@@GraceArie hey I'm just seeing this video also. I had it done in 1995.. my weight was 398 pds and I had a huge tummy and my mom had to make my bars. Not even lane Bryant had it that big! I was told by my doctor you need to walk A. S. P. and 2 lbs weight in each of your hands! my mom brought the motor home to make me more comfortable! Let me tell you something No Way!! When we pulled up to my house I hope out and started walking up the street! By the time my husband caught up with me I was already one block! he wasn't happy with me. the more I walk the better I felt! The Skin came off for me! with adding a mile and a weight every week an walking 3 to 4 time's a day it all came off in 14 months and I my weight is 130 to 135! I'm so happy i did it! But you have to have a mind set! For my sister it didn't work so hot! Tell me do you still drink water and weight the 30 minutes. to eat? I do!
Kathryn I also had gastric bypass in 2002. I weighed 300 & lost 150 pounds. You catch a lot of flack for it. Everybody has an opinion & they state it. It isn't the be all end all though. You have to commit to changing your way of eating for life because if you don't it won't work. I've kept almost all my weight off. But.....there are draw backs we didn't know back then. Health issues they didn't know about back then. I've had some major health issues the last three years, gastric problems & they are all caused by the gastric bypass but had we known those things could happen it could have treated it. I'm not trying to discourage anybody just telling what I've gone through. The surgery changed my life so I don't regret it, I just regret not knowing what could happen. It's amazing watching your body shrink so fast. Hoping the very best for you Priscilla, I'll be praying for you. Your going to love your new self.
🙋🏻♀️ RNY in 2010. Lost 150 pounds. 9 years out and I still haven’t told many. So many people don’t understand it’s a tool and I was also afraid of gaining back and being a failure. I wish I thought I was worthy of the surgery years earlier. So happy to hear of your successes and happy for Priscilla!
When Asa said "I'm going to tell the Dr I need you" I started crying that was so sweet and caring and you could tell by the way he said it that he really really meant it...
Priscilla...you're my hero. You have so much on your plate and I'm so happy you're doing something for YOU. Do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better. You're a great person, great mother, great wife. I'm totally in your corner.
Asa, you my sir, are a TRUE MAN!!!!!!! Love isn’t the size, looks, etc. she is truly grateful for you! And that shows! Y’all have such a desirable relationship!!!!! You 2 are truly wonderful together!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Andrea Benner I usually give props to Asa for just about everything, but being supportive I think should just be a given when it comes to your spouse or partner. I know it isn’t always, but it should be. I am proud of Priscilla for showing her experience in this, to help others by being so honest and open about her fears, concerns, not wanting her personality to change through the process, never wanting to be a burden on her family, the terror some have (genuine terror) walking into a Drs office. Those are not easy topics to just throw out to thousands upon thousands of strangers. Not many would show the ups and downs like she did. What a woman putting it all out there to help others on their journey.💕
Awe you broke my heart! My 13 year old struggles with weight and being an 8th grader kids can be cruel! 200 pounds was her weight last year and she had high cholesterol and bp. She doesn’t over EAT and drinks nothing but WATER! She has worked soooo hard and is down from a size 16 to a 12 ! WE FLEW TO FLORIDA TO VISIT MY PARENTS THIS YEAR AND GOT HER FIRST TWO PIECE!!! So proud of her she’s worked so hard! She’s down to 170 and going strong!!! Stay strong CILLA🥰🥰🥰😘😘❣️AND TY FOR SHARING
I am not sure if you want some advice for post surgery. But I had a Gastric Bypass 7 years ago. Keep taking all of your vitamins (this will help with hair loss as well as your energy). Stick with eating healthy the rest of your life because you can gain your weight back after time. There are many Bariatric surgery support groups you can join to keep you on track. When you have lost your weight you are going to have extra skin that can be very mentally challenging. Exercising during your weight loss will help with that. After a while it will be come a lifestyle and not be work anymore. Keep up with it!
@@asmrp2p903 Every Dr. is different and it also depends on insurance requirements. Some Drs. don't require any pre-op diet. I'm having VSG in 3 days and I was only required to do full liquids the day before surgery.
Why the negativity? They balance each other out with the talking. Sometimes she talks over Asa, sometimes Asa talks over her. They dont seem bothered with it so no one else should be interjecting their opinion. No one is commenting on yalls marriage.
When you were talking to Abigail before your surgery and explaining that you'll be back on friday... oh my goodness i cried so much. The love a mother has for her daughter. I want to be here as long as I can for mine too❤ love you Priscilla
Honestly sat down with a glass on wine, connected my phone to the TV and watched the whole thing. You are a great mom Cilla. You have a great family that will love you either way. Asa, bravo for being such a great husband. I want a relationship like y’alls one day!
Ive been on my own weight loss journey, its been challenging to say the least, diet and exercise and was looking into getting the surgery as well, about 6 months ago i went to my consultation appointment, i got denied the surgery, and i was so proud of myself because of the reason.... i now didnt meet the weight requirements.... i was too SMALL. Doctor requires that i was 100 lbs over weight for my height... and i wasnt anymore! As of this month (one year of this journey) ive lost 120 lbs. I have 50lbs to go to reach my goal. Congrats to you for facing your fears! You got this!!!
