
Same seems like such a great dad move
After kicking the guy's ass (and his crotch) there should have been a scene where Ray checks the guy on the ground for his wallet, pulls out the cash, retrieves four bucks, and puts the rest back before putting the wallet back in the guy's pocket. That would have been mint
Wich film is that?
Having watched the whole series, I know exactly what he meant. And it was not good for the punks who disrespected him. 😆
there are people who need humility... it is in rare supply in these hardhearted days
I never understand people who "normalize" bullies, but antagonize victim when he defends himself.
That's because it's insane. You don't have to understand asswipes.
Picking on what seems to be weak is a form of natural selection unfortunately.
But I’ll never understand why people blame the animal they themselves forced into a corner.
My personal defense mechanism was to put on 50lbs of muscle and now they all cower. But I’ve seen so many others turn to suicide,guns, or drugs. It’s deeply saddening
The bullies manage to do their worst out of sight of authority. Victims tend to defend themselves without thinking if anyone is watching...
Bullies are psychopaths, their fellow psycho's defend them. There isn't anything normal about a bully, they are just a silence of the lamb story looking for a location.
Totally agree. This attitude has resulted in a proliferation of bullies, they feel invincible as they are immune from punishment knowing the victim will be revictimized by our perverted so-called "justice system."
Right on right there. The ending statement says it all, "Cause people let them get away with it."
Imagine a world where people who purposely, not accidentally, do wrong unto others and were held accountable for it. Damn, what a much better place we'd live in.
indeed
If actions ALWAYS had consequences people might just do a little more thinking and a little less stupid.
@@lexwaldez If actions ALWAYS had consequences, we would be missing 99% of the politicians.
The Dems refuse to put the criminals in jail so they commit more crime, the plan is to let criminals out to kill and rob then blame the guns not the criminal.
@@andrewthompson5728 well, I wouldn't say we'd be "missing" them, but I get what you're saying.
Ray "cos people let em get away with it". Followed by his sinister little smile. Brilliant. What a fabulous show this is. Never dull
best show ever
I have a similar problem where the angrier I am, the bigger I smile. I'm not having, I don't think it's funny, it's just a weird thing I do. I'm smiling huge when I'm close to snapping, I think it's a stress thing and boy has it caught people off guard.
That smile 😂
Dude…. You know your done when you see that smirk.
@@CappyK
I have 2 possibilities here:
1. You are genuinely enjoying hurting someone/the thought of hurting them. 😈 (can feel good to hurt someone when you are really hurt yourself)
2. You are in so much stress and pain, (just like how people who are mentally and emotionally insane experience) that you fake laugh and/or fake smile (like the joker) to be in a state of denial, so that you can ignore the pain, and counter act the stress. 🤡 (No different than someone who rubs their own head and neck when they are nervous and feeling anxiety)
What do you think it is? 🤔
(I’m thinking number 2)
(I don’t think you are a spiteful and/or evil person who ENJOYS hurting others.)
(That would be a serious concern of mine.)
@@WillT25 I know my done?
"Because people let them get away with it"
I felt that.
And really, to the counselor: because people like you let them get away with it
I felt it too
Sadly, bullies only understand one thing and Mr. InBetween explained that to his sanctimonious anger management therapist proper like. Simply brilliant.
I dont think they Stop being assholes just because he kicked one of them in the nuts
His "anger management" therapist spoke like a man who has never been bullied. Those of us who finally found the strength to fight back - and the fury to do a proper job of it - know better. How do we feel about it? Just fucking great!
@@woofna1948 ppl who justify or defend bullies are often ppl who never got bullied or bullied other ppl themselfs
@@toniotrussardi8126 Agreed 100%. In my experience bullies defend bullying and everyone I know who was bullied, hates bullies with a vengeance.
Yep and that therapist was a little soy boy
A man. A real man. He removes his daughter from the conflict immediately. He has no ego about it, just gets it done. But then, he conquers the right and wrong of it; the morality of it. Life is complex. There are still real men in this world. This is a film depiction of reality and it's spot on. We will take care of business... and our families and friends.
Jesus H. Corbett.
mr in between
No. He went back go thr conflict and got into a fight. A real man let's stuff go. I get. It's a movie, we all like action. But in real life, you would be at fault if you did this. And quickly put in jail. No immediate threat. So goin back to those men is egocentric because you can't let a small thing go. Yes they bumped into the gurl. But nothing became of it. He made it into conflict. That my friend, is egocentric alpha male shit.
@@WarriorMike20 YOU'RE THICK
@@duncanidaho0175 Lol. I'd sure hope not. Got an ectomorph body type. 😆
In today’s society, people have more compassion for the attackers than for the victims.. victims have to justify themselves. Loved this! This society has lost it completely.
Its the trouble with basing your judgments upon compassion. Compassion is great, but its too unstable. This clip is exactly a case where the 'therapist's' compassion is toward the bullies not the little girl. Law needs to be based on principle. not compassion. Compassion depends entirely on the emotional whims of the judge.
ps. the reason the judge has more compassion with the perp than the victim is because the judge sees themselves more in the perp than the victim... thats just the result of corruption and moral decay.
@@xanuui bloody good observation
Waiting for the inevitable collapse due to innumerable morons
Down that road lies madness. Read the original starship troopers novel and then think about what you just said, and things get a little scary when you look around
only if you're a white male.
