Why Men Struggle In Their 20s, But Get Revenge In Their 30s (MUST FOLLOW)

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  • @howtobeast
    @howtobeast  10 місяців тому +16

    It's Monday, time to BEAST y'all 💪🏼 And remember, you can Get 30% off your 1st box (+ FREE gift) when you try Tiege Hanley at tiege.com/htbmasculine

  • @bobbyrebholz2183
    @bobbyrebholz2183 10 місяців тому +66

    Thanks, David. You're a great motivation. Because of you, I've been able to navigate divorce, be a single dad, and help my UA-cam channel take off. Keep doing what you're doing.

    • @mystic_man6755
      @mystic_man6755 10 місяців тому +1

      Awsome drawings my man

    • @onurpur6468
      @onurpur6468 9 місяців тому

      Awesome channel my man 🚀 trying to do the same with fitness

    • @bobbyrebholz2183
      @bobbyrebholz2183 7 місяців тому

      @@mystic_man6755 Thank you

    • @bobbyrebholz2183
      @bobbyrebholz2183 7 місяців тому

      @@onurpur6468 Thanks, man.

  • @GozuTob
    @GozuTob 10 місяців тому +67

    Letting your emotions sink in, letting in the saddness, letting tears flow down your cheeks is human. Naturally, don't be a cry baby. But if you have a good reason to feel sad or cry, just do it. You'll feel better, and in time you will stop feeling the need to cry. But if you suppress the emotions, they will come out in least expected situation, most often in the form of anger or rage. Don't be bitter guys. Work on your self esteem,and don't let them get to you.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 10 місяців тому +2

      This i was going to make this comment but you did it for me

    • @jakechester9523
      @jakechester9523 10 місяців тому +1

      Thanks @GozuTob. I needed to hear that today 🙏

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 10 місяців тому +1

      @@jakechester9523 you got this bro

    • @kevfowler6422
      @kevfowler6422 10 місяців тому

      @@jakechester9523 keep your head up king🙏

    • @Kurio71
      @Kurio71 10 місяців тому +1

      The revenge thing is stupid, as a man your finances are important, work on it

  • @szn1580
    @szn1580 10 місяців тому +33

    Great video. Women are born. Men are made. What makes men? Brutal failures. Rejection. Pain. Obstacles. Adversity. Hard work. Earning your keep. This is a man’s life. Took me a long time to understand

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 10 місяців тому +1

      @@DiggingDeepVloglol

    • @Kurio71
      @Kurio71 10 місяців тому +2

      Yeap, nobody is going to save you

  • @colin0974
    @colin0974 7 місяців тому +2

    Most important message of this video: keep going, even if it‘s painful. The pain will pass, you will stay

  • @prvtick
    @prvtick 10 місяців тому +11

    1. pain is unavoidable
    2. trying to avoid pain is a losing strategy
    3. the most relentless man always wins
    4. exposure therapy

  • @TheOneToWatch
    @TheOneToWatch 10 місяців тому +5

    You really outdid yourself with this one. Probably the realest one yet.

  • @lythmass
    @lythmass 10 місяців тому +9

    This is the best advice you could ever give because pain makes you feel more alive and mindful of your potential. I'm glad I realized this last year, it allowed me to increase confidence through pain.

  • @joshbrown384
    @joshbrown384 10 місяців тому +3

    Strong message in this one. The Michael Jordan quote is powerful and one of my favorites.

  • @RobinVoils
    @RobinVoils 9 місяців тому +3

    I joined the Air Force right out of high school not really having purpose or knowing what I wanted to do. Then I separated and surprisingly going to college, I started getting straight A’s and realized I was way smarter and had more potential than I had originally thought. Now I feel an inner calling to use these skills to enter the world of business and finance to make the world better for others while also making more money.
    Don’t stop grinding, you’ve got way more potential than you think you do

  • @thepenguin4379
    @thepenguin4379 10 місяців тому +7

    Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional
    Gl everyone

  • @Derekvan
    @Derekvan 10 місяців тому +6

    Very great advice. The biggest risk is not taking a risk at all.

  • @dennisb7930
    @dennisb7930 10 місяців тому +2

    Very true pain is a driver but pleasure is stronger go for it always!

