My husband wouldn’t even let a woman call him so many times in the first place. We both have friends😢, mutual friends we all text each other and I don’t let anyone text me as much neither. Especially no man and we, both me and my husband wouldn’t do that to anyone either.
Everyone is jumping on this woman for texting the husband but he could have addressed it and made it stop. We as women need to start holding these men accountable.
Frequent calls, texts and conversations in a stairwell with your “friends” husband, is a no no …. especially if you and your friend are on bad terms …. that shows total disrespect to their marriage and the so called friendship …. Period.
She's definitely texting the husband to get under her skin. If she has questions about what's going on in their organization I'm 1000% sure there's other members she can reach out to.
There is no way I’m frequently texting my friend’s husband. I was friends with a guy once. Strictly platonic. He got married and I became very close friends with his wife. Never had to text him much for anything. She’s out of order !!!
Man I would never fix my kid to ask anybody for money when it’s two full grown adults in the house . But ppl love to beg me for money like mf this rent is 1700 leave me alone
The Plaintiffs wig is messing with me! Looked she pulled out a bag of wigs! Any woman, I don’t care how close they are. Would have a problem with their friend sending their husband personal text message! But the defendant needs to check her husband! The defendant owes the money!
Pearl is right. A wife knows 🤔 that “bestie” was way too comfy with her hubster BUT the responsibility is MAINLY HIS(he’s married to her ). Don’t give him a pass
@@apprentessjgooden2263 Yes, he is at fault for responding to her over frequent texts. I'm certain the info she wanted could be obtained from another Elks member. Don't be fooled by passive aggressive actions and juvenile behavior. She contacted the husband frequently to irritate her friend. A woman with more social etiquette/social gracious would not have kept calling her friend's husband knowing that her relationship with the wife was shakey. A mature/wise woman would have sent a demand letter for payment to the friend. However, the friend was wrong for not paying the loan and for not communicating.
The defendant was just trying to use husband's/friend's "relationship" as justification for not repaying the loan. I'm sure the defendant always knew how the plaintiff behaves, but now it's a problem when money is owed🙄
Thank u! Coz everybody's else's comments are catty! This was the a defense for not paying. Ur absolutely spot on! She was always like that and it wasn't an issue til the money🙌🙌🙌
I'm pretty sure plenty of women would've been upset if they witnessed their female friend in a stairway as this defendant was with their husband. Nonetheless this defendant owes for the loan from the plantiff. Both women surprisingly handled and presented themselves extremely well in this case which is rare.
Absolutely agree💯 The wife is probably going through some "problems" right now. And she probably feels that Pearl is overstepping. No matter how long they've know each other.
The defendant didn't care about the texting, they been friends for years. She just couldn't pay her friend back and was too prideful to humble herself.
Regardless of the situation the lady should not be communicating with her husband without her presence who needs friends like that when you got enemies. Its disrespectful all the way no matter what you owe her. Stay away from people like that ok ijs
The defendant did what most ppl do to avoid paying someone their money, get mad 😠 and pick a fight 👊🏽 to avoid paying the person back... She's a real friend. 🤷🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
My actual BLOOD family all married or in committed relationships when we all get together we hug, joke, play cards, bust it up NEVER have any of us had a need to text each others men for sideline conversation unless it’s to surprise or plan something for our female family member. Lady is out of order and she does like him cuz tf do y’all have to talk about? 🙄
I wouldn't say all that, however if the husband keeps responding knowing his wife not comfortable then write a statement to cover his ass, i think they possibly are creeping
I don’t know a lot of women that would tolerate that b.s.!! If my husband has time to text someone (which he doesn’t), but it better be me he’s texting!! The Defendant is a suck-up with JM bringing his book to court for him to sign! I hate when people do that cause they look fake
She’s whole life flirting with him and tripping on her and the Husband that women got a crush on the judge so she’s thinking her friend is moving like her
Yeah, one of my closest friends is my frat brother, but when we have disagreements, his wife was never involved other than making fun of us arguing. That being said, that is strange, but she owes this lady. Just repay her and end that course of conversation. This was kind of silly because all they had to do was talk.
Look..we can be best friends but don't over do it with my spouse especially if we're beefing..u breaking girl code women are very personable and territorial
Naw I can tell by Pearl's shake n go wig she a little loose. She will definitely sleep with someone's man. The only huggy I acknowledge is Huggies diapers. The wig is giving "ohhhh u even cuter than yo baby pictures"
Insecurities are real in this defendant. Pay her money back and stop trying to find reason for not doing so, it's beyond you and looks ugly. Stay blessed ladies, stay real.
