Hannah's "going for a walk" videos honestly make me so happy. I've been struggling so much with just getting through my days, and she always makes me feel optimistic and full of love and full of a desire to keep trying to be okay. Hannah, you inspire me.
I was really upset the other day and like, spent the entire day halfway on my way to a breakdown. I started gushing and ranting to someone who I'm only semi-close to and was really upset and he was super helpful, because he knew how I felt, and knew that sometimes emotions just rage out when you least expect it. It was exactly what I needed and I felt -so much better- after, even though it was something I generally do not do. Hannah, you speak ALL THE TRUTHS! Love the walk-and-talks
Thank you so much for talking about this Hannah. I've been thinking a lot about about the same thing: the way everyone is human, but everyone pretends not to be, and that's soooo unhealthy for all of us. It's also a big part of what your work,as a whole, has taught me. I'll give you a letter when I see you in Denver that discusses this more, but for now, many hugs to you, Hannah.
I'm really liking these walkie talkies. They're a great insight on who are you and how much you actually care about your viewers. It's like a big community pow wow every morning!
Hannah, while I fully admit that I loath asking for help, not so much because I don't want to feel weak but more because I don't like to call attention to myself, that predisposition is secondary to my desire to be the helper or fixer, my overwhelming and debilitating desire to be the hero in some one else's story. It's the true story of dysfunction...being entirely unable to fix one's own life, but wanting to do so for others. Good Journey.
it really depends on what type of help your in need of. the larger issue is we're in a society that seems to encourage people to bail out on problems rather than work to resolve individually or collaboratively.
For me it's hard to ask for help partly because of the reasons you've mentioned, including my perfectionism that is both a blessing and a curse, but also because of being afraid that the help I'll receive won't actually help me but rather it will hinder whatever I'm trying to accomplish. I know it's stupid, but numerous school project where I asked for help and then was left with double the work all by myself messed me up that way. I'm working on it, but it'll take more time to rebuild the trust
I love how you seem so... Alive.. Does that make sense? You just love everything and notice all of the beautiful things around you and it's just great.
I'm typically not ashamed or afraid of asking for help. When I do need help, but I don't seek it though, is when I want to attempt to improve myself in some way and forge through it of my own mettle.
You know, this video actually did genuinely make me feel better about life and stuff? I really wasn't expecting that. Rare and valuable. Thanks Hannah.
You are so amazing. Like seriously, thank you for not just saying how much you love and appreciate your viewers, but actually show it through your constant efforts to better the lives of your viewers. The most sincerest of thanks from me to you... P.S. SEE YOU TOMORROW! :D
I'm very independent and have always been in control and when I had my son I wasn't in control of A LOT anymore and things were changing AND I found myself not being able to keep up with everything on my own. I made it about pride etc. at first (not asking for help) but really it came down to me not wanting other people to think I can't handle life. I thought it would make me look like less of a mother...but in reality asking for help made me a better one!!
exactly what I needed to hear today. I finally got up the courage to ask a buddy if we could talk about some personal stuff and I am scared. People reactions to my problems haven't always been the greatest but the people who do care about you will help you. I just need to keep remembering that. That and everything will be ok.
Sometimes people ask me why I look up to "that silly girl in the kitchen who gets drunk and tries to cook because she drinks so she must be a bad role model". It's videos like this that remind me why you're my role model. So I think you for this. You've helped me so much, and I think I can speak for others when I say that. Thanks for being such a lovely person Hannah, and remember that the Hartosexuals are there for you just as much as you are for us. Much Love.
I have found it's easier to ask for help when you're willing to help others. Give and take? Plus investing in each other is what we're suppose to do. (Otherwise you'll just live a lonely selfish life.) Thanks Hannah for investing us! :) hope ur having a good day!
i used to feel extremely embarrassed when i needed or didn't know something and i just didn't ask for help, because i felt like it was expected of me to know everything, which is insane and completely not true, but that was the way i felt and it was pressure and i cried a lot. but about two years ago i realized that if i want to be better, i can ask someone to help me out and do you know what? i don't even think or feel any more like this is shameful in any way. i'm just grateful really.. ^.^
According to the website for the venue (U Street Music Hall), the shows are still tomorrow (6/1). Also, the Hello Harto site still lists tomorrow as the date for the charity meet-up (check out the map on the site).
I've always HATED asking for help. Idk if it's because I'm shy or what but I just got hired as a lifeguard and you HAVE to ask for help at times because you learn by doing and peoples lives are in your hands and it really helped me out with asking for help and really it just makes life easier.