@@hellosweetheart3350 started with diet and light exercise mostly yoga. I switched to fat free dairy items and sugar free options for everything i could. I use stevia as a sweetener and i switch to whole grain carbs, breads pastas, rice etc. I drink a small cup of lemon water before meals and make sure my carb is only 25% of my plate. The more weight i lost, the more i stepped up exercise. Soing yoga and light cardio and light resistance training. As my body got used to it (3 weeks or so) i added a little more weight or more reps or something to make it challenging again.
Whenever you’re sad Priscilla, my heart breaks. You seem like such a genuine, beautiful person regardless of any number on a scale. Thank you for sharing your journey. Sending love, support, and comfort lovely lady.
Whatever body shape you have or will have in the future you are always going to be the nicest, sweetest person on UA-cam and we will always support you.
Lol, I had no idea if I had pain from surgery, I was screaming from the pain from where the gas settled. I am a migraine sufferer and get kidney stones (sometimes stuck) and the gas was worse, but you are coming out of surgery. But unlike my other two problems, gas pain was just a couple of hours. And no I don't get headaches or stones because of weight, I am currently 133 is not going lower no matter how much I try
I’m in tears for you because of the comment you made in the beginning of the video. I’m an overweight almost 30 year old and I go to the gym regularly, I’m vegan, I do eat the occasional junk food but I try so hard and I just can’t lose the weight I need to. It’s hard teetering back and fourth on getting the weight loss surgery. You are very inspiring and uplifting the way you speak about all the options. I look forward to watching more of your journey videos. Thank you all for letting us into your family. I’ve learned so much more about....let’s say....current autism compared to when my brother was diagnosed and how you guys advocate for your daughter is what has drawn me into this channel and now with your courageous journey. Thank you guys for that.
Thank you for sharing your rawness, your tears, your thoughts, your strengths and vulnerabilities. Thank you for being you: a beautiful woman who has always shined from within and is such an example in life.
I’m new to your channel, I have 2 kids on the spectrum and also had the sleeve done on Feb 22, 2018, so far I’ve lost 130 lbs and it’s the best decision I’ve ever done, not only for my kids but also for me because I’m the happiest I’ve been knowing I can be more active for them and can be healthier to be there for them in the future. Thank you for sharing your story! Best of luck on your journey!! ❤️❤️
Priscilla I had weight surgery almost 30 years ago. I weighed almost 400 lbs, I lost almost 75 pounds in the first month. You have to want to do it, like Quitting smoking or drinking. You life will be different and amazing all at the same time. Like Abbie, little triumphs like tying your shoes easier, sitting in a booth. I am proud of you for doing this for yourself and for your family.
Priscilla, you’re the sweetest and seeing you sad at the beginning HURTS my heart!! Glad you’re taking charge however you please. You’re a strong woman. Love ya!
I just rewatched this for the billionth time because I am finally having my surgery in 4 weeks......and it's because of ya'll. My 19 yr old autistic granddaughter moved in with me last Nov and I need to be around for her as long as I can. I'v been on a pre surgery liquid only diet for the past 2 weeks and I am down about 15 lbs already. I love what you said about "it's only food". That's going to be my new Mantra. Thanks for being brave and making this video.
This is quite literally one of the healthiest relationships I have ever seen. That exchange about what accommodations partners make for one another was felt completely and utterly honest and loving. I’m here for it! You go girl!
One of the best parts of the sleeve over the bypass is that they take out the part of your stomach that tells your brain that you're hungry. I NEVER feel hungry and that's the best! I cooked in restaurants for 25 years. I love giving food as a gift. Still can! It just helps you reduce how much goes into your mouth.
Yari Ruiz I’m right there with you, I cried through the whole thing....I lost 160lbs many years ago and have struggled so bad with seeing myself the way others see me now. Like literally I look in the mirror and see the girl before the weight loss.....I know that’s not really what I look like but that’s what I see and I really struggle with it. In my mind I seemed so much happier and struggled less emotionally before all the weight loss. This topic is so emotional and makes me just want to reach out and hug Priscilla.
I know this is off topic but at the end of last summer I quit smoking and I gave up soda, I haven't smoked or drank soda in 8 months. I also started walking 6.2 miles every weekend and 2 miles every week day. I am a single mom of three girls my youngest is asd, dmdd, and ADHD. my oldest is ADHD and my middle daughter is typical. Now back on topic I have prayed everyday Priscilla since you first mentioned you had surgery and I had the feeling that is the surgery you had done. I just didn't want to say anything because it wasn't my place to say anything. plus you said you'd talk about it when you was ready. thank you for sharing Priscilla. I did notice in the new videos you lost weight in your face. you know you didn't have to share this because it's your body, your choice and your personal life. I love you all so very much...I will continue to pray for you because even if you are healed you still need the support.💙❤
My husband got the VSG a little over 4 years ago and it has been a true game changer for our family. He has kept off 100 lbs, and still working on the last pesky 20 lbs he want to get rid of. One of the things that we have learned is that really greasy foods is something to really stay away from (especially in the first 6 months), it can cause you to throw up. Also being apart of a weight loss surgery support group is very key and great to be around others who have know how you feel and can be there for you in that way. This is an amazing tool and I am excited for you and your family :)
I had full bypass 17 years ago, (There was not an option for sleeve) and went from 400 to 250. Hovered there for a few years. A year ago I started keto and now at 140, unreal still. Went from 40 to 22 to now 12. Very unreal. The biggest advice I offer anyone is see a counselor. I did and made all the difference. Move out of emotional eating and being more self aware. I’m doing better at 67 than at 45. Congratulations dear, all the best for this new journey your on. And the hair loss thing, minoxidil, it’s help my hair to grow and come back from some loss. My personality is just happier and calmer. Sent you 2 photos on messenger
What a refreshing, genuine video. Your whole channel is a breath of fresh air. The way you love one another, the love you show & share in your marriage, and the love you hold for yourself, Priscilla, is absolutely inspiring. Thank you for sharing your real experience. You are so appreciated!