I’m not beat, the defendant tried to dodge her obligation and tried to bring this bogus excuse of the plaintiff/her husband as a distraction. That’s shameful.
She don't have no besness texting her husband behind her friends back she ant no friends that is very sneaky and taking pictures like that on the stair way that close they both in the wrong don't no Frend do that
She was communicating with her husband to be malicious because he is not the only person she can correspond with regarding the Elks. You have to be respectful with communicating with anyone's spouse. The husband should of instructed her to speak with someone else until the wife is comfortable with it.
If we beefing, don’t text or call my husband. Matter of fact, unless it’s an emergency involving me or our children, don’t call or text my husband at all…. Females get a little too comfortable
I wouldn’t even hug my Blood 🩸 sisters husband like that. If I gotta talk to my brother in law about anything I ask my sis 1st. I don’t even play that mess with my REAL family. Common sense
Me and my homeboy was just talking about this and we agree I dnt wanna be friends with your lady and you shouldn't be friends with mine keep the problems away at the end of the day
I have a best friend of over 40 years and she would NEVER sit up just texting my husband and I would never sit up and text hers. He should have stopped it and the friend is low fown...she knew EXACTLY what she was doing
Funny how people even when they are wrong, think they are right. Why do I need to drag out of you a reason why you can’t pay me my money, I didn’t have to drag to give it to you. Instead of communicating she decided to create a rift so as to have to pay her.
Now the defendant knows that she owe the money 👍🏽 but Ms. Pearl stop texting that lady husband , you’re wrong, if she have a problem with it and she’s your friend, Stop it
Doesn’t have to be cheating. It’s extremely disrespectful though. Especially when you already know its a problem for her… so cut it out. At this point, since she knows its an issue, she is purposely continuing the problem.
All of a sudden you owe your friend $1200, its a problem with her texting your spouse 🙄🙄🙄 how convenient. She didn't have the decency to keep it 💯 with her friend and just tell her you need time. Was probably vacationing and everything 🤦🏽♀️
Her husband should fall back with the friends texting him because of his wife feels uncomfortable. He could but his phone on sleep or ignore with the friend or don't respond so frequently with the wife's friend
At the end of the day if you valued your friendship as you claim you would have respected her boundaries as far as dealing with her man. Especially if they are on the outs.
I'm glad Judge Mathis saw through the "texting my husband" smoke screen. She just didnt want to admit she was going through stuff. Just pay her back so y'all can be back good friends again! LOL 😂 Come on now!
If the wife is not comfortable, your behind needs to stop texting her husband!!!
Yeah, even if she felt she was being innocent if they were friends she would’ve respected her friend and ceased the messages.
I never texted my blood sister's husband. If there was anything I needed to say to him I can tell my sister to tell him. Don't need his number at all.
Seriously.
My husband wouldn’t even let a woman call him so many times in the first place. We both have friends😢, mutual friends we all text each other and I don’t let anyone text me as much neither. Especially no man and we, both me and my husband wouldn’t do that to anyone either.
And he needs to quit responding too
Everyone is jumping on this woman for texting the husband but he could have addressed it and made it stop. We as women need to start holding these men accountable.
Absolutely
Absolutely but I’m this case it goes both ways
Foreal tho
@@brooklynforever1990 it always goes both ways. we not talking about that though
A FACT
Frequent calls, texts and conversations in a stairwell with your “friends” husband, is a no no …. especially if you and your friend are on bad terms …. that shows total disrespect to their marriage and the so called friendship …. Period.
She's definitely texting the husband to get under her skin. If she has questions about what's going on in their organization I'm 1000% sure there's other members she can reach out to.
Exactly, that’s trashy
What you said.
You shouldn't be Texting Nobody's Husband, Period.
Pearl walked in with that "Let's take care of business face"
😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
Today is the day 🥴
Lady first of all !!! You never text another woman's husband!! No matter what the situation is!!
There is no way I’m frequently texting my friend’s husband. I was friends with a guy once. Strictly platonic. He got married and I became very close friends with his wife. Never had to text him much for anything. She’s out of order !!!
Out of order is right !!!
Although they are friends, you still have to respect the boundaries.
Mam, ur marriage is not good if you are out here borrowing money when u have a man at home.
