How To Control Any Situation With A Guy And Make Him Invest More Before It's Too Late!

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  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 4 роки тому +34

    Damn it’s hard to pace yourself, when the guy is gorgeous. F

  • @cwb1400
    @cwb1400 4 роки тому +83

    Jesus Christ, staying single sounds so much better 🙄

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 роки тому +4

      YES.

    • @DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN
      @DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN 4 роки тому +4

      👍

    • @cwb1400
      @cwb1400 4 роки тому +6

      Chuck you’re sure desperate for female attention aren’t you? lol You troll here non stop. Why don’t you head back to reddit with the other losers who can’t get laid.

    • @Applepie409
      @Applepie409 4 роки тому +3

      Chuck The sort of guy who always blames the woman.

    • @cwb1400
      @cwb1400 4 роки тому +4

      Chuck aww with that long comment you’re sure wound up. Lol and women are the emotional ones? Looks like you could use a counselor for your issues. Take a deep breath whiny boy. It’s gonna be ok. Look dumbass I’m married. I have been for twenty years. I was making a general comment that staying single would be better than playing these games in this day and age. It’s obvious a woman hurt your poor widdle ego and your man feelers. So sorry that your balls are in a twist but have fun here since it’s the only attention you can get.

  • @skytyler3997
    @skytyler3997 3 роки тому +4

    I totally agree. From my situation, I was the one putting in effort and she wasn't, so I walked away, sucks but whatever.

  • @brendavasquez
    @brendavasquez 4 роки тому +17

    My ex was trying to Hoover me ! I did just kicked his ass! He kept sending messages through gmail and I did tell him, if you feel all that for me why we’re still talking through gmail? You’re just bored because you’re in quarantine! I am not going to let him mind gaming me again! Greetings from Norway Elliot 🇳🇴 ❤️

  • @eveline_yoga
    @eveline_yoga 4 роки тому +18

    Loving the daily live hang outs with you Elliot and the best online group of awesome ladies from all over the globe ❤️

  • @nathaliejordan5569
    @nathaliejordan5569 4 роки тому +23

    Sometimes it’s all seems too
    Much of a game Elliott # singleagain

  • @valya6525
    @valya6525 4 роки тому +2

    i liked the corrona virus part. and over all
    so a guy updated hsi tinder that he looks for a running partner
    so i asked this guy if he still wanna see me when i get back cuz a friend said i should clear this out and he said of course why im asking and lately he was busy and he can meet only weekends but my weekends i work often work so we cant meet. so i said i think u werent ineterested and was brushing me off and he said he actually really doesnt have time

  • @agat9151
    @agat9151 2 роки тому +3

    Omg Elliot...you've been drunk stoned, extremely tired (?) or with a flu while making that video lol still love you x ;-) lol

  • @alelovesmakeup
    @alelovesmakeup 4 роки тому +4

    I went on one date with a guy who said we were going to see each other after four weeks, he was going on a trip hasn’t contacted me for a second date. I messaged him twice just about when he was going to come back but now it’s two weeks and hasn’t texted me...we flirted and chatted both the times I texted but I don’t want to be the one over investing that’s why I am not gonna text again..

    • @swinxfee
      @swinxfee 4 роки тому +4

      Please dont text again

  • @tulipchic34
    @tulipchic34 4 роки тому +4

    My mother said that the girl sets the standard which is fair enough if u want a relationship

  • @RM-rj8kb
    @RM-rj8kb 4 роки тому +10

    The guy I was dating for a month was such a clown, time waster. Made me think he wanted to continue to date me at least that’s what he was saying. I look at a mans actions thanks for that Elliot 😁 long story short I pulled away and I told him I wasn’t chasing him and responded with I want to be chased too! 🤷🏽‍♀️ when the heck do men want to be chased?!

  • @AngieParfaite
    @AngieParfaite 4 роки тому +5

    Love you Elliot Scott my favourite dating coach 😘 🔔 ✔️ now ❤️ me 4️⃣ ever! 😘

  • @citygirl212
    @citygirl212 4 роки тому +3

    I think is better to stay calm and collective while you are learning from his pattern every man has one .. if its a pattern you can live with .. go for it .. if not ... seek some one else and do the same thing . Dating is like a job .

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 3 роки тому +1

    He keeps it real ladies!!

  • @lesliebean4594
    @lesliebean4594 4 роки тому +3

    ❤️ ya Elliot. Thank you for all the great advice!

  • @clairefoxall2313
    @clairefoxall2313 4 роки тому +15

    Why can't they guy be more stable and pace himself instead of bombarding you lol as you say they come off as needy then most woman leg it.

  • @bellarivera3490
    @bellarivera3490 4 роки тому +3

    Well said Elliot.

  • @Disneyqueen1973
    @Disneyqueen1973 4 роки тому +2

    How is this working right now during the corona crisis in the country? If a guy can’t invest and take you places, what can substitute that? Right now we’re suppose to be practicing social distancing.

  • @philfallacci4833
    @philfallacci4833 4 роки тому +1

    He broke up with me however it was a relief he was dull beyond belief!