Hi Cilla, I’ve been watching your family for a while now. I’ve been avoiding this vlog. I had gastric bypass surgery in 2010. I had my surgery with the sole purpose of being healthier. I lost 100lbs and still had many more lbs to go. I won’t lie...I’ve gained it all back. Watching you go through this is very ... i don’t know? It’s hard. It brings back lots memories. I’ve watched you and am so proud of how you made a lifestyle change. For yourself and your family. And you’ve stuck to it! You have a beautiful and supportive family. You are a loving, kind, thoughtful, smart, woman! You ARE living your BEST life! Keep it up!
The truth of what no-one talks about, this is raw and true specially talking about going under; that is a large scare for anyone. I'm proud of you for taking charge of your life for a beter you.
You guys are just the best. You have become my new favorite "show" and I think it's because you are just real and nice people. So many people are pulling for you guys. Go Priscilla!
Thank you for your vulnerability. I've struggled with being overweight for a few years due to strong psych meds. It's been really hard. But seeing you still live a happy fulfilled life despite weight struggles... That's just so encouraging.
What a rollercoaster of emotions I was feeling those tears girl! I’m so excited that you felt that you could share this with us maass squad peeps! We love you Cilla exactly as you are, this was your decision and yours alone so glad you’re happy and feeling better! ❤️
hi guys first off thanks for making me cry lol but no this is so touching and relateable because i have struggled with my weight my whole life i am chunky now but last month is the 2 year mark of my anorexia recovery. i was 80 pounds soaking wet and had to be put on life supportso i decided to turn my life around and got a little more chunky thanio would have liked but now im okay. i have my fiancee who loves me for just the way i am and i am way happier now. i have struggled with mental illness physcial disabilty and autism so i have had a bumpy ride but i refuse to let it sink my battleship as i like to say so i wish you the best cilla love bella
Oh mama, I’m so happy for you! I’m excited to watch your journey! And Mr. Asa, you are a wonderful man and husband! I love how you support each other. So glad you decided to share this video🥰
I'm seeing it. Im a mom to 4 children. Youngest is 2. I suffered from addiction for 5 years. I've been clean almost a year. I made the decision to change my life bc I dont want to ruin my kids lives by dying before im 40 from a sickness I can fix. I've gained so much weight. I feel like my health is teetering... I dont want to die from addiction to drugs or food. Thank you for sharing your journey.
You got this girl. I am 58 and had it done last year. I have other medical conditions (nothing serious) and it was the best decision I have ever made. I did it for health reasons. I was in a bad place physically and mentally. I am in a much better place
Self image is so important. And so is health. Being obese myself, I appreciate you sharing your story and I’m glad to hear you are doing better. Abbie needs her Mama and I’m happy this is working out for you and your family so that you live longer, healthier lives! Love you all!
This was heartbreaking in the most uplifting way. I love the way you love yourselves, others, but mostly each other. You are a wonderfully beautiful person, Priscilla!
I know this is an older video… but I’m just starting the sleeve process. I have my upper endoscopy this week, aiming for surgery towards the end of April beginning of may. Following your journey and watching you process through the fear and anxiety has brought me so much comfort and made me feel so much less alone. Thank you for bringing us along through this journey!
My ex-wife had the sleeve 2 years ago she lost 160lbs and she had a big personality change its normal your outlook on life will change and your relationship dynamics will change for us it ended our marriage but it’s not the only reason we split. the important thing is she is healthy and able to care for our kids better now and we coparent better now than before I’m now going though the process of getting ready for the surgery next
You know for all the sacrifices you make for your children doing something that will benefit you and your health and that will make you happy is amazing and anyone who would have a problem with that have some problems within their self ❤️❤️
So glad you are sharing this. Congrats for doing this to get healthier. Please take care and don't go that long again without having a medical checkup.
I haven't been watching you guys for a long time but you have already made a huge impact on me. Priscilla...you are so relatable and I friggin love you! You are always so happy and always smiling. Congratulations on your weight loss... we will all be here with you throughout your journey.
I had my surgery March 11, 2019 and am down 52lb. I am glad you have been doing well. Keep us updated with your success and struggles. From 1st hand experience I know it is tough.
Priscilla, I started my journey this March! I finally get surgery on October 6th! I love watching all of your all’s videos! I so appreciate you doing this video! My goal is to fill better energy wise! You are a beautiful soul inside and out!
You go girl i knew this might be the reason for a surgery been there and done it and also did it because of my severe autistic son. So proud of your decision. It will be a life changing and best of all to live longer in order to be in our family lifes. No so much hair loss for me but it grows back dont worry. Im here watching the video and writing without finishing the video blessing.
Priscilla had me laughing and crying with her. I'm thinking of doing the surgery myself so I understand the emotional aspect of this. Thank you for sharing!