And paying his phone bill🤮
Maybe he fell off and she's there to support him until he get back right
Man I would never fix my kid to ask anybody for money when it’s two full grown adults in the house . But ppl love to beg me for money like mf this rent is 1700 leave me alone
The Plaintiffs wig is messing with me! Looked she pulled out a bag of wigs! Any woman, I don’t care how close they are. Would have a problem with their friend sending their husband personal text message! But the defendant needs to check her husband! The defendant owes the money!
😂😂😂 yo! I said if I see Smokey from Friday walk in and go MAMA!!! 😂😂😂
I remember this. You know you’re friends when you go back and forth and the next minute you saying how much y’all love each other. Lol
Holy crap the defendant throwing Doyle under the bus had me in stitches lmfao
Brush your teeth
Dyinggg
😂
Pearl is right.
A wife knows 🤔 that “bestie” was way too comfy with her hubster BUT the responsibility is MAINLY HIS(he’s married to her ). Don’t give him a pass
If she initiated the contact with the husband, he isn't at fault at all.
@@apprentessjgooden2263 she did mention they used to speak all the time anyway, she just felt it became excessive.
Him being that close to her in the hallway was a NO NO…
@@apprentessjgooden2263 Yes, he is at fault for responding to her over frequent texts. I'm certain the info she wanted could be obtained from another Elks member. Don't be fooled by passive aggressive actions and juvenile behavior. She contacted the husband frequently to irritate her friend. A woman with more social etiquette/social gracious would not have kept calling her friend's husband knowing that her relationship with the wife was shakey. A mature/wise woman would have sent a demand letter for payment to the friend. However, the friend was wrong for not paying the loan and for not communicating.
I wonder what he looks like?
Pearl needs to take that super fake comical mop wig off her head 🤣😂🤷🏾♂️🤦🏽♂️I’m sorry, it looks silly!
Lmaoo its giving the Cowardly Lion from wizard of Oz 😩😂
@@F8talDosage 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀I’m trying to be respectful but it’s so distracting. 😆😆😆
@@F8talDosage you didn’t have to read her like that 😂 🦁
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk you are respectful seriously I agree with you it is distracting all right gosh like goldilocks
@@scottrogue946 😂 not the lion emoji see you condoning my behavior
The expression on judge Mathis face when he said “are they kissing” was to funny 😂.
The defendant was just trying to use husband's/friend's "relationship" as justification for not repaying the loan. I'm sure the defendant always knew how the plaintiff behaves, but now it's a problem when money is owed🙄
Bingo!
Thank u! Coz everybody's else's comments are catty! This was the a defense for not paying. Ur absolutely spot on! She was always like that and it wasn't an issue til the money🙌🙌🙌
Same exact thing I said, because she knew good and damn well, that lady didn't want her husband.
The defendant probably didn’t want to pay back the loan because she was angry with the plaintiff
I'm pretty sure plenty of women would've been upset if they witnessed their female friend in a stairway as this defendant was with their husband. Nonetheless this defendant owes for the loan from the plantiff. Both women surprisingly handled and presented themselves extremely well in this case which is rare.
I know I would have been upset. My husband shouldn't be entertaining any other female.
Two lovely women, miscommunication was definitely a problem in this relationship as well as the lack of trust.
This case was more about marital insecurity and less about a loan.
Absolutely agree💯 The wife is probably going through some "problems" right now. And she probably feels that Pearl is overstepping. No matter how long they've know each other.
Possibly. But what better way to teach boundaries. You want to be comfortable w/my husband let me get comfortable w/not repaying you.
The defendant didn't care about the texting, they been friends for years. She just couldn't pay her friend back and was too prideful to humble herself.
It was about the defendant meeting judge Mathis and getting her book signed
Regardless of the situation the lady should not be communicating with her husband without her presence who needs friends like that when you got enemies. Its disrespectful all the way no matter what you owe her. Stay away from people like that ok ijs
The defendant did what most ppl do to avoid paying someone their money, get mad 😠 and pick a fight 👊🏽 to avoid paying the person back... She's a real friend. 🤷🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
My actual BLOOD family all married or in committed relationships when we all get together we hug, joke, play cards, bust it up NEVER have any of us had a need to text each others men for sideline conversation unless it’s to surprise or plan something for our female family member.
