William Griffiths god forbid the poor guy be aloud to be miserable because he lost his father when my nana died it took me 4 years to get over it and I hit rock bottom like this, after I had time I recovered, with girls it’s all me me me
Notice how the guy who lost: his job, his car, his marriage, his (Their house), and his father apologized for the way the relationship ended. Also, notice how women NEVER apologize when they're wrong. This dude is better without her.
The problem is that if you’re still chained to them legally with a kid they’ll get mad and hit you with a frivolous family court lawsuit. Or find other ways to make your life hell around dealing with your kid.
@@harveypolanski755 Truth. If you think women are angels have a talk with divorced men and learn what the women who professed to "love them" did to swindle resources and gain custody of the children. A special place in hell is reserved for slimy divorce lawyers who coach their clients how to paint the picture of their ex-husbands as abusive.
She wasn't worth him turning his life around before. Are you actually surprised that she was upset? His actions admitted that she wasn't worth putting in effort for. Of course she's upset. You clowns need Professor Chad's help if you don't understand why she acts like this AND is justified to do so.
Believe or not, I saw a court TV case like that. They sold a car, the new owner fixed the car up, and the original owner tried suing to reverse the deal so they could have the car back after it was fixed up. They lost.
@@CatGamer-wc2ij why does he sound like a douchebag ? I've lost my dad as well , right before a huge exam that would be mighty important for my future. I failed that exam. Had shit jobs 3 years after that till i had a second chance. If you people can't understand that the death of a loved one will add huge mental pressure on someone , then you lack empathy plain and simple. People don't manage their feelings at the same rate , nor do they grow up at the same rate as others. If you feel more mature then your partner , and you feel like you've outgrown them , you're free to go. But you don't get to complain that they are assholes because they couldn't keep up with you.
That is irresponsible thinking, sorry. Although I understand you with all the money you would have to contribute if she was with the kids and you were separated and the many other problems I have no grasp of, yeah it is annoying, but still it would also be YOUR children. The only thing I despise is that some women/men pay such strong attention to one thing: to what degree his/her partner is exploitable. But children is a different topic. They are not responsible for the misery of a broken relationship.
@@Military.FutureUrbanCamo that is normal. The game is rigged and not fair. We all are here to play it and get what you want despite that. And bad people are good at rigged games.
"Women do NOT care about your struggles. They hang out at the finish line, and they pick the winners" - Entrepreneurs in Cars. I love it when irony is this delicious.
Ah yes, sounds like my life story. The girl I truly loved and wanted to build a life with when I was a naïve young man didn't want me back because I was a broke, but 10 years later when I became financially very successful and she heard it from our common acquaintance (despite me not bragging or anything) she suddenly remembered that I exist and tried everything to get me to date (and most likely marry) her. Well the thing is, while I went from being a broke student to being a successful entrepreneur, she went from being a fit young hottie to being an overweight single mom, my value skyrocketed but hers plummeted. Now I can get all the young hotties I want, why would I choose her ? She didn't want me at my lowest point, she doesn't deserve me now.
I always laugh when I see fit, thin women become fat. Reason: They teased me in grade school for being ugly. Now it’s their turn to be ugly. (Except they can control it… just eat less food. I guess that simple logic escapes them.) .
yeah when a women loves a man and dose everything she can to get him going but he refuse's stay's a lazy bum never doing anything together give up and only then he is motivated he never loved her and her being around was holding him back. That cuts deep when being with the one you love only turns them into a loser but they can do it all when your not around
10 years of her life and he never improved. She leaves and suddenly hes a new successful man. You know what this tells me? She was the problem in his life.
Doing so much for him he didn't feel he needed to improve himself. Once he was alone he could improve himself. Men should not settle until 30s for this exact reason.
I’m literally living this. Got left at my lowest and now a couple years later and I’m a ups driver making 6 figures a year and she’s living with her mother again
Ha ha ha. And I bet at the time you were made to feel GRATEFUL that she had decided to allow you to carry her through life hey? Soo happy to see this and I’m about to do my 180 soon in a few months time by getting into shape and sorting out my finances. The key thing is, as long as you don’t lose your mind or give in to severe depression, you come out the other side invincible
I'm hoping to get there soon. I'm one year out of divorce (yes she was the one that walked away) and left with nothing but bills. I finally lost my dad bod and hoping to find a new higher paying job in the next couple months.
@@kevinwantstoshred absolutely. I try getting people to become drivers all the time. Top rate is different in different states but in PA where I live it’s $42.65 an hour. I work more OT than most drivers. I worked 3100 hours last year and made $140,000 but most top rate drivers in my state make anywhere from $100-120,000. That’s not counting the completely free top of the line health insurance and stock options either. You have to go through a 30 day qualifying period to become a driver though and it’s not easy
The thing is, she is the one who gave up on him. If she was upfront and told him he needed to change, he would've come around instead of leaving, which he did eventually come around and now she is angry when she gave up. You cant complain about the results of a test you gave up on.
I felt this, my mother got diagnosed with cancer recently and I found out after an er visit have to get a dental abcess removed, my ex texts and asks if I'm ok, 2 months later after she just dumped me after a week I say I'm pissed "don't get toxic with me" I just snapped, I told her after being friends with her throughout high school and how her saying let's be a couple was my dream, then how she completely shit on that and I called her out for finding another guy literally within 2 weeks and how she shouldn't confuse fornication with loving someone, I got blocked but I did warn her new guy about her having herpes (she doesn't but I want veangence) oh boy that was fucking satisfying
@@30cal23 To be fair most people have herpes and don't know it, at least sexually active people. It's just most people's immune systems keep it suppressed where other's don't always, which is when it comes out if I remember that correctly. So there's a good chance you weren't lying.
She was with him for 10 years. In that span of time she must have had good experiences with him and happy memories to look back on and say "that was good and I'm thankful for it." For her to instead say she gave him 10 of the best years of her life and got **nothing** in return tells us everything we need to know.
Imagine this scenario: “I’m a husband. My wife’s dad died & she got depressed/ gained weight.” So I divorced her. Would you say the husband is an ashole? Of course you would. Ditto the wife in the original story (didn’t support him after his dad died) .
yeah forget that B, she never truly loved that man. If anything, she probably made him feel worse overtime. Good thing he's doing better now. That's rough to go through.
It sounds more like he had it easy with her playing enabler to him and he had to hit rock bottom before he cleaned up is act. His stock was probably never going to "jump" with her. She shouldn't be angry that he is finally happy. She should recognize that they were no longer (and probably never were) suited for each other and wish him well.
Little known secret, women hate seeing a man they left successful. It makes them question their choices when they left him and produces painful regret that could last them years or the rest of their life. It's one of the motivations behind why some women deliberately try to ruin a man's life in divorce. They don't want to feel bad for leaving a man they chose to leave ever and they don't want any other women to want that man either so they try to ruin his worth.
Anthony Robinson Spot on Anthony. Slash and burn. By destroying the man they have got rid of him to the point where it not only solidifies they never want him back . But it also guarantees no other woman of value would want him either.
I've noticed this behaviour in women and I'm not surprised. They remind me of a praying mantis or a black widow spider, where they eat the males afterwards. Some women are programmed to destroy men.
@@SisypheanSeas13 well, when women are *less* capable and *dependent* upon men, it makes sense that they would take from men. similar to how children "take" from their parents. because children are less capable and dependent upon their parents.
Me and my husband hit rock bottom six times, losing everything we owned except for the clothes on our backs and a few bags of stuff. But we stuck together and fought together to recover, for ourselves and our children. Our kids are now grown with children of their own, and we are still together. Right now we're facing another storm heading to Louisiana. And if we lose everything again, we will stick together. That's what marriage means.
Only problem is too many people don't take rheir vows seriously and jump ship at the first sign of trouble. You're rare like my parents and grandparents.
What they don't understand is that the *MAN* is already successful without them (nature makes us share the success with them with what is around us)... they dnt understand their role and how to hold their weight...the want to claim all the credits (for instance when you are in a new relationship they will first try and change the man..that shit always hits the fan)
@@kimtukieusi4982 Meanwhile, the feminists are claiming it's the men trying to take credit for women's accomplishments. You could broadcast that projection in fucking IMAX.
@Mr Man My ex broke up with me half a year ago. But we are still friends and she even lets me use her netflix and helps me in math (we are both college students and shes good in math). Not all women are like shown in this video. And i even exploited her coz she was richer than me and i was a big asshole to her. I insulted her million times but she never insulted me. So i think not all women are bad and not all men are saints.
Too bad so sad Golddigger she did him a favor by leaving she has nothing to offer The reason he has a nice suit and an expensive watches because he doesn’t have to support your deadbeat ass do you notice she never said she made any money and brought into the marriage
As a man, it’s kind of depressing when you realize that women don’t love you, they love the financial security, children, home, and status in life you provide them. Like an employee, you’re nothing more than what you produce.
Thats gross but true. I can see its true after being left about 5 times. They can turn off love in an instant. Basically because of this I have no desire to even mess with them things anymore.
@@craggyexplores3070 Women see relationship with a man as a job. Therefore, I think the reason they keep your last name is because it's the same as keeping your last job experience on your resume. It makes you seem experienced and have a better chance finding the next partner. It's the same reason why women think that being a high-earning, successful, career woman is attractive to men, when really, we don't care about their job.
Hell no! This is the same dumb logic you see women say about themselves all the time. For both men *and* women: If you won't take someone at their worst, then you probably have healthy self-respect and reasonable boundaries.
A lot of women get a sick and twisted joy out of seeing an ex husband or ex boyfriend fall on hard times. But it destroys them when the man betters himself. Keep taking red pills men!
Nearly all women feel entitled to a exhusbands finances his entire life. My dad became wealthy after my mom divorced him. And it burns her. Its no secret give a man with work ethic time alone and hes going to have something. The truth is this chick was no help to this guy they are a net negative on your finances and personal development.
"He left me. I found a new guy. I tried to rub it on his face but nothing happened. Then I tried to rub it way more by getting married with a guy a didn't love. Now he haves a new partner and I can't stand it". Hahahaha I swear God that's my ex storie.
Great man once said “just cuz you lost me as a friend, doesn’t mean you gained me as an enemy, I’m bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat just not at my table.”
When I got deathly ill, when my career stumbled, when my father was murdered and I sank into depression, my wife remained by my side. When my doctor said "Make plans (you're dying)", I told her if she was going to leave, it was time. She was visibly shaken and angry that I would say such a thing. There have been times I was impossible due to my response to these horrible events, but she's always been there. Lately she's had some terrible issues, some that she purposely hid from me because she was embarrassed, ashamed, and feared my reaction; but we're solving the problems. There are lots of things to get done, challenges to overcome, but we're gonna stick it out. Very thankful man here.
@abobjenkins women always hold men back. I want to screw every attractive woman I see but when you're married you can't do that. A wife is also a financial drain the holds you back from activities you want to do that cost money. The list could go on.
Had a similar situation, lost my job, gained 120lbs and was totally isolated for about 6 years. The only person I saw was my fiancé. We lived together and when it ended, I had nothing. I put all the blame on myself. Hearing this story and seeing the support for this guy who was going through a really hard time and that he wasn't just viewed as some leech loser makes me feel better.
Imagine this scenario: “I’m a husband. My wife’s dad died & she got depressed/ gained weight.” So I divorced her. Would you say the husband is an ashole? Of course you would. Ditto the wife in the original story (didn’t support him after his dad died) .
Life has ups and downs you can do it. Lose that weight find the job you enjoy and or can tolerate live for yourself because at the end of the day you can always count on yourself.
if a man divorced a woman in todays society because she got depressed when a family member died, gained some weight and lost her job as a result, he would be ridiculed and mocked to no end.
And if a women divorced a man for the same stuff you mentioned up there. She would get half of his stuff and have her group telling her “ good he was just a deadbeat ” or “ he should man up”. What an equal society we live in. 😂
Jedi master Ren You guys are so blinded it's unbelievable. This is the reason we have sexism, because you guys choose to see what you want to see. Live a life through another person's shoes for a day and you'll see that the same problems coexist in both worlds.
@@lividbutton2813 hah you're ridiculous. Everyone agrees the courts favor women. You want proof of how in favor of women our society is? Look at the recent outrage over adele having to pay alimony to her husband. Men have been paying the mass majority of alimony for the longest time. For just the second time in history a woman cracks the top 25 highest alimony paid and women are up in arms about how unfair it is. Want more proof? Why is it fair that of all the gender specific homeless shelters in the us, ones dedicated to women are the only ones who get federal funding? More sexism? Men are the mass majority of homeless and those killed on the job or in a homicide. But yeah. Society hates women. Please
@@lividbutton2813 not recent. And by recent I mean anything in the past 50 years. Its WHITE WOMEN who are overwhelming favored. But keep listening to your leftist revisionist history. After white women comes women in general and then white men.