  • @rhg624
    @rhg624 4 роки тому

    Thanks for the advice which was of great help. 👍 It happens to me easily & often.

  • @Magnoliasdiary
    @Magnoliasdiary 4 роки тому +12

    Make subtitles available please, I'm too Spanish for your accent.

  • @eva-nr2bs
    @eva-nr2bs 4 роки тому +4

    Elliot as always,thumbs up to your video but are you alright? You seem tired,or drowsy in this and previous video. I hope you are doing well :-)

  • @DivineEcstatic
    @DivineEcstatic 3 роки тому +1

    You so smart Elliot :)

  • @MariahFan09
    @MariahFan09 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Elliot!

  • @citygirl212
    @citygirl212 4 роки тому +12

    Men are screwed up stay single 🙄

  • @lihong9389
    @lihong9389 2 роки тому

    I love this guy

  • @Ragedodge
    @Ragedodge 4 роки тому +3

    None of this should be so hard...sorry if it is then it's not going to work.

  • @cindysampson965
    @cindysampson965 4 роки тому +2

    What if they haven't had a relationship in 8+ years?

  • @naynamangalore
    @naynamangalore 4 роки тому +3

    Elliot, Thanks for the amazing video. Can you please make a video about why some men want to move ahead too quickly? I've just started dating a guy and he seems to be in a rush. This hasn't ever been the case with the men I dated in the past so I'm not sure what the reasons are and I find myself over analysing the matter. Please help 😊

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 4 роки тому +5

      Nayna Shetty because they want the pp. pace it slow and keep emotion out and keep legs closed until you’re good friends and truly know you can be provided for correct. Also...date others....single til married....until the wedding invites are mailed out.

    • @daughteroftheking6402
      @daughteroftheking6402 2 роки тому

      I’m going through the same thing. He’s consistent since day one but rushing. We’ve been talking for almost a month. Nothing bad or anything everything is going good but he’s rushing

  • @thepopculturedilettante1194
    @thepopculturedilettante1194 2 роки тому

    I actually hate the good morning text especially if I don’t really know the person. Drop me a line some time during the day with some observation or a meme or a question. Good morning texts have no value. But if I don’t respond to them the guy gets butthurt

  • @juliagoldstern
    @juliagoldstern 4 роки тому +6

    So funny how you start lately: heyrrr... and yes! exactly that: in the beginning they invest and promise blablabla, and after they had Sex, suddenly nothing of it was ever said or promised. really sad that men these days need to lie their way into the pantys. How long should we let him wait before we get intimate with him? how long should we create scarcity, prior to sex?

  • @HM-ml6sm
    @HM-ml6sm 4 роки тому +8

    Women are innate natural nesters and are wired that way from procreation. Would have to be reprogrammed as young girls to change. Some will change, but some won't want to do it. Women are mothers and that's part of their job to carry life. It's ordained that way by God to reproduce. You are right that we should always have our guard up for men who don't have our best interests at heart.

  • @jokerjln
    @jokerjln 4 роки тому +2

    Okay so I've been talking to this guy for maybe 2 months now. Hes fairly fresh out of a relationship like 6 months or so. Met him online. He came off strong. I let him chase and I almost never text him first. Now theres more time between his texts but surprisingly he still reaches out to me (random texts and snaps) he told me hes not ready for a relationship and I told him I'm not either cause I'm still in the process of separating from my ex bf. I guess I'm just curious as to why he still reaches out. He knows I still have my dating apps. He knows I'm talking to other people. Idk. Thought I'd just leave this here lol I'm still living with my ex because of the lease so I'm not trying to date. But I like him. Lol

    • @DanaRaquel
      @DanaRaquel 4 роки тому

      He’s just trying to see if he still has access to you

  • @nicoleandjennifer
    @nicoleandjennifer 4 роки тому

    Elliot I need your help asap

  • @unicorndust5815
    @unicorndust5815 4 роки тому

    Ily

  • @Yumyumhoneybun
    @Yumyumhoneybun 4 роки тому +2

    Hi

  • @lulag4882
    @lulag4882 4 роки тому +1

    Women driving Elliot crazy, look at him !! Poor soul! Hope you sleep and well rested have a break - these women wont go anywhere!!🎈

  • @BA-hb9hh
    @BA-hb9hh 4 роки тому +3

    How do you get a long distance man who likes you to give you money? I think i watch too much Shera7 lol

    • @itsniquenique45
      @itsniquenique45 4 роки тому +2

      Tell him you have a bill to pay and its stressing you out

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 4 роки тому

      Lie, lie, lie, and cry. 🔥

    • @DC-bp8sx
      @DC-bp8sx 3 роки тому

      You don’t, that shows weakness and that you’re a user. Bad idea

  • @sameichang3928
    @sameichang3928 4 роки тому +2

    everyone said let man be the chaser, but also said woman can do what man can do, homosexual, feminism ,gender equality blah blah whatever

  • @h.y1778
    @h.y1778 4 роки тому +1

    🤙

  • @Lotusflo90
    @Lotusflo90 4 роки тому +9

    Your eyes are bloodshot u better get some sleep

  • @Rhodytarotri
    @Rhodytarotri 4 роки тому +1