13 Etiquette Mistakes You Should Stop Making By Age 25
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- Опубліковано 5 сер 2024
- Easy ways to have good manners. Here are 13 tips for good manners and main rules of etiquette for every situation. The rules of etiquette are quite simple and widely known. It’s never a bad thing to remind ourselves of some of them, especially those we tend to break.
Unfortunately, many people consider respect for the rules of etiquette as something shameful, considering it a feature of classy aesthetes who are removed from real life. In fact, the basic rules of etiquette are pretty simple. It’s a culture of speech, common courtesy, neat appearance, and control over your emotions.
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How to dry an umbrella 0:07
How to show affection 0:35
How to choose what to wear at home 0:58
Should I take off my hat when going indoors? 1:22
How to put on makeup in public 1:47
How to sit when wearing pants 2:10
Who pays if you’re invited for dinner 2:35
Can I talk on the phone when on a date? 2:56
How to talk in public places 3:20
Where to place silverware at meal's end 3:40
A shopping bag as a handbag 4:04
How to address a teen you don’t know 4:26
How to enter your child’s bedroom 4:51
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2:59 I know a lot of people who always break this rule. And you?
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BRIGHT SIDE I do to
BRIGHT SIDE, so do I, but I can't really comprehend why does it not conform to etiquette? :)
Hi
how to grow height ? tell me
I have never dated anyone 😀😀
And what's the etiquette regarding the background music for a UA-cam video?😂😂
😂
😂
It gave me a headache.
hahahhaa yes! it gave me a headache, I had to mute it
I had to mute it to make it to the end😉
In my opinion, fixing one’s hair should ONLY be done in the bathroom. I once saw a girl in line at McDonald’s brushing her long blonde hair while waiting for her order. I was eating just 3 feet away . She actually cleaned her hairbrush and threw her hair on the floor. I was totally grossed out ! Who does that ??? So, respectfully... the answer to question #5 is absolutely incorrect.
I don't think that's what they meant. Obviously, it's pretty awkward to just start brushing your hair in public places. I think they meant any fix up touches instead of brushing the hair but either way.. what the girl did was pretty messed up especially since people were eating nearby
Did you just tell us to stop wearing pajamas at home? Im speechless
😂
Bless Les I always wear pjs when I am home!! There isn’t anything more comfortable than that!
😂😂😂
Am shocked too
Thankyou 💁
The music was annoying 😐
Anika 101 sounds like ducks on a talent show
Jose Pepe 😁
I agree.
Yes
Why don't you all just mute tour volume and watch the video...
(if you weren't THAT wise...)
I can whatever I want when I'm at home. It's my home, if I want to be comfortable, then I'm gonna be as comfortable as possible
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Exactly! Y do we have to be at this channel's beck and call trying to act like a mum 😂😂😂😂😂😂
no one's forcing you to do it, they're just showing us etiquettes🙄
This video is all about , come out from your comfort zone and live your life according to others perspective
Of course.. I agree with you.
Another part of good etiquette is when people don't hassle me about what I wear at home. Especially when they don't live there with me
What is wrong with this dumb background music.. Guess not very bright !!! Huh
At least they put this all on the screen to read so you can turn the sound off!
Agree !
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
*Donald Duck, is that you making the background music? 😮*
Haha
Lol
😂😂😂
Wth 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHA😂
So, you're gonna tell me what I should wear at MY home?
Bye, Sir
no one's forcing you to do it, they're just showing us etiquettes🙄
Then why you here now?,tsw
The background music was so annoying.
aaron Gen Garcia, it wasn't that bad.
Lilly Spinard Ok
Like ducks on a talent show
+Lilly Spinard tgggghnb
It’s funny
I like the inviter pays for the invited
If my friend invite me I will definitely said this to her 😂
From where on the earth u found such a pleasant music...wah!!!
Ikr 😂
But can you tell me how will a freakin'umbrella dry closed.
It will take eternity
It shouldn't. The water is on the outside/top, so it will all run off. There won't be any or much water on the underside to get trapped. Just don't tie it shut or indeed, that will severely slow down the process.