@@darkprince7469 truth. Some women can never be satisfied. Even if she married Mr Perfect, she would ditch him if she thinks she found Mr. Even More Perfect
She thought she was gonna do better, walikng around with an engineer or something and finding him flipping burgers and shove it in his face. Didnt happen. Thats whh she mad
We have a hilarious example of this: A guy working at a papermill had his wife walk out on him quoting boredom of her everyday life as a reason she filed for in her divorce papers. Two weeks after it was finalized, the fella wins a huge lottery win.
She's just mad because she imagined walking around with her new doctor husband and running into him flipping burgers and being able to say "Yeah I upgraded my life and your still trash."
@@brute6896 Its honest work. It doesn't pay well, but that has zero to say about the people doing that kinda job. I wasn't thinking too deep about policing my speech in something I wrote in 30 seconds, just using a term of phrase. I don't hold anything against people that flip burgers as a living, hell I was one of them at one point.
@@grigorigahan i wasnt saying it in a bad way, theres jobs that getba bad rep but are honestly just fun, like theres this guy that has been working at a nearby whataburger for years and hes always happy and gives great service
Goes both ways. There are some women who support but the guy doesn't want to meet halfway. Then there is nothing you can do. Just need to wish him well and focus on you
@Humble Warrior YEah my now ex wife said she had plans for us, she was the big deal, we where not partners anymore, and i was here frozen in time. Then i asked her wich plans? And she told i wanna travel with you, see the world, have a family. I told her yeah nice empty words. How many languages you can understand? How much money do you have in you bank account so we can do that? She told thats not the case. I told her yeah it is... ive money to go to a tour in europe right now, ive a bussness that will with time would give us stability to have a family. Then told her all she wants its to be single and be a whore take dicks in partys, thats what her actions show, and me i wanted to be a husband and have a family, and my actions was in line with that. Then i told her to leave and go be the whore she was born to be... becouse now without the problem of support oter person i can go and travel the world haha. Woman are creatures of empty words... aways.
@@damianos17xyz99 She end the relationshit becouse i did not do anything with her, we did not travel etc, and that was what she wanted travel and have a kid. I told her and what action are you taking to achive that, like save money etc. She had nothing wasted all money and time with bullshit while i had savings, i planned the things and worked to make shit happens in real life.
"For better or worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part...." I guess she was zoned out during that part of the wedding ceremony.
this. calll me a crazy old, the vow like this one is stuck in the souls, the brain. when you decided to tie the string of karma its a curse and blessing. dont mess with vow, it can really do harm.
@kleindropper: Those were just empty words when she said it. She failed the test later; it's always better to break off without resentment, otherwise you're still connected through karma, which will come back to you later.
My ex was a narc sent me a lame text to say she felt she wasn’t living her “best life” after treating me like sh**, I said okay, blocked her right away from all social media and never looked back. Pretty sure she thought I would blow her phone or whatever saying the “sooner the better” 😂 Later found her on tinder with selfies and text on the pictures saying “ in case you forgot what I look like” , “ I had to shut you down” 😅 Pathetic
"Goofing around on his computer" after he lost his dad and job. First I thought he was playing games. He ends up in a tech company. He was probably not goofing but learning to program to provide better for him and her.
Lol, true. He was clearly trying to push/better himself to provide for the both of them but she couldn't see that and ditched him. Now that he's been doing so well without her, she gets offended. Strange world we live in....
@@NeoLotex I actually don't think its a stretch. People tend to lump people into categories, typically if they are doing something they don't understand its frivolous and pointless and just "dicking" around.
"Her leaving" is his motivation. My ex left me when I lost my high paying job, plus she took me to the cleaner, left me broke. I am determined to come back financially and with a beautiful gf. I did it once, I can do it again.
Study cloud computing then. The CC bubble has just started to inflate and is far from bursting take advantage of it while you have the chance and you'll be golden
The moment my late father said “no” (amidst the subprime mortgage crisis) to my mother she all the sudden “fell out of love” with him. In the words of Joker, sssssshhhhhhocking.
yep. some female friends told me that a man crying is a total turn off for them. they want masculinity, not soyboys. you vent on your friends, not on your partner. to her, you are invincible.
My friend told me a story about when he was younger. He and his wife got a divorce when they were younger. They were together for a good amount of years but lived poor and lived check to check. They got a divorce some years later. He ended up changing his life around. Now he has a couple houses, nice cars, etc. She did ok with her life but nowhere near as good as him. He told me she found out about his new wealth becuase they bumped into each other again through a mutual friend. During their conversation, he ended up showing her pictures of the vacant property he bought and pictures of the new mcmansion he is building on it. He then heard later from the mutual friend that she was mad he was doing good now but she also wanted to try and meet him again to see if they can restart their relationship. He doesn't want to becuase now he has more booty options than he had before and is having "fun". Good for him.
I broke up with her 2 months ago, I go to the gym, lost some weight and have fixed my finances. I feel so much better and positive and thus is just the start. Her nagging, complaining, not working, etc. Generally and all around aura of negativity just sucked the life and soul right out of me, it's obvious who the victim was.
My gf left December 14, 2019. Felt like the worst thing that happened to me. After working on myself for a few months I can come out and say the breakup was one of the best things that ever happened to me. Edit: thank you for all the support and kind words my guys. I hope you all make it in life or at least make life make it for you. Edit2: I just wanted to let you guys know that working out was the thing that helped me move on the most. I started doing pushups the day after she left and gradually worked my way to the gym environment. It feels as if the more my body worked the less the mind took off to thinking about her. Eventually I didn't need to work out to stop thinking about her. I hope you guys have an awesome day :)
@Leslie Starck Amen😂👌! When people date, we want to date people that can fix themselves a majority of the time. We don't date to become your parent and take care of you like a child 24/7.😂 Like, you can support your lover when shit hits the fan, but don't expect them to do all the work for you, that's your job.
@@michaeljames4904 I dont believe her. They were financially broke. Weed is hella expensive. So saying he smoked it all the time would be like saying they got quite a lot of cash. Therefore proving that that's a lie or she exaggerated the story.
Lost my hair in my early 20s, was skinny fat, flabby, and was broke while I was in college. I had a pity girl friend for a month who was the bestie of my brother's girlfriend. She ghosted me, and told every one I was a joke, and looked like a 50 year old man, and she got a huge laugh out of it. Now at 50 I look like a cut Bruce Willis with a short white beard. I have stayed single, own my own home, and am looking at buying a condo in Greece when this Covid passes. She reached out to my now sister in law and asked about me, we exchanged social media, after seeing a recent photo of her I screamed in fear and then in laughter, I wouldn't date her if you paid me. To all the women out there remember this, if a man puts his mind to it, and puts in the effort and gym time time, he can look relatively good into his 70s, you on the other hand..better hope your new guy has a stretch mark fetish and has a thing for hanging bellies, sorry but really not sorry, not one bit.
This is roughly how my own story is bound to play out. My ex-wife didn't leave me at rock bottom, but she did cheat on me and treat me like garbage until I left her when I was at rock bottom and struggling with my mental health. Now I'm successful, making more money than I know what to do with, I'm fit, my physical and mental health is getting better every day, and from what I hear she's still living in her mom's basement, her relationship with the guy she cheated on me with failed, and she's working two shitty jobs and struggling to make ends meet. I haven't talked to her in over a year now, I'll be interested to see what happens when she inevitably reaches out to me. I'll give her nothing, not even sympathy.
Interesting subject, made me recall my 14 year marriage. I was always a fearless entrepreneur, she feared everything, swimming, metaphysics, people, and anything that had to do with chance. Located a townhouse in Harlem for a super reasonable price and was super excited about having negotiated a super discount. She went ballistic screaming I'm not about to live in Harlem period. 4 years later the townhouse was worth 1.2 Million and the neighborhood got gentrified. We soon after got a divorce, and it took 16 years and I was able to renovate a Harlem crack-house for $70k down, 14 years later sold it for $3 Million.
They say you represent or are an amalgamation of the 5 closest people around you. If one or two are naysayers, morbid or very negative then that's not good for you. Always be aware of the attitudes of the people around you, distance yourself from the negative ones. It could be someone in your family.
I had a girlfriend who had left me after I poured myself into the relationship. After realizing no one else had given so much she wanted me back. I said "You thought you were the catch. Hunny, I am the catch... you never were." I met someone else and married. We are extremely happy.
I think when we "provide", when we "pour ourself into the relationship", they think they are the price and we are weak. They fail to understand we as men want to provide for the one we love, want to invest our energy, want to protect. This is what we do in a relationship, still they see weakness. It's caring. There is something wrong about the way they see us. I quit. They will be asking where are the nice guys ? She left you. you were the nice guy, she killed it. I m happy you found someone respectful.
@@francoisblanc6453, it the princess culture. They all think they are a princess. They "Deserve" whatever they want. My wife appreciates masculinity. She demonstrates respect in everything she does and she isn't afraid to change when she finds a flaw. We respect each other, not control or manipulate. We both have the right to make our own choices, but we chose each other. I am a fortunate man.
I don't always agree with you, Joker, but this is spot on. I had this happen to me three (!) times. First time after I needed to find a way to deal with an event I experienced back in my days as a medic: Was called to a party after some messed up fella drugged up a teenage girl, he wanted to hook up with her and overdosed her. The girl died in my arms, nothing much we could to at that point - it turned out she was having her 17th birthday one week later. My back then girlfriend left me just about a month after this incident because I was considered a "downer" and "not capable of dealing with it". I took every help (including seeing psychologists) I could get - but yeah, five years down the drain. Fun fact: A couple of years later I also bumped into this horrible woman and got the "Hey you look great today, we should stay in touch" kind of treatment. Best "No thanks, goodbye" I ever spoke. The second time was after a friend of mine died in a messed up motorcycle accident. Knew that lad for almost 10 years and it just ripped me apart. Still: No excessive drinking on my side or any sort of drug abuse, but I could not perform at work and was suspended. Never saw that partner of mine ever again. Third time: PTSD related issues. The story mentioned above is just one of many, if you serve the public you inevitably see sh*t. Some of that is hard to forget. My partner knew about this since the day we first met, and at some point she got a job offer abroad in a period I had some troubles. She asked me to talk about whether we both should move - that talk never happened, instead she made plans behind my back to leave on her own. One day I came home and found her and half of her stuff gone. No communication, no chance to even speak to one another as a couple. Asked her for an explanation, never got one. I was forced to accept that she does not even have the decency to get me some closure. Still don't hate women, but my message to the opposite sex is this: Ladies, if you go down the same path all of these women did, you are going to have a hard time eventually. Men (not only me) are starting to learn that such people are neither worth our time, nor any effort.
@Peter Thompson It's hypergamy, every woman is looking for the bigger and better deal. You can't blame them for it, because its just built-in to their nature. A woman should be a compliment to your life, but never the focus of it.
Well....I'm sure the wives of Volta, Ampere, Faraday, etc, , etc, etc, were all complaining how their guys were "just goofing around in the lab". (I haven't checked about the personal lives of these people but you get the idea).
I had this exact thing happen. I dated a girl for 6 years and I was a depressed mess. I was a young adult. 17-23. I was so sad, so anxious, and just stuck in a rut. Never wanted to do anything fun or anything to better myself. The girl had enough (I don’t blame her) and walked away. As soon as she left, it was a eye opener for me. I realized what I needed to do to better myself and I strived to do so. And once I started to better myself, that ex got mad. She saw herself as the problem. When in reality, her leaving just opened my eyes. Growth isn’t linear my friends.
Yep.. Same here. The biggest inspiration for men is reproductive viability. My first relationship of 6 years wasn't bad, Infact she was great but I lost myself getting locked down so young. When she split I forced myself into action, went to uni again and got into my dream career that I always wanted to but never had the motivation. I can understand why they'd be angry especially if they see something in you and stick with you for years.
Sort of with me too, but my mother was needing a constant caregiver. I was the only one that could do it. Not a pleasant place for me. She ditched me during that. I just did not have the time to see her. I get why she did it, still infuriates me when she did it. During one of my mother’s hospital stays, third stroke nearly killed her. Well there I was caregiver with a mother that did die about a year and change later. Took some time to reflect and get some help for that severe depressive episode I was in. Now... getting things back on track.
@@Outlaw8908 you got this! the one thing ive learned is that you need to become independent and take care of yourself. once you can do that, the right person and right love will come along. and if a person left or leaves you when you’re in a moment of need, they were never there in the first place. but you got this!