I have always had a problem with this. I think one of the many reasons why I dislike asking for help is the sense that you owe someone. Perhaps something I hate more than asking for help is owing someone, or feeling like I disappointed them if they help me with something and I end up doing it wrong anyway.
Hi, Hannah! I think you're right about the pride aspect of asking for help, but in my personal experience, I've found it very difficult to verbalize a need when I grew up in a household where feelings were never discussed or verbalized. So, in college, I've found that I really had to learn how to communicate what I need or want, and it's been a struggle to talk about myself and my feelings in ways others can understand. I don't know if that's just my struggle or if others feel similarly...
actually I respect apeople who have courage to admit that they need help even if it was for a silly reason :) Hannah you're really a wise person and I respect you alot :)
I was just freaking out about sending an email to my grad school advisor asking for help on writing a proposal. This timing of this video upload is kind of perfect.
You're such a wonderful person. I've been going through some tough times lately, I'm glad I watched this video. Sometimes I wish I actually was friends with you, I bet you're fantastic at comforting your friends. I think I'll call my sister tonight. Thank you.
You are just a beautiful person Hannah...I love you so much! :) You are amazing and inspiring. I just watched this video and I really do need help in some aspects and am being offered it and I'm afraid to take it but you really put it in perspective. Thank you Hannah! You are super awesome!!!
I am really enjoying her walkyvloggies. I even like her in those sunglasses. Excellent message in this, Hannah. We really are made to feel vulnerability as a flaw. I will try to follow your advice this weekend.
OBLOBLOBLIBLOB!!!! I love you! And to top it all off I have the BMO hat that goes with that one and the other character hats!!! Lovveeee your videos Hannah!
Hi, I'm happy for you. You made the right choice, I did the same a couple of months ago and it is gonna take a while, but things will get better after some insight and perspective from professionals. I don't know you, but I am proud of you! (sorry for my English, Belgian here)
I find it difficult to ask for help because it feels like the problems I encounter should be within my control. Like somehow asking is admitting that I'm not a responsible enough person to take care of myself. And maybe that's true. I don't know. I know I'm a disappointment to my parents. I know I'm not as far along in my career and my life as I feel I should be and I don't know how to change it. So, asking for help...it feels like I'm broadcasting to people that I'm a failure.
Hannah, once you hit Atlanta, you seriously need to check out Gladys Knight's Chicken and Waffles. It is insanely good and a wonderful representation of southern food.
Asking for help is similar to confessing romantic feelings to someone in that you make yourself vulnerable for rejection, which is hard sometimes I guess. When you are allready in a bad situation you don't want to get yourself further disappointed.
I have always felt weird to ask for help and in a way that is what led me to cutting. I needed to find something to release my anger, depression, frustration.....I haven't cut myself in a long time but I sometimes still retreat into myself and think I am bothering people if I ask for help.It is a long process to get over it.
I love your real live adult advice! so what happens when you ask for help (for anxiety and depression stemming from my husband being deployed at the moment) and all signs turn towards medication. I happen to be one of those people that is 100% freaked out by taking any sort of medication..
I get really aggravated because my friend will ask for help with her problems, and I try my hardest to help and give her the best advice that I can, but she never actually takes the advice. And not just from me, but anyone. I hate it. She needs help, and she asks for it, but she never does anything with it.
Ive always wondered.....so many people have this issue where there is trouble asking for help. I think the internet and all the connection between different people it affords has helped alleviate that....but where do people learn this thing to begin with? I know the way society is constructed (what teachers you might end up with, how general society treats boys differently than girls, what kind of economic situation someone grew up in) plays a major role.
But I guess I'm wondering...since I will probably have kids...I absolutely want my children to know that asking for help is not dehumanizing in anyway. I think there is a mode of parenting that one can be in, a state of mind in which you include your children, that will dramatically decrease a feeling of helplessness. No question, I guess, I just want to be in that state of mind. For myself and my future kiddos!
Not to be a contrarian (which i totally am a lot of the time) But I don't feel like I struggle with asking for help. I ask when I need it. It doesn't shame me.
Is the reason for why it's so hard to ASK for help the same as why it can be so hard for people to ACCEPT help from others as well? Or is it any different?
i wish there was a way to express my love for you and these videos without being internet creepy and stalkerish! let me try it this way: amazeballs, thank youuuu, dear pseudo-grown-up hannah!