And will stink too
It will stink
Consider how much water would be on your hosts floor if you dry it open. Then you have a risk of injury as well as making the floor dirty and risk wetting fixtures, walls or furniture.
and anyways you use an umbrella in the rain so it will obviosly get wet
How about addressing those who talk on the speaker phone in public. Their conversations always seem to be a very personal and private matter.
TIMESTAMPS
How to dry an umbrella 0:07
How to show affection 0:35
How to choose what to wear at home 0:58
Should I take off my hat when going indoors? 1:22
How to put on makeup in public 1:47
How to sit when wearing pants 2:10
Who pays if you’re invited for dinner 2:35
Can I talk on the phone when on a date? 2:56
How to talk in public places 3:20
Where to place silverware at meal's end 3:40
A shopping bag as a handbag 4:04
How to address a teen you don’t know 4:26
How to enter your child’s bedroom 4:51
Who decided this rules.... A person can live in his own comfortable way that way he will be more confident.....
"Wack wack wack wack" in my head now 😵🥴🤦🏻♀️ amaziiiiiing choice of background music for etiquette guides 😂
The music😑
Global Adventurer ikr 😂😂
The Bright Side is great with infos but sucks at the choice of music and volume :/
Hahahaha yes😁😂😂😂😂
So annoying😐
Literally😂😂😂😂😂
My boyfriend carries my handbag sometimes when I get tired, I don’t see what’s wrong with that? 🤔🤔
Whose women don't appreciate?
haan sometimes my husband does it too. when im tired
Not everyone keep up to the 13 mentioned🙎
Right girl 👌
Who uses a shopping bag everyday as a purse!
I know, right? lol
Nandini Paul Deb exactly! Scrap
Homeless
If you're using your handbag as a shopping bag, wouldn't most store employees assume that you were shoplifting??
A baglady.
No, but where I work people constantly come in with items in a shopping bag that should be in a back pack.
Knock on your child's door, depends on all sorts of factors starting with how old the child is.
Exactly.
If my kids want to have privacy they can have it when they move out of my house otherwise I'm the boss.
My way, my rules.
A very western concept.
@@merandyeli that's actually really really damaging for your kids. How would you feel if your mother barged into your room without respecting your privacy? That's their safe space and they should be treated with basic respect.
@@Elliotshmelliot ikr
If i dont know the teenager how will i remember his surname
bhumit chauhan ikr😬🤦♀️!!!!
NOT USING IN PROGRAMS SOUNDS THAT DRIVE YOU CRAZY
That's not true... A lady can wear a hat, a gentleman is supposed to remove his hat when entering a building or home.
There are several things on here that are not proper etiquette. When one is at home, one can wear whatever one likes. The one you recommended and several others are open to interpretation and change depending on the specific circumstance.
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@@Sunshine-zm1fx I agree, only men are required to take their hats off.
Men are supposed to remove their hat in church or when praying as well.
Crossing the spoon and fork doesnt necessarily mean wrong, it means you didnt like the food.. it may be insulting but it's not wrong.
Louise Lei yes you're right
But I think it's hilarious to cross the spoon and fork when in fact you've eaten ALL the food. In the picture, the plate is empty😁
Actually, crossed knife and fork indicates that the diner is not finished with the meal.
It has NOTHING to do with the quality of the food.
@@melindaspofford8819 It also depends on where you live: America compared to Australia, Europe and Canada all
place the cutlery differently.
@@melindaspofford8819 That is what I was taught. American culture.
The shopping bag part... I'm guilty of that. I am so changing that habit
It's about learning etiquette. One can certainly do whatever one wants. Not being embarrassed in public is the goal.
It's wonderful to know everything from Bright Side channel. I do really love your hard work guys! God bless you!
What to do with your hat when you enter a house...
Me: thinking.....
Video: take it off..
Me: wow.
This only applies to males!
Women may keep their head covering!
Unless they are military.
Learned that in Etiquette school!
in philippines .we loves our umbrella open . it will dry quickly
What to wear at home ? PJ or Comfort ? Is debatable , if I feel comforts in PJ I will wear it , it is my home and not a show off party where I were what is comfortable what if I am more comfortable in PJ at home ?
Ya everyone do not wear a hat , but if I wear one I will like to keep it on the hat rack once back home most of the time
Not sure how i keep my foot / feet while seating on floor impacts Etiquette ? really ? and that way is also debatable , I disagree totally , who came up with the idea?