I dated a girl for four years in my early 20's (22-26) I gave her all I had, let her live rent free in my place, paid for the vacations that she dragged me on. Then one day she wanted to go on a vacation with a bunch of her coworkers, a lot of them male coworkers. I was very upset about this but she went anyways. While she was on this vacation a childhood friend of mine committed suicide. I was a fucking mess. I called her to hopefully get some comforting words from her, she was drunk and either didn't understand or didn't care. When she got back a few days later I tried talking about it with her. I was pouring my heart out to this woman and she didn't have a single comforting thing to say, she was more worried about going out and drinking with her friends. The next couple of weeks consisted of me depressed and either on the couch or in bed all evening while she was out at the bars until 2am. She decided to break up with me and immediately started dating one of the guys she went on that vacation with. This put me in an even deeper depression coupled with alcohol and drug abuse. This was the worst I've ever been and after a friend of mine introduced me to Dr. Jordan Peterson's book 12 rules and his you tube lectures I slowly started to pull myself out of this mental state and started doing things to better myself. I'm truly grateful for that man as he helped me out my darkest moment in life. I now own my own business, which was very successful until these lockdowns hit (I own and operate a restaurant) ,I bought a new house, I'm 3 years sober, and after a couple years found a woman who does care for me and treats me like a King, I hope all of you find someone like her. My ex on the other hand put on about 50lbs, lost her job, and is living back at her parents. She called me a couple times in the past but i just ignored. I honestly do not care about how she's doing.
I’m gonna say SHE was dragging him down. Not the other way around. I think she realizes this. Hence the anger. “He’s not supposed to be doing better. I rejected him. He should be miserable and destitute.”
One has to interpret this properly: "He wanted to live the life of a teenager". What she really means is "he didn't want to spend all his money on me!". This is what they usually consider being a "grown up man".
This is true, I got guilt tripped so many times by being called: inmature, wanting a bachelor's life, lacking goals, etc... When what she really wanted was me to pour all my time, savings, energy and attention to her. Since I walked away I got promoted at work, went back to school, moved to a better place and finally starting to control my weight. I'm spooked to think how much more I could have accomplished by now if I would of walked away earlier.
Women really do want you to be work horses. I actually met a girl who hates women more than I do disgusted with how they treat everyone even their own gender. They got all kinds of nasty names for her, Uncle Ruckus, Handmaiden, but she asked me upfront what do I think I'll be doing in ten years and i said living in a van, running over moderators in that van, hopefully still with her, we fuck, and we die She loved it. Said "you're an aggressive hippy" lol
My exgirlfriend text me after 7 years she tell me her husband cheating on her and pregnant other women ! I was like ok bye have a good day and block her
Chappelle said it best, "A woman's biggest test in life is material things. A man's biggest test in life is a woman." They don't want you until someone else got you.
May I don't want THEM if they start cutting crap like that around me. I don't have time to teach a woman how to act. If I have to have a test-taking mentality around a woman, I need to change women or change where I live. Fuck Em.
Isn't it the opposite? Like for example fields of work, Men typically like to work with "things" while Women like to work with people. STEM fields for men, and Doctor/nursing fields for women. I know I like my computer more than most people in my life, and it's the reason most guys are into cars/ just have some hobby they are obsessed with. Women on the other hand usually don't have hobbies, and even if they do, it's usually a social one.
Its funny how when i was married i lost my house, worked every bit of overtime i could get, had no bond with my baby boy, wasn't allowed to go out without her and was always broke even though i make over 100k a year. Now shes gone and me and my son have a very strong bond, own my house, and have more money than i ever have without having to work everyday. I love single life. Love it.
@@Inkedxx Careful dude, that's a pretty hypocritical thing to say, you just exposed yourself as being shallow yourself for lumping all women under the label of 'gold digger'. Why not just go with 'this particular woman is a lousy human being?' Why does it suddenly = 'all women are gold diggers' Anyways, I'm sure I'm going to be accused of white knighting, even though all I'm saying is if you make sweeping generalizations about any demographic, you're part of the problem
@@rampantsarcasm2220 Yeah, get prepared for some elementary responses. Some people just can't live in a world where others disagree or have another opinion.
This was my exact situation guys. 8 year relationship, I did everything for her and when I hit bottom she left me to rot and took our son. 1 year later I'm making good money, own a house and drive a nice car. I have no communication with her, but if she knew how well I was doing she would be pissed off and probably take more for child support. She is the reason why I'll never let a woman into my life again
My ex/kids mother played like we were getting along great until one day while I was at work, she texts me saying she’s leaving with the kids, called the police and advised me to stay away until court gave me whatever custody. So I come home to the house cleaned out of absolutely everything but a tv. Not even a bed. Appliances literally ripped out of walls, to the point of breaking outlets. My account was cleared out, and she left a note saying that the house was in the final stages of foreclosure (turns out me giving her my whole checks, didn’t find their way to the bills/mortgage). So I picked myself up, found a new someone. Called the mortgage company, saved the house from foreclosure. Eventually refurnished the house, won joint custody and even ‘won’ in court, when it was revealed she was moving to Florida from NJ, and the judge was like nope!) After a time, I settled in with the new woman, and eventually she met the kids’ mother when we all came to a school sporting event my son was at. She had the audacity to tell my new woman, ‘you stole my life’. Um...what?
@@TheEmperor2052 thanks man! It took a lot to pull up from that nose dive she left me in, but satisfying to see her being butt hurt that I not only pulled up from the dive but thrived. Best revenge is success indeed
@@samuraifencer Exactly, do not treat her like your wife again after divorce, nice move bro, keep the best your life, I hope you to become successful person in your life.😏👍
That happened to a neighbour a lot of years back, he would giver her the money for the mortgage thinking it was paid. One day he found out she had never paid it for years, she bailed and a while after he ended his own life.
This is one of the rawest examples of what "Entrepreneurs in cars" says - "Women don't care about men's struggles. They just wait at the finish line and pick the winners"......very unfortunate but true
Totally agree with that, unnfortunately. The sick part is that the winners are temporary. So, in the long term, if you were struggling with something for a longer time, then yes, woman will leave you. Because women don't care about problems, struggles, bumpy journey. They want you to SOLVE problem at any cost, quickest possible. If you don't do that, you won't be a "grown up" man (i love how women twist some words to make them so perfect, without any issues). It's not that I left a human being when he really needed somebody help, support - he wasn;t "grown up". Yep ;p But, at the end, if it turns out that you somehow handled your life and eventually become successfull, she'll be totally pissed off. At you, at everybody around. This is something i really hate about women. It's all great if you're successfull, but it you're down, you have a worse year due to some serious problem, then ... don't expect woman to help you. There is actually a higher chance that she will give you the "final blow" and leave.
Women are always looking to upgrade + thirsty men of all races flirting with her + dating apps = no chance of having a stable relationship for long before she steps out.
Yep, hit it right on the head with this! My ex left me almost 20 yrs ago now when I was in a bit of a slump; I had stayed faithfully by her side during all her "struggles" and issues, only for her to leave me for another guy as soon as she finished her studies and started her career, while I wasn't doing so well in her eyes. Also, it is worth mentioning that my parents were quite wealthy at the time (asset wise) and it was assumed that I would be inheriting my share of a considerable fortune one day in the distant future. So, fast forward to a few years ago and the ex tracks me down on facebook and contacts me; seems that the guy she left me for turned out to be a sociopathic narcissist and had made life unbearable for her and the daughter they had together and she was desperate to leave him however was broke. She was basically fishing for information to see how my finances were and if I had received my inheritance yet (at the time no, I hadn't), as she had obviously done the math and realised that my parents would certainly be getting on in age by now. I was doing OK financially however certainly didn't have a spare million to buy her a house, which is what she seemed to expect me to do for her because of her current self-inflicted "struggles". Anyway, heard nothing more from her for a couple of years until myself and my brother listed the family home (a large, multi-million dollar waterfront mansion) for sale, as our mother could no longer live there alone due to her age and dementia (dad passed a decade earlier) and needed to go into an aged care facility to live out her final days. And what do you know; the ex suddenly contacts me again looking for money (she must've been keeping an eye on the real estate listings for all those years, just waiting for this particular property to show up). All coy, innocently asking how I was doing; she was bitterly disappointed to learn that my mother had not in fact passed away and the many millions from the sale of the house was sitting in trust with our lawyer and being used to pay for her care, and the ex couldn't get her hands on any of it even if I was inclined to give it to her. Women are just absolutely shameless!
I consistently see girls on social media say things like "If you dont love me at my worst you dont deserve me at my best" or some garbage like that. Maybe take a look in the mirror.
Just funny that she wants everyone to tolerate her "worst", but then, what if what she interprets as "lack of love" is just someone else showing their "worst"? If you dish it out you gotta be willing to take it too. Modern women have become narcissists.
Any person - man or woman - should not exhibit behavior that mistreats another person on a regular basis, particularly a significant other. Well stated, that quote is an excuse to mistreat men. Who wants a woman at her worst? No woman is worth that
@You’re lowkey Stupid af first of all, love the name. Second, that still doesn’t make sense in my mind. How does him buying her things while she lived with him constitute theft of his car?
After my unplanned, blindside divorce (I did not cheat, was not violent, did not yell, did household chores, no addictions, nothing, she just "fell out of love") I was depressed for about a year. Then I joined the military, finished my PhD, made some lemonade out of lemons. Ex was furious that the post divorce version of me was in such good shape.
This is literally happening to me as we speak. Ever since I got out the marines I got a little fat, and going through a bankruptcy doesn't help. Turns out I actually am coming into enough money to retire. (She doesn't know).. it's a waiting game..
Leaving someone at rock bottom and then being furious when they recover can be considered a sign of narcissism. Relationships are pretty much dead because many women see the relationship as them verse you, not the two of you together verses the challenges of life. The story reminds me of a Tyler Perry movie called acrimony, where the guy had a dream to build something and the wife supported him but it wasn’t working out, eventually she gave up on him and divorced him, but he didn’t give up on his dream and became a billionaire and married another woman, the ex-wife was then furious and felt entitled to his success after harshly dumping him, she then pursued him like a psychopath.
There is something you forgot Ardent. You forgot the part where he came back, gave her millions and her childhood house back (he accidentally lost it when they were together) as an apology for what happened between them. And she was still pissed off because someone else was "living her life."
Meaning: he never gave up on his dreams and goals. Well it worked for him where he got in better shape and a better job he enjoys. It didn't work with her because she did not want to improve their relationship, herself or him. Case closed.
The thing is that he stayed exactly the same person that he was when they met but the difference is that before they got married she loved him and couldn't get enough of him. After they got married he was suddenly not good enough. I had this realization the other day about my own marriage. I never changed, I have the same hobbies, interests, and personality as I did before I met my ex-wife. When we were just dating she worshiped the ground I walked on but all of a sudden after we got married everything about me was wrong and she was always demanding that I change.
"I gave him the best 10 years of my life and got nothing from it" If her best years were his worst years, compared to how he is now, then that should tell you which one of them had the real issues here.
He was likely stuck in a depression because he had an unsupportive wife who could only criticize him. I went through a similar thing myself, and my wife compounded the problem with nagging and disrespect. Never once was there an attempt to talk to me. I'm guessing this was a similar situation. Women for all their talk of being empathetic are actually very selfish.
"Why wasn't I worth the effort?" is a narcissistic statement. You see? It didn't matter that her husband was bummed out and probably needed some support. She can't think beyond herself. And what makes matters worse is that instead of doing some self examination and by only thinking "why wasn't I worth the effort?", means she didn't learn a damn thing. So not only is she a narcissist, but she's a dumb narcissist.
"I gave 10 of the best years of my life to the man and got nothing from it. We never had kids. He never had much money." Translation: I didn't get Child Support money, and I didn't get much of Alimony money. It's that "got nothing from it" that really gets me. And people wonder why men avoid marriage nowadays?
They expect dollars at the end of it. Her human slot machine never paid out so she moved on to the next machine. Then it paid out big time and she missed out. Life's a gamble.
A woman's 30th birthday is like a time bomb to them it seems. At least it seems that way for every woman who has no real passion in life career wise. It seems they are either consumed with ambition and focussed on career or they are couch potatoes laying up on their folks still at age 30 and totally perplexed that no man is courting them. They say they wanted to be married by age 30. The biological clock is ticking and they can feel their value draining away. God, i am so thankful to have been born male.
@@gregorytimmons4777 Why would you be thankful that you were born male? Modern females aren't defined by their breeding capability. In fact, many of them have the advantage, assuming they remain single and choose to pursue career (just like men do)... except women have that affirmative action BS on their side. And they can claim sexual harassment claim BS on anyone they don't like.
@@michaelsong5555 because a woman's looks fade overtime and starts to become infertile by age 40/ unable to carry children while a man's value goes up overtime also a dude doesnt care if you are a doctor or a waitress as long as you look good
@@start2panic829 As I aid one reply ago, modern women's values aren't defined by their breeding capabilities. Hell, the "beauty" factor is very small nowadays too. The biggest advantage that modern women have is the LEGAL advantage (custody, child support, affirmative action, etc).
From personal experience, if you can survive a bad break up and recover from it you can accomplish anything. There is nothing worse than not being allowed into the apartment you once shared together and you have to go crash at your friends couch
At 71 I have had five 'serious' relationships. In four of the five situations the woman decided to leave me. In all five cases the woman within a few months wanted to get back together with me. Interestingly when asking to get back together the four who left me never asked what they could do differently. That is none of them took any responsibility for having been part of 'the problems' that caused it not to work. With a lack of 'How do we make it better?' I had no interest in even considering getting back with them. Thanks for what you do!