OMG YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS SO SOLID 😭 Y’all both make daily accommodations for your daughter. It’s not about what could & couldn’t be done in the past so let’s look into the future 🤷🏼♀️💋
I burst into tears when she mentioned you loving her at all her sizes. I’m right at the 18 year old mark, fresh out of high school, and I’m chunky as well. This gave me so much reassurance over how I feel when it comes to the connection between love, intimacy, and my figure. I was constantly bullied for years. I weighed close to 200 pounds easily in middle school, and I jumped to the 300-320lb mark throughout high school, and I’m now at about 350, and it’s extremely upsetting to me to be my size and be so afraid of not being loved or accepted or treated as greater than rather than less. Lane Bryant came in clutch for me so many times when I wanted to look even half the same as other normal sized girls in my classes...Priscilla honey, you’re stunning, and you inspire me so much. I too hope to find someone like Asa who is going to love me no matter what. True definition of unconditional. So happy for you for going through this journey, and I can’t wait to see you and your family grow from this ❤️ Your struggles don’t go unnoticed, and I commend you for breaking down about this stuff for the internet to see. Truly amazing. :)
Oh Priscilla you made me cry. It's so good to have the support, regardless of the situation. The love you share is priceless. Wishing you all the best 💗💗💗
I cried when she cried. "He's loved me at all my sizes" 😭 You are so lucky to have each other.
Stephanie Arvin Wishing I could find a man who loved me... at whatever weight. Asa thinks she’s beautiful just as she is. What a blessing!
Love this❤️
Me too.
I want the surgery so bad but my family is against it I don't know what to do
This was an awesome video thank you
I had gastric bypass in 2010, it was the best decision of my life. I was 448 and I’m 189. I’m proud of you and I hope you keep going.
How did you deal with loose skin…if you had any? I’m in the process and that’s what I’m worried about
@@GraceArie hey I'm just seeing this video also. I had it done in 1995.. my weight was 398 pds and I had a huge tummy and my mom had to make my bars. Not even lane Bryant had it that big! I was told by my doctor you need to walk A. S. P. and 2 lbs weight in each of your hands! my mom brought the motor home to make me more comfortable! Let me tell you something No Way!! When we pulled up to my house I hope out and started walking up the street! By the time my husband caught up with me I was already one block! he wasn't happy with me. the more I walk the better I felt! The Skin came off for me! with adding a mile and a weight every week an walking 3 to 4 time's a day it all came off in 14 months and I my weight is 130 to 135! I'm so happy i did it! But you have to have a mind set! For my sister it didn't work so hot! Tell me do you still drink water and weight the 30 minutes. to eat? I do!
She didn't unfortunately
@@mc4738 she did though
@mc4738 very rude
When Priscilla cries, I cry. You are a strong, beautiful woman. xoxox
Whenever Priscilla cries I want to jump through the screen and hug her. It literally hurts my heart. Love you Priscilla ♥️
Me too.
yes I feel the need to just give her a big hug
Same! She has such a warm and lovely aura I just want to hug her and tell her she’s doing amazing 💗
“ He has loved me all my sizes”😍💚 such a beautiful kind of unconditional love!!!!!!!!
Oh Priscilla, you broke my heart when you cry. We are all rooting for you.
Carol Yarbrough same I’m literally crying right now too 😭😭💔💔
Same I cried with her😭
This is the kind of marriage to strive for, got me all choked up when she started talking about Asa
I am so happy for you!! I had gastric bypass in 2003! I’ve lost 253 pounds! If you need to talk I’m here!!
Can you please share your story?
Kathryn I also had gastric bypass in 2002. I weighed 300 & lost 150 pounds. You catch a lot of flack for it. Everybody has an opinion & they state it. It isn't the be all end all though. You have to commit to changing your way of eating for life because if you don't it won't work. I've kept almost all my weight off. But.....there are draw backs we didn't know back then. Health issues they didn't know about back then. I've had some major health issues the last three years, gastric problems & they are all caused by the gastric bypass but had we known those things could happen it could have treated it. I'm not trying to discourage anybody just telling what I've gone through. The surgery changed my life so I don't regret it, I just regret not knowing what could happen. It's amazing watching your body shrink so fast. Hoping the very best for you Priscilla, I'll be praying for you. Your going to love your new self.
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🙋🏻♀️ RNY in 2010. Lost 150 pounds. 9 years out and I still haven’t told many. So many people don’t understand it’s a tool and I was also afraid of gaining back and being a failure. I wish I thought I was worthy of the surgery years earlier. So happy to hear of your successes and happy for Priscilla!
@@skysnene what health issues are caused by the gastric bypass?
When Asa said "I'm going to tell the Dr I need you" I started crying that was so sweet and caring and you could tell by the way he said it that he really really meant it...
Priscilla...you're my hero. You have so much on your plate and I'm so happy you're doing something for YOU. Do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better. You're a great person, great mother, great wife. I'm totally in your corner.
“Being fat is so much easier if you don’t think about it.” Amen, sista!
Lol she needs to copy right that saying and get it on a weight lose shirt!
So true
Every thing is easier in life if you choose not to acknowledge it.
@@jenpinkerton773 but she did and did something about it!
@@lizcoz4714 I absolutely was not talking about Cilla ♥️ that was my response to Angela Duffy.