Absolutely wrong , how to keep cutlery , never parallel once food is finished , it needs to be face down and cross there is reason behind it , it is call the hand gesture , like i agree many Western never ate with hands so they do not know this ... when we finish our food and we do mot want more we put our hands cross one over other to say NO please and if we need more we put our hands parallel to each other little apart from each other indicating we need more food please ... so this one Bright Side is 100% wrong .... sorry but you are wrong ...
I do not have kids so the last one is hard but if a parent enters the kid room there is no knocking , nothing to hide from parents , and this is one Reason we Asian are very good at , wester Kids that is the reason has Mother day father day grandfather day and so one for us Asians every day is Mother day we do not need a special day to thank our MOM , every day we thank them thought I also do not have parents or relative I am an orphan but no one teaches us to have special days to honor ... that is Western stupidity and sorry but it is .... so most of your ideas are not accepted ... few are good though so you do get a thumps down ....
Well said.👏 I agree with your points👍
Simmi Gupta why is ur comment like three paragraphs
EDIT:never mind it’s like 4 or 5 paragraphs
What a long speech
You know what, everyone should have and must have their own secrets, even kid. And everyone must respect other's privacy. And are you sure that you thank your mom everyday? Are you sure that Asians don't have Mother's day, Father's day? I don't understand why kids must be grateful to their parents for their birth. The kid's birth is his/her parent's decision, isn't it? The kid have never asked for having a birth, but who wanted to have them? Their parent chose to have them, so I think kids don't need to, I said don't need to, be grateful to their parents for give them a birth. And thank your parents for take care of you, let you go to school,...? That's what your parents must do because of their decision of having you guys. If they don't want to take care of a child, then don't give him/her a birth!
Thumbs not thumps
A teenager does not want to be called mr ????
e.g. a girl
Master more likely
The music is soooo irritating
Really good tips that we all must have to be familiar in dating or casual meeting or in dinning, in shopping etc all covered.
Thanks a lot
I'll start knocking on my teenager's door when they start paying BILL'S.🤑🤑
You can say THAT again!! I read a ton of the comments and wondeeed when someone would finally mention thus 'rule'. As my kids got into high school I would knock if I thought they might be dressing ir getting ready for bed.... otherwise .... we are FAMILY and tgey are still CHILDREN.
Exactly
You get privacy when you work and pay bills otherwise leave your bedroom door open period.
@@merandyeli so they're not allowed a safe space or any privacy? And btw just because a kid has their door closed doesn't mean they're hiding anything. Most of the time they just wanna be alone and relax.
do what makes u comfortable.
Could they not have picked better music that didn't sound like someone was wining in the background
"Entering your child's bedroom without knocking"... YES!!!
Lots of those are just common sense; guess that ain't that common anymore
Any etiquette for chopsticks placement? 😉
*Smart man smart workkkk*
Try telling an African parent to knock on their child's door before entering. Let's see how well that goes🙄lool
Nessa Anderson XD
same with Indian parents.
Varun Prakash, same 👍
Nessa Anderson I always lock my door because in our culture, knocking is too formal and rarely done on everyday happenings.
Nessa Anderson in Bangladesh, parents will not knock the door, they will break it
I love your videos can u please make one in what to do on a first date at the movies🎥🎬please
I am putting the volume up because i am having a party and the music was really helpful thanks bright side!!!!!☺
Reason #9 (talking loudly) resonated with me. I have lived and traveled quite extensively abroad. Unfortunately, Americans have the reputation for being LOUDMOUTHS in the general public! I personally have witnessed Americans talking loudly on public transportation, in restaurants and in other establishments, where it calls attention and others overhear the conversation. It's especially embarrassing when it happens abroad. Tip: Please show some class and lower your conversational voice, especially if you are visiting another country.
Well I was laughing at the music and didn't notice the video had been finished. Now I have to watch it with my mouth shut.
Lol jk. Excellent job. This is something very important to learn.💞
WOW!THAT'S AMAZING!
Very interesting and informative
Whenever I talk calmly in public my dad always tells me to just talk loud like it's my own place and I was so mad at him
Nice and helpful video!!I actually enjoyed reading and watching this!