This clip. Every country needs this man. The ideal role model Everything he says is valid. 😊
I agree with Ray 100%.If you let bullies get away with it then they think you are weak and WILL come back to do more, and Worse.
In system that works proper Ray would've filed a case against these bullies with the police having zero problems afterwards, meanwhile bullies would've spent time on various rehab meetings, talks with their parents, general investigation why the bullies had attitude like that in the first place (problems in family perhaps), actually fixing the core of the situation
@@queterian1526in a system that works.
Bullies get punched in the face.
And not a single second of police time is wasted because if I was a fuckin judge. Id say the problem handled itself.
Case dismissed. Next.
@@queterian1526 Except the core of the problem is nobody fears consequences anymore because of the soft touch approach you are mentioning.
amen brother@@vincentdolente7053
@@queterian1526such naive. If what you describe works, you think he would go out of his way to do that?
This show was ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT! CAN'T say enough acting , script . ABSOLUTELY a must watch!!!
I completely agree. It absolutely SLAPS! 😎
What is the show called
@@christiantaylor1495 'Mr Inbetween' 😌
@@stevethomas74 sorry it ended so soon. need a US version
Ok! So what do you think happened after the last scene went dark? I think Ray killed those two guys in the taxi, but maybe that is just hope that he is ok because I'm connected. Maybe the show was showing that death by violence was just him karma playing out. I'd love to read your interpretations.
This is beyond true and his philosophy and exact manner of how to deal with such people has worked just fine for me minus the scripted judicial bullshit for 40+ years. I was bullied as a kid in school for the better part of 5 years. It was common knowledge. Not a single teacher ever helped unless it happened directly in front of them, and even then zero punishment aside from them losing a recess was ever done. The military set my head straight and helped me make a man of myself. In all my years I've never seen a bully stop until someone, like me, was willing to subject them to very suffering they seek to inflict. I won't lie. I take pleasure in putting their kind in their place. I've never put a hand on a person outside of blatant bullies in the act of violence, or on behalf of someone being attacked. Generations of non confrontation turn the other cheek bullshit has only led to a steady increase of entitled tools thinking they can hurt or prey on others for kicks. Worse is your average person walking the streets is more likely to pull out a cell phone, piss their pants, or just spectate than get involved and help. Way I see it, I'm just doing my small part to do for others what no one would do for me. Spare them the same humiliation and suffering I went through and remind them that while rare there are people willing to stand up.
_I won't lie. I take pleasure in putting their kind in their place._
When someone has earned it, its understandable, even expected...
Amen to that
you know what happens when you let bullies "get away with it" ? You get mass shootings years later. The victims of years of bullying and neglect lashing out because they start hating everything and everyone around them. How often do you read about some shooter(s) having been bullied in their teens only for them to come back at innocent people or taking 'revenge' on their bullies ? I've read an article once where someone who was bullied at work by a coworker, when the victim came back a whole bunch of people died, including the ones that 'let it happen' and turned a blind eye. Things like this shouldn't happen, but they do because ppl just let it happen, i have no sympathy for them, they should have spoken up.
thank you for your service
True. Sometimes a fool needs to be smacked back out of their reality INTO reality. Some people just don't learn with words. They only learn after getting the shit knocked out of them. Maybe. Some years back i was a corrections officer when i was 23. I went through an experience where I was assaulted. Dude was always just picking at me. I was on a work detail. He just happened to be there. He had diarrhea of the mouth that day. Took a swing at me. I ended up breaking his arm. I'm just glad the other "residents" didn't jump on me. I had to resign, go to anger management in order to avoid prosecution. Believe that shit. Fucking gangbanger got me fired.
"The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing." Albert Einstein
Einstein really got everything figured out didnt he
if one person can remove the possibility of stopping a bully from bullying anymore, I believe that you're doing the world a favour. Not all heroes wear capes.
Some have to go to anger management classes.
I stopped a Bully in High school and proper!!! He never bullied anyone again pretty sure :)
@@tonyinmiami99
Well done
@@stefanmirica6485 LOL
A great wise man once said
"A great many people are alive ONLY because its illegal to kill them"
Absolute truth
Whoa!!.., That was Mad Real!!…
Respects!!
And a great many of those you refer to are women who far too often get a pass… equal opportunity justice
Bet you break the speed limit illegally tho huh. So great man not so wise
The older I get, the less life in prison is a deterrent.
He is doing the right thing... fight back against bullies... People deserve "RESPECT"
Technically respect is earned, what people deserve is to be treated with common decency which in itself is becoming rarer and rarer these days.
One of a handful of things I have to be proud of is that I never once skipped an opportunity to put a bully in their place whether it was for me or someone else.
Mistakes you made:
1. you spilled his daughter's ice cream
2. You cursed in front of his daughter
3. You disrespected him in front of his daughter
4. You pissed off a professional hitman
5. You should'nt have opened your mouth unless it was to say "sorry"
6. You did mistakes 1 - 5 to Ray Shoesmith....
@@biknjak amen
Yep, a “I’m really sorry that I bumped into your daughter and spilled your daughter’s ice cream. Please allow me to buy her another one.”