When she said about the hotdog it just reminded me of that part from Legally Blonde 2... "You look like the Fourth of July! ...makes me want a hotdog real bad..."
I loved the way "good morning angels".
Keep that.
I feel love when she do that.
Hannah's "going for a walk" videos honestly make me so happy. I've been struggling so much with just getting through my days, and she always makes me feel optimistic and full of love and full of a desire to keep trying to be okay. Hannah, you inspire me.
I love the way you give really sincere advice and then nuance it all with a cartoon dog hat and shirt. You are a lovely human being
This was ths cutest video ever she seemed so happy and positive.Asif she didn't have a care in the world.
I was really upset the other day and like, spent the entire day halfway on my way to a breakdown. I started gushing and ranting to someone who I'm only semi-close to and was really upset and he was super helpful, because he knew how I felt, and knew that sometimes emotions just rage out when you least expect it. It was exactly what I needed and I felt -so much better- after, even though it was something I generally do not do. Hannah, you speak ALL THE TRUTHS! Love the walk-and-talks
Thank you so much for talking about this Hannah. I've been thinking a lot about about the same thing: the way everyone is human, but everyone pretends not to be, and that's soooo unhealthy for all of us. It's also a big part of what your work,as a whole, has taught me. I'll give you a letter when I see you in Denver that discusses this more, but for now, many hugs to you, Hannah.
I'm really liking these walkie talkies. They're a great insight on who are you and how much you actually care about your viewers. It's like a big community pow wow every morning!
Dude, you are more supportive and inspiring than most people I actually know in real life haha. Thanks for being wonderful Miss Harto!
Hannah, while I fully admit that I loath asking for help, not so much because I don't want to feel weak but more because I don't like to call attention to myself, that predisposition is secondary to my desire to be the helper or fixer, my overwhelming and debilitating desire to be the hero in some one else's story.
It's the true story of dysfunction...being entirely unable to fix one's own life, but wanting to do so for others.
Good Journey.
I love you Hannah. You never fail to make someone's day better.
it really depends on what type of help your in need of. the larger issue is we're in a society that seems to encourage people to bail out on problems rather than work to resolve individually or collaboratively.
For me it's hard to ask for help partly because of the reasons you've mentioned, including my perfectionism that is both a blessing and a curse, but also because of being afraid that the help I'll receive won't actually help me but rather it will hinder whatever I'm trying to accomplish. I know it's stupid, but numerous school project where I asked for help and then was left with double the work all by myself messed me up that way. I'm working on it, but it'll take more time to rebuild the trust
These walk-and-talks are getting deep. And awesome. Please keep them coming!
I love how you seem so... Alive.. Does that make sense? You just love everything and notice all of the beautiful things around you and it's just great.
I'm typically not ashamed or afraid of asking for help. When I do need help, but I don't seek it though, is when I want to attempt to improve myself in some way and forge through it of my own mettle.
You know, this video actually did genuinely make me feel better about life and stuff? I really wasn't expecting that. Rare and valuable. Thanks Hannah.
You are so amazing. Like seriously, thank you for not just saying how much you love and appreciate your viewers, but actually show it through your constant efforts to better the lives of your viewers. The most sincerest of thanks from me to you...
P.S. SEE YOU TOMORROW! :D
I love you too Hannah. And you're truly one of the only UA-camrs I believe, when you say it.
This videos are doing wonders for my self-esteem. Love you Hannah!
I'm very independent and have always been in control and when I had my son I wasn't in control of A LOT anymore and things were changing AND I found myself not being able to keep up with everything on my own. I made it about pride etc. at first (not asking for help) but really it came down to me not wanting other people to think I can't handle life. I thought it would make me look like less of a mother...but in reality asking for help made me a better one!!
you are a ray of sunshine that never fails to brighten my day :) Love you!
This made me so happy to see her happy making me even happier.
exactly what I needed to hear today. I finally got up the courage to ask a buddy if we could talk about some personal stuff and I am scared. People reactions to my problems haven't always been the greatest but the people who do care about you will help you. I just need to keep remembering that. That and everything will be ok.
Sometimes people ask me why I look up to "that silly girl in the kitchen who gets drunk and tries to cook because she drinks so she must be a bad role model". It's videos like this that remind me why you're my role model. So I think you for this. You've helped me so much, and I think I can speak for others when I say that. Thanks for being such a lovely person Hannah, and remember that the Hartosexuals are there for you just as much as you are for us. Much Love.