Music was terrible...
pajamas are the best choice!
What's wrong if gentleman holds ladies bag for sometime. I am not finding anything wrong in it.
HI, I REALLY LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. THEY ARE REALLY GOOD.
I bet most of u will forget these etiquettes
Well if u ask me
Definitely I'm the person to forget
What about u guys
I bet most of u can remember all these tips
And most of u cannot
Comment down below
1) wether your person like me who forgets
OR
2) a person who is capable of doing these tips
I m new youtuber pls help me
#13 was the best
Bts die heart fan #Army why is it funny?
agree
best specially for ARMYs like us who r listening August D or Cyphers😂😂😂
Us Filipinos don't see anything wrong with drying umbrellas. It's practical and is quite useful for your umbrellas to avoid rusting of the metal/steel.
I agree with the last one
Without knowing, I was following most of the rules. Still, thank you for your help
Amazing
Wow thats amazing 😂😂
Brag: I never have to fix makeup.
Beat: what is this "date" you speak of?
Variance: I can't imagine ever addressing a teenager that I don't know but for whom I know his/her name.
Love it
F I don’t have umbrella 🌂 holder?
AXEL NIEDERER me too
Then go get some...😂😂
Who does?! 😂
Avoid using umbrella
Xd PugGaming same
My bf carries my bag n heels too sometime when i m tired ...n i realy appreciate☺☺
I like the last one.... LOL
Which kind of music is dis😒
Rashmita Pradhan.......as if the music is deeply chock with flames😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Exactly
Calling that noise music is being very generous.
4:57 WELL, MY PARENTS MUST WATCH THIS VIDEO.
I like the video before its main contents start as I know that everything presented here is worth watching and liking ! 👍
Thanks for knowledge
Wish more people knew etiquette rules.
Lynn Rolaf I almost knew all of them
No:13
Whose having a big child under 25
Qua qua quaqaquaqua quaaaaaa...😂😂 Sounds like a duck quacking in the background.
Excellent presentation !! .Small things life makes you Perfect Person with Manners to live your life in Society .. tks .👌👌👍
Why does it tell us what to wear at home you don't own me
🤣🤣
Exactly
For #3, i *never* wear pj when im sleeping, i use comfortable cloths which arent pj...... Anyone too? Cuz i live in Indonesia and i dont know those countries.... *so sorry*
T-shirt, or nothing 😊
Manners... 4 days ago, I hosted my mom's birthday dinner party. I am STILL baffled that a few people drank the cider before the toast! Like, it's still bothering me. lol
Some of these guests wore tshirts, hoodies, flipflops, and messy buns.... It's a party. ANY effort is better than none right?? My parents have all kinds of friends lol.
I think...Donald duck is being FU**ED..😂😂😂.THE MUSIC IS HILARIOUS...
Plus I want people to address me by my name
Avi Angel
+1
Background music........A cat is trying to sing but it is shouting🤣🤣😂😂
Wouldn't closing a wet umbrella cause it to become full of mold?
A lot has to do with expectations, agreement and perspective. For example with either splitting the bill or the inviter paying, you should be prepare to pay if you invite another and offer to do so on those grounds but if you are invited, you should offed to split the bill and of course the groundwork for whether or not the bill should be split with future meetings be established which is also an opportunity to establish another such meeting.
I agree ...😄😄
Very irritative sound
The one about knocking on your child's bedroom door before entering is the best
The music at 1.5x speed hypes me up so much!!
The truth has been spoken..
Bright side if you put your cutlery in the sink does that still count as a mistake
Roboticdoge 64 i wanna see you do that in a restaurant.
Roboticdoge 64, is this a question or are you telling bright side something?
Am enjoying and learning i would say.....thanks for this..
Halfway through I really thought this was a joke.
Millennial made I presume 😂😂
Without a doubt
Hahahahaha...
WOW! THAT'S AMAZING!
Oh shut up. Most of them were not even etiquettes.
I love your channel! So helpful....
wonderful help
This is a free country we do as we wants
UltimateR1 it not a joke
Hi
Plz tell the 13th rule to my parents. They always come without knocking😖
thanks for teaching me and my brother