I couldn't agree with you more. The whole "don't stoop to THEIR level" phrase was invented by someone that was probably a coward, and felt that potentially getting THEIR asses kicked would somehow exalt themselves as some kind of a "hero" to others like them. Sadly, NONE OF THIS is true. There is only one way to defeat a bully (which is a necessary evil in the world, IMHO)... and that is to simply STAND UP TO THEM... no matter the cost... so that they will think twice about bullying you again! I am from the Old-School, and we were taught this, even in SCHOOL, in which case, after the ensuing fight was over the two young men were told to shake hands. In many cases, you might just have made a new friend because of it!! In other cases, the bully would learn his or HER (that's right, I said it) lesson, and either find someone else to bully, or simply end their bullying ways altogether. The point is, violence would normally play a role in the scenario. NO "use your words"... NO "time outs"... NO calling an adult to handle KID problems... and NO litigation of ANY kind! The schoolyard, playground, street corner, or backyard would now become THE OCTAGON. Gee, how I miss the good ol' days!!!!
People just have no manners anymore. Pretty sad.
I spent 9 years with the US Army, served with the Strike Force 2/502 Inf, 101st Airborne in Vietnam, moved down under in 1979 to teach. This has been the best Australian production I have ever seen. I have to be honest, with all my skills, training and knowledge, there have been times in my life where I have held back, even when I could have really hurt the other person as it isn't socially acceptable to act out that anger. ... .Watching this actor play a returned solder and a skilled sniper is close to reality... I'm so sorry there won't be more, he's a brilliant writer and actor.
dont hold back mate, just make sure no one sees you!!!
@@CrazyScubaCouple That was the advice a local police Sargent once gave me..No witnesses. The police hated a local criminal, and for good reason. When I said I walk away if I can, until I can't..I mean that. Then a day came I had to look for the guy..That's when I got the advice.
Why wont there be more? The last season seemed ok, had some good moments. It's a great show I'm sure we haven't heard the last of Ray Shoesmith.
Speaking of great shows, did you see Justified? I just heard they were bringing that back again after a few years hiatus oh, also a great show
@Blitza I'm proud I served the United States of America, Just like my father and Grandfather. What did you ever do for your country??? Does your mother know you are up this late, playing on the computer?
@Blitza Attitudes like yours have always been shameful mate. What a mindless, insulting mindset you have. If you ever find yourself in some disaster situation, more than likely it will be the military that will save your ass. Perhaps you could start by considering that.
He is 100% right, people just let them get away with it! We need more people like him
I never thought I'd watch a show even close to the Sopranos, but this is it. I can't give it any more praise than that.
Love this show mostly because Ray does what every man would like to do in a society that lets us down. Like the episode where they kidnapped his daughter's friend and Ray just goes into hunter mode to find the people that took her, and get her back. Damn good show.
best show *EVER*
so, it's fantasy then?
What’s this film called
@@Luke-sj1ce Mr. In-between. It's on Hulu
@mantiskf2003 yeah, its a TV show. What else do you need explained?😊
“Cause people
Let them get away with it”. Bang on Ray.
Some people need to be put in their place, otherwise, someone else is going to become another victim.
I absofuckinglutely agree with you my brother 👊🏻
Sad...but 100% true. 🙏
"Because people let them get away with it." He couldn't be more right
I feel his action his right
sometimes putting someone in their place only increases the anger, like dude was beating his wife on the street, me and my homie intervened, pushed guy around a bit, only to later find out he put the wife in hospital because he was frustrated with how we treated him...
That smile just gets me. He's right and the person(s) involved in writing this script know it. Fabulous show.
the actor himself wrote it :) show is astonishingly good
The smile on his face when explained what happened was great 😄
Definitely true. Abusers won't stop abusing others if they never face any consequences for doing it.
The way the legal and school systems come down in favor of bullies most of the time is insane and only encourages more atrocious behavior.
Just had to say that I saw this snippet and decided to watch the full series. It was absolutely amazing. The acting, writing and just the utter realism was so powerful. I've never been so engrossed in a character and be so fearful and hopeful for them at the same time. The most amazing scene was Ray's brother's final words, that life doesn't end, it just changes form. How wonderful. It was truly one of the best shows I've ever seen. I hope the writer does more.
i am *SO* glad that thanks to this clip you watched the show and liked it as much as i did, this was the whole reason of me doing it, its realism, it being to grounded to the *real* world, not the fucking bullshit that _normies_ try to shove down our necks.
@@CrazyScubaCouple gotta ask.... What do you think happened to Ray in the ending of that last episode? I realize it's up to interpretation, but love to see what another fan thinks.
@@japandata he fucking kills em both and then goes with that accent and resignation tone of his "well, i reckon i have to dig now"...
@@CrazyScubaCouple what’s the name of it
@@directorparisholmes2024 the name of the show is in the description 😉👍
Dam good actor. The more you know the character the more you enjoy the acting 😊
I was introduced to this show from a clip on TikTok. I'm so happy I decided to watch it. Mr. Inbetween is one of the most exhilarating and beautifully paced shows I've seen in recent years. An absolute masterpiece and hidden gem. Scott Ryan is a legend and a genius. Can't wait to see what he comes up with next.
best tv show *EVER*
@@CrazyScubaCoupleI wonder what Ray brother Bruce did before getting sick. I saw a tattoo on Bruce hand and it looks like a firefighter one. And I think 💭 Bruce knows whatvRays does because he said Ray your getting sloppy
@@danrobinson572 i thought he was in the shady business too, presicely for that comment, who knows... 🤷
@@CrazyScubaCouple ok just thought 💭 you might know for sure. When I saw the tattoo on Bruce hand it was my first reaction.
