But, I am not stressed about not being able to find someone to make me happy - I am stressed about having to deal with people in my family asking why I am not married yet. If I look into my heart, I realise I do not want to get married. However, I am repeatedly told that I must, and it's an important part of Islam to complete half our Deen. Why is everyone putting so much pressure on me? Despite feeling resistance in my heart, I make Dua to find a spouse, to stop people from asking. Problem is, they also keep telling me I need to have children, so even if I get married, the pressure won't stop.
There will always be pressure sister. You either get used to it or leave it to Allah. Also you don't HAVE to get married, but then again you'd need to tell your family.
been reading "reclaim your heart" and this concept of detachment goes hand in hand!! love the way u put this, barak Allah feeki
Love your content. Simple, kind and straight forward
JAZAK ALLAH HU KHAIERAN 🤲🏻❤️
suche agreat reminder, barakallahoufik, it really brings solace
Much Love and respect from Pakistan ❤
May Allah bless you ❤
Love this explanation.
Sorry completely off topic, but where do you purchase your hijabs from ?
Please talk make a lecture for 30+ single women
What about us brothers 30+ single men?
@@camouflageishere5502 you could ask for that too, but it’s women who get shamed, blamed, and overlooked for being single at that age.
But, I am not stressed about not being able to find someone to make me happy - I am stressed about having to deal with people in my family asking why I am not married yet. If I look into my heart, I realise I do not want to get married. However, I am repeatedly told that I must, and it's an important part of Islam to complete half our Deen. Why is everyone putting so much pressure on me?
Despite feeling resistance in my heart, I make Dua to find a spouse, to stop people from asking. Problem is, they also keep telling me I need to have children, so even if I get married, the pressure won't stop.
I am so sorry. 🫂
There will always be pressure sister. You either get used to it or leave it to Allah. Also you don't HAVE to get married, but then again you'd need to tell your family.