  • @duskopemusic
    @duskopemusic 10 місяців тому +3

    Nice man, but wheres this house tour you promised.

  • @ShepShepFT86
    @ShepShepFT86 10 місяців тому +2

    That cold shower in the winter hits different.

  • @garrettdecker5325
    @garrettdecker5325 10 місяців тому +1

    Fell off watching your videos for several months man. An inner voice told me my life is starting to slip up again and to start watching you again and I’m happy I’m doing it again. Your content helped me through some dark times and I appreciate what you do.

  • @JLau
    @JLau 10 місяців тому +3

    Needed this one today, had a tough in person speed dating event. My one match didn’t even reply back…. We gotta just keep trying.

  • @LeeStewart
    @LeeStewart 10 місяців тому +16

    In my 20's I suffered from failure over and over again, despite trying to gain some success. But, the only way to gain success is through pain and failure. When I dropped out of uni in 2011, I suffered from depression and a stroke. Three years later, I'd lost my dog, my relationship crumbled, my brain was frazzled and my debts increased but I graduated. It was worth it. The fear of failure fuelled me on.

    • @xMckingwill
      @xMckingwill 10 місяців тому +2

      Dam bro I feel ya, sorry to hear that you went through that
      But you got this bro

    • @volodymyr6296
      @volodymyr6296 10 місяців тому

      And how are you doing now?

    • @LeeStewart
      @LeeStewart 10 місяців тому

      @@volodymyr6296 The medication helped immensely. I’m in a good place now. Thanks for asking.

  • @joaotome40
    @joaotome40 10 місяців тому +5

    When your mother is a nurse and kept you under her wing everytime.
    As 18 yo, I don't know how to handle risk situations...
    But as I do martial arts, I think I'm moving outside of my comfort zone a little bit. Is good progress

  • @urielruiz6147
    @urielruiz6147 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you brother, much love from Mexico

  • @trqster
    @trqster 10 місяців тому +4

    True words! I'm in my late 40s now and I'm enjoying the grand life including an attractive gf in her 20s , because of all the hard work I did when I was younger. Never stop grinding gentlemen!

  • @gichukindegwa-fr6iv
    @gichukindegwa-fr6iv 10 місяців тому +1

    This video has something extra on top of the usual content you give.
    I like it a lot.

  • @carloscasillas8104
    @carloscasillas8104 10 місяців тому +1

    Yup so true. My parents don’t want me to get into professional boxing because they know I will get hurt also because I’m a relatively late bloomer in boxing (I’m 23 and only been boxing for a year). But in reality i do it because I don’t want them to get hurt and always be there to protect them as they get older.

  • @PrimeMan1289
    @PrimeMan1289 10 місяців тому +2

    Pain always helps, but we find away to control it or it control us , don't let it,stay hard and stay beastly 💪

  • @andresmolano1714
    @andresmolano1714 10 місяців тому +1

    Needed those words! My case is financial, but I'm learning a lot about it. Thanks man.

  • @scottj.7105
    @scottj.7105 10 місяців тому +3

    great video David! Love the motivation! I'm tired of playing it safe my whole life and will start using your advice! Love your videos👍

  • @bvanquish777
    @bvanquish777 10 місяців тому +2

    Reprogram the brain to take in suffering as pleasure and pleasure as pain. Brandon Carter has a great podcast on this. 30 days you can make the full flip.

  • @hari.santoso
    @hari.santoso 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you bruh. This video really helps me forming my mindset.

  • @themoneyman5129
    @themoneyman5129 10 місяців тому +1

    I needed this bro. Good looking.

  • @MountaineerChemist10
    @MountaineerChemist10 10 місяців тому +2

    Excellent motivator bro 👍

  • @coleblack6723
    @coleblack6723 10 місяців тому +2

    Love these mindset videos!

  • @FatRobber
    @FatRobber 10 місяців тому +1

    I appreciate you my guy and you relentlessly staying true to your mission/purpose you definitely have exposed me to some useful game on my journey.

  • @SebaCufer
    @SebaCufer 10 місяців тому +3

    Just what i needed in times of struggle💪🙏

  • @DisasterMaggot
    @DisasterMaggot 10 місяців тому +1

    Always remember. pain is what let's us know that we are still alive.

