1.Emotional maturity ✔️- learn to separate emotions from facts💯 2.Heal from your childhood traumas✔️ 3.Focus on increasing your worth✔️: If you want to date better, be better. 4.Self love🎤🎤- you're the most important person in your life.✔️ Stop putting yourself on fire to keep other people warm. 5. Don't play games.✔️Nobody is a mind reader. 6. Set & communicate your STANDARDS.✔️ Know what you want and communicate it, if someone isn't willing to respect them, walk away.🏃 7. Don't commit too early, when you barely know yourself.✔️ Not earlier than 24 🚫 8. Pray for your spouse even before you meet him.✔️ 9. Express your femininity.✔️ Be vulnerable. Vulnerability is not an indicator of weakness but strength. Ladies, remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE 🏆. Pure gems.
Muthoni I decided to watch all your vedios all day long since 4pm since am on leave and am like why did I miss your vedios😭😭😭You such an inspiration love
A good man and a good woman comes from the lord.kuna ata huoana wakiwa pure bt pple change..there is nothing like a full package trust me...kuri atumia ngatha fiu..my opinion..simply pray pray pray.
To be honest the message is enough and satfying.wow!!we have enough comedians,singers etc but what our gal is doing we need it most than anything else..Be blessed and may God grand you more to always deliver to us..
Muthoni, I want you to know that you've been a blessing in my life. A great timely blessing. You have provided solutions to problems I never knew I could get out of. Thank you!
Thanks Muthoni. I am your senior by age, experience and by training in these matters but I can tell you that you are doing a great job. I love the way you are insisting on changing self to attract your kind. I encourage you to get professional training so that you can actually become an authority by experience and by training. Come to Pan Africa Christian University where I lecture for a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy or Counseling Psychology. Ignore the naysayers on your Facebook wall. You are doing well. Kudos!!
You're inspiring girl l learn alot through this Chanel before I used to blame myself for everything now I know how to love myself end go out my self buying gift end happiness ❤️❤️
I have never felt this pressure as a woman either from myself or from my family. From society I dnt even give it airtime. Got married at 31 and now expecting a child at 36. I have always believed things will fall in place in Gods time.
Thank you Muthoni, am a new you tuber, I felt like I found such a sister!!! I’ve been a victim several times but from now on , I choose to be better, put myself first, work on my healing and aim at choosing the right person for me by God’s grace! I love your vulnerability and openness. Blessings in your forthcoming marriage mrembo ❤️
The book you recommended last time' You can heal your life'is such a gem. It talks about most things you mentioned on self love. I highly recommend it 💯💯
Turning 30 early next year. I wanted to settle down before 30 and i was in a toxic relationship i was forcing to work out just to achieve my dream. I decided to quit last month.
It's sad.ive seen young people rush into marriages dysfunctional marriages forcing issues and becoming divorcees very early. Thank God we now have such platforms to educate us better
This video inspired me? Am 27 now and am learning to love myself...and working on myself.... hoping to get a husband... from my mouth to God's ears..amina
I am just here after the fuss in social media and bloggers madness.. But seriously where is this gal advising people in marriage?! What is the meaning of all the fuss.. Is this what is called cyber bullying?!people in their thousands attack someone for what she has not said! Mwathani!!!!! 😱😱😱😱 I am so surprised
🤣🤣the text is longer than the duration of the relationship🤦. So bad. But really, to get a great man, Mind your own business. Work on your personal growth you will meet them on your purpose path. Don't chase attract!
Another sly queen advising ladies on how to get a sly king in Nigeria set up ,let those who have succeed in marriage talk ,anyway there is lot money in UA-cam.....
You are talking out of excitement girl, maliza honeymoon and start marriage life it's too early to charge. Love is blind but marriage is the eye opener!
yes thats true, and we are many out here with different ambitions and the way you run your life is the determinant of what path we will take in your life. meaning if your self esteem is low, we walk over you, coz we dont want to waste time raising it up, if you are poor in making choices and decisions then we manipulate you and deny you choices, thats where toxicity starts, if you dont value your dignity, then we will help in marketing that commodity, and thats where a man takes better advantage of you.
This is my first time here and am in love with you muthoni, I have now watched like 50%of your videos and it is very educative, to me I have always hard disfunctional relationships and I always blamed people
@@23568982 I did not mean it that way. I am sure she wasn’t desperate. I think she is a good lady, just not with enough marital experience to advise on the same. She is very wise though and I watch her videos diligently.
Good message Mso, Be leaving the links to your previous videos that you keep referring to. It will really help many of us. Otherwise good job. Thumbs up. GOD bless you.