Tik Tok is Chinese malware
You’ve been warned
If your friend, family member or anyone else is being bullied, stand up for them.
You scare the bully if it’s a kid, if it’s a “youth” then a kick in the balls, slap in the face or just humiliate them. Then they don’t come back.
Stand up for those who can’t or are too intimidated/scared.
Don’t let the bullies win.
spot on! cheers mate!
> if it’s a “youth”.
Replace "youth" with "anyone else". Old people don't deserve immunity. Being old is no excuse for being a bully. Unfortunately there is a lot of false entitlement going around amongst middle age and older people.
@@Noi5ee I'm sn :old person". I don't feel the least bit entitled, as you call it. I also don't feel like having to put up with bullshit from young people...I don't put my hands in others, and I won't tolerate anyone putting their hands on me. I don't harass others, and I won't stand them harassing me. Most "older people" I know don't like disrespect. They don't act entitled.
@@Noi5ee I was giving examples going up in age. If it’s a kid, just appearing intimidating can be enough. As the age of the bully increases, so the way to handle it changes.
Sorry if I wasn’t clear.
also teach that relative of yours to stand up for themselves, so that situation won't happen again!
Violence is never a good choice, but sometimes it’s the right choice.
“It is better to be a warrior in a garden, than to be a gardener in a war.” - Miyamoto Musashi
beautifully Put.
@removethatpfp usubhhumanssackoffshiitbbittcchh no
@removethatpfp usubhhumanssackoffshiitbbittcchh her name is Rainbow Dash, racist
@removethatpfp usubhhumanssackoffshiitbbittcchh you need to fix your keyboard. Seems like some keys are sticking.
I thought that was Bruce Lee … everything gets attributed to him 😅
Great clip, don't let bullies get away with it.
This is an excellent series. And this was really mellow to what he's capable of.
My father was ex military, he was also a SGT of Arms for a chapter of the Mongols MC here in the Harbor Area of Los Angeles (not Harbor Chapter, but the Harbor Area. I will leave which specific chapter anonymous, while he’s passed away a few years now he was a notoriously bad guy to certain people and who knows who reads these comments but I digress…) well, what seems like a lifetime ago when I was around maybe 8/9 years old, my sister and I watched him do something physically to someone else that we weren’t meant to see. As kids do I asked why he did it and his word’s burned into my brain for almost 40 years now. “A lot of people understand English and a lot of people understand Spanish and a lot of other people understand a lot of other languages. If you speak English to a man who only speaks Spanish then whatever your trying to tell them won’t be understood. Money is a language just like English or Spanish, and unfortunately, fighting and punching is also a language. What you watched me do over there was just me making my point to him in the only language he speaks and now what I was saying to him he understands “ (granted this was almost 40 years ago and he always said it this way or some variation of this way but you get it I’m sure) and to this day those words ring true. This video is proof of that. Dude was walking with his kid, spoke English and they just didn’t understand. And damn near made it obvious that the only OTHER language they spoke, was get beat TF up on. My dad was a hard man. He loved hard and he hated hard, he did what he did but always tried to reiterate why he did it, and why I should or shouldn’t do the same. My older brother joined the MC. He’s gone too now. I never did, but I am a very successful business owner that started in my garage and now have 29 employees and cleared over 900k in 2021. I like to think that his metaphor helped me get here. I learned the language of money, and while I haven’t been in a fight since high school, The language of punching or getting punched even is not foreign to me and I don’t mind speaking it if it’s the only language someone I’m trying to communicate with understands. I’m so damn sorry for the long comment 🤦🏻♂️ kinda went on a tangent there. This scenario just shot me back to 3rd grade when I learned the different languages of the world. Everyone be well and stay safe out there 🙏
_A lot of people understand English and a lot of people understand Spanish and a lot of other people understand a lot of other languages. If you speak English to a man who only speaks Spanish then whatever your trying to tell them won’t be understood. Money is a language just like English or Spanish, and unfortunately, fighting and punching is also a language. What you watched me do over there was just me making my point to him in the only language he speaks and now what I was saying to him he understands_
EZ CLAP, pure wisdom, nothing more to add other than thank you very much for sharing in such detail, no worries on the long comment.
It’s the language countries use to settle issues.
I hear you and I respect what you said. Only a fool picks a fight with someone he doesn't know. And some people, bullies in particular, only understand one language - so when I get into a conversation with a person like that, I speak it loudly and with confidence. They get hurt bad? Tough luck. Pick someone you know you can beat next time...
take it with a grain of salt. I mean, do you know if or how many peope he killed in his military carrier? Maybe he does not know himself. few talk about. Maybe it is also the main language he himself spoke fluently and did not consider alternatives in a adequate way. Relatives not everytime are exposed to this bad side of soldiers.
@@andyking957 I’m not positive how many people he killed. I specifically remember him saying that his first few times him and his buddies would say “BRO, YOU KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE WE KILLED TODAY!? 😃 🙌” and by the end, they would say “man… do you know how many people we killed today? 😞 😔” I never tried to get too in depth about that specific thing. But I do know he had more than his fair share. I only remember those words of him and his buddies thinking it was awesome at first, and by the end, it turned into just something he did. He was a hard man. I would never say “I’m glad he has passed away” out of malice, because he was actually a very good man to us, but I am definitely glad he’s not around to see what the world has turned into. What the military has turned into. People hating America is nothing new, Americans hating American is something else.