Asa, you my sir, are a TRUE MAN!!!!!!! Love isn’t the size, looks, etc. she is truly grateful for you! And that shows! Y’all have such a desirable relationship!!!!! You 2 are truly wonderful together!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@joana snowden Are you a feminist?
Andrea Benner I usually give props to Asa for just about everything, but being supportive I think should just be a given when it comes to your spouse or partner. I know it isn’t always, but it should be. I am proud of Priscilla for showing her experience in this, to help others by being so honest and open about her fears, concerns, not wanting her personality to change through the process, never wanting to be a burden on her family, the terror some have (genuine terror) walking into a Drs office. Those are not easy topics to just throw out to thousands upon thousands of strangers. Not many would show the ups and downs like she did. What a woman putting it all out there to help others on their journey.💕
Is that before or after he cheated on her and had another child that he abandoned 🤔? Just curious
@@mc4738 why are you being so nasty? And do you have any proof of Asa's infidelity?
@mc4738 that's none of your business
Love you Cilla!!! You’re such an amazing woman and mother!
Awe you broke my heart! My 13 year old struggles with weight and being an 8th grader kids can be cruel! 200 pounds was her weight last year and she had high cholesterol and bp. She doesn’t over EAT and drinks nothing but WATER! She has worked soooo hard and is down from a size 16 to a 12 ! WE FLEW TO FLORIDA TO VISIT MY PARENTS THIS YEAR AND GOT HER FIRST TWO PIECE!!! So proud of her she’s worked so hard! She’s down to 170 and going strong!!! Stay strong CILLA🥰🥰🥰😘😘❣️AND TY FOR SHARING
This story is so inspiring! I love Priscella and I'm so impressed by how well she is able to be vulnerable on camera. She is helping a lot of people.
I am not sure if you want some advice for post surgery. But I had a Gastric Bypass 7 years ago. Keep taking all of your vitamins (this will help with hair loss as well as your energy). Stick with eating healthy the rest of your life because you can gain your weight back after time. There are many Bariatric surgery support groups you can join to keep you on track. When you have lost your weight you are going to have extra skin that can be very mentally challenging. Exercising during your weight loss will help with that. After a while it will be come a lifestyle and not be work anymore. Keep up with it!
@@asmrp2p903 Every Dr. is different and it also depends on insurance requirements. Some Drs. don't require any pre-op diet. I'm having VSG in 3 days and I was only required to do full liquids the day before surgery.
So glad you did decide to share this...I'm excited to watch your new journey
Pricilla still looks the same size post surgery, a few years on. I wonder if she kept up the post surgery instructions?
You got this P!!! We are so immensely proud of you!!
The way your husband just sits and allows you to talk without interrupting is amazing!
I thought he interrupted too much. Did we watch different videos?
He's being totally supportive and listening to her when she's saying really important matters of how she feels
Said with sarcasm lol
Why the negativity? They balance each other out with the talking. Sometimes she talks over Asa, sometimes Asa talks over her. They dont seem bothered with it so no one else should be interjecting their opinion. No one is commenting on yalls marriage.
Asa drives me nuts when he jumps in but I can truely see the love and support that he brings.
“I don’t wanna talk about that”
Shows the absolute love he has for you.
Priscilla is so brave! How incredibly selfless to go through a scary surgery to be there for your daughter longer ♥
When you were talking to Abigail before your surgery and explaining that you'll be back on friday... oh my goodness i cried so much. The love a mother has for her daughter. I want to be here as long as I can for mine too❤ love you Priscilla
Honestly sat down with a glass on wine, connected my phone to the TV and watched the whole thing. You are a great mom Cilla. You have a great family that will love you either way. Asa, bravo for being such a great husband. I want a relationship like y’alls one day!
Ive been on my own weight loss journey, its been challenging to say the least, diet and exercise and was looking into getting the surgery as well, about 6 months ago i went to my consultation appointment, i got denied the surgery, and i was so proud of myself because of the reason.... i now didnt meet the weight requirements.... i was too SMALL. Doctor requires that i was 100 lbs over weight for my height... and i wasnt anymore! As of this month (one year of this journey) ive lost 120 lbs. I have 50lbs to go to reach my goal.
Congrats to you for facing your fears! You got this!!!
Melissa Clagg Bravo!
How'd ya do that?
Congratulations 🎉 very happy for you.
@@hellosweetheart3350 started with diet and light exercise mostly yoga. I switched to fat free dairy items and sugar free options for everything i could. I use stevia as a sweetener and i switch to whole grain carbs, breads pastas, rice etc. I drink a small cup of lemon water before meals and make sure my carb is only 25% of my plate.
The more weight i lost, the more i stepped up exercise. Soing yoga and light cardio and light resistance training. As my body got used to it (3 weeks or so) i added a little more weight or more reps or something to make it challenging again.
Thank you guys
Whenever you’re sad Priscilla, my heart breaks. You seem like such a genuine, beautiful person regardless of any number on a scale. Thank you for sharing your journey. Sending love, support, and comfort lovely lady.
Whatever body shape you have or will have in the future you are always going to be the nicest, sweetest person on UA-cam and we will always support you.
nubian jaz ~ YESSS!!!! Love her!!!!💕
A) The post surgery gas is no joke.
B) Do exactly as the doctor says
C) You will never go to a buffet again. $$$
D) Way to go on the decision.
Lol, I had no idea if I had pain from surgery, I was screaming from the pain from where the gas settled.