56 here, ditto. A few more relationships, but honestly the *only* one that hasn't tried calling to rope me in again was the one that flat out said she wasn't interested in marriage (which I was ok with by then). Funny part is I'm pretty sure she's married now, it was just me she wasn't interested in marrying (though the sex was amazing).
I'm 72, hit the gym often, and I have quite a number of younger friends. Weird thing is that some of the ladies have reached out to me. I'm still working, with a nice income, but not interested in a serious relationship. When C19 is over, I'm resuming trips to various places around this world, no time for petty binding relationships. Enjoy life.
I have a friend who is a midget. He had a beautiful gf and it always made me envious. He treated her like gold though he was broke all the time but working two jobs. she left him for the 6' stereotype and I told him you do not know it yet but this will yield amazing results! one year later he was a millionaire and he continues to build wealth as we speak that most will never obtain. he said she called him over and over after she found out.....he gave her nothing not even a bugger off text. HE WON!!! and from that moment on his name was Mudd.
Smarmy Fellow that would not be revenge but vindication. Revenge is a goal, vindication is a by-product. The second is more healthy as you are not continuously focussed on (harming/being better than) somebody else
@@j.p.vanbolhuis8678 as Kain once put it: "there's nothing wrong with it Raziel. Revenge is motivation enough, at least it's honest. Hate me, but do it honestly"
Sounds like he was depressed in the relationship and thrived once he was on his own. Men jees to understand that the wrong woman will suck the life out of you. Funny how when women leave they get angry when you thrive. Like the man doing well somehow invalidates her decision.
More importantly, the chances of finding the right woman are so pointlessly small, its not worth it. Sure, maybe not *A L L* women are like that. But, for all practicality, they all might as well be.
Renshai32 she was only in it for the money... when she realized there was no money to be had, she dipped. It burns her to know he was capable of making that money but not with her around... deep down inside she knows the problem wasn’t his father’s death, it was his life with her.
"Like the man doing well somehow invalidates her decision." Because it does. Her goal is financial care and support. And now some other woman will get that. She lost the game of life. And of course it's the man's fault.
*It’s frustrating when people only value you for what you can give them, not for who you are. If she left when you were down, she’s not the one who deserves to be a part of your success story.*
Men love women. Women love themselves. A man looks at his woman and thinks "how can I make her happy?" A woman looks at her man and thinks "how can he make me happy?"
I've been seeing a lot of comments like this where people are generalizing all women to being one personality. I wish to give you hope and say that this is untrue. That your quote can be swapped to be fitted towards women. And that your quote can always be a double negative or a double positive. It's all about who you attract, and also what attracts you.
I can safely say that I have dated women like this. But I lucked out with my current gf. She always wants me to smile and be happy. I work to make her smile and happy too.
@@lividbutton2813 the message shouldnt be taken literally! OF COURSE there are amazing selfless women who are givers and reciprocal and are great catches.....but there is a LARGE SWATHE of women who fit this quote...100%
Ah, the old story:
Boy meets girl.
Boy loses girl.
Boy lives happily ever after.
You guys are so delusional.
@@josephinetracy1485 begone demon
@@josephinetracy1485 how many cats do you have
@@abdulkarim56239 ooh... ur tho funnee
@han thedepressedgerman No... you're just selfishly focusing on your own stupid choice and how it worked out. Projecting your own stupidity on others.
Man's dad died, he lost his job, his wife dumped him. Women most affected.
William Griffiths god forbid the poor guy be aloud to be miserable because he lost his father when my nana died it took me 4 years to get over it and I hit rock bottom like this, after I had time I recovered, with girls it’s all me me me
Some crazy females would call the guy a sexist the other way around because he had moved on with his life.
Ironically pain of rejection is probably what got this guy to get his shit in order.
My ex left me when my brother died and that same year I became a target, now my life’s ruined and women avoid me
@@Hypknoh1 a target of what?
His life improved when he lost a major obstacle: her.
Lol. Like a breath of fresh air bruh
bingo
Lol
You fly when you drop useless weight holding you down.
I agree, she was dragging him down
Notice how the guy who lost: his job, his car, his marriage, his (Their house), and his father apologized for the way the relationship ended. Also, notice how women NEVER apologize when they're wrong. This dude is better without her.
They can't apologize because they have fragile little egos
Her motivation for being there was revealed. Nothing to apologize for she left and it was obvious why.
Because they never think they are wrong haha.
That is why he didn't follow up with "we should catch up sometime." He has no interest in hanging his hat on her again.
@@jwarrior9986 Nor does he have interest in putting his neck back in her noose
"How dare he make me suffer the consequences of my own choices!"
-all of them
This comment deserves more recognition
Facts 😆
true
Wtf So True 😂😂😂 .... That's why I Say Marriage means Funeral
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As the girls like to quote, "If you can't handle me at my worst ... you don't deserve me at my best."
But the women never consider if their best is worth putting up with their worst.
Most of them are stuck in "worst" mode.
"...put a ring onit!" no thanks!
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bu.. but they didnt do there best so it means they are at their worst
Man loses father, car & wife.
Woman most affected.
These headlines write themselves these days, don't they.
They are all drama queens without any reliable quality
...and job.
Makaveli chuckling .....😄😆😂🤣😂🤣
AND Job
“Living well is the best revenge.” They don’t say it for nothing! 🥂
The problem is that if you’re still chained to them legally with a kid they’ll get mad and hit you with a frivolous family court lawsuit. Or find other ways to make your life hell around dealing with your kid.
@@harveypolanski755 Truth. If you think women are angels have a talk with divorced men and learn what the women who professed to "love them" did to swindle resources and gain custody of the children. A special place in hell is reserved for slimy divorce lawyers who coach their clients how to paint the picture of their ex-husbands as abusive.
That's why u don't make kids with someone that u would question their offspring
She wasn't worth him turning his life around before. Are you actually surprised that she was upset? His actions admitted that she wasn't worth putting in effort for. Of course she's upset. You clowns need Professor Chad's help if you don't understand why she acts like this AND is justified to do so.
Professor Chad think it’s okay for a woman to leave her husband after he falls into depression (due to dad’s death). Cold heartless b.stard
This is the equivalent of trashing a car selling it then being mad that the next owner fixed it and made it nice
*Chris Fix laughs maniacally*
@@ouhnvjjnn9769 Chris fix is the man. The drift stang 🔥
Believe or not, I saw a court TV case like that. They sold a car, the new owner fixed the car up, and the original owner tried suing to reverse the deal so they could have the car back after it was fixed up.
They lost.
Nah the bro turned it into a lambo
@@ouhnvjjnn9769 the guy doesn't know what codependent means.
At least this guy didn't have children with her. Saved himself another headache.
Hallelujah to that!😇
No, he saved the kids a headache. No one gives two shts about her or him. They both sound like douchebags.
@@CatGamer-wc2ij why does he sound like a douchebag ? I've lost my dad as well , right before a huge exam that would be mighty important for my future. I failed that exam. Had shit jobs 3 years after that till i had a second chance. If you people can't understand that the death of a loved one will add huge mental pressure on someone , then you lack empathy plain and simple.
People don't manage their feelings at the same rate , nor do they grow up at the same rate as others. If you feel more mature then your partner , and you feel like you've outgrown them , you're free to go. But you don't get to complain that they are assholes because they couldn't keep up with you.
That is irresponsible thinking, sorry. Although I understand you with all the money you would have to contribute if she was with the kids and you were separated and the many other problems I have no grasp of, yeah it is annoying, but still it would also be YOUR children. The only thing I despise is that some women/men pay such strong attention to one thing: to what degree his/her partner is exploitable. But children is a different topic. They are not responsible for the misery of a broken relationship.
Buddy, trust me here: this is the mother of all headaches
'If you can’t handle me at my diddliest, you don’t deserve me at my doodliest.'
-Ned Flanders
hahahhahaha tooo funny man! im gonna steal that
"Can't let this little doozy get out." ~ Ned Flanders
"If you can't handle me at palms are sweaty, then you don't deserve me at mom's spaghetti"
Lmao.
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Woman: [dumps a man at his low]
Society: Yaaay! You go girl!
Man: [dumps an aging evil witch]
Society: How dare you!!
I hate Society fu k em' all
@@Military.FutureUrbanCamo that is normal. The game is rigged and not fair. We all are here to play it and get what you want despite that. And bad people are good at rigged games.
@@Avrelivs_Gold I'm staying a virgin
@@Military.FutureUrbanCamo yes, that's what society wants from you
@@Avrelivs_Gold good or bad thing
Behind every successful man is absence of a bad relationship
Do you ever leave UA-cam?
@@g.tb.b8392 same question
No not really you could find about all this and be successful without even having a relationship or had one
Elon Musk.
Cringe Lord fair point lol
"Women do NOT care about your struggles. They hang out at the finish line, and they pick the winners" - Entrepreneurs in Cars. I love it when irony is this delicious.
Irony is my favourite flavour.
*pick* , huh? 😏
Hey he should do a video with entrepreneurs in cars
Two bald men one video
Out of all the flavors they choose salt because all these betas are thirsty.
She's upset she sold the shares at low value and now they climbed.
She did the relationship equivalent of buy high sell low, except she was the only reason the stocks dropped to low
@@jigaboo346 ...and now her options have expired.
@@frednil8304 thats why traders always loses and long term investors always take huge loads of wins.
lmfao... thats what i always said to my sucabus....lol how I was always buying stocks... investing in the company
Timing is EVERYTHING.
Ah yes, sounds like my life story. The girl I truly loved and wanted to build a life with when I was a naïve young man didn't want me back because I was a broke, but 10 years later when I became financially very successful and she heard it from our common acquaintance (despite me not bragging or anything) she suddenly remembered that I exist and tried everything to get me to date (and most likely marry) her. Well the thing is, while I went from being a broke student to being a successful entrepreneur, she went from being a fit young hottie to being an overweight single mom, my value skyrocketed but hers plummeted. Now I can get all the young hotties I want, why would I choose her ? She didn't want me at my lowest point, she doesn't deserve me now.
I always laugh when I see fit, thin women become fat. Reason: They teased me in grade school for being ugly. Now it’s their turn to be ugly. (Except they can control it… just eat less food. I guess that simple logic escapes them.)
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Look who's laughing now
Right on.
Nice!!! 💯
Have mercy, she deserves a pearl necklace at least.
She is angry because she is not in any way the beneficiary of his improvement.
I know couples they went to bad times together and got stronger together. Both happy. But the sacrifice has been done in a team.
Toxic behaviors that developed in middle school that only worsen as time goes by. Doesn't help the fact it's now affecting their adult life.
Angry because she can't divorce an split his money
Same shit over here man, good job.
yeah when a women loves a man and dose everything she can to get him going but he refuse's stay's a lazy bum never doing anything together give up and only then he is motivated he never loved her and her being around was holding him back. That cuts deep when being with the one you love only turns them into a loser but they can do it all when your not around
"A woman's oath is inscribed in water."
Sophocles
No no, I know many "women of their word" 🤣
"If words were water, the Humans would drown us all". Klingon proverb from the fan film "Axanar"
Damn! Fleeting emotional creatures 😂
Profound words
Gerhard Symons how is it they knew way back when, yet they are STILL getting away with being useless and selfish? There are too many weak men.
10 years of her life and he never improved. She leaves and suddenly hes a new successful man. You know what this tells me? She was the problem in his life.
Doing so much for him he didn't feel he needed to improve himself. Once he was alone he could improve himself. Men should not settle until 30s for this exact reason.
Yes
TheFrio937 no settling! Period!
Facts.
@growlingbehemoth
I agree with you. But there's alot of cases too where women don't let their Male partners improve as well.
I’m literally living this. Got left at my lowest and now a couple years later and I’m a ups driver making 6 figures a year and she’s living with her mother again
Ha ha ha. And I bet at the time you were made to feel GRATEFUL that she had decided to allow you to carry her through life hey? Soo happy to see this and I’m about to do my 180 soon in a few months time by getting into shape and sorting out my finances. The key thing is, as long as you don’t lose your mind or give in to severe depression, you come out the other side invincible
I'm hoping to get there soon. I'm one year out of divorce (yes she was the one that walked away) and left with nothing but bills. I finally lost my dad bod and hoping to find a new higher paying job in the next couple months.
God bless you man
UPS drivers make 6 figures??
@@kevinwantstoshred absolutely. I try getting people to become drivers all the time. Top rate is different in different states but in PA where I live it’s $42.65 an hour. I work more OT than most drivers. I worked 3100 hours last year and made $140,000 but most top rate drivers in my state make anywhere from $100-120,000. That’s not counting the completely free top of the line health insurance and stock options either. You have to go through a 30 day qualifying period to become a driver though and it’s not easy
She's mad because she lost a good utility and money provider
bingo
She just utilised Briffaults Law like many women do....