I remember at school in the seventies in south London we had a kid in our class who had physical disabilities. We also had the hardest kid in the school who could one punch knock out anyone of any age. I am still friends with both of them. The tough kid made it very clear all around the school that if anyone hurt or abused the disabled one he would ruin their week. It never happened because the arseholes knew what was coming.
When I was 7 years old I was being bullied and shaken down by these four kids that lived down the block and it was pretty much everyday on my way home. My dad new something was wrong so I told him. He then told me that if I didn't stand up to them the bullying would continue. He taught me how to size them up picking the leader out as my first target and to plan my first strike well. He said go for the nose with as many punches as you can get in before the other join in. If it looks bad then get him on the ground behind him and make it hurt. Then he told me I would probably get my ass kicked but they would know that I would fight back. When I hit the gang leader it took him completely by surprise. One punch and that was it. He started crying and then took off with the others. So later that day there was a knock on the door and it was the kid and his dad. My dad invited them in and offered them something to drink. The kid had told his dad that he had been attacked and then after a discussion the facts came out and that boy was in trouble. We actually became good friends and all the neighborhood kids new not to try and push me around. It's funny how things turn out sometimes.
Better to aim for the throat! I good punch to the larynx will take the wind out of their sails and they're vulnerable!!
@@MegaMagicdog Not a bad idea now that I am older and know what a larynx is. To your point: UA-cam the "Better Call Saul" scene where Mike disarms the hot- shot guy with a punch to the throat. Classic.
@@randmayfield5695 Is that the "I'll just take one of yours" scene where Mike didn't bring a gun? :P
@@phattjohnson Except Mike punched the guy in the throat.
"he said go for the nose with as many punches as you can get in before the other join in"
damn bro: your dad is a savage - love him
hehe
I love this series. He plays that character so well.
All those kids being bullied and tortured by kids they go to school and yet when they protect themselves they are the ones who are the attacker and the bully is the victim. If the people who ran schools addressed that I think a lot of these school shootings would stop too. Just my two cents
well, same happens in the judicial system, context is always disregarded, or rather, not even taken into account, the judge doesn't want to know about it, they want to know who bashed who, how much damage one did to another so the forensics, the judge and the prosecutor can make up this pantomime and fine each part "accordingly", they don't really care about justice, only punishment.
many years ago some idiot wanted trouble, he started insulting me and stuff on the street, i just left because that guy was just mad and i didnt want any trouble, 10 minutes and 2 streets down the road he kept on insulting until i lost it, i headbutted him once, he fell, i grabbed him, make him stand up on his feet then punched him once, his glasses fell off, after that i even picked them up from the floor and gave them to him, i mean, i wasnt even enraged, the moron had the nerve to go report me to the police... surreal, if he was man enough as to go asking for trouble, he should've been man enough to deal with the consequences, i explained it in court, they didn't care one bit, not even after the dumbfuck said plainly "yeah i could really use this money so i could do renovations on my home's bathroom", and even after saying this the judge ruled against me, unreal.
Problem is bullying will never go away. But what people fail to realise is that its children's first hard lesson in life that shjt rolls down hill considering someone is always bullying the bully as well.
@@cerebusrex-u1721 i've known several bullies, and what i can say is that what you just said is a pile of horseshit, let me elaborate:
a dude i knew, used to bully because he had low selfesteem and the only way the poor fuck knew how to rise himself was to lower others, the only issue this twat had in his family was that his mom was single, no father figure, but no one ever bullied this bastard...
another bully i knew, was told by his mom that he was special on a daily basis, the dimwit belived it so in his mind and due to his "specialness" he thought he was entitled to much more rights than anyone else, this family where the founders of the Cardellach elevator brand which ended up being the OTIS elevator brand, so you bet they where astonishingly rich, the kid was rotten spoiled, no one ever bullied him, i'm just gonna say that he had a servant, when he left the house the servant would run after him to put his coat on him, he just had to raise his arms and let the servant dress him up, no one *ever* bullied this dude.
I'm not saying that what you say is false per se, but when you say "someone is *always* bullying the bully" is just false, majority of bullies are just insecure morons with null emotional inteligence and empathy with low self esteem, not abused kids... i'd dare to say that them being bullied themselves is less than half, or even less, mate, please do read aroud these comments where i explain the kind of school i went when i was a kid, let me expand it here:this school was full of nazis, in spain, hitler's partner francisco franco died of old age, in his bed, buried in his mausoleum, with all his friends and family put in places to perpetuate the dictatorship, even after the transition to democracy, even nowdays, them fascists still rule spain, this school was full of nazis, so i knew a SHIT TON of bullies, in this school, we where only 12 kids per class, their motive for this 12 per class was that the kids would receive the attention that they needed, so problematic kids would go to this place, but this was no public school, it was private, and 12 per class costs heaps (at some point my class had only 8 kids), parents would pay 730 american dollars every month, and this was 20 years ago, no unstructured broken families, no drunk dads, belive me, mom and dad where filthy rich, as i said, the problems these kids might have had (if they had any) where mostly absent parents that would just give a black mastercard credit card to his son or maybe overprotective parents, which just creates little hitlers.
