You MUST Polarize Women | Hamza Ahmed
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- Опубліковано 7 лип 2021
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I love how straightforward yet counter intuitive this channel is. So many solid thoughts that make other confidence/self-development UA-camrs look like unoriginal vanilla betas
You get a like for the creative insult
No offense but it’s crazy that this advice is “counter intuitive”. You see a girl, you make it known you like her. Anything else is just dishonest and lands you in the friend zone.
@@fakename3208 bro if you’re straight up or nice with them you will be in the friend zone. Girls like games.
@@NeoVelocity that’s literally the exact opposite of what hazma is saying and what I’ve experienced. Low quality women play games. How you gonna be with someone for 40 years and raise a family while you playin games?
@@fakename3208 So you forget about awalt and you think you proved yourself once that would be just it, there will always be games no matter what, the thing is that you become good at them and pass them without knowing while she starts cutting off the most bad shit tests of them.
By becoming good at passing and setting boundaries and keeping the game up she only then start actually reducing them, forget about those and it is all over the same shit again.
Hamza Outro: do the hard work ESPECIALLY when you don’t feel like it
*kisses camera*
thanks
Great advice. I found this out myself a few years back after a lot of trial and error. My girlfriend actually told me it was one of the things that separated me from a lot of other guys - I actually showed interest and that I was attracted to her. I see some of my friends who don’t do this end up getting friend zoned again and again. It’s so simple, but a totally necessary ingredient.
Are there any subtle ways you can show your interest? I’m always worried about making things awkward
@@lewiswilson4083 Hey Lewis, Hamza actually timely released a video that addressed this last week called, “How Young Men Can Stop Acting Creepy” or something along those lines. I agree with pretty much everything he said in that video especially that if you are polarizing by showing interest there will be rejection/awkwardness from some girls which is fine because girls who are interested will be more attracted to you. Also, sometimes girls are the awkward ones. It’s good to have the mindset that there are no hard feelings if things don’t work out, so you don’t become the awkward one. Hamza had an example in that video where he tried to flirt with a girl in his fitness class. She rejected him and rather than make it awkward he replied back with something funny, “Aw you’re breaking my heart. No worries then. I’ll see you next week!”. If you are worried, I would come up with 1 or 2 light hearted responses for your scenario in case there is rejection after showing interest. I think the first and most important step is to resolve in your mind that you are attracted to her and want to show interest. This is like at least 50% of it. A lot of times, guys don’t want to mess it up with the girl and want to play nice, so they don’t commit to showing interest. Making this decision leads to congruency in the little, but important things like eye contact, choice of words, playful touches on the arm and shoulder, etc. Tactically, the easiest and most subtle way to give interest is to give compliments on especially the things they have control over like their outfit, humor, intelligence and so on. Once there are signs of reciprocation of interest, I’ll then ask her to go do something casual, fun and cheap with just the two of you. Let me know if you want me to dive deeper in anything!
@@user-uz8js5bm9i Not op, still, after I give a compliment and she responds positively, what then? How do you continue from there?
@Bob Bob I look at it like a series of steps with the goal of progressing to the next step and trying to master each step as you go. First step, is getting comfortable complimenting people to make both you and them feel good. Second step, is creating fun conversation. There’s a lot to this, but basically I like observational humor, showing interest by asking questions, and responding to what they answer with something funny or something real from your own experience. I just basically repeat that and “fly fish” with topics to see if they’re interested in anything you’re also interested in. If I feel there’s good chemistry going on, I will go to step three - ask them on a fun cheap date.
@@user-uz8js5bm9i fckin thank you mate. Your advice make me understand this video 10 times better. Have a great life!
A gem channel, a gem UA-camr
:)
Facts
Bro, can you recommend some more channels similar to this?
@@sahilKumar-bc6vl I literally find this channel as the only one to be unique than anyone else…
Fax
Never seen a millyrock in 2021 but I’m not complaining
gold school
What ever happened to just having a conversation? What is it with modern dating with all these mind games. Just go up to her, talk to her a little, and if it goes somewhere, ask if you can continue it another time.
I agree.