It's really good to see that there aren't any people who don't like this video. If there were, those are the people to steer clear of in life.
I have found it's easier to ask for help when you're willing to help others. Give and take? Plus investing in each other is what we're suppose to do. (Otherwise you'll just live a lonely selfish life.) Thanks Hannah for investing us! :) hope ur having a good day!
i used to feel extremely embarrassed when i needed or didn't know something and i just didn't ask for help, because i felt like it was expected of me to know everything, which is insane and completely not true, but that was the way i felt and it was pressure and i cried a lot. but about two years ago i realized that if i want to be better, i can ask someone to help me out and do you know what? i don't even think or feel any more like this is shameful in any way. i'm just grateful really.. ^.^
What a great human being you are, Hannah Hart! I love you!
According to the website for the venue (U Street Music Hall), the shows are still tomorrow (6/1). Also, the Hello Harto site still lists tomorrow as the date for the charity meet-up (check out the map on the site).
You are awesome! Thank you for your honesty and kindness.
I've always HATED asking for help. Idk if it's because I'm shy or what but I just got hired as a lifeguard and you HAVE to ask for help at times because you learn by doing and peoples lives are in your hands and it really helped me out with asking for help and really it just makes life easier.
Thanks for another video like this, they make me have a more positive outlook, plus they get really deep
I have always had a problem with this. I think one of the many reasons why I dislike asking for help is the sense that you owe someone. Perhaps something I hate more than asking for help is owing someone, or feeling like I disappointed them if they help me with something and I end up doing it wrong anyway.
I guess if this video makes me cry I should probably ask for help more. Thanks for looking out Hannah. So sad I didn't get to see you on tour.
Hannah, you just make me smile. Every day.
Hi, Hannah! I think you're right about the pride aspect of asking for help, but in my personal experience, I've found it very difficult to verbalize a need when I grew up in a household where feelings were never discussed or verbalized. So, in college, I've found that I really had to learn how to communicate what I need or want, and it's been a struggle to talk about myself and my feelings in ways others can understand. I don't know if that's just my struggle or if others feel similarly...
actually I respect apeople who have courage to admit that they need help even if it was for a silly reason :) Hannah you're really a wise person and I respect you alot :)
I was just freaking out about sending an email to my grad school advisor asking for help on writing a proposal. This timing of this video upload is kind of perfect.
I love the way Hannah just bursts into song in the middle of a park, she's such a cutie!
You're such a wonderful person. I've been going through some tough times lately, I'm glad I watched this video. Sometimes I wish I actually was friends with you, I bet you're fantastic at comforting your friends. I think I'll call my sister tonight. Thank you.
You are simply a superb human being, Hannah Hart. The perfect combination of all the right things.
Your talks are so helpful. It really gives me hope for my future :)
yourharto discussion time is just my favorite thing ever
You are just a beautiful person Hannah...I love you so much! :) You are amazing and inspiring. I just watched this video and I really do need help in some aspects and am being offered it and I'm afraid to take it but you really put it in perspective. Thank you Hannah! You are super awesome!!!
we need more songs! or covers! your voice is beautiful!
I am really enjoying her walkyvloggies. I even like her in those sunglasses. Excellent message in this, Hannah. We really are made to feel vulnerability as a flaw. I will try to follow your advice this weekend.
My life is so enriched by these ''Wandering Hart'' Episodes!
OBLOBLOBLIBLOB!!!! I love you! And to top it all off I have the BMO hat that goes with that one and the other character hats!!! Lovveeee your videos Hannah!
Hannah I love your morning walks, please keep doing them
Hi, I'm happy for you. You made the right choice, I did the same a couple of months ago and it is gonna take a while, but things will get better after some insight and perspective from professionals.
I don't know you, but I am proud of you!
(sorry for my English, Belgian here)
I live in an hour away from DC in Virginia and have been many MANY times in my life and I have never seen so little people in that area, wow.
So relevant for me right now! You have a way of knowing just what to say.
I find it difficult to ask for help because it feels like the problems I encounter should be within my control. Like somehow asking is admitting that I'm not a responsible enough person to take care of myself. And maybe that's true. I don't know. I know I'm a disappointment to my parents. I know I'm not as far along in my career and my life as I feel I should be and I don't know how to change it. So, asking for help...it feels like I'm broadcasting to people that I'm a failure.
Hannah, once you hit Atlanta, you seriously need to check out Gladys Knight's Chicken and Waffles. It is insanely good and a wonderful representation of southern food.