What you say may extend to some point, but is far, very far from "always", they have other issues, and being abused is rarely one of them.
@@CrazyScubaCouple Maybe the case, but we can't all be psychiatrists to work people out, sometimes the simple method is best, get yourself disciplined , learn a martial art or boxing , and fear no one, I was bullied relentlessly as a kid, never looked back after some judo.
@@espenforfen1334 indeed, if you look further down that's what i told someone else, and that's what i'll do with my future son, get him karate lessons with some good sensei, someone that can teach him both karate and discipline 👍
I like how calm and rational he is. His logic is sound as well.
Back in the day people generally refrained from being assholes because they were afraid of getting their asses kicked.
Today people act like self entitled turds because they know if you attack them they can ruin your life and many do it on purpose.
It's turning society into a bunch of shitty people looking for trouble.
shitty people looking for trouble and indoctrinated sheep, right now, i've arrived from from the supermarket, i went to buy groceries, there where a couple of guys, a 60 year old dad and a 30 year old son i reckon, their trolley was empty, they had nothing to buy, yet they where on the queue waiting to get out... so fucking pathetic, i told them to just gtfo, and they hesitantly did so...
@@CrazyScubaCouple were they wearing masks? You said indoctrinated sheep so i figured they were a couple mask cucks
@@CrazyScubaCouple so where they the indoctrinated sheep, or where you the asshole looking for trouble? 50/50? 80/20? I'm guessing 80/20, am I right.
@@CrazyScubaCouple I grew up during a different age where people for the most part were pleasant. We said yes sir or no ma'am.
Society had a certain code of ethics and people observed proper mannerisms.
The threat of getting your ass kicked for being a dick was real but people generally refrained from being dicks because there was no reason for it.
It was kind of like the philosophy peace through strength or mutually assured destruction. You only saved aggression for extreme cases as a last resort because all that will lead to was more trouble than it was worth.
Today petty people wear aggression like a badge of honor and aren't afraid to show it everywhere they go.
He should be employed as a teacher for anger management courses...
Bullies don't stop bullying of their own accord. Only the victim can stop the bullying. By refusing to be a victim. Sure, you might get in trouble when you fight back, but the satisfaction of standing up for yourself is priceless. Plus, if you're a school kid, you'll likely never be bullied at school again. Bullies only bully people who won't stand up for themselves.
@jcorb Your "Na" is actually illogical because it doesnt change what Jc said.
Why should having a low amount of social intelligence make his statement wrong? That is illogical.
Notice also that all of us who actually successfully dealt with bullies say the same thing other while people who think they know how, merely state "research". Almost all the time without even stating the source, nor checking if it is reliable.
Worse are people who mouth of cliche they hear from schools, bureacratic or religious institutions that dont know what they are talking about.
Bullies are like hunters, they would rather prey on the weak and avoid people who can fight back.
100% facts. I was bullied relentlessly by this little twerp in middle school for about 2 years. He messed with me in the 6th and 7th grade almost every single day. Constant name calling, constant physical assault, if he ever saw me in the hallway it was a never-ending ride as he would just follow me and slap me, try to trip me, try to steal my backpack, etc.
He did not do this to just me. He did it to other kids too.
In the 8th grade, I had just gotten to the top of the 3rd floor stairs and I was on my way to a classroom to hand in work. I needed to get it to my teacher in the next 30 seconds, otherwise that jerk would have given me a zero. Then the bully shows up and steals my backpack. He's laughing and howling and cackling the entire time. Nobody tried to stop him.
He started running back towards the stairs and was clearly threatening to toss my pack over the railing. I slowly, calmly walked over to him. And then I shoved him. He looked surprised but continued to laugh at me. I shoved him again, this time much, much harder.
He fell back against the railing and almost fell, head first, over the railing. I almost sent this asshole to the hospital. Possibly could have even landed him in a grave. All over a stupid backpack and a minute or two of high-grade "entertainment" for him. It was in that short 5 second moment where I could see the look of complete and total fear on his face. It's like he realized that what he was doing was incredibly stupid.
He didn't fall. He got his footing back, said "holy shit man", and I grabbed my pack out of his slimy little hands. He did not screw with me for the rest of the year. And nobody reported me for this little incident either. There were TONS of kids around...I think pretty much everybody knew this douchecanoe had it coming.
F*** you Kyle. I hope your life is currently a failure.
I would put all bullies of one district in one school together with a large wall arount. So they can do they like most. After some 3 months they can apply or mercy and to be re.trandferred to normal school. The winners of this contest go to military or jail.
but it's not just about self satisfaction
Now i don't know how old youa re, BUT YOU MISSED THE POINT
the satisfaction IS A MEANS TO AN END, without the end it is pointless
I'm 48
Here is what it is
you get bullied because you lack confidence
at the time in shcool. it doesn't mean that much
BUT... GIVE IT 30 YEARS
You will find yourself depressed, possibly on drugs, possibly suicidal (i speak from facts)
the satisfaction GIVES RISE TO CONFIDENCE
CONFIDENCE RAISES SELF ESTEEM
SELF ESTEEM RAISES POSITIVE FEELINGS
and the end result is ....