Yup it’s simple if you make it simple
I wish it was that simple
@@FernandoPerez-us1rp agree mate
It does not work in today’s world because of the influence of technology
"We're not gonna give her support she doesn't deserve if she hasn't done that stuff for us"
Bro I think you've just opened my third eye
so common sense is your third eye for you?
look up positive reenforcement
i found this channel few days ago and now i am watching 3 or 4 vids a day like homie gives simple and based answers that will probably help you improve yourself, i dunno why this channel dosen't have at least a million subs
This channel is a goldmine
Only negative thing is the forced voice
@@dylanbrown6387 how do you know its forced? Might just be the shitty mic that makes his voice sound raspier
thank you
@@dylanbrown6387 guys with squeaky voices think i'm forcing it lol
@@Hamza97 u think I’ve got a squeaky voice lmao ddm, no insult bro I think your content is phenomenal really educational and overall what this generation of men really need I Juss think your voice sounds forced. Anyway keep up your work and content I’m mid way thru ur vid with your ex it’s quite enjoyable
Aye hamza I remember finding your full self improvement guide on Reddit a few months back, it’s definitely been a journey, I don’t watch all of your videos but maybe 1 or 2 in a week maybe but even with that you’ve honestly helped me so much and made the journey much more meaningful with your wisdom. So I mean this when I say thank you
It’s better that way because you can focus on implementing before watching more
thank you for joining us for the ride brother
could you link to the reddit post please
hey bro can you link the guide here, thanks bro
@@Aditya-iw8xd just posted it
Hey man I don't usually comments but I just wanna express my thoughts. Your doing a great job with your recent uploads. I Feel like your content has give me a compass in today current times. Keep it up.
you’re like the big bro I never had. damn. great stuff.
Man with facts 🙏
Thanks soldier!
we need this kind of videos so things get easier with women
keep it up bro 💪💪
thnx
Love the lighting setup
I blinked and bro just got 5k new subscribers jesus christ. Well deserved and many more to come
Vids getting more and more professional daaaaaayuuuuuuummmmm
I love this guy, the big brother I never had
That's actually the best advice I've ever heard, thx bro, that inspires me a lot
I think you’re one of the last self help/ online coach channels I watch. I pretty much OD’d on red pill you tubers and lost all motivation to do anything once I got burned out. The advice you give is by far the rawest no BS advice I’ve found and I ain’t letting this shit go. Thank you for that king 👑 ❤️
Me too, I started with Elliot Hulse 😂
Definitely like the remainder to stay hydrated at the end.
Discord gang Bois 🤌 also, another sick video Hamza! You're gonna reach a mill in no time with the quality of content you release!
We love the new outro thank you.
I’m 16 and feel like I have improved a lot. The thing is I don’t even know why I watched that first video of yours (I don’t remember which one) I actually had some Adonis qualities but I didn’t actually took time to look at them. It feels nice when you see a self improvement video and actually know what you will do in that situation. I wasted like an whole year (2020) consuming that self help content which was actually a bit toxic. It gave me social anxiety and bit too much self consciousness (they are actually similar). Btw I just wanna say I’m Grateful that you started this channel to help people. Sometimes all you need is that slap of reality to bring you back from that world full of flowers and sunshine and anxiety. And that lil dancey was fire.
I love this authentic approach on polarizing
3:07 Reminds me of Chris Voss' saying:
It's not a sin to not get the deal - it's a sin to take a long time to not get the deal.
hamza bro, ur the man, best advice for girls ive heard, ever.
Found your channel yesterday. I'm 15, and I want to improve myself drastically. Thanks for this amazing content, I find it more helpful than the plethora of self help channels out there!
I rate that my man keep it up and i hope you see improvements
I’m also 15, but we have to be patient in improving ourselves. We shouldn’t be *too* drastic, we are still growing after all, as long as what we do doesn’t harm us. For example, we shouldn’t be fasting at this age yet, that will be bad for our nutrition. We can eat literally anything as long as it’s not a lot of sugar or too much sodium or something, whatever we eat except sugar will contribute to our growth since we are young. Aside from a few questionable practices that you have the right to be skeptical of, Hamza truly runs what is probably the most raw and relatively trustworthy self-improvement channel on youtube, it’s based on his experiences after all.
@@JellyAntz yeah I also think about the pros and cons of each of hamza's advice before actually doing them. I don't plan on fasting anytime soon(nor do I need to given my body type) but things like meditation and working out is good.