I am a migraine sufferer and get kidney stones (sometimes stuck) and the gas was worse, but you are coming out of surgery. But unlike my other two problems, gas pain was just a couple of hours. And no I don't get headaches or stones because of weight, I am currently 133 is not going lower no matter how much I try
She absolutely went to a buffet again! 😢
I'm glad that you felt comfortable enough to share this with us! So proundnof you Cilla!
I’m in tears for you because of the comment you made in the beginning of the video. I’m an overweight almost 30 year old and I go to the gym regularly, I’m vegan, I do eat the occasional junk food but I try so hard and I just can’t lose the weight I need to. It’s hard teetering back and fourth on getting the weight loss surgery. You are very inspiring and uplifting the way you speak about all the options. I look forward to watching more of your journey videos. Thank you all for letting us into your family. I’ve learned so much more about....let’s say....current autism compared to when my brother was diagnosed and how you guys advocate for your daughter is what has drawn me into this channel and now with your courageous journey. Thank you guys for that.
I think this is the most honest video I have seen about bariatric surgery. Thank you so much for sharing because I have been contemplating this.
Congratulations, Priscilla on making the right choice for you. We have no doubt you will be successful. We are cheering you on! ❤
Thank you for sharing your rawness, your tears, your thoughts, your strengths and vulnerabilities. Thank you for being you: a beautiful woman who has always shined from within and is such an example in life.
I had it done, your hair will grow back! I had it done 9 years ago and don’t regret it. I no longer am on blood pressure meds
I’m new to your channel, I have 2 kids on the spectrum and also had the sleeve done on Feb 22, 2018, so far I’ve lost 130 lbs and it’s the best decision I’ve ever done, not only for my kids but also for me because I’m the happiest I’ve been knowing I can be more active for them and can be healthier to be there for them in the future. Thank you for sharing your story! Best of luck on your journey!! ❤️❤️
Hi prlllll
Priscilla I had weight surgery almost 30 years ago. I weighed almost 400 lbs, I lost almost 75 pounds in the first month. You have to want to do it, like Quitting smoking or drinking. You life will be different and amazing all at the same time. Like Abbie, little triumphs like tying your shoes easier, sitting in a booth. I am proud of you for doing this for yourself and for your family.
Asa you are such a sweet, supportive husband!
Priscilla, you’re the sweetest and seeing you sad at the beginning HURTS my heart!! Glad you’re taking charge however you please. You’re a strong woman. Love ya!
Cilla is so brave to share this with us. It’s amazing how open you are about a sensitive topic
I just rewatched this for the billionth time because I am finally having my surgery in 4 weeks......and it's because of ya'll. My 19 yr old autistic granddaughter moved in with me last Nov and I need to be around for her as long as I can. I'v been on a pre surgery liquid only diet for the past 2 weeks and I am down about 15 lbs already. I love what you said about "it's only food". That's going to be my new Mantra. Thanks for being brave and making this video.
This is quite literally one of the healthiest relationships I have ever seen. That exchange about what accommodations partners make for one another was felt completely and utterly honest and loving. I’m here for it! You go girl!
One of the best parts of the sleeve over the bypass is that they take out the part of your stomach that tells your brain that you're hungry. I NEVER feel hungry and that's the best! I cooked in restaurants for 25 years. I love giving food as a gift. Still can! It just helps you reduce how much goes into your mouth.
Oh, so we gonna start the video by making me cry? Cool gotcha
Yari Ruiz I’m right there with you, I cried through the whole thing....I lost 160lbs many years ago and have struggled so bad with seeing myself the way others see me now. Like literally I look in the mirror and see the girl before the weight loss.....I know that’s not really what I look like but that’s what I see and I really struggle with it. In my mind I seemed so much happier and struggled less emotionally before all the weight loss. This topic is so emotional and makes me just want to reach out and hug Priscilla.
I'm not crying, you're crying.
Yari Ruiz same!
Lol I was crying too
Yeah same!!
I know this is off topic but at the end of last summer I quit smoking and I gave up soda, I haven't smoked or drank soda in 8 months. I also started walking 6.2 miles every weekend and 2 miles every week day. I am a single mom of three girls my youngest is asd, dmdd, and ADHD. my oldest is ADHD and my middle daughter is typical. Now back on topic I have prayed everyday Priscilla since you first mentioned you had surgery and I had the feeling that is the surgery you had done. I just didn't want to say anything because it wasn't my place to say anything. plus you said you'd talk about it when you was ready. thank you for sharing Priscilla. I did notice in the new videos you lost weight in your face. you know you didn't have to share this because it's your body, your choice and your personal life. I love you all so very much...I will continue to pray for you because even if you are healed you still need the support.💙❤
From one chunky girl to another: you are such an beautiful person! You do you girl!!! Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us!
My husband got the VSG a little over 4 years ago and it has been a true game changer for our family. He has kept off 100 lbs, and still working on the last pesky 20 lbs he want to get rid of. One of the things that we have learned is that really greasy foods is something to really stay away from (especially in the first 6 months), it can cause you to throw up. Also being apart of a weight loss surgery support group is very key and great to be around others who have know how you feel and can be there for you in that way. This is an amazing tool and I am excited for you and your family :)
So happy you shared this! ❤️ I’m glad you did this for you.