If you have positive feelings you will not be depressed or suicidal
Later in life when you have a wife you won't be a bitch and you can defend your family should the need arise,
if you are negative YOU WILL FAIL TO DEFEND YOUR FAMILY
it's not about satisfaction
it's about WHO YOU BECOME IF YOU DON'T FIGHT BACK
and it takes the hindsight of around 30 years or more to realize that
a bully can't know what he is doing to you 30 years from now while at school picking on you
but yeah... kick the fuck out of him
in 30 years he'll realize you were right
THE WORLD HAS A BALANCE TO IT
PRESERVE THE BALANCE
I've watched this series 4 times now. It's like the best show.
best show ever indeed.
As a disabled kid at school, I was regularly bullied - until one bully FORCED me into a fight after school. I was NEVER bullied again after that!
I got him down on the pavement, and grasping his hair in my hand, kept banging his head on the ground. He REFUSED to give in and end it.
Fortunately for him, a woman waded through the crowd and rescued ME! He ended up in hospital. VICTIM 1 - 0 BULLY
for me it worked too somewhat like that. I was bullied in school by some kids some 4 or 5 years elder. Someday they cornered me and my nature defense reflexes took over and i hit one of them quite badly in the face. From this day on they never tried again. Because in their heart, bullies are mostly very coward people who are affraid if they risk serious resistance.
me too. when i was at school this kid bullied me constantly until i took up the courage to punch him in the face. looking back wasnt a very good punch but it took him by surprise and he didnt do it again after that. Rise up and Stand up for yourself!
HOW WAS YOU RESCUED IF YOU WAS WINNING
@@christiantaylor1495 Hi Christian, good question! BEFORE the bully tried to kick me between the legs TWICE, he'd punched me in the face. My nose was bleeding non-stop and had covered my shirt and light coloured trousers in blood - as well as my face.
The woman immediately assumed that I was in a bad way.
When he attempted to kick me in my genitals, I tried to grab his leg, but missed. He foolishly tried it again, and this time I succeeded and pulled him down onto the ground.
If he reads this: ROBERT DORAN from Priesthill in Glasgow, I hope you grew up to be a better adult than a teenager.
P.S. A warning to all bullies: Be prepared for the day that you bully the WRONG person. You MAY live to regret it!
@@fontybits UNDERSTANDABLE! HAVE A NICE DAY!
Fully agree. So many people are just horrible, cruel, patronising scumbags, even on here after you've said the right thing. They fully enjoy trying to intimidate you,and the verbal abuse they snarl out is totally unacceptable.
I know someone that got picked on in school. They did everything that they were supposed to. Each day, for a week, they told a person of authority what was going on. Nobody talked to the bully. So, one day, this kid just beat the holy crap out of the bully, worked them over good. They never got in trouble, and nobody messed with that kid again. 😊
usually the teacher tells the kid "ignore him, he will tire of it", which in reality i̶g̶n̶o̶r̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶h̶i̶m̶ being passive triggers him more and encourages him to continue.
3 step rule
- say stop
- tell authority figure
- if they try to stop you doing 1 or 2 and don't stop then solve it by yourself
Even my 13 y.o daughter knows these rules. Give them a chance but only one at each level
This should be a PSA shown multiple times a day and over the weekend. It should be shown before the start of every movie in a theater.
1:03 Wow, the kid isn’t talking like a character in a show, she’s talking like an actual kid.
the dialogue in that section was improvised, well spotted
Thats what I love about this show. Everything feels real and as an Australian each conversation feels improvised and an everyday occurance.
Awesome show
Ikr I have only seen clips but I love this film already
I was bullied all through primary school and most of high school until I stood up for myself I defended myself. A school teacher asked me if I hit this guy. I said yes. He knew my father and knew that I was bullied for most of my school days. The teacher shook my hand and said if I want to learn martial arts from him. I now have been studying martial arts for over 45 years now and have my own system of martial arts. All through that one teacher.
A good teacher who touch a student soul have a life long impression on them , but I don't have to tell you this sir ✌️. 😊
Great Teacher
That was a good teacher you had
Ray is 100% right, people have come to accept Ars holes, and are not willing to do anything about it, and just walk away. This is what has emboldened them, but I don't.
....so few words...BUT.....mean SO much...brilliant show...🎉😮😮😮
indeed, to me is the best tv show ever
God! I hate bullies. We need more of Mr. Inbetween in this world.
Yep, I was bullied in the past and had enough of it. I messed up my bullies, and was reported to the principal because of that. The principal said I have no right to hit somebody, I replied “so its okay to hurt other people through words but not physical? “ i was with my father back then and he was holding back his laughter when the principal stuttered to reply.
I was so young the circumstances are lost to me; but I remember my dad told me, "Never hit someone - but if they hit you, punch them in the face as hard as you can. Don't tell your mom I said this."
I followed his advice. Got in one fight in grade school, one in middle school, and... never saw them around otherwise. Guess bullies in fact don't like being punched in the face, because I never really saw them around otherwise.
Mr Inbetween was legit the best Aussie show I've seen in a very, very long time.
That group therapist ... he spent more times making assumptions and judgments than actually listening to the facts of the incident. As if he's already made his conclusions before Ray has had an opportunity to give his story.
A line I'll never forget was Toby Keith's reply during a TV interview. The host, while asking him about his past, asked him, "You were a bouncer before, right? Did you ever hurt anyone?" He thought, then answered, "Yeah. But then some people just need hurting."