Her ATM.
Man loses his job, gains weight, and has his father die.
Woman most effected.
The thing is, she is the one who gave up on him. If she was upfront and told him he needed to change, he would've come around instead of leaving, which he did eventually come around and now she is angry when she gave up. You cant complain about the results of a test you gave up on.
I felt this, my mother got diagnosed with cancer recently and I found out after an er visit have to get a dental abcess removed, my ex texts and asks if I'm ok, 2 months later after she just dumped me after a week I say I'm pissed "don't get toxic with me" I just snapped, I told her after being friends with her throughout high school and how her saying let's be a couple was my dream, then how she completely shit on that and I called her out for finding another guy literally within 2 weeks and how she shouldn't confuse fornication with loving someone, I got blocked but I did warn her new guy about her having herpes (she doesn't but I want veangence) oh boy that was fucking satisfying
@@30cal23 To be fair most people have herpes and don't know it, at least sexually active people. It's just most people's immune systems keep it suppressed where other's don't always, which is when it comes out if I remember that correctly. So there's a good chance you weren't lying.
@@brians1793 the best piece of advice my father ever gave me. “Unless she’s wearing your ring, make sure you’re wearing a rubber.” Lol.
@@brians1793 and the first sign of aids is a shitty dick
Short answer: she was part of the guys character development
Big OOF
Damn that anime arc was good
Best arc of the series.
Good comment. I smashed the like button.
Yo guy could ya give me your profile pic?
She was with him for 10 years. In that span of time she must have had good experiences with him and happy memories to look back on and say "that was good and I'm thankful for it."
For her to instead say she gave him 10 of the best years of her life and got **nothing** in return tells us everything we need to know.
Imagine this scenario: “I’m a husband. My wife’s dad died & she got depressed/ gained weight.” So I divorced her.
Would you say the husband is an ashole? Of course you would. Ditto the wife in the original story (didn’t support him after his dad died)
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yeah forget that B, she never truly loved that man. If anything, she probably made him feel worse overtime.
Good thing he's doing better now. That's rough to go through.
She “cut her losses”, and then got angry when “the stock jumps up” 🤣
LMAO exactly. She sold Amazon back in 2015 at $200 when they weren't making any money. 5 years later > $2,000 😁📈💸
@@ethannaka1822 I hate when that happens, too.
hendrik Mintarno 😂
hendrik Mintarno permission to copy and paste
It sounds more like he had it easy with her playing enabler to him and he had to hit rock bottom before he cleaned up is act. His stock was probably never going to "jump" with her. She shouldn't be angry that he is finally happy. She should recognize that they were no longer (and probably never were) suited for each other and wish him well.
Little known secret, women hate seeing a man they left successful. It makes them question their choices when they left him and produces painful regret that could last them years or the rest of their life. It's one of the motivations behind why some women deliberately try to ruin a man's life in divorce. They don't want to feel bad for leaving a man they chose to leave ever and they don't want any other women to want that man either so they try to ruin his worth.
Dude, you need to drop this knowledge on a red pill page. This is stone cold truth.
It's retroactive hypergamous doubt - hijacking the filter ex post facto
Anthony Robinson Spot on Anthony. Slash and burn. By destroying the man they have got rid of him to the point where it not only solidifies they never want him back . But it also guarantees no other woman of value would want him either.
I've noticed this behaviour in women and I'm not surprised. They remind me of a praying mantis or a black widow spider, where they eat the males afterwards. Some women are programmed to destroy men.
Great point - you are my red pill hero for today.
She was holding him back and when she realized it, it pissed her off.
Going thru that exact same thing!
Women take...
Like they took the apple first
*She was holding him back and when she realized it, it pissed her off.*
Some could say she was "toxic" and having a negative effect on him :3
@@SisypheanSeas13 well, when women are *less* capable and *dependent* upon men, it makes sense that they would take from men. similar to how children "take" from their parents. because children are less capable and dependent upon their parents.
It's amazing how quickly a woman runs from self reflection.
Me and my husband hit rock bottom six times, losing everything we owned except for the clothes on our backs and a few bags of stuff.
But we stuck together and fought together to recover, for ourselves and our children. Our kids are now grown with children of their own, and we are still together. Right now we're facing another storm heading to Louisiana.
And if we lose everything again, we will stick together. That's what marriage means.
If Everyone Things like you....This World really be a Better place
You are a rare one that's for sure
Only problem is too many people don't take rheir vows seriously and jump ship at the first sign of trouble. You're rare like my parents and grandparents.
Wonderful story
Respect
A female friend once told me:
Nothing makes us angrier and hurt us more than knowing a man we left is better without us.
What they don't understand is that the *MAN* is already successful without them (nature makes us share the success with them with what is around us)... they dnt understand their role and how to hold their weight...the want to claim all the credits (for instance when you are in a new relationship they will first try and change the man..that shit always hits the fan)
@@kimtukieusi4982 Meanwhile, the feminists are claiming it's the men trying to take credit for women's accomplishments.
You could broadcast that projection in fucking IMAX.
So damn true. My ex knows this firsthand.
I think in this case we men are not much different. We humans are just spiteful creatures.
@Mr Man My ex broke up with me half a year ago. But we are still friends and she even lets me use her netflix and helps me in math (we are both college students and shes good in math). Not all women are like shown in this video. And i even exploited her coz she was richer than me and i was a big asshole to her. I insulted her million times but she never insulted me. So i think not all women are bad and not all men are saints.
"He never had much money when we divorced" BINGO! There is the main reason for her anger.
Too bad so sad Golddigger she did him a favor by leaving she has nothing to offer The reason he has a nice suit and an expensive watches because he doesn’t have to support your deadbeat ass do you notice she never said she made any money and brought into the marriage
@@davidbutler9301 Not bloody wrong mate!
perfect reply !!
"Ding, ding, ding, what do we have for her johnny? "
Yes. Materialistic girls. No love involved. Just money, power and selfishness.
Her: "he would just wallow in self-pity"
Also her: **proceeds to wallow in self-pity**
Hehe
*How the turn tables*
Wouldn't have realized this if i didn't read this
Well she can, cause she is a woman, welcome to real life
oh the irony
As a man, it’s kind of depressing when you realize that women don’t love you, they love the financial security, children, home, and status in life you provide them. Like an employee, you’re nothing more than what you produce.
^^^ Seen this one play out many times. Husband hits a down financial or health speedbump in life and "wife-in-name-only" leaves.
its even more depressing when you realise they only really love or rather "think" about themselves (regardless of house, finances, children, etc.)
Thats gross but true. I can see its true after being left about 5 times. They can turn off love in an instant. Basically because of this I have no desire to even mess with them things anymore.
And why is it that when they walk away from marriage they continue to keep your last name. Just don't understand that part
@@craggyexplores3070 Women see relationship with a man as a job. Therefore, I think the reason they keep your last name is because it's the same as keeping your last job experience on your resume. It makes you seem experienced and have a better chance finding the next partner. It's the same reason why women think that being a high-earning, successful, career woman is attractive to men, when really, we don't care about their job.
If you don't love him at his worst, you don't deserve him at his best.
Exactly!
@@mghq-mobilegamerzhq2533 I see you every in every comment section
@@riveendxup6855 That's honestly a first for me
👍
Hell no! This is the same dumb logic you see women say about themselves all the time.
For both men *and* women: If you won't take someone at their worst, then you probably have healthy self-respect and reasonable boundaries.
A lot of women get a sick and twisted joy out of seeing an ex husband or ex boyfriend fall on hard times. But it destroys them when the man betters himself. Keep taking red pills men!
It absolutely obliterates their fantasy. They become depressed as fuck and the next thing you notice is she seems to adopt more and more cats.
A red pill a day keeps the b.s away.
Misandry and penis envy. That is all there is to them.
Nearly all women feel entitled to a exhusbands finances his entire life. My dad became wealthy after my mom divorced him. And it burns her. Its no secret give a man with work ethic time alone and hes going to have something. The truth is this chick was no help to this guy they are a net negative on your finances and personal development.
@Mannequin Gothique it's enough if he gets a partner before her to piss most women off
She was fast, now, she's furious.
lol
Lol
When does the movie come out?
@@minermike61 Ready on UA-cam.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"He left me. I found a new guy. I tried to rub it on his face but nothing happened. Then I tried to rub it way more by getting married with a guy a didn't love. Now he haves a new partner and I can't stand it". Hahahaha
I swear God that's my ex storie.
My ex is like that too, they'd rather be miserable than just accept accountability for their mistakes.
they get off of the idea that there's someone who is miserably in love while she can get another dude. it's a sick world.
Great man once said
“just cuz you lost me as a friend, doesn’t mean you gained me as an enemy, I’m bigger than that, I still wanna see you eat just not at my table.”
Tupac.
I love this comment
wise words
@R S jeez what a special little hero you are.
@R S why reply if you don't care?, pretty contradictory to your evil princess lifestyle.
When I got deathly ill, when my career stumbled, when my father was murdered and I sank into depression, my wife remained by my side. When my doctor said "Make plans (you're dying)", I told her if she was going to leave, it was time. She was visibly shaken and angry that I would say such a thing. There have been times I was impossible due to my response to these horrible events, but she's always been there.
Lately she's had some terrible issues, some that she purposely hid from me because she was embarrassed, ashamed, and feared my reaction; but we're solving the problems. There are lots of things to get done, challenges to overcome, but we're gonna stick it out.
Very thankful man here.
you have a good wife
@@safiismail497 lol hope not 😅
@@everydayappleuser Not sure where safi's reply went (it's invisible), but I bet he/she doesn't have the guts to say it to my face :)
@@DHW256 lol, he might feel bad for what he said
@@DHW256 good luck, and good health to you and your lady.
His life got better hers didn’t. She was holding him back.
That is what I took from this.
@abobjenkins women always hold men back. I want to screw every attractive woman I see but when you're married you can't do that. A wife is also a financial drain the holds you back from activities you want to do that cost money. The list could go on.
Dream on. Unfortunately the male species is shallow and codependent.
@abobjenkins you are a moron if you think you can go ahead with a woman bitching and nagging at you
@abobjenkins True
Had a similar situation, lost my job, gained 120lbs and was totally isolated for about 6 years. The only person I saw was my fiancé. We lived together and when it ended, I had nothing. I put all the blame on myself. Hearing this story and seeing the support for this guy who was going through a really hard time and that he wasn't just viewed as some leech loser makes me feel better.
Imagine this scenario: “I’m a husband. My wife’s dad died & she got depressed/ gained weight.” So I divorced her.
Would you say the husband is an ashole? Of course you would. Ditto the wife in the original story (didn’t support him after his dad died)
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Life has ups and downs you can do it. Lose that weight find the job you enjoy and or can tolerate live for yourself because at the end of the day you can always count on yourself.
if a man divorced a woman in todays society because she got depressed when a family member died, gained some weight and lost her job as a result, he would be ridiculed and mocked to no end.
And if a women divorced a man for the same stuff you mentioned up there. She would get half of his stuff and have her group telling her “ good he was just a deadbeat ” or “ he should man up”. What an equal society we live in. 😂
Jedi master Ren You guys are so blinded it's unbelievable. This is the reason we have sexism, because you guys choose to see what you want to see. Live a life through another person's shoes for a day and you'll see that the same problems coexist in both worlds.
@@lividbutton2813 hah you're ridiculous. Everyone agrees the courts favor women. You want proof of how in favor of women our society is? Look at the recent outrage over adele having to pay alimony to her husband. Men have been paying the mass majority of alimony for the longest time. For just the second time in history a woman cracks the top 25 highest alimony paid and women are up in arms about how unfair it is. Want more proof? Why is it fair that of all the gender specific homeless shelters in the us, ones dedicated to women are the only ones who get federal funding? More sexism? Men are the mass majority of homeless and those killed on the job or in a homicide. But yeah. Society hates women. Please
instinctz1 Take a history class bud. Then maybe you'd learn how American society actually favors white males over anyone else.
@@lividbutton2813 not recent. And by recent I mean anything in the past 50 years. Its WHITE WOMEN who are overwhelming favored. But keep listening to your leftist revisionist history. After white women comes women in general and then white men.
For women, the definition of a "grown up man" is a man that says yes to all her need and complains.
Pretty much
And even then they aren’t fully content
And you don't comply she will bust out with the following card: "How dare you?"
Man Joker always makes me laugh when he plays it during his videos
@@darkprince7469 truth. Some women can never be satisfied. Even if she married Mr Perfect, she would ditch him if she thinks she found Mr. Even More Perfect
@@greyman6353 I hate women for this I'm now a even more woman Hater
She’s just pissed because he dropped the “dead weight” which was her.
I think it’s more that she can’t share his wealth & that infuriates her lol.