I had full bypass 17 years ago, (There was not an option for sleeve) and went from 400 to 250. Hovered there for a few years. A year ago I started keto and now at 140, unreal still. Went from 40 to 22 to now 12. Very unreal. The biggest advice I offer anyone is see a counselor. I did and made all the difference. Move out of emotional eating and being more self aware. I’m doing better at 67 than at 45. Congratulations dear, all the best for this new journey your on.
And the hair loss thing, minoxidil, it’s help my hair to grow and come back from some loss. My personality is just happier and calmer.
Sent you 2 photos on messenger
Hey one word advice take measurements because there times you won’t see a huge weight loss but you will be losing inches
Rereeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrdrrurbu
I regret not taking measurement before my surgery!
What a refreshing, genuine video. Your whole channel is a breath of fresh air. The way you love one another, the love you show & share in your marriage, and the love you hold for yourself, Priscilla, is absolutely inspiring. Thank you for sharing your real experience. You are so appreciated!
Hi Cilla, I’ve been watching your family for a while now. I’ve been avoiding this vlog. I had gastric bypass surgery in 2010. I had my surgery with the sole purpose of being healthier. I lost 100lbs and still had many more lbs to go. I won’t lie...I’ve gained it all back. Watching you go through this is very ... i don’t know? It’s hard. It brings back lots memories. I’ve watched you and am so proud of how you made a lifestyle change. For yourself and your family. And you’ve stuck to it! You have a beautiful and supportive family. You are a loving, kind, thoughtful, smart, woman! You ARE living your BEST life! Keep it up!
Thank you for sharing Priscilla 🙂. You are inspiring and you help remind me that health is important.
"I'm gonna tell the doctor that I really need you" DO YOU HAVE MAKE ME CRY?
I haven’t watched the whole video but as soon as she said she’s comfortable with herself I immediately loved her even more. You are beautiful.
The truth of what no-one talks about, this is raw and true specially talking about going under; that is a large scare for anyone. I'm proud of you for taking charge of your life for a beter you.
I love ur rare true beauty and honesty!!! I too am a Priscilla! 44 days and counting for My journey to begin !!
Im also losing weight with you guys lol diet club! I lost 20lb in 5months👏🏼im sooooo proud of my self and im so proud of you guys😊
Congrats! It’s hard work and you should be proud!!!
You guys are just the best. You have become my new favorite "show" and I think it's because you are just real and nice people. So many people are pulling for you guys. Go Priscilla!
Thank you for your vulnerability. I've struggled with being overweight for a few years due to strong psych meds. It's been really hard. But seeing you still live a happy fulfilled life despite weight struggles... That's just so encouraging.
So happy for you ! I had the sleeve done 9 months ago and I’ve lost 160 pounds. It’s an amazing tool !
I’m here to talk to if you want it!
Kaitlyn S I’m having the sleeve on June 3rd I would love to ask you some questions if I can
Sarah Burnham yes definitely!
Kaitlyn S help me. Im going for an appointment to change my life. i need motivation to change my life
Kaitlyn S can i have your email?
@@sarahburnham6354 How did it go???
What a rollercoaster of emotions I was feeling those tears girl! I’m so excited that you felt that you could share this with us maass squad peeps! We love you Cilla exactly as you are, this was your decision and yours alone so glad you’re happy and feeling better! ❤️
hi guys first off thanks for making me cry lol but no this is so touching and relateable because i have struggled with my weight my whole life i am chunky now but last month is the 2 year mark of my anorexia recovery. i was 80 pounds soaking wet and had to be put on life supportso i decided to turn my life around and got a little more chunky thanio would have liked but now im okay. i have my fiancee who loves me for just the way i am and i am way happier now. i have struggled with mental illness physcial disabilty and autism so i have had a bumpy ride but i refuse to let it sink my battleship as i like to say so i wish you the best cilla
love bella
My gosh Cilla you & Asa are epic parents! Beautiful, kind and caring people.
Wishing you a quick and comfortable recovery.
Oh mama, I’m so happy for you! I’m excited to watch your journey! And Mr. Asa, you are a wonderful man and husband! I love how you support each other. So glad you decided to share this video🥰
I'm seeing it. Im a mom to 4 children. Youngest is 2. I suffered from addiction for 5 years. I've been clean almost a year. I made the decision to change my life bc I dont want to ruin my kids lives by dying before im 40 from a sickness I can fix. I've gained so much weight. I feel like my health is teetering... I dont want to die from addiction to drugs or food.
Thank you for sharing your journey.
You got this girl. I am 58 and had it done last year. I have other medical conditions (nothing serious) and it was the best decision I have ever made. I did it for health reasons. I was in a bad place physically and mentally. I am in a much better place
Self image is so important. And so is health. Being obese myself, I appreciate you sharing your story and I’m glad to hear you are doing better. Abbie needs her Mama and I’m happy this is working out for you and your family so that you live longer, healthier lives! Love you all!
Thank you Cilla for feeling safe with us to share your journey. 💗
I'm so so proud of you. I had gastric bypass 10 weeks ago! We've got this sister ❤
This was heartbreaking in the most uplifting way. I love the way you love yourselves, others, but mostly each other. You are a wonderfully beautiful person, Priscilla!
I know this is an older video… but I’m just starting the sleeve process. I have my upper endoscopy this week, aiming for surgery towards the end of April beginning of may. Following your journey and watching you process through the fear and anxiety has brought me so much comfort and made me feel so much less alone. Thank you for bringing us along through this journey!