Newly single and in my mid twenties now. This could not have come at a perfect time. Thank you for this, I was really a people pleaser and now I'm starting the journey of self 💕
Thanks msoo for good advice...I'm on my early twenties and am greaful for the way you are preparing for us when the time comes.things we were never taught at school n home🥰
In here I found a big sister that I never had. I love how the knowledge comes out with ease. And am camping here forever because self development is a lifetime role on me for me. Thanks Muthoni, barikiwa Sana🙏
More louder please! This video should go viral💞 Great mentorship for gal child 👌i hope gals are listening 👂it's time women stopped settling en putting up with disrespect. I love love love ladies with standards💃I've never understand how women move in with men🙄it have never crossed my mind.
Hae muthoni I love your advise and topic they are so educative, kindly touch on the topic of how to deal with your ex when you working at the same place when you keep seeing them everyday at work
The lady may not be very experienced in as far as marriage is concerned but she has some facts..... lets work on improving our selves, thank you baby girl
There is one who told me we should move in to test whether we are good for each other, I told him to find other women to carry out marriage tests with. He thought I was joking, its 3 months now now he is waiting for me to test. The audacity some men have!!!
I don’t understand why people are so negative here😂 because she’s saying the truth. Be a quality woman to get a quality man. She hasn’t told you about marriage and shit😂 why are wives bitter here? Because your hubby is just toxic like you. The truth hurts. She isn’t advising about marriage 😆 only a literate person can understand what she’s saying. It’s for us who are dating, not you married folks. Get it right.
Muthoni, I also had the tantrums, drama and I was so emotional. I sacrificed my happiness and peace for them for years but now, I'm so strong that I don't entertain such and I'm grateful for you Muthoni, you've taught me alot of selfworth😊🙏
Thank you Muthoni for such a wonderful help to many!!! Wooow! I love the way you use self-disclosure because it makes all the difference! Self-love and setting standards, amazing!! May God bless you for sharing.
Mambo ya good men achia good men, we will find you, wewe build yourself up as a woman, build strong articulate traits, some a little bit of nasty woman and men will find you, good men for that matter, otherwise these are just scripted theatrics.
Thanks muthoni for this advice because am always crazy and rude to men especially when someone ask me for sex,I give very toxic answers,some fear to talk to me others say am very intelligence so after dating for a while they ran away...but thanks I'll improve on my communication...
Am still wondering why people are so bitter about this video. This is the best advice ever I've learnt a lot. I think they didn't understand the content or the title of the video.
A man may love u BT nvr marry you...isn't about setting standards for ladies. Is about wat makes u feel satisfied and respected, u can set standards na still be single....advice them on being mature interms of communication and character Let's talk facts, good topic though
1.Emotional maturity ✔️- learn to separate emotions from facts💯
2.Heal from your childhood traumas✔️
3.Focus on increasing your worth✔️: If you want to date better, be better.
4.Self love🎤🎤- you're the most important person in your life.✔️
Stop putting yourself on fire to keep other people warm.
5. Don't play games.✔️Nobody is a mind reader.
6. Set & communicate your STANDARDS.✔️ Know what you want and communicate it, if someone isn't willing to respect them, walk away.🏃
7. Don't commit too early, when you barely know yourself.✔️ Not earlier than 24 🚫
8. Pray for your spouse even before you meet him.✔️
9. Express your femininity.✔️ Be vulnerable. Vulnerability is not an indicator of weakness but strength.
Ladies, remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE 🏆.
Pure gems.
Yes, you are the prize. Thanks for watching.
@@muthonismission Thankyou for always sharing. Your wisdom is much needed in our generation.❣️
I love this
Wow thanks for this
A lot of wisdom
Thanks muthoni
It's quite encouraging.
I would like to get contact of a good therapist to handle and save someone in such problems
I am taking my time being 21hehehe I can't all Ur saying I huv done weh but I thank God I decided to focus 1st I have met pipo
🤗🤗🤗
Muthoni I decided to watch all your vedios all day long since 4pm since am on leave and am like why did I miss your vedios😭😭😭You such an inspiration love
Thank you Eunice
Since I started following you gal am very focused with what I want🥰
All the best
Ndani ndani, this is what has been in my mind, thank you for covering it
Welcome
Point taken.thanks darl❤️❤️
Welcome
A good man and a good woman comes from the lord.kuna ata huoana wakiwa pure bt pple change..there is nothing like a full package trust me...kuri atumia ngatha fiu..my opinion..simply pray pray pray.
I watched this video so I am able to become a good man to my wife and a better father to my daughters. Thanks, Muthoni. You are an inspiration.