Mr Inbetween is THE most underrated show! It packs a lot into 1/2 hr and leaves you wanting more! They need to hurry up and get the next seasons on ASAP!!
best show ever indeed, shame it got the axe :c
@@CrazyScubaCouple well Boo on THAT!!!
This show is the best thing I've seen in decades...watch it if you haven't already
best show ever indeed
Man I wish everyone watched this show. It's so good.
Anyone who says violence doesn't solve anything hasn't used enough violence..Mr Inbetween def one of the most underrated shows ever made
There is a good documentary called One Killer Punch.
This is a TV show. It is fantasy.
@@quesoblanco444 I know and I'm quoting the lead character....
@@kikazz127 Ah, that's what punctuation is for. It shows you are quoting something.
Yeah, look at drug cartels, Ukraine and Russia, and kids with assault weapons at school dealing with bullies. I guess they’re are just not using enough violence.
@@28th_St_Air would you like a hug?
A lot of people, particularly on the internet, have become far too comfortable with being unaccountable for their actions. In the real world, the sort of things they say from the anonymity of their electronic device would earn them a slapping.
internet dehumanizes interactions because you don't have the other guy talking right at your face, and that's created certain behaviors that people exploit, we had this thing back in the day with my friends, we would ask each other what superpower we would like to have, ages ago my answer always was "i'd like to be aquaman, breathe underwater, not freeze to death, etc.", but nowdays my answer is "i'd like to be able to punch over TCP/IP".
most people are cowards, if someone deserves it I'll call them stupid fuckwit to their face, nothing ever happens...
I go by one simple rule. If I wouldn't say it to your face, I won't say it online.
This bloke should do seminars in every school in the country. His reasoning is spot on 👌🏻
This one of the greatest TV show sequences I have seen. So right on!!!
best tv show ever
I was told to "be less prone to bullying" when my parents brought up I was being picked on at school to my vice principal. This is the same vice principal who later suspended me for being violent, after I bled my bully like the squealing pig he was.
I can't say high school went perfectly smoothly after that- it's high school. But I never had problems with that asshole again.
Well done.
Bled??? As in stabbed or beaten???
It's gaslighting! They make it sound like it's YOUR fault for getting picked on! Had that happen to me too ("she keeps asking for it!").
Mr.Inbetween is one of my most favorite series ever. The man playing Ray is what perfect casting is like
well, scott ryan is the brain behind mr-inbetween so it just makes sense... i think that he kind of plays a version of himself, that's why it's so perfect.
before watching this show, my favourites where the expanse and breaking bad / better call saul, now these are on the second position :D
Such a good show. Ray is the ultimate underdog who made himself powerful.
My cousin’s friend Willie right here! He was the same way and he cared and protected me! He will always be my friend ❤🙏🏽
I was bullied and beaten when I was about 10 or 11 by some older kids.
My brother walked right up and calmly smashed the leader in the face with a brick.
He spat his teeth out crying and moaning.
I never did get bullied ever again.
You had a good brother mate. My late half brother told me to never approach him at high school. So l had to defend for myself.
Violence isn't always ideal, but it's a form of communication when all other forms have failed! Glad that was the end of it for your and your bro! I even hope the bully remembers what being a dickhead results in to this very day and is a better person because of it! (His jaw might still ache when it rains :P)
@@Paul77ozee I did that to my younger cousin. Now as an adult I feel bad about it. Instead of sticking with family I abandoned him.
Violence may not be the answer most of the time. That being said, sometimes it is the answer. Like it or not, there are assholes out there and for whatever reason, violence is the only language they understand. Should you meet every encounter with violence, no. But when it counts, sometimes it's the only way.
This was one of my all-time favorite series ever. I forget the actor's name but if I saw him, I'd shake his hand for a job well done playing a character I can identify with to a tee. I wish the series wouldn't have ended.
People who say “violence is never the answer” either have never faced any true adversity in their lives or are just plain soft. It shouldn’t be your first response sure, but you can’t just let people walk all over you either. Those guys bumped into his kid, they were given the opportunity to do the right thing and apologize. Instead they continued to disrespect him and curse in front of his kid because it made them feel big. All he did was give them a reminder of just how small they really are
i share the same theory, these people have had a very placid upbringing and never seen bullying 1st hand... simply because if they did they'd knew that bullies are cowards that go for the easiest pray, the don't wanna fight, they just want to humiliate.
This goes to show you that the criminals are more protected than the actual victims
it's fiction.
@roberts5539 Criminals are more protected than the victims luckily here in the USA people are starting to change.
@@christianmathew398 what statistical analysis was that based on? or is something you read or saw on social media?
The world is full of cry bullies and their flying monkeys, you just got to stand up to them and shut that shit down.
@@roberts5539 It's also fact. i can garuntee that. The law is so hypocritical. For context young black boys get the electric chair. And I'm talking kids here.
People call this "law". People call it "justice". I call it hate, grudges fear and resentment. At least honest monsters don't pretend.
In my youth and young adulthood. I held many bullies accountable. And loved every incident. Beautiful hobby.
most of them don't even really need hands: you just come visit them at their home before dinner time - works wonders
No you didn't
I found, growing up, that fighting back against a bully was the only hope you had. It generally worked out. Some of them ended up being friends, they themselves improved and became less mean, more kind.
The truth is that men usually make amends better through trading fists as opposed to words, sounds stupid but it builds mutual respect in the sense that neither are a push over.
Beautiful!!! I am so glad that this video came my way today.