Also it's good to see another person my age going into self improvement. I found out that a lot of hamza's advice are similar to the teachings of stoicism, a philosophy that helps one cultivate an indifference to bad things. It's helped many people. I'm currently reading into it, I thought it might help you too
@@viradeus4322 I wouldn’t go *too* far into stoicism, but I can incorporate the best aspects I learn about into my lifestyle if I know that it will be good. It’s good to learn from multiple trustworthy “mentors” to see what will suit you well. I don’t meditate, per se, but the closest thing to that for me is just calming down and chilling out in an environment of peace, so that I can make my mind less active and do critical thinking better without being as distracted. It is summer right now, so when the next school year starts, I should try to find a sport I can do. Basketball is the sport that I grew up doing, but I haven’t done any sports or exercise during my freshman year and it will be harder to try out as a sophomore because even my friend who was sometimes the mvp didn’t make the team, but my tall “bully rival” did. So that the tall bully rival doesn’t mess with me, I have to build up myself physically and gain more confidence. He used to be somewhat of a friend, always arrogant, but now he’s like an arrogant “popular” kid with the broccoli haircut. I should also start working out, but I’m not quite sure how to start, and I don’t yet have it in me to do it with my dad’s help, though he works out some days of the week. My sleep schedule is severely messed up too, I sleep in the early morning and wake up from 3-6 pm, so my dad is starting to wake me up early at 11 am, and I should tell him to keep doing that. I got lazy in homework last school year, and I was salutatorian in 8th grade which allowed me to enter my private high school as a scholar with half tuition and I’m in the engineering program, so I gotta step it up this following year. The first semester will have the 4 hardest and unfavorable classes, plus my extra scholar class for philosophy. The second semester will have subjects that I will like more: two engineering classes, chemistry, and modern world history, which are better than the first semester.
Sorry for typing such a long essay thing, but this also helps me put things into perspective, like journaling while sharing. I don’t “journal”, but I type some interesting thoughts and things I come up with in my Notes on my phone, that’s close enough.
@@JellyAntz I don't mind the long essays, dont worry.
Out of curiosity, why don't you go fully into stoicism? As I go through more and more self improvement content, so much of it seems to align with stoic ideals. I often think of simply learning and applying stoicism to my life.
You seem to be pretty smart to get into a private school with a scholarship. Keep up the hard work!
As for sports, I did tennis during freshman year. I was the second worst on my team. However, once I accepted my shortfallings, I enjoyed tennis a lot more. I joked and messed around with friends, but always tried hard in drills. Im planning on taking starting lessons; I really enjoy the sport!
Bully's are bully's. Don't give them something to bite on.
Finally, do you have discord? I think it would be cool to talk with you
I am 3 years tooo late for this video my video and your channel.. would have saved my next three years.
HAmza is the big brother we never had🙌🏿🔥
Let's goo, now started to training on rings, and they are badass. Have so many things to improve and progress. ⚡
how are you going
I've got questions dude. Do you have an ig where I could hit you up?
@@hamad4121 Fine bro, had improved frome the last time I wrote this comment. Now close to get the full back lever and can do the skin the cat with a nice form. You should get some pair and grind man, they are fun!
How could something so simple be so occult to many (me included)? I felt like it was the right way to go the moment Hamza said it, as if the answer had been under my nose the whole time and I didnt evev notice
I also was rejected once but she said to me that it was insanely brave to confess like I did and I got so confident out of that + happy... never thought someone would give me such a compliment ^^
Just try it and gl lads!
Hamza is the man we didn't know we need.
Thanks UA-cam for recommnod this channel. Such a gem to me. Keep up your hard work bro. Peace out bro. 💯🔥💪
SAMEEEEEEE
This mans going up 📈
Thank you for the gym motivation
Welcome
Growing crazy fast hamzu
Thank you.
Since Hamza forgot,
Do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.
she left me on seen but started checking my feed more
idk how to thank you more man
came here for the content, ended up watching hamza millyrock and sip out of a cup. Wasn't disappointed
Yoo the new outfit is kind of fire fam
Great advices. Recently I've discovered your channel, so now i wanna become cool man like Adonis. Appreciate it!
Ur a beast bro nice!
I love your content. Can you make a video on socializing? Please it's a request. it will be helpful.
Yo sick moves homie
i have seen alot of people give advice for dating but i never felt something was really gonna work like it just seems theoretical and stupidly planned. i expected this video to be the same like some methods REQUIRED a certain kind of environment or situation and feels manipulative. but this advice is just genuine and simple and no over thinking
but what you said here reminded me with a girl who had a crush on me long ago. the only difference between her and any other girl is that, i went to that girl and told her "hey you're really smart you're the only one who scored higher than me in the test" and well, she tried to get into a relationship with me but i messed up along the way but i had the highest chance in my life with her. i polarized her in our first conversation conversation apparently. lol
Thank you
The push and pull interaction is the matrix!