This makes me happy. Thank you for watching.
Wow!
To be honest the message is enough and satfying.wow!!we have enough comedians,singers etc but what our gal is doing we need it most than anything else..Be blessed and may God grand you more to always deliver to us..
Thank you so much.
Our female Benjamin Zulu🥰I love your hair 😍😍
Thank you.
You're doing a great job Muthoni 👏
Muthoni, kindly share some of the videos you watch for self-growth
I will definitely do that.
Yeah I support you in that please do
We need that actually.
Absolutely
I love how you insist on not playing the victim & working on ourselves to be better .... You looking beautiful Msoo❤
Thank you
Muthoni, I want you to know that you've been a blessing in my life. A great timely blessing. You have provided solutions to problems I never knew I could get out of. Thank you!
You are more than welcome.
"Let's take take the focus off the man
Let's focus on ourselves
We can only control ourselves" 🤩
Precisely.
yes, thats true, you have to learn to control yourself before getting a beast in your home, otherwise the beast will kill you.
there,s nothing like a good man please comeback to reality im not dating and im not planning to period by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Thanks Muthoni. I am your senior by age, experience and by training in these matters but I can tell you that you are doing a great job. I love the way you are insisting on changing self to attract your kind. I encourage you to get professional training so that you can actually become an authority by experience and by training. Come to Pan Africa Christian University where I lecture for a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy or Counseling Psychology. Ignore the naysayers on your Facebook wall. You are doing well. Kudos!!
Thank you
I fully concur with this sentiment. You would make an excellent counselor, should it ever tickle your fancy
Wow. I want too
You're inspiring girl l learn alot through this Chanel before I used to blame myself for everything now I know how to love myself end go out my self buying gift end happiness ❤️❤️
I'm glad I could help. Thanks for watching.
Cheers gal,me here
Me too I learn a lot and I see changes on myself through your videos . God bless you
I have never felt this pressure as a woman either from myself or from my family. From society I dnt even give it airtime. Got married at 31 and now expecting a child at 36. I have always believed things will fall in place in Gods time.
As it should be. Thanks for watching.
This is so tourching and good
Get out of the trash can thats where garbage is💯💯💯💯💯💯
Yes. Thanks for watching.
Thank you Muthoni, am a new you tuber, I felt like I found such a sister!!! I’ve been a victim several times but from now on , I choose to be better, put myself first, work on my healing and aim at choosing the right person for me by God’s grace! I love your vulnerability and openness. Blessings in your forthcoming marriage mrembo ❤️
Thank you. All the best.
Thanks for watching ❤..instagram.com/muthonismission?
Kindly follow our new insta page
The book you recommended last time' You can heal your life'is such a gem. It talks about most things you mentioned on self love. I highly recommend it 💯💯
Yes it does. Thanks for watching.
Where can I get the book
When Muthoni talked about breaking down in the car that hit me thanks God He has fullfilled your heart desires
Turning 30 early next year. I wanted to settle down before 30 and i was in a toxic relationship i was forcing to work out just to achieve my dream. I decided to quit last month.
It's sad.ive seen young people rush into marriages dysfunctional marriages forcing issues and becoming divorcees very early.
Thank God we now have such platforms to educate us better
I'm glad you made the right decision.
Thank you
Same here
Congrats
This video inspired me? Am 27 now and am learning to love myself...and working on myself.... hoping to get a husband... from my mouth to God's ears..amina
Me too
Amen. Wishing you the best.
All the best
I am just here after the fuss in social media and bloggers madness.. But seriously where is this gal advising people in marriage?!
What is the meaning of all the fuss.. Is this what is called cyber bullying?!people in their thousands attack someone for what she has not said! Mwathani!!!!! 😱😱😱😱
I am so surprised
Thanks for watching.
Some people are just bitter .
Wow this message is home. Who I am is a reflection of what I attract
Thanks for watching.
I found you Muthoni,I found myself .Thank you for the mission may God please bless you alot.🙏
Thank you too
This is so helpful to us especially we girls who are in our early 20.be blessed.
Karibu, I'm glad I can help. Thanks for watching.
As you are improving yourself, know that God created the best, you are amaizing. Whatever God created is good... You are good...
I won't say much "I love you muthoni" such a nagget of wisdom you got mamaa❤️
Thank you.
🤣🤣the text is longer than the duration of the relationship🤦. So bad. But really, to get a great man, Mind your own business. Work on your personal growth you will meet them on your purpose path. Don't chase attract!
Thanks for watching.
Another sly queen advising ladies on how to get a sly king in Nigeria set up ,let those who have succeed in marriage talk ,anyway there is lot money in UA-cam.....