YES QUEEN GET IT GIRL! 👑 wear your crown and be proud!!
Yep. I spent the first part crying 😢. Now I’m happy! Congratulations to you! You will and are doing and looking amazing!
My ex-wife had the sleeve 2 years ago she lost 160lbs and she had a big personality change its normal your outlook on life will change and your relationship dynamics will change for us it ended our marriage but it’s not the only reason we split.
the important thing is she is healthy and able to care for our kids better now and we coparent better now than before
I’m now going though the process of getting ready for the surgery next
She didnt deserve her lose 🤗 congrats on taking the steps on begin a better you
Hi , how is your weight loss going ?
Awe... great story and outcome. I wish you all the best for your own sake and your childrens❤️🌅
Many men can't handle the new self-esteem she has. They see it as a threat, especially when they are overweight.
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I'm watching someone's marriage set ablaze after the wife had the surgery. You can call it new found self esteem if you want.
You know for all the sacrifices you make for your children doing something that will benefit you and your health and that will make you happy is amazing and anyone who would have a problem with that have some problems within their self ❤️❤️
I love how sweet and supportive you guys are with each other.
Asa reminds me of my husband so loving and supportive I have a lot of medical problems and my husband tells me I never have to face them alone
Thanks for sharing your story XX
I am 6 months post op bypass and I am so thankful I got the surgery, it saved my life...
For whatever reason you had it, You go girl. My niece did & I'm so proud of her weight loss.
Hi Priscilla, thanks for sharing your weight loss journey. I'm having gastric sleeve surgery on 10th June 2019 and am feeling nervous and excited, x
How was it
How did it go?
As a Clinical Therapist, I greatly appreciate her openness and honesty.
So glad you are sharing this. Congrats for doing this to get healthier. Please take care and don't go that long again without having a medical checkup.
I haven't been watching you guys for a long time but you have already made a huge impact on me. Priscilla...you are so relatable and I friggin love you! You are always so happy and always smiling. Congratulations on your weight loss... we will all be here with you throughout your journey.
I had my surgery March 11, 2019 and am down 52lb. I am glad you have been doing well. Keep us updated with your success and struggles. From 1st hand experience I know it is tough.
Priscilla, I started my journey this March! I finally get surgery on October 6th! I love watching all of your all’s videos! I so appreciate you doing this video! My goal is to fill better energy wise! You are a beautiful soul inside and out!
Priscilla cried I cried. She makes a great point about the hair loss and personality. My friend had gastric bypass and left her husband of 20+ years.
You go girl i knew this might be the reason for a surgery been there and done it and also did it because of my severe autistic son. So proud of your decision. It will be a life changing and best of all to live longer in order to be in our family lifes. No so much hair loss for me but it grows back dont worry. Im here watching the video and writing without finishing the video blessing.
Asa is so supportive, y'all are such goals
This was so beautiful and humbling. You let all your walls down and showed us this. I love it. U got this Cilla!!!!! We love u.
Priscilla had me laughing and crying with her. I'm thinking of doing the surgery myself so I understand the emotional aspect of this. Thank you for sharing!
I love your honesty and candor. I have just begun my journey to a healthier me. I look forward to hearing about your progress.
Pricilla, I am happy for you, but can I also say.. Asa, you nailed this documentary ! Great job both of you
OMG YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS SO SOLID 😭
Y’all both make daily accommodations for your daughter. It’s not about what could & couldn’t be done in the past so let’s look into the future 🤷🏼♀️💋
Thank you for the video. I will get the sleeve in 4 months. Congrats on a longer life.
I burst into tears when she mentioned you loving her at all her sizes. I’m right at the 18 year old mark, fresh out of high school, and I’m chunky as well. This gave me so much reassurance over how I feel when it comes to the connection between love, intimacy, and my figure. I was constantly bullied for years. I weighed close to 200 pounds easily in middle school, and I jumped to the 300-320lb mark throughout high school, and I’m now at about 350, and it’s extremely upsetting to me to be my size and be so afraid of not being loved or accepted or treated as greater than rather than less. Lane Bryant came in clutch for me so many times when I wanted to look even half the same as other normal sized girls in my classes...Priscilla honey, you’re stunning, and you inspire me so much. I too hope to find someone like Asa who is going to love me no matter what. True definition of unconditional. So happy for you for going through this journey, and I can’t wait to see you and your family grow from this ❤️ Your struggles don’t go unnoticed, and I commend you for breaking down about this stuff for the internet to see. Truly amazing. :)
“It’s just food. It’s not the end of the world.” Love this perspective!
Welcome to your journey. I had my vertical sleeve 5 years ago. You are a strong women and family. You got this!
Thank you for leaving in the part at 11mins, where you show your anxiety. It make me feel less alone in being worked up over seeing the Dr.
“We make accommodations for our loved ones” “i dont want you to feel guilty” I loved that conversation he is so supportive to you I love it!😭❤️
Words to live by!
I thought it was passive aggressive. He’s as big as she is, who is he kidding.
You sir, have one amazing wife. A heart of gold, kind and understanding. Wonderful woman with a pure heart. ❤
Your daughter is the glue that bonds and strengthens your family.
Oh Priscilla you made me cry. It's so good to have the support, regardless of the situation.
The love you share is priceless.
Wishing you all the best 💗💗💗