Hamaza ur one of the best youtubers very good advice
Underrated UA-camr tbf
Good stuff I never straight up compliment though. You can show interest through eye contact, body language, distance, tone, and simply by making conversation. All of those are extremely important anyways, but the greatest of all I think is teasing to show interest. Give her shit about something she does that’s funny and make a good joke out of it, don’t be like all the other losers kissing her ass.
discord gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaang gang gang less get it big bro hamza
One of my biggest flex is that i started watching you when you had 7k
40k subscribers soon!!
Discord Gang , btw whens Adonis of the week comming out bro.
5:14 "It is critical that you take a sip."
Hatori Hamza slicing these weaknesses like a samurai 🇯🇵
THANK YOU SO MUCUH BROOOO im gonna become the best
I love how this guy says shit “even if ur a little bit autistic” made me chuckle😂😂
same😂😂😂
The love the way he does that paralysed type of thingy
Underrated
DO THE HARD WORK, ESPECIALLY! WHEN YOU DONT FEEL LIKE IT.
Any day Hamza uploads is a good day
Where can I get your Based book? Haha, great video as always.
You sir are a gem
Another based video from my guy Hamza
So much valuable content, ur an absolute saviour to young men like myself
Discord gang ayyyyyyy
Congrats for 38 k subs
Yo, Hamza Bhai spits truth!
i think you are a legend bro
Hey Hamza, Can you make a video on how to keep the girl interested? I found one who literally told me she wants to be in a relationship with me but I fear she's gonna lose interest. Videos like yours helped me with the pickup game and flirting but when it comes to keeping them interested in long term I fail.
Texting 80/20,Hitting gym for confidence long term and masculine frame is 🔑 key.
Fear of losing her its normal if you love her, just don't let it control your actions, and don't forget to keep developing yourself.
You should not be caring about that
Close too 700k 🤟🏾
I have to mention my nofap experience. I used to struggle lots at starting conversation with women. I had no idea what to say to a girl who would approach me at a party or smth. Until my week 3 of nofap. Somehow it all came, i knew what to say. My whole vibe changed it was like magic, I cant even explain. Somehow my brain knew.
Let the no fap journey begin
3 weeks is acc the reset period.
I believe retaining semen does help give you more "drive" so to speak. More drive to try harder, get out of your comfort zone, do harder things etc. I too have experienced it. Maybe it's a placebo idk but it is definatly worth a try. Nofap makes sense to me
It all came - not like you 😉
btw what about your nofap journey now?
@@ayoutubecommenter7494 being in a relationship, I try my best to refrain from fapping, and it really improves intimacy
keep it up
Is it weird that in the addiction recovery scene girls seem extra thirst trappy? 🤔
-this is the first (bordering on) dating video I have clicked on since I got sober simply because I appreciate your content .
As a 40 year old I now humbly realize I never had game unless I was drunk... I also never had a six pack until last year 🤣
Hamza sippppp
Hamza do a video on social anxiety
This girl came up to me and ask me about my book im holding and it was “the real men” and she read the title and she said” are you not a man , why read this book” with a playful tone. I smiled , she handed it back and I walk to my class. Next time, gonna apply this trick
Holy Fuck. You remind me of Chase from girlschase a lot bro. Great shit
I like to polarize women by upsetting her by talking about other women that works to. Women love a bold man that's not scared to lose them.
Hamza the GOAT
Get the man a quality intro to match his quality content
1k views in 30 minutes. Doing big things dude
I can go ahead and say, absolutely true on giving that first compliment
3:24 that shit hurt man
great vid, what’s the music in the beginning
Nowadays Song by Teo Laza | Trap Hip Hop
i really love your videos but it gets so much worse when the audio is bad it makes such a difference
Shoutout from bosnia
soldiers.... thanks for your help and support
i just got rejected yet at least i now know where i belong to
i won't stop improving myself
we gonna make it brah
hamza livin the life !!!
100k subs by End of summer guarenteed
Wtf were those dance moves at the beginning haha
Vains commin out more. I see you buddy
maybe ur just insecure kiddo
@@Hamza97 nah bro that was meant as a compliment
@@Hamza97 *veins my bad 😂
This video is dope as fuck keep going fam
You should’ve done the outro for him sam
Aye Hamza did You read “The Way of the Superior Man” i think itll help you im like halfway through