Lady is out of order and she does like him cuz tf do y’all have to talk about? 🙄
AGREED 👍
Exactly
Facts on facts
Adult men and women have plenty to talk about 🤷🏽♀️
She does seem like the type to be a friend but creep with your hubby
WOW
I wouldn't say all that, however if the husband keeps responding knowing his wife not comfortable then write a statement to cover his ass, i think they possibly are creeping
Husband is not there because he’s guilty.
She should've paid the plaintiff she had an opportunity to repay her.
Yup they wouldn't be in court if she paid
Number change! And no visit to home! Drop that ...!
I don’t know a lot of women that would tolerate that b.s.!! If my husband has time to text someone (which he doesn’t), but it better be me he’s texting!!
The Defendant is a suck-up with JM bringing his book to court for him to sign! I hate when people do that cause they look fake
Agreed for her to be doing that it's out of pocket and foul
She’s whole life flirting with him and tripping on her and the Husband that women got a crush on the judge so she’s thinking her friend is moving like her
EXACTLY
Yeah, one of my closest friends is my frat brother, but when we have disagreements, his wife was never involved other than making fun of us arguing. That being said, that is strange, but she owes this lady. Just repay her and end that course of conversation. This was kind of silly because all they had to do was talk.
That stairwell pic 👀
🤔🤔
I mean… I guess it’s good that they made up but now it’s gonna be awkward. She’s gonna be watching you like a hawk around her husband!!
Thought the plaintiff was Countess Vaughn
😂😂😂😂
She does resemble Countess 😏🧐🙂
Lmao 😂 fr
Look..we can be best friends but don't over do it with my spouse especially if we're beefing..u breaking girl code women are very personable and territorial
Naw I can tell by Pearl's shake n go wig she a little loose. She will definitely sleep with someone's man. The only huggy I acknowledge is Huggies diapers.
The wig is giving "ohhhh u even cuter than yo baby pictures"
Insecurities are real in this defendant. Pay her money back and stop trying to find reason for not doing so, it's beyond you and looks ugly. Stay blessed ladies, stay real.
I’m not beat, the defendant tried to dodge her obligation and tried to bring this bogus excuse of the plaintiff/her husband as a distraction. That’s shameful.
That wig was at beauty supply store, at the bottom of the bin.😢
I think the friend and the husband are sleeping together
That's why it's hard to make & keep female friends because folks like the plaintiff.
You have no right to text her husband, you do want her husband 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Who took that picture? And don’t tell me it’s from a surveillance camera. 🤨
That's what I was thinking 🤔 They looked like they were posing.
Pearl look like Janet Jackson from Friday 😭
Stupid comment..
😆😆😆 I see what you did there
Smokey was mad as hell at Debbie 🤣🤣🤣
More
Like Freddy Jackson lmao GOD dammmb
If they're not getting along, she definitely shouldn't be calling or texting her husband.
This is a very Fragile situation for Married couples. Hope they can work it out. 👍
they must be childhood friends
Plaintiff kinda giving lyrica G 😂
l can see it😹😹😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️
With that damn wig on 😂
Pride comes before the fall.
So she’s worried about this women liking her husband and she clearly has a whole crush on the judge who is also married 🤔
She don't have no besness texting her husband behind her friends back she ant no friends that is very sneaky and taking pictures like that on the stair way that close they both in the wrong don't no Frend do that
I Neva seen Jm give someone a hug 🫂 🥰 how sweet ❤
She was communicating with her husband to be malicious because he is not the only person she can correspond with regarding the Elks. You have to be respectful with communicating with anyone's spouse. The husband should of instructed her to speak with someone else until the wife is comfortable with it.
Who took the pic of them in the stairwell?🤣
Husband. Lol sound like she wanted judge Mathis to sign more than her book.🤣😅
If we beefing, don’t text or call my husband. Matter of fact, unless it’s an emergency involving me or our children, don’t call or text my husband at all…. Females get a little too comfortable
I saw this one before, still funny as ever
I wouldn’t even hug my Blood 🩸 sisters husband like that. If I gotta talk to my brother in law about anything I ask my sis 1st. I don’t even play that mess with my REAL family. Common sense
I’m confused why we not condemning the husband as well… ma’am, that’s your husband & you’re not saying anything to him
We don't know if she talked to him or not.
It's always like that, don't know why.