@@MFDoomguy21 it infuriates a lot of women
She thought she was gonna do better, walikng around with an engineer or something and finding him flipping burgers and shove it in his face. Didnt happen. Thats whh she mad
We have a hilarious example of this: A guy working at a papermill had his wife walk out on him quoting boredom of her everyday life as a reason she filed for in her divorce papers. Two weeks after it was finalized, the fella wins a huge lottery win.
She's just mad because she imagined walking around with her new doctor husband and running into him flipping burgers and being able to say "Yeah I upgraded my life and your still trash."
Lol i know a lot of single guys around their 30s that flip burgers and are way better than married engineer dudes hahaa
Flipping burgers is fun
@@brute6896 Its honest work. It doesn't pay well, but that has zero to say about the people doing that kinda job. I wasn't thinking too deep about policing my speech in something I wrote in 30 seconds, just using a term of phrase. I don't hold anything against people that flip burgers as a living, hell I was one of them at one point.
@@grigorigahan i wasnt saying it in a bad way, theres jobs that getba bad rep but are honestly just fun, like theres this guy that has been working at a nearby whataburger for years and hes always happy and gives great service
@@brute6896 Ah a fellow Texan (though I live in Virginia now)
The golden rule: Never swim an ocean for the one who won't even walk through a puddle for you.
Goes both ways. There are some women who support but the guy doesn't want to meet halfway. Then there is nothing you can do. Just need to wish him well and focus on you
@@lucybee3361 man hater spotted! Lol
@Humble Warrior YEah my now ex wife said she had plans for us, she was the big deal, we where not partners anymore, and i was here frozen in time.
Then i asked her wich plans? And she told i wanna travel with you, see the world, have a family. I told her yeah nice empty words. How many languages you can understand? How much money do you have in you bank account so we can do that? She told thats not the case. I told her yeah it is... ive money to go to a tour in europe right now, ive a bussness that will with time would give us stability to have a family.
Then told her all she wants its to be single and be a whore take dicks in partys, thats what her actions show, and me i wanted to be a husband and have a family, and my actions was in line with that.
Then i told her to leave and go be the whore she was born to be... becouse now without the problem of support oter person i can go and travel the world haha.
Woman are creatures of empty words... aways.
Arantyr DarkHand only because of plans you said this? A bit hard to understand whole story but interesting 😛
@@damianos17xyz99 She end the relationshit becouse i did not do anything with her, we did not travel etc, and that was what she wanted travel and have a kid. I told her and what action are you taking to achive that, like save money etc. She had nothing wasted all money and time with bullshit while i had savings, i planned the things and worked to make shit happens in real life.
"For better or worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part...." I guess she was zoned out during that part of the wedding ceremony.
this. calll me a crazy old, the vow like this one is stuck in the souls, the brain. when you decided to tie the string of karma its a curse and blessing. dont mess with vow, it can really do harm.
She only heard the ‘keeeeeerchingggg!!!!!’
You MEAN !! FOR !! RITCHER !!! AND !! RITCHER !!!!!!
I don't remember my wedding day. I was way too nervous.
@kleindropper: Those were just empty words when she said it. She failed the test later; it's always better to break off without resentment, otherwise you're still connected through karma, which will come back to you later.
My ex was a narc sent me a lame text to say she felt she wasn’t living her “best life” after treating me like sh**, I said okay, blocked her right away from all social media and never looked back. Pretty sure she thought I would blow her phone or whatever saying the “sooner the better” 😂
Later found her on tinder with selfies and text on the pictures saying “ in case you forgot what I look like” , “ I had to shut you down” 😅 Pathetic
Lol
"Goofing around on his computer" after he lost his dad and job.
First I thought he was playing games. He ends up in a tech company. He was probably not goofing but learning to program to provide better for him and her.
Lol, true. He was clearly trying to push/better himself to provide for the both of them but she couldn't see that and ditched him. Now that he's been doing so well without her, she gets offended. Strange world we live in....
I wouldn't have come to that conclusion if I didn't read this comment
Bit of a stretch, but certainly possible considering where he ended up working.
depends on how much time it took, possiblle that while with her he still was only goofing around but later he decided to do something with it
@@NeoLotex I actually don't think its a stretch. People tend to lump people into categories, typically if they are doing something they don't understand its frivolous and pointless and just "dicking" around.
"Her leaving" is his motivation. My ex left me when I lost my high paying job, plus she took me to the cleaner, left me broke. I am determined to come back financially and with a beautiful gf. I did it once, I can do it again.
Study cloud computing then. The CC bubble has just started to inflate and is far from bursting take advantage of it while you have the chance and you'll be golden
This time be awarw of diggers
Good shit my boy
Good plan, except drop the another beautiful girl part
You really don't learn do you
Don’t expect him to treat you like a queen if you don’t treat him like a *king*
Words spoken like a champ
Worst part is she'll treat him as a king only when he has the crown.
this.....this is the comment!
YukiNosu - damn that is straight facts
Agreed, people (both sides honestly) tend to forget that commitment goes both ways
The moment my late father said “no” (amidst the subprime mortgage crisis) to my mother she all the sudden “fell out of love” with him. In the words of Joker, sssssshhhhhhocking.
Said no to what?
"A happy man means a happy relationship, a happy woman means a miserable man."
- Patrice O'Neal
RIP Black Phillip
I wish I had been on his hype train before he passed. He was like black Ricky Gervais. Honest, funny, and don’t care about feelings just facts
You can swap that quote and itll still spark truth.
Lividbutton naw it’s fine the way it is and if it was in reverse it wouldn’t speak the truth since men are sacrificial by nature while women aren’t 😉
My exe left me after my mom died. Cold blooded. Similar to this guy story. Men no matter what never ever cry in front of a woman.
Cold blooded is right. My ex left 2 months after my sister died at a young age. It hit me hard.
MY exc left me then i got xcw (KTM 300)
@@abxew9794 Nice girl, Katie M, ride her hard all day, she wont complain. When you've finished with her you lock her in the garage.
yep. some female friends told me that a man crying is a total turn off for them. they want masculinity, not soyboys. you vent on your friends, not on your partner. to her, you are invincible.
@@frednil8304 are you seeing my girl?!!!?
My friend told me a story about when he was younger.
He and his wife got a divorce when they were younger. They were together for a good amount of years but lived poor and lived check to check.
They got a divorce some years later.
He ended up changing his life around. Now he has a couple houses, nice cars, etc.
She did ok with her life but nowhere near as good as him.
He told me she found out about his new wealth becuase they bumped into each other again through a mutual friend. During their conversation, he ended up showing her pictures of the vacant property he bought and pictures of the new mcmansion he is building on it. He then heard later from the mutual friend that she was mad he was doing good now but she also wanted to try and meet him again to see if they can restart their relationship.
He doesn't want to becuase now he has more booty options than he had before and is having "fun".
Good for him.
Anyone man or woman who is angry or puts you down for your successes is prime cut them off material.
@@warriorfire8103 a lady like that ruins both men and women alike.
@@ghuttsmckenzie4269 Child*
@@holo6883 oh and children too I guess.
I’m angry because I wish you weren’t succesful. Also can I be in a relationship with you? 😂 that’s so retarded.
I broke up with her 2 months ago, I go to the gym, lost some weight and have fixed my finances. I feel so much better and positive and thus is just the start. Her nagging, complaining, not working, etc. Generally and all around aura of negativity just sucked the life and soul right out of me, it's obvious who the victim was.
My gf left December 14, 2019. Felt like the worst thing that happened to me. After working on myself for a few months I can come out and say the breakup was one of the best things that ever happened to me.
Edit: thank you for all the support and kind words my guys. I hope you all make it in life or at least make life make it for you.
Edit2: I just wanted to let you guys know that working out was the thing that helped me move on the most. I started doing pushups the day after she left and gradually worked my way to the gym environment. It feels as if the more my body worked the less the mind took off to thinking about her. Eventually I didn't need to work out to stop thinking about her. I hope you guys have an awesome day :)
Mathew Jarvis: ◀️◀️ *_Now learn from your experience and do NOT let it happen to you again._*
Now is the best time to focus on building the wealth and health of yourself.
Congratulations on your resilience 🤘
It doesn’t sound like you’re completely over her, it takes time.
Take it, reflect. What doesn’t kill man, makes man stronger.
@@arisn32 I saw that heath ledger joker reference buddy real clever man💯💯
"He lives like a child/teen/etc!" is almost always code for his entire life isn't structured completely around me.
@Leslie Starck Amen😂👌! When people date, we want to date people that can fix themselves a majority of the time. We don't date to become your parent and take care of you like a child 24/7.😂 Like, you can support your lover when shit hits the fan, but don't expect them to do all the work for you, that's your job.
_“Smoking weed all the time and spending all day messing around on the computer...”_ sometime it isn’t code.
@@michaeljames4904 A lot of the time it's taken grossly out of context to simply prove a bad point.
@@michaeljames4904 I dont believe her. They were financially broke. Weed is hella expensive. So saying he smoked it all the time would be like saying they got quite a lot of cash. Therefore proving that that's a lie or she exaggerated the story.
@@hardlee7073 logically accurate
Lost my hair in my early 20s, was skinny fat, flabby, and was broke while I was in college. I had a pity girl friend for a month who was the bestie of my brother's girlfriend. She ghosted me, and told every one I was a joke, and looked like a 50 year old man, and she got a huge laugh out of it. Now at 50 I look like a cut Bruce Willis with a short white beard. I have stayed single, own my own home, and am looking at buying a condo in Greece when this Covid passes. She reached out to my now sister in law and asked about me, we exchanged social media, after seeing a recent photo of her I screamed in fear and then in laughter, I wouldn't date her if you paid me. To all the women out there remember this, if a man puts his mind to it, and puts in the effort and gym time time, he can look relatively good into his 70s, you on the other hand..better hope your new guy has a stretch mark fetish and has a thing for hanging bellies, sorry but really not sorry, not one bit.
I have great respect for you sir 😊 more power to you 🤟
Men age like wine and woman like milk
Fuck yes! 100%
Oh man, I would REALLY like to see her "after" photo!
@@abxew9794 its biology woman smv best years are between 20-30 men are between 35-50
This is roughly how my own story is bound to play out. My ex-wife didn't leave me at rock bottom, but she did cheat on me and treat me like garbage until I left her when I was at rock bottom and struggling with my mental health. Now I'm successful, making more money than I know what to do with, I'm fit, my physical and mental health is getting better every day, and from what I hear she's still living in her mom's basement, her relationship with the guy she cheated on me with failed, and she's working two shitty jobs and struggling to make ends meet. I haven't talked to her in over a year now, I'll be interested to see what happens when she inevitably reaches out to me. I'll give her nothing, not even sympathy.
Give her the best thing u can now give her. The gift of your silence. 4 ever.
Interesting subject, made me recall my 14 year marriage.
I was always a fearless entrepreneur, she feared everything, swimming, metaphysics, people, and anything that had to do with chance. Located a townhouse in Harlem for a super reasonable price and was super excited about having negotiated a super discount.
She went ballistic screaming I'm not about to live in Harlem period. 4 years later the townhouse was worth 1.2 Million and the neighborhood got gentrified.
We soon after got a divorce, and it took 16 years and I was able to renovate a Harlem crack-house for $70k down, 14 years later sold it for $3 Million.
Impressed.
Good show, brotha!
Your property value increased tremendously! Her value likely decreased!
They say you represent or are an amalgamation of the 5 closest people around you. If one or two are naysayers, morbid or very negative then that's not good for you. Always be aware of the attitudes of the people around you, distance yourself from the negative ones. It could be someone in your family.
How can you fear metaphysics?
If a woman doesn't want you at your lowest, then she doesn't deserve you when you are at your highest.
RuddsReels that like something a nice girl would say
If a woman won't give you her best years, why stick around for her worst
Amen.
RuddsReels yeah yeah yeah...read this on every red pill site
Great quote
I had a girlfriend who had left me after I poured myself into the relationship. After realizing no one else had given so much she wanted me back. I said "You thought you were the catch. Hunny, I am the catch... you never were." I met someone else and married. We are extremely happy.
Thanks this motivate me a lot
I think when we "provide", when we "pour ourself into the relationship", they think they are the price and we are weak. They fail to understand we as men want to provide for the one we love, want to invest our energy, want to protect. This is what we do in a relationship, still they see weakness. It's caring. There is something wrong about the way they see us. I quit. They will be asking where are the nice guys ? She left you. you were the nice guy, she killed it. I m happy you found someone respectful.
@@francoisblanc6453, it the princess culture. They all think they are a princess. They "Deserve" whatever they want. My wife appreciates masculinity. She demonstrates respect in everything she does and she isn't afraid to change when she finds a flaw. We respect each other, not control or manipulate. We both have the right to make our own choices, but we chose each other. I am a fortunate man.