  • @Aya-uc8ff
    @Aya-uc8ff 10 місяців тому +3

    watching from australia

  • @Smily411
    @Smily411 9 місяців тому +1

    Thanks bro

  • @konquoryourselfthroughchri5644
    @konquoryourselfthroughchri5644 10 місяців тому

    I thought we was getting a few extra videos this week but you changed the thumbnails lol I was so hype

  • @dominik9894
    @dominik9894 9 місяців тому

    25 RN, I wouldn't say ''struggle'' with finding a girl, but struggling with approach, now it's getting better. Learning Stoicism and nothing can crash me.

  • @javierlopez-ko2ph
    @javierlopez-ko2ph 10 місяців тому

    appreciate what you do bro! been following the channel for about 5 years now if not more. we need more information like this for us men

  • @AzhaanEbrahim
    @AzhaanEbrahim 10 місяців тому +2

    Stay Relentless😎💪🏼💯🔥🥇

  • @Cold-Hearted-Alaska
    @Cold-Hearted-Alaska 10 місяців тому +2

    Always love your show!

  • @TheBmonster1
    @TheBmonster1 10 місяців тому +2

    Plot twist the bulky thing that messed up his back was the wallet.

  • @icefireicefire105
    @icefireicefire105 10 місяців тому +1

    Beast- Super 🔥ire Facts/ Advice you bless us with. 💯

  • @emil.hrisstov
    @emil.hrisstov 10 місяців тому

    Thank you David for the great video!
    Guys, don’t avoid pain! On the contrary put yourself to pain on purpose. Pain is the price we pay for growth. The more the pain the quicker the growth!
    Also, make mistakes and FAIL. The more mistakes you make the faster you learn, adapt and grow.
    And finally, Fail Forward 💪🏻🙏🏻

  • @harrykinng2258
    @harrykinng2258 9 місяців тому

    No pain is no gain

  • @johnsouli1
    @johnsouli1 10 місяців тому

    Needed this video big time, Suffered a heart attack a month ago at 28 had been seriously depressed and suffering in silence, thinking I'm not good enough, thinking that the pain will never end and really considered ending it all.
    But I'm over feeling this way, finally stay sober, be confident again, get to my target weight get rid of 20kg/45lbs and get back to playing state league soccer one last time, maybe do standup comedy to face my fears of public speaking.
    Deep down I know there is sunlight just over the horizon and things will get better, time to harness this pain and face it head on.

    • @giveitatry951
      @giveitatry951 9 місяців тому +1

      You can get better. Keep focusing on solutions of your problems. Try to get small wins every day.

    • @johnsouli1
      @johnsouli1 9 місяців тому

      @@giveitatry951 thanks mate I appreciate it, I feel like I'm getting more wins everyday now slowly slowly

  • @migtex25
    @migtex25 10 місяців тому +1

    What happened to the old videos roaming around the city and breakfast tacos

  • @jeremiahm1413
    @jeremiahm1413 10 місяців тому

    In his life lessons book "A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to the Future," Michael J. Fox quoted an excellent proverb: "Things work out best for those who best handle how things work out."
    Your explanation from 10:05 - 10:25 reminded me so much of his quote, and it's so true. Awesome to see your progress and your journey through the years, David. Keep doing the Lord's work, dude.

  • @HoloAdictos
    @HoloAdictos 10 місяців тому

    what a video, thank dude you're changing my life

  • @HiFiJi
    @HiFiJi 10 місяців тому +7

    Listen to 9:27 - 9:44 again. Let that sink in.
    Embrace delayed gratification and become comfortable with the pain of consistent self discipline in a side-hustle/craft that you are genuinely passionate about and have an aptitude for, rather than giving into instant gratification and temporary pleasures your whole life so you can minimize the pain of regret later.

  • @hot_guy997
    @hot_guy997 10 місяців тому +1

    The reality is is you don’t know if she likes you back she probably doesn’t, girls will make it obvious when they like you but that shouldn’t stop you from trying.