Asking for help is similar to confessing romantic feelings to someone in that you make yourself vulnerable for rejection, which is hard sometimes I guess. When you are allready in a bad situation you don't want to get yourself further disappointed.
This walk talks are great. Love them,
I have always felt weird to ask for help and in a way that is what led me to cutting. I needed to find something to release my anger, depression, frustration.....I haven't cut myself in a long time but I sometimes still retreat into myself and think I am bothering people if I ask for help.It is a long process to get over it.
I find it hard to ask for help because it's not easy to figure out who to ask.
I love your real live adult advice! so what happens when you ask for help (for anxiety and depression stemming from my husband being deployed at the moment) and all signs turn towards medication. I happen to be one of those people that is 100% freaked out by taking any sort of medication..
I get really aggravated because my friend will ask for help with her problems, and I try my hardest to help and give her the best advice that I can, but she never actually takes the advice. And not just from me, but anyone. I hate it. She needs help, and she asks for it, but she never does anything with it.
Trust isn't a natural feeling, that's why it's so hard to ask for help.
Ive always wondered.....so many people have this issue where there is trouble asking for help. I think the internet and all the connection between different people it affords has helped alleviate that....but where do people learn this thing to begin with? I know the way society is constructed (what teachers you might end up with, how general society treats boys differently than girls, what kind of economic situation someone grew up in) plays a major role.
Hannah I love these please keep doing them!!!
You have no idea how much this helps :) Thanks so much.
Aw man it's good to see you in my home town
Im loving Harto morning walk vlogs! Also hat is awesome.
But I guess I'm wondering...since I will probably have kids...I absolutely want my children to know that asking for help is not dehumanizing in anyway. I think there is a mode of parenting that one can be in, a state of mind in which you include your children, that will dramatically decrease a feeling of helplessness. No question, I guess, I just want to be in that state of mind. For myself and my future kiddos!
Thanks Harto! Your sappy sentimental shit is one of the reasons I found the courage to ask for help recently.
Love the morning walk vlogs, love the great advice's and love the fact Hannah ass doesn't know when to stop!!! LOL
Hannah is an A+ role model. hugs+love
Not to be a contrarian (which i totally am a lot of the time)
But I don't feel like I struggle with asking for help. I ask when I need it. It doesn't shame me.
Hannah!!!!!!!!!! I love you, thank you for all your love :)
Thanks for your help, Hannah.
Too late since you're probably out of DC now, but you should head to Teaism downtown if you have the chance. Really good pan-Asian food + tea shop.
This is why I love you.
Is the reason for why it's so hard to ASK for help the same as why it can be so hard for people to ACCEPT help from others as well? Or is it any different?
The DC shows are tomorrow, Saturday 6/1.
HH: "Does it look like we're spinning in some sort of love circle?"
Me: "Oh Hannah, I love you"
HH: "Aw. I love you."
Me: "......."
I love you to Hannah!!! Thanks for the talk :)
We love you too.
Hannah...hitting me hard with the emotions tonight.
You're in my hometown?! YAAAAAY!!
i wish there was a way to express my love for you and these videos without being internet creepy and stalkerish! let me try it this way: amazeballs, thank youuuu, dear pseudo-grown-up hannah!
So spot on, Hannah! ALSO. STOP BY CHARLOTTE, NC!
'Hello angels!' NO HANNAH DON'T YOU DARE MAKE ME LOVE YOU MORE THAN I ALREADY DO
Hannah, you're awesome.
I love you too, Hannah! Stay cool and dftba!
You are a lighting and sound genius! :)
When she said about the hotdog it just reminded me of that part from Legally Blonde 2...
"You look like the Fourth of July! ...makes me want a hotdog real bad..."
oh no that hat is GLORIOUS
(also when i tried typing that the first time i typed "hart" instead of "hat". the hart is glorious too.
tru dat Hannah.... it's all about letting that guard/wall down and let people help you.
I ALWAYS ask for help because helllllll gurl you're gonna be the one benefiting from it
I was just about to comment on how good the glasses look on you and then you go an make fun of them!
Was I love lamp an anchorman quote or does she just love lamp
I wish I could've bumped into you in DC today! womp sad panda!
The only reason people don't say things is fear of loss it's that simple
Thank you Hannah! I really needed this advice today (:
I feel like I'm bothering people when I ask for help
How did Hannah manage to walk around the National Mall without many people there? I go like once every few weeks and it's always crowded.
i actually thought the national mall was a mall until now. thanks hannah :)