Please go and spew negativity elsewhere. Shalom
You are talking out of excitement girl, maliza honeymoon and start marriage life it's too early to charge. Love is blind but marriage is the eye opener!
Lol. Your experience is not everyone's experience. Thanks for watching the video.
My take home: You attract different kinds of men but YOU CHOOSE who stays.
Precisely
👌
yes thats true, and we are many out here with different ambitions and the way you run your life is the determinant of what path we will take in your life. meaning if your self esteem is low, we walk over you, coz we dont want to waste time raising it up, if you are poor in making choices and decisions then we manipulate you and deny you choices, thats where toxicity starts, if you dont value your dignity, then we will help in marketing that commodity, and thats where a man takes better advantage of you.
This is my first time here and am in love with you muthoni, I have now watched like 50%of your videos and it is very educative, to me I have always hard disfunctional relationships and I always blamed people
Welcome to the family Ryma, I hope the videos help. Thank you for watching.
I will start knowing myself
My take is, you get married, go through storms of life, then know “How to find a good man”.
Thanks for watching.
She is just excited after been desperate now she got someone
She need.to take time. And see
@@23568982 I did not mean it that way. I am sure she wasn’t desperate. I think she is a good lady, just not with enough marital experience to advise on the same. She is very wise though and I watch her videos diligently.
Negative energy
You are thick if you got mislead by the title,the message is more about self awareness and for many it's home as intended!... @Muthoni keep up mama
How can I improve my communication skill?
Try reading up on it.
Good message Mso,
Be leaving the links to your previous videos that you keep referring to. It will really help many of us. Otherwise good job. Thumbs up. GOD bless you.
I will do that, Thank you.
I like your solid, practical and wise advice.
Thank you
Newly single and in my mid twenties now. This could not have come at a perfect time. Thank you for this, I was really a people pleaser and now I'm starting the journey of self 💕
Thanks for watching. Wishing you the best.
Here as well but single looking for this good man coz I deserve it in God time thanks mso we have x but not good story one day we be narrated
All the best.
Am a mess I need this. I know am the problem
Thanks for watching
Any cheap therapist plz??
Hi. There's a list on the pinned comment
Hapo kwa emotional maturity,ni mm I just broke down easily, aki hapo kwa blocking am an expert
Haha. At least you know your strengths and weaknesses. Thanks for watching
@@muthonismission yes, I will work on it
Your content matches your beauty. May God give you more wisdom, strength and finances koz u have a big heart.
Thank you Tabitha.
My wife come and see this one day marriage advising 20 years couple who bewitched kenyans
Thanks for watching.
Can people listen to her before judging. Content is top notch.
You inspire me,, by encouraging women to love themselves.and raise their standards
Glad I can help.
Glad I can help.
Hello msoo ..i have a questions to ask .is it possible to date a man for 2 months and get married
Hi Dorcas, I think it all depends on if both of you are comfortable with it and you are sure it's the right decision to make.
Thanks msoo for good advice...I'm on my early twenties and am greaful for the way you are preparing for us when the time comes.things we were never taught at school n home🥰
Do not worry Abt biological clock!!God will bring yours!!! Hugs
Thank you for watching.❤❤❤
Yani the insults pale fb because of this video is in vain. It's educative keep going Muthoni. 100k subs on the way
Thank you Mwai. Let's get to 100K
Hi Muthoni can you also talk about traits of a good man. Thank you
Sure
In here I found a big sister that I never had. I love how the knowledge comes out with ease. And am camping here forever because self development is a lifetime role on me for me.
Thanks Muthoni, barikiwa Sana🙏
That is awesome! Karibu
More louder please! This video should go viral💞 Great mentorship for gal child 👌i hope gals are listening 👂it's time women stopped settling en putting up with disrespect. I love love love ladies with standards💃I've never understand how women move in with men🙄it have never crossed my mind.
Thanks for watching.
The texts is longer than the duration uve dated😂😂muthoni if u want to talk to me talk to me on my face stop beating around the bush 😂😂😂
Hae muthoni I love your advise and topic they are so educative, kindly touch on the topic of how to deal with your ex when you working at the same place when you keep seeing them everyday at work
Great suggestion!
You and Benjamin Zulu should do a collabo. Same school of thought, same profound knowledge. I cannot wait!
Thanks for watching
The lady may not be very experienced in as far as marriage is concerned but she has some facts..... lets work on improving our selves, thank you baby girl
Thank you for watching Ssonni.
I LOVE THIS! Thank you for your beautiful words. You are one wise woman. Continue sharing.