    • @hot_guy997
      @hot_guy997 10 місяців тому +1

      Try to make a move but just be prepared that she’s probably gonna say no. If she says no then you should probably end off with saying alright that’s fine I just wanted to know if you would that’s all and then ask her if y’all can still just be friends, from my experience she usually will if you’re actually willing to move on and are ok with just being friends.

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 10 місяців тому +1

    At first I thought this video was a follow-up to his previous video titled A Woman's Life Starts at 18 and a man's life starts at 30

  • @anthonykluyts4268
    @anthonykluyts4268 5 місяців тому

    Song name from 08:05. Keep posting these life altering videos David!!!!
    I've been a subscriber since way back and I've seen you grow on me and grow as a young man with your channel.

  • @Testdrive911
    @Testdrive911 6 місяців тому

    Shit! I so needed to hear this right now.

  • @alijahcordova8359
    @alijahcordova8359 10 місяців тому +3

    No matter what you face in life use it as a lesson and fuel ⛽️ too become better as a man you must know how to be in control of your desires and emotions put your purpose and forever make your purpose number one tune out the distractions as much as you can and understand that to be uncommon and successful you have to be willing to be alone you have to get comfortable with doing things that make you very uncomfortable 💪 so what are you going to choose sloth laziness and a path of sorrow and excuses and the path of pain heartbreak rejection failure repetition consistency and self discipline

  • @Intact-gf5zz
    @Intact-gf5zz 10 місяців тому

    you included Musk's recent performance as an example and i just gotta say thanks for that! always thought musk was solid but that whole interview last week was the epitome of 'solid'....i literally wanna get myself a bomber jacket like he wore lol (and, side note, but you can't tell me it wasn't the perfect jacket for that situation it's like he dressed knowing precisely how it would all look / come across)

  • @quinnglaser285
    @quinnglaser285 10 місяців тому

    Hands down one of your best videos!

  • @michaelcdarby
    @michaelcdarby 10 місяців тому

    3:01 A summary of me in middle and highschool lol

  • @ashtonhollic5546
    @ashtonhollic5546 10 місяців тому +4

    Watching from Zimbabwe

  • @mcp-kb8ut
    @mcp-kb8ut 10 місяців тому +2

    When I'm 15 I'm approaching girls its Pain I now😤

  • @CodeKumar
    @CodeKumar 4 місяці тому

    I'm 30 now ❤ like born again

  • @alvinedrozo6917
    @alvinedrozo6917 10 місяців тому

    Embrace the Pain Smile At the Pain and Suffering that's it stay Strong All the Time and Beastly❤😎☝️🙏🤘💪

  • @MyCreativeMinds365
    @MyCreativeMinds365 10 місяців тому +1

    Still waiting for your Tor of your house David how long my bro love u both D x

  • @djahidboughanem
    @djahidboughanem 10 місяців тому

    Great video ❤

  • @zulaikhamoosa6803
    @zulaikhamoosa6803 10 місяців тому

    accurate couldn't agree with you any more!

  • @champ7846
    @champ7846 10 місяців тому

    Im only 22 it was only april this year I stopped partying and hanging out with friends daily and work on my life instead now I feel Im on a good road and hopefully I will become successfull until im 30

  • @momanyidominic4759
    @momanyidominic4759 10 місяців тому +1

    Sure pain is inevitable in life

  • @korngsamnang
    @korngsamnang 10 місяців тому +2

    Just waiting for this😊

  • @teogamzua4956
    @teogamzua4956 10 місяців тому

    Props for showing 8 mile 2:23 😂👌.but nah fr i get what your saying at 3:05 i just started approaching women like a few months ago and the rejection from some of the interactions is a pain i feel like i need.

  • @Vikings.351
    @Vikings.351 9 місяців тому

    So, David talking to girls everyday made your confident grow towards women. 😮 Wow!

  • @viking_mind_leadership
    @viking_mind_leadership 10 місяців тому +1

    Can you share with usn how you do accounting in your business because I want to be independent as well and it's a bit vague for me

  • @Simerrez
    @Simerrez 10 місяців тому

    heavy video

  • @roycedash9023
    @roycedash9023 10 місяців тому +1

    Well said. My dad still says to this day that nobody is giving away a damn thing out here. As men we have to learn and keep pushing forward. Every single loss in our life is a lesson. We got this

  • @0bvi0usTr0ll
    @0bvi0usTr0ll 10 місяців тому

    Maybe I’m late to the game, but have you been changing your thumbnails from when you first upload a video and a day or two after? Is this to get more views?