Why you little piece of worth
Take my thumbs up.
lmao your ex just got ROLLED
I don't always agree with you, Joker, but this is spot on. I had this happen to me three (!) times. First time after I needed to find a way to deal with an event I experienced back in my days as a medic: Was called to a party after some messed up fella drugged up a teenage girl, he wanted to hook up with her and overdosed her. The girl died in my arms, nothing much we could to at that point - it turned out she was having her 17th birthday one week later. My back then girlfriend left me just about a month after this incident because I was considered a "downer" and "not capable of dealing with it". I took every help (including seeing psychologists) I could get - but yeah, five years down the drain. Fun fact: A couple of years later I also bumped into this horrible woman and got the "Hey you look great today, we should stay in touch" kind of treatment. Best "No thanks, goodbye" I ever spoke.
The second time was after a friend of mine died in a messed up motorcycle accident. Knew that lad for almost 10 years and it just ripped me apart. Still: No excessive drinking on my side or any sort of drug abuse, but I could not perform at work and was suspended. Never saw that partner of mine ever again.
Third time: PTSD related issues. The story mentioned above is just one of many, if you serve the public you inevitably see sh*t. Some of that is hard to forget. My partner knew about this since the day we first met, and at some point she got a job offer abroad in a period I had some troubles. She asked me to talk about whether we both should move - that talk never happened, instead she made plans behind my back to leave on her own. One day I came home and found her and half of her stuff gone. No communication, no chance to even speak to one another as a couple. Asked her for an explanation, never got one. I was forced to accept that she does not even have the decency to get me some closure.
Still don't hate women, but my message to the opposite sex is this: Ladies, if you go down the same path all of these women did, you are going to have a hard time eventually. Men (not only me) are starting to learn that such people are neither worth our time, nor any effort.
"Women do not care about your struggles in life, they hang out at the finish line and pick the winner" - Richard Cooper AKA "Entrepreneurs in Cars"
i follow his channel too. wise words.
Absolutely true
@Peter Thompson It's hypergamy, every woman is looking for the bigger and better deal. You can't blame them for it, because its just built-in to their nature. A woman should be a compliment to your life, but never the focus of it.
didn't chris rock say it first?
Best thing I've heard this week.
I like how she said "he was goofing around on the computer" now he has a high end tech job. That's classic support, sounds like he is a decent guy.
sounds to me like his "goofing around" on the computer wasn't goofing, but that she didn't understand what he was doing...
David Reynolds cuz the money wasn’t coming in yet. Imagine how toxic and nagging she likely was
It's an old meme but she "should've learnt to code."
Well....I'm sure the wives of Volta, Ampere, Faraday, etc, , etc, etc, were all complaining how their guys were "just goofing around in the lab". (I haven't checked about the personal lives of these people but you get the idea).
I had this exact thing happen.
I dated a girl for 6 years and I was a depressed mess. I was a young adult. 17-23. I was so sad, so anxious, and just stuck in a rut. Never wanted to do anything fun or anything to better myself. The girl had enough (I don’t blame her) and walked away. As soon as she left, it was a eye opener for me. I realized what I needed to do to better myself and I strived to do so. And once I started to better myself, that ex got mad. She saw herself as the problem. When in reality, her leaving just opened my eyes. Growth isn’t linear my friends.
Yep.. Same here. The biggest inspiration for men is reproductive viability. My first relationship of 6 years wasn't bad, Infact she was great but I lost myself getting locked down so young. When she split I forced myself into action, went to uni again and got into my dream career that I always wanted to but never had the motivation.
I can understand why they'd be angry especially if they see something in you and stick with you for years.
Sort of with me too, but my mother was needing a constant caregiver. I was the only one that could do it. Not a pleasant place for me. She ditched me during that. I just did not have the time to see her. I get why she did it, still infuriates me when she did it. During one of my mother’s hospital stays, third stroke nearly killed her. Well there I was caregiver with a mother that did die about a year and change later. Took some time to reflect and get some help for that severe depressive episode I was in. Now... getting things back on track.
@@Outlaw8908 you got this! the one thing ive learned is that you need to become independent and take care of yourself. once you can do that, the right person and right love will come along. and if a person left or leaves you when you’re in a moment of need, they were never there in the first place. but you got this!
@@Outlaw8908 all the best dude!
I dated a girl for four years in my early 20's (22-26) I gave her all I had, let her live rent free in my place, paid for the vacations that she dragged me on. Then one day she wanted to go on a vacation with a bunch of her coworkers, a lot of them male coworkers. I was very upset about this but she went anyways. While she was on this vacation a childhood friend of mine committed suicide. I was a fucking mess. I called her to hopefully get some comforting words from her, she was drunk and either didn't understand or didn't care. When she got back a few days later I tried talking about it with her. I was pouring my heart out to this woman and she didn't have a single comforting thing to say, she was more worried about going out and drinking with her friends. The next couple of weeks consisted of me depressed and either on the couch or in bed all evening while she was out at the bars until 2am. She decided to break up with me and immediately started dating one of the guys she went on that vacation with. This put me in an even deeper depression coupled with alcohol and drug abuse. This was the worst I've ever been and after a friend of mine introduced me to Dr. Jordan Peterson's book 12 rules and his you tube lectures I slowly started to pull myself out of this mental state and started doing things to better myself. I'm truly grateful for that man as he helped me out my darkest moment in life. I now own my own business, which was very successful until these lockdowns hit (I own and operate a restaurant) ,I bought a new house, I'm 3 years sober, and after a couple years found a woman who does care for me and treats me like a King, I hope all of you find someone like her. My ex on the other hand put on about 50lbs, lost her job, and is living back at her parents. She called me a couple times in the past but i just ignored. I honestly do not care about how she's doing.
I’m gonna say SHE was dragging him down. Not the other way around. I think she realizes this. Hence the anger. “He’s not supposed to be doing better. I rejected him. He should be miserable and destitute.”
One has to interpret this properly: "He wanted to live the life of a teenager". What she really means is "he didn't want to spend all his money on me!". This is what they usually consider being a "grown up man".
he was probably lacking in ambition because she was making him miserable so he didn't see the point in trying.
I mean, proper context would be why he didnt focus on getting more money to support me.
This is true, I got guilt tripped so many times by being called: inmature, wanting a bachelor's life, lacking goals, etc... When what she really wanted was me to pour all my time, savings, energy and attention to her. Since I walked away I got promoted at work, went back to school, moved to a better place and finally starting to control my weight. I'm spooked to think how much more I could have accomplished by now if I would of walked away earlier.
Women really do want you to be work horses. I actually met a girl who hates women more than I do disgusted with how they treat everyone even their own gender. They got all kinds of nasty names for her, Uncle Ruckus, Handmaiden, but she asked me upfront what do I think I'll be doing in ten years and i said living in a van, running over moderators in that van, hopefully still with her, we fuck, and we die
She loved it. Said "you're an aggressive hippy" lol
@@ultraatari9298 Women who KNOW that women are horrible to men and are disgusted by it are quality women.
My exgirlfriend text me after 7 years she tell me her husband cheating on her and pregnant other women ! I was like ok bye have a good day and block her
As you should king 👑
Oh just take it 👑
👏🏾 Us men will always win in the end
Yeeeaaaa savage!!
Mine got in touch after 6 yrs
I will not be replying
Chappelle said it best, "A woman's biggest test in life is material things. A man's biggest test in life is a woman."
They don't want you until someone else got you.
May I don't want THEM if they start cutting crap like that around me. I don't have time to teach a woman how to act. If I have to have a test-taking mentality around a woman, I need to change women or change where I live. Fuck Em.
@@Center42-vm2vs Funnily enough that attitude seems to attract women.
Funk Cult very very true...
Isn't it the opposite? Like for example fields of work, Men typically like to work with "things" while Women like to work with people. STEM fields for men, and Doctor/nursing fields for women. I know I like my computer more than most people in my life, and it's the reason most guys are into cars/ just have some hobby they are obsessed with. Women on the other hand usually don't have hobbies, and even if they do, it's usually a social one.
Its funny how when i was married i lost my house, worked every bit of overtime i could get, had no bond with my baby boy, wasn't allowed to go out without her and was always broke even though i make over 100k a year. Now shes gone and me and my son have a very strong bond, own my house, and have more money than i ever have without having to work everyday. I love single life. Love it.
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"He never had much money"
Why does she even bring that up? Could it be... she just exposed herself as shallow and vain?
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That’s all they care about.
@@Inkedxx Careful dude, that's a pretty hypocritical thing to say, you just exposed yourself as being shallow yourself for lumping all women under the label of 'gold digger'.
Why not just go with 'this particular woman is a lousy human being?' Why does it suddenly = 'all women are gold diggers'
Anyways, I'm sure I'm going to be accused of white knighting, even though all I'm saying is if you make sweeping generalizations about any demographic, you're part of the problem
@@rampantsarcasm2220 Nice. There are plenty of other women you can go stick up for as well that you will never sleep with. Bravo, Master Simp!
@@rampantsarcasm2220 "king simp!"
@@rampantsarcasm2220 Yeah, get prepared for some elementary responses. Some people just can't live in a world where others disagree or have another opinion.
How entitled do you have to be to get angry at someone for finding success without you, as if you deserved it?
That's the mentality of socialism right there: the feeling of entitlement to someone else's money.
Og The Barbarian
I accidentally blurred my eyes and thought ur pfp was a creepypasta
@Slime G great women are rare nowadays... Nowadays, most women just look for someone they can manipulate and they prefer good-looking bad boys.
@@ogthebarbarian641 Wow, you stretched the hell out of that one.
TyFhoonBoom is it wrong?
She left him to die... and she’s mad because he’s actually living now. Wooooooowwwwwww!!!!!!
shocking
@Deus Ex Dayum
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Dayum
I can't believe I missed something so obvious.
Yeah. Exactly.
That’s women for ya
who else is looking for negative replies here?
This was my exact situation guys. 8 year relationship, I did everything for her and when I hit bottom she left me to rot and took our son.
1 year later I'm making good money, own a house and drive a nice car. I have no communication with her, but if she knew how well I was doing she would be pissed off and probably take more for child support.
She is the reason why I'll never let a woman into my life again
My ex/kids mother played like we were getting along great until one day while I was at work, she texts me saying she’s leaving with the kids, called the police and advised me to stay away until court gave me whatever custody. So I come home to the house cleaned out of absolutely everything but a tv. Not even a bed. Appliances literally ripped out of walls, to the point of breaking outlets. My account was cleared out, and she left a note saying that the house was in the final stages of foreclosure (turns out me giving her my whole checks, didn’t find their way to the bills/mortgage). So I picked myself up, found a new someone. Called the mortgage company, saved the house from foreclosure. Eventually refurnished the house, won joint custody and even ‘won’ in court, when it was revealed she was moving to Florida from NJ, and the judge was like nope!)
After a time, I settled in with the new woman, and eventually she met the kids’ mother when we all came to a school sporting event my son was at. She had the audacity to tell my new woman, ‘you stole my life’. Um...what?
The audacity of some women. Glad that you have your life going in the right direction, brother. Glad for your sake.
@@TheEmperor2052 thanks man! It took a lot to pull up from that nose dive she left me in, but satisfying to see her being butt hurt that I not only pulled up from the dive but thrived. Best revenge is success indeed
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That happened to a neighbour a lot of years back, he would giver her the money for the mortgage thinking it was paid. One day he found out she had never paid it for years, she bailed and a while after he ended his own life.
This is one of the rawest examples of what "Entrepreneurs in cars" says - "Women don't care about men's struggles. They just wait at the finish line and pick the winners"......very unfortunate but true
Totally agree with that, unnfortunately.
The sick part is that the winners are temporary.
So, in the long term, if you were struggling with something for a longer time, then yes, woman will leave you. Because women don't care about problems, struggles, bumpy journey. They want you to SOLVE problem at any cost, quickest possible. If you don't do that, you won't be a "grown up" man (i love how women twist some words to make them so perfect, without any issues). It's not that I left a human being when he really needed somebody help, support - he wasn;t "grown up". Yep ;p
But, at the end, if it turns out that you somehow handled your life and eventually become successfull, she'll be totally pissed off. At you, at everybody around.
This is something i really hate about women. It's all great if you're successfull, but it you're down, you have a worse year due to some serious problem, then ... don't expect woman to help you. There is actually a higher chance that she will give you the "final blow" and leave.
Women are always looking to upgrade + thirsty men of all races flirting with her + dating apps = no chance of having a stable relationship for long before she steps out.
Yep, hit it right on the head with this! My ex left me almost 20 yrs ago now when I was in a bit of a slump; I had stayed faithfully by her side during all her "struggles" and issues, only for her to leave me for another guy as soon as she finished her studies and started her career, while I wasn't doing so well in her eyes. Also, it is worth mentioning that my parents were quite wealthy at the time (asset wise) and it was assumed that I would be inheriting my share of a considerable fortune one day in the distant future.