I love happy endings ❤
Oh man doyle was like naaah I don’t have it🤣🤣🤣
"Friends" understand boundaries. This defendant is not a "friend"
When she said JanJuary is had the same expression as the lady in the background at 8:15
😂😂😂😂
You gotta act broke around yo friends cuz if they know you have it they want it 2. Smh
Man what! I started telling everybody I ain't got it so they won't even ask. Lol
I definitely didn't tell my family or friends when I had gotten my settlement money cuz they definitely would have had their hands out.
Hood mentality
Me and my homeboy was just talking about this and we agree I dnt wanna be friends with your lady and you shouldn't be friends with mine keep the problems away at the end of the day
If you fall out with one just don’t text the other out of respect. It’s like you want them to pick side
Do yall think she cheated with that Lady husband??
most likely
Possibly
No I don't but it's too much
They probably didn't go all the way but they definitely did something
She got her Shakira wig on today
😂😂😂😂😂
plantiff looks like older Kim Parker lol
It takes two to tango ; check your self before you wreck your self, get your own thang and do what you wanna do, holla at you
I would love to read JM book 👍
Defendant bought them books to sweet talk the judge... You know who the teachers pet was when they was school age.. 😂 😂 😂
I had no idea what the elks were.. and I’m sure I’m not the on only one.. Thx for cutting her off 🤦🏻
Girl was on the Parkers
Husband did some cheating which made da wife insecure!!!!
If you don’t state what makes you uncomfortable NO ONE will know. The ‘wife’ should’ve communicated her discomfort to her friend and HER HUSBAND.
The “Quickest” Way To End “Any” Relationship is to Loan/Borrow ……MONEY 🤷🏽♀️
I have a best friend of over 40 years and she would NEVER sit up just texting my husband and I would never sit up and text hers. He should have stopped it and the friend is low fown...she knew EXACTLY what she was doing
That's the same hair style in the pic who took the pictures of them in the stairwell?👀🤣
I'm a member of the elk's temple #652 Greenville Mississippi I understand the organization but they need to mend they're friendship
STOP calling her man tho😂😂😂
People always start acting when they owe you money. She was trying to get out of paying that’s all..
Aaaawww I luv them I hope they really get past all the nonsense
Funny how people even when they are wrong, think they are right. Why do I need to drag out of you a reason why you can’t pay me my money, I didn’t have to drag to give it to you. Instead of communicating she decided to create a rift so as to have to pay her.
Yep
It call know your place stop texting people husband if wifey don’t like the energy
Now the defendant knows that she owe the money 👍🏽 but Ms. Pearl stop texting that lady husband , you’re wrong, if she have a problem with it and she’s your friend, Stop it
You can't trust a woman that wears a wig like that. 😂
😂😂
So pretty much all black women.
😹😹😹😹😹
@@undertalea2638 big true plenty of other races wear wigs smh any reason to disrespect black women
They down talk is every chance they get.. let’s uplift one another.
The plaintiff must have borrowed one of lyricas mom wigs from love and hip hop 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She said I think she thinks I want her husband Lol judge Mathis said ohhh his lil lips was showl puckered..😂😂😂😂😂
" behind"? You must be from the Caribbean - oh no that " I love you" now she won't pay you get away from her
That picture said it all...hmm...always trust ur Gut!!
We stay going fed in the comment section 😂 heyyyy my JM familia 💙💙💙
Some people know damn well they are not going to pay someone back once that money hits their hands, its a wrap once they get it.
Doesn’t have to be cheating. It’s extremely disrespectful though. Especially when you already know its a problem for her… so cut it out. At this point, since she knows its an issue, she is purposely continuing the problem.
It only became a problem when she owed her $1200.
All of a sudden you owe your friend $1200, its a problem with her texting your spouse 🙄🙄🙄 how convenient. She didn't have the decency to keep it 💯 with her friend and just tell her you need time. Was probably vacationing and everything 🤦🏽♀️
Why did the defendant think she was supposed to her? Baby you’re one with issue not her
Her Pride got in her way. She has a good friend
Her husband should fall back with the friends texting him because of his wife feels uncomfortable. He could but his phone on sleep or ignore with the friend or don't respond so frequently with the wife's friend
No Lady I'm His Number One Fan
At the end of the day if you valued your friendship as you claim you would have respected her boundaries as far as dealing with her man. Especially if they are on the outs.
I'm glad Judge Mathis saw through the "texting my husband" smoke screen. She just didnt want to admit she was going through stuff. Just pay her back so y'all can be back good friends again! LOL 😂 Come on now!