  • @becraftcorey
    @becraftcorey 10 місяців тому

    I'm shocked by how many men really don't understand this, and how some men are just born with the innate ability to just get it and want it and naturally never give up.

  • @mrsagar5676
    @mrsagar5676 10 місяців тому +3

    🔥🔥

  • @jarvisholland7837
    @jarvisholland7837 10 місяців тому +1

    Great

  • @mrjamba4368
    @mrjamba4368 10 місяців тому +3

    Uno

  • @Reddion73
    @Reddion73 10 місяців тому +1

    What's the music from 4:00 - 5:10

    • @Reddion73
      @Reddion73 9 місяців тому

      nvm I found it, it's 6 train by donvayei

  • @ShiniGorky187
    @ShiniGorky187 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm 38 years old and the title is spot on. Its important to date lots of women in order to develop a titanium shield on your emotions and eventually you'll be the boss

  • @28yearsoldd
    @28yearsoldd 8 місяців тому

    Im 28 and still sheet. AGE DOESNT MATTER.

  • @elquenotienesubs1893
    @elquenotienesubs1893 10 місяців тому

    3:50
    So does been abusive should be normal? 🤔

  • @GoldenMushroom64
    @GoldenMushroom64 10 місяців тому

    I’m not an advocate for approaching women at all. But everything else here is good

  • @HippieP629
    @HippieP629 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm SO happy being in my 40s now. I don't deal with this shit anymore

  • @NicholasJohnston
    @NicholasJohnston 10 місяців тому +1

    OK.. are you ready to backtrack on Lebron being the Goat? Cuz i dont see any inspiring quotes from him in this video... lol

  • @keenanfish8999
    @keenanfish8999 10 місяців тому

    Suffer now or suffer later. I chose to suffer in my early 30s by working 2 jobs. Reward? Became a homeowner. At 35 I’m working 2 jobs now and renovating my home. Reward? A fully remodeled house and will be able to enjoy the rewards of earning money on it.

  • @britlandtabney3357
    @britlandtabney3357 10 місяців тому +1

    Most millionaires aren't business owners. Most millionaires have regular careers. It's actually very easy to become rich over time with an average or slightly above average salary with a few easy habits. Studies consistently show that the most common careers among millionaires are engineers, teachers, accountants, and mid level management. Meaning: the vast vast majority of rich people are not entrepreneurs. Obviously some are, and it's a great path, but by far the most reliable way to get rich is to have a high level 9-5, contribute to your 401k, and invest regularly.
    Signed, a millionaire by age 33

  • @babisbabinos8075
    @babisbabinos8075 10 місяців тому +3

    💪💪💪💪💪💪💪

  • @zeekleon8559
    @zeekleon8559 10 місяців тому +2

    Damn… I really want that 11:30 seconds of my life back

  • @elquenotienesubs1893
    @elquenotienesubs1893 10 місяців тому

    2:03
    Are you sure?
    Maybe by not doing dumb things 🤔

  • @elquenotienesubs1893
    @elquenotienesubs1893 10 місяців тому

    I haven’t seen so much fakeness in one video
    If you really want to take the uncommon path, you should start to take responsibility for your own actions instead of blaming other specially a partner and then pretending to be stoic
    If you don’t take this reality pill, you will never be successful in life neither a in a relationship
    As simple as that😉

  • @mosyed4352
    @mosyed4352 9 місяців тому

    If shit like this is conditional, what is preventing people from treating relationships as a transactional business investment? With a side of 🍆 and 🍑

  • @Timurazor
    @Timurazor 10 місяців тому

    Man, I live in Ukraine 😂😂 There's no comfort zone here

  • @IamLegendaryguy1998
    @IamLegendaryguy1998 10 місяців тому +4

    I hope they break up

  • @chattwalid6530
    @chattwalid6530 10 місяців тому

    You’re a real G. Thank you for shining light on our development journeys 🫶🏼

  • @jarvisholland7837
    @jarvisholland7837 10 місяців тому +1

    Great