So, fast forward to a few years ago and the ex tracks me down on facebook and contacts me; seems that the guy she left me for turned out to be a sociopathic narcissist and had made life unbearable for her and the daughter they had together and she was desperate to leave him however was broke. She was basically fishing for information to see how my finances were and if I had received my inheritance yet (at the time no, I hadn't), as she had obviously done the math and realised that my parents would certainly be getting on in age by now. I was doing OK financially however certainly didn't have a spare million to buy her a house, which is what she seemed to expect me to do for her because of her current self-inflicted "struggles".
Anyway, heard nothing more from her for a couple of years until myself and my brother listed the family home (a large, multi-million dollar waterfront mansion) for sale, as our mother could no longer live there alone due to her age and dementia (dad passed a decade earlier) and needed to go into an aged care facility to live out her final days. And what do you know; the ex suddenly contacts me again looking for money (she must've been keeping an eye on the real estate listings for all those years, just waiting for this particular property to show up). All coy, innocently asking how I was doing; she was bitterly disappointed to learn that my mother had not in fact passed away and the many millions from the sale of the house was sitting in trust with our lawyer and being used to pay for her care, and the ex couldn't get her hands on any of it even if I was inclined to give it to her. Women are just absolutely shameless!
I consistently see girls on social media say things like "If you dont love me at my worst you dont deserve me at my best" or some garbage like that. Maybe take a look in the mirror.
Exactly. And their "best" will usually involve someone else even though you went through their tough times with them.
Just funny that she wants everyone to tolerate her "worst", but then, what if what she interprets as "lack of love" is just someone else showing their "worst"? If you dish it out you gotta be willing to take it too. Modern women have become narcissists.
Any person - man or woman - should not exhibit behavior that mistreats another person on a regular basis, particularly a significant other. Well stated, that quote is an excuse to mistreat men. Who wants a woman at her worst? No woman is worth that
When in reality it is really “ you don’t deserve my best no matter what you do”.
The real answer to that is, "If you don't accept me at my worst, then you probably have reasonable boundaries."
One of my favorite clichés, especially when it comes to relationships... "THE BEST REVENGE IS TO LIVE WELL".
She's pissed because she didn't divorce him later after he had more money so she couldn't steal anything.
Technicaly she stole his car after he sold the car to pay their bills
My thoughts exactly
Mitja Kovač I don’t understand? How does that mean she stole his car?
good one
@You’re lowkey Stupid af first of all, love the name. Second, that still doesn’t make sense in my mind. How does him buying her things while she lived with him constitute theft of his car?
"all of us have been in a relationship..."
I'm gonna stop you right there buddy
Lol you've never even been in a little elementary one?
@Cringe Lord no lol. I told her friend to ask her out for me because I was too shy to do it myself
Bruh youtube keeps fucking deleting my comments
@@prodigy2652 wait are you the other guy or a new guy
@@LinnaeusOSM new guy
After my unplanned, blindside divorce (I did not cheat, was not violent, did not yell, did household chores, no addictions, nothing, she just "fell out of love") I was depressed for about a year. Then I joined the military, finished my PhD, made some lemonade out of lemons. Ex was furious that the post divorce version of me was in such good shape.
Contrats man
That’s what I’m talking about !
The Lord has a way of bringing the hands of justice in every situation
@@bishoprod33 Thank you, brother. I tend to believe this also.
Great job brother 👏 👏👍
This is literally happening to me as we speak. Ever since I got out the marines I got a little fat, and going through a bankruptcy doesn't help. Turns out I actually am coming into enough money to retire. (She doesn't know).. it's a waiting game..
Did it all work out?
Please update us
Update?
Leaving someone at rock bottom and then being furious when they recover can be considered a sign of narcissism. Relationships are pretty much dead because many women see the relationship as them verse you, not the two of you together verses the challenges of life. The story reminds me of a Tyler Perry movie called acrimony, where the guy had a dream to build something and the wife supported him but it wasn’t working out, eventually she gave up on him and divorced him, but he didn’t give up on his dream and became a billionaire and married another woman, the ex-wife was then furious and felt entitled to his success after harshly dumping him, she then pursued him like a psychopath.
Ardent lol exactly why I change my number.
Dank Legosi {SPOILER ALERT IN CASE YOU WANT TO SEE IT - --------she murders him and the new wife in cold blood on their yacht 😕}
@Dank Legosi what video?
@EightFrancs imma check it out
There is something you forgot Ardent. You forgot the part where he came back, gave her millions and her childhood house back (he accidentally lost it when they were together) as an apology for what happened between them. And she was still pissed off because someone else was "living her life."
"He never grew up."
Translation: Stop having fun!
She's a very toxic person.
Meaning: he never gave up on his dreams and goals. Well it worked for him where he got in better shape and a better job he enjoys. It didn't work with her because she did not want to improve their relationship, herself or him. Case closed.
The thing is that he stayed exactly the same person that he was when they met but the difference is that before they got married she loved him and couldn't get enough of him. After they got married he was suddenly not good enough. I had this realization the other day about my own marriage. I never changed, I have the same hobbies, interests, and personality as I did before I met my ex-wife. When we were just dating she worshiped the ground I walked on but all of a sudden after we got married everything about me was wrong and she was always demanding that I change.
@@reimourrpower9357 mic drop
@Rick O'Shay I know. They just can't seem to help themselves. Always with the projection...
She sounds like she wants him to die
"I gave him the best 10 years of my life and got nothing from it"
If her best years were his worst years, compared to how he is now, then that should tell you which one of them had the real issues here.
69 nice
Yeah, it's almost as if she wasn't WITH him when she is talking like that !!
Was clearly a reference to the age, not the events.
You walked away from a man grieving the loss of his father. You don’t deserve ANY man!
He was likely stuck in a depression because he had an unsupportive wife who could only criticize him. I went through a similar thing myself, and my wife compounded the problem with nagging and disrespect. Never once was there an attempt to talk to me. I'm guessing this was a similar situation. Women for all their talk of being empathetic are actually very selfish.
Know exactly where you are coming from from personal experience.
"Why wasn't I worth the effort?" is a narcissistic statement. You see? It didn't matter that her husband was bummed out and probably needed some support. She can't think beyond herself. And what makes matters worse is that instead of doing some self examination and by only thinking "why wasn't I worth the effort?", means she didn't learn a damn thing. So not only is she a narcissist, but she's a dumb narcissist.
For real. It’s all just talk it would seem.
I agree 100%
Isn't limited to wives, either. I have a couple of family members that are like that.
"I gave 10 of the best years of my life to the man and got nothing from it. We never had kids. He never had much money."
Translation: I didn't get Child Support money, and I didn't get much of Alimony money.
It's that "got nothing from it" that really gets me. And people wonder why men avoid marriage nowadays?
They expect dollars at the end of it. Her human slot machine never paid out so she moved on to the next machine. Then it paid out big time and she missed out. Life's a gamble.
A woman's 30th birthday is like a time bomb to them it seems. At least it seems that way for every woman who has no real passion in life career wise. It seems they are either consumed with ambition and focussed on career or they are couch potatoes laying up on their folks still at age 30 and totally perplexed that no man is courting them. They say they wanted to be married by age 30. The biological clock is ticking and they can feel their value draining away. God, i am so thankful to have been born male.
@@gregorytimmons4777 Why would you be thankful that you were born male? Modern females aren't defined by their breeding capability. In fact, many of them have the advantage, assuming they remain single and choose to pursue career (just like men do)... except women have that affirmative action BS on their side. And they can claim sexual harassment claim BS on anyone they don't like.
@@michaelsong5555 because a woman's looks fade overtime and starts to become infertile by age 40/ unable to carry children while a man's value goes up overtime also a dude doesnt care if you are a doctor or a waitress as long as you look good
@@start2panic829 As I aid one reply ago, modern women's values aren't defined by their breeding capabilities. Hell, the "beauty" factor is very small nowadays too. The biggest advantage that modern women have is the LEGAL advantage (custody, child support, affirmative action, etc).
She's mad because she was wrong about him.
She`s mad because she realized she was the one holding him back
It's her loss.
@@Martin-ep6xu Nah she's made because now she doesn't get a slice of that bread he's making.
I love to see it .. he bossed up
From personal experience, if you can survive a bad break up and recover from it you can accomplish anything. There is nothing worse than not being allowed into the apartment you once shared together and you have to go crash at your friends couch
At 71 I have had five 'serious' relationships. In four of the five situations the woman decided to leave me. In all five cases the woman within a few months wanted to get back together with me. Interestingly when asking to get back together the four who left me never asked what they could do differently. That is none of them took any responsibility for having been part of 'the problems' that caused it not to work. With a lack of 'How do we make it better?' I had no interest in even considering getting back with them. Thanks for what you do!
Revealing.
Thank you for the tip.
56 here, ditto. A few more relationships, but honestly the *only* one that hasn't tried calling to rope me in again was the one that flat out said she wasn't interested in marriage (which I was ok with by then). Funny part is I'm pretty sure she's married now, it was just me she wasn't interested in marrying (though the sex was amazing).
You are a wise and experience man, sir.
I'm 72, hit the gym often, and I have quite a number of younger friends. Weird thing is that some of the ladies have reached out to me. I'm still working, with a nice income, but not interested in a serious relationship.
When C19 is over, I'm resuming trips to various places around this world, no time for petty binding relationships.
Enjoy life.
I have a friend who is a midget. He had a beautiful gf and it always made me envious. He treated her like gold though he was broke all the time but working two jobs. she left him for the 6' stereotype and I told him you do not know it yet but this will yield amazing results! one year later he was a millionaire and he continues to build wealth as we speak that most will never obtain. he said she called him over and over after she found out.....he gave her nothing not even a bugger off text. HE WON!!! and from that moment on his name was Mudd.
I think "Black Gold" works a bit better. :)
Congradulations to him!
Save lives and men, my dude with the single philosophy.
Smarmy Fellow that would not be revenge but vindication. Revenge is a goal, vindication is a by-product. The second is more healthy as you are not continuously focussed on (harming/being better than) somebody else
@@j.p.vanbolhuis8678 revenge is a dish best served cold.
@@j.p.vanbolhuis8678 as Kain once put it: "there's nothing wrong with it Raziel. Revenge is motivation enough, at least it's honest. Hate me, but do it honestly"
Sounds like he was depressed in the relationship and thrived once he was on his own. Men jees to understand that the wrong woman will suck the life out of you. Funny how when women leave they get angry when you thrive. Like the man doing well somehow invalidates her decision.
Renshai32 ... Succubus isn't a mythalogical creature, just female nature.
More importantly, the chances of finding the right woman are so pointlessly small, its not worth it.
Sure, maybe not *A L L* women are like that. But, for all practicality, they all might as well be.
Renshai32 she was only in it for the money... when she realized there was no money to be had, she dipped. It burns her to know he was capable of making that money but not with her around... deep down inside she knows the problem wasn’t his father’s death, it was his life with her.
"Like the man doing well somehow invalidates her decision."
Because it does. Her goal is financial care and support. And now some other woman will get that. She lost the game of life. And of course it's the man's fault.
Dan Thomas ...ahhhh, thee angry hybrid, scray!
*It’s frustrating when people only value you for what you can give them, not for who you are. If she left when you were down, she’s not the one who deserves to be a part of your success story.*
Looks like he dropped both his weight and “dead weight”
I understand lol.. she's a dead weight
I thought you meant his dad
@@karatewithelian9014 bruh
@@karatewithelian9014 bruh
@@karatewithelian9014 bruh
Men love women.
Women love themselves.
A man looks at his woman and thinks "how can I make her happy?"
A woman looks at her man and thinks "how can he make me happy?"
This hits home really hard
I've been seeing a lot of comments like this where people are generalizing all women to being one personality. I wish to give you hope and say that this is untrue. That your quote can be swapped to be fitted towards women. And that your quote can always be a double negative or a double positive. It's all about who you attract, and also what attracts you.
I can safely say that I have dated women like this. But I lucked out with my current gf. She always wants me to smile and be happy. I work to make her smile and happy too.
Montaguesh I don’t look at a woman and ask how can I make her happy 😭 even when puppy love was my thing I was all about adding to my collection
@@lividbutton2813 the message shouldnt be taken literally! OF COURSE there are amazing selfless women who are givers and reciprocal and are great catches.....but there is a LARGE SWATHE of women who fit this quote...100%
"When people aren't there for you when you're at your worst, then don't let them be with you during your best."
-Dhar Mann
very true.Preach my brother
Don't accept anyone that underestimate or humiliate or insult you when you have nothing (poor) to come to your life when you are rich and successful .
Get outta here with that ghey quote, his videos are cringey trash, that quote is a straight rip off from
Marilyn Monroe.
@@SKn6426 why do you care so much about my comment/opinion? Even though you agree.
And karma is a load of crap
@@SKn6426 clearly you do care bud, how bout you get back to making something out of your life
Sounds like she thought he was the drag chain, and now she's pissed that in reality, she was HIS drag chain and can't accept that, or even see it.