You are welcome
There is one who told me we should move in to test whether we are good for each other, I told him to find other women to carry out marriage tests with. He thought I was joking, its 3 months now now he is waiting for me to test. The audacity some men have!!!
Theres no formula for choosing a partner. We are all different
Thanks for watching.
I love it 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Thank you.
Msoo you are just amazing...you make so much sense. I love love your shows...
Thank you so much!
Waow ❣️ I was also ready for drama but nowadays I did change, we need more of this girl 💘 you blessed girl
Thank you for watching.
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Hello darling
Keep up the good spirit in you,
Thanks for sharing with us, More love from 🇬🇧
Thank you, I will
Wueh! Why did it take me too long to come here aki?... Thanks alot Msoo.. You are doing a great job
Welcome!!
Nko ndani kama kawaida much love ❤️ ❤️
Much love. Thanks for watching.
Vry encouraging words oh...I HV learnt smthng...
You are welcome.
I get so emotional every time I watch your videos but in a good way because i relate. Thank you Muthoni
You are welcome Winnie.
Actually am still here and carefully listening for I am almost feed up bt, for now I will collect up myself again
Thanks for watching.
@@muthonismission together my dear
I don’t understand why people are so negative here😂 because she’s saying the truth. Be a quality woman to get a quality man. She hasn’t told you about marriage and shit😂 why are wives bitter here? Because your hubby is just toxic like you. The truth hurts. She isn’t advising about marriage 😆 only a literate person can understand what she’s saying. It’s for us who are dating, not you married folks. Get it right.
Thanks for watching.
Setting my standards and improving on myself are the most important key words that I have learned... Thankyou maah for the advice😍😍
Welcome
Muthoni, I also had the tantrums, drama and I was so emotional. I sacrificed my happiness and peace for them for years but now, I'm so strong that I don't entertain such and I'm grateful for you Muthoni, you've taught me alot of selfworth😊🙏
Karibu
I am happy to know yearning for affection is normal.. I really love this..
Yes it is. Thanks for watching.
Hae Irene 28 years from kiambu
Thank you Muthoni for such a wonderful help to many!!!
Wooow! I love the way you use self-disclosure because it makes all the difference!
Self-love and setting standards, amazing!!
May God bless you for sharing.
You are so welcome
You are really a big sister to me. Your videos had really healed me Keep the fire burning gal.
waiting for more from you
You are welcome
I love you gal...soo intelligent u inspire ne
Thanks Musoo for this ❤
Mambo ya good men achia good men, we will find you, wewe build yourself up as a woman, build strong articulate traits, some a little bit of nasty woman and men will find you, good men for that matter, otherwise these are just scripted theatrics.
Thanks for watching.
For sure your mission is to make us be better people in the society and separate emotions with reality. I can listen to this everyday.
Thanks for watching.
omg i feel inspired Muthoni...you are such a great inspiring lady....you are the best...today i just feel like am the one whom you are advising
I am glad I could help. Thanks for watching the video.
Thanks I love this
Thanks muthoni for this advice because am always crazy and rude to men especially when someone ask me for sex,I give very toxic answers,some fear to talk to me others say am very intelligence so after dating for a while they ran away...but thanks I'll improve on my communication...
Thanks for watching.
Hey young girl, where did you get all this wisdom? It cannot be said more.,, Good job, Keep it up!
Thank you for watching.
Aki and the way i have watched this video keenly to know where you went wrong becoz of some hearsay nimeskia kwa social media.
You are very right gal.
Thanks for watching.
The title is abit.... ...... but what u are talking about is GOLD!. Selfcare!! Girls!! Umeongea ukweli
Thanks for watching.
First time here & am so inspired! Thankyou Muthoni.
Welcome to the family. Thanks for watching.
Wow, you’re doing good Muthoni, keep it up👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you, I will
Am still wondering why people are so bitter about this video. This is the best advice ever I've learnt a lot. I think they didn't understand the content or the title of the video.
Thanks for watching.
A man may love u BT nvr marry you...isn't about setting standards for ladies. Is about wat makes u feel satisfied and respected, u can set standards na still be single....advice them on being mature interms of communication and character Let's talk facts, good topic though
Thanks for watching.
You talk alot about your former relationship, are you sure you done done done with the narcissistic guy as you told us 🤔🤣
Yes I am. Thanks for watching.
How about men who always talk about sexual
MSO....I don't only love ur encouraging words...but also ur characters...I admire how u express ur message....be blessed mommy...u r my role model...
Thank you
Great content
Mso I just love your content ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️thanks for this...
You attract what you are... Self-love 😘😘